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| 346 | My girlfriend has epilepsy and recently had a seizure at work. She ended up with 2 black eyes from hitting her head on her desk. So, many people have made jokes about how I hit her. I hate this sexist mentality. | Social Issues | TH3BUDDHA | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I wait to set up the second date if she's been messaging me? | TH3BUDDHA | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:30 PM |
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| 5 | Did my gf cheat?Too controlling Don't say, "I forbid you to do this." Say, "I'm not comfortable with this in a relationship." And, leave if they cross those boundaries. Those 2 approaches are vastly different. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/23 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Did my gf cheat?Yep, don't break up with her because you think she cheated. Just tell her that you don't feel comfortable with this activity and, long term, that lack of trust will be hard to overcome. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/23 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Did my gf cheat?It's irrelevant whether she did or not. You don't feel comfortable enough with her to trust her. So, you should move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/23 02:31 PM |
| 668 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.Guys that can talk to people meet more people. More at 11. | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 04:32 PM |
| 16 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuing1) Bro, you're in fucking France. If western girls won't sleep with you, they aren't that interested. 2) Extremely religious girls exist in every country. If your goal is to have causual sex, stay away from them. | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 01:57 PM |
| 14 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingA girl not wanting to have sex with you is universal, my guy. If I want to have sex and the girl doesn't, I don't need to know her culture to know that I am wasting my time and need to move on. | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 23 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingI'm not saying I know what you experienced. But, I know how dating works. If you're constantly texting a girl and not getting further than that, it's time to move on because she ain't that interested. | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 01:04 PM |
| 54 | I’ve lost more girls to inaction than to overpursuingThe crazy thing is they want it so badly Girls that "want it so badly" don't say no. They don't want it as badly as you think they do. | /r/seduction | 11/08/23 12:35 PM |
| -3 | How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It.I'll leave it at this and won't reply again: If you are so confident in yourself, why would you spend any time trying to convince a random internet stranger that you are? Why the fuck does my opinion of you matter? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It.If you don't care, why are you even bringing this shit up? Why is it occupying any space in your mind and why are you even mentioning it here? When I was dating multiple girls, I didn't give two shits what they did in their free time. Why do you even know who they're texting? Because I can go get 10 more if I need to. Any man who must say, "I am the king", is no true king. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It.That girl is pretty well behaved, so no complaints. Bro, I'm not talking about the girls. I'm talking about you. Either you are just having fun or you actually like these girls. Either way, your mindset is fucked. If you're just FWB with these girls, why the fuck are you even thinking about what they're doing? That's relationship shit and has no place in a FWB situation. If you care because you actually like these girls, then move the fuck on to a girl that makes you comfortable. Your comments s… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/23 01:40 AM |
| 6 | How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It.Vitamin D is extremely beneficial for aging. Many studies showing the benefits far outweigh the risks. But, to each their own. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/23 01:28 AM |
| 5 | How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It.Also, I recently did a “couples massage” with one of my Eurobabes – we have a rule that she either has a masseuse or we do a couples massage so I am in the room because the “dynamic massage” guy was inappropriate with her – not physically, but he wasn’t cool, plus she’s an introvert, as all girls should be so it was not a good thing, and she didn’t tell me until after we left because she was afraid – not without justification – that I would have tuned the guy up. Anyway, we did a couples massage… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/23 11:35 PM |
| 5 | How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It.Stop fearing the sun. Getting outside and in sunlight will be far better for you long term than living like a troll and globbing chemicals all over your skin anytime you decide to leave your cave. I'll take the look of an aged surfer over a pale redditor anyday. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/23 11:33 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend has epilepsy and recently had a seizure at work. She ended up with 2 black eyes from hitting her head on her desk. So, many people have made jokes about how I hit her. I hate this sexist mentality.This happened at work and she went to the ER. So, there are tons of people that saw and an ER report, luckily. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/23 11:08 AM |
| 41 | My girlfriend has epilepsy and recently had a seizure at work. She ended up with 2 black eyes from hitting her head on her desk. So, many people have made jokes about how I hit her. I hate this sexist mentality.What if someone walks by and believes the joke. Well, all of these jokes have happened in group text messages, so that hasn't been a concern yet. But, I can't help but wonder what strangers think when they see us in public. And, if the roles were reversed, and I was the one with 2 black eyes, would they have the same thoughts about her? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm dying of intestinal failure and a feminists admin told me "As a privileged, cis white man, you shouldn't be asking for help."about my situation and a lot of people helped out. Well... you're a man. Your wife wasn't posting about her problems here. She was posting about yours. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm dying of intestinal failure and a feminists admin told me "As a privileged, cis white man, you shouldn't be asking for help."I mean, you said you got a lot of positive responses. And also, why are you posting this in a feminist community, anyway? That's like a woman making a health post in r/mensrights. It seems like you were going out of your way to look for problems. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/22 06:27 PM |
| 10 | Falsely accused USMC veteran wins $25,000,000 Title IX lawsuit against Columbia University (Interview)Can I get a TLDW? | /r/MensRights | 18/10/22 11:51 AM |
| 5 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?You express interest by saying you want to hang out and setting something up. She expresses interest by saying yes and actually meeting you. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 12:19 AM |
| 63 | Is it ok to call a girl out on her bs?and have more or less been texting each other non stop this past week. Why? Set up the next date and stop texting. If she doesn't want to meet up, move on. This shit is so simple and people complicate it so much. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 07:11 PM |
| 4 | [REQUEST] Signs a girl likes you?More awkward than some other guy shooting his shot and you always wondering what would have happened if you did? | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | [REQUEST] Signs a girl likes you?Also any advice on what to do next? Tell her you are interested in her and see how she reacts. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Boys can be all these things, toojust as toxic femininity is an accurate description for a subset of women. So, toxicity has absolutely no relationship to gender at all. There is no "toxic femininity" or "toxic masculinity." There are just toxic humans. Anything else is just sexist bullshit. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/22 09:52 PM |
| 29 | Boys can be all these things, toomasculine without the toxicity Stop giving validation to the term "toxic masculinity." | /r/MensRights | 10/09/22 03:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?Lol, you need to kill this mindset immediately. This kind of thinking will hold you back in things outside of your dating life. You get better at things by practicing. If you avoid trying at all because you'll fail at first, you'll go nowhere in life in anything. It's OK to be bad at first. Trust your ability to learn and get better. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 11:56 AM |
| 0 | How do you know if a woman is looking at you because she is interested?I'm more concerned if she's gonna be creeped out or not. Why are you concerned about that? | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?Get her number asap? I make a few witty remarks about something in her profile and then go for the number quickly and this usually works. I'm not here to talk on Bumble. I'm here to meet in person. You both know that. If she isn't comfortable with that, she'll probably be hard to schedule with anyway and I don't feel like wasting my time with girls that make it hard. There are plenty that make it easy. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 03:48 PM |
| 10 | Women are more likely to cheat than menYou're talking to a bot. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Get off the app and out in the real world. This will help you in more ways than one. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I see people here saying women are rooting for you, just approach. But ive also seen the darker side of women. Some women i approached used me to brag in their social circle in a negative way. One woman even said to me ‘not if my life depended on it”Stop putting women on a pedestal. Whether it's women or other men, some people just aren't going to like you no matter what. It's really not a big deal. As soon as a woman shows low interest, move on and never think about her again. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Woman complains that her husband wants to have sex with her once a week, she would rather do it every three monthsfeel that I (or anyone) would have no right to resent them about something that was completely out of their control You're a human being with your own feelings and emotions. You're allowed to have those feelings and emotions. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Woman complains that her husband wants to have sex with her once a week, she would rather do it every three monthsYou would have to betray your partner to do so? I would argue that you would be betraying your partner even more if you stayed with them, but were filled with resentment towards them for not being able to meet your needs. If you ended it, they could find somebody without sexual needs and be happy with that person. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Sex on first date?but i feel she doesnt want to see me again because i didnt invite her back to my house. Why are you assuming it's because you didn't invite her back and not just because she wasn't that interested in you? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 25 | Woman complains that her husband wants to have sex with her once a week, she would rather do it every three monthsYou are the only one responsible for getting your needs met. If you are with somebody that doesn't meet your needs, it is your responsibility to end that situation and find somebody that wants to meet your needs. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/22 02:35 PM |
| 24 | Friend Refuses to Listen to Male ArtistsDudes like that are constantly in the friendzone, too. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Friend Refuses to Listen to Male ArtistsWho fucking cares? Let him live his life. If you're hanging out with somebody that frustrates you, you've chosen to invite it into your life. That's on you and the only actual problem here. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 03:35 PM |
| 13 | Be careful at the gymYep, speaking to her gave her the attention she was looking for. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 09:48 PM |
| 21 | Be careful at the gymYou just say "no" and go on with your day. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | So "luring men to their death" is not violating Reddit rules? I wonder what would happen if I make a female version of this🤔Just picture what the average woman in that sub probably looks like. Then, stop caring. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 19 | Here we go again…female teacher sexually abused an underage student and get ZERO jail time.She's not even hot lol | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 7 | What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women?When I realized that you aren't improving yourself for women, you're improving yourself for you. Women just become a side effect of that. It's not about "seducing" women. It's about being yourself, finding women that are into it, and quickly moving on from the ones that aren't. Hit the gym, eat healthy, have hobbies that increase your social life, and the rest falls into place on it's own. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 08:16 PM |
| 3 | My big butt co-worker modeled 3 thongs for me!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xa-4IAR\_9Yw | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:55 AM |
| 6 | how do you go from casually chilling at your place to fucking without being awkward?I typically just make sure to sit next to them on the couch while talking. During the conversation, when I feel like it, I usually just reach over, gently grab her chin and turn her face towards me, and do it. If you're alone at her place, she's waiting for you to do that. It's not awkward if you go for it. It's awkward if you don't. After that, just keep escalating things unless she gives a firm 'no' on anything. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:46 PM |
| 43 | Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say?Older people grew up in a time before smart phones and social media when it was the norm to actually interact with other human beings. Our social skills are becoming fucked in modern society. Young people are lonelier and more depressed than ever and I think we're really going to start seeing the consequences of this in the coming decades. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:09 PM |
| 6 | How do I fight the overwhelming urge to reply to texts immediately?Not texting back right away is to show you have a busy and exciting life and aren't just waiting for her texts constantly. Start actually being busier so you don't have to pretend. Put your phone on silent, find something else to do, and only check it at designated times of the day. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 29 | Girl asked if another guy can join the date i asked her on.Not only is she inviting a friend, but it's a guy friend. Pass. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likehttps://media.giphy.com/media/ke7eaxvM1QqNa/giphy.gif | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Guy at work i likeActively telling him you are interested in him is way less creepy than staring at him and not saying anything. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Guys shit test you too!I’m a relationship & couple coach, and intimacy and conscious relating facilitator. Well, you know what they say: those who can't do, teach. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Guys shit test you too!It sounds like you've never been in a relationship lol. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:25 PM |
| 8 | Guys shit test you too!Shit tests don’t exist, only if you have low self-esteem you can feel tested. Shit tests absolutely exist. You just don't pay any attention to them if you have high self-esteem. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 57 | Guys shit test you too!Those aren't shit tests. Those are direct challenges to strength/athletic abilities. Shit tests are more indirect. A woman wouldn't test your strength by just tackling you hard. She would come up with some roundabout way to do it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:21 PM |
| 26 | Man dubbed creep for using eliptical next to womanI had to point out to her that this was the treadmill I run on every day All you should have said to her is "fuck off." You didn't owe her any explanation. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | She takes a long time to reply to my messages but is active and not dry at all when she does.Stop texting and make a fucking date. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?Why would you talk to other people about her interest level rather than just asking her? You simply say "Hey, I'd like to take you out again. When are you free?" If it turns into a date, she's interested. If she doesn't, she's no t and you move on. You're making it too complicated. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?Think back to when you were a child. How did you make friends? You just walked up and talked to other kids on the playground and didn't worry about it. Make a point to talk to everybody whenever you're out. Don't only talk to attractive women. Make small talk with strangers all the time, like when you're standing in line somewhere, until talking to strangers is second nature. Just make random comments. Some people won't want anything to do with it, and that's fine. You're trying to test people's… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?Find some new interests that involve group activities. I mean, that's the only option if you want to meet new friends. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Without paying, what do you think is the fastest method to get laid in 2022?Why would you invest a lot of time in somebody that barely knows you exist? Start talking to a girl. If she is short and doesn't engage, smile and move on. If she's interested and engaging, keep talking and escalate until you get her number. Don't try to become her friend and play some long game. You'll just get friendzoned. Like I said, get to the point quickly. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | If attraction is non negotiable, what's the fastest way to find out if there is mutual attraction?Everything they said still applies. If she has desire for you, she'll keep banging you, regardless. She was already cheating when she started banging you. 4 weeks isn't going to change that. The only thing that changes that is her attraction to you lowers. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Without paying, what do you think is the fastest method to get laid in 2022?Talk to a lot of women, test for interest, and escalate. Go in with the mentality of trying to get to rejection as quickly as possible. If she isn't interested, getting to the "no" as quickly as possible saves a lot of time. Don't take "no's" too personally. Don't be a bitch and wonder "is she interested? Should I make a move?" Just make a move and then you'll get your answer. If you're talking to a girl, tell her she should give you her number. If you're on a date, make physical contact and esc… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menJust take care of yourself first and make sure you can survive financially. Here's the thing, you can do this and date women at the same time. When you're in a relationship, taking care of yourself is still supposed to be your top priority. If you allow a woman to become the focus of your life when dating her, it sounds like you have emotional dependence problems. That has nothing to do with the women. That's on you. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 7 | How do i get the confidence to start approaching?Don't only approach women that you are attracted to. Start talking to everybody when you go out in public. Men, women, young, old, attractive, ugly, talk to them all. Test their interest in talking to you and try to make friends. This way, you stop putting attractive women on a pedestal and when you talk to them, it's just naturally something you do. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 3 | This girl I’m seeing won’t date me but she lets me play with her tits ..Talk to other women while you keep playing with her tits. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:55 PM |
| 20 | Why do girls do this?I'm not a huge drinker so only set up drink dates as they are easy to hookup from but I don't really drink much aside form that and am a natural introvert. Why not just do things you like and invite girls to do those things? | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever known someone who’s a total magnetic without it being because of their looks?but once I am not in the room I feel like I've already been forgotten about. Ok. What are you doing to make sure this doesn't happen? Do you get numbers of people you've met? Do you reach out to them to hang out? You expect them to reach out to you to invite you, but why can't you take the initiative? Also, see my comment here: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vnvqur/comment/iebricy/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever known someone who’s a total magnetic without it being because of their looks?I do what he does but I can’t seem to establish long term connections Do you put in any work to establish a long term connection? Do you get people's numbers and say you should get drinks some time? Do you follow up on that and ask them to do things? You can't just talk to new people you've never met, say goodbye, and then just expect a friendship to spontaneously generate. Also, do you have any regularly scheduled things you do? Think of how you made friends when you were younger. You saw them … | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever known someone who’s a total magnetic without it being because of their looks?I didn't say he is unattractive. OP simply asked if you know somebody that draws attraction for a reason outside of their physical appearance. Going bald is rarely considered an increase in your physical attraction. I'm just saying, it doesn't matter at all if you have a good lifestyle, which is interesting when you mention Jason Statham. Don't you think his lifestyle, rather than just his physical appearance, makes him seem more attractive? | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 01:27 PM |
| 63 | Have you ever known someone who’s a total magnetic without it being because of their looks?My best buddy went bald during college. It has never once affected his game. He is just a social butterfly and talks to everyone any time we go out. He'll make new long term friends with the people that just moved to the city after he goes to the bar alone and asks to sit at their table with them. He'll have girls in the social circle setting him up with friends all the time. The game is all about just talking to people constantly. Go out with the intention of making friends and girls just happe… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.Any girl is welcome to have the same standards about guys here | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 10:57 PM |
| 63 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.She's for the streets. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 07:07 PM |
| 6 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.The point I'm making is that if promiscuity itself is a turnoff, then why? Plenty of studies that show a link between number of prior sexual partners and divorce rate, for whatever reason. Personally, if I find out she had wild younger years, she's just for fun. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to tell a girl I've been friends with for years that I like them?I don't want to ruin the friendship. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseSeveral states have laws that triggered as soon as the ruling was overturned to halt at least the majority of abortions. Yea, and those states voted for that. So, let them have it. I don't agree with many policies in California, but I'm not going to fight for them to abide by my way of thinking. Personally, I'm pro gun, but I wouldn't care if California wanted to ban guns. I just wouldn't live there. There will always be states where abortion is allowed. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to Choosedifference is honestly dumb. There is a MAJOR difference between the Supreme Court banning abortion and the Supreme Court giving the call to the states. Not understanding that is what's dumb. Many people seem to believe that the former happened. You have people in New York and California crying over this when absolutely nothing will change for then. I'm not sure why those people want so much control over how people in Alabama live their lives. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I not give this a fuck?Treat her like any other person there, because that's all she is, just another person there. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:26 PM |
| 43 | Roe vs Wade has been Overturned; If we truly believe in Human Rights, we must support a Women’s Right to ChooseWomen still have the right to choose. This decision didn't ban abortion. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...There's nothing wrong with having and fulfilling your own needs. Just be honest about your intentions and move on if the person you're talking to can't meet those needs. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...That's why your first date should be cheap/simple. Coffee/drink and a walk. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to flirt.Awesome post. Is there any further reading on this you could suggest? It essentially seems like the "fake it till you make it" idea. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | No idea how to flirt.Awesome post. Is there any further reading on this you could suggest? It essentially seems like the "fake it till you make it" idea. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.as I've gotten older How old are you if you don't mind me asking? | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 09:54 PM |
| 10 | I'm (20M) lost with this girl (20F)so it looked like friends hangout You were nervous, didn't make a confident move on her, and she lost interest. You acted like a friend, so now you're a friend. Move on. Tell her you aren't interested in friendship and if she changes her mind, to contact you. Otherwise, stop talking to her. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story?Did it work? It ALWAYS works because you invested in yourself and became a better person. That's the beauty of it. If you're improving with the motive of making women like you, it's still needy behavior. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Look up the psychology topics of "self talk" and "mistaken beliefs" and how to address these things. Your thoughts are telling a mistaken story about yourself that you aren't good enough. You need to work to change that story. It's as simple as recognizing when a thought arises and consciously challenging the thought. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???No why would I talk to random women Why wouldn't you? If your answer has anything to do with caring about what they'd think, you place too much value in what others think about you and that is needy behavior. If I approach women it would be more in a chill setting Based on your other comments, you hesitate on approaching in these situations, as well, most likely for the same reason. You're too worried about what they think about you. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:26 PM |
| 2 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???other than girls constantly looking at me when I pass them walking by Do you talk to those girls? | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover. The whole book is about the psychology of why "nice guys" feel the need to be "nice" to get validation from others, especially women. It then gives concrete exercises to break this way of thinking. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:18 PM |
| -1 | All of my childhood bullies are dating all of my crushesThis sounds like incel fiction. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Formerly overweight men, how much of an impact did toning your body have on seducing women in real life and on online dating?until it is done It's never done. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:39 PM |
| 48 | Formerly overweight men, how much of an impact did toning your body have on seducing women in real life and on online dating?I had gotten down to 160 last year and was feeling a lot better mentally and physically This is the only reason you need to exercise and be fit. Don't improve yourself for others. Improve yourself for yourself. Anything else you get from that improvement is icing on the cake. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:21 PM |
| 58 | Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop?Do I just give up at this point? No. She said she wasnt open for it in the beginning That is when you should have given up. Lesson learned for the future. Move on, bro. | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 11 | How do you guys deal with womens fuckery?You move on and never think about it again. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:16 PM |
| 4 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?You're either a butthurt older woman mad that quality men are shooting younger, or, you're a butthurt older man that isn't quality enough to shoot younger. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 12:26 AM |
| 18 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?how should I respond? You don't. You have honest intentions about what you want. Seeking validation from others is needy behavior. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:37 PM |
| 211 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?Or butthurt women in their 30s realizing that the dating power dynamic has shifted and quality men in their 30s can date women in their prime. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | She told me I can do whatever I want to herBro, you are way overthinking this. It's fucking sex. You try things/positions and if she doesn't like it, she'll let you know. That's how you build a fucking sexual connection. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 03:10 PM |
| 5 | How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a lonerI enjoy playing Xbox by myself. Then, expect to be by yourself a lot. You don't meet people like that and when a girl breaks your heart(which is the most likely outcome of this situation you're posting about because you're already way over invested and making reddit posts about how to change yourself for this one girl), you will have no social circle to fall back on while you're alone and depressed. It might work while you're 21 and have random parties at your house. The thing is, you eventually… | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | She told me I can do whatever I want to herLike I said, if she says stop during, stop. Once again, how fucking hard is that? He won't know unless he tries and she gave him freedom to try anything. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 09:52 PM |
| 4 | How should I go about dating the popular girl, when I myself, am a lonerI spend most of my time alone, I just play Xbox and just vibe by myself. Change this. Start improving yourself. Start finding ways to increase your social circle. Do it before you break up with this girl and don't make her the center of your world. Don't improve for her. Improve for you. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 22 | She told me I can do whatever I want to herDo whatever you want to do. How hard is this? If she says stop during, then stop. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Giving a girl from my hometown a ride back from campus. She’s super hot. How do I not make it awkward and werid?Dude, you interact with human beings all the time without thinking about it. Stop putting this person on a pedestal and just act like you would with any other person. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Yo... does sleeping with a girl mean sex?Bro, this was painful to read. Make a fucking move. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 04:08 PM |
| 5 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidDude, I was on a cold streak for like a year. Hit the gym for 6 months, lost 20 pounds of fat, started getting some definition, and was banging the first two girls I talked to. Nothing else about my game had changed other than my fitness. If you're a fat slob, it signals that you are either lazy or have no interest in improving yourself, both unattractive qualities. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidSure, you can get girls being fat, but, what kind of girl? You aren't going to get the yoga hotties being a fat slob. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.noone is complaining dumbass What is the point of this post, then? This post makes you sound like an incel. You're whining about girls not "giving the time of day" to anybody they don't view as perfect. That's fucking life, bro. Get to work making yourself a guy that they give their time of day to. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Has gaining weight affected your game?somewhere like Chicago, people tend to be more overweight and less active Lol you to Chicago: "Fuck this place in particular" | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.sorry man I'm lazy This is most likely your problem in other aspects of your life and why you are here complaining about women. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl i’ve been dating didn’t text backbut few of them make you feel great The reality is that there's nothing special about them. There are millions of others that can make you feel great, too. There's an abundance of opportunities for love in this world. You just have to go get them. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Ghosted after the 4th dateDid you try just.... I don't know... fucking communicating with him about it? | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Should I wait to set up the second date if she's been messaging me?Yea, if this is was a first date with a new girl, I wouldn't wait. The only reason I ask is because things were a bit squirly between us previously and her attraction definitely dropped low. Seems to be high after we met up last night, though. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:39 PM |
| 44 | Am I bad if I just want sex?RIP your inbox | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]So, I replied telling her to just text me when she gets a chance and to feel free to let me know if she needs help with anything. She replied, "Thanks, I'm just trying to keep the pipes from freezing."(in reference to the furnace dying in my edit). She then followed up saying that she isn't doing anything tonight, she's just worried about leaving the house. Think she might be hinting to come over. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you're getting fussy because you feel that she's not prioritizing you enough or that she's not communicating openly enough then you need to reevaluate what you're doing here. She's not your girlfriend. I'm not getting fussy about anything. I'm sleeping with another girl and just wondering what the best approach to this particular message is. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Oh yea, I've backed off a ton. The only reason I've asked her to hang out is that she'll occasionally reach out and text me to tell me a story about her day or something. I haven't been initiating really at all. I've actually been sleeping with another girl(the other girl from the other post I linked that ultimately caused this one to fall out), but I just like this girl way more. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidI work out with weights so I'm not adding any group-type training to that. If you work out, you should definitely join a coed sport league. There are tons of single girls that play volleyball and stuff. You can't just say, "This is how I am and I'm not willing to change anything" and then expect things to change. Maybe even try joining a crossfit style gym or something too. I lift a lot, as well, and I'm looking into crossfit. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidspent doing activities I'm not that interested in Do things you're interested in, then. Just do them in groups, frequently. Don't have any hobbies that women are interested in? Get some. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 07:26 PM |
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