TENTITS Archive

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53	all this going on farida.d. author is a reminder men are not our allies When men realized that they could commodify feminism because there was a profit to be made, they inserted themselves into the movement under the guise of "allies". Men who claim to be feminists are only there to have easier access to sex or to make a profit. I've been involved with all kinds of feminist aligned movements since university and every single straight man I've met along the way within the movement is there to hookup by pretending to have a meaningful connection with the women there o…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/22 06:58 PM
155	You are never safe when online dating EVEN IN PUBLIC. Please be careful. TRIGGER ALERT: Assault and rape https://montreal.ctvnews.ca/two-teens-arrested-in-connection-with-alleged-sexual-assault-at-terrebonne-movie-theatre-1.5824129 Can confirm, my blood boiled to a molten state when I read it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/03/22 05:34 AM
27	Reaching out to make amends for former pick-me ways I have done this. There was one particularly wonderful girl at an old job that I always got frustrated with because she had very strong boundaries about what she was willing do since she wasn't paid well and people always thought of dumping weird tasks onto her since she was the only member of a catch-all kind of department. I used to be a disgusting pickme at work to impress my all-male c-suite management. It makes me want to hurl thinking about it, because I saw them treat her like shit a few …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 12:02 AM
96	Warning ⚠️ Some red-pill guys have started adopting FDS lingo I would encourage everyone in this sub to get some wine, or tea, on a rainy weekend and spend a few hours on the red pill sub. We all need to be innately aware of their strategies so we can spot them a mile away. Unfortunately for them, all the red pillers come off so strong they always set off internal sirens even for women not yet on FDS. Also unfortunately for them their core strategies are still archaic enough that our mothers warned us about them lol. Sure, their vernacular may change but t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 04:02 AM
98	What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive? Look at the man's eyes. Learn to read his eyes. A man's voice can still be deceptive, he can train himself to control the pitch and tone. Same with body language. Everything else we can't see (heart rate/blood pressure). But his eyes are always telling. When you start seeing the whites of his eyes above his corneas, he's about to lash out. This shows in arguments as well. Also worth reading: https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/observations/to-read-someones-mind-look-into-their-eyes/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/01/22 04:30 AM
95	Evan Rachel Wood alleges Marilyn Manson "essentially raped" her on music video shoot “We had discussed a simulated sex scene, but once the cameras were rolling, he started penetrating me for real. I had never agreed to that. I’m a professional actress, I have been doing this my whole life, I’d never been on a set that unprofessional in my life up until this day. It was complete chaos, and I did not feel safe. No one was looking after me. “It was a really traumatising experience filming the video. I didn’t know how to advocate for myself or know how to say no because I had been c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/01/22 06:51 PM
49	Are men seriously trying to normalize erectile dysfunction now??? 😬😬 Whenever I need a good laugh I visit the no fapping sub and read some of the reasons all those young virile boys have to not fap for a month. I diabolically enjoy the fail stories from those who last a few days before their porn addiction kills their streaks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/01/22 08:58 PM
189	When dating POC men that come from patriarchal cultures... Honestly, after wasting the entirety of my 20s trying to find the unicorn amongst South Asian men (am South Asian myself) I've come to the conclusion that they simply do not exist. Whether it takes 1 month or 1 year, they will get lazy pretending to be HVM and revert back to the patriarchal structures they grew up in and expect you to handle everything household plus a career plus children and contribute to the mortgage and bills while they skate by having poker nights with friends every weekend…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/22 05:53 AM
25	Tell us about the PickMe friend(s) you ditched! I found FDS when my friend and co-worker was going through a tumultuous time of... well, drama. The pandemic and lockdown had her stuck at home with her lvm husband, her Instagram would be all "look at this delicious meal hubby made for us today" and worshipping his carnitas but at work she would just go off about how he just watched TV all the time, no sex, no job. She started an affair with another balding old man at work after getting too drunk at a Christmas party, he was her superior in a w…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 01:35 AM
277	On dating married men It's also worth mentioning that a married man will make you believe that you're the outlier, you're the exception to the ol' "he's never going to leave his wife" because you're so special, and it makes you feel all pickme accomplished. You're not special. Whatever criteria makes you "special" is the same criteria that hits the tender spots of whatever trauma made you fall for a married man in the first place. And if in fact you are that special, your special gifts are not worth a married scrote.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/01/22 03:22 AM
3	How long should I see this guy to know he's the one It's way too soon to establish that this man is HVM. It takes months of consistent behavior to establish that. There's a lot of red flags here already as others have pointed out. You don't have to stop seeing him but clearly there is something triggered in you intuitively to make this post and you should listen to it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/01/22 07:10 PM
92	why YOU have a belly, but influencers DON'T (feel like women need to hear this more often. were expected to have certain kind of body when biologically our bodies are not made to be that way) The worst thing about the global culture of dictating what women's bodies should look like is its intended effect on young girls. Especially those fragile years between childhood and late teens. When I was 11-13 my body puffed up everywhere, as most girls do. The transition from having no breasts to budding breasts should be a sacred time in a girl's life, a celebration, but instead it's the most insecure phase of puberty. I rarely see girls with that type of body in the media. Even all the girl…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 03:02 AM
8	Spoiling men financially is always a mistake Posts like this really make me want to have the whole text printed onto wallpaper for my bedroom walls to wake up and read like an affirmation every morning.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 12:47 AM
15	FDS haikus for your entertainment and viewing pleasure Oh god this sent me 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/01/22 08:26 AM
4	Anyone else feel the same way sometimes? I remember feeling exactly this way in my marriage before I decided to level up for my own sake.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 12:14 AM