TJSR2611 Archive

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1	Anyone's 'innergame' improved through medication such as zoloft or some anti anxiety med? I think citalopram is the first port of call due to the longer half life but ot left me feeling flat. Sertraline has the better side-effect profile. The studies clearly indicate a benefit from psychological therapy. It just takes work. If you wanted to start with the sertraline though by all means do. Moods are affected by chemicals, thought processes, behaviours and social contexts so its worth looking into all of that. As for approach anxiety I think it's a case of building an exposure hierarc…	/r/seduction	02/10/19 09:37 AM
2	Anyone's 'innergame' improved through medication such as zoloft or some anti anxiety med? Sertraline definitely helps me. But then I would suggest doing the inner work first ie mindset shifts, mindfulness, affirmation, relaxation techniques and lifestyle improvements. Then start a med. I certainly have a clearer mind from my SSRI but its only half the story and the studies would indicate that therapy is as good as a pill in mild to moderate anxiety or depression.	/r/seduction	02/10/19 08:48 AM
2	How do I stay strong and calm after my gf split ? What would it look like for you if you weren't needy and had a balanced life?	/r/seduction	22/06/19 09:39 AM
1	My (ex) girlfriend dumped me and she was right Interesting! I've been going thru a similar experience just now	/r/seduction	26/05/19 04:22 PM
1	Am i cursed or something? Curses aren't real. Is this happening all the time or just one or two occasions? What do you usually look out fir as indicators of interest and do you appropriately escalate?	/r/seduction	16/04/19 04:05 PM
1	So I got 2 numbers and one reply, what's next? Set a date in next few days for casual evening drinks, see if you like her still after you've talked a bit haha. Find out if she's worth your time	/r/seduction	21/03/19 11:38 PM
3	Where to sarge during the day by yourself? Shops, bars, cafes, mall, work (or your place of education), the park, museums etc. Its all practice!	/r/seduction	18/03/19 10:07 PM
13	How to start hooking up with other girls while being in a relationship? Would you be bothered if your girlfriend said she was going to start hooking up?	/r/seduction	08/03/19 07:33 AM
3	How to react when you kiss a chick and she bites down reaaallly hard on your lip like she's trying to hurt you. It feels like she's trying to make you angry and piss you off. Maybe ask her intention behind biting . How interested in you is she? Maybe don't get involved	/r/seduction	15/02/19 04:20 PM
13	First date on Valentine’s Day? Probably a little too soon for valentines. Maybe ask her out before or after?	/r/seduction	12/02/19 05:03 PM
1	Pick Up Game Structure "Attraction - comfort - close" would appear to be the most widely recognised.	/r/seduction	03/02/19 08:21 PM
1	Book to read ? Maybe read some harder psychology books? Maybe something on Cognitive-behavioural therapy or attachment theory.	/r/seduction	31/01/19 05:33 PM
0	Any advice for a 20yo loser? This is a problem a lot of guys have : I'd say break the problem you just gave us down into the key points and for each find examples of times where the problem wasn't an issue in the past. When do you feel like less of a loser, for instance? What resources and skills do you already have?	/r/seduction	28/01/19 05:46 AM
2	Help me diagnose what I’m dealing with so I can fix it. I would suggest you're possibly trying too hard not to have these thoughts. If you want a quick diagnosis it's probably some sort of ocd. It might be worth trying exposure and response prevention or acceptance and commitment therapy - both work pretty well tbh.	/r/seduction	22/01/19 03:43 PM
1	Help me diagnose what I’m dealing with so I can fix it. Would you say you're trying to push the thoughts away? Are they intrusive? Are there times you don't feel like this? What are the exceptions to this situation?	/r/seduction	22/01/19 03:17 PM
1	Woman might be going cold, need advice on how to proceed. Sounds like you'll work it out yourself in time :) hope it goes well buddy, sounds like she's a real catch!	/r/seduction	28/12/18 02:59 PM
2	Woman might be going cold, need advice on how to proceed. It's really hard to know what she's thinking or wanting. It seems to me that your gut tells you she's not interested. However, she did go out three times with you and you did have positive experiences and it seems she must have aswell. I'd argue that she may or may not like you, but you're a little over-invested. Suppose you never saw her again, I'm sure you're not the first guy to be "rejected", the negative feeling won't last and it sounds like you're finding other people. Also it sounds like …	/r/seduction	28/12/18 02:11 PM
1	Any NLP aficionados in here? Sfbt is a useful tool alongside cbt and nlp for sure! Actually quite similar to nlp!	/r/seduction	25/12/18 05:54 PM
1	Any NLP aficionados in here? Would recommend CBT mate, some NLP and CBT overlap. It's what works for you to be honest. I do nlp. Another thing to try is solution Focused Brief Therapy, could definitely help you build confidence!	/r/seduction	25/12/18 05:41 PM
8	I asked a girl out. Probably the best two beliefs I've seen here!	/r/seduction	18/12/18 09:30 AM