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| 5 | Times you need confort are good for vetting...It's so lame especially with modern technologies that make it fast and easy to communicate that people still ghost you while you grieve. Even if death makes you uncomfortable how hard is it to send your friend a bunch of texts flowers meals groceries gifts etc?! Sometimes I think until you experience a close death yourself it's really hard to relate to someone who is grieving a death. It is still no excuse to ghost out! When my gpa died, the lvm ex I was with made it all about him and his dead k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 04:00 PM |
| 97 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Sounds so similar to my exes with NPD. Only, I got sucked in and lived through years of abuse. Manipulative men know just what to say to get you sucked in. They are pro love bombers and can subtly love bomb without it feeling like love bombing (especially the older more experienced ones) I felt something was off but still gave them a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Aileen Wuornos is often compared to Ted Bundy and Jeffrey Dahmer in terms of the heinous nature of their crimes. That’s because of cultural misogyny, victim-blaming, and legitimate hatred of women.I feel like if she hadn't have been in florida she prob wouldnt have gotten the death penalty. At most she should have gotten manslaughter charges.Now shes dead so no one can fight for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:08 PM |
| 3 | How did this clown get a doctorate 🤡🤡🤮That's how the Taliban feel about women too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | This is what reproducing with a LVM looks like. She says she paid for everything her last pregnancy (getting by on her savings) and that he won't let her be a SAHM even though her whole salary goes towards childcare.This is beyond depressing. How could any woman think this is ok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 66 | This was shared by a pickme who is currently the target of a NVM I and my friend group recently cut off due to his gf finally breaking up with him and sharing all the messed up stuff he did to her. This type of thinking will lead u right into the arms of an abuser. Save your best for yourself.This is the type of woman that would bring a child molester home and still continue date the predator even after the kid told her about getting molested by him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 6 | PSA (my wig was also snatched)I grew up Christian fundamentalist (forced on me by my parents) where womens only goal is to look nice for men and please men. Even after I left I still got crushes (or lust more likely) so easily. It caused nothing but trouble and made the relationship unbalanced. They knew I was into them and used it against me in every way they could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 85 | PSA (my wig was also snatched)Crushes are a good way to end up in an abusive relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:05 PM |
| 19 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cuteYeah my mom will shave wax and put on a full face of make up to get seen by her female doctor. I always ask her why and she says she doesnt want to get judged. Even if they did judge who the f cares? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:13 PM |
| 43 | Who else has heard “wear pretty underwear in case you get hit by a bus/car”? So, even when severely injured/dying, women must ensure they’re sexually arousing and visually pleasing the patriarchy. This is not cutePeople who complete suicide are trying to end their pain. Your comment is inappropriate and victim blaming. Not everyone has loving supportive families your whole comment is full of privilege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 4 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreeThat sub used to be cool. Then a bunch of red pilled bros took over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:26 AM |
| 32 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapI didnt notice how pick me my friends were until I left that city. They visited me recently and since there were no hot guys around it felt like they were validation vampires. One got out of an abusive relationship 6 months ago and is already talking to an ex marine who loves trump and worships Rogan and alex jones... she was parroting a lot from them. I kept asking why she doesnt think for herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.Sorry I should have initially added some sources! I just edited my comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 07:00 PM |
| 42 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.Religious men are usually spoiled rotten by their parents and shown by their fathers that womens only purpose is to serve men. Most religions consider women less than men with less rights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 16 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.I will only see female therapists and even then it's been difficult finding someone I connect with. It seems like most only use CBT or DBT which is not recommended for cptsd or ptsd. Sources https://traumatheory.com/cbt-trauma-and-the-va/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/healing-trauma-s-wounds/201911/why-cbt-alone-is-not-trauma-informed-approach https://emdrhealing.com/what-if-cognitive-therapy-is-not-working-for-ptsd/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:16 PM |
| 39 | Red flag - a man who uses spirituality to avoid relationships with actual consequences. Link to post picture captions.Spiritual/religious guys are the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Use a privacy screen on your devicesLinkedIn is so fucking creepy. I hate how everyone expects people to have it. I hate having any social media with my name on it because it's an easy way to be stalked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 8 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣https://www.ktvb.com/article/news/local/boise-lawmaker-steps-in-after-idaho-woman-has-to-pay-for-rape-kit/277-442711250 Source | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 07:07 PM |
| 19 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣If you travel there stay away from the bar scene or make sure you have someone watching your back. I've had way too many friends get drugged there. It's only been a few years that Idaho has stopped making women pay for their own rape kit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:15 PM |
| 30 | If this is not ultimate FDS energy I don’t know what is 🤣Boise is full of fuck boys. If you live there never date a local. It's such a religious area boys grow up with no consequences date rape is so common you get ostracized for reporting it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:06 PM |
| 35 | I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a BushThis has the same energy as the women who look for hot guys on prison rosters and start sending them letters and money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:21 PM |
| 29 | Filter questionsAny question that could make a narcassists mask slip for one second or finding a way to trigger them. Keep guiding the conversation back to them and ask lots of questions dont give out much info about yourself that they can use to love bomb you. Listen for phrases that indicate grandiose thinking such as " all my co workers suck at their job they would be lost if I wasnt there to save them." "I love music and have been playing as a child. My teachers said I would be a music prodigy and no one ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 03:04 PM |
| 26 | If the romance is not going your way, please do not make "stories" around it to make it bearable. So many romantic stories are toxic in reality.Nothing good comes from crushes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Poor Britney. There’s not much else to say.That is the scariest part to me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 08:29 PM |
| 11 | Poor Britney. There’s not much else to say.Such sad news :( this will set precedent for any crazy controlling parent that wants complete control of their celebrity kid in California. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 04:48 PM |
| 50 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?HUGE RED FLAG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Woman absolutely destroys her husband after finding out he posts in the deadbedrooms subreddit. Gold.Why do women keep having kids with men who did nothing to help with the first one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 07:00 PM |
| 17 | Another giant step forward for womankind!Creators of pornhub deserve to rot in prison for the rest of their life for letting people using children in their videos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:58 PM |
| 10 | A take on the libfem stance on victim blamingAnd red states it's even worse if they know you were drinking AT ALL they throw a lot of sexual assaults out and still ask women what they were wearing. Also at clubs and bars I had so many friends who got roofied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 07:21 PM |
| 27 | Have any of you experienced worse street harassment since lockdown?Well, the US is in the top 20 countries that are unsafe for women.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 43 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerAlso have an abortion fund saved up incase you cant get one in your state. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 90 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerSTIs and abortion restrictions are two huge reasons one night stands are stupid right now. Dont hook up with anyone before getting tested together and make sure to have the pregnancy talk and what will happen if an unexpected pregnancy occurs even if you are on BC!! I know a lot of women who have gotten pregnant with IUDs including myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | LVMs and their love for "alone together"The only time I can see that kind of working is if you're both into gaming. During quarantine my bf and I gamed I the same room but we would be talking and watching each other play our games but we would limit gaming to 2 or 3 hours tops and then go work on our mutual hobbies together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:03 PM |
| 15 | If you haven't already, get to know yourself sexually. It'll make it easier to stop desiring LVM and make it easier to drop men that are selfish in bed.Prob cause in porn you never see women on top. Lol they also told me they felt used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:42 PM |
| 18 | If you haven't already, get to know yourself sexually. It'll make it easier to stop desiring LVM and make it easier to drop men that are selfish in bed.I learned my body a decade before I lost my virginity and I can orgasm on top from almost any man unless they orgasm too fast ( unfortunately that is way too common). It makes a lot of them feel weird but I would tell them I was only interested in sex if I could be on top and orgasm first otherwise why risk pregnancy for shitty sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 7 | The Subreddits on Abortion are Being Co-Opted by a creepy weird furry fetishest who has never had nor will ever need an abortion, nor are they a licensed provider. Please don't go there if you need abortion help.Fuck :( that's awful I used to really love that page and it helped me through some awful times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:38 PM |
| 40 | Walk away!A lot of these types of men end up being abusive af. They dont know how to communicate so instead they punch the wall break things or punch you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 15 | What is femininity?I used to have awful acne! As soon as I got rid of my make up and spent that money on skin care items it went away and I rarely break out anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 8 | Irritating Difference in Treatment of Female Anger v Male AngerI just watched Hillary Clinton's documentary on HULU and she kept saying when she went to law school older women encouraged them to not show emotion at all or men would think they were weak. Her whole career people have called her cold and emotionless and not feminine enough. It sucks she decided to marry Bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 07:04 PM |
| 27 | Irritating Difference in Treatment of Female Anger v Male AngerThen when you squash all your emotions down and become emotionless and cold they blame you for that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 41 | (Edited to stay within guidelines) Reddit is so mad at our sub! The comments only confirm the need for this sub and the community and support we offer. Scrotes can die mad about it.That comment is why rape culture is huge in the US. Blame the woman and give the man a chance to tell his sad tale. Look at Brock Turner and how the US treated him. He should have been locked up for attempted murder and rape for 20 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 60 | Thanks to this sub, I’m divorcing my extremely LVM husbandCops rarely take the side of the woman. She needs friends there watching her back because narcissists are fucking insane when they feel insulted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Thanks to this sub, I’m divorcing my extremely LVM husbandNarcissist rage is scary. I would wait until all your valuable personal items are out of there and after you untied your finances before you serve him with divorce papers. If you have to move while hes there make sure to have a couple people there with you with cameras because he will go insane. Please stay safe ♡♡♡ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Another woman is not yours to “offer” or “give” 🤮This gives me Jeffrey Epstein and Ghislaine Maxwell vibes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 10 | Men sending her hatred online launched her career. Stay mad.Lol so awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 32 | Women are the only ones receiving the blame about having fewer children, despite the unevenness of the weight of parenthood across the gendersClimate change should be everyone's number one concern. Capitalism and corporations dont want anything to change they need consumer worker bees and they dont give a shit about the earth just their profits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 5 | They never say *why* they hate FDS...What would happen if 50k fds started reporting these subs? Maybe take screen shots and try and get some news coverage on it or write an article ourselves? Maybe with the Biden/Harris admin we could make some changes! Anything that shows violence against women and children should be illegal. I'm so fucking sick of wife beating rapist child molesters barely getting jail time and women who defend themselves against these psychopaths get years in prison. We need more women to go to law school and ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | They never say *why* they hate FDS...And instead of thinking hmmm maybe I should get in therapy and change or maybe i should go back to school so i can be more successful of course he blames women for seeing him as lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 03:08 PM |
| 46 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateCheck your soap bottles some guys get off on pissing in womens stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 32 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreThere are tons of famous psychologists who wrote about their patients Yollum being the first to come to mind. OP didnt mention location and gave broad details she could be anywhere in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 23 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!It used to be awesome then it got taken over by more and more millitary bros that want to stuck their dicks in as many women as possible and never have to worry about paying child support or be tied down to one woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardI'll have to check that test out! Wow I completely forgot all the times I had "friends" that would disappear as soon as they had a crush. Lately it seems really hard to make HVW friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:16 PM |
| 22 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardPick mes just use you to listen to thier boy problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:18 PM |
| 27 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardGivers are huge targets for narcissists as well. Both males and females can love bomb you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 22 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardFuck you were so clear with what your needs were it just shows how toxic this lady is. There are no excuses for what she did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:13 PM |
| 6 | No Neck Ed is a great example on how LVM use playing stupid and pity to get away with sh!tLol there is a lot of trash on that show but no neck has to be some of the worst trash on there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:43 AM |
| 11 | I don’t even know what to title this one... 🤡Although if he is sleeping with minors or barely legal women I could see them being ok with the situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡Not at all lol I have some injury weight and acne scars. My current partner is just really into me. That's how I could tell he was different from the other guys I had been with who wanted to change me and manipulate me sexually into doing things I wasnt comfortable with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 15 | Where to meet HVW? What are their green flags?I'm in a similar situation. It seems like almost all my long term female friends are with a lvm and they love to complain but then never do anything about it. It got to a point where I told them unless they are going to leave him I dont want to hear about it anymore. That caused some distance and I miss having them around. I guess after leaving an abusive relationship and then getting therapy I dont have much empathy for women who stay in unhealthy relationships especially when they dont have ki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 102 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?Yeah it does. Hes looking for barely 18 hippie girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:14 PM |
| 45 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?Right ? It's one thing if a couple decided this was their dream together or something and I could see it be fun for a summer especially since my partners family lives on the east coast and my family are in the mid west we live west coast so that would be a fun summer adventure! I still want a home to come back to though lol fuck being in a van in the winter time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡I really hope she ended up divorcing him but I havent kept track of them after I broke up with my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 11:41 PM |
| 68 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡My narcissist ex took me to his best friends wedding one summer. I met the bride and her family and instantly connected with them. I was helping her mom with some stuff and she kept saying I cant believe the groom's fam have done NOTHING to help us today and then told me she didnt like the groom after he told her daughter she had to get breast implants before they got married. It killed the mood of the whole day. In that moment I should have scene that my ex and every one he was good friends wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 20 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡So true. I've had a guy cum just from us making out and grinding with clothes on lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 62 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡That screams "I love sexual tourism because I like to fuck underaged asian girls." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 6 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Where I live cops only care about rich white people. I've noticed strangers looking out for each other more but being out at night is still scary for me after I got attacked last year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 18 | Don’t send nudes.I love sending dudes who ask for porn grandpa on grandpa porn lol they get so pissed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 29 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Cops wont do shit anyway especially if you are a woman of color. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | I love how often this lady gets schooled. This was a scary one though, be a bitch and follow your instincts.Ooof. Should be a trigger warning on this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | About the Atlanta murders; Misogyny is invisible. It never receives the same recognition and voice racism does.I've been having trouble finding their ages anywhere too which seems suspicious af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:55 PM |
| 11 | About the Atlanta murders; Misogyny is invisible. It never receives the same recognition and voice racism does.Those women were most likely trafficked too. He murdered women that prob had no choice in working or not and they got fucking murdered by a woman hating psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeishas are never good friendsI felt surrounded by pick mes when I lived in a red state. One day I woke up to realize I didnt have any true girl friends because they were all obsessed with chasing boys that had no interest in relationships. Guess who they would call at 3am because Kyle got irritated with them at the bar and slapped her?? I wasted way more time on my ex pick me friends dealing with their problems than I ever wasted with a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:05 PM |
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