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17

Just do it. Approach. Use openers or cheesy pickup lines or just introduce yourself. Ask real questions and flirt. You’re going to fail and that’s fine, learn and do again.
/r/seduction24/07/26 01:10 AM
1

The whole point of the first date is to get a second. You just ask. “I had a really good time tonight/last night, I was wanting to do , are you free next/on?” should do it.
/r/seduction18/12/24 02:14 AM
17

Bartenders in bars, not clubs. Build rapport by going during the week when it’s not busy and strike up conversation.
/r/seduction09/12/24 06:21 PM
1

You said it yourself, “feeling like kind of a loser”. You are in a low vibrational spot right now it sounds like, and women can sense this immediately man. Coming back from any relationship ending is not easy or linear, give yourself some grace. The tangibles are there, but right now your intangibles are not.
/r/seduction23/11/24 10:35 PM
1

You just got out of a relationship. You’re probably still carrying around that loss. It’s like a dark rain cloud is following you everywhere. Women can smell it a mile away.
/r/seduction23/11/24 06:34 PM
1

You need to form a connection. The attraction will follow from there. IME anyways.
/r/seduction21/10/24 02:40 AM
1

You only need 1
/r/seduction19/09/24 05:34 AM
2

While dancing and in the same scenario OP mentions: “Maaaaan, I’d really like to kiss you. Is that ok?” will work just fine.
/r/seduction13/08/22 03:07 PM
3

Practice talking to women by talking to women you have normal interactions with. Stay with me. ….A waitress. A cashier. Receptionist. These are all opportunities for you to have a quick/mini convo during a normal interaction. Remember, building rapport is all about connecting on sometime. Pick something that you find mildly interesting (nails, name, accent) and asks few questions then make a small joke. Once you become comfortable talking to strangers for a few mins, it will be easier to talk to…
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:58 PM
2

Concerts, vacations, what she’s passionate about, her self-care, what has she made an effort on for self improvement. Learn a little bit about astrology signs. Sounds dumb, not my thing, but women love to talk about it. “What’s your sign, you into that?” “Oh you’re a Capricorn! That means you can’t be trusted-you match well with ****- were compatible/not compatible”. These should get the convo flowing.
/r/seduction03/08/22 03:52 PM
1

1) escalate and shoot your shot explicitly 2) say ridiculous things because she’s so boring 3) move the F on
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:40 AM
12

Here’s what I did when I was single and dating; no sex until we were exclusive. I told them that while we were dating I would not pursue or sleep with anyone else, and if they were sleeping with other people that’s fine, but I wouldn’t want to date them (how do you develop true feelings for someone if you’re sleeping with randos or trying to form a bond with someone else?). No sex until exclusivity eliminated any pressure of sex from both sides, and allowed the interaction and dynamic of our dat…
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:18 PM
1

I believe the chances of meeting a future partner are better at a library or meet up group. You are right about authenticity and presenting the best version of yourself, but you’re putting too much energy into going out/the club scene. You are doing your own thing, and it’s what works for you; you can go out and talk philosophy, world news, and see your DJ. You have YOUR own things. Guys who don’t have their own things or haven’t hit their stride of being their own person need SOMETHING to impro…
/r/seduction25/07/22 05:28 PM
13

Save some pussy for the rest of us
/r/seduction31/05/22 11:26 AM
10

By value I mean have substance. I don’t do PUA stuff. That’s just gimmicky
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:34 AM
10

It’s not about quantity it’s quality. Every text AND conversation you have, you gotta bring value. You make your money dating IRL, but you can still generate intrigue and comfort through texting. Be genuine in all of your communication.
/r/seduction11/05/22 11:02 PM
16

You have already lost 😂
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:57 AM
1

But she did tell you she isn’t interested
/r/seduction09/05/22 12:43 AM
3

Gotta risk it to get the biscuit
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:27 PM
1

My go-to questions are: 1) worst and best part of your job 2) tell me something you are really passionate about 3) so what do you do for self care?
/r/seduction06/05/22 11:35 AM
3

Box of condoms
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:09 AM
3

A great move on the beach: when you’re tossing a football around with the boys and a group of women are walking by, run kinda/sorta next to the group and pretend as if the the ball is about to hit them. It gets a good laugh every time. I can usually get them to play a quick game of two hand touch with us if they are a fun group. Then after the game make plans to link up later.
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:08 AM
1

My dude, ask about them. They aren’t that different from you. Lead the conversation towards areas you’re knowledgeable or passionate about. PRACTICE in low/no pressure situations; a cashier, your waitress, your friends mom. Get in the reps with normal people making normal, engaging conversation, and then take your lessons learned and apply that to girls IRL.
/r/seduction03/05/22 01:31 AM
1

If it’s not a hell yes it is a hell no.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:32 AM
10

Surfing
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:22 PM
6

You’ve already lost the game with that attitude my friend. Pack it in and be celibate the rest of your life.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:05 AM
2

This post made me spit milk out of my nose and I’m not even drinking milk.
/r/seduction22/04/22 02:18 AM
10

Don’t contact him and just see how long it takes for him to communicate with you OP. A lot of people don’t know how to tell others “this isn’t what I’m looking for”
/r/seduction17/04/22 04:26 PM
2

DONT. NO. BODY. NEED. TO. KNOW. YOUR. BIZ. NESS. It’s called being low-key OP. Back in the day we called it keeping it on the down low. If your friends don’t know this means others don’t know which means woman will appreciate not knowing youre a man whore
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:11 PM
2

Ya man, no pressure. Gotta condition your mind to always have no pressure.
/r/seduction14/04/22 08:12 AM
4

Just like with any person you speak to, meet, or interact with, you need to connect on something common. Develop a connection over a shared interest or agreeableness on something. It could be literally anything. Sports, hobbies, books, movies, tattoos. Ask them about a topic and provide a little of your own experience or insight, then make a self deprecating joke. That should get you started.
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:21 AM
130

The only way to get better at talking to women is to talk to women. I recommend talking to women platonically or in a no pressure situation. Strike up a convo with the girl at the register, your waitress, someone in your social circle you don’t talk to often. Don’t hit on them. JUST TALK TO THEM.
/r/seduction14/04/22 12:04 AM
1

Alright man. Good luck 👍🏽
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:50 AM
1

Women are people too. They have the same feelings and thoughts you have. Security, companionship, shared positive experiences. People want to date people who bring value to their lives. Doesn’t matter the age my guy. “Value” is subjective and differs among everyone. What are you doing that would make a girl think “that’s my man”? It’s gotta be more than superficial “I go to the gym and eat right”. Have substance. Seek out people with substance. Keep in mind at the end of the day not everybody is…
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:19 AM
1

Bro your thought process is all jacked up. Top to bottom. I don’t think you understand the reality of women and dating them. I know it’s your reality, but I’d suggest a paradigm shift in your approach to the opposite sex.
/r/seduction10/04/22 11:09 AM
1

Dang man. Just reach out to her and ask her if everything is alright.
/r/seduction07/04/22 01:41 PM
6

For women with RBF or that look like they’re not enjoying whatever it is they’re doing, depending on the setting I like to use a mixture of “you look like you’re having way too much fun over here”, “your enthusiasm is WAY to high for the rest of us”, “ma’am, I’m gonna need to ask you to tone it down just a little bit, mmkay?”. One of those will usually get a chuckle; unless she’s in a really bad mood or isn’t having it (which is ok).
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:49 PM
1

Show her your boner in a video chat; keep the camera close your dick. Will look much better than a nude bathroom selfie
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:47 PM
1

Keep it trimmed often. Use a 2 guard/4mm
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:17 PM
2

Date her mom
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:36 PM
2

Noice
/r/seduction20/02/22 02:13 PM
2

Who cares?
/r/seduction02/02/22 10:22 PM
2

What does put a girl in check mean?
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:50 PM
2

“You look like you’re having too much fun in here. Gonna have to ask you to tone it down a little bit please, ma’am”
/r/seduction06/01/22 11:13 PM
11

You can overcome height. But everyone has their preferences. THIS IS OK
/r/seduction06/01/22 03:51 PM
36

What. That’s not closing. Please continue lol
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:18 AM
1

I agree with someone mentioning to make sure you’re in a group as well. From my experience, you’re best bet is to approach a group that looks like they aren’t having a great time. The group of girls that is a having a blast won’t be interested in random dudes trying to mess with their vibe. A group that looks like they aren’t talking to each other a whole lot, on their phones, not really dancing or drinking, are more apt to entertaining someone who looks/seems fun (extra points if your group of …
/r/seduction12/12/21 01:14 PM
1

No. This would never work. If she was into you, you wouldn’t use that line. Someone your dating and or the expectations are known, sure. But a line like that is not “seductive”. Also….how old is OP???
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:11 PM
2

Jesus, big yikes. You’re supposed to meet girls IRL my dude!! That’s the standard. Anything you get into online is a bonus.
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:18 PM
2

4 is lame. I like to say to the bored hot woman in the club/bar “you look like you’re having waaaay too much fun in here. gonna need you to turn in down a little bit”. 75% of the time that will get a chuckle and I’m in. The other 25% of the time I get the eye roll and I just think she genuinely isn’t a fun person so no loss for me.
/r/seduction01/12/21 11:12 PM
1

The best way to find a woman for you is to stop looking for a woman for you.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:01 PM
3

“What’s the first thing you’re gonna say after we kiss?”
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:34 PM
1

She’s not into you like you think. She is unavailable so your fear of rejection was lowered.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:25 PM
1

Tell her you’re awkward AF and ask if she likes SNES Mario Kart.
/r/seduction22/09/21 01:15 AM
2

You don’t play the long game. You are either a friend with zero romantic expectations (for your good and theirs), or you make your intentions known EARLY and live with the outcome.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:10 PM
4

Age gap math checks out. 1/2 your age plus 7 years.
/r/seduction26/08/21 03:13 PM
1

Won’t get any numbers if you aren’t fun to be around.
/r/seduction22/08/21 03:48 PM
2

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. -Michael Scott
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:18 PM
0

I think she’s interested
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:21 AM
1

Tell her 2 inches at 500mph will make an impact
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:13 PM
35

That’s not how this works. In a relationship yes....someone you know sure.....with a stranger not so much.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:14 AM
2

If you make a move fully anticipate to get turned down. She told you not to get any ideas. You can absolutely have a great weekend if you manage your romantic expectations.
/r/seduction14/05/21 04:04 PM
0

Dudes make up for it by dating girls in high school my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 06:30 PM
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