TBoner101 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	What US women want is a fantasy Here’s the data you mentioned (this link is specifically in regards to race, but you should be able to find the rest easily).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/24 11:41 PM
1	Women are unable to handle rejection because FATHERS are far more likely to be completely absent in their child’s life at all?? It wasn't meant to be a gotcha. It's called taking accountability for your actions (and bad taste in partners), something women have never had to do throughout their entire lives. Instead, they blame it on the men that they opened their legs for which is why single mothers will continue to exist for eternity, so the unfortunate cycle where nearly half of all children fail to grow up in a stable household c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 01:21 PM
–	Women are unable to handle rejection And who decided to procreate (choosing so even after finding out they were pregnant) by having children with this father, willingly???	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:06 AM
–	Women are unable to handle rejection They always have to be the #1 most victimized victim ever. That’s how most have grown up so it’s what they’re used to: first being pampered and coddled by their parents, then by western society, sorta like a spoiled child or subclinical narcissist. That kind of development is conducive to privilege and entitlement, even into adulthood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:58 AM
–	Women are unable to handle rejection Never. Unless ofc you want her to lose attraction — so much so sometimes they’ll even find an unrelated but socially acceptable excuse reason to use in order to end things — and don’t mind her thinking of you as a pussy (not masculine, weak, feminine, etc). Just another one of those inconvenient truths that half the population attempts to hide via denial or playing dumb (at least in Western society), likely due to the fact that they value reputation above all else and skillfully use perception a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:09 AM
0	Very few if any men fit this weird definition women rattle off of “thinking women owe them sex” Nailed it. This is true for me, esp so as a lib male (who isn’t a pussy doormat and general tool). Men tend to be more simple but also fall under a wider range of extremes, quantitatively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:02 PM
10	Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger men Don’t. It’s honest, sincere, self-aware, and one of the few comments that doesn’t sound like a lecture coming from an egocentric (if not narcissistic) and condescending (if not hypocritical) prick. Also, happy cake day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/24 04:18 AM
1	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? lol, I don't necessarily blame you, nor do I disagree. Unless ofc, you were actually attracted and into the person beforehand. However, in order for the situation to stay that way, the attraction might have to be at such a high level initially in order for any chance of it to still be remaining after receiving the pic. The term "tributes" is new to me. Never understood the concept of dick pics; dudes be sending them before ever meeting and not expecting it to ruin one's chances during the pursui…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 05:07 PM
3	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? Well, for someone to go outta their way and spend that amount of effort, they must be intrinsically motivated enough (or just incredibly bored) and the only other person I could possibly think of who has that much anger for them to waste their time on something like this (besides you), is that babylon bitch. To answer your initial reply above from before, who says we do? The reason I'm bringing it up is obv due to the OP and your comment. What makes you think the man in your fantasy that you've …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 04:27 PM
3	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? The purpose of the OP was to introduce a hypothetical scenario as an excuse to judge the opposite gender in front of the entire subreddit, solely in order to publicly shame them. My guess is that the OP is using a throwaway to conceal their identity (as well as intent) as a regular member so she can manipulate a situation anonymously, while under the guise of playing dumb. Based from what I've seen (despite only being a casual reader and recent member of this sub), the only deduction this leads …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 04:01 PM
3	We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know? What are you even on about? That four letter word, is literally fantasized about by > than half (nearly 2/3) of your gender…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 06:32 AM
–	Why do you care what men masturbate to? “man up” You forgot to quote the most toxic of them all (certainly the most hypocritical and telling).	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/02/24 06:23 AM
3	Most men are struggling to find their equivalent, which is why TRP has not only spilled over into the mainstream but become common sense What women say vs. what they actually do, are two completely separate things…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/24 04:54 AM
2	“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. We don’t have a say whether we’re brought in to this world or not. Having children is one of, if not the single most selfish acts a human being can do. We’re here because a bunch of selfish women wanted their mini-me. You can just as easily equate the relationship between giving birth and “The mothers who put in the effort and sacrifice to raise their ungrateful children” as an even worse version of “being nice to these ungrateful bitches”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 11:42 AM
2	“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. You sound like quite the catch	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 11:30 AM
9	“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. You sound like a woman in disguise (trolling) as a supposed man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 02:09 AM
8	“Be nice” was NEVER code for “Being nice to women gets them wet for you”. Nice guys lie to themselves. And who chose to procreate with these deadbeat fathers, willingly???	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/24 02:05 AM
1	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims aha, good to see there's more of us, sometimes I feel like the only one. "Yes, psychopathy is the largest reason" I was just confused due to that sentence, but it's all good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/24 01:16 PM
1	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims Oh, you meant actual moe lesters share traits (if not an actual diagnosis) of psychopathy, in comparison to the broader classification of the whole group. The way you phrased it as an "opportunity" threw me off a bit. 1-5% isn't THAT rare, especially for a psychiatric disorder, though not sure that can account for the true prevalence due to those afraid to receive an actual diagnosis and thus don't seek the treatment they need, a vicious cycle that is unfortunately way too common in mental healt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/24 10:22 AM
1	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims wdym, that psychopathy is the largest reason or cause of it? The doctor you mentioned showed up practically everywhere I looked, and appears to be the world's foremost expert on the subject. The most fascinating (if not bizarre) cause I came across (1/3 of the page down), was a tumor in the orbitofrontal cortex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 05:02 PM
–	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims Wow. Did a cursory search and nature accounts for a significantly higher share than I would've imagined.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/24 03:51 PM
1	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims It’s quite a trip the first time you realize the reason for this kind of behavior is predominantly due to experiencing and suffering from it themselves as a child. More importantly, it increases awareness and allows us to choose empathy instead of anger, which isn’t always easy to do cause we live in a fucked up world and this shit is quite sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 07:19 AM
2	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims While most of your OP is true, what she said IS correct. I’m not sure of the number (or if it can even be quantified) so while the shame from religious and conservative upbringings makes up a decent number, I don’t recall how much (and am only guessing here but can’t imagine it being the primary reason, right?). Anyway, I think I have links with the full PDF on my PC if you’d like. Her comment is the only one I’ve seen actually acknowledging and agreeing with you (in regards to the research) so …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 06:57 AM
1	There is a correlation between women's gravitation towards Dark Triad personality traits, and their propensity for being victims First, that’s one of the worst analogies I’ve heard. Second, the machiavellian archetype is the least attractive of the three and its validity isn’t nearly as strong as the other two. Third, if they weren’t related, then why else are they collectively referred to as the dark triad? They DO correlate: Cluster B personalities consists of both NPD and ASPD. They’re called clusters for a reason…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 06:29 AM
4	Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv? What women say, vs. What women actually do, are two entirely different (and often contradictory) concepts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/24 04:51 AM
–	Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young women No, it only counts when it doesn’t benefit them	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/23 05:43 AM
0	Young men (18-25) must bring something to the table, young women just bring themselves. Yup. Meanwhile, some mammals have harems, incl our closely-related primates. They also regularly beat and kill the male competition, commit infanticide, and rape the females (even when they don't have to)...	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/23 04:25 PM
1	If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virgin Sure it does — the word is literally a portmanteau of involuntary celibate. Regardless, it was a joke. I'm def not a virgin (nor an incel for that matter), even tho I repeatedly get called one (esp here)..	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 07:43 AM
2	If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virgin https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201812/feminists-think-sexist-men-are-sexier-woke-men https://sci-hub.ee/https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-009-9665-x	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 06:24 PM
1	If you've ever called a man an incel, you can't really claim there's nothing wrong with being a male virgin I feel like you and I don't get along... cause I'm a steadfast incel of the celibate variety, and thus unlikely to change..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/23 05:46 PM
2	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends lol, nice. Hey, whatever floats your boat! Hopefully you find what you're looking for.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 11:47 AM
1	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends So your type is an uneducated blue collar POC, w/ tattoos + a beard? In ‘Murica? Interesting taste, that’s for sure. As long as you know what you want and it/he makes you happy, then you do you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/23 03:34 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill. Clearly, you know me so well. What makes you think you're "supposed feel bad" for me; did I ask you for that? Who said I'm unable to date women? You presume a lot and make a shit ton of assumptions (that you wish to be true, which says more about you than me). You think women put the same amount of effort in approaching, initiating interest (not flirting, but actual action), and taking risk? I'm not talking about relationships, just to be clear. I can list them if you'd like. Yes, ofc some (if n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 11:44 AM
1	The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill. Is this your version of an ad-hominem? If you have a counterpoint or argument, feel free to comment. Otherwise, I'm not gonna engage and waste my time if your only response is gonna be "something something incel", or just downvoting then walking away, the latter of which you've already completed half of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 11:13 AM
1	CMV : A lot of very attractive girls I’ve noticed just have very one dimensional tall tattooed bearded boyfriends Tell me you're a hick from rural 'Murica w/o telling me you're from rural Murica, is what I get from reading these two comments...	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 10:47 AM
3	When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women? That's fair. However, please realize that the majority of those comments ITT are coming from just a few people (predominantly one, actually). Not everyone is that reductive and simple-minded. Personally, I have respect for people who resist societal pressure and don't immediately settle (ie: force a square peg in a round hole) while extremely young, for what often results in an unfulfilling marriage, if not actual divorce. Esp so if kids are involved, a significant responsibility people take way…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 10:21 AM
0	The best way for men to weed out the women only interested in free meals and using men is to split the bill. Exactly. Maybe in a vacuum but that’s not reality. When there are certain norms or advantages for a certain group that aren’t questioned (or shamed when they do) and are being held on to with a death grip, it changes the context of these debates but is too often ignored. The simple fact that ONE gender and one alone, is the one who has to initiate all forms of interest, make all the moves and advances, is a huge handicap that allows women to eat their cake and have leftovers (in ‘Murica, often l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/23 04:08 AM
3	Are women really that disgusted by inexperienced/virgin men? It is. Practically everything these days is a double standard. If/when you disagree, word will get out soon enough and then a public broadcast will announce the fatwa that has been put on your head, officially making it official.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 09:38 PM
2	Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for men lol, that is not even remotely true. While it's certainly more expensive, aside from a small (but bigger than most realize) percentage of the pop who are prescribed medications that cause weight gain, along w/ an even smaller group who have rare (usually metabolic) disorders that are untreatable/incurable, there's practically no (if any) excuse for being fat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 05:28 PM
2	Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for men This. It also tends to be predominant from people of a certain group... They've also never recalibrated their attractiveness from like a decade and > 100 lbs prior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 05:17 PM
2	Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for men I agree w/ practically everything you said. However, while I know it's a significantly smaller percentage, I don't think we should castigate or chastise the admittedly few women who are comfortable remaining single for much longer than most, or even forever. I have significantly more respect for the woman who isn't so needy she needs to marry like the fifth guy she's ever dated (if that) and then "settles" w/ a person they aren't completely happy with (even if it doesn't end up in divorce) and i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 05:11 PM
1	CMV: Cat ladies and older male bachelors are often not who people think If I understand the OP correctly, their whole point is most people aren't "mocked or insulted" by the term unless they actually identify with it (or its connotation), and thus have regrets. Compare it to "soccer mom". If anything, that whole "life is sad or meaningless unless a man and/or children validate her existence" trope is perpetuated by other women, and disproportionately so IME.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/21 06:13 AM
1	If you run a good game on someone to manipulate them into becoming obsessed with/dependent you, do you have a right to complain if you decide it's annoying? don't worry bout the downvotes mate, it's more than likely to just be angry women in denial of reality (maybe some men that are newish or white knight-like), particularly when what they're actually attracted to is so explicitly explained and they see how similar it is to their own behavior, then finally realize how sad and pathetic it truly is	/r/seduction	30/11/19 02:38 AM
51	When your parents ask why you haven got married... I especially love it when boomers make fun of millennials (ie: spoiled, lazy, entitled), seemingly unaware of nature vs nurture and completely oblivious to the fact of how the development of their offspring is a direct reflection of their parenting skills (or lack thereof) and genetics. Projection much? In essence, by making fun of their own children, they're mocking themselves. Might as well call their kids sons of bitches…	/r/MGTOW	19/03/19 09:05 PM
1	Do NOT date or marry women with mental health issues [Repost] Whatever you say, Dr. sadomasochrist. Looking at your post history, you sound like one of those guys who recently read a few (PUA) books and starts repeating or rephrasing whatever they just read as fact, while looking down upon others, to make yourself feel better due to your own deep-rooted insecurities and self-esteem issues. There's so much wrong and inaccurate with your most recent reply and the fact that even though you have no academic qualifications or formal educational training and yet…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 12:28 PM
-2	Do NOT date or marry women with mental health issues [Repost] There is all sorts of misinformation in your posts (after the OP, which is an interesting theory and contains some aspects I've personally thought about quite frequently, especially so when reading this subreddit). Sociopathy/psychopathy are just older and slightly less formal terms used in place for what is now referred to as ASPD, the official diagnosis in the DSM. Anyone in mental health, whether a psychotherapist or someone working in academia, will know what you're talking about. You're fir…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/18 09:33 AM
1	I get freaked out when guys try to touch me, but I'm interested in them. How can I talk them past this? it's always different for girls. any guy with a decent amount of game and emotional intelligence should be able to sense your uncomfortableness (is that even a word?) in response to physical contact. if they don't, it could be used as a sort of weeding out mechanism to narrow the pool of men, depending on how much you pull of course. personally, i try to avoid initiating all forms of touch, at least in the early goings and especially during initial encounters, with the only exception being to ga…	/r/seduction	04/07/15 11:48 PM
1	What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me? daddy issues...	/r/seduction	09/06/15 03:58 AM
2	How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable) well said. also agree with the last sentence in your first post on leaving your comfort zone, especially for all of us "OCDish" types. first time is the hardest, but gets easier once you get over the initial hump	/r/seduction	02/05/15 01:39 AM
1	How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable) i understand your well-intentioned response and the no nonsense, tough love kind of approach, but believe it could have been articulated in a more courteous manner. Of course not everyone has OCD. However, there is such a thing as OCPD which affects a significant percentage of the population to some degree. Granted, this disorder along w/ personality are on a spectrum.	/r/seduction	01/05/15 12:03 PM
1	How to not appear or come across as intimidating, stoic, scary, or creepy. (AKA: How to look relaxed and approachable) Anyway, back to OP, the posters in this thread beat me to it and their comments contain a lot of good advice. Mediation would have been my first #1 tip. The amount of time someone posted (20-40 min) is a good target to aim for, but ANY amount of time is beneficial. set up yourself for success by adjusting or even anything that will help continuity and maintaining a routine. try starting out w/ 10-15 minutes/sessions how ever many times you'd like throughout the day. you can try guided meditation…	/r/seduction	01/05/15 12:01 PM
1	Not experiencing approach anxiety, but approach apathy. Advice? If not in JC, are you in the dorms? If so, have you initially just tried befriending the girls on your floor, the neighbors down the hall, get your network up?	/r/seduction	07/03/15 08:52 PM
2	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. One of the best posts I've read on this subreddit. I get the gist when the message of a guide/article/post makes it clear to avoid phone/text/email game in general or making sure any sort of contact or interaction has a clear goal in mind while keeping conversation short & sweet, especially when we're starting out or new to the game. However, I don't believe it should be COMPLETELY written off, which it often seems like, even though it's much easier to do and say so for teaching purposes in addi…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 08:46 AM
1	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. This is a great post, significantly better than most of what I've read here as of late (although not sure bout #2, could be up for debate). TBH, the majority of the negative shit (IMO) is from user comments/replies rather than original posts. It tends to come from guys who (and I am gonna get flamed Superbad for this) blindly follow a PUA; usually one of the initial ones found since discovering the scene that also had a hand in guiding and assisting them w/ one of their first pickups, in additio…	/r/seduction	07/03/15 08:33 AM