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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Financial PTSD		TNNashGuy	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 10:16 AM

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2	can my ex take half my inheritance? In my state, it comes down to whether the funds were ever comingled. Keep the inheritance in a singular account, never in an account that includes your spouse's name. I kept mine in the executor/estate account during the separation and divorce to make sure it was not able to be touched. Just before the divorce was final, I moved it to a brokerage account in only my name. Her lawyer tried to get to it but couldn't.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/23 03:23 AM
1	Wife actually smacked me Thanks. Been through a bad marriage, counseling, and a bad divorce, so just trying to give a non-emotionally-charged view that might actually help someone have a better marriage or divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/22 12:10 AM
1	Wife actually smacked me "I wanna play the victim card and make her feel like shit now so I'm gonna be the ""bigger person"" You do realize the action you are planning is manipulation and, in fact, it makes you the smaller person, right? Is manipulation a common part of your marriage? If so, and you really want to be the bigger person, you should suggest to your spouse that some of the issues might be addressed with individual counseling (for each spouse), family counseling (for the children), and/or marriage counseling…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/22 03:09 PM
2	Financial PTSD I have known men in their 50's/60's get married a second time and be extremely happy and successful the second time. Just saying.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 08:25 PM
3	Financial PTSD Yes, have already told her I don't know if I'll ever be married again. She doesn't pressure, and we don't stress or talk about it much really, so it may never happen. But, I still wanted to asked the question of how others deal with the issue.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 08:24 PM
2	Financial PTSD Good question to think about. Thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 08:22 PM
1	Financial PTSD This is actually part of what I was looking for in the question I asked, because I've thought about limiting relationships based on income, but it just doesn't feel right to care about someone's income ability, as some people work very hard and just don't have the opportunities that others do.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 08:21 PM
2	Financial PTSD Yeah, I don't think of it as bitter or jaded, although there are instance of that which exist. If I thought that was the way we all are after divorce, I wouldn't have asked the question. Appreciate all of the conversation.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 08:18 PM
2	Financial PTSD Yes, I've seen that one in action with a good friend. He wasn't unemployed long, and she got a side thing going with another man as soon as he was laid off. Had two kids, too.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 08:17 PM
2	Financial PTSD Thanks for this information!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 04:45 PM
1	Financial PTSD Thanks for this advice.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 01:03 PM
2	Financial PTSD Actually, just because I described her good qualities and the fact that we are both divorced and both see marriage in our future some day (separate or together), doesn't mean I have "oneitis." If I had "oneitis", I'd already be remarried (to one of the ones I've itis'd since the divorce). I do get there are billions of women, and at least half of them have good qualities, but that still doesn't address the PTSD. Seems the high earner is always screwed in divorce, so maybe there is no solution, o…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 01:01 PM
3	Financial PTSD I agree with your common sense comment/warning, but it is definitely PTSD, and I believe it is a problem all who become divorced have to deal with if they are ever going to have any other meaningful relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/22 12:55 PM