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That’s intentional by the people who coined the term “manosphere”. So they can (rightfully) call out the Tate types and then (wrongfully) attack spaces that aren’t doing that. As another comment pointed out, this subreddit would be considered part of the manosphere—precisely as a way to attack it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/26 07:52 PM
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Except no, because that’s not how you defined it: Men fighting for wars is patriarchal since it's patriarchy that says men are protectors and fighters not feminism. There’s other reasons to say that men’s problems don’t matter besides “men are protectors and fighters”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 03:42 AM
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I mean, that just denying my lived experience with extra steps tho. That’s not the “patriarchy”. That’s exactly who is being ignored when you try to blame men’s problems on the “patriarchy”. At some point it’s just a refusal to take accountability. Not a problem for a stranger on the Internet, but this mindset affects plenty of people with power and it’s reflected in the way we refuse to help men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 03:21 AM
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Because feminists are the ones refusing to acknowledge men’s problems and attacking men for trying to talk about them, to put it simply. I think there’s a lot of talking past each other here but I think the problem with your definition of patriarchy is it doesn’t really seem consistent with how it’s actually used. Like, here’s Kamala Harris implying that society would never restrict men’s bodily autonomy: https://x.com/KamalaHarris/status/1843035822011896272 That’s not “men should die to defend …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 03:13 AM
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What about claiming that women suffer more than men during war despite the fact that they aren’t dying? Is that “patriarchy”? Or is that “feminism”? There’s more than one justification for ignoring men’s problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:47 AM
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What does this mean, in practice? What’s the definition of “feminism” and “patriarchy” that makes this a meaningful thing to say?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:39 AM
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That’s fair, I didn’t exactly expand on that. Administrators in college were often women and overwhelmingly left wing. Sexual assault was almost exclusively taught through a “man rapes woman” lens. And in general, the college was much more focused on uplifting women over men, there was and still is no men’s center to mirror the women’s center. This is what’s missed when we talk about “patriarchy”. And I’ve had some terrible experiences with therapists, and yet when we talk about “men’s mental he…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:36 AM
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Okay but the problem is what the feminists are doing that’s wrong got me raped and made it impossible for me to get help, not the “patriarchy” or “toxic masculinity” or whatever paper-thin justification to blame men for everything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 02:05 AM
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That’s a nice thought but it’s still missing the fact that men don’t have most of the power on campus. It’s not just the effect, it’s the cause as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 01:57 AM
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I got raped in college and nobody cared precisely because men do not have “more power everywhere”. You’re ignorant and you’re ignorant for a reason. Maybe investigate why before you start trying to tell men what their problems are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/25 01:08 AM
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If you look at South Korea that doesn’t seem to the reaction to blatant misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/25 04:22 AM
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labels r dum. Whether or not this subreddit qualifies as “feminist” is entirely semantic, and I think it’s a distraction from questions about how we should treat men and talk about their issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah they’re mindlessly tearing down left wing people everywhere, which is useful in areas where those people are causing men issues. College campuses would be a great example. Of course, they’re only doing it because they want to tear down those institutions themselves, but it’s still something. More than the Democrats, at any rate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/25 05:02 PM
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Meh, I think you’re reading too much into it. It’s more of a call back to the fact that men, too, were once innocent children and loved by their parents—that they have full lives and lived experiences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/25 07:43 PM
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I don’t think this is shitting on men as much as shitting on /r/relationshipadvice.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/06/25 02:44 AM
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The polls were not saying Kamala was gonna win in 2024, they had it as a complete toss-up. Even 2016 wasn’t much of a miss, Nate Silver had the odds at like 70/30.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/25 06:31 PM
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Feminism has problems but I wouldn’t call it a full blown hate movement.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 04:38 PM
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The left does not have zero power in this country. And the fact that they are incredibly anti-male is part of what led to Trump in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 06:08 PM
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Thinking the democratic party is "left wing" is perfect evidence of that considering anyone else in the world they would be centre-right or centrist at most. Uh, no. Among everything else, "illegal immigrants welcome" is not really a common sentiment anywhere. It's kind of weird to say that the subreddit is US-centric, then make a baseline comparison of what "left" is based on what is usually just a few parties in Europe. If this sub was actually left wing, there would be a much louder pushback …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 05:47 PM
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Literally all of the top comments are shitting on Trump. And of course there’s going to be hate directed at feminists and the people who enable them. “Left” is a political term to define the general politics here, it doesn’t mean people here aren’t going to call out democrats for being problematic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 04:25 PM
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What progressive feminists?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 07:20 PM
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It’s not a cycle. There’s plenty of feminist men who care about women. Where are the feminist women who care about men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/25 07:20 PM
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Liberal would mean non-authoritarian, they can still be pro market even if they want it regulated. Left and right are more about where the country is. Wanting more liberal and equitable government while also wanting to advocate for men should be enough to be a “left wing male advocate”.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/25 03:50 AM
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I was thinking more about guys who are in terrible situations that never come out because those things are correlated. More like the British plane meme on selection bias—you aren’t counting the gays who don’t come out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/09/24 02:48 PM
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Gay men who are out. There’s selection bias at play here. Being (openly) gay is affected by environmental factors. I’m not sure the correlation holds up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/09/24 06:57 PM
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As a male victim of SA, if you are a feminist you don’t actually care about male victims of SA. Feminists only care about silencing men lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/24 11:51 PM
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Yeah there are a dozen articles that are two faced about this but I’m pretty sure this one was just the author not wanting to repeat themselves. “Dominating” sounds worse anyway, I’d think it would be a worse situation than simply “disproportionately represented”. I don’t think the author actually meant anything by it besides comparing employment between men and women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/24 08:42 PM
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But not this. Feminists have created their own mens advocacy groups, or have still engaged in mens advocacy. It's just that the advocacy groups which are not affiliated with feminism, or refuse to use the feminist lens on mens advocacy, (like the MRM), they despise it and defame it which causes many of them to shut down. Aka men’s advocacy groups. Might as well say that conservatives are being super pro black when they try to convince black people that democrats are the real racists. Refusing to…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 12:34 PM
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That’s not devil’s advocate, that’s literally just the same thing lol. Like, both those things are true. That’s why this subreddit exists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 11:12 PM
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Attacking sexist people for being sexist is not setting back men’s rights, it’s forwarding them. What exactly is the problem with men treating women’s issues the way women test men’s issues? Isn’t that the equality that you hope for?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 07:35 PM
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Weird how claiming that 40% of accusations are false is a big deal, but claiming that only 2% of accusations are false is just fine. Like, one of those numbers is significantly better backed by statistics, but it doesn’t matter if lies hurt men, nobody cares about that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 06:39 PM
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What bodily freedom? That’s not a right men have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/24 03:52 PM
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Feminists almost ubiquitously don’t want to relate and other assumptions that are deterministic of intent are exactly the problem This isn’t an assumption, this is my actual lived experience. Thank you for demonstrating exactly why being pro feminist is incompatible with being pro man—because whenever feminism attacks men, you never take men’s side. Until we try to move the needle for compassion past a zero sum game, we're going to be quibbling over fractions back and forth. Yes, that’s why I’m …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 03:59 PM
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I don’t think it’s helpful to men to try to get them to ignore the people who constantly tell them they don’t have problems. It’s nice to say that I should just try to talk about my issues so people can relate. I’ve tried that, guess what? Feminists almost ubiquitously don’t want to relate, because that would challenge their worldview that women have it so much worse for men—or that women and feminists are usually good. So instead I just get called a misogynist for trying to talk about my own pr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 02:51 PM
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Where lmao. People keep making these groups up. The entire reason I know feminists are mostly anti male is personal experience with feminists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 02:45 PM
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Multiple sexual assault survivors tell you that feminists treat them like shit and you call them ignorant about their own problems. Gaslight gatekeep girlboss.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 02:25 PM
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I’m a dude? But yw.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 11:52 PM
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My experience with guy therapists is even worse to be honest, they seem to be more focused on making sure you act “right” than actually being supportive. I’m sorry man the only way is to keep looking. I guess I’d start by talking about your problems in the past. At least then you’ll know to move on quickly if they push back hard. Good therapists are hard to find largely because they are already booked. Just gotta keep linking until you find one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/24 10:24 PM
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Essays could be written about why the right goes after trans women but not trans men. But I think the left ignoring them is more about deliberately avoiding bringing attention to them, given the right seems content to ignore them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/24 12:30 AM
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You don’t need to align with feminists to understand intersectionality.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 05:56 PM
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But unless they actually stand up for men it doesn’t matter. Nobody cares what you say or believe, you are how your actions affect the world.
/r/MensRights20/04/24 05:55 PM
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I’m going to go out on a limb and say that men’s approval rating on abortion isn’t based on circumcision.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 07:52 PM
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Women are a billion times more dependent on men than men on women—they are called breadwinners for a reason. How many women are economically dependent on men as opposed to the other way around. Divorce is a terrible metric because alimony and child support means that the woman doesn’t stop being dependent on the man. Same with death/retirement/marriage—a man is more likely to remarry because a woman doesn’t stop being provided for just because the guy is gone. Ignoring this to pretend men are de…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 12:08 AM
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Turns out when you look for something you are more likely to find it. Good to see this getting attention.
/r/MensRights17/10/23 07:17 PM
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Jess not Jesus. Maybe you need to read past the title my friend.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 11:39 PM
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We’re not the ones who need to be told that! More seriously keep up the fight. I know a lot of people here will hate feminists in principle but we need to convert, not defeat.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 11:26 PM
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Lmao if that’s the bar for men to complain about misandry than every feminist I’ve ever seen complain about misogyny is a hypocrite. I’m sure those same people would not hesitate to say misogyny is real in modern society despite meeting literally none of those bars. Good example of feminists using others pain to further their own hate. “How dare you complain about your problems when women on the other side of the planet have problems.” Definitely saying the same thing to women who complain about…
/r/MensRights15/10/23 10:34 PM
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The court had declared Section 497 of the IPC—whi­ch gives the husband the exclusive right to pro­secute his wife’s lover, even as the wife was denied the right to prosecute the woman with whom her husband has committed adultery—as unconstitutional. The article does not make it sound like that.
/r/MensRights15/10/23 06:18 PM
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I fully believe that the patriarchy is real and a problem. Lmao why? Do you truly feel you’ve lived a life where women had no influence on you? I am a huge fan of these amazing women in my life and part of me loves to see them embrace their full womanhood without referencing men. Do they return the favor? What had your wife been telling your daughter? I dunno, I’m all for burning down the patriarchy until the women I treasure in my life lump me in with all those misogynistic bastards out there w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/23 04:10 PM
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The concept of history months is bringing to attention groups that were ignored throughout history. I’d rather focus on things men need than simply blindly chasing whatever women have. I’ve heard more about prostate cancer awareness during November than September, so I still vote November. Makes sense to consolidate anyway. “November is for the boys”.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 08:09 PM
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It’s called history lol. I was under the impression we were gonna get November, seems the natural consequence of Novembeard => Prostate cancer awareness stuff that is focused on guys already.
/r/MensRights14/10/23 07:39 PM
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Unless you were raped, you consented to having sex and I hope that as a man, you have enough sense in you to understand you have to take responsibility as well. Why are women forced to make the decision about their bodies. If you are that strong in your conviction, don’t have sex. And child support is for the fucking child, you know, the man’s offspring as well. LMAO do these people try to be as hypocritical as possible?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/23 02:29 AM
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The entire idea of toxic masculinity being the cause of discrimination rather than the result of it is pretty fucking dumb, too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/23 05:14 PM
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But lately, much of the conversation around men’s loneliness has been spearheaded by women. Last February, in an op-ed for The New York Times, Magdalene J. Taylor explored loneliness vis-à-vis somewhat historic rates of sexlessness in men under 30. The article encouraged men to screw their way out of isolation (a prospect I imagine is exhausting for the many women pursued as a result). Then in July, a Washington Post op-ed by Christine Emba bravely charted generations of lost men and offered a m…
/r/MensRights08/10/23 01:58 AM
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Not at all am I a representative of feminism and not once did I claim to represent feminism. I think the problem is literally the opposite here. Your genuine attempts to care about men’s issues…are not representative of feminism. You are basically a unicorn.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 10:33 PM
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Is it undoable, is it possible to get women that claim feminism to adhere to true intersectionality? The experience of the vast majority of people in this subreddit is “apparently not”. You wouldn’t be the first to try. Hopefully you’ll be more successful though. I think that the appropriate response for feminism is to drop the bullshit and actually engage with guys. Which, as you are demonstrating in this thread, isn’t actually that hard! But feminism tends to move in the opposite direction, ba…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 06:45 PM
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The Prim Reaper is not a bad place to start about how men's mental health has been completely sabotaged by what comes across as pretty naked politics. The Tin Man Blog is an advocate that I would say is up your alley, But really, you just need to look closer at feminist literature and pay attention to what they are saying. Like the "patriarchy" is mostly just used as a way to blame men for everything. And look up "female privilege" and look at how feminists just unironically tell women not to wo…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 05:14 PM
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There is no place on this earth where females advantage over men except for in women safe spaces, There are a myriad of places where women have advantage over men in society. Easier to get help, less expectations in employment, less pushed to physical labor, better access to mental health. Hell, do you know the difference in the criminal justice system between a man and woman? Like, this mindset right here is what's wrong with feminism, the ridiculous notion that men don't face discrimination li…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 05:08 PM
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Intersectionality is bigger than feminists, and largely is about how identity and oppression overlap — basically saying that intolerance multiples rather than just add. So yes, intersectionality predicts black women will have worse misogyny than white women. It also predicts that black men will face worse misandry than white men. One look at, say, the criminal justice system will show that that is true. I wouldn’t discard ideas just because feminists misuse them to attack men. Indeed, my biggest…
/r/MensRights07/10/23 04:21 PM
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Those are terrible arguments backed by pretty ridiculous sources. The one about men doing more housework cites a study from 1985. I might check over the others if I can bother.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/23 09:30 PM
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They are just completely ignoring men’s struggled to focus on women’s, like they always do. Stop trying to excuse it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/10/23 07:35 PM
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Gsusa and Boy Scouts of America are unrelated groups. That’s the real scoop here.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 05:54 PM
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Nah--first you get them to start talking about men's issues, then you can hit them with the "should women or men be leading the conversation about men's issues" and so on. It’s naive to think they’re going to go from “men don’t have problems” to full acceptance in a day, we shouldn’t spurn progress imo.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 02:34 PM
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It’s steps! Certainly better than the past. Change doesn’t happen in a day.
/r/MensRights03/10/23 12:01 AM
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A men’s rights forum is naturally going to be anti feminist, obviously. That doesn’t make it misogynist.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 07:31 PM
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Yeah, because psychologists are incredibly sexist because men are not allowed to have real problems. And we’re iced out of most other services and sympathy. And we aren’t allowed to complain about it because then we’re sexist. So yes, it is feminism.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 07:30 PM
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I think it’s clear that you are not willing to discuss or change your opinion, lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 12:59 PM
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The fact that mooks are always men is pretty sexist--men get mowed down by the dozen and we're not supposed to feel sympathy. That's not any less true when a man's the protagonist, though.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 03:02 AM
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This the problem here. This kind of matter of fact thinking means shows that no matter, you're just not open to information that contradicts your view. Since you're not open to meaningful discussion, then there really isn't a point to us talking. What? You didn't even try! You just said "I can't believe you think differently than me"! How am I the one not open to meaningful discussion? I still can't figure out what you mean by "matter of fact thinking". Are you going to respond to the point that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 02:11 AM
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Yeah I am Feminist man. Don't get that twisted. I'm not hiding that at all. I think you're just upset because I pointed out the fact that you're not being charitable in your interpretations of feminism - which is a common thing right wingers do. Do you also think that liberals give Republicans an "uncharitable" view when they talk about Republicans being racist? After all, any discussion with conservatives and republicans will show that they obviously don't believe that black people are worse th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 06:45 PM
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I dunno how you are left leaning but you're espousing conservative rhetoric while engaging disingenuously with feminism. I dunno how much of a male advocate you are but you're espousing feminist rhetoric while engaging disingenuously with men's rights. I'm pretty sure this sub isn't anti-feminist. I think any genuine attempt to help men is going to be anti-feminist --trying to be pro-feminist and pro-men is like trying to be pro-cop and pro-black -- one of those groups is constantly attacking th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 05:02 PM
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Does it matter if it’s inherent or not? Basically all modern feminists spread toxic and misandrist ideas, doesn’t really matter if they mean to or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 04:51 PM
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When guys express aggression stop shaming them?
/r/MensRights25/09/23 09:34 PM
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I think you're looking too much into it--it's just "how do i not be sexist" and the answer is "treat men and women the same" and it's easier to relate to the gender that you are.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 04:16 PM
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Bro pick up a book. You know most of the world lives in SEA? Read up on the women’s rights issues in literally any of those countries.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:51 PM
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TBF it is a world index, so it makes sense to pay more attention to women's issues, because in most of the world, that is a concern. I would have given it a pass but it was referenced by one of those "why do men dislike feminism? because they're sexist" articles that asserts that feminism still means equal rights but then exclusively points at women's issues. Like, if you ignore men's issues, you can't really call yourself "gender equalist" then, can you? Honestly if this was just listed as "Wom…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 07:52 PM
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At least equal is still winning. w00t!
/r/MensRights15/08/23 08:04 PM
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I would honestly try to support a movement that I felt was trying to help men in a mission to achieve gender equality--and same with any movement trying to help women in a mission to achieve gender equality. The problem is that most MR movements seem to devolve into women hate really quickly. There's a world of difference between trying to fix issues that uniquely face men, and using men's rights as a cudgel to beat feminists with. Which do you think this article is doing? I do not appreciate th…
/r/MensRights26/01/17 10:51 PM
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I seem to remember a whole lot of men out there during the women's march.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 10:39 PM
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Why don't you protest? They didn't discuss men's issues because the march was about women's issues.
/r/MensRights26/01/17 08:22 PM
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She can't sign that contract because child support goes to the child, not the mother.
/r/MensRights31/08/16 03:19 AM
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