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Like in that Seinfeld episode...
/r/seduction21/05/17 07:56 PM
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Without knowing much of the background to this story, I suspect you've been daydreaming about this girl without getting to know her. So you have created an image of this perfect girl in your mind and fallen in love with it. It's a psychological thing and it's not uncommon, also happened to me. Funny thing is that you may get disappointed if you get to know the girl because you'll realize she doesn't live up to the perception you have of her. Your feelings will disappear with time. Meeting someon…
/r/seduction12/05/17 08:06 AM
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Have had the exact same issue with attractive ONS for years, and not with girlfriends. I believe the reasons were that 1) I had consumed too much alcohol 2) Wasn't relaxed enough/performance anxiety 3) Didn't really find the girl emotionally attractive though she was hot 4) Didn't know what actually turns me on. Point 1) is easy to control. Points 2) and 3) have more to do with how you feel about yourself both physically and emotionally, if you are comfortable with your new acquaintance and if h…
/r/seduction09/05/17 09:01 AM
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Try holding eye contact with him. It's simple and most guys will respond positive to that. Physical escalation is already mentioned in another comment. Since he is not so interesting to text with, you should try to arrange a meeting with him instead. And make it a relaxed hangout or something playful and fun, possibly together with more people. You can always isolate him from the others if you want privacy. Maybe you have some upcoming activities or events where you can invite him along?
/r/seduction06/05/17 07:48 PM
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And bring your own condoms!
/r/seduction05/05/17 06:41 AM
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You may have too much patience and the desire to help/care for other people. These are not bad personal traits but you might want to be aware of people seeking these traits in another person with the hope that this person will fix their problems. And beware of people who will want to test your limits or take advantage of your kindness.
/r/seduction25/04/17 10:15 AM
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A rebound within 72 hours is also said to work.
/r/seduction24/04/17 08:48 AM
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Do things you enjoy, and consider it a bonus if you meet interesting girls at the same time. As an example, here is my week after office hours. Monday: Crossfit. I never approach girls at the gym, but basic crossfit classes may be an exception. Lots of girls here, sometimes I'm the only man attending. Tuesday: Technical speech related to the industry I'm in. Not so many girls attending, yet social and fun. Wednesday: Some author is giving a speech about a topic I find interesting. I expect to se…
/r/seduction22/03/17 09:07 AM
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I shared apt with a couple of average looking girls for a few years until recently. The number of matches and messages they received was jaw dropping. Hundreds in a very short amount of time. It was so overwhelming to them as well that they stopped using the app, or so they claimed.
/r/seduction21/03/17 09:40 AM
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I've traveled a lot and met women all over the world. I've noticed that having blue eyes is a really good perk in Latin America. Argentinians love the Northern European type (tall, blonde hair, blue eyes). And latino males are very popular in Russia and Eastern Europe. So if you are trying to meet local women, your luck may depend on your appearance and ethnicity. Side note: Oslo, capital of Norway, is also known as the the capital of one night stands. Girls are beautiful there, but the city is …
/r/seduction13/02/17 10:02 AM
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Look her in the eyes, then look at her lips, then back at her eyes. Use your hand to fold her hair behind her ear, then let it slide down her cheek and stop at her chin. From there, you can gently guide her face as you move in. If you want to be careful (or teasing), you can pause an inch from her face so you can feel her breath and anticipation. Hopefully, she will have her mouth slightly open and do the final move towards you. EDIT: Before you get to this point, you can ask her how good of a k…
/r/seduction13/02/17 09:40 AM
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I would like to add to this: play an instrument (guitar) or learn to sing, paint or draw, learn to dance (swing or latin) from classes.
/r/seduction08/02/17 01:09 PM
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Don't ask about her boyfriend. She will tell you if he is important to her. My last gf had a boyfriend when I met her. I knew, but she didn't know that I knew and told me about him after we've been hooking up for a month or two. I didn't care. He wasn't around. She dumped him then.
/r/seduction06/02/17 09:40 AM
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You have agreed on a time and venue, I suggest you stick to the deal and don't flake. If she flakes, you go alone which you say is fine with you. And if she doesn't show any interest in you at all at the concert, you might find someone else in the crowd. Don't let her ruin your night.
/r/seduction05/02/17 08:00 PM
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Male, 30 Everyday: Ralph Lauren Polo Blue EDP Going out: Acqua di Gio Essenza I also like: Acqua di Gio Profumo
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:16 PM
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I'm also interested in how to respond to such, or change my approach. My approach is usually texting/messaging like this: Me: Hey :) do you want to join me for [insert awesome activity] at [insert time and date]? Her: That sounds really cool! But I'm busy at that time. (or she will reply 'maybe, but... [insert excuse]' which I take as a 'no'). This is where I silently end the conversation and ask the next girl in my contact list. I might ask the first girl again in a few weeks if I find her attr…
/r/seduction01/02/17 04:22 PM
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