| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Prove me wrong by showing me proof | Debate | THe1NES | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Prove me wrong by showing me proof | THe1NES | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/21 05:16 PM |
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| 1 | The whole “Chad” thing is extremely overblown, women consistently get with men less attractive than themChad/Alpha is a false taxonomy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 6 | ‘We’ve had calls from men who have suffered 50 years of domestic abuse. They can’t start a second home’Ok this website is awful it doesn’t link to the Harvard article. BUT another study from the NCBI published in the AJPH (2007) does present this conclusion. To add credibility to those so inclined, 2 of the 4 researchers were female. You’re right | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | ‘We’ve had calls from men who have suffered 50 years of domestic abuse. They can’t start a second home’Tell me where they are | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is dying down and mens rights is growingWait how do you know this??? Just subreddit membership is not sufficient to show the national attitudes are changing at least in america | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 8 | ‘We’ve had calls from men who have suffered 50 years of domestic abuse. They can’t start a second home’Yeah just from the description domestic abuse is way more two-sided than many people believe. I still think men are the main perpetrators most of the time in heterosexual relationships which exhibit domestic abuse, but the situation even then is often nuanced. EDIT: after reading a study from the AJPH (2007) by Daniel J. Whitaker, PhD, Tadesse Haileyesus, MS, Monica Swahn, PhD, and Linda S. Saltzman, PhD, I stand corrected. It uses credible methods to assert that men are targeted more than women… | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 08:07 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is seen as shallow and objectifying, but how is Tinder any better?Dating apps differ from cold approaches in that there is a shared intention in being there- to find a romantic partner/hookup, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)I dunno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:56 PM |
| -1 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)It’s problematic that your white and only find men of your race attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)Dude that’s the problem your tryna keep the bloodline pure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | This simulator lets you try out different dating strategies on a large scale – what are your conclusions?This is really cool and I very much appreciate these thoughts. I’m gonna check out this simulation rn… thanks!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Is marriage worth it in today’s era?Statistically, no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:47 AM |
| -2 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)There’s plenty of other races out there with plenty of other pretty men. Romance is the hearth of racism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:47 AM |
| -1 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)Lol why’d you say “Men” that’s an old ass kindergartener. And kinda sad that that’s what defines your romantic life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | What's something the opposite gender gets away with?I go out of my way to treat attractive women worse because I know how much of a protected class they are in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Women have higher standards for casual sex. This tends to demonstrate that committed relationships are the consolation prizeI disagree with this study- women choose men for a one night stand based on decent physical attractiveness but very importantly because the man makes them feel at ease and is not overly threatening. They will not rape them or endanger them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you find men simple easy to read or a black box of confusing?Then you my friend are surrounded by rich pricks who never had to think of the consequences of their actions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:39 AM |
| 4 | Do you actually know what makes you attracted to a man? (specially in a first time meeting)Aryan fetishization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Hitting a man in the groin should be seen as sexual assault (in a non self defense situation)It’s as funny as hitting a woman in the breast | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Working a job is beta. Huh. I’m learning 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Sex just isnt worth as much as some of you think it isSex is kind of one of those things that people dump their extra passion on- like drinks and money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | It is better to be with someone with similar taste than similar intelligenceMaybe for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Men are responsible for women’s alleged “inflated egos” and overvaluing themselves.Dude I legit don’t know what an alpha or beta is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Woke college educated women should date down men in terms of income and status.Oops... looks like you showed there’s nothing beyond plan B for rich white women 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: On Male Friends, Part I - How do you make and keep male friends?The whole “straight men and women can’t be friends” thing is such BS and really oversimplified. Some guys will not be able to keep a relationship platonic, but others will. It depends on the guy, and it’s not at all a strike against his masculinity if he does keep a women as his friend. It can also depend on the woman’s attractiveness. Both of these and other factors go into deciding how often a man will move past friendship with an otherwise woman friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?What the hell do all these acronyms mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible, that in future somehow gender dynamics, where women are dominant and men are passive, will be common and accepted? Will passive and feminine men be accepted?Over what time-arc? It’s anybodies guess what animals well evolve into in millions of years and what those animals will find attractive. But within the “foreseeable” future- this dynamic of women being seen as more dominant will never happen. First of all the viewpoint of men being more dominant is something that’s pretty culturally specific to western societies and wealthy populations in those societies in general. The closer men and women get to living in nature the less they care about gender… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | If women get pumped and dumped by men they approach, it's their own fault for not vetting those men first, and not approaching men because of the risk of getting pumped and dumped is just lazyI feel like titles this general are too vague for their own use | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Why is Online Dating is Dispassionate and Cynical?It could just be the app your using tinder doesn’t give two fucks about personality- but there are others that are specifically based around stuff like personality type or astrology or religion or other stuff. These also tend to have more favorable male/female user divides (if you’re a cis guy). Tinder is significantly more men than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Which race of men has the easiest time dating? (intra-racially to be specific)Can first of all dispel the idea that race exists biologically and that secondly different ‘races’ are intrinsically different in their behaviors and preferences. I dunno man- in western societies whiteness is synonymous with traditional attractiveness because it’s seen as more civilized, so white guys probably have it easiest because their skin color to some extent automatically makes them more attractive in the eyes of many unknowing racist women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars.https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/why_physical_touch_matters_for_your_well_being https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/hands_on_research https://www.tmc.edu/news/2020/05/touch-starvation/ https://www.shape.com/lifestyle/mind-and-body/benefits-of-human-touch Edit: I’m not really gonna waste my time or energy arguing with you about the nature of human need, all I can really say is that I don’t have any reason to care about your opinions because so few people agree with you that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars.Please tell me where I said this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Human affection is NOT code for sex. If a man is truly lonely, he can make friends.It’s a need of nearly all human beings man or woman to have love and compassion and physical contact in their life. If this is left out people become unwell. Modern romance is so fucked because we choose to add all this bullshit that gets in the way of loving whoever you want by saying you can’t be this or that. I don’t fucking care if you “simp”, are “alpha”, are “cucked” or are in the “friendZone”. I don’t even know what all this jargon that’s made up to force people to conform means. The prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | If sex is inherently harmful for women, why would they continue to want to have casual sex?The risks for sex with women are very low in most instances compared to the pleasure of sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Just be confident bruhAs is the case with all other 2 or 3 word pithy lines of vague ‘wisdom’, this one is complete BS. What is confidence? Confidence to approach a girl in the first place or to display confidence? Both? Neither? Something else entirely? If it is just to display confidence exactly how does one do that? If it’s to build up confidence how does one do that too? Is confidence really needed to approach a girl (they are just people like you and I after all)? You’d do best to ignore such phrases and feel ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:43 AM |
| 2 | If sex is inherently harmful for women, why would they continue to want to have casual sex?yeah, not with you but with the original post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Why are both men and women flakey these days? Also do flakey people realize they burn bridges by being flakey?I’m especially flaky cause the air dry and I have dandruff lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:22 AM |
| 1 | I think lot of people only pursue dating because of social pressure.Yeah only like high energy extroverts find dating as a natural way of meeting people. It’s kind of weird because dating is like a new thing in meeting potential partners. It didn’t used to be this way, and I think dating in general has really fucked up whole ass generations. It’s so competitive and fake and unnatural. Who says finding partners has to be stressful? Why do we do this to ourselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Women who give “ugly guys” a chance should stop acting like they’re being charitableWhy do you care so much about this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the new generation of bi women.Is there a new generation of bi women? Hopefully they’re better than the last 2.0.1 version as it had some bugs. Lol what a weird way to think about people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars.Yeah but people aren’t commodities- women aren’t comparable to iPhones and men aren’t comparable to iPhones. iPhones don’t have a life. They don’t know what emotional and physical intimacy is and how every person needs it in order to be healthy. People (men or women) have a right to have sex with someone so long as both people agree and both people are decent people. That’s all. We get confused into thinking that “attractiveness” exists. It doesn’t. It’s made up to sell makeup and cars. What mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?Maybe yeah because I’ve seen a lot of dudes who can’t be fucked to self-reflect on how entitled trash they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.Yeah but it’s easier (not easy, just easier) to break the friend zone as a women because you can let your friend know you want something more without it sounding creepy or even like sexual harassment (unless you really mess it up) whereas guys have to constantly worry about not appearing as “rapey” or creepy- both of which could get you in trouble with the law with an unhinged woman- a women in the worst case being labeled as a slut doesn’t have as bad of ramifications | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 07:04 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All]Whats your thoughts on the common Advice of joining clubs/activities with people of the opposite sex?I didn’t read the whole post but these sorts of blanket statements like “just put yourself out there” or “be active” are as worthless as they are vague. People say them because after the fact they can attribute their successes to “putting themselves out there” or “being active” etc., but that’s not actually why they got what they wanted, which I guess in this case is to meet girls. So- you can somehow be an active member in every club and nobody will want to fuck with you, and you can be somebod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating, your personality and income also matter, not just your looks.Yes these factors are very underrated for some reason reddit just becomes a race-wealth-nationality vacuum. Not everyone is the same in those categories, so the discussion will not be the same. Statistically women marry equal or above the income bracket they come from, so that’s why money matters so much. Ideal attractiveness consists of having white/light skin, average to above-average height, good facial and bodily symmetry, a good income (specifics vary), physical fitness, and personality the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 06:43 AM |
| 0 | A question for all these guys who constantly whine about women having high standards and never giving them a chance: Wouldn't you do the same thing if you were in a position of that woman or a high value man?Yes- if you have moral values. It is a tough position to be attractive for that issue you laid out there, but if you care about the most decent way to act then you have sex with people whose character attracts you the most not whose body does. This is how I live my life, as should everyone. Again it’s a tough position to be attractive but I’m sorry you’re just a weak and cowardly person if you only hook up with people whose body you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?People can do whatever the hell they want- actually they should have casual sex because it makes you feel good. But just as with displays of sexuality/affection in general, the problem I take isn’t that they’re wrong inherently, like I said, it’s that a lot of wrong often goes into the lead-up to that moment. These are mostly circling around what women and men find “attractive”. Any decent person should be able to ride cock or get they’re cock ridden. It’s a spiritual sickness to have to have st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 06:25 AM |
| 8 | If sex is inherently harmful for women, why would they continue to want to have casual sex?Driving is inherently dangerous because there’s a small chance you might crash. Because of this I’ve given up driving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?Because they’re sometimes rich and chicks dig money men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Are beauty standards worse and weirder in the present? For both men and women?Absolutely. Unrestricted corporatism has wreaked havoc in beauty standards and made perverts out of its consumers. Little kids being indoctrinated into highly sexualized culture from a very young age beginning in the early 2000s and shit like that. It’s completely off the rails | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:39 AM |
| 1 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menYeah if you’re rich | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you think matters more to women? Income or passion?Depends on the individual. Women are not a monolith in this category | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Success in only fans a manifestation of a changing sexual market place?Absolutely, and it’s awful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Maybe OnlyFans isn't so bad for marriage?OnlyFans or at least the soft porn aspect of it is bad for everything except for capitalism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Do you think the dating advice industry is a scam?Well dating is a scam so- yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Romantic relationships are more about avoiding loneliness than sex.All of romance is except for the orgasm is psychological | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to more feminine men? If so, why?Because the women who find walking vanity projects attractive are vanity projects themselves #notallwomen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Women’s preferences for men’s facial masculinity are strongest under favorable economic conditionsWow this is incredible research. Good job for finding this and actually presenting a claim of some sort in this sub based in data | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Women seem capable of admitting negative traits. Are men?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 08:25 AM |
| 2 | Question for all: what is one thing you wish the opposite sex could understand?This is an overly vague statement and largely fallacious (“all” women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Only Fans is “easy work” that isn’t actually easyMen eat the vast majority of the risk in western society. OnlyFans is not real work. I’m not so judgemental as to look down on people who make money that way the world is fucked up and you gotta make a means any way that works. But it’s not a real job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 12:28 PM |
| 3 | At 44 I am loudmouthed and don’t care if I hurt others. Hence I need a guy to make me a princess. And something about a long team....I dunno man... those eyes- they just look sick | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/11/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Is the beta provider dying out?woops http://scienceline.ucsb.edu/getkey.php?key=6097 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Is the beta provider dying out?What studies provide proof of the existence of alpha and beta males in humans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Is the beta provider dying out?Funny how you created an illusion to fallaciously explain women’s habits of choosing a partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone considered that treating humans like individuals might be the solution?This is the truth. You put words to the exact sentiment I was too lazy/shy to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Is the beta provider dying out?The beta male is a social construct, so no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Should a Man Hold a Woman's Purse for Her?If you feel like doing your significant other a favor you can do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexThat’s vague | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexBut you’re the one who said it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexBut that’s of course a bullshit idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexUh people did evolve from apes. I’m not really sure what you’re saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | The majority of woman prefer men who do white collar work to blue, sometimes regardless of income.But where is the proof for that? How do you know women prefer men of higher status? What data proves this? You have information that outlines what high status jobs exist, but not how that relates to women’s choices in men. I would disagree with the notion that men or women are any objects at all, they’re just people whose gender is a factor of their identity that they can’t change, just like race or birthplace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | The majority of woman prefer men who do white collar work to blue, sometimes regardless of income.What study explicitly proves your point. There’s probably one out there, but where is it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 05:57 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe a woman’s place is to be a homemaker and raise kids? Why or why not?No, because I believe in a right to equality and freedom for all people regardless of gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | A speculation about the alpha male.Your premise is faulty. Alpha males don’t exist in complex societies and are a social construct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 2 | How is FDS manupulative?What the hell is an FDS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 6 | Do relationships with traditional gender dynamics have a higher chance of domestic abuse?DATA!!! This is how to answer the question! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Conflict between the sexes is mostly based upon a simple misunderstandingWait I don’t get it... so all you want out of life isn’t to make babies? Huh you must be a defective woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe men are more justified in sleeping around? Why or why notNot any more than women are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How can a woman know a beta is committing because he likes her as a person and not because he's desperate for sex?Beta is a social construct that exists in some species in the wild but not for humans. Any guy can get an attractive girl, depends on how hard he tries, how lucky he is, and whether his combination of personality and looks clicks right with the girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Conflict between the sexes is mostly based upon a simple misunderstandingOr just put in the mental energy to find out what the specific woman you are attracted to wants, as such efforts will be far more precise and better spent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons why there seems to be such a disparity in “emotional labor” between men and women? Are women operating in covert contracts and expecting men to do things they were never conditioned to agree to?It’s a very case by case basis. We’re all individual humans with unique desires and emotional strengths/weaknesses that don’t track closely with gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?I actually don’t think there have been any, but maybe trials studying adjacent topics could prove your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?To prove that a population (men with high body counts) has a similarity, one needs statistical evidence. I’m not sure if any studies have been done to prove that most men with high body counts value women of a lower ‘quality’ and value a higher quantity of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Well it’s a good thing we have monogamy to keep that stability. I’m not saying monogamy will solve the instability issue on its own, but clearly what we have going isn’t working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexYeah and we can. We can beat addictions. Argument ruined. We can go on diets. They’re actually quite popular with many humans. We can also do quantum physics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:15 AM |
| 2 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexYour point is moot by now, though, because where each animals do have their own knack, you can’t just wave humans away as just another different species. We are infinitely smarter than the next smartest animal. Our brains are the most complex clumps of matter in the known universe. It’s difficult to see these vast differences between humans and all other animals and say we are the same, because we aren’t. Human complexity allows us to care about useless crap like whether you wear nice cologne or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Then don’t have sex with the target lady. But if you have the means, why not? An improvement of the welfare state is needed for an improvement in the standards of living to an extent to make such a shift away from monogamy possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 13 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexYeah like having money (something that doesn’t exist for animals). Or dressing nicely. Or being a good conversationalist. Or having nice manners. I’ve seen mice in my kitchen display these traits! It’s uncanny! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:58 AM |
| 4 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexNo this happened when humans evolved an advanced prefrontal cortex many tens of thousands of years ago, but it’s that paired with the developments of civilizations and the social norms that come with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Is society stable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Can you define anti-civilization for me? I know this dynamic of making peace or conforming, but that is a way to advocate against any change at all, for almost anything. So of course that’s the current situation but it shouldn’t be that way. I’m a staunch social libertarian. It’s just what I believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Uh it’s guys too. The whole world isn’t tinder it’s 50/50 split and so are the benefits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:51 AM |
| 0 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?But it’s taboo and shamed if you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?With one person at a time though. Why is marriage even a thing? Why is dating so often only for two people at a time? Now I’m not personally into being in a relationship with more than two people (myself and other), but it’s ok if you are, and cheating is ok. As I said, restrictions of expressions of love are restrictions of personal freedoms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:40 AM |
| 3 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexWhen did I say we weren’t animals? But what makes people special is that the human mind has the capacity to function outside of purely instinctual desires. Having a kid for human beings is based on an intellectual belief in furthering ones own legacy, if it were based on animalistic impulses each man would have fathered children to many women, many perhaps most by rape, and we wouldn’t live in a society dominated by monogamy in general. But that doesn’t happen. It’s because people are just expec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Except that’s all they’ve ever really known... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexWomen don’t have biological incentives. Humans are not carnal beings. If you want to have a kid you have a kid. If you don’t, you don’t (most of the time) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 1 | If men magically turned into women for a day, they'd do the same thing as us and deny casual sexWe live in the 21st century so there are ways to mitigate all of the issues faced by women for casual sex, but it is more difficult to mitigate these issues for women than it is for men, to the point where it’s just not practical or desired much of the time, without there being some sort of sacrifice made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:26 AM |
| -2 | Is monogamy a lie/doomed to failure?Monogamy is unnatural and should be abolished legally and in terms of expectation and norms. restrictions on love = restrictions on personal freedoms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?Never have, never will. Hate Facebook | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 5 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?No I have no qualms about staring at an ass in public. I’ve been caught more times than I care to admit or even remember, but it’s a disrespectful act because it’s a majority opinion among the target group (women) that they don’t want to be observed. If you’re an American, this what it means to live in a society that cares about personal liberty and right to privacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:16 AM |
| 6 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?That’s why I say I try my hardest. I know both through nature and nurture men are wired to look where they shouldn’t, but that’s a challenge only the human mind can take on. I happen to have a human brain, so challenge accepted, instincts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?What if he has the perfect body but is slouched over, somewhat disheveled, and aloof? The opposite scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 16 | Help me understand the psychology of why some women feel so "violated" when they catch men checking them out in public?This is not the perspective you are looking for, posting as a man, but I believe it’s my duty to treat everyone else as they want to be treated, which means not looking where other people don’t want me to when out in public. If I see a sleek sports car or motorbike on the side of the road, I’ll feast my eyes on it. Why do I do this and enjoy its beauty? Because it’s an inanimate object. It doesn’t care if you are looking at it. If I see a beautiful woman in a shop will I look at her differently … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?Beauty for men is a combination of both physical appearance, and personality. So even if you aren’t that physically attractive, if you pair that with the right type of seductive personality it can actually create a very potent and attractive person. It’s sort of tough to explain. Similarly if there was a 10/10 woman but she had a personality that really did not mix with her body, she would be unattractive, to me at least. I mean she’d be cool to look at in the same way a magazine model would be,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Does the count matter for both men and women?Each woman is different. I cannot present statistics in the matter so I’m sorry I can’t lay that to rest. As to your second point, it is a convenient sexual fantasy to imagine men and women as diffferent and opposite breeds, I do this sometimes, but deep down the intellectual inside of you knows that if you are a man, there are very feminine parts of your body indeed, and if you are a woman, there are very masculine parts as well. The objective reality always disproves fantasies. Fantasies never… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Does the count matter for both men and women?Penis and vagina are not ‘opposite’ organs, if there even is such a thing. They both are formulated from the same basic organs in the womb. All men are is mutated women. Just look at how babies develop on the womb. The scrotum is the labia sealed, which contains the testicles which are just the ovaries which are altered to produce sperm and migrate downwards. The penis is an oversized clitoris. Did you know men can squirt just like women can during sex? It’s cause we share the same basic biologi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Does the count matter for both men and women?Are you going to contribute a formulated criticism or a ramble of emotional hyperbole and outpouring? I’m pretty sure downvoting is frowned on here also, is it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Does the count matter for both men and women?Is desperation the same as lacking self control? Maybe it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Does the count matter for both men and women?What data points to these conclusions? What factually confirms that men and women are attracted to opposite things besides a lack of originality in ones thinking process and a propensity to process ideation in clichés only? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Does the count matter for both men and women?There are more factors than just lacking self control that could drive a man to want to achieve a high body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?Maybe so, I don’t know how you’d prove that but I have no reason to disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?Some men will have sex with them. But hey, when your horny (& often drunk) af all anyone is looking for is a decent looking bedfellow, and that’s not even unique to guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 01:05 AM |
| 7 | [Q4All] Where do you stand on the recent supposed rise in young male sexlessness?5 because if one part of a society is seen as failing it is because others are also failing. That happens by definition due to the highly interconnected nature of civilizations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Can men develop attraction to a woman based on something besides looks?To an extent the more your individual personality is appealing, the less physically beautiful you have to be, but only to a certain point. We’ll sacrifice some of that personality for someone who is physically beautiful but again, only to an extent. I don’t want to be dating a shell of a woman who looks great but is uninteresting. That is unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: Women might not necessarily have it easier on dating apps; here's whyI wouldn’t be surprised but it doesn’t matter the point is that the numbers of guys and girls is completely out of whack with the real world, and predictably always with there being far more guys than there are girls. The specific numbers don’t matter, so long as there is a disparity in representation within the app compared to real life, the explanation above is valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 19 | Can you date without dating apps?Dating apps are both the culmination of everything toxic with big social media and are an unnatural way to initiate romantic relationships. I’m not saying it can’t happen but it shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 08:01 PM |
| 6 | Men should be grateful they even get to betabuxOk, but I won’t be convinced until I see data on sexless men compared with their contribution to society in net wealth or some other measurement. I won’t be convinced by stereotypes of suspected sexless men who mope around and are a dead weight in society because of a case of depression no psychiatrist ever diagnosed them with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Men should be grateful they even get to betabuxYou can only let your sexual desires determine your fate to a finite extent. What makes humans as a species “special” is our ability to conduct thought separated from carnal desires. For this reason, both male and female humans are far more similar than they are different, if not physically then without a doubt mentally, as the human brain is the organ above all others that transcends the carnal desires and thus mode of thought is identical across all human genders, ages, races, etc. That is why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Is it natural for women to dislike being reassuredI... I don’t know man. I was just saying she’s an independent person because she seems like sort of a badass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Is it natural for women to dislike being reassuredNo it just means she’s stubbornly independent. She’s an independent person who doesn’t seek reassurance from anyone. I know a bunch of people like that. It’s not a bad thing, it’s just what she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Is it natural for women to dislike being reassuredShe seems resolutely independent. Regardless of gender those people don’t like to be reassured of things a lot of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Opinion: Women might not necessarily have it easier on dating apps; here's whyNot really sure, I guess in a sense? Like what I’m saying is Tinder is something like 80-20 guys to girls, or something really out of whack like that. It’s expected that with such a disparity of users there will be scenarios like the one you described in the original post. You have two “sides” so to speak, the side that has a demand for guys and the other that has a demand for girls, and they both can supply one of each to each user, so you are going to be left with some 60% of the users who are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Opinion: Women might not necessarily have it easier on dating apps; here's whyThat’s why dating apps are dysfunctional when they cater to an audience that is not reflective of the overall gender/sexuality demographic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Let’s stop the downvotingDownvoting is the lazy mans counter argument. Don’t be lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 02:13 PM |
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