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12

small boobs are great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 01:01 AM
99

Just saw this and thought it was romantic. Animation is expensive as hell! This was so sweet! I believe there are partners out there like this for all of us! Don’t settle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:46 PM
8

I always wonder if they do in their inbox or not. I mean most don’t even offer a proper date yet they have an unlimited number of sexual requests they won’t. It baffles me that most don’t realize why they aren’t getting responses or they are getting them from women who may be low value/have self esteem issues .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 10:45 PM
8

LOL good! These men don’t deserve anything free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 09:59 PM
19

I was hoping the police would be there since he is asking for under 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:36 PM
36

He says he doesn’t want sex yet he wants them to be sexy for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:35 PM
16

What if they DM him though is always my thought. There are some young vulnerable women but I pray they don’t fall for his sick ass! And yea it always kills me when they are offended and say they don’t want a pro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:30 PM
27

Right, I can only imagine one that is vulnerable! I really hope no one DMs his sick ass !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:29 PM
24

I didn’t want to say that but soooo many men have done it! Truly they are sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:29 PM
71

Right and he says he doesn’t want sex but wants her to be sexy in the way he describes it! Truly sick! I browse old in various apps but mostly I find crap. An almost 40 year old man looking for someone under 25!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:43 PM
129

And under 18 even though he “isn’t asking for sex” but still wants to kiss . These males are truly sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 06:24 PM
5

Ugh that was sick whatever I just saw .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:18 PM
12

I will say this, I’ve personally witnessed males raised in homes with violent dads and they became that way as adults. So good for you for leaving! Were there no signs of abuse before marriage ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:09 PM
25

This is why I don’t like these kind of age gaps! Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:05 PM
6

I think Hinge is one of the bette dating apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 05:04 PM
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These posts literally make me cringe! She is really paying to go see him by train and has now agreed to give him weekend rent money?!?!?!?! LOL WTF! Am I reading this correctly??? These men are babied, it looks like maybe it was his mom but I personally would have left him by now. She said in the comments he bummed some money off her in the bar to buy some chips or something because he didnt' want to break his $20 bill. Also they don't go on many dates. Like WHY? 30's are the best years, let him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:46 AM
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Lol same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 12:15 AM
10

What is Lavish? I’ve had men like that that would take me on trips and such. Pay bills etc. if it’s just dinner that’s not lavish but it’s Ok to have him as a friend but I would date other ppl. Don’t wrap yourself around one person who wants to go nowhere with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:48 PM
10

LOLLL. For some reason my brain is able to register Ebonics/Slang quickly but this conversation he is having with this woman is a turn off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:02 PM
5

Yea and shame on me but I told him NO, I wasn't interested and thought he was clear we were just going to be friends but a few weeks later he asked me for sex even though I expressed already that I wasn't interested. He accused me of being a user after I went off on him. You're asking for sex and to be kissing friends and we haven't even been on a date. ALL this at his big age of 35!!! I ended up blocking him in the end, which is what I should've done initially but I was worried I would see him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:01 PM
13

LOL, I feel like her at the moment. They seriously have been watching too much fetish porns and it shows!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:59 PM
19

I agree, not to a grown woman especially. I can see kids doing that with each other but it is a turn off for me. I don't like getting the constant texts either "WhEN R YoU FreE", when I have already answered it once. I gave a 35 year old my number at starbucks and that night he was asking me to be "kissing friends", who does that at 35!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:40 PM
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LOLLLLLLLLLLL ..... Slang, whip = car.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 07:39 PM
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Yea and in the U.S that’s illegal. Black women were sharing their experiences with being denied entry into venues in Hollywood because they are black and I’m sure I didn’t get certain jobs growing up because I was black. It’s easy to google anyone now a days and honestly this woman could’ve talked to her husband up front to see what they both want and they could easily rule out the younger candidates. (Illegal as well but whatever) Her not hiring a younger nanny is not going to stop whatever pro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:30 AM
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If she feels that way, fine, but stop interviewing them and wasting their time. Don’t most Nanny profiles have pictures ? And you can literally google most people to see what they look like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:02 AM
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If he’s going to cheat though it will do it regardless but it’s a shame that a woman looking for a job is being turned down because of how she looks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 06:00 AM
8

I do think they are gay and honestly Idl men who date women for years knowing they are gay. I guess it’s a chance they don’t know at 26 (your friend) but I find that hard to believe. And for your ex.... I’d say gay personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:48 AM
3

No, that low value energy is attaching onto you and you will continue to attract that. Get a vibrator .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:16 PM
2

You don’t think your dad cheated ? 🤔 hmmm maybe there are some men who don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 05:02 PM
8

Yea if you can’t go don’t worry about it. Stack your cash in 2020! A recession seems to be coming !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:29 AM
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That first one made me lol. I had a man years ago that Lived next door to me and I always thought He was seeing the same woman until one day I realized after a year I was seeing different women lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:25 AM
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I’ve been on trips and I’ve never paid for them. I’d grab dinner occasionally on the trip. Did you ask him how much it would be to see if he will cover most of it ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:53 AM
12

Oh Lord! I hope she posted this online and got some tough love! Ain’t now way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:28 PM
15

Babe is fine but for the most part no! I’m darkskin and men seem to think it’s Ok to call me “chocolate” names. Example: “chocolate bunny”! No, no, no!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:49 PM
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I’m black and usually prefer geeky tech type guys, some of the last men I dated were Engineers but I do think most women as a whole have a concept of “bad boys” in their mind. With Asian women and and white men in tech, I think that happens mostly because they end up in the same environment if that makes sense. Like Mark Z and his now wife went to the same school I believe. Also at the tech company I worked at a while back, I was one of the only black women. It was mostly Asian and White people.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:01 AM
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It’s strange that the idea is to “find a white man” instead of the right man imo. I always found it strange personally as I’ve met Hispanic and Black women who think the same flawed concept when it comes to dating. I do think interracial dating can be a beautiful thing but the mindset some people have is disturbing. One Asian woman in LA who was talking about her “ideal white bf” also mentioned that her ideal /perfect white man, his ex gf must have been darkskin because of how she acted. I almos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 06:47 AM
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I’ve heard many Asian women in the LA area describe their ideal man as white. No other qualifications other than that. They usually accuse the man of having a fetish but a lot of times it’s both parties who have the fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:59 PM
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I fell for this before! Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:54 PM
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I consider myself a HVW and I’m black as well. Dating has been hard bc even though I’m pretty I know know that some men will use me only for sexual purposes! I will say I do think location is important, in LA I’ve had issues with serious dating bc there are so many LVM that women tolerate and many of the black men are colorists. Some of them are lVM as well. I think dating is getting harder for all women but women with dark skin in many cultures have targets on their backs! I have had to meditat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:48 PM
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OMG, I will never forget working on a production and hearing a background male Actor tell another man that a woman should never pass gas in front of her man! I couldn’t stop laughing! These males ( I don’t call them men) are delusional !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 11:40 PM
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Ugh I had a male I met at Starbucks text me this the same day we met, saying overly sexual things at 35 years old! He ended up getting blocked !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 08:44 PM
15

The disappearing came is one I don’t tolerate. I had so many exes in my 20’s who came and went as they pleased without contacting me for weeks at a time. I’ve had a few try to touch base with me recently and I completely ignore them! No thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 07:00 PM
9

Exactly and if they have kids she will likely be doing a lot of that work too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:56 PM
4

Her husband is dead wrong for abandoning his child that he had by a teenager when he was in his 30’s. Financial support is not all a child needs, they need guidance as well. Now she has to nanny in the home her siblings ? He’s truly a deadbeat !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:32 PM
5

LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:23 PM
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This scenario definitely isn’t for me. I’d help my already husband if he was struggling but a lot of women do this and they are basically moms to these males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 05:20 PM
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Young ladies please don’t waste your time. I did this when I was young and shouldn’t have, the guy lied about his age and said late 20’s but it was really early 30’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:47 AM
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Lolll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:14 AM
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Yea I’ve tried posting on the regular R4R forums too and all I get is sexual responses. No offers for dinner or anything! And I’m fairly young so I’m not wasting my time on any LV males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:14 AM
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Get your life together, a lot of ppl have fallen down but in what world does a woman want to be used so you have somewhere to sleep at night??!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:10 AM
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LOL 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:21 AM
9

I used to watch Oprah and there were men who were married for years with adult children and were coming out as gay. I can’t really read the OPs story though but that is super strange. Maybe Asexual ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:00 AM
10

I had a neighbor who did this and I never even realized I was seeing different women, that’s how much the women looked alike until one day he brought one home with different color hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:12 AM
14

Yes, I feel like at 30 I took my power back that I once easily gave away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:11 AM
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Hmm is he gay maybe?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:05 AM
10

The forum didn’t read as a hookup only forum to me but that’s what most of the posts are and all from me. Such a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:57 AM
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I hate thinking when I see these posts I immediately think they should hire a women and pay her a decent amount! Why do they really think a stranger on reddit would do this for them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:56 AM
21

I always wonder who raised these men. I remember meeting a woman who thought the comment “grab them by the pussy” was no big deal and she was in her 40s with adult sons! She said that comment was just how men were and I explained that it wasn’t how men were but we as women collectively have allowed them to be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:55 AM
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CTFU 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:53 AM
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Same and to keep options open! It irks me the most that he wants to get off on the fact that his date won’t know he hooked up with someone just before they went out. Truly sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:47 PM
14

Exactly! It’s like they are ordering off a menu and I can’t help thinking they should be paying for all the sexual favors they are asking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:24 PM
20

I’m praying he didn’t get any! I literally read that and was like WTF? I saw another where a man wants you to suck him off for as long as possible! Like why do they think we should be immediately at their service to fulfill sexual needs?!??! I’m literally left speechless !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:59 PM
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I literally LoL’d. Whose sons are these ? Omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:53 PM
6

SoCal R4R
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 10:42 PM
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I feel like many of the R4R I read from men are like this. It’s like they are ordering off a menu. I’m truly wondering what the think the “benefit” is for women when they ask for “FWBs”. Many of these men are pushing 30 or sometimes even older. I saw one man who was in his 50’s and wanted a young woman and I left a comment reminding young women to not waste their time. I deleted as I feel like I have a comment for almost ever post a man makes on the R4R forums!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:35 PM
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Yea the fact that he wants to get off on the fact that his date won’t know is so weird to me and a turn off! These males are something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:52 PM
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Apparently you can’t use words like Slave on Twitter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:32 PM
3

I will tell you, I see a lot of these males out here without dads and I think they are messed up partly because they didn’t come from a 2 parent home. They’ve watched their moms go to work and do everything for them and someone they think that’s how women should cater to them. I too want children but I don’t want to be selfish in making myself an intentional single parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:02 AM
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