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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Dude the numbers aren’t adding up. Whole lot of married men.I pretend to be happy. Lmao. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/26 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worseThis is excellent. Thank you 🙏🏼 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worseWow. Thank you, man. This was really good to read. I appreciate you | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 03:58 PM |
| 0 | Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worseI didn’t cheat. Left her to play the field | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Did you guys ever let one get away, bc I did and it makes this betrayal + divorce 10X worseNah, I oftentimes wonder if I should though. But I just don’t want her to think I’m trying to get her back after all these years. She is married now. Seems happy. I don’t wanna disrespect her marriage or her husband. So it’s tricky. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 12:58 PM |
| 7 | Booked a singles cruiseThis sounds INCREDIBLE, man. You’ll have a blast. Go in to it with zero expectations of others, only demand from yourself that you’ll unwind and enjoy whatever the day brings ya! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/26 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Dating was awesome, Wedding was unbelievably fun. But being married was brutally awful. I’m often sad by how it ended. But I don’t *miss* it. Ever.This shit is so real omfg | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/26 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Dating was awesome, Wedding was unbelievably fun. But being married was brutally awful. I’m often sad by how it ended. But I don’t *miss* it. Ever.Honestly I just got so lucky, man. Owned the house outright in cash before we got married. And as far as income goes, mine all comes from my family business abroad, so it’s listed as $0 in USA. Perhaps she could have launched an all out exposure plan and screwed me with the IRS and stuff but. I’m pretty well connected and it’s something she was “attracted to” early on. So she was kind of afraid of trying to do a family war. We are foreign to USA if you haven’t been able to tell. So things work a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/26 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Dating was awesome, Wedding was unbelievably fun. But being married was brutally awful. I’m often sad by how it ended. But I don’t *miss* it. Ever.Enjoy it, you deserve it brother. You’ll find that your old hobbies were waiting patiently for you to return all along. And you may even be better at them now that you’re older, wiser, and more patient 🙏🏼 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/26 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Dating was awesome, Wedding was unbelievably fun. But being married was brutally awful. I’m often sad by how it ended. But I don’t *miss* it. Ever.Dude I can’t even believe I was short sighted enough to do it once. Now I’m not sure there’s a hypnotist on this earth that could convince me to try that again. I’ll give it a year or so to let emotions heal, but I’m not even sure monogamy seems On the table anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it illegal if my spouse releases my nude pics without my consent?Good point man | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/26 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Is it illegal if my spouse releases my nude pics without my consent?It’s a crime. But because she is a woman, and you are a man, I highly, HIGHLY doubt they’d prosecute it | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/26 09:13 AM |
| 3 | What would you guys do?This is real. Thank you man | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I need serious help, my logic is no better than that of the very women I complain about (post-divorce struggles)Thank you so much man | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 06:13 PM |
| 2 | It’s easy to make fun of women for their bad choices in men but honestly I need to accept that my choices in women are utterly AWFUL- led to divorceLove you, man 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I can’t cope with the loss of the time and the guilt that it’s somehow all my fault even though obviously I didn’t deserve thisThank you man | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/26 04:13 AM |
| 4 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?More proof that dragging you through hell in divorce court has nothing to do with the kids. They want to hurt you. That’s as simple as that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 01:18 AM |
| 9 | Still don’t understand why they talked so horribly about me (Cheating ex-wife led to me initiating divorce. The texts were horrific)I’m so sorry man. I really don’t understand how I ever let this happen. I thought it was a love story 😂 Gave her the dream wedding she wanted. The dream life we had. Worked tirelessly to create it. And she betrayed me brutally. The worst part is that all the red flags were there. But I thought she was somehow different | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/12/25 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Did anyone else experience a complete 180 like this before divorce?I am so sorry man. I hope there are still days in which you feel joy. Those days keep me alive, despite many dark ones. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.You sound jealous. What’s your Venmo man, I can cover your lunch today. Don’t be hateful and spiteful towards me just because I have money. I’m willing to share some with you if you can’t make ends meet. I’ll grab lunch today. You just focus on filling out applications. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.Hey man, I know you mean well and I appreciate your advice. But I urge you to reread. I sent her home at the 2 month mark. And I should have clarified, during those 2 months, I stayed in a Hotel and not with her. From the moment I discovered the infidelity I have not touched her again or spent a single night under the same roof. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.You are absolutely correct. This is the next and final step, and anything shy of that is my own fault. I have to block her and cut all contact and make myself inaccessible. If I don’t, it just shows that I haven’t truly processed and accepted reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.You the goat for this. Thanks brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.Thank you man | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.This is some of the realest shit I’ve ever heard brother. Respect to you and thank you for this. Uplifting and I’ve screenshotted it, I’ll be reading it daily | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.Before the wedding, my mother told me to take a deep breath and trust her unconditionally. I said ok? Why? She said “I’m going to ask you to put your homes, your father’s business (got handed down to me) and all of your fathers liquid money and inheritance in to my name. I will never touch it, and whenever u need access to any of it, u will have all the info u need. But u can not risk losing half of it to her. You just can’t.” So we moved everything in to my mom’s name. We didn’t have any childr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.Thank you so much man. I will likely reach out soon. Appreciate this kind and caring message | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.Thank you man. For real. It feels like I’m the only guy in history this has ever happened to. Obviously because of the way men are portrayed in society. It’s like…..if our wife does this to us, we must be broken as a man or something. I’ve never heard in person from another man that his wife cheated. We instinctively (or conditioned to) not ever speak about it publicly | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Are faithful men attracted to cheaters? With how terrible divorce can be for men, I see why some men are so cruel. They don’t wanna be hurt & cheated!This is excellent stuff. Thanks, man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 08:26 PM |
| 0 | I’m staying in an Extended Stay hotel until I figure out my life. I haven’t been this at peace since before Dating her.Yeah dude it sucks so bad, because while I will admit I am quite wealthy- I am by no means someone who splurges or spends money in immature ways. I drive a nice Nissan SUV, I will always live in the cheapest places I can find, I use Visible mobile, I shop in bulk at Costco. Ppl think it’s funny bc I do this stuff and I’m like. I never would have become wealthy if these weren’t my habits. However the one time in my life I ever spent extravagantly was on our wedding. Price of being a Romantic I gu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I’m staying in an Extended Stay hotel until I figure out my life. I haven’t been this at peace since before Dating her.She’s been begging for me back since the moment she could no longer deny her infidelity. And I will never take her back. Hey man, maybe I’m not the most handsome guy. Or maybe I’m not in the best shape. So she thought she needed a better looking, manlier guy whatever. I’ll never know her reasons. But here’s what I do know. I’m proud of myself for instantly dumping her and moving on. It was the most painful yet courageous thing I have ever done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 10:23 PM |
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