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| 3 | Depp-Heard verdict live: Johnny Depp wins defamation case against Amber HeardI think the specific thing was that he was being malicious when he said it was a hoax, in the sense that he was pissed off a lashing out via media...which is fair enough | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 50 | Depp-Heard verdict live: Johnny Depp wins defamation case against Amber HeardUnfortunately, as you say, violence against men isn't even entertained! It's straight up ignored! She should be prosecuted for assault and perjury, but we all know she won't | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 07:57 PM |
| 151 | Depp-Heard verdict live: Johnny Depp wins defamation case against Amber HeardAs happy I am that her abuse of him has been exposed, things aren't over. Heard: "It sets back the clock to a time when a woman who spoke up and spoke out could be publicly shamed and humiliated. It sets back the idea that violence against women is to be taken seriously." She's an abuser, still trying to pull the sympathy vote | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/06/22 07:48 PM |
| 9 | Johnny Depp wins women's abuse organization's support in Amber Heard trialEspecially given that in another TinMan post, it linked statistics which show that in 70% of non-reciprocal abuse relationships, women were actually the aggressor | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/05/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Do our men deserve better?I've reached a point where I just don't know how to be a man. It seems incompatible to be male and to be good, and I just don't understand how to live in a situation like that When men are murdered in the street, abused by a wide range of people, and even in a publicised trial, a woman admits to abusing her husband and she's getting away with it When governments and media support this, and feminists just cry "patriarchy" every few minutes...how does a man live and be good? I just don't know | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/05/22 12:19 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about the gov.uk advert airing at the minute?I think this is exactly the problem at the moment. Women think that people should always come to their aid. Men know that we are more likely to be victims of violent crime and nobody will stand up for us or protect us | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/22 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Is there any way to have a productive (or at least without personal attacks or severing otherwise healthy friendship) conversation when someone says "Men have it way easier than women" ??Oh I completely agree. It's a good conversation to have, but we do need to change minds...but not at the moment. Just be a supportive friend first, and try and talk about this later on | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/22 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Is there any way to have a productive (or at least without personal attacks or severing otherwise healthy friendship) conversation when someone says "Men have it way easier than women" ??I think the stats are questionable at best. If you're being careful about which battles you pick (as in this case), that's not one I'd lead with | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 15 | Is there any way to have a productive (or at least without personal attacks or severing otherwise healthy friendship) conversation when someone says "Men have it way easier than women" ??I think the empathy gap is the big one that you may get some headway with. Statistics abound that men are more likely to be victims of all violent crime, except sexual, yet we get zero empathy or support, male victims are ignored by the media (despite the aforementioned stats), and are even told to put ourselves at risk for a woman. A sensible friend may be receptive to at least the idea of that | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on victim blaming of a male survivor from the mensrights subDoesn't mean we should encourage it and sink to their level. I personally believe that kind of attitude undermines a lot of what we stand for | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageGood, it's a reliable source | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Treating men and women equally has caused outragehttps://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/crimeandjustice/articles/thenatureofviolentcrimeinenglandandwales/yearendingmarch2020 stranger violence showed the largest difference in victimisation between men and women (1.2% compared with 0.4% respectively) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageI'm not sure off the top of my head, I'll have to look later. Probably England and Wales | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageI don't have the statistics to hand, but the Office of National Statistics reports that stranger violence accounted for 1.2% of violent crimes for men, 0.4% for women. I can't remember the specifics, but it was along those lines | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Why are everyone's "solutions" for men just rebranded traditionalism?This, exactly this! I think men, as a movement, need to start calling out these things for the inequal misandry that they are, but doing it in such a way that we only criticise the selfishness and greed of the people described. That way, we start being more mainstream, and start getting some actual support to affect change | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageI think that would just get the men ignored as incels and misogynists. I don't think society is ready for that yet. I reckon we should start being more vocal, and earn a bit of mainstream support first | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 05:41 PM |
| 5 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageYep! Completely ignoring how unsafe men are in public spaces...but that doesn't win votes or sell products | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 01:17 PM |
| 18 | Does anybody else dislike how normalised violence towards men is in Movies and TV shows?I think that show is probably the most offensive and insulting show I have ever watched. Usually the misandry has some veil over it, but this was blatant and constant. It was a repulsive show | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Treating men and women equally has caused outragePrecisely. Women are weak and need protecting when it suits them | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Treating men and women equally has caused outragePrecisely. Can't have an army without expendable cannon fodder. men have entered the chat | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageMaybe, but most wouldn't. I think I speak for most men when I say that we'd much rather carry on with our normal business, without being sent off to war or prison | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 11:46 AM |
| 43 | Does anybody else dislike how normalised violence towards men is in Movies and TV shows?There was a TV show called The Fall, and it was just disgusting. The lead actress made a point that every man was a potential rapist or at fault for a murder. She had several lines denigrating men for being men, the most prominent of which was "men are a genetic defect" (seriously, this was an entire thing). And this is supposed to be empowering and progressive | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 11:43 AM |
| 9 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageUnfortunately, I think governments would find that acceptable. I believe there is a significant prison sentence for avoiding the draft | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageYup, but blokes are expendable | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 11:29 AM |
| 11 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageThat pisses me off so much. Statistics aside, basing policy on how one feels is ridiculous,for no other reason than this person obviously hasn’t considered how a man would feel. Some guy could easily be shitting himself, stuck out there alone | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 10:18 AM |
| 24 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageAnd men have a higher risk of being victims of certain crimes, therefore they should, in theory, be prioritised | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 10:17 AM |
| 4 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageAnd this proves it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 10:15 AM |
| 14 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageOh I’m just waiting for my draft letter…me and the boys, sent to die | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 10:12 AM |
| 10 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageThat's actually an interesting point. I wonder how they'd react to that | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 21 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageShe's an MP. They're hardly known for logical thought and factual arguments (yes, cheap shot, I know) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageBreakdown relief service. They send a mechanic out to get you going, or give you a tow | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 11:59 PM |
| 12 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageWomen and men may or may not share the views, that comes a bit too close to generalising by gender for my tastes, but feminists actively push the narrative | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 29 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageIt all goes back to feminists reinforcing gender roles in men. Men must be tough, strong, able to defend themselves and act as protectors for women above all else | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 10:59 PM |
| 42 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageThey said that someone broken down on a motorway gets priority over someone who breaks down in a supermarket carpark, due to the danger of a motorway | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 09:44 PM |
| 33 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageWhy do I think that he won't be charged for such gender discrimination | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 40 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageWell they always have. "Women and children first" springs immediately to mind. And men are still expected to be strong protectors, because 'they're incapable of protecting themselves' /s | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 09:34 PM |
| 107 | Treating men and women equally has caused outrageThey are so close to just straight up saying that men are expendable, especially when women are involved | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 57 | Why are everyone's "solutions" for men just rebranded traditionalism?That's the thing that has pissed me off ever since I started paying attention to men's issues. Feminists always talk about smashing gender roles for everyone... Except it's not for everyone. It's smashing gender roles for women, but keeping men as strong, stoic protectors. We are expected to back walk alone in the dark after making sure a woman gets home safely. Fun fact: a knife to the torso does not care what gender you are. Yet we are supposed to act as protectors (without any training in mar… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 10 | Responding to the tragic killing of Ashling Murphy, Professor Sam McConkey suggests that men should be required to have a license to enter "social spheres."Bullshit like this is what radicalises young men. This is what turns young men hateful | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedI normally am, but occasionally a rant is required. As you say, incredibly nuanced issues. It's tough for me to say that women's issues and men's issues should be kept separate, for no other reason than the different levels of exposure and support each receives. However, I do take you point, and occasionally, I'd agree | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedI agree. But I think people are now migrating from selfishly shouting "but what about men" to "actually, if you think about it, men have some real issues here" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedThe problem with that is that you'd be preaching to the converted. At least this way, you'd post to people who are already active in social issues, and in the mire of shit and abuse they throw, you might just convert one or two quiet lurkers | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 25 | Toxic Masculinity as a Class SignifierWell isn't that the bigger issue when it comes to "the patriarchy"? It's not about men having power over women, it's the upper classes having power over the lower classes. Yes, most of the upper classes are men, but they are vastly outnumbered by working class men. So many feminist arguments aren't gender issues, but class issues | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedThat's clear to me, so I'm not even going to try to bother. Especially since I had a man slide into my DMs with a vast array of insults and profanity, and claim that only men commit murder, and all men are "scum of the earth" and we should all "rot in hell" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedThat's exactly the point. They don't see victims and attackers, they see men only...and they aren't victims | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/01/22 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedI think you've hit the nail on the head there | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedYou do make an excellent point. And an oddly reassuring one, thank you | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:57 PM |
| 11 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedDamn, I didn't know about that. That's awful! But the stats do make for an interesting thought piece, albeit a morbid one | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 16 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedAhh but FGM is done in male dominated cultures, and the women performing it are victims themselves of an oppressive patriarchal machine! I reckon their mental gymnastics would make them brand me racist as well as sexist if I tried that one! It would be interesting though | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:43 PM |
| 21 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedOh definitely. It was a male dominated climate that drove the woman to commit the murder, so men are ultimately responsible | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:41 PM |
| 18 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedYou say that, but that's exactly what they're saying. That's 100% their exact argument | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:38 PM |
| 22 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedSee I'd probably agree with you there, but I heavily suspect that a frightening number of people will say "yes". And then do their mental gymnastics to support their bullshit argument | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 15 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedI completely agree with you, which brings me back to me original issue...why bother when there's clearly nothing we can do about it. We are a fringe group, and mainstream support is simply laughable and/or condemned | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:34 PM |
| 19 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedThe problem there is that MRA groups online generally lean too far the other way. This sub, tinmen and Humen are some of the few that focus on men, without disregarding women and their issues. Unfortunately, this attitude that a lot of feminists have mean that random posts pop up frequently on various social media, and it's extremely difficult to avoid, let alone educate them | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:33 PM |
| 15 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedI know, I've been seeing it more and more. And if we are honest, there is very little response we have that can compete with that. It gives them an excuse to ignore thousands of murder victims out of hand, and focus on their own victimhood | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:22 PM |
| 23 | Mention men, and you're instantly dismissedIt takes a lot of mental gymnastics, but boy do they manage it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/01/22 10:20 PM |
| 23 | The idea of the man fluI believe there is a very vague nugget of truth to it, in that women have generally stronger immune systems because their bodies are designed to protect them and a foetus, but still that's not really the point. I always saw it as a bit of a laugh and a joke; men are generally seen as these super-tough people who can weather anything, but we get the sniffles and suddenly we need pampering. Men and women all laugh, then we all carry on as normal, because nobody takes it remotely seriously...and th… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | It’s coming up to a year since the tragic Everard murder- does everybody think the misandry will rise again on the anniversary of said murder?Yeah I did, but I'm starting to think that it's more her public persona that I dislike. This was her speaking as a mother, about her son, and you can't not respect that. There is an element of truth in that. With lockdown going on, we focused on anything else, no matter how horrible, just to relieve the monotony. I think it will happen, and it will be vitriolic, but I doubt it will be as lasting. It will be an intense spike for a week, and then calm down as everyone does what they do best...they… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/21 10:48 PM |
| 11 | It’s coming up to a year since the tragic Everard murder- does everybody think the misandry will rise again on the anniversary of said murder?"It’s interesting- Davina McCall made a statement about how male mental health could be severely affected by that narrative at the time (which makes sense as the mother of a son)- the backlash she got for it was enormous and I really don’t understand. To me, she was the only celeb talking any bloody sense!!!! But I worry that this event will be back over the mainstream media in a few months time, and that the misandry arising from it will get worse due to it being an anniversary." Copied from OP… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Why is the burden of knowing "good" from "bad" feminism placed solely on men?Well said! I do agree that feminism can be a force for good (Suffragettes and the second wave in the 60s had a good current), but it's as much a victim of misinformation and dogmatic nonsense as anything. I also agree that it's ridiculous that the onus is on us to decide what is good and bad about feminism, especially since the moment we voice an opinion on the subject, we get shot down...hard. It's designed so that we can't win, we just have to sit down and shut up and take the wave of shit Bei… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 31 | It’s coming up to a year since the tragic Everard murder- does everybody think the misandry will rise again on the anniversary of said murder?I reckon the misandry will ramp right up again, because it is currently unchecked. Governments, NGOs and the media will at best turn a blind eye, and at worst actively encourage misandry. Look at the McCall thing. She said innocent men and boys were having a hard time, and she got a wave of shit for it...because to these people, there is no such thing as an innocent man. We are rapists, predators waiting to happen, or enablers and there is no inbetween or exception. The best thing you can do is … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/12/21 01:22 PM |
| 50 | Why catcalling happens?Interesting idea. Men are so vilified and belittled if they get rejected, that it's better to be seen as a dick than a failure (not excusing it, just proposing a possible reason) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 9 | Proposal- the creation of political party for male issues in the United States.Men's Union. Professional, without a name that bears the normal MRA stigma. I like that one (albeit I'm a Brit, so I have no real vote) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/12/21 08:49 PM |
| 4 | What would it take to get men to protest?This! I don't think men could have any meaningful protest. If we even identify as pro-male (Heaven forbid you say you're a MRA) then a wave of shit comes your way. Any protest would only serve to hurt men, and misandrist feminists would twist it to say "see, the selfish men can't handle laws that protect women! Muh misogyny!" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/12/21 11:09 AM |
| 30 | "Equal rights means equal lefts" - no, men don't love any excuse to hit women. You just have zero experience living as a man.The problem is that society has forgotten that men can be victims. To these people who post this, it doesn't even occur to them that a man is genuinely defending himself. They don't see a victim, they see an assailant, because they've been conditioned to think this way | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | A comparison of two movements.Yeah for sure, I've seen things like that too. They intentionally create fights and further the divide. They clearly have no interest in even entertaining another viewpoint, and that's shameful | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | A comparison of two movements.Exactly. It's a typical bullying mentality, that unfortunately has no degree of policing. If anything, it's actively encouraged. For some it's not conscious, but that's also not an excuse (not that I'm saying you're excusing them, of course) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 04:36 PM |
| 7 | Chad Read was shot to death for exercising his visitation rights to see his sonJust another example of why everyone in the US having such easy access to guns is a ridiculous idea | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 10:43 AM |
| 5 | A comparison of two movements.I think it started out as intentional. I can kinda understand that. But I think it has snowballed past that now, and they're just unironically hateful | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/12/21 12:29 AM |
| 27 | A comparison of two movements.That's exactly the point, they're becoming the very thing they profess to hate...with a complete lack of self-awareness. And they're pushing previously "confused" boys into this kind of incelery | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/21 07:32 PM |
| 52 | A comparison of two movements.Jesus. Just seeing these quotes, and knowing that they aren't all coming from crackpots and lunatics (not saying they're not idiots, but psychologists and academics) is bloody depressing. It would be so much easier if they were just 14 year old girls being basement-dwellers...but they're not. Eugh, I can see why anti-feminism is skyrocketing | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/21 07:15 PM |
| 36 | Menslib talking bollocks about false accusationsThere's a TV show on Netflix called Criminal: United Kingdom. S02E02 deals with a case where a man is accused of rape, and the episode is an interrogation of him, and they debate whether the accusation is false. I would recommend giving that a watch. While it is fictional, it shows how the police are actively out to get him (despite innocent until proven guilty) and makes a point that even if he doesn't get charged, the accusation will never leave him | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/12/21 01:12 PM |
| 55 | Have we excluded women in research?It's good that the WHO seem to be aware of the issue. Hopefully they can do more to encourage research on men's issues. Somehow, I doubt the UN will give the tiniest shit about it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/12/21 03:41 PM |
| 15 | Mike Pompeo, a conservative in the Trump administration who pushed for war with Iran in 2020, comes out in favor of leaving in place the current discriminatory selective service system.Prove their innocence for one. We are seen as abusers and predators until we prove we aren't. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsI know exactly what you mean, particularly with Trek. My father is no kind of role model, so I looked to people like Picard. I have a feeling it will. I watched a show based on the legend of King Arthur, and the lead was female and Arthur was relegated to being a supporting character...in the most inspirational and famous story in British history | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/21 06:08 PM |
| 14 | Gavin Newlands (Scottish National Party MP) uses International Men's Day to rant feminist ideologyIt's completely vote pandering. They shit on men as a group because it's a) easy, and b) a vote-winner. Pointing out that working-class men have been historically disadvantaged, and men are primary victims of war (despite whatever Hillary says) will kill his MP career | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/21 12:56 PM |
| 23 | Gavin Newlands (Scottish National Party MP) uses International Men's Day to rant feminist ideologyGavin Newlands, who also said that all men need to take responsibility for the misogynist attitudes and violence perpetrated by men. Somehow I doubt he'll say that all Muslims need to take responsibility for terror attacks...because that would be generalising and wrong | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsI have never found any real role models in the media. Particularly because of my lack of male role models growing up, I've noticed a distinct lack of them on TV. It's even more apparent at the moment, since females are really pushed forward as guides for young women, but men are seemingly forgotten about. When it comes to gender, the only important thing about male characters is their negative aspects...it's never about their positives | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/11/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsIt's a very thin veil, and it fools nobody. But it sells...for some reason. But I find that female led versions are rubbish. Ghostbusters, Oceans 8, What Men/Women Want...they are crap at best, misandrist at worst | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/11/21 10:38 AM |
| 12 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsAgreed. I generally don't mind the changing in Doctor Who, because both the Doctor and companions have been positive role models for each gender, and Bradley Walsh has been one of the few male role models (despite some godawful writing). But boys nowadays have very few. Some people may think this trivial, but young boys are only told that men are the cause of the world's ills, both in media and fiction. In 10-20 years time, there will be a generation of broken men who hate themselves | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsVery true! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 21 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsI completely agree. And something I often find when the detective/victim is female, is that the man who is the killer does it for an anti-female reason...further instilling this belief that all men are just misogynist predators | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 05:38 PM |
| 39 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsBy his own logic, we need black people to take responsibility for the crimes of people with their skin colour, and Muslims to take responsibility for terror attacks...except that sounds a bit racist | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Female replacements deprive boys of good role modelsI know, and I agree, but I thought a disclaimer to be sensible, especially given the standard reaction in the UK when you agree with a Tory. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/11/21 04:15 PM |
| 12 | Does anybody else get the feeling that support for men's issues and advocacy is slowly and silently growing?Baby steps! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Pleasantly surprised today in Tesco, to hear an ad about International Men’s DayBloody hell, that's genuinely a big deal! For a major chain like Tesco to openly admit that they donate to a pro-male charity...it's unheard-of | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/11/21 03:05 AM |
| 15 | Google To Celebrate Men's In An Interesting Way.I enjoy the party. Very amusing! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Feminist "Journalist" says that physical fitness creates a cycle of toxic masculinity and is used as government propaganda to oppress women, and that men must be castrated in order to have a safe and happy societyFeminists: "Today I'm offended by \checks notes** fitness" | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Whats the difference between this sub and /mensright sub?While I like some of the content there, there's significantly fewer incels and misogynistic here. We won't get anywhere by hating women and being what 2X say we are | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/11/21 10:56 AM |
| 9 | Can we do a men’s day meme blitz?I support this idea | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Has Feminism gone to extreme?No, she doesn't | /r/MensRights | 10/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Has Feminism gone to extreme?We know it's not a threat, but it's also not a joke | /r/MensRights | 10/11/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Has Feminism gone to extreme?#killallwomen Just a joke tho | /r/MensRights | 10/11/21 12:59 PM |
| 38 | Can Feminism Evolve?I think that last slide is the biggest issue feminists have, and the biggest issue a lot of us have with feminism. It's the idea that sticking up for men's issues somehow erases or denies that women have issues too; the other side to this is that feminists will deny that men have issues because of the mistaken belief that it might ignore the issues faced by women. We need a modern movement which recognises that both have issues, and we support each other. This is why I think movements often desc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/21 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Male feminists, why?The issue is that there are so many different brands of feminism. Some of them are decent and believe in true equality and will support men, but it's uncommon. Most are reactionary, radical and misandrist | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Hey would you guys mind singing this petition to save international men's daySame here. Seeing crap like this sometimes makes me wonder whether it's even worth bothering with men's issues. Sometimes I'll just settle to take the accusation that all men are predators and misandry is a myth | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Hey would you guys mind singing this petition to save international men's dayI agree, however male support is at an all time low. There are a hell of a lot of hurdles to get over before that becomes even a remote possibility | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/11/21 12:02 PM |
| 14 | Hey would you guys mind singing this petition to save international men's dayYou say that, but the University of York cancelled events related to IMD in 2015 because of an open letter from 200 people. Despite the fact that a counter-petition garnered over 4000 signatures. They have not had any events since. Also the UN does not celebrate IMD, and instead has "World Toilet Day" on the 19th of November | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/11/21 10:43 AM |
| 9 | Rant: Most feminists do not give two shits about male problems, they just dismiss them and redirect them to forward their own agendas.Thing is this is absolutely true. Take a 10 second gander on something like 2X, and you'll see exactly how little they care | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:34 AM |
| 3 | What she really means : Among civillian caualities, 9.6% were girls 13% were women, 20.4% were boys and 57% were menWhat she's saying there is that the number of women, female children and male children is all outweighed by the number of men...but that doesn't make headlines | /r/MensRights | 07/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenExactly. Particularly because it got me out of the office during a lunch hour. Yeah, that's a bonus | /r/MensRights | 07/11/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenJust because you’ve been lucky enough for it not to happen to you is irrelevant. It happens, fairly frequently. It’s happened to me, a guy in his mid-20s who was reading a book in a park. It’s awful | /r/MensRights | 07/11/21 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenI never said the only thing, because it definitely isn’t. It’s simply a factor | /r/MensRights | 07/11/21 10:47 AM |
| 24 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenThat might be a better angle | /r/MensRights | 07/11/21 01:18 AM |
| 38 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenBut how much would that lawyer cost. How long would it take. Can they guarantee a settlement. Will it cover the emotional distress of litigation. And as you say, nobody will hear about it...so it won't deter people the next time this happens. I don't disagree with you, I just mean the whole situation would be bollocks | /r/MensRights | 07/11/21 12:37 AM |
| 176 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenThey'll just say they were looking out for the child. No way a man would win a gender discrimination suit against that | /r/MensRights | 06/11/21 11:52 PM |
| 54 | Misandry and pedophilia hysteria harm childrenShit like this is starting to put me off having children. I won't be allowed to care for them equally, because of stuff like this, but then I'll be called a deadbeat because I don't pull my weight | /r/MensRights | 06/11/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Because Men aren't abused and killed by their Female partners? For a movement that claims to fight for equality, there seems to be a lot of animosity towards half the population. We live in a sad world, where shitting on Men is empowering to Women.I'm surprised it hasn't been already | /r/MensRights | 05/11/21 05:03 PM |
| 9 | Because Men aren't abused and killed by their Female partners? For a movement that claims to fight for equality, there seems to be a lot of animosity towards half the population. We live in a sad world, where shitting on Men is empowering to Women.The problem we face is that when we do speak out, we just get shouted down and branded as sexist. As soon as that label is floated about, nobody will stick up for us for fear of being guilty by association. There is no chance of a group of men (and/or women) banding together to argue in support of a male issue without being crucified and immediately dismissed. The only support we get is from websites and subs like this. The best we can hope for is being considered a weird fringe redpill, the wor… | /r/MensRights | 05/11/21 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Because Men aren't abused and killed by their Female partners? For a movement that claims to fight for equality, there seems to be a lot of animosity towards half the population. We live in a sad world, where shitting on Men is empowering to Women.Systematic oppression...like the male only draft where millions of men died from battle, PTSD-related suicide and poor conditions? FGM, as opposed to things like castration and circumcison? Femicide...as opposed to >80% of murder victims being men? | /r/MensRights | 05/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | How come we don't advocate for more men to work in female-dominated fields?Because in a female dominated area, it is seen as highly progressive so there is no impetus to change. Not to mention that most of these jobs have an anti-male/pro-female bias anyway (e.g. school teacher). There is still the idea of a man in a primary school as "creepy". Any attempt to change this will be met with sentences such as "whenever we try and support women, men always co-opt it to make it about them". And that sentence will immediately leave any argument dead in the water. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/21 06:28 PM |
| 18 | Female Serial Killers and Murderers seem to be downplayed and outright ignored when compared to male serial killersA similar thing happened in the UK with Myra Hindley and Rose West. Both were vicious and sadistic killers, and they operated alongside male partners. Hindley was called "the most evil woman in Britain". Both Hindley and West were considered by criminologists as the dominant partners in the crimes (with Rose actively sexually assaulting her victims). Despite this, there were calls for both of them to be released, and Hindley in particular had a huge support-base. Funnily enough, Ian Brady and Fr… | /r/MensRights | 27/10/21 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Update: Facebook restored my post after challengingOh for sure! | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 01:39 PM |
| 8 | Update: Facebook restored my post after challengingThat’s a genuine surprise | /r/MensRights | 25/10/21 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Posting about feminist hypocrisy is against Facebook's community standardsSo far I’ve not experienced that | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Posting about feminist hypocrisy is against Facebook's community standardsWe know, but it doesn't stop us trying | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 10:54 PM |
| 39 | Posting about feminist hypocrisy is against Facebook's community standardsThat’s the problem, you can show the obvious hypocrisy here, but there’s no way of appealing the ban. It gets taken down, but there’s nothing you can do to convince the Zuccbots that it should remain up. So here we are being objectified, and bugger all anyone can do about it | /r/MensRights | 24/10/21 01:30 PM |
| 49 | Why was there so little media covarege when it turned out that amber heard was the one who abused jonhy depp?Exactly this. In summary, anyone who says that a man is a victim will be crucified by 95% of media and social media. And any paper/company that says it will be hailed as paragons of sexism, their reputations destroyed and their business obliterated | /r/MensRights | 20/10/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | “Make women feel safe”It's all of these people who say that we should abandon traditional gender roles, but very quickly say that men need to step up and be protectors and need to do better. I am not a police officer nor a soldier. I am not your personal protective service. I am happy to walk a female friend home at night at risk to myself, but not because she is a woman. I'd do it for any friend (male or female), because I'm that kind of bloke. It should not be an expectation that because I'm a man, I should walk th… | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Punishment inequalityIt really is. But nobody gives a toss when men are victims (even if there are 206+ by a single predator). But one white girl is a victim, and suddenly we realise that the whole policing system needs to be reformed | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Punishment inequalityYeah I see your point. I just disagree with the whole system. And I don't believe he'd have been sentenced to a whole life order if the victim hadn't grabbed national attention. My issue is that someone can rape 206+ men and get 30 years (53 days in prison per rape), and the story is generally forgotten, however the Everard case galvanises a nation into fighting violence against women. These 206+ male victims are entirely forgotten. And I'd be shocked if they are given the same kind of counselli… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 06:02 PM |
| 9 | Punishment inequalityThat's insane. I work at a uni (I'm not a student) which prides itself on being the most progressive in the country, and I've genuinely heard groups say that violence against men is acceptable as punishment for historical offenses. "Now we know how it feels" type of thing | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Question...what is man?Obi-Wan gif That’s why I’m here. Obviously women have no idea what it’s like to be a man, in the same way I have no idea what it’s like to me a woman. It’s why I’d like advice from moderate men with experience, and input from women who don’t use the phrase “KAM”. A somewhat balanced view. That’s a bit basic. And I doubt choosing to bleed for others is exclusively male | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 1 | NOMASWelcome to the internet and/or Reddit! You get used to it sooner or later! 😅 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/05/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | NOMASI didn’t, nor did I disagree | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/05/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | NOMASHence why I say it is not fit for purpose as a modern organisation | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/21 11:48 PM |
| 0 | NOMASI disagree, but that’s not the point of the comment so I won’t argue Either way NOMAS is not fit for purpose as a modern pro-male group, and anyone who tries to use it as a fallback is clutching at straws | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/21 11:04 PM |
| 2 | NOMASTo me, the NOMAS movement was a brilliant counterpart to 2nd wave feminism in the 70s (called M&MC back then). My issue is that the 2nd wave was a genuine force for good which dealt with some very serious issues (and it could be controversial to some women to say that they take what the 2nd wave fought for for granted) and I support it completely, so this as a counterpart is great. Where the argument falls short is the idea of this modern/postmodern/whatever version of feminism we have in 2021, … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone been accused of mansplaining?I call it "The Cardi B Phenomenon" Talk louder than the other person, and you automatically win the argument | /r/MensRights | 25/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone been accused of mansplaining?The problem with "mansplaining" is that it is just used as a word to put down men when they explain something to a woman. Even if they aren't being patronising. In my experience, it's women who like to pretend they know everything and generally have an attitude problem. There was a girl spouting off about the COVID vaccine in a friendship group I was in (not long after the first one got approved in the UK). She was not a scientist, and had no formal science training. I have a Masters degree in P… | /r/MensRights | 25/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Are we the main Men's Rights subreddit now? If that's the case, we need to be careful.I think the best thing to do is keep up with reasonable arguments, instead of just anti-feminist mudslinging (which is why I left r/MensRights) People will always hate MRAs, even when we make an argument in defence of men...solely because we defend men (I recently pointed out that >75% of stranger violence was against men, and got a lot of shit for it) Keep doing our own thing, and keep it moderate. That's all we can do...but they will be watching this sub waiting for the tiniest slipup and then… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/05/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Judge rules that Biden's restaurant relief plan discriminates against male owners.So what I’m getting from this is that someone makes a political flair...but nothing actually happens | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/05/21 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Judge rules that Biden's restaurant relief plan discriminates against male owners.Ok, so what are the after-effects? I'm not US, so I barely pay attention to US politics, but does this change anything? A ruling against the Big Cheese sounds like a pretty big deal | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 12 | Thoughts on r/femaledatingstrategyI spent 10 seconds on there, and already I want to cleanse my brain from their misandrist filth | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 6 | I believe that we should teach boys to protect girls. But would it be appropriate to teach girls to protect boys?Yes. By definition of equality, if we teach one side to protect the other, then we must teach the other side to return protection Otherwise you're just enforcing the outdated idea that men must be protectors (potentially putting themselves at risk of serious harm) and women must be protected at the expense of men Not only does it reinforce the idea that men are supposed to be rough and tough, it puts women forward as weak and worth defending, and stops them from defending themselves and/or male … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 9 | The difference between men and women's social groups, or why men feel like they don't know bad men and women feel the oppositeI have been unfortunate enough to know a rapist. He was a bloke who would feed alcohol to a girl until she said yes (fun fact, I know a girl who did the same to me, but that's a separate rant, but it is fuel). My then GF defended him in a multitude of ways. I confronted him, but he was too much of an arrogant, charismatic dick. He could make people defend him...both men and women. I was friends with one of his victims, and they deeply regretted what happened. But it's her word against his, so no… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/05/21 12:20 AM |
| 17 | "self examination", "introspection" and why feminist approaches to men's issues don't work.The abject irony of them wondering why men are not supporting feminism, then they come out with a line about how masculinity is harmful and completely lack the will to examine themselves and their sweeping judgements | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/05/21 12:28 PM |
| 30 | In the US, only 41% of college scholarships go to men. Men are already a minority of college students.When women have the advantage, 59% is "equal" Somehow I doubt they'd say the same if 59% were men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 10 | UK: Female student, 29, who said 'women have vaginas' and are 'not as strong as men' faces disciplinary action by university after fellow classmates complained about the 'offensive and discriminatory' commentsIt's the Daily Mail. This, along with The Guardian and my toilet roll, are tied for the biggest load of shit on paper. We really don't need to pay any attention to these hacks | /r/MensRights | 15/05/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Abuse is abuseUnfortunately, that is very much the truth of how too many think | /r/MensRights | 14/05/21 04:06 PM |
| 7 | “Say something nice” and “food.” How sad that the bar has been set this low for so many men. One commenter said a woman called him handsome 4 years ago and he hasn’t forgotten it.Unfortunately the bar is that low, and as it stands it is unlikely to change except get worse Sadly, we are taken for granted. Expected to provide surprises, but be grateful for the tiniest bit of attention We are expected to be deeply grateful for the bare minimum | /r/MensRights | 14/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Abuse is abuseAbsolutely, strong together. Take these shitty experiences and use them to learn better in future relationships | /r/MensRights | 14/05/21 03:15 PM |
| 11 | Abuse is abuseI'm sorry to hear that my man. As you say, abuse is abuse, it doesn't matter if someone got it worse; what matters is it happened and it should never have happened Just remember you got through it That's the thing they don't understand. When will she turn next, and how will it change us He's got no clue, and it's simply disgusting for him to try and defend abusers | /r/MensRights | 14/05/21 11:05 AM |
| 151 | Abuse is abuseAs someone who is a victim of domestic abuse at the hands of a female, I seriously can't express how disgusted and angry I am at this How dare you dismiss the trauma that we suffer because someone else has it worse The abuse I suffered has affected every aspect of my life for years. Personal, work and relationships You have no idea what you are talking about. You aren't even close. Your opinion is repulsive and victim-shaming and you should be ashamed of yourself | /r/MensRights | 14/05/21 12:17 AM |
| 22 | So when a high profile Woman is canceled it’s still Misogyny. Ellen DeGeneres Says Negative Press Cycle Was ‘Orchestrated’Don't forget Amber Turd, who had audio logs of her confessing to abusing Depp and she still claimed that the accusations of abuse were part of a paid campaign orchestrated against her Bullshit like this and Ellen really makes me want to just give up. I'm not sure anything will change, since things only seem to be getting worse | /r/MensRights | 13/05/21 08:22 PM |
| 20 | Why feminism is a hate movement but the men's rights movement is notAgreed. Spend 10 minutes on any subreddit/page which contains the phrase "MGTOW" or "red pill" (aside from Matrix fanpages, obviously) and you'll see those numbers aren't low Hell, even people on this sub can be hateful and counter-productive to men's rights at times | /r/MensRights | 11/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 15 | A list of studies showing men care more about women than other men.And the obvious other side of that coin, it's clear that men care more about women than women care about men | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/05/21 10:59 AM |
| 329 | Nothing creeps me out more than female obsession with male financial worth and status.But the second you mention weight, suddenly that's not ok. But height is free game | /r/MensRights | 09/05/21 06:12 PM |
| 91 | If all occupations over 90% female went on strike vs if all occupations over 90% male went on strike. Discuss.Women are all about equal numbers in the workplace...right up until those workplaces stop being cushy office jobs and start being oil rigs and ice-road trucking | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/05/21 06:09 PM |
| 7 | I’m a female for Men’s RightsI obviously can't speak regarding how things may affect a child, since I'm not a father, but I go to a "progressive" university, and I am often told in public demonstrations that I have only reached this point due to my race and gender I have literally shed blood, sweat and tears in my PhD. It has been easily the hardest thing I have ever done (coupled with toxic relationships, me being a victim of physical and sexual assault), and yet I'm supposed to be grateful because I'm a white bloke... … | /r/MensRights | 08/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Something sexist happened in my school todayThis is what gets me. I'm pissed off about sexism anyway, that's a given, but imagine what these young boys' heads are being filled with. It's reinforcing the idea that women are always victims and men are always abusers They're going to grow up in one of two ways. Either they'll become completely neurotic and self-loathing because they believe themselves to be capable of abuse at any time, or they'll grow up embracing it and becoming mysoginistic shitheads | /r/MensRights | 06/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 5 | Media anti male bias 101: because men are more disadvantaged the Guardian choose to compare between women today and in previous recessions instead of making a comparison between men and women TODAY.It’s The Guardian. I have left paper with more insightful material on it swirling down my toilet | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/21 11:08 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum?For me, I'd agree that defending someone being harassed (not necessarily getting involved, but supporting them or going to HR/police, depending on severity) is the bare minimum, assuming that we lived in a society where men and women were truly equal in all aspects and both sides protected both Unfortunately we do not live in such a utopia. The expectation should not be placed on anyone to risk themselves in defense of others. If you want to, then great, I'll always support someone who goes the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else notice that a feminist's definition of a man doing the 'bare minimum' is often far more than a man doing the actual bare minimum?And some people wonder why male advocates get a bad rep | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 17 | I was hoping for support...I did not find anyUnfortunately, I think you’re right | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 8 | I was hoping for support...I did not find anyI feel that I’m just going to stick up for people when I can, and avoid toxic arenas | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | DeletedI tried to make a post, hoping for some egalitarian response (which one person gave, so respect to her) Unfortunately it was largely ignored and shoved into another sub | /r/MensRights | 24/04/21 09:15 PM |
| 23 | As a men's rights advocate you can't avoid being called a misogynist. you can change your tone as much as you want but just for being a men's advocate is enough to disqualify you.I called out the recent "not all men are predators, but enough are to make me scared of all" attitude in the UK recently (an attitude once adopted against black people in the 1950s, I might add) The amount of hate I got was unreal. I defended innocent men, and said they shouldn't be lumped in with the actual predators, and that was enough to brand me a misogynist | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Men not being allowed to have dating standardsI commented on a recent IG post about how it's not ok to bodyshame women (which is true, bodyshaming anyone is a dick move) I say "someone tell that to women who belittle men based on height" To be fair, I had a fair amount of support from women, but a significant few just threw shit including some personal attacks based on my appearance and hobbies on my profile. It was very ugly to see them actively defend judging a man based on height...that thing we cannot control | /r/MensRights | 22/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 3 | If I'm perfectly honest this feels pointless...Honestly I agree with most of this But I see these communities as a place where men can freely offload about men's issues without fear of judgement or scorn You say that there are no organisations IRL, which is true, but starting with an online organisation is the step in the right direction When men are feeling down about issues in the world we would normally get scorned for, we come here and rant and vent, and 95% of the comments are of support and advice And I think that is doing some good, a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/21 12:08 PM |
| 52 | Johnny Depp says police bodycam footage PROVES Amber Heard is lyingBear in mind there have been audio tapes on youtube since before the trial where she openly admits to being violent, gaslighting him for seeking help, and blatantly states that she will get away with it because people always side with the woman | /r/MensRights | 20/04/21 10:32 AM |
| 5 | Things men (supposedly) never have to think about or be afraid ofThe thing about this that gets me is that as a bloke, not only am I scared at night sometimes, I am expected to be the defender if a woman is in trouble I am equally as stabbable as any woman, but still I'm expected to be a protector and if I don't protect them, then I am seen as weak or 'part of the problem'. An attitude that has really ramped up in the wake of the recent murder in the UK | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/21 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Woman used my camera then threatened to call DFCS.While I support the idea and agree she is clearly a blackmailing psycho, saying "trust no women" is exactly the blanket judgement that pisses off so many people and leads to the necessity of subs like this | /r/MensRights | 17/04/21 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Sexist wins £1000 for designing “anti-man spreading chair”.The Riker Manoeuvre | /r/MensRights | 15/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 28 | "Mansplaining" and "manspreading" are sexist termsI had a girl tell me I was mansplaining something. I was talking about the virus and basically saying how one of the vaccines works, and she said I was mansplaining I have a masters degree in pharmaceutical science, and I am literally studying a PhD. I was explaining because it's my job | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/04/21 09:02 AM |
| 13 | Even when domestic violence is against men, it's about womenSame, I’ve been a victim of some things, and they automatically turn it into a female-related issue Meanwhile I’m sitting there going ‘yo, can I have some support please’ | /r/MensRights | 07/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 53 | Ah yes equalityWhile plenty of shelters for women existed, the only publicly funded services available for men were for anger management. “As a victim, I was re-victimized by having these services telling me that I wasn’t a victim, but I was a perpetrator,” Silverman told the National Post. | /r/MensRights | 07/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | United kingdom: the creation of an All Party Parliamentary Group for Men and Boys.I attend Warwick Uni (a noticeably active uni) which makes me suspect that we are still a fringe group I challenged the “I’m not afraid of all men, but I’m afraid of enough” ethos (which is quite strong at the moment) and I got such hateful shit for it | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/04/21 01:28 AM |
| 18 | United kingdom: the creation of an All Party Parliamentary Group for Men and Boys.It will be interesting to see what comes of this. It will be good for someone to start talking about this However that's probably just me being cautiously optimistic and forgetting my cynicism for anything to do with Westminster | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 1 | I hit a girl back, I get punished, she gets away with a slap on the wristInfinitely better. Pretty much back to normal, cheers! | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Don’t allow women who hate men define the men’s rights movement as men who hate women.I do agree with this one. Anyone who defends men for being men, will automatically come under scrutiny. And there are plenty of men out there who are just plain hateful and sexist People/pages who stick up for men are almost automatically dismissed as misogynist and, since a great number of people don't even believe men can suffer issues of discrimination (take 10 minutes on social media in the UK right now and you'll see something like "not all men...but enough of them"), I firmly believe that … | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 6 | I hit a girl back, I get punished, she gets away with a slap on the wristI was in an abusive relationship for about 8-9 months (I'm 6 ft, 27, ex-martial artist) and she would hit me all the time, even in public Nobody would bat an eyelid. Not her friends, nor members of the public But the one day I pushed back and pushed her (after she physically slapped me in public), I had 3 of her male friends threatening violence, and the rest of her friends ostacised me I later (after 18 months of depression, self-harm and a suicidal phase - all in part related to what she said … | /r/MensRights | 30/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Ah yes, equality :)I totally agree. Just because one group made a thing, and the other group didn't...it's not discrimination | /r/MensRights | 27/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Men do not seem like they are proud to be men. And this is detrimental to their mental health. We need to celebrate men instead of demonizing them.If you celebrate anything even vaguely related to manhood, you get shouted down as sexist Even speaking up for men's health (physical/mental) and you get shit for it What can men do against such reckless hate? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Oh damn I had forgotten about POF. Yeah it was supposed to be a bit of both, but the tech wasn’t there at the time Well when I was introduced to tinder in undergrad (6-8 years ago...which is altogether horrifying) tinder was more about connecting people than hookups...but it didn’t take long for it to deteriorate | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 3 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.I completely agree I would say, I had a girl say something similar in the sense that she consulted her friends before swiping because she really liked me and wanted advice (we ended up being together for a good while, she was awesome...also I absolutely did the same before messaging); however I’ve had a good handful who have used this line in a way that I can only describe as ‘condescending’, and the results are no better I get the feeling that some women hear these sentences in a wholesome way … | /r/MensRights | 25/03/21 12:28 AM |
| 3 | As a black man, being called a “Rapist” because I’m a man feels just as bad as being called a “thug” or a “gangster” simply because I’m blackThe problem is that these people are campaigning for such a good cause. Protection against rape/SA is an absolutely valid concern, and perpetrators will be shot at dawn when I am PM But the way they go about it is so wrong. They demonise innocent men, who will be less likely to offer help in a situation where a guy isn’t being overtly suspicious We are too busy minding our own business so we don’t terrify someone as we walk home from work, and shitting ourselves about the potentially creepy guy … | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 15 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.I may be showing my age here a tad, but when I first joined, it was relatively new and was 100% marketed as a dating app Then it became a hookup app Now it’s an app for egotistical men and women desperate for IG follows Yeah tell me about it. At least some places know what they’re about | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 10 | As a black man, being called a “Rapist” because I’m a man feels just as bad as being called a “thug” or a “gangster” simply because I’m blackOne could also argue that one of the main Civil Rights issues was segregation Now people have/campaign for BAME-only places/courses/dating apps/etc. It’s not a pleasant circle | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:47 PM |
| 7 | As a black man, being called a “Rapist” because I’m a man feels just as bad as being called a “thug” or a “gangster” simply because I’m blackI work at an especially ‘socially active’ university in the UK, and the resident Women’s society recently staged a 27 hour protest (without masks or social distancing, I might add) and they made a specific point of white men comparing misandry to racism is historically inconsiderate And then continued with misandry Unfortunately the SU is negotiating with them, so men don’t even have a leg to stand on | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:45 PM |
| 11 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.Cheers mate, but I’m well aware I’m not the most confident chap, but even I know I deserve better! | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 44 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.And we shall reply "and where are all the gods" | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Mentally healthy, well adjusted women don't go online to bash menTrue, true | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Mentally healthy, well adjusted women don't go online to bash menOoh self-burn, nice, those are rare | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 5 | What part of this doesn't sound like a blackmail to you?I know several women with an OF during lockdown, and one tried to get me to buy it I said no, because paying for nudes isn't for me The vitriolic shit I got from her was unbelievable Buy my nudes or you're not a proper man etc. etc. The blackmail/extortion attempts are already in place, this would only help them | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 177 | Dating is a f-cking stressful effort.I was on tinder about this time last year, just before lockdown, and the number of times I saw something along the lines of "I probably swiped right by accident", "I swiped for your friend/dog", or the classic "you should feel grateful that I swiped on you" is absolutely staggering How is this level of arrogance and derision even socially acceptable If a man said anything even vaguely similar, he'd be reported faster than you can say "toxic masculinity" But toxic femininity doesn't exist, does i… | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 5 | I feel like this is necessary, as a female I’m sorry to men.See, there are still decent people out there, and that's reassuring | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Confession of an old white man.I completely agree. I've generally been a centrist/progressive etc., and a supporter of equality But these past few months and years of particularly anti-male activism, it's pushing me (and others I know) towards some less savoury places And I like to think I'm fairly sensible and moderate. Imagine what this stuff will do to people less supportive of equality | /r/MensRights | 24/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do women make me feel like it’s bad being a man?And this is why MRA isn’t taken seriously | /r/MensRights | 20/03/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do women make me feel like it’s bad being a man?I feel you’re missing the point of my post | /r/MensRights | 19/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | UK: Caroline Flack’s death, women need to admit they were part of the problem. OP: The woman beat up her boyfriend, Police charged her. She committed suicide. The CPS and men got the blame for her death.As cruel as this will sound, I suspect she died at just the right time. Public opinion was turning against her, and people were realising that she was an abusive POS But she died at just the right time before opinions soured, and she died immortalised with her status of 'that woman who said "be kind"' and everyone forgot she beat up her BF | /r/MensRights | 19/03/21 07:22 PM |
| 32 | Why is it kam till trans? I'm not any less of a man because I'm not amab.Congrats, she managed to be sexist and transphobic all in two comments | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/03/21 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Losing female friends because you believe in men's rights.I've had exactly the same conversations. And I would understand if I were sharing proper misogynist stuff (MGTOW/incel type stuff), but it was things like the higher rate of male suicide and the fact that men are more likely to be victims of violent crime when walking home at night But a few have crawled out of the woodwork with absolute vitriol. They just aren't interested in anything that doesn't revolve around them. People like that take a valid movement (because women should feel safe, don't… | /r/MensRights | 19/03/21 12:39 PM |
| 12 | Why do women make me feel like it’s bad being a man?I think this is exactly it At my uni where I'm a postgrad, one of the women's societies tried to make the on-campus shops charge men 33% more due to the gender pay gap (I'm not saying it exists or doesn't exist, so let's just leave that bit alone) Now undergrads are on loans...so they don't actually own any money And postgrads are either self-funded (very rare) or are paid a flat rate by the government (so everyone is paid exactly the same) But these students did not think about their male peers… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/21 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Why do women make me feel like it’s bad being a man?I know what you mean. I have seen so much hate online, including against decent men Any time I try and defend myself or others, I'm told I am part of the problem. Yet I have been victimised by women (physical and sexual abuse) but I make a concerted effort not to brand all with the same brush, despite most women (although not all, some have been great) the I have told have said things like "I should have defended myself" and "I probably liked it" I don't have children, so I can't teach them. Due… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 7 | Leader of the UK Labour Party claims the majority of violent crime is committed against women.And men are expected to provide protection outside the home...you know, that place where we are more vulnerable | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Please post your comments about times you have been abused by women here. Compiling stories to prove men can be just as much victims as womenA girl I was at a party with kept touching me...and not on the shoulder, if you catch my drift I said I wasn’t interested. She was rather forceful, and kept giving me drinks and propositioning me until I literally blacked out I’m sure you can fill in the blanks | /r/MensRights | 17/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 2 | We live in a patriarchy...I've been seeing a hell of a lot on social media from men and women, young and old essentially saying it is our duty, because we are tougher. A lot of them imply that we don't feel fear walking home at night, which is just not true | /r/MensRights | 15/03/21 06:19 PM |
| 21 | We live in a patriarchy...It's the thing that's getting to me at the moment, particularly here in the UK (with everything going on) is that I am expected to walk a woman home through a dark area. It is my responsibility to act as a protector And yet, the majority of violent crime victims are men...and I am just as stabbable as a woman. And after I walk her to her door, I am expected to walk back through that dark area on my own A lot of things on social media are saying that men have a duty to be protectors...as if we do… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | What happens when male victims of domestic abuse seek help? I called some domestic violence hotlines to find it out.I don’t see it anywhere, aside from Depp themed pages. The awareness has dropped dramatically in only a few weeks, and nothing has been done It won’t be long until everyone has forgotten | /r/MensRights | 24/11/20 12:34 PM |
| 87 | What happens when male victims of domestic abuse seek help? I called some domestic violence hotlines to find it out.Look at the recent Depp incident. He came forward about his abuse (although he was likely abusive too, but to a lesser extent) and he lost his job and she kept hers, and already most people have forgotten about it | /r/MensRights | 23/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 11 | Guardian taking the side of Amber Heard, it’s pathetic.There is an audiotape of her (on youtube, I might add) saying "I slapped you, I did not hit you" And then using her gender to claim immunity and disparage his claim when he threatened to speak up about the abuse. She said, "just see how many people believe you" and saying nobody would believe a "115 lb woman" could beat up a big, strong man | /r/MensRights | 17/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 30 | OVER 1 MILLION Signed Petition To REMOVE Amber Heard from Aquaman 2, War...Aaaaand this is why we get called incels | /r/MensRights | 14/11/20 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Does anyone else get quite badly affected/upset by constantly seeing social media posts from feminists that hate on men?Very much! And one thing that gets to me is all the social media posts which give women a chance to support each other. I'm not saying that's a bad thing, humans supporting humans is awesome But there is never a trend for men to be supported, by either gender. And yet, male mental health issues are more common | /r/MensRights | 12/11/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Petition To Remove Amber Heard From Aquaman 2 Has Over 900K SignaturesI heard about that Maybe WB should...I dunno...get him to film the rest of the scenes? | /r/MensRights | 12/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Petition To Remove Amber Heard From Aquaman 2 Has Over 900K SignaturesCome on lads, we can do this! Also there's one to remove her as the face of L'Oreal...just saying | /r/MensRights | 12/11/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Come on lads, sign it for Johnny Depp. you don't have to donate just sign this thing might not make a difference but at least we can show people we aren't okay with thisNearly at 1 mil! | /r/MensRights | 11/11/20 04:41 PM |
| 13 | Do you guys know where are 87 surveillance videos exposing Amber Heard as Abuser?As far as I am aware, they are currently not allowed to be in the public domain because they're part of an ongoing case he has launched against her I might be wrong though | /r/MensRights | 08/11/20 05:27 PM |
| 10 | Petition to have Amber Heard removed as the L'Oreal SpokespersonThere's also one to remove her from Aquaman 2, and have JD reinstated in Fantastic Beasts | /r/MensRights | 07/11/20 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Study finds Men ‘face MORE discrimination than women’ in US, UK and AustraliaTo be fair, it is the Daily Mail. Take it with a pinch of salt The Mail is not exactly considered reliable news | /r/MensRights | 26/10/20 09:06 PM |
| 30 | UK: Women have 'right to know' male colleagues' pay, says Labour's Stella Creasy as she introduces Equal Pay Bill. Women will be able to demand to know what men are earning.Also this | /r/MensRights | 21/10/20 12:00 AM |
| 11 | UK: Women have 'right to know' male colleagues' pay, says Labour's Stella Creasy as she introduces Equal Pay Bill. Women will be able to demand to know what men are earning.Not at all. If anything, it would give people a chance to earn more by being better You would have the balance wherein nobody would be privileged, but people who put the hours in get proportionally rewarded, and the slackers would be proportionally punished | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 453 | UK: Women have 'right to know' male colleagues' pay, says Labour's Stella Creasy as she introduces Equal Pay Bill. Women will be able to demand to know what men are earning.This is what equality looks like! I support this Everyone has their hours documented, everyone has their pay checked Everyone earns the same based on how much they work | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Quick review of the science: The most common traits described as "toxic" (grit and strength) are actually good for us. They reduce depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation. They also improve psychological well-being, life satisfaction, meaning in life and academic outcomes.It has reached the point where I just do not know how to be a man without being a toxic one Women can be strong and proud of their gender, but all I know how to be is "toxic" | /r/MensRights | 20/10/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | The sad part is, this is a maleI had a psychotic ex who spread a false domestic violence/sexual assault rumour about me (100% untrue, I work with victims to help them through it) and all of her friends just suddenly believed it despite no evidence I got hate mail, threats of violence and actually had someone threaten me in my home All because I broke up with her for being jealous and possessive How do I defend against that? Simply, I can't...and it terrifies me | /r/MensRights | 28/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 12 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeWe aren't allowed to say how scared we are to walk home at night, because we are expected to be tough and strong | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 10:51 AM |
| 4 | UK ARMY: People are starting to realise that women can be sexual abusers too ?!My university ran a campaign that said "Jack and Amy go to the club and get drunk. Jack and Amy have sex. She couldn't consent because she was drunk, so Jack raped her." When a group of men went to the SU and pointed out that they were both drunk, so she raped him too, the official statement by the SU said "no, because men can't be raped" Welcome to the modern world | /r/MensRights | 16/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 20 | Chris Rock vibesThey have repeatedly denied those rumours. It wasn't open | /r/MensRights | 15/07/20 07:42 PM |
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