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| 20 | Petition for Protection from Abuse, wants me to leave the house.Guys always think they know their wives and are always proven wrong. I don't put anything past anyone. I will never again be the type of guy that says, "My would never..."! Every time I hear someone say that, I just cringe. Because I know they are about to get screwed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 02:04 PM |
| 16 | Who is she?I know you are hurting, but your wife doesn't love you and probably never did. Any time your wife will do things for someone else that she won't do for or with you, she has or had stronger feelings for that person! There is no other explanation. If I find myself in this situation, I would divorce her and do us both a favor. There is nothing to workout or work on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 06:28 PM |
| 11 | How did you handle your ex’s birthday every year (during and after divorce).You're divorcing, meaning you two are returning to being strangers. Why would you celebrate the birthday, or anything, of someone who chose not to know you anymore? That just seems weird. It's like you're trying to pretend there is still your SO. It's best to just move on! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | My (34m) wife (33f) Came home for the holidays and told me that she is no longer in love with me. Is there a way to save this marriage?OP, join a gym and start working out EVERYDAY, fix your diet (Persian Food and Salads only), and drink only water and protein shakes. Also, get into therapy. Both will do wonders for you! Become your best self. By the time she comes back, I guarantee she will reconsider the situation. But even if you don't want to stay, you will be ready to date, and won't have a problem getting women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 09:38 PM |
| 2 | I won, supposedly.I stopped dating 18 year olds when I turned 20! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 07:13 PM |
| 7 | I want to sell the house and split 50-50. But STBXW’s dad wants to help pay the mortgage for her so she can stay in our house. Would his payments to her reduce spousal support calculations?This 100%! Playing Mr Nice Guy nor benefits or impresses anyone! Your stbxw looks at your Mr Nice Guy routine as a green light to take advantage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/25 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Would it help our separation if I got my wife something for Valentine’s Day?Valentines Day is a romantic holiday! It's bad taste and looks weird giving a Valentines gift to a woman who says she doesn't love you. Why would you call that guy insecure??? So it's insecure to tell a guy to not make a fool of himself and stop begging? Weird! Tell me, lover-man, what do you think his soon to be ex will think of his gift? What do you think she will think of him? No wonder you guys are in the situation you're in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/25 02:19 AM |
| 2 | STBXW wants to date after she moves outIf this is what she wants, there's nothing you can do. If you want to be with her, this is the way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/25 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Did you guys give your STBXW the courtesy of letting her know you were dating again?Nope! Why would I? She is no longer in my life so I didn't tell her anything if it didn't directly purtain to our daughter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/12/24 01:33 AM |
| 3 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?How is ww getting even when OP isn't the one that cheated? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/24 10:44 PM |
| 11 | Leaving my pregnant wifeSo many adults lose sight of the fact that you have a life to live as well. It's NOT only about the child. If you go back, you will regret it, and your relationship will end in divorce anyway. She is the one who created this entire situation. The plan was for her to join you. Don't allow yourself to be bullied out of your dreams and aspirations. Stick to your plan. She can also stick to the original plan and join you in the new city. If she refuses, divorce her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Divorce - Sole custody.One should always be the best parent you can be, but you can't lose sight of yours and your partners lives! It can JUST be about your kids. They will be leaving your home in not too many years, then what? You tanked your relationship! I kinda see why your wife is leaving. Remember, you only live once! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/24 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Mandatory DNA test at birth?🤯🤔 Knowing your child is actually your's! What a stupid question! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/24 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Divorce and splitting up assets - this sucks.That wouldn't make sense. He is paying her the 150k. So OP would pay the $1,665.31 per month. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Divorce and splitting up assets - this sucks.Sell the house. Not worth it! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/24 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Alimony for short-term marriage while stbx wife is dating her boyfriend and living with meThis is why you stay married and do as they do to you. Start dating. Be indifferent and live like you're single. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Need help with an exit plan/moralePlease stop saying "emotional affair." There is no way two adults are spending that time together to hug and hold hands. You are gaslighting yourself into believing she isn't having sex with her AP. They went on vacation together for God's sake! There is no way this is an EA. It's all PA! Divorce!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/24 04:26 AM |
| 4 | Is it worth getting married?No! Not anymore. Women fall out of love quickly, and women cheat like crazy these days because it is so easy for them to find a willing partner. I am married now (#2, #1 cheated), but if this doesn't work out, I will never do it again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/10/24 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Ex wife keeps bringing new boyfriend to my houseNext time, go out and ask him to come in and speak. Have a talk. Be very inviting. Tell him you just waguyo get to know the guy who will be spending time with your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 12:51 PM |
| 12 | Ex wife keeps bringing new boyfriend to my houseYou will hurt her more, actually crush her soul by acting indifferent. Be friendly to the guy, and it will completely annoy her. She will even start to dislike her guy because she isn't getting the reaction she wants from you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/24 12:46 PM |
| 11 | After mediation in WA (no-fault state): 56% and $3,700 per month to herAvoid marriage altogether. It's a one-sided dead institution. I'm in my second marriage. If this doesn't work out, I WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN! It is legalized slavery of guys. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/24 10:11 PM |
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