THEREALBUTTERMUFFIN Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-3	How to tell if girl is promiscuous? Why do you have an issue on "body count"? That alone is a cringe statement but I'll leave that be. My question is why do you feel that you are superior to someone who has a high count? Sounds like you have the issue.	/r/seduction	07/05/22 06:20 PM
7	[deleted by user] If you typically have high anxiety it probably won't make you more comfortable. It might bring on new anxiety that you didnt know you had. If you tend to be a more laid back person, no pun intended, it'll probably help. Either way, the thing to remember is every female is different and has different likes and dislikes. What may make you a stud with one woman, another may find it unpleasant. Once you realize that sex isn't that big of a deal and that they are probably just as nervous as you or mo…	/r/seduction	24/09/21 12:34 AM
3	How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward? The red flags are ....she won't meet at your place or hers. It's your ship, drop and cut the anchor already. She's dragging you through that shallow water.	/r/seduction	21/09/21 08:35 PM
1	What can i do so a girl will be more intrested in me? Stop worrying about what they would be interested in and be yourself.	/r/seduction	21/02/21 12:28 AM
3	When asking a girl out for a first date should I use the phrase "can I take you on a date" or just "can I take you out" ? Whether you use the verbiage "date", is very subjective to the female you are talking to and also depends on prior interactions you have had with her. There's a lot of variables like age, whether or not you have flirted with her prior to you asking. You gotta pick up on her non verbal cues and you'll already have your answer. Mainly, the only time you wanna ask for a "date" is if you were just introduced and have had a successful chat for about 5 minutes, then you ask for it.	/r/seduction	14/10/20 11:10 PM
1	Great first date, Second date lined up then ghosted A person only interested in dom/sub in only sex usually has been through abusive relationships or upbringing or has severe daddy issues. They are a completely different thing from females who like to be sub in general.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 11:40 PM
1	Great first date, Second date lined up then ghosted If the dom/sub thing interests you, you might want to read up on it. If she's only interested in the sex aspect of it, then bonus for you. A lot easier when it's just sex. If it were me, I'd let that one go. If it's only sex, then there's other issues that you don't know about. But that's me. Best of luck bro.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 11:31 PM
1	Trying to figure out how to approach my older semi-milf neighbor? No problem. Let me know how it works out for you.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 11:26 PM
5	Trying to figure out how to approach my older semi-milf neighbor? Women are women but you can't treat this like a normal dating situation. If you like her and want to get to know her better, just say that to her. A woman in her 50's can see through bullshit. A woman in her 50's is looking for honesty and vulnerability. Make yourself vulnerable by talking with her and expressing how you feel. They aren't looking for pick up lines, they are looking for someone who knows what they want and aren't ashamed or embarrassed to ask for it. The main difference is even i…	/r/seduction	12/10/20 11:19 PM
1	Great first date, Second date lined up then ghosted If you're not into the dom/sub thing she will know. That's not something that you just try, being a dom is a bit different than what most ppl think. The sub actually holds all the power, however the Dom has to be assertive while respecting the subs limits. The dom can only guide the sub to opening up to new things. Trust plays the biggest role in this type of relationship. So unless you can dom and remain dom, I would recommend you move on. That's my opinion. Hope that helps you.	/r/seduction	12/10/20 11:09 PM
3	Trying to figure out how to approach my older semi-milf neighbor? If you're that nervous on how to approach her, how do you know she lonely or innocent? Are you going off something she has said to you or just a hunch or your part?	/r/seduction	12/10/20 10:57 PM