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context matters, but this is generally true if you cross a line (especially with kink things), and she reacts poorly, you should probably check in and deescalate a bit. if you're bad at distinguishing between turned-on surprise and fear-surprise, work on it. or discuss boundaries and when to stop before fucking, or something if you ever ask "are you okay?" when she looks bored/sad, rather than shocked/surprised/etc., you've already fucked up somewhere and now you're digging the hole deeper. just…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/18 04:36 PM
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this is kinda horseshit. i think you're getting too intertwined with your gym partner (male or female) your gym partner should: have the same schedule as you work out for the same amount of time as you need the same equipment as you (or at least same gym) give you shit for being lazy they don't need to: lift the same amount as you do the same exercise as you watch you while you work out go with you every single time i've had a fwb as a gym partner for the last few years. it works great, because …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 04:08 PM
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you're going to fail, and you're going to deserve it try writing something actually related to the topic, instead of getting triggered by the word "feminist" and spilling your anger phase all over your assignment i bet your room is a mess
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:36 AM
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everyone is saying that they fucked up by taking the friend home. that's not where they fucked up. they fucked up by justifying themselves to some drunk asshat at a pizza place at 3am explaining yourself once is reasonable. but the correct response to aggression like that is some combination of telling them to fuck off, and pretending they don't exist. trying to explain yourself makes you look guilty and spineless (a confident, non-guilty person would tell them to fuck off, and then continue buy…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 06:33 PM
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good luck with that
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 09:28 PM
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i tried "do i know you? or do all Belgians just look the same?" last night she laughed and said she was from France (i wasn't being clever. legit thought she looked Belgian) nothing bad happened. we talked for a bit, laughed, and then i ran off to buy some heavy cream
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 04:43 PM
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Most musicians are ugly as sin but they get boatloads of pussy this guy
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 04:29 PM
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it's for quitting. takes longer than 7 days to break bad habits it's not the only way to break the habit, though. i still look at porn, and i still fap, just not together. like, i'll look at porn on the shitter at work (it gives me ideas). and i'll fap before sleeping fairly often, but with no porn, and i'll take my time something that helped a lot: fap with someone else in the bed. it makes it feel less like you're doing something shameful or weird. first time i did it was when a fwb had a yeas…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 03:16 PM
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she can't friendzone you. that's a place you decide to go. all she can do is decide she doesn't want to fuck/date you. you can be friends with her if you want, or you can wave and say hello when you cross paths, or you can pine after her and try to be around her as much as possible while feeling bad about yourself, or you can flip her off every time you see her. she decides what she's okay with and what she isn't, you do the same for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:02 PM
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my experience is that women are usually okay with you sleeping with other women that are somewhat similar to themselves (socioeconomic, personality, hotness, etc). like, someone they could be friends with they don't like it when your fwb is a stripper. (or, if they're a stripper, they don't like it when you sleep with an upper middle class type). i think it's a fear that one of them has to go, since the lifestyles don't mix
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:44 PM
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on the money thing: i think people interpret/repeat good advice in a vapid uninformed way. you don't need to be rich, and it's a stupid goal to be rich money is great. money is a tool to gain power and freedom, though. it's not a good end goal. you should be thinking of the things money will allow you to do (or not do), not the objects you'll buy (unless those objects let you do things you want to do). eyes on the prize travel, time/resources for side projects, and even just keeping debt collect…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:29 PM
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this is fucking dumb. yes, humans can think about shit and get turned on. everything else in the post is schizophrenic rambling
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 06:00 PM
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I have a theory about the "just be yourself" advice: there's system 1 and system 2 thinking. roughly, your gut/instinct vs your intellect/reason. many people (especially women, but some men too) identify as their system 1. system 2 is seen as an inner voice that communicates with them. system 2 is the part of them that's their mother's voice telling them to be careful, or the image of their friends laughing at them when they fuck up other people (particularly men, and especially autistics) ident…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:23 PM
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unless you're autistic and just paint perfectly starting from the corner and working outward, you should paint by blocking out the biggest things first, then medium details, then small, then fine, etc. and it'll probably look good enough for show business after the medium details approach basically everything this way, and your life will work out pretty well. (and if you do have an autistic superpower in some skill, you're probably not worrying about these things, you're just doing it and killin…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:36 PM
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She encourages you to be someone you're not. If she's trying to change you, then she's also trying to find another guy that actually is the persona that she wants. it's doomed to fail. but i think it's worth it to stick it out in this situation sometimes (if it's unpleasant, get out immediately though). you can learn a lot this way, especially if the girl comes from a higher socioeconomic background than you. if you're getting laid, and you're getting some upward class tourism, you might as well…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 01:12 PM
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this has never been a bad thing, and sometimes been a good thing, in my experience. i've never done it on purpose, but i don't really clean up my house well, so it happens probably the most memorable one: i told a plate i had a date. the next time she was over, she picked up an empty bottle of wine sitting next to my bed and said "so the date went well? show me what you did with her". (i didn't show her what i did. we actually talked about number theory and slow fucked, but she doesn't need to k…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 07:17 PM
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left wingers are also much more likely to share your wife
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:46 PM
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i didn't lose interest and respect. i never had it to begin with. it started out when she walked up to me at lunch and asked me to go on a date, and i said "no thanks". after that, she followed me to the bus stop every fucking day unless i snuck out and went a different direction. like, she would hand me a cupcake, and i would tell her "i don't want your shitty cupcake. stop following me" and throw it on the ground. i poured milk (that she gave me) on her. i spat on her. i told her she would be …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 09:38 PM
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i think it's both. she's being predatory, and he's creepy. one doesn't excuse the other there are several ways to be creepy. this guy wants sex (why else would he be there?), but he either isn't asking/demanding it, or he is and is being turned down and keeps trying anyway. it's creepy either because he's incongruent, or because he's overly persistent (can't really tell which from the information in the post)
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 09:24 PM
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the thing that's "creepy" is obviously wanting to fuck but pretending it's okay that they're not, and going about it in roundabout ways (buying things, spending lots of time, etc.), and not taking the most forceful hints the mindset is "holy fuck, is it possible to get a rise out of this guy?". you also see it with male bullies. they're not thinking "how much can i bleed this guy for" as a financial gain sort of thing. it also usually has elements of "i don't like this guy. he'll go away if i'm …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 05:02 PM
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this is not universal i've had friends i cut back on contact with (or dropped entirely). one was for saying something like "being the funny social guy doesn't suit you", despite having immediate, noticeable improvement in dating and being invited to things. i think he was upset because he usually fills that role but pretty much all female friends i was 'orbiting' changed to wanting to fuck, or just being more respectful (less one sided conversations, contacting me when they're doing something fu…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:42 PM
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do you actually think that attractive guys don't play video games? yes, plenty of unattractive beta guys play them. and yes, they consume your time. but they're also a social activity, they're something you can be competitive at, and they can be a shared interest with some women i wouldn't encourage anyone to start playing video games, but they're a valid hobby. it's no worse than playing board games or pool or something
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 04:07 PM
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you're not going to lose a friend by telling him you fucked his mom. stop being a baby
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 03:52 PM
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some nootropics that work: caffeine nicotine amphetamines modafinil but you need to be aware of side effects, tolerance, etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 12:05 PM
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thing to remember: the drug isn't the problem. you're the problem. do you like to smoke weed when you go out dancing? go for it. enjoy some hedonism. did you tell yourself you were going to hit the gym or work on a painting, and now you're out dancing and smoking weed instead? you're a useless slug, and you'll never have a satisfying life as long as you keep doing that do not break the promises you make to yourself. push yourself, but be realistic with the promises you make to yourself, and then…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 03:25 PM
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i'm breaking rule 1 right now. unusual circumstances because we'd been fwbs for ~a year before she started working in the same place. (edit: there's no power dynamic. neither of us are the other's superior at work) but have been avoiding breaking rule 1 again: the ceo's gf wants to fuck me. i feel like he'd be okay with that (or at least say he was), but i also like keeping bullshit risk to a minimum
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:14 PM
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asking her after she starts seeing another guy is 100% beta as fuck. it's needy if you want to do that in the future, you need to tell them when they're fucking you and only you. (or you and their old partner, if they're branch swinging to you. but obviously they'll cheat on you eventually) it's too late. keep your distance and move on with your life
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:04 AM
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i misread parent. thought it said "for 3 to 5 seconds", not "in 3 to 5 seconds". pulled a number out of my ass for time until nap but 2 minutes is definitely enough to kill, even without cutting off air
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:44 PM
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it makes you take a nap if they hold it for ~15 seconds. this guy held it for 2 minutes
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:28 PM
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you're misinterpreting this. yes, the girl is a piece of shit for instigating a fight. and yes, her friend (Pollard) is a a piece of shit white knight for starting that fight but the killer (Dickson) doesn't seem like a white knight. he seems like a psychopath that enjoys harming others. choked this kid to death, kicked him in the head after killing him, and showed no remorse in court. also didn't even really seem connected to Lemare; just came along in case there was blood. also had a previous …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 09:22 PM
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i wouldn't treat that as a 100% lie. she may have been interested in a more serious relationship, had you told her you wanted one. women often have limited patience for fwb type situations; they want to fuck when they're bored, or when you're in the zone enough to pull them into it, but if someone offers them commitment on top of that (or hotter/more reliable sex), they'll go with that that said, you didn't necessarily want to be her boyfriend. but if you don't tell her that's what you want, a f…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:41 PM
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i would probably feel worse about this if MGTOW videos weren't mostly terrible text-to-speech rants (am i the only one that can't deal with that?) with little to no valuable content also that's not how free speech works. it's still legal for you to say basically whatever you want, outside threats and such. nobody has to listen to you, though
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:37 PM
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i find confidence (in a particular action/skill) isn't based on knowing how to do it correctly, but how to safely fail if you're climbing a rope, you will feel stronger if there's a mat under you. you're not actually stronger, but fear stops weakening you learn to apologize sincerely (and don't grovel). learn to joke/laugh when you embarrass your dumb ass. have friends that will jump into a fight if you get in over your head. have health insurance if you're in a country that you need it, etc. wh…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:15 PM
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the best way to save them is by being the kind of person they feel good about fucking/dating/etc. i've "saved" a few women by being the guy they cheat with before leaving a boring marriage. or by telling them i'm busy when they want me to get drunk and high with them because they don't want to do whatever shit they're procrastinating (and then fucking them later when they're actually free, and i'm not busy) if you're the guy that tries to save them, you'll just get dragged into the mud with them…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 05:19 PM
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my old roomie: 5'5", could only hold onto his 6'0 gf for 7 years, and only gets new pussy once a week now. poor guy other old roomie: 5'7", 5'8" in boots, n count ~100. cries himself to sleep about it sylvester stallone: short as fuck. bet he never fucked a girl in his life. (internet lists him as 5'10". i met him (shook his hand) when i was a teenager, and that's total bullshit. more like 5'5")
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:16 PM
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in smaller places, the women are more skittish. there's a higher chance you have mutual friends or something, and your queue will literally run out of matches i don't think this changes the optimal strategy, but it can harm the abundance mentality that something like tinder is supposed to have (to people in that situation: move to a big city. it's more important than lifting)
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 01:40 PM
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also don't assault/batter people? also, if she's hanging out with leo/peyton, she's going to sleep with someone. you should be doing that too, or just be prepared for it to not last that long. abundance mentality, and don't raise anyone else's kid
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:40 PM
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i see what you're saying (and agree that the post is shit), but bp trains you in a plethora of ways to fuck it up reliably posts that highlight all the places/ways they could have fucked it up, but didn't, are valuable
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:35 PM
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introversion != shy. but whatever tip for introverts: learn to escalate quickly. you're better 1 on 1, so get 1 on 1. group talk will drain you, but pulling one aside will energize you, even if the group is still right there
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:39 PM
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aspies tend to take everything literally and be shit at/unable to lie, even to themselves so, probably not the worst fish to listen to. especially if you're not trying to catch her. lesbians/bi girls are also reliable sources of information (if there's no sexual tension, especially on your side). i don't expect you to find any undiscovered truths, but try asking her more open ended questions. i don't give a shit if you post them. but you might get an interesting conversation. if you're into her,…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:55 PM
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one time when i was high on acid, i skipped straight to step 4, and had a staring contest with a bartender. i didn't escalate further, because she was working, and i was high as fuck, and i had a gf. but she just gave me my drink for free that night, and gave me a free drink every time she was working for the next few months another time, when i was really blue, i skipped to step 2, did other things, came back and skipped to step 4. walked into a house party, and most people were out back. i wal…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 07:35 PM
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consider how she sees the interaction. she wakes up next to some guy, and doesn't remember any of the charm, witty banter, dominance, or whatever the fuck she found attractive about you. especially if you're not physically attractive to her when you're both hung over. she's thinking "there's no way i would fuck that guy", and the most logical conclusion is that you forced her. her interpretation does actually happen, and media blows it up to appear more common than it is, so i wouldn't even attr…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:53 PM
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I think doing it for the women is a good enough way to get traction initially Like, if thinking about looking good for women is what gets you to buy a gym membership, go for it. Once you show up and work your ass to the bone a few times, it'll stop being about the women. The problem solves itself once you start putting in the effort
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:18 PM
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Walking away will work most of the time. If it doesn't, it still gets you out of a mediocre situation I was hanging out with an ex once. She told me that she didn't want to fuck, because she was dating someone else, but she wanted to cuddle. I told her that it sounds nice, but there's no way I can get into that bed and just cuddle. So I got my jacket, kissed her on the cheek, and left. I got half a block before I got the text to come back. We did not just cuddle
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:31 PM
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pretty much. girls will fuck guys who aren't first place. but they won't fuck a guy that has no ambition. and they won't fuck a guy that has unrealistic ambition for long (once they figure it out). you need to have goals, you need to make progress on those goals, and you need to achieve them and then make new goals. bonus for smoking weed: when you can smoke it without coughing up a lung, blowing it into someone else's mouth is basically the hottest thing. i do it with women i'm interested, and …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:42 PM
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think of being angry like crying. you might need to do it, but it should be with trusted people or alone. (exceptions for righteous anger, just like righteous crying. you're allowed to do it if it's on behalf of others subjected to great injustice) emotional grounding is a super important skill to learn. i made big steps there by going to the gym before making decisions, if i was upset about something. forcing yourself to do something like that makes you less reactive, and it'll start to make yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:24 PM
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i remember years ago looking at okcupid and thinking the people on there were hot. like, nearly half were physically hot enough. probably around 20% after considering their profile. the mindset was "i'd fuck them. does their personality match enough that i have a chance?" now i'm at the point where if my FWBs all get boyfriends or something, i know that i can find new ones. and if i look at okcupid now, maybe 1% are physically attractive to me, and it actually goes up (to like 2%) if i read thei…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:49 PM
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this is mostly true. upper middle class (or higher) will get you a totally different school experience part of that different experience is material advantage, but part of it is cultural/learned. the learned part is something to pay attention to, because you can learn from it some cultural aspects that upper middle class does better for themselves: challenge is good - thrill seeking, competitive sports/degrees healthy habits - morning routine, scheduled activities entitlement - they deserve rais…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:14 PM
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on generating attraction: a very large part of it is showing that you're comfortable around her like, say you see someone cute, you walk up to them and introduce yourself, and give them an obvious once over. you've displayed that you're into her. now, for the next 10 minutes or so, literally all you have to do is look like you're not nervous. just stand there and let her talk. respond a bit, so she knows you're not thinking about doing your taxes, but for the most part you can just sit back and …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 08:39 PM
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SMV is correlated with high count for both. relationship stability is anti-correlated for both genders, but it's stronger for women i think this is mostly because when men cheat, they usually still want to be with their partner and raise their kids and stuff. when women cheat, they usually want to branch swing or otherwise get out of their relationship, or some unacceptable garbage like have their guy raise another guy's kid
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:34 PM
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what in the fuck did i just read?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 06:53 PM
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i was (still am in some ways) a feminist. that honestly softened the blow, because they flat out tell you that women are sluts. the main thing that changed with TRP (and my life experience) is learning that women will lie. i went monogamous with someone i had been dating for a year, at her request/demand, and she cheated on me 3 months in. she wanted the image of monogamy, and the wanted the security of me not fucking other women, but she wanted the freedom to fuck who she wanted i don't even th…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 06:41 PM
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it attracts both the sane and insane. there are plenty of totally reasonable things in feminism, and plenty of totally reasonable ways women practice feminism. historically, there's voting rights, removal of various restrictions based on sex, etc. there are also feminists that have a reasonable (bi or omnidirectional) definition of 'privilege', which can be a useful concept (though it's used as a semantic stop sign), and there's also a reasonable approach to "don't victim blame" but it's also a …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 07:11 PM
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bonus: the quality of the butts is a good metric for the quality of the class
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 06:31 PM
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i recommend yoga. at least for non-experts you can do better if you study physiotherapy or something. but the time invested is not going to be worth it unless that's what you want to do for a living. you need a lot of knowledge on how the body moves if you're going to evaluate a stretching/workout routine, and there's a lot of bullshit floating around that either won't work or will make your worse. yoga is a safer bet yoga will show you where you're weak or inflexible. it'll also fix it, but you…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 04:19 PM
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not exactly, but it will make your whole face look softer/weaker. posture isn't going to cure a weak chin, but you'll at least have a weak chin surrounded by a better jaw/neck partly it's how you hold yourself, and partly it's how you develop the muscles that hold you that way. if you have the typical deck jockey posture, your head will push forward and tilt up, your mouth will dangle open, and the whole area will look soft i know that a lot of guys with a weak chin think that forward head postu…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:55 PM
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get fit, fix any posture problems, and grow either a beard or some balls
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:21 PM
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therapy can teach you the skills to deal with your shit long term. it can also help you short term just because you have someone to talk to, and by giving you a sense of hope drugs are short term in the sense that they basically just alleviate symptoms. but they can help long term by getting those symptoms out of the way long enough for you to work on improving your life. they can kick you out of a rut
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:12 PM
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it's probably not far off, especially in a smaller place. women don't typically get fucked by a new guy every weekend. they might want to, but there aren't that many chads to go around, and they'd rather fuck a FWB than some random non-chad. they're probably getting fucked around once a week, but mostly by the same guys (serial monogamy, or FWBs and fuck buddies) in my experience, roughly 20 is a typical number of partners for a girl in their early 20s. and if i'm their typical fuck (~once a wee…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:54 PM
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SSRIs and other drugs are way cheaper than therapy and they're about as effective. they let one psychiatrist treat many more patients, because they only need a handful of visits, rather than recurring visits for years from a cost-benifit point of view, it makes sense to do this. someone complains that their life sucks, you give them drugs and see if it helps. if it doesn't, you try another drug. repeat a couple times, and then try therapy if it's not working. or if they're a real problem case, e…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:17 PM
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it's probably already ruined by you getting upset about it. like, even if you recover a bit, it's tainted and doomed to fail probably worth trying new things on her, though. both in bed and leading up to it. it can make it better short term, and you know her baseline already, so she makes a good experiment. but know that you'll have to get out of that relationship do not negotiate sex. ever. if she tells you to stop, you stop, and you don't complain about it and you don't look upset about it. yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:57 PM
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i'm purple in some ways. mostly in that i think a lot of things trp attributes to sexual dimorphism are better explained by power and desirability (which is related to sexual dimorphism. but i think of it in the same way that height is sexually dimorphic: there's a difference, but also a hell of a lot of overlap) example: women who are tall/strong, have accomplished things, are physically attractive, and are socially competent, often display alpha traits (instead of just hypergamy). like, they'l…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 05:32 PM
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this was one of my saving graces even in my heaviest blue pill days. one of the feminist things i took to heart was that it's creepy to buy women dinner and gifts, so i basically never paid for anything
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:08 PM
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the downvotes make sense now. i guess i distinguish something between plate and LTR. like, i'm going to catch the plate and put it back on the stick a few times instead of letting it smash, but i'm not going to put it on the mantel and yes, i think she was just hanging out with her orbiter. she had better options that i knew about, and the guy cried in front of her when his toilet broke. i don't know if i can explain my certainty any better than that.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 03:27 PM
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or you don't understand social dynamics? girls don't fuck their orbiters context: it was an open relationship. she would fuck other people, mostly if she was out of town for work. i was dating someone else, and had a fwb, and also did the out of town thing. this wasn't the sort of gf i'd be bringing to christmas dinner
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 05:52 PM
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it really depends on the male friend. a couple years ago, my gf at the time used to stay at her friend's bed from time to time. like if they got high and watched a movie and she didn't want to walk home, or they were hanging out with classmates and ended the night closer to his place he obviously wanted to fuck her. but he was also visibly intimidated by her, so i wasn't worried
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 09:32 PM
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your post contains that info. i just wanted to make a shorter claim. it's possible to break their frame through overwhelming force. but in the vast majority of cases, it's about shoving them off balance faster than they can recover and shove back, and being out of the way when they do go to shove most of my thoughts on this come from sun tzu and john boyd. "The pilot who goes through the OODA cycle in the shortest time prevails because his opponent is caught responding to situations that have al…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:16 PM
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on the difference between acting and reacting: a lot of people get confused and think that reaction means doing something in response to other people. that's half true, but acting also takes into account other people, so it's a bit of a useless distinction the helpful way to think about it is that reactions are predictable to the person that influenced them. actions are surprising, and they break the other person's model of you. if you're doing things faster than they can figure you out, you're …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:44 PM
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you should definitely get fit. but keep in mind that plenty of fatter, uglier guys than you are getting more and better pussy than you. as you get more fit, your confidence will go up. but it's the change that's making you confident, not your new shape (you're still a lardass, just less of a lardass). use it to learn how to feel confident at all times, and don't continue to rely on your physique for your confidence, because you will lose it eventually
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:33 PM
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i feel like all of this stuff is basically correct, but missing a piece: if you're not planning on having kids and/or marrying her (and she does want those things, even at some subconscious level, which most do), those signals in her brain are exactly on point, and every moment you're not giving her tingles or moving along that script, you're wasting her time if you want to do the LTR thing, you kinda need to be on the marriage/babies path AND you need to hold your frame for 20+ years, have opti…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:24 PM
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doing monk mode wrong: turn down opportunities, friend hangs, going out, etc. and have only a vague plan for how to get good doing monk mode right: go out for 20 minutes after work, talk to/make out with some girl, leave and hit the gym. everything on a schedule. don't make "no sex" part of your monk mode unless you're currently getting sex. even then, the main thing is not to let your schedule slip. if you can fit a good fuck into that free slot on your thursday lunch break, do it.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 09:30 PM
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i definitely had a porn problem in the past, and it's had long lasting (hopefully not permanent) effects. the main one is that my bar for "attractive enough to fuck" is unreasonably high. my n-count is pretty low, despite bringing a decent number of women home. if they're not an 8 with their clothes off, or a particularly enthusiastic 7, i become uninterested and my boner wilts on the other side of the coin, it gives some pretty good ideas for fucking. sometimes i'll be fucking a girl, and somet…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 02:09 PM
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i think being addicted to anything is beta if the weed/alcohol/whatever is in control of you, instead of the other way around, you've got a problem to deal with
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:47 PM
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if weed makes you beta, stop/reduce it. but don't take your own experience as universal also, you can override some/all of those negatives. weed can put you into an introverted and lazy state, but if you force yourself to get talkative and active, it can feel super good. like with psychedelics, set and setting are important, and simply being aware that you can control how it effects you can make a huge difference. i like to smoke when i hike. i don't like to smoke when i'm sitting on a couch, be…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 01:24 PM
1

monogamy is unenforceable and unrealistic. i've never cheated, but i've been cheated on, and i've slept with women who were cheating on their husband/LTR, and i've talked to guys that cheated. some of them were cheating without their partner's knowledge, while others were doing it as a catalyst to end their relationship i tried polyamory for a while. had 2 partners (one was married), and occasionally a FWB. the non-married one was my primary after some amount of time. both relationships failed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:19 PM
5

they are turned on by vulnerability. not by insecurity. think of vulnerability like petting a big dog. if the dog accepts being pet, that means that the dog either submits to you or considers you an equal. either "i could bite your hand, but then you'd kick my ass", or "i could bite your hand, but then we'd fight and both walk away hurt". but if you're nervous, the dog will see it as an unearned power grab, and bark at you or bite you to let you know you're not the boss same with opening up to a…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:56 PM
8

yup. respect works both ways. in my model of respect, you can't respect a woman without also respecting your own boundaries. otherwise, it's hollow worship
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 08:56 PM
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this is an aspect of trp i don't get. like yeah, plenty of women are vapid and useless, but so are most men. and man or woman, i don't really want to associate with those people. i think of it less as putting people on a pedistal, and more as looking for people near my level (they probably achieve in different ways than me, but more than just being not fat) like, one of my fwbs is a surgeon (resident), runs marathons, and dances. another is insanely good at pickup (she's bi. picking up men doesn…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 08:48 PM
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the seating thing is a much bigger deal than i thought it would be. face to face is fine if the table is narrow enough that you can touch her hands/legs without reaching, but any normal size table is cock blocking you on inviting her to your place: you can be straightforward about it if you're confident and have already escalated ("i'm going to fuck you all night. my place is just around the corner" and take her by the arm). you can be coy about it ("can we go somewhere more quiet?" with a sheep…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 07:53 PM
3

i did a couple half marathons. i don't like running, and i didn't get good times (~2 hours). but i did train in winter, entirely outside use strava. lets you know when you're being lazy account for body heat when picking clothes do push ups before you go out, so you're not cold when getting up to speed tubular headgear. hat/scarf/headband, put on wrist when too warm run faster if you're chilly eat carbs the day before or you'll hate life indoor is def a good idea when there's 3 ft of snow. i jus…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:37 PM
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i'm using a pretty direct red pill idea of a man here. yeah, people get stuck in shitty situations, and more shitty things happen as a result. other times, people cause their own shitty situations by not having a spine letting your boss demand that you work harder, especially if you're not getting paid more, is beta behaviour. unless you agreed to a fluctuating schedule or something up front, your boss is changing the implicit or explicit agreement you had, and you absolutely need to stand your …
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 04:00 AM
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i guess i'm at the point where i find the cheating to be non-newsworthy. it's absolutely awful, but i/we already know that it happens often as for why it happens, i think it's partly opportunity+boredom, and partly time killing attraction, and partly the husband displaying beta behaviour. the more beta, the less exciting the opportunity has to be, but there is always the risk that a bigger chad comes along
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 03:52 AM
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pull out and stick your cock in her mouth? sex acts are not a negotiation. you do whatever shit crosses your mind, as soon as it crosses your mind. stop if she protests or looks super uncomfortable (and you don't have a safe word) if you're asking her, you're doing it wrong. you can tell her what you're about to do, or tell her what to do, or you can just do stuff to her
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:32 AM
2

yes, women have no honor, blah blah there's a key part of this that's being glossed over, though. his boss is making him stay later. another man is forcing her husband to do something against his will, and he is unable to prevent this. pussy dries up lesson one: af/bb lesson two: man up. a man does not let his boss tell him what to do. a man lets his boss make mutually beneficial deals, or tells his boss to fuck right off
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 12:12 AM
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2 thoughts on this: 1) one of my FWBs does this sort of thing for her husband. open hypergamy, doesn't really fuck him except on rare occasion. takes care of the house/meals, works (less than him, and at lower pay, but contributes), and helps him with shit like dressing appropriately for interviews. it's interesting: she knows that she's not inherently valuable, and actually has to contribute, but she also knows that she has the upper hand in the relationship and can make demands that would be t…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 07:53 PM
1

basically everything here is a good idea. on making a clean break: i don't think you have to do this. it's definitely the sane default advice, though. it might help, it might not. you need to know that your relationship isn't going to recover, though. and you need to have some boundaries. and you need to gain/keep self respect if that means you have to go cold turkey, like most recovering alcoholics or smokers, then go cold turkey. but the risk, whether you talk/hang with/fuck her, or go no cont…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 12:44 AM
0

let me tell you a story about the best girl i've ever met: i lost my job, and got a little aimless/depressed. i got another (better) job, but the damage was already done. she started hitting on other guys in front of me, and she broke up with me when i asked her to stop. makes sense now, but i didn't get it at the time. two weeks later, i contact her despite her wanting to do no contact. my basic thought was that, whether i get her back or not, i would feel like a lazy, wussy piece of shit if i …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 08:16 PM
3

i think your definition of rape doesn't line up with their definition of rape. by their definition, i've definitely seen rapists (by their definition) at bars and parties, and i also get why it's a problem. you can call them liars, or you can accept that "rape" is a label for a concept, and not a concept itself, and you're using the label for different things that have similar but distinct meanings when you think of rape, you're thinking of some guy grabbing a woman, dragging them off, maybe tyi…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 05:01 PM
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