TC19962022 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
145	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman	CMV	TC19962022	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 03:48 PM
133	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves	CMV	TC19962022	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:33 PM
2	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise?	Discussion	TC19962022	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 08:20 PM
1	Women less likely to move for and more tied to family and friends	Discussion	TC19962022	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 08:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Is kneeling and presenting a ring during a marriage proposal sexist? Yes. I hate the concept. I find it degrading and I hate engagement rings. That the Man has to waste money on a stupid rock cause Men are just seen as ATMs	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/22 08:32 PM
1	Am I the only one who thinks gender roles are worst for men? As a Man I hate gender roles and they suck for Men, for reasosn you stated. I think Men have jsut been systemically brainwashed into doing and accepting it and I do not get it either. Thank you for understanding! It means a lot! Hope I can find a Woman like you someday :)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/01/22 08:31 PM
1	Parental DNA test for all newly born children Oh for sure. A Woman knows a child is hers. A Man has no idea. Equal access to information should be encouraged. The only way someone can be against this if they are a Woman who cheats on her partner - or they are a Man who simps for such Women	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/22 01:22 AM
3	If 30-50% of relationships end and women initiate divorce 70% of the time, why do so many men so desperately want to date/marry? Because I want love and kids? Natural urge really.	/r/MensRights	12/01/22 09:54 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Hmm. Not much of a gamer but thanks for the tip. Also, since there are more gamer guys than girls, wouldn't it still be super hard for guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 09:39 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Canada. Québec City specifically. Lived my whole life in Toronto before moving here a couple of months ago for work. Am totally cool w/ dating an American though :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 07:52 PM
1	Explanations for the high male to female ratio on dating apps Women have larger social networks and more likely to find someone since Men are more likely to find a Woman attractive than vice verca. So Women can eaisly find someone in person, or very quickly via an app, and don't need to hang around for years the way Men do	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:15 PM
–	If you’re unhappy with the state of western women why not travel or move to another country and date the women there? Because as 2nd gen immigrant, I want my kids to be more established in society - not less. Marrying down would negate all the immigrant effort my parents and I did. It would be a massive step back. Plus, I do not want to marry down. Hypergamy is part of the problem; a Woman can easily marry up into social status. I want true equality, which means no hypergmay	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:14 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves exclusively date egalitarians. Where can I find one? Keep in mind it is almost impossible for a Man to even get a date, much less a date that meets his preferences	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:05 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Not into loose sex; but it would be nice to be valued and to have the choice. Even just to be taken out on a free date would make it amazing "Noo. I have too many compliments. Wah wha wha" Men have to work super hard to get a date. And because of hypergamy the guy likely brings more to the table than she does. And she will likely demand he pays for everything. And look, there is a good chance she just met with him for a free outing. Meanwhile a Woman can eaisly get a date everynight; will never …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:59 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Compare her now to an Autistic Man. My main qualifier is "all else equal"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:40 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Yep. I hate I am expected to be a provider while being better with kids than any Woman I've met. Why can't I marry up? I can't even ask for a fair deal without being heavily criticized for it. So because of my gender I have to put all the work dating to end up with someone who makes less and is worse with kids. Yay Equality /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:39 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Number of people in general. Therapy cannot solve poverty, racism, sexism, capitalism, or whatever. They can just give you coping mechanims	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:33 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves If you are in Canada, check out Canadian Centre for Men and Families. I used to think that way about therapy based on my experiences in the past; but via that organization I found one who actually focuses on men's issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:32 PM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Exctly. I've been suicidal on and off for years; more times than I lost count. Therapy is female centric so not very useless. If I was a Woman, I guarantee my life would be a lot better; observing 100s of data points of Women and Men I know provides me with enough evidence to make this point with 95 certainty	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:31 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Men. The Men have usually had to try more, fail, bear the transaction costs, and put in all the effort. They usually been waiting longer. While Women just sit around, twiddle their thumbs, get free outings, get valued, and finally get loved after a very easy and rewarding dating process	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:28 PM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Exactly!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:26 PM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Meanwhile Women are like "Whites or Blacks only. Asians and South Asians are not people"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:04 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves ascension action meant you couldn't do that? What? Don't know what "ascension action" is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:53 PM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves 1000%	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:52 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves All of this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:52 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves we men arent looking for sympathy No. We definitley are. Lack of symapthy for Men is an issue	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:51 PM
2	WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single? Ah I see. Thanks for the insight	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:50 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves A man in their early 20‘s doesn’t want to think about commitment yet, he wants to have fun and explore. Not from what I've seen. I've seen more Men at a young age seeking love over sex; because unless you are super hot it is hard for a young Man to get enough regular sex to make singleness regularly. Women it seems are more into sleeping around, despite the stereotype. I am M26. Never wanted to sleep around. Always wanted a life partner, from mid-undergrad till death. Been wanting kids for a cou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:49 PM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Thanks for sharing this!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:37 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Thanks for the insight	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:36 PM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves I really like your flair 👍 Thanks! Needs to be said more; that is the issue. Women have been freed from gender roles; Men are still held to them more difficult for people who stick to our morals and principles. Yep. It really makes it tough	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:34 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves No that's just your excuse to be a shitty human being Except I am not a manipulative sociopath - which is my life sucks. Because I am a good person; if I was evil I would be happy	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:34 PM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Like you said, easier for women to find a partner. If you really want love and a family; not having that combined with tihet stuff hurts. Sure, everyone has problems. But being poor and coupled (wiht a partner who out earns you) beats being poor and single and no dates and having to put in effort to marry down. Regarding weight, like o said I am active and healthy. I am trying to loose weight. I am not obese or anything. And I know there is a genetic link in my mom's side Re: weight. Again, thou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:31 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Proving my point that Men are not allowed to complain	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:27 AM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Pregnancy yes can suck; I understand that. And the US needs better mat leave and health access for the poor, 200%. You think Men don't face bullying or abuse? Problems like this are bad regardless. I can see you had a tough like; I know - I've had as well. I'm so so sorry for what you've been through; no one should have. And yeah, gatekeeping out of STEM is wrong. I can relate; as a Man I was gatekept out of babysitting some neighbourhood kids despite no issues. Gender roles are still very stric…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:22 AM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Meanwhile a disabled woman would be more likely to find an able bodied man to live and care for her and support her. But because she has some extra physical pain once in a while he is privileged somehow	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:11 AM
3	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Yep. Physical strength is hardly an advantage these days; since the economy is all knowledge based anyways. Unless you live ina war zone, there is no physical advantage to being a Man	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:09 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Exactly. Emotional pain is a LOT worse than physical pain. I can deal with the occasional pregnancy if it means that I can marry up and have the relationship centrées in my favour and easily find love and have constant self-esteem boosts	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:08 AM
6	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Excellent counter-point. Would definitely love to learn more	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:05 AM
10	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves One up you. I went to a university with mostly private school kids. Attractive, rich, white, private school young women in the best college in the country were complaining about "being oppressed by the patriarchy". What's even more amusing is that the college was run, politically and socially, by these very same rich, white alpha-women Edit: I am Canadian, not American	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:04 AM
3	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Definitely a LOT easier for Women from what I've seen	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:01 AM
-1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves LOL. Everyone who knows me says I am kind and caring. Add that with my being good with kids - not a personality issue. Just living the curse of being a Man	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 06:01 AM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves No not really. I'm in Canada, lawyers aren't the wealthy group they are in the US. Only dcotors make big money here. Also, I just started my career. Have a bit of way to go. But yea, for my age I am doing well and am on the right track. One aspect of life that went well; though I did grow up poor as a younger kid and middle class later on. And had gone through a lot of bullying. And have never been in a relationship. Money cannot buy a loving spouse (don't want a gold digger) not a mother and co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:56 AM
7	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves 100%.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:55 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves "Men weak. Women strong." Yeah, having so many choices to choose from when dating - many of which bring a lot more to the table than you do - is soooo hard. Worse than having no choices despite brining a lot to the table	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:52 AM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves I gave my all in school. Firstly in Canada it is not rewarded anymore. Housing goes up like 20% a year; you are better off putting your tuition money into real estate. My quality of life fell because I went to school. Though I alter left Toronto so things are better now. But anyway. I used to believe that. That doing well in school would be rewarded. I didn't have a good childhood; was bullied a lot. Yet I managed to persevere. I have two professional degrees, a good job, have various skills, ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 05:49 AM
3	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Do you think you’d get guaranteed relationships/sex for life? Every Woman I know who has wanted a relationship has found one. No more than a couple of years; at that is an exception. FEw months is the norm. While Men are condemed to singleness for years. I don't want loose sex. I want love. And Women, who sit around and receive offers, are akin to employers. They have less transaction costs so end up getting better deals. While Men have more transaction costs so end up settling	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:35 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:29 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Get off your bum, away from the screen, go do real things. Like: Never watch Porn have 2 professional degrees and a good job Various hobbies and interests Regularly active Excellent with kids. And still have never been in a relationship. Funny how Women who spend all their time and money on fashion and instagram are not shamed and streotyped the same way	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 04:28 AM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves You mean MTF?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:25 AM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Hmm. Interesting	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:21 AM
14	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves "How dare suicidal people complain"	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:20 AM
13	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves If you’re a woman who is fine with manipulation - it’s definitely easier than a man. But if you’re a woman who has morals, good luck sis If you are a manipulative sociopath you have it easy; regardless of gender. If you have morals, you suffer. That is how messed up things are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 03:20 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves AKA I have none so I'll just deflect	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 02:29 AM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Still better than the average Middle-Aged Man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 02:06 AM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves List the counters then	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 02:06 AM
1	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves True. As someone who is 6'1" I sometimes forget how bad it is for short men. I hate how Women obsess over something so meaningless that cannot be controlled. If a Woman told me "I like you because of your height" it would game over; no need for shallow people in my life	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 02:06 AM
-2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Oh yeah; 13 - 30 is the ideal. That is my greatest desire. To be reborn as an attractive, rich, western parents, 13 year old Woman. But I still rather get 4 year of happiness than none at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 02:02 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves 100%. Even though I am 26; I'd still sign up for it and get the last 4 years of happiness	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:54 AM
7	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Exactly! That to me is all the proof there is to the debate on which gender has it easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:52 AM
5	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Cause TransWomen totally experience what CisWomen do /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:51 AM
0	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves are not going to marry other people - of either sex - working a minimum wage job. As an educated professional I have been heavily attacked and criticized - by both Men and Women - for wanting someone matching me in education. Men are simply not allowed to have standards are just socially expected to be providers	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:49 AM
11	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves "Blacks are slaves; newsflash. Deal with it or perish." Maybe we should work on fixing the systemic issues	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:48 AM
2	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? You kinda need similar values, goals, and vision for life. 100%. Which makes it hard to find someone in many cases. Just turned 26; never been in a relationship in large part because of this. Hurts badly. And Men get very few dates compared to Women; being single for us especially sucks Anyways; I am happy to hear that you and your partner are doing well and figuring it out how to make it work :) Thanks!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:47 AM
2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Would appreciate all the help I can get!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:11 AM
–	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? Oh wow! Sounds like you found another wanderer LOL. Hope it all works out!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 01:07 AM
–	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? never been to Quebec City. You were 3 hrs away and didn't go?! Just a bit surprised. It is really amazing. I moved there last October Ah I see. Where is your partner right now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 12:44 AM
–	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? Hmm Interesting. Like I replied to u/Initial_Chemical7121 above; I am wondering is it because your town has mostly factory and trades jobs	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 12:43 AM
-2	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves 100%	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 12:41 AM
5	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Might the problem just be…you? Let's put it this way. My life is going well; and the only issues I have are directly tied to my gender	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 12:40 AM
-3	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Actually I have 0 interest in loose sex and I have a good job and education; lead an interesting life; am acitve; and am really good with kids. But have never been loved cause a Man is never deemed good enough while Women are just valued for existing	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/22 12:39 AM
-5	If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselves Like what? Periods and the occasional pregnancy? I'd take some physical pain if it means better social capital, valuation, and easier dating life; including the ability to marry up	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:41 PM
–	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? lol .. I lived in 5 countries and I don’t know how many cities lol ..prob ~7. Oh wow! That is really amazing!!! I am the reverse. Lived in Toronto my whole life; even for studies. I was in different parts (downtown, inner suburbs, and outer suburbs); but always in the Toronto area. One thing that always felt lacking was not having the chance to live elsewhere so when I got a job last fall in Québec City I jumped on it. Have you been to / lived in any of those two cities? Personally, Montreal and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:39 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? Oh wow! You really are the adventurous type LOL. How many cities have you lived in and how long do you tend to stay there? Have you left your country? What do you find to be some major challenges? Any tips for someone who just moved cities (i.e. me LOL). Any cities your particularly liked or disliked	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:23 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? Ok yeah then that makes sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:18 PM
1	WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single? I’m currently in one now, How are you in a relationship and a self-described BlackPilled?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:16 PM
1	WHY do you want a relationship instead of being single? I want kids. I want a life partner I want someone to love me and be by my side as a permanent best friend Physical pleasure; I have no interest in loose sex and it is hard for Men who aren't tall rich white guys with 6-packs to just get sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:15 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? I move a lot. Mostly work related, Interesting. How do you find the experience? Would love to hear all that you have to say about it (just really curious as I never met a serial mover before that's all)	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:12 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? That’s a pretty large group of men you’re describing. Yeah. Which as my flair indicates I think is a serious problem; Men are expected to take high paying jobs and be providers. But thanks for sharing your POV	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:10 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? She’s Indian and culturally for her the men stay with the parents while the women move away. That is true. Though in Indian culture Men also tend to earn more (I am a 2nd gen Indian Immigrant) so I wonder if that is part of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:08 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? Why the fudge would I want to leave? Fair enough. Not saying everyone should be an immigrant; people have different values. I moved from Toronto to Québec City a few months ago and I don't regret it one bit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:07 PM
1	Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise? Interesting. Is your town a small town with mainly trades / factory jobs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 11:03 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread That I want a fair deal in a relationship which is a problem apparently	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 07:49 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It's too entertaining I thought you wanted a genuine convo. But clearly you just want to attack me so I'll quite engaging; just list out what I want and what i am looking for. And no, I did not quit dating for 4 years like you claim can you repeat what you can provide to your partner Smart Good Education Kind Caring Good with kids Hardworking Professional Career Active Hobbies and interests Average looks Refused to sleep around despite having some chances because he believed in saving himself wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 07:41 PM
2	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? Ok. So you got lucky so then became a privileged sociopath; just not always privileged. How did you make this "easy money" anyways?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:28 PM
3	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? He might reject all people that don’t have a college degree or anyone who has less than 5 years experience. In doing so he may turn alway some potentially great employees, I worked for a company where HR told me part of the process is literally randomness. As in from 1,000; they will filter out those without degrees; but also then pick only 100 of those with degrees from the pool of 1000. A candidate who is the best fit could get filtered out on pure bad luck	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:26 PM
3	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? The issue is with Women demanding unrealistic standards. Men should not need to get plastic surgery or have an unattural gym rat appearance to be loved. No different than Chinese foot binding and neck rings	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:24 PM
2	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? Yep. I showed my Bumble profile to a firend of mine; and she said it looked great. She still can't comprehend that Men just don't get likes and messages	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:23 PM
1	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? That is true. I can see difference. In person, there are relationships because people know each other and attraction is based on other factors. Online, it is all looks creating the 80/20 rule.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:21 PM
5	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? Exactly. Society only cares about Women	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:20 PM
3	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? Isn't it an issue that people need to do to surgery to be loved? No difference than Chinese neck rings or foot binding. The issue is unrealistic body standards. First it was Men doing it to Women; now Women are doing it to Men	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:19 PM
1	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? In reality it actually is super easy to make a metric fuck load of money "I am attractive and rich. You can be to. You are just lazy. I am a privileged sociopath"	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:18 PM
2	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? Because if Men have to be the "best" (which in Tinder speech means unnaturally looking muscles and being white and tall) while Women can just exist; we get a situation where Women can keep getting better deals just for existing	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:17 PM
2	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? What this shows to me is that despite the countervailing narrative, Women are a LOT more shallow than Men	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 06:16 PM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are I never followed that advice, I always figured if a guy didn’t like it, he wasn’t for me. I never wanted to have to be fake to attract someone, I wanted to find someone into the real me You are 100% correct. I am happy that you feel you found the person. Wishing you all the best Men on this sub say it all the time Honestly I never heared anyone say it and I've a lot of toxic stuff on online. Can't dispute your lived experience; just find it odd to hear. I think many men do prefer a woman they ca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 04:04 PM
2	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are you'd take a very intelligent but less feminine (whatever that means to you) woman over a not so intelligent but feminine woman? 100%. Personally I prefer Women with more "masculine" traits such as career ambition, athleticism, and relationship dominance; I guess because I have certain "feminine" traits like being a natural with kids so it needs to balance	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 04:46 AM
2	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are Second after basic morality (i.e. an intelligent asshole is not attractive) Most Men no; most seem indifferent; they don't not want a Woman smarter than them; but they don't see it as a desirability trait either	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 03:04 AM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are This exactly!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 03:03 AM
8	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are We’ve been told by other women to “act dumb” to attract men, Please don't. You deserve better than someone who prefers someone dumber than them. I really don't get that. I prefer Women smarter than me; guys I know generally seem to be indifferent to a Woman's intelligence. Unless they want a rich businessman w/ dumb blonde stereotype, no one wants a dumb woman. We have heard men say they prefer to look at women, not talk with them. What kind of Men are you talking to? Dumb jocks players maybe ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 03:00 AM
1	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are I agree; I am not intimated by intelligent women. I am attracted to and turned own by them. I'd prefer it if my woman was smarter than me. But to Challenge your view, I also prefer it pretty much more than anything else other than kidness / basic morality. (Like a smart douchebag is not attractive). I don't know about all Men; but the Men I do know seem more indifferent towards intelligence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:58 AM
5	Men are not intimidated by intelligent women, this is simply not where our priorities are I find intelligence to be almost literally a requirement to be sexually attracted to a woman But I'm not most men For me it's a turn on if a girl can beat me at things Outsmart me Outrun me Outshine me I second all of this!!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:56 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman There's nothing wrong with that. It's something you value. Thanks for the reassurance :) f you force yourself to be with someone who would not allow you to stay at home more, then the relationship won't last. Problems will ensue and that benefits nobody. Yep. I don't get the whole just date somebody argument for this reason. If they are not my type; what is the point? My mother has lamented so many times that she wishes she was a stay at home mom, Oh I see. I wonder if your Mom is trying to live…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 08:38 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman you will be praised and be more successful if you are a selfish asshole who uses people but at the end of the day you gotta look yourself in the mirror and you have to figure out for yourself if you're okay with that." Yeah. Sometiems I wish I did not have a conscience so I could be a bad person and win. Which is why I beleive in an afterlife; makes things more reasuring I think if you explained your level of experience the way you did it - with confidence and conviction, most women would respec…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 07:26 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman OMG. I am so sorry to hear that. Defiinitely going to be super careful if start lifting and stick light;	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 07:24 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Exactly. Sex is meaningful cause it is only done w/ one person. It makes it special and makes the marriage special You don't miss having multiple sexula partners when you are with your spouse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 04:02 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman ideal woman does not exist She did. And she rejected me despite the fact that we got along really well; had good chemistry, all of that. play the game by their imperatives(blue pill), leave the game(mgtow) or play it at your terms with a lot of personal compromises(red pill). Yeah I guess this is the issue. Being a Red Piller means compromising everything about my value syste; which many Red Pillers don't seem to get. Too me it is like engaging in exploitive business or labour practices. Sure it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 03:19 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Yup! I have rejected men because they have a history of using women. Happy to hear that there is someone who thinks like me. If you're looking for a good woman who doesn't use others and cares about people, you're on the right track in my opinion. I mean I hope so. No luck so far and seeing the popularity of Red Pill/ Incel/ whatver I feel like I am being punished for doing the right thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 06:33 AM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Sorry to hear that. What happened specifically	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:39 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I have gotten to know Women as friends and at times some Women have fallen for me so I'd say yes. I also wnet out with a woman I met on Reddit; was also kind of like a date	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:27 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I made a list of 187 preferences and found women that met those specs. Oh wow! That's impressive You can be successful by writing a to-do list that is in line with your preferences and successfully find a mate. I wish there was a headhunting service for that; the way there is for jobs / employment. If I had a vacancy I could pay a recruiter to find me a candidate who was XYZ. Should be a way to pay someone for this. Hand a list, off you go. But 187. Wow. I can barely think of 187 attributes, let…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:26 AM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman ou're special and unique for wanting this. I respect you for it. :) I appreciate that. It really means a lot :) If a guy told me this, he'd be considered husband material. Happy to hear at least someone thinks I am husband material LOL :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:24 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Thanks for the help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:22 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Thanks for sharing your thoughts and for the kind words!! I know what you are saying. Women more likely to want a STAH spouse would also be more likely to have more liberal sexual values and vice-verca. Not sure what to say beyond this the person I am; I am liberal when it comes to gender roles but conservative when it comes to sexual values. For me, being the breadwinner with a stay at home spouse would make me unhappy. My parents were similar in that Dad was breadwinner and Mom was stay-at-hom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:21 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Ouch. I am so sorry to hear that happened to you. I hope you are doing better. Meanwhile that woman I missed out on got engaged last summer. She was 23; first of my friends / peers in age group to hit that milestone	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 05:08 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman However isn’t this just a reality of life? Sure. And it is a problem that needs to be fixed Now what advice would you give those other candidates that you beat out for your current job? Funny. I had this same convo with my psychotherapist yesterday. The difference is that in job hunt there is more of a clear step. You do X then Y then Z and while luck plays a HUGE role there is a strong correlation between effort and outcome. Generally speaking, you try more and put in more you find work. I cann…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 04:53 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Ok. Instead of talking in vagueness why don't tell me where I am so obviously wrong	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 04:48 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I don't see what you disagree with. That sociopathy of Women needs fixing. Equality goes both ways. "Women are evil; deal with it" is not an option	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 04:47 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Look. If systemic inequity is a thing; I will hate the causes of it. That is natural. Hypergamy is a form of societal opression that needs to be taken care of. The attitude is aken to saying it is nature for White to enslave Blacks	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 12:57 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I mean we went on «dates». Unofficially because I was just getting to know her as a friend or so and I rapidly fell for her and well it got a bit complicated. So no we were never dating but I knew her the way I would know a potential date	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 12:52 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Cause transpeople don't have it easy at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/22 12:07 AM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Thanks for the advice cut the girls some slack: for most they aren't whoring around for their prime years. It does feel like that. I find it hard to love someone knowing they would have rejected me for the frat guys and then once they couldn't they want someone like me while me and guys like were condemed to loneliness; they get the best of both worlds. They didn't suddenly change; they got the best of both worlds cause they see you as a resource to exploit Tried everything I could think of. No …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:18 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman worse off I society than men? Not talking historically. Talking present where you get dating in your favour. Where you have less pressure to earn. Where you can feel attractive just be changing your wardrobe and showing the right amount to skin. Where you can get 100s of likes complimetns and self-esteem boosts. Where you can use affirmative action to get ahead. Where you can get simps just by existing. Where you can be in a school system that favours you	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:14 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman As "purity" is a social construct made to demean women No. It is about ensuring that there is meaning in the relationship. I held myself to the same standard I expect from my partner; I refused to sleep around	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:12 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman don’t care about women’s education or career, Says who. Those are prime importance to me. overweight. Men here and elsewhere hate fat women, Overweight; not obese. Men have an issue with obese women; not overweight ones.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:11 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman For me yes and yes. Except for the occasional pregnancy	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 11:10 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You need therapy Already on it but are you willing to make the necessary life changes to do so? What should I do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:29 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Do those things and somewhere along the way you'll find the woman for you Everyone says that. Has not worked so far. 8 billion people on Earth I hate this argument. Here is why: Realistically I am not going to meet the world. My town has 850K people; my hometown has 6.5M. So total of 7.3M is my potential pool Say 3.65M Women Now subtract those coupled Now substract those under 18 or over, say 29 Now subtract those whose standards I don't meet Now substract those who don't meet my standards Then …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:28 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I believe the "Stay at home Dad" is now a thing. Just go out and find the woman who wants to be the breadwinner Cool. Theoretically it is possible but we all know how likely it is in practice	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:23 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Ok. So assume that women have a one sided defintion of equality and refuse to marry down. How would I go about getting a fair deal? You say I should change; how so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:22 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Maybe tell the woman who rejected me to lower her standards. Eqaulity goes both ways	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:18 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Become the man that women want, So become white and an unnatural looking bodybuilder. Because on any other objective metric I already am. If I was a woman I would be knocking down doors to date me and I would be knocking down doors to date a woman like me	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:18 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Once you do that it'll be all about pumping and dumping for you, and they you can focus on other things in your life. Not my thing. I want a loving wife and kids. I worked hard for it and I earned it and yes I feel scammed and I will be angry that this promised thing was stolen from me and will be till God takes my life away from this world	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:16 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman lazy Not lazy at all. I run, bike, and am quite active	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:02 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman It's better to live alone then to settle for someone who doesn't fit your criteria and would make your life a living hell. Yeah. Well my life sucks regardless. I want love and a family and a life partner and all. Waved in front of me and then stolen	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:02 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Well believe it. I am right here. Had hook up chances which I turned down. (not online; only attractive rich white guys get that; but in school). AMA	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 10:01 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman is to get married early. Well I tried. Nobody is a virgin at 26 I don't mind dating younger Accept the world and master it. As I said in the OP, being a bodybuilding Chad does not interest me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:46 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Didn't you say you're 70 kg at 173 cm? No that was another guy on this post. I am 6'1" and 200 lbs I think	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:44 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Don't get mad at women for being hypergamous, it's just who they are. Uh. Inequality is an issue. This sounds like «Boys will be boys». Hypergamy is a societal problem that needs to be address. «Don't hate your employer for exploiting you; that's just how they are». People have the right to call out inequity, hate on it, and desire to get it fixed. Saying 'this is how it is' is extremely defeatist IMO	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:43 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You want a tradcon wife No. I want a wife with a job disappointing wedding night You mean more enjoyable, meaningful, and special porn addictions. Never watched it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:41 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Men are free of gender roles, Cool. Let me know how I can have a family without having to be a provider. Women can reproduce and have love and kids and all w/o domestic skills; Men would be able to do the same if equality was a thing	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:30 PM
-1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You can't take criticism without accusing people of being sociopaths. I've had enough experience with them to spot them easily now	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:23 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Which is the point of my OP and that it needs to be fixed	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:22 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman men often times want slim, beautiful, younger, pure, etc while they are not even close to such standards. T BS. I want what I put in. Not looking for someome super attractive. Just an educated professional who hasn't slept around like my self.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:22 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman AMS?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:21 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman negatives I am overweight though I am trying to fix that. I am quite active and healthy and all. I guess you can say my high standards are a negative. I am ethnically South Asian as well which I know counts against Men apperance wise. Though to counter that I am tall, dress well, have a good face (IMO) and take care of myself Parents need to stop teaching their kids to do that. It's not natural and you're now well behind the curve. Yeah upbringing was part of it but part of it was that I just wa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:20 PM
4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Socialization. We freed women from gender roles; now let's free Men. Socialize monogamy and dating equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:16 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You're a young kid with a sense of entitlement and a spoiled attitude. And you are a sociopath who kicks people who are down and attacks those for daring to complain I want a fair deal because I bring a lot to the table and deserve what I put in. The system is rigged; hence the vent. The issue is with women; not with me. Forcing me to accept a loosing deal and be reduced to an ATM is not going to solve the problem	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:15 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Lower your standards I deserve a fari deal become more high value, I already bring a lot the table	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:14 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman why I let guy like the OP with his virgin report card take the girls out to dinner, and while she is at dinner, I text her and ask her to meet me for a drink after dinner. Dress nice, smell nice, don't stare at her tits like an idiot and have something more to say than she is pretty. That's not how I act at all.... Keep your insults away from this	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:09 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman No I graduated. When I did I say I am still in school	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:04 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I want a fair deal. I am an educated professional who believed in savng himself and I deserve the same - plain and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:02 PM
5	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Nothing in the world is equal or fair - especially when it comes to dating and sex. That is the problem and it needs to be fixed	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 09:02 PM
4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Spoken like a true sociopath	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 08:59 PM
4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman It's you Ah yes. Victim blaming sociopathy again	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 08:46 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman So according to you Women are selfish sociopath and that is their right and we can't criticize them for it? If they are the pure embodiment of selfishness like you claim (which I disagree with) than they deserve all the hate they can get	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 08:46 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You want a housewife No I don`t. Not at all	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 08:44 PM
7	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman it isn't their problem and why should they bother with you when they have a bevy of men who have no problem, are fun and are sexually experienced? Because eqaulity. Women get this support so should Men. Plain and simple. Don't blame Men for wanting equality; blame Women for having a one-sided defintion of it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 08:41 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Congratulations on your marriage! Wish I could have had a life partner at 16.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:43 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Happy to hear that!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:42 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Because the men will get mad about it but still pay. Because are still systemically opressed into being held into gender roles	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:39 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Same here 100%. Though most guys I know disagree for some reason	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:38 PM
5	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman No. I want substance and will look for comptability, intelligence, kindness, purity - the same stuff I am now. Nice Guy >>>>> Chad	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:38 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Do you mind helping me out? I'll pay you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:34 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Nice guys like you are so draw by the lines, so boring, devoid of any life energy, dominance and power. So you are admitting that women care about looks status money than character or compatilibty?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:29 PM
4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I had chances; never met anyone who I was interested in and vice-verca / met my requirements. Objectively I bring a lot to the table	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:26 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Yes. Cause being gay is the solution /s	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:26 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You are not making any sense. According to you; women are inherntly evil. If that is the case, shouldn't I blame them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 07:24 PM
-1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Meanwhile, if you're looking for something to blame, blame thirsty men, Assuming your premise is accurate; that is literally blaming the victim. If Women are all satan spawn like you claim than I shouldn't I blame the demonic satan spawn You can not expect women to take responsibility or accountability for their actions dude Why? Are Women robots? People who cause problems need to be held accountable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:35 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman mpossible that she has the sort of job yet where she can provide for you to be a househusband or stay-at-home dad or whatever. True. But she will in a few years If you aren't willing to use your resources as a tradeoff, it's going to be hard for you. I mean I want a fair deal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:33 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Nice! Wishing you all the best!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:32 PM
4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman It is generally difficult to meet people after you graduate Oh yeah 100% just that they need to be generally monogamous and not have slept with “too many” people (which likely would depend on context) Yeah. A virgin is preferred but not a hard line. I’d say trying to go to conferences for your profession or networking events Thanks for the suggestion; not sure how many people are there for dating though	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:25 PM
5	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Not intentionally. More like just psychologically unable to. I regret it but I also know that I literally couldn't	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:24 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You seem like a nice gentleman! I really appreciate that thanks! Truth is though, circumstances have made me bitter but I appreciate kindness and generally operate with kindness. Just am outwardly bitter time to time when venting As a man you’re lucky due to the fact that you have many years of fertility left, True. But it is not ideal. I hate having to spend my 20s alone; only to end up with someone who spent her 20s sleeping aroun and now wants to settle. I already spent a lot of my years on s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:15 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Was but left faith 20; dabbled around in various other faiths on and off and faith is not sepaking to me ATM	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:11 PM
-2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I live in Canada; don't really want to import anyone... I hate how bad things are and the reality of the world we are in. And why I hate a being a Man and wish I was a Woman. Guess I need to go join a religious community. Cause everything about America is true in Canada re: hypergamy, promiscuity, etc. Idk how you will find a complete virgin that's 25, 26 & has all the dream traits of a fantasy women you want, IDK. I did everything correctly and deserve what I put in. I bring a lot and am not as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 06:10 PM
8	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman good looking When did I even mention looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:46 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman That is true LOL. I’ll be honest I see a lot of my old self in you, Tell me more What do you look like? (it matters, I’m sorry) Its's unfortunate how much looks matter. The pro for me is that I am 6'1" and I think I have a good facial features. Well I like the way I look. I dress well (more formalish with button down and khakis). Again this is subjective as people like different styles but I am happy with my apperance on this end. The cons is that I am South Asian and am overweight. Not obese or…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:44 PM
-1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Women want no part of a gender equal society. That is part of the problem; Women have a one sided defintion of equality; hence I rather be a woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:33 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman So while you are waiting for them to honor feminism your fellow brothers are stepping up and approaching them. What mkaes you think I am not approaching?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:27 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Lol so you want a good girl who saved herself for marriage but is willing to go to work to support you while you take care of the kids. That is the ideal What's in this arrangement for her exactly? A smart, caring, hardworking Man who is good with kids. Women get this deal all the time; in a gender equal society a Man should as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:26 PM
2	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman No. Everyone who knows me says I am. Just like qualified people can't find work many times; it is possible for qualified people to not find love. My lived experience proves it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:24 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman They’re out there Haven't met any. 4 years ago? Imahine someone who was everything you ever wanted waved in front of you. I am hurt but I am over her in the sense that I want to date someone else and move on. Just can't find the person for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:20 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Women rarely make the first move, Exactly. Nothing is stopping them; they just have a one sided defintion of equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:18 PM
-3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I don't mind dating a few years younger. I did the right things; I should not be punished for it. If they slept around; they need to best me in other ways like outearning me or something to make up for it	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:17 PM
-3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman From my personal experience, chances are high that it's the first one. Ah yes. Classi victim blaming. All good family-oriented men I know get taken like hot cakes. Not from my experience. No LTR	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:16 PM
9	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman but are only getting around to this at age 26? I've been looking since 20. Not interested in relationships in HS. Never had a relationship because of various complicated factors but I have been looking. For example, after my dream girl rejected me, I was too distraught to consider anyone else so I missed a great candidate because I was unable to enter a relationship with anyone at the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:10 PM
6	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Even if I have to deal with unqualified workers; I rather say no to them than be a job seeker	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:06 PM
15	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Well forgive me for seeing Women as people to build a relationdhip with and not objects to pump and dump	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:05 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman You mentioned you want a professional but most professional women don’t plan on doing over the top domestic work. Yeah. I don"t wnat a houswife. I'm good with kids; I can do that part When do you think is a woman’s best years? School and virginity	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:05 PM
5	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Why have you broken up with your girlfriend? You haven't really explained this part. Never were together. Guess she firendzone / rejected me. Story is a bit complicated. but the older you get the less chances you have to meet someone who fits them So I get denied love; and then get punished for being denied love. FML but I'm rather skeptical about it. I mean I can swear on my life I am what I say I am; not sure how else I can prove it. I can also think of several good Men who are struggling. Rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 05:02 PM
7	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman If you are a man worth something, in looks, personality or status, you will be doing the deciding. Yeah they say that but from my experience women have the upper hand in both cases	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:59 PM
5	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Pure women have higher standards AGree. And I bring a lot to the table and want someone who is equal or so as well!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:56 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman e live in a time where you can explore that through cross dressing or transitioning. Not the same and that has more problems. Guess Black people should just get melanin reduction surgery right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:54 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Do you not have friends or family, or some sort of a social life? I do but not as much as I would like. I also just moved to a town where I know no one	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:54 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman because you're very much expected to have sex with the guy afterwards. Refuse. Or split the bill. At least you get an outing!	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:53 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Wrong. An employer can recruit an employee.. Just like a Woman can make the first move if she wants	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:52 PM
5	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman en just up your standards. That is an issue. Men don't have standars and are criticized for having standards; meaning that is easier for Women to get better deals. But even Men with no standards can`t find love. That is how rigged life is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:51 PM
3	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Better than nothing. At very least if I am bored I can get a free dinner and outing and have someone to talk to. Would tremendously help with the depression and lonelines I face	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:49 PM
-4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I know a lot of Women (family, friends, acquaintances, etc.); not one has been raped or sexual assaulted. But I know one Man who has been falsely accused	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:47 PM
0	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman I decided that marriage wasn't for me - mainly because I have no interest to father kids. Instead I focused on my career and maximizing my freedom. While I have regrets like everyone, never getting married isn't one of them. I'm happy that you found a path that works for you! But like I said, that is not the path for me; I want the loving relationship from school to death that was promised to but stolen from me because of the sexism in our soceity. I want a family and kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:44 PM
-4	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman did she feel the same about you? Because of deep rooted sexism on how Men are supposed to out do the woman in looks-status-money. If the genders were reversed we would have been married; she no real reason to reject me. She thought well of me and we got along well and were quite perfect for each other. But since we live in a sexist world and Women are less likely to feel attraction / the spark or whatever we are not together	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:42 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman Pretty much LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:40 PM
1	Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a Woman No it is not just hooking up. Because Women get more chances to meet people online; and because of regular rewards they have an incentive to keep going; they are more likely to get actual relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 04:39 PM