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Field ReportTHE_CARDINAL/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:09 PM
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Agreed, no man should be looking for their mother in another woman. But many women try to be that replacement, and or at least a similar figure, trying to cure the bad boy mentality.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 05:17 PM
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This is a perfect add on. Every woman believes she will be the caring nurturing mother. . . Until they get a good look into the dark, empty pit that is your soul. Hence why women like bad boys, they believe they can "cure" him. But once that starts to happen they get cold feet, turn tail and swing to another branch that looks stronger.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 06:53 AM
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Dude goodwill is killer. White dress shirts that get messy after a couple uses, 4 bucks. All my workout gear under armor stuff costs a few bucks and you can get some decent denim. The trick here is go to goodwills in or near upper class neighborhoods. Tons of good quality and brands.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 04:01 PM
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Agreed, nothing good comes from maintaining a relationship with an ex unless children are involved. Especially when your current SO is not around.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 07:45 PM
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Are you saying OPs boyfriend shouldn't have friends that would remain friendly with his ex? Or that OPs boyfriend shouldn't be friends with his ex? The latter is understandable, but a very good female friend of mine dated a very good male friend of mine. I knew them both separately before they started dating. I couldn't imagine not having either of them in my life as I value both of them, their opinions and the help they have both separately provided me with, I wouldn't stop being friends with e…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/17 05:48 PM
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Coming from a student getting my doctorate in physical therapy, this is solid advice. I am currently cutting down on my intense compound lifting sessions and focusing on mobility and flexibility workouts. Guys half my size that can lift what I lift have all suggested mobility workouts as a way to keep yourself working optimally for the rest of your life with little strength loss. And you will hate stretching and what not when you see everyone else lifting. But a solid foundation of proper mobili…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 03:10 AM
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A good rule of thumb is "If a girl brings something up then she's thinking about it, if a girl is thinking about something then it's on the table." She brought up the idea of a hook-up, so she is obviously thinking about it. At that point she is trying to determine if she wants to hook-up with you, and so like any human when trying to decide something, they test it out. So she shit tested you and you failed, and she moved on. Now there are general ways to go about passing shit tests, but every w…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 08:41 PM
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Of course its fake, he knows it and actively puts it on. Thats why he has become such a phenomena. That, and because he is actually very smart, hard working and extremely dedicated to his craft (he may be one of the greatest fighters to ever live, if he takes the 170 belt he will solidify that.) He isn't the person he is on TV, he knows how to play a part and how to manipulate promotions to make himself larger than life and make $$$. But make no mistake, he didn't tear up the UFC in under 4 year…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:14 PM
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Good, and keep moving forward! You are muuuuuch better than this girl OP, and she is obviously nothing but useless trouble. Learn from this lesson and learn how to keep your feelings under control. Read the comment from /u/DippedInFireAnts
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:59 PM
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I cannot agree more. If I could go back and teach my younger self one lesson, it would be "Don't put girls in a position where they have to make a serious/big decision." OP, think about it, if some ogre of a woman that you were friendly with cornered you somewhere and confessed her love for you, how would you feel right then, and how would you feel about seeing them after that? It would be terribly uncomfortable. Keep your emotions in check, hold your frame, and use subtle hints to show interest…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 04:56 PM
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Love is a four letter word. BUT SO IS CURL. I needed that, thanks dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:44 PM
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Very deep, solid advice. I have to work on this myself.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:41 PM
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Wow, I have had these feelings and thoughts. But you put that in a very succinct and straight forward way. That hole man, I've been trying to fill it with LOTS of things. And for a while a woman did seem to do the trick . . . until she fucked off. I'm still working to find what it takes to fill that void, but some old habits aren't easy to kick.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:34 PM
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And best of luck to you brother. We'll make it through, even if neither of us believes it right now. We must focus on ourselves and truly believe in our own intrinsic value. (If you haven't read the book "The Secret" its a good starting point for a positive frame of mind although take some of it with a grain of salt. But the shit kinda does work if you truly believe in it.) Honestly, we can't love others and be the men we should become without learning to happy with ourselves. This is one of tho…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 06:13 PM
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I commented a few weeks ago maybe even to one of your posts. Im 2 months out of a 2+ year relationship with someone I thought I was going to eventually propose to. I am no where near over her. But as the gentleman above said, what made her so special was that you gave yourself to her. It can be replaced, even if I don't completely believe that whole heartedly right now, and even if you don't want to replace her. But you have to take off the rose colored glasses you are wearing. Because you are o…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 12:38 AM
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Wow, and the last one for me was get MY heart broken. I don't know if thats good or bad.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 09:58 PM
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You're fucking killing me dude. It happened fellas, the one that I thought was perfect, fit my personality to a T and was the best thing that ever happened to me, cheated on me last week. I'm still numb. I'm going crazy back and forth about what to do, I'm angry one minute, upset the next, lonely another minute later and then ok for a while after I get some sleep. I haven't gotten the courage yet to completely get her out of my mind but, "Others that will be better looking, treat you better. I h…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 02:39 AM
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Agreed, there was a post on TRP just a couple days ago on how to hold frame when your gf or plate shit tests you by saying they are going to meet their ex. Flipping out while she's still there won't change ANYTHING. So stay calm and wait till she gets home to lay down the law about how that kind of behavior when not expressly consented to, is totally unacceptable in a relationship, especially a marriage.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 09:13 PM
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Right? I don't see any intuitive options offered here that the guy didn't already make. He tried to be available after a traumatic experience. This thread is making it seem like he should have immediately cut ties after a week of no contact, that's a disgusting opinion. I do not like where this post went.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:47 PM
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It is discussed a lot here about the inherent nature of Men. Women too have an inherent nature, and they are programmed to nurture. Women a programmed this way to take care of their children, but this extends to all aspects of their life. They then see men with less than desirable qualities that they may still be attracted too, and in turn try to nurture or "fix" these qualities.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:37 PM
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Haha, I love this "don't knock em up" advice. Believe me that shit is not on my to do list. I really haven't read too much into the dread method, but it's been mentioned enough that I'm going to get acquainted with it. But I will keep in mind that I can probably push shit a little further due to the freshness of the situation, and the investment of the one I was formerly chasing.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:39 PM
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Fair point, I unfortunately have an affinity for craziness. I never said I was the perfect picture of a man, I have my weaknesses and vices like everyone else. Still working on em bruh.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:13 PM
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We went at it back in the day, and she mentioned it to Tiffany who told this to me when explaining this cluster fuck for the first time. And the girl told me herself when she was drunk while we were out at the bar one night. Would have bagged her then, but we were out with several friends, with Tiffany driving unfortunately. She does not have the boyfriend now, and Tiffany is MIA for a while, so I think its a distinct possibility.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:11 PM
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Yea I don't plan on telling her anything. I have been with other girls while she was being a pain in the ass, I just wanted to get it in with her since I had been after it for a while. But like others here have said, I can dread her, and using the college chick to push her if she starts reverting back to her old ways.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:03 PM
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Basically you have to see that this kind of behavior is in women's nature, whether we think its fair, or not. Whether we like it or not. So with that, turn the shit back around on them is basically the idea. It's going to happen either way, might as well do the same thing and have some fun of my own right?
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 08:01 PM
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Actually Tiffany's friends was an old flame of mine in high school. She admitted to never losing her crush on me, thats why they made this idiotic pact in the first place. Funny thing is she had a boyfriend up until recently, which made this fucking situation even more retarded, but regardless she's next on my hit list. And yea thats the first and last time I use that phrase, I've been on reddit too much lately. I sound like some jerk-off neck beard.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:56 PM
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Didn't think of that, good lookin out dude. And enjoy it I will! haha
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:31 PM
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Thank you good sir, although I don't have much interest in her any more, the girl can suck a golfball through a garden hose. Soooo, I'm gonna let it ride.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:29 PM
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That's the plan haha.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:28 PM
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Amen brother. And you are right, it wasn't the attitude, like I said, seeing a new girl with me lit a fire under her ass real quick.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:52 PM
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Agreed, it can't really go anywhere serious anyway, for several reasons. So I probably wouldn't even bother going after anything even if I thought she might be worth it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:52 PM
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Poetic indeed, the thought of that actually made me laugh. Turing the situation a complete 180 degrees, with me "dangling the carrot" this time around would be a good ending to an otherwise useless hookup.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:24 PM
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So your basically warning against oneitis? "There will always be something better, hotter, and more willing just around the corner." I will have to work on that mentality in the future, its been helping me when things are going good, but it can be hard when in a dry spell. ^
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:39 PM
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Damn, thats vicious. I am not completely sure how far to push using dread method. Any suggestions? And yea I totally get that neither are trustworthy. I will keep in mind that I can't let it get to my head, I know how that works, and a wet streak will turn dry very quickly if I let that happen, it's happened before. And I suppose "nice" wasn't the correct term. She is a bit younger than me and basically my wish was her command. She got all doe eyed and proud I chose her to make another girl jeal…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:30 PM
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Duly noted.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:05 PM
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I definitely plan I seeing college girl a few more times, she's a dime haha. Why I actually went to see Tiffany the next day I don't know. Looking back, probably shouldn't have went regardless of ended up happening.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:03 PM
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I believe some states have a "no fault" policy like Florida for instance, they do not look to blame either party and the financial terms basically come from formulas. I am not sure but in states that are not "no fault" the cheater may forfeit certain financial possibilities, or at least not get the higher end of the monthly payment ex. If the spouse who cheated was well off, the monthly payment to the spouse who did not cheat may be offered an amount anywhere between 10-13 grand a month, and the…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 02:15 AM
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