TJSociall Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	[India/Delhi] Why standard "Daygame" advice is dangerous for Professionals in Delhi NCR	Fundamentals	TJSociall	/r/seduction	10/01/26 05:30 AM
2	[FR] Handling "Cold" Behavior on Day 2 & The Logistics of Pulling from CP (Delhi NCR)	Field Report	TJSociall	/r/seduction	12/01/26 04:25 PM

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1	Droughts, low effort, and identity- You get what you settle for. So considering am also going through the same phase I am ruthless with my standards. Either I get the type of girl I want or I don't but I ain't sleeping with the girl I don't want to sleep with just to "soothe" myself or give me some mental assurance or BS. Until then am gonna wake up everyday and try my best to get the girl I want. No matter how long it takes.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 08:15 AM
1	i don’t know how to flirt If you look at the skill of making an interaction man to woman aka flirting as a spectrum you lie on the absolute opposite end of what can be considered as making an interaction too man to woman i.e. flirting too much. So you need to go hard on the absolute far end of flirting like a retard. So that you fail enough time for your physiology to calibrate to the point when you are making an interaction man to woman in a well balanced manner. You can't learn to calibrate well if you haven't experien…	/r/seduction	07/01/26 08:12 AM
2	What are subtle ways women flirt with men? Enough people have given good advice on this so far. So all am gonna say is to get great at spotting these signals you simply need to put in the effort to consistently go out, cold approach girls, talk to them and try to make things happen. That's the only way in the long term your physiology learns about these "signals" and you kinda build a 6th sense.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 08:05 AM
2	How often do girls hit you up/approach you? I strongly feel this is pretty rare. But after approaching enough women I can confidently say that they do give me IOIs, subtle signals, fuck me eyes etc. or maybe now I am just good at spotting them.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 08:02 AM
30	Has anyone ever ended a good relationship to pursue an unlived single chapter? It's scary how this exactly sounds like my situation. Had a loving, wife material, submissive etc. GF. She was elder to me, wanted to get married etc. I knew I hadn't explored my potential in almost all aspects especially dating and... I walked away. I'll be honest, I still love her, miss her almost everyday but I don't regret making that decision so far simply because I have exposed myself to so many different and difficult situations so far in almost every aspect that I've had most growth ever…	/r/seduction	07/01/26 07:59 AM
1	First date with an ENM woman. Not sure how I did. You should've tried for far more physical and logistical escalations i.e. kino and hoping venues. This way not only you'd get a solid answer from her side but also make sure that she doesn't put you in the "friendzone" or "nice guy" frame at all.	/r/seduction	07/01/26 07:50 AM
1	Noobie here, haven't gone on a single date, confused about what characteristics to show. Brother your post clearly shows you're in your head too much and you lack abundance. I am confident you haven't even done your first 100 direct daygame cold approaches. So just... go OUT approach girls, talk to them and try to make things happen. Not only will you get out of your head but also build the abundance that moves you the strongest into an upward spiral which eventually gets you results.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:49 AM
3	I can get a few women interested but retaining them is very difficult. Honestly I've the same issue. This is typically lack of "comfort" at a macro level. You need to change your frame from playboy to safe relationship guy if you want to "retain" them. Which means you'll have to drastically change how you run dates. Since I don't know most of your context all I can say is try to go for sex on the 3rd date if you go for it on the 1st date itself.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:43 AM
1	Passing shit Tests at later stages. There's no "test" brother. Pull the trigger, make her visit you if she can and make things happen.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:40 AM
1	Balancing chasing and pursuing vs coming off as clingy or needy Your post clearly tells you've lack of abundance. Go out approach girls, talk to them and try to make things happen. Soon you'll not only learn how to "balance" this thing you're talking about but also how to walk away. She can't respect you, value you and give you compliance if you don't make her feel that you can walk away, you have options and abundance. Go out, expose yourself to the unknown brother, grow into a man and all these micro problems will be solved.	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:39 AM
1	confused dynamic with girl in the same friend group Get her on the 2nd date, escalate and try to have sex with her. Even if you fail at least it'll make sure that you are no longer put in the "safe option" or "friendzone" frame. If possible afterwards get her on a 3rd date aswell. If still nothing... MOVE ON never ever initiate any interaction with her again until she does that too only if you feel she's up for sex. Getting to sex is absolutely important because then you've enough power to dictate the frame. That will it be long or short term. Go…	/r/seduction	06/01/26 08:34 AM