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And took her out of his will.
/r/MensRights19/07/26 02:21 AM
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They really do think that. They think that right up until the second you're gone, andthen they finally realize that they did not in fact do it all. Even years after my split, my ex would still call me asking to borrow something or do something for her. "I need to move a couch, can I use your truck and trailer?". She had already found some new dude and married him, and she was still calling me asking me to come work on her car. lmao.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 03:35 AM
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She wanted us to still live together in the same house but in seperate bedrooms. I feel like she wanted the security and support i brought her. That's what I went through. I had owned the house for about 8 years before even meeting her. During the split, I asked her what she was planning on doing. She said "moving into the downstairs bedroom here". I literally cackle laughed out loud, and told her that wasn't gonna happen. It's insane that they think they can get away with doing this. The nice g…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/26 05:23 AM
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Had the exact same thing happen to one of my friends, literally almost word for word, in 2009. He was an architect and had a really good job, and he lost his job over her doing that. Turns out his wife was BPD, which explains it. For some reason he did not divorce her ass, and then popped out 2 more kids with her. Then she got addicted to heroin, and we all watched her come unwound on social media.
/r/MensRights19/06/26 01:25 PM
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I don't remember exactly where I heard it, but a quote that really resonated with me: Men are loyal to their duties, women are loyal to their emotions
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 10:36 AM
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I've had it explained to me that it's like a scoreboard that gets reset at the end of every day. Doesn't matter how many points you put up on the board each day, at midnight the score gets reset to zero.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 07:26 AM
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I'd almost condense this down as just her being active on social media being enough of a red flag.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 02:01 AM
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They reinvent themselves as a way to justify their choices and actions. Most women are chameleons and will adapt their personality to complement whatever man they are with. Once that man is gone, they no longer have to wear that mask, so reinventing themselves is also just their way of purging those old habits. My ex was already married and divorced again just 3 years after she left me, and I ran into her right after her divorce. She was a completely different person than when she was with me, e…
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/26 06:48 AM
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I have never seen any. From what I understand about her story, she was the breadwinner in her marriage and her husband divorced her and took her to the cleaners. And she realized, holy shit.. this is what most men go through.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 03:34 AM
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General man hate stuff. This was a while ago.
/r/MensRights04/05/26 12:04 AM
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Don't trust dadvocate. She used to talk a bunch of shit before she started this grift.
/r/MensRights03/05/26 11:56 PM
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This is a solid list. Not sure I agree with #7, but the rest are good attributes to have as a man in general. Always standing up to shake a hand (firm), and solid eye contact have yielded me many opportunities over the years. Also: https://poets.org/poem/if
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 10:06 AM
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100% true. They are doing this as prep to look their best when they leave you. My ex did the same thing with a nose job. Took loans out for $10k to get the nose job, then when she was recovered she immediately monkeybranched.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/26 07:38 AM
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She just complained about having to do literally anything. If it was anything more than taking a shower, wiping her butt, or dressing herself, she threw a fit. It got to the point where she expected me to do 100% of everything. It was honestly pretty bizarre.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 07:43 AM
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I was doing all the cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, childcare, and most of the laundry. Legitimately she would come from work exhausted, change into sweatpants, and climb into bed and just veg out most of the evening. She had the same "mental load" complaints. Experienced the exact same thing here. She comes in the door and straight into bed where she'd doom scroll for hours on end. She'd even go multiple days, sometimes even an entire weekend, without even getting up to take a shower, beca…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 04:06 AM
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/r/bpdlovedones maybe? The push/pull sounds a lot like unchecked cluster B.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 03:22 AM
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She lasted 2 sessions before she declared him to be a “quack” and refused to go back. I went by myself and the counselor told me that he hadn’t seen her enough to make a diagnosis. However, he told me to buy “Quit Walking on Eggshells”. Literally the same here. My ex made to maybe 3 sessions before having a literal meltdown during one session when the therapist called her out on some contradictory things she said. After that, the therapist said that she did not have enough to officially diagnose…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 10:46 AM
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Mine was on my ex's side until she called my ex out on some contradicting things she had said. Ex literally had one of her BPD meltdowns right there in the session, walked out, and never came back. I kept on seeing that therapist for another year by myself after that, and her bias changed a lot after how she saw my ex behave first hand.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 10:43 AM
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Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 10:41 AM
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Borderline
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 07:43 PM
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Same. I set up couples therapy with my ex, and she only lasted a handful of sessions until the therapist called her out on some contradictory things she said. She proceeds to have a literal meltdown right there in the therapy session, walks out, and never went to another one. I continued to see the therapist for the next year, and based on what she had personally seen and the behavior I explained, she said that she can not officially diagnose my ex but was very confident that it was BPD.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 04:16 AM
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BPD
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 03:31 AM
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Even so, the boyfriend will still never have any sort of legal authority over the kid no matter what gets filed. He can LARP like the kid's dad, but he will never have any legal rights with the kid.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 03:26 AM
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I mean, I don't water my lawn. I don't have a swimming pool. I live alone, so I'm the only one who showers. On a scale of 0-waste, I am still pretty low overall. Not sure why anyone would care that much about it or would try and change my mind? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:31 PM
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I trim mine in the shower. Got a special set of stainless steel clippers that don't rust.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:09 AM
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I'm a dude, and I take long and hot showers. 50 gallon water heater at home and I'll shower until the hot water runs out. It's not about the time it takes to clean yourself, but it's relaxing and it's a great place to get lost in your own thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 04:02 AM
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I think the point OP is trying to make is that SAHM's have it good and should stop complaining about trivial things or imaginary oppresisons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:51 AM
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So where is the actual compensation? Equity in the house, his 401k, all of the family belongings, and unrestricted access to the family's money. When you divorce him, you split all of the assests and equity 50/50 even if you are the one who did not earn those things by working outside the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 03:35 AM
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My favorite reply for this type of situation is: "Thanks for sharing"
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/26 12:38 AM
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Yes, this is true. They can never truly get over an incident where you screw up. This is why every time they pick a fight, they will bring up that thing you said 7 years ago that pissed them off. No matter how much you make up for it, the incident is burned into their memory. It's a CD-R not a CD-RW.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/26 07:09 AM
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Went through that with my BPD ex. Health started to decline, weight gain, went to get a checkup and they did bloodwork. Said my cortisol levels were very high. BP was stage 2 hypertension. Asked if I had a stressful job... no. They asked what was stressing me out, I told them "Let me tell you a little bit about her..". .😂 After she was gone, got on some BP meds and some meds for the cortisol, 6 months later I was a new man and felt great without her stressing me out.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/26 06:59 AM
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The problem is that most average men don't have many options for women, so they are essentially choosing to settle with a woman or to be alone. A man who might not have much going for himself and who has higher standards for women will almost guaranteed spend his entire life alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:18 AM
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Yeah, that does happen sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:21 AM
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Bummer
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/26 12:08 AM
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You LS swapping that squarebody??
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/26 10:38 PM
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... until you choose to leave that person too. That's basically like saying "everything is fine, until it isn't". You might think your current partner is the best ever right now, but if that relationships ends you are not going to ever think that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 03:53 AM
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I call this: MEAT Money Energy Attention Time A woman will not always use you for money, but for your MEAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:59 AM
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I mean, this really only applied to a section of the lower middle class. I will admit that we've seen the lower middle class shifted down into the poverty category, but it's still not impossible to raise a family and own a house on a single income now. The difference is that you just can't do it with unskilled labor jobs. I work in the trades, and there are quite a few guys on my shift that bought homes after covid and are supporting their family (with kids) on a single income.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 10:23 PM
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Only the equity gained during the time of marriage, though.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 03:52 AM
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I don't follow any of that stuff on FB, but for some reason lately all of these blatant man-hating creators like Abby Eckel and Paige Connell have been showing up in my feed non stop. No matter how many times I hide them or click "not interested", they still keep on showing up. I think we are seeing the algorithm start to really push raw and blatant man hate on social media now.
/r/MensRights26/12/25 12:56 AM
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Oh, I did. I told her I knew about the dudes/messages, I was still logged on to her account and watched her delete the conversations in real time, and then try and deny it. It was crazy the lengths she was trying to go to hide it, even when I told her I was literally watching her do it the entire time. Her justification was that she "never actually met up with any of them, so it didn't count". The crazy thing.. I'm no perfect specimen, but I'm a great boyfriend and I own a bangin' 4 bedroom hous…
/r/MensRights16/11/25 03:27 AM
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Now a woman can literally be on Tinder or a site for 304s but literally sitting right next to you on the couch. You would NEVER know. Yup, have had this happen to me. One day I opened up my laptop and found that my gf at the time had been using it for Facebook and it was still logged on to her profile. So of course, I snoop, and find her actively messaging a ton of dudes from Facebook Dating. I look at the time stamps of some of the convos and they were from when we were laying in bed together w…
/r/MensRights16/11/25 02:56 AM
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Oh, STFU.
/r/MensRights12/11/25 06:48 AM
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Yup, also old and have seen how dating has evolved over the last couple decades. I noticed it started to go downhill once online dating started to gain momentum.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 04:27 AM
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My BPD ex, for an entire year after she had already left and shacked up with a new dude, still somehow thought that I had to do her shit for her. She'd call me with car questions, want me to change her oil and brakes and shit. House problems, she'd call and ask me to come fix it. Literally all the shit she had me do while we were together, somehow in her brain she thought that I still had to do all that stuff. lol. It was truly bizarre. BPD is unreal.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/25 11:01 AM
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/r/bpdlovedones
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/25 09:16 AM
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We often don't see it on blatant display like this, but the majority of women are like this when it comes to stalking men and/or their exes. I have experienced this type of stalking by my exes after every relationship I've ever been in. Hell, I just had an ex from 3 years ago send me a text, "Did you get a new car?". Bought a brand new car a month ago. She still drives by my house regularly.
/r/MensRights30/08/25 04:08 AM
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Same here, she thrives on NRE (new relationship energy) and then bounces whenever the honeymoon period is over, which is usually right after they move in together. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:56 AM
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Teen love is overhyped, man. It's not even really love, it's just lust that makes your body produce a bunch of hormones it's never felt before. Kind of like when you smoke your first joint. The problem with "teen love" is that it is always accompanied by the worst heartbreak imaginable. Because not only is it your first time feeling "love", your first heartbreak is always the most devastating because it's another new emotion. Kind of like the first time a baby feels indigestion, it doesn't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:02 AM
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I hear those digital 3d waifus from japan are getting good reviews.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/25 08:32 AM
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I would spitball that it is probably more than that. I literally can't ever think of a time where I have had a female uber driver.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 11:58 PM
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Edit: And what of biological birth females who now identify as male? Will they be refused service based on thier identified gender? Then they will get a taste of what it is like being a man.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 11:56 PM
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No, it doesn't stop. But none of that stuff you listed is high effort. Definitely not a "13 hour shift".
/r/MensRights19/07/25 04:43 AM
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In an equal male job partnership, a woman will give the man a couple hours or so to himself to decompress after work, and then he will take over household responsibilities for 2 hours or so she can get a break, and he can get the kids down to sleep. Sometimes this has to adapt or change temporarily because of scheduling issues, but that's where communication is important, and making sure both parties are heard, and get the rest they need, so they can work together effectively. I will agree with …
/r/MensRights18/07/25 12:55 PM
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And of course women are proclaiming that they are doing "Unpaid work" in regards to the household (Caring for children, cooking, cleaning, etc) as well as the "Emotional Labor" of having to handle appointment etc. One thing I've noticed about this is that the women who complain about these two things actually have no issue with doing those things.. they just get a chip on their shoulder when they have to do it for a man. This is why they always refer to their man as the extra child, or talk abou…
/r/MensRights18/07/25 12:50 PM
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Just go find a $3k GMT800 shitbox and drive the wheels off of it with zero maintenance. I bought a $3500 tahoe with 260k 4 years ago and have literally done nothing to it other than change fluids, and it just won't die.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:13 AM
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I've been a car guy my entire life, when I was younger in my 20's I built some really slick hotrods. I had to start driving my daily beater to dates because I noticed a huge difference in how the women treated me when I would pull up in my beat up OBS chevy shop truck vs. my slick RX7. Women would see me roll up in one of my hotrods and assume I had a lot of money, they would show interest, but lose interest whenever I'd drive around in my old shop truck. Some women see a guy driving a nice ride…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:05 AM
2

Congrats, you found the double standard. 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:15 AM
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It is, but unfortunately one gender is vilified for behaving like this, while the other is empowered by it according to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:06 AM
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Are you saying that there are no women under the age of 20 who are interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:57 AM
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a bad relationships is a form of trauma. Having been cheated on is something bad and people do all sorts of things to be able to trust again. Some people just move on. Some people go to therapy but still come out of it. The majority of people do not go to therapy or grow from their trauma, and instead carry that with them into all of their future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:48 AM
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Were you born yesterday? https://www.brennancenter.org/our-work/analysis-opinion/new-evidence-shows-how-russias-election-interference-has-gotten-more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 02:20 AM
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While there are some situations where you can do nothing about being betrayed, there are still plenty of women with their own agency who can make smart relationship decisions, and this reflects well on them later in life. Past their mid 20's, it is extremely rare to meet one of these women who are still single, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:31 PM
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None of those involve another person using emotional, psychological and power based influence. Except for those political campaigns, yea?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:26 PM
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Not certain what the connection is. "I don't think I had the best information at 21, and didn't know what I didn't know to ask"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:22 PM
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I honestly don't even think it's really about age most of the time. It's about baggage. If there were more options for a 40+ year old man than a woman the same age who has 3 teenage kids and doesn't want any more, high body count, already been divorced twice, and carries unresolved trauma from past relationships, the men would have no issues dating in their age range. Men like young women because they are not jaded, do not have as much trauma, are not as bitter, and do not come with any baggage.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:47 AM
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Not only that, but every time one of these threads pops up, you will see the angry old women who will use their past to justify it. "I dated a 32 year old guy when I was 19, and looking back now it was disgusting". It wasn't disgusting when they were 19! That's why they are mad - because they do not have that leverage they did back when they were young adults dating guys 10+ years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:34 AM
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Did you vote when you were 21?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:24 AM
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Ah, knowing that young people make stupid decisions, it should be fair to take away their privileges like being able to vote, smoke, drink, etc, until they are much older.. yea? We don't want them out there making dumb decisions about things like voting for the next president.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 10:21 AM
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https://gender.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Gender_Identities
/r/MensRights21/06/25 10:18 AM
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What most guys don't realize is that many of the divorce lawyers in a specific area are all in cahoots with each other. They put on this big production, but it's just like a wrestling match - everything is predetermined behind closed doors before the match even starts. And the conclusion they always come up with is to milk their clients for as much as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/25 02:29 AM
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Without context, yea.. based. With context, she just made a stupid emotional decision and made things really awkward. Her and her 2 daughters had moved in to my house just a few months prior, and she did not have a car. That's why he picked her up. lol. Made things difficult when she got back, cause then she had to find her own place without a car or anybody to help her move. Usually, it's not the smartest thing to drop a nuke like that without a backup plan in place beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:38 AM
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Both of those things can and do happen. It's just the lived experience of many men, there are entire movements based around it (old school mgtow, not the modern cesspool disguised as RP).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 10:05 PM
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Had one like that too. First big fight, and within 10 minutes she has already called her ex and had him come pick her up from my house. Women always like to gaslight men about this, but there was even that study done that found like half of women in relationships and even marriages actively keep backup plan dudes on the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:40 PM
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It is almost entirely about looks/attractiveness, "what you bring to the table and how you show up" is an insignificant part of the whole picture. Your attractive guy with nothing special going for him otherwise is going to be magnitudes more successful in dating and relationships than the guy who brings a lot to the table who is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:37 PM
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Relationships are more like jobs than not. Because you have a duty and responsibility to your partner, and you have to put in effort. Like they all say: love is a choice. You don't succeed in a relationship just from existing, you have to bring some sort of value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 04:33 PM
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It is perfectly acceptable for women to make fun of any attempt at trying to appeal to men. They have even coined a term for this: "pickme"
/r/MensRights31/05/25 12:16 AM
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Yeah, I think back to always hearing from adults how TV and video games would "rot your brain", now everyone celebrates spending your entire existence binge watching TV and/or with your face attached to a phone while scrolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:12 AM
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Bars, pool halls, bowling alleys, gyms, cafe/coffee shops.. those all still exist. The "death of the third space" is just from people becoming addicted to their screens and social media and becoming hermits, not because those places physically don't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:06 AM
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I honestly didn't look at the screenshots, imgur is blocked by the firewall that I am behind currently. But men aren't monoliths, and regardless what was said in your screen shots, it is likely anecdotal. As a man, who also knows many other men, I do not think it is inherent male nature to live a bare minimum lifestyle. The desire to live above the bare minimum is a personal desire, not based around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 11:46 PM
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Lots of men are like that when they are young. I was like that in my 20's. But I think with age, even if those men don't end up with families of their own, they still grow up from that kind of life. When I was 23 I didn't give a shit about hanging art, but now I spent a lot of money curating artwork to hang on my walls. I have had people come over to my house and mention that they think there is a woman living at my house, because of how I decorate and keep it clean. If you are curious about thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:13 PM
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To be fair, that is not exclusive to marriage. You still have your copilot even if you are in a relationship without being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 09:09 AM
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So normal people are supposed to know a random trivia fact about a guy that died over 200 years ago? If they're cultured, yea. Uncultured, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:46 PM
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Same here. And just how many of them still keep in contact with their exes, and coordinate their own little oort cloud of orbiter guys as "friends". Every single relationship I've ever been in, this is what the women did and every single time they always cheated and/or monkey branched. My last ex worked at the same company as me, just on a different shift and in a different building.. but I knew people that worked with her and they kept me up to date with intel on how she was acting with other d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:38 PM
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Dating in the 70's was a lot different than it is today. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:07 AM
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A respectful and nice man who is average looking is 100% invisible to women in the context of romantic relationships. This changes if the man is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:39 PM
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What you don't realize with this, is that for the majority of your average men, this is essentially resigning yourself to being alone until you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:37 PM
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The most actionable change I can think of is getting rid of Tinder and similars, or heavily regulating them. Dating shouldn’t be like online shopping on Amazon. Fuck the algorithms, people should be forced to mingle more, connect with people in their communities. Having infinite options just one swipe away may feel empowering to individuals but it’s terrible for society, because it becomes all about personal online branding, and first impressions. Women are suffering too, in different ways. I ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:22 AM
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I never used it because when I was single and looking, I was a rotten bastard and didn't want to subject some poor girl to my depravity. Exactly why it's bad advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:45 AM
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For men, "going to church" to find a girlfriend is on the same level as "just stop trying and she will find you when you least expect it".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 06:38 AM
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Disagree, the internet movements are just a result of this behavior that has been going on for well over a decade now. The original MGTOW movement was spawned from this, over 15 years ago before social media and before people were chronically online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:12 AM
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That's why women have created the theme of "unpaid labor" and "mental load" and all that - to try and make it seem like staying home and doing chores is HARD WORK, so that they can gaslight their provider men into doing their chores for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 10:39 AM
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Imagine if men stopped doing things for their women and turned it into a score (like women have already done).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:16 AM
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For the same reason that a man does anything for his woman. When you love somebody, you do things for them. You're going to the store? "Honey, can you pick me up a coffee on the way back". So you stop at dutch bros and bring your woman a coffee on the way back from the store, without acting like you're doordash and need a tip from her or something. In fact, acts of service is one of the common love languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 01:35 AM
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For real. "domestic duties" are just part of the basic life functions of literally every adult out there. Women have no problem doing all of these duties for themselves, they just have a chip on their shoulder over it when a man is around because women do not want to have to do anything for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:45 AM
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When you lose face and tell your woman about it, she secretly loses respect for you.
/r/MensRights27/04/25 09:12 AM
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If I have a problem, the first thing my partners have done is consider how it affected them personally. Yup, the wisdom in your comment needs to be carved on a tablet somewhere. It's what I have always ended up with in every one of my relationships. Whenever I would be upset over something and I mention it, now suddenly they make it about themselves and are upset about it, they become hysterical, and I end up having to be the one to calm them down about the thing that was my damn problem in the …
/r/MensRights27/04/25 09:08 AM
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I have met some legit car girls here and there over the last 25 years of being a car guy, yes. What I am talking about are the instagram car girls whose entire identity is wearing the tightest jeans possible and bending over their car looking like they're working on something, just fishing for attention. I know you know the type I'm talking about. They all have their IG handle stickered all over their modded subarus. Legit car girls are the only ones who show up on my "radar", I don't give a sec…
/r/MensRights25/04/25 03:24 AM
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My ex gf wanted to go take the welding program at our local vo-tech school. She enrolled and got absolutely bombarded with women only scholarships. She ended up completing the welding program there without paying a single dime other than the enrollment fees. After she enrolled and got all the scholarship offers, I enrolled in the same program just for shits and gigs to see what scholarships I'd get. Nothing, zero. Go figure.
/r/MensRights20/04/25 07:35 AM
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This one hits hard. I was one of those turbo nerd guys in the 90's. Literally used to write qbasic programs on my TI-82 at school. All of the girls at school.. it was like that current day meme where its the house party and all of the party girls are looking at you in disgust. It was the biggest ick before icks were a thing. Granted, there were plenty of other dudes who would clown on you for being a nerd... but the nerd space was totally DEVOID of any women. And then here I make it to adulthood…
/r/MensRights20/04/25 07:26 AM
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Boy Scouts
/r/MensRights20/04/25 06:53 AM
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I am serious. We literally have people saying that having sex with a 20 year old woman is pedophilia. Before long, that age will increase and any old dude having sex with a 25 year old woman will be a pedophile.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:07 AM
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How long until that age is raised to 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 05:01 AM
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I knew shit like this was gonna start happening more after a bunch of middle class stay at home moms watched handmaid's tale and then started pretending like they were living in Gilead and oppressed.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 01:22 AM
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bring fucking herpes home Why would that matter in the context of it being your son?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:52 AM
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Doubt you were doing 100+ hour work weeks.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 07:31 AM
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I don’t think you understand how much harder it is to meal plan and cook huge batches of food for several people who all have different food preferences and dietary restrictions. I did it for years. I was actually the breadwinner in my own house, and also cooked for the girlfriend and her kids that lived with me the entire time. It's not that big of a deal. I never see this being such a burden with people who either have a high work ethic or have had very hard working jobs. Taking care of a hous…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 04:05 AM
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The point is that the "job" of a SAHM isn't bound by the same rules and conditions as a normal w2 job, so it's time we stop comparing them like they are.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:26 AM
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Going grocery shopping and cooking food is literally what every person alive has to do if they want to live, if they don't have the money to always eat out or order takeout/delivery. I live alone and I have to grocery shop and cook my own food. That's just a basic adult responsibility. lol Even if you think going to the store and shopping is grueling labor, we have grocery delivery available now where the extent of your shopping is just tapping on your phone for a few minutes and carrying grocer…
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:10 AM
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Your employer only gives you how many sick days a year? Probably no more than a handful of those per year.
/r/MensRights29/03/25 12:05 AM
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And there is built in grace periods. Your SAHM wife can tell you that she didn't do any cleaning that day and dinner is take out tonight cause she doesn't feel well and doesn't want to cook; no big deal. But imagine you go to your job and telling your boss that you aren't going to do your job that day.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 11:51 PM
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Never heard of pegging??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:30 PM
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I'm not gonna say you should just give up.. but honestly, you should prepare for the worst (being alone).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 11:48 PM
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It's not that they didn't want to, the movement got invaded by toxic red pill guys. The original MGTOW community, which was men making a genuine effort, is just a casualty of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:59 AM
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I know, but I'm talking about the original movement from years past. It was drastically different than the MGTOW stuff within the last few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:55 AM
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The original MGTOW movement before it got taken over by red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:38 AM
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They do. That's actually what the original MGTOW movement was about, 15+ years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 12:37 AM
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What I have seen is educated or white collar men picking up a trade, going to a trade school for 10 months, and then getting a good job in that trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:32 AM
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It's because they don't want the cleaning lady to judge them based on their mess.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/25 04:18 AM
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She's not off base on her mindset. If you're educated, motivated, and a high achiever, you are not going to have that much in common value wise with somebody who is uneducated and unmotivated. Where people get twisted is if they are uneducated and unmotivated while expecting to have a partner that is a high achiever and judging them over it. Me - I don't give a shit if some broke bitches who aren't on my level judge me. But I am the same way as the woman you're replying to in that I will not pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:05 AM
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If that were the case, then the White Knight wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:33 AM
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Your algorithm just shows you more of what you are already searching for and viewing. Not your demographic or "how you react" or whatever. It's literally watching what you click on and view, and then it just shows you more of that. If your feed is countless videos of men talking about rape, then that's the content you have been searching for and watching for it to get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:31 AM
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You can't leave out the retroactive consent that this movement allowed women to revoke. Women can give consent and willingly have sex with a man, then later on she feels bad about it, and can retroactively revoke that consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:22 AM
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Big difference between your boss letting you go because you refused his advance vs. being falsely accused of rape and going through the legal system with a new scarlet letter permanently atteched to you. One is just a job; the other is your actual life being ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:32 AM
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There probably was a small number of dudes who did nothing wrong and got accused of something. Right, so do you think it's wrong for normal dudes to worry about this? I literally watched one of my friends get his life ruined because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:16 AM
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That's not true. If it was about damage caused, then why were men getting in legal trouble no questions asked for an accusation of SA where there was no evidence/damage caused?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:31 AM
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There were plenty of predatory men, I'm not denying that. But innocent men getting falsely accused was the collateral damage that came with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:29 AM
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It's not about it being a legality, it's about viewing a drunk person as capable of making decisions. A drunk person willingly makes the choice to get in their car and drive home. A drunk person willingly chooses to have sex with someone. The point is that the movement eschewed the accountability of women whey they choose to have drunk sex while still enforcing the accountability when they choose to drink and drive. You can't be held to accountability for your drunk decisions for one thing, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:08 AM
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That's the new narrative that was created to justify the movement. But it's not a legitimate thing, as a drunk person can still face repercussions of driving while drunk but suddenly they give having drunk sex a pass with no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 04:02 AM
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It fostered a new narrative with women of "if you are not sure if you might have been SA'd, just report it as if you had". So it opened the flood gates to a lot of false accusations against men. The women who would go out and get black out drunk and initiate drunk sex with random men, then they wake up in the morning with regret and think "I feel like I might have been raped but I'm not sure" even though they don't have a single memory of the night. I had 2 of my friends fall victim to this; one…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 03:58 AM
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more choice around LGTBG+, falling fertility rates due to lifestyles You literally said it and agreed with me!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:01 AM
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There isn't a direct link to birth rate decline and cost of living, we can see this with many poor european countries. LGBTQ and "lifestyles"; yes those go hand in hand with sexual liberation. That's the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:22 AM
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What else would be the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:10 AM
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Birth rates..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:59 AM
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60's was 60 years ago. It takes a couple generations for the pendulum to change directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:08 AM
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The thing about this take.. is it will likely self delete after 1 or 2 generations at the most. The women who think this will not have any kids to teach this to, so humans will not have this kind of influence and will naturally revert back more towards their animal instincts. 2050 and beyond is going to be wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:07 AM
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Men in relationships and marriages are unknowingly paying this tax already without even realizing it. The difference here is that it is presented overtly.
/r/MensRights20/01/25 12:05 AM
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I mean, death penalty is a stretch.. but something like this literally ruins a man's life.
/r/MensRights19/01/25 02:52 AM
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Yup, especially since she is only 20 years old. She "has her whole life ahead of her!".
/r/MensRights19/01/25 02:51 AM
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Have observed this with many women, especially throughout my 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:59 PM
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Even partnered up women do this; they still curate their oort cloud of orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:57 PM
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The women are often kind and welcoming to men because of the shortage of men in most dance halls neccessitates they retain all willing men if they want to continue enjoying their hobby. Men hold the power there. But place that same woman in a ballroom class where the instructor is telling her to touch other men and all of sudden she's smiling, having the time of her life while dozens of men are touching all over her and throwing her around. I can tell that you have ZERO experience with ballroom …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:52 PM
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Women don't actually mean hobbies as hobbies because actual hobbies are boring. It's stuff people do because they enjoy it Right. If I could count the number of times I've asked women about hobbies and got generic shit like "hanging out with friends", or "TV", it would have been enough that I would have probably lost count.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:38 AM
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Truth of it is, most married women don’t want their husband to have a hobby. They see it as wasted money. After 25+ years of talking to married men from four generations, realized this is the norm for women in marriage. Spot on. I have lived this experience, and have watched most of my friends live it with their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:21 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:55 AM
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Well, we're talking about meeting SO's through hobbies. If your hobbies are always sausage fests, how should you expect to meet your SO there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:33 AM
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audiofile What's your hifi setup look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:28 AM
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Try that with male dominated hobbies like video games or warhammer. Only works with hobbies that women also take part in regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:26 AM
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Yup, or generic hobbies like hiking/camping or reading books.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:10 AM
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Hobbies only work if it's some generic hobby that everybody is involved in (like pokemon go, hiking/camping, etc), or if there are equal amounts of each gender that take part in it. Doesn't work if the dude's hobbies are male dominated. For example: I've been deeply involved in amateur road and drag racing and building rad hotrods, car audio, and building watercooled PC's my entire life. Guess how many women I have ever met who have shared any of those hobbies, let alone gives a shit that I part…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:08 AM
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There are no "stats" that exist for what you are wanting. It's just a common narrative, I don't even know how you would quantify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 10:19 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/@ItsComplicatedChannel/videos
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:39 AM
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Mindy said: ‘I’ve got teenage daughters and a nine-year-old man’. 🙄
/r/MensRights12/01/25 05:29 AM
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He's not wrong, though. If you ask independent self sufficient women who earn a good salary what she is going to value in a partner, his income is going to be at the top of her list. Because many modern women will not date a man who earns less than her. That inherent standard is what OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:07 AM
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Yup. Hustling as much as they can while they can, and then setting up passive income streams or starting businesses that can mostly run autonomically. That way they do not have to work as hard and can still be high earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 AM
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Moving in together and her calling the shots on all furniture, decorations, how everything in the house is organized, how the towels are folded, etc. Try telling your gf that you want a huge TV with a playstation and big stereo system in the living room. Try coming home from work and decompressing for a bit with some video games. Nuh uh!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:43 AM
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It's a sad reality, though. For probably 80% of the dudes I am close with who are in long term relationships or marriages, they align with OP's post. When I was in my 20's and saw this happen with all my friends as they started settling down, it REALLY put me off on relationships. Their girlfriends started throwing fits any time they'd want to come hang out, so I never saw them much again after that. Had one friend who went to automotive school and had a bright future as a dealership tech; he go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:38 AM
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There are already a lot of subs, like AITAH and similar, that are almost fully bot driven. It's become a psyop to for training AI to pick up on social narratives. Wouldn't surprise me if that sub has already reached that point, and most of the angry women posting there are actually just bots.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 08:42 AM
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Got a previous reddit account of mine banned when I commented in that sub, and some crazy woman got triggered by what I said bad enough that she started dm'ing me telling me how upset she was and trying to start shit. I told her to fuck right off, and I guess she reported that because in about 10 minutes my account was banned.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 08:38 AM
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/r/bpdlovedones
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 08:32 AM
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I think you're reading some parts of my replies that aren't there and am not sure what point you're trying to make. I never said that he had no legitimate talent, but I've spent 2 comments so far saying he wouldn't be shit if he wasn't a rapper which you literally agree with. The point is that status and money make people who would otherwise be nobodies into a somebodies, and used Biggie as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:19 AM
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If you read closely, I moved past "dorks" to "fatass musicians". I also said that status can transform a person too. I love hip hop too, but I'm not delusional to think that these huge rappers.. biggie, big pun, big scoob, bigx, dave blunts, any of them would be anything if they weren't a rapper. Like I originally said, if they weren't rappers. If Biggie had never been a rapper, you really think he would still be famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:18 AM
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Have you not seen the fat calvin klein underwear models?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:02 AM
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it's not like we can flip a switch and make the undesirable desirable. Sure you can, all it takes is a lot of money and the undesirable is now desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:58 AM
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A man who does this is literally going MGTOW without realizing it. An undesirable man that thinks he can be selective and actually get success from that is sadly going to be alone his entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:56 AM
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The guy you are replying to dropped a hard to swallow pill, but he's 100% right. There are more people than most realize out in the world who are born into nothing, who will be nothing their whole lives, and who truly have nobody that cares about them. Especially true in poor/third world countries, or even here on US soil with the homeless population. Very few homeless people have a single person who gives a shit about them, let alone cares about them as an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:54 AM
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Money and status can easily transform the most don't matter people into people that do matter. Just look at how many of these absolute fucking dorks that somehow get popular with online streaming are drowning in women. Neon, Sketch.. those guys would be grade A losers and die virgins if they were born 20 years earlier. All these fatass and horrid looking musicians too. You think Jelly Roll and Post Malone would be worth a shit if they didn't do music? But the hottest women around want to jump on…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:50 AM
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Calvin Klein underwear ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 04:05 PM
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Nope, me personally I did not get into casual sex or meaningless whatever you said; I just learned not to be a simp. 🙄 Young boys are not turning into psychopath woman haters, they are being taught how women behave in the dating world and what to look out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:13 PM
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It's anecdata, but my ex gf enrolled at our local tech school for the welding program. She was in her early 30's at the time and was just a high school graduate. She got bombarded by women only scholarships, and she was able to get a free ride for the entire 10 month welding program. Just for shits and gigs, I enrolled for the same program at the same tech school. Also a high school graduate. I got zero scholarship offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:11 PM
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If by young men you mean actually young boys, why is it not valid to be worried about them being influenced radicalized by shitheads before they have any real world experience to temper their beliefs? Because it is preparing the young boys for what to expect when they start dating. I'm in my 40's, and I've been eaten alive my entire life in the dating game. Because I grew up in the bible belt in a traditional conservative family being taught that all the normal blue pill gentleman shit is just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:01 PM
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My last ex; after we initially split up she started having some weird jealous moments about me. She had it in her mind that I was immediately out having tons of sex with all of the different women who were hitting me up, and she'd make snide comments about that while I'm literally just spending all my time alone. She had ZERO capability to understand anything from a man's perspective. But she acted that way because that is her reality and is what she does/did, and was unable to understand that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:09 AM
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Nope. Average and below average men have standards too. And those men end up living a life being perpetually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:04 AM
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Yeah, she's an ex for a reason. The relationship started out great, but after a while her behavior just started devolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:16 AM
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They all start out awesome, and then their behavior devolves. I don't sit there and willingly choose toxic women with red flags; historically they ended up putting up a good front in the beginning and sinking their claws in and becoming comingled before the crazy comes out. That's probably what my biggest mistake was - moving things along too quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:15 AM
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I think the exact problem that you're describing here is that way too many women will have an I speak, you listen and do policy in their households. Even when women oppose traditional gender roles, they believe the woman is the authority on household matters. This is spot on. This is what it's been like in every single one of my relationships ever. As soon as you move in together, 98% of the furniture and interior design choices are HERS and it will be world war 3 if you ever told them you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:42 AM
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A tale as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:34 AM
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If you invest in and start the business while single, it is a pre-marital asset that can be protected with a prenup. If you wait until you are married to start a business, even if you do 100% of the work and all she does is sit around the house, she has the "right" to half of it for just existing whenever she files the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:36 PM
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emotional intelligence IME, this seems to get worse in women as they age. Emotional intelligence is directly related to trauma and your trauma response, and I have never known an older woman who was able to learn and grow from all of her trauma over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:32 PM
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Based. Also related to my experience with women that have no hobbies. Women with no hobbies should be avoided at all costs when it comes to relationships, exactly for the reason you describe - because YOU will be their hobby and they will almost always become codependent. This is bad if you are a man who has hobbies, because now you have to give the hobbies up and dedicate that time to her instead. This is the biggest mistake I've made in all of my relationships throughout my whole life. Women w…
/r/MensRights17/11/24 10:04 PM
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Not with SA, but a female coworker started a false accusation campaign against me with HR to try and get me fired, after I caught her spreading rumors about me and told her to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:39 AM
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If you do, you had better use Monero. You can still be easily tracked with BTC, ETH, and others that use public blockchains.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 08:54 AM
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I have literally already mentioned it. Hit Ctrl+F, type "taught" without quotes, and you will find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:56 AM
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I never needed the manosphere to stand up for myself; I did that very well. It was just a validation that what we were taught was bullshit and what I experienced was normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:15 AM
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Not sure you understand what boundaries mean. They are exes because they behaved badly and I ended the relationships. That's about as strong of a boundary as you can get. The point I was making is that many young men were taught to put up with shit from a woman without knowing any better, the same thing as the "happy wife happy life" thing that has been spread by society for the last century. It's only now, with a lot of exposure from it by content creators, that we krealize this is a bullshit n…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:33 AM
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Where did I say that I had no boundaries bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:53 AM
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Yes, would date and nope, wouldn't resent her. Way better than finding out she was a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:45 AM
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I wish the manosphere was around 25 years ago when I first started dating women. I was raised to be a gentleman and that women are all lovely and deserve your respect. Got my ass handed to me in the dating world, I mean just totally devastated by cheaters, liars, and gold diggers. Not a single relationship that was any good. Back then, you had no way to learn about female nature so you had to learn it by experience instead of somebody teaching you about it. Really makes you feel like something i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:57 PM
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The audience for these shows is primarily women who stay at home all day and don't work. Basically, people who are unproductive nor important to society and its standards and advancement. The problem here is that now social media exists, and gives these otherwise useless people a voice, and all of the other useless people rally around it and form narratives. The women on daytime TV have been shitting on men since the 90's, but it wasn't until recently that social media has allowed that to really…
/r/MensRights02/11/24 12:11 AM
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What do you mean? Are you pretending the Jeremy Meeks thing never happened? I urge you to come out and work on an oil rig for a while, or any industry full of the bottom of the barrel of humanity, and you will also meet the guys who get on inmate dating sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:14 AM
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That just because you, personally (anecdotally), don't like fictional villains doesn't mean that the rest of the women also feel the same. 50 shades proves that many women are attracted to toxic guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:33 AM
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I know plenty of men that would be serious about it. I even knew some guys who did the inmate dating sites when those first came out, the logic was that they would wait for their release. You have to realize that there are a lot of men out there with no self esteem, no self respect, and no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:29 AM
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I picked the solo ride on this lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:27 AM
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Young women who are in their 20's. Han was the choice for millennial women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:26 AM
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How many of your friends got wet over 50 shades? I'd be willing to bet the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 10:07 PM
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What characters are you talking about? I gave some examples so please why don’t you demonstrate how this is not just an emotional generalization. Tell me all about the trend and not just your feelings Romance novels. 50 shades Lots of women love those, and they all pretty much follow the same narrative that you're debating against.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:54 PM
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Kill Bill is a big one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:51 PM
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Yup, I've witnessed a discussion in a group of women about "hottest star wars character", and it ended up as a tie between Kylo Ren and evil Anakin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:49 PM
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Many fantasize about dating cops too, even though it's well known for being one of the professions with the most abusive men. My last ex was alpha widowed by a FWB that was a married cop, and would always talk about him even years into our relationship even with him being a massive POS. The fucker lived a few blocks down and every time we'd drive by his house on the way somewhere, she was glued to the car window.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:45 PM
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There's a FB group called "I can fix her" that does that, it's insane what kind of comments show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:34 PM
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This goes out the window once the kid reaches school age, now the mother spends 7 hours a day not having to do anything for the child. And the older the child gets, the less attention they need from the mother/parents. Taking care of a school aged teenager is different than an infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:22 AM
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Unpaid labor means nothing to the government, to them it is the same as just not having a job and not contributing any taxes. Noting about your status as a married person should entitle you to the government system that you are not paying into.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:19 AM
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This is the new norm. There's no going back from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:34 AM
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I was listening to a podcast and the discussion was what makes men decide to make decisions against their natural urges over things like this and even why suicide is so common. An analogy was brought up about 9/11 jumpers and why they willingly jumped off of the towers. The thought was that they realized that they were going to die and knew that jumping and falling to their death was easier, quicker, and not as painful as staying there and being burned alive. And that is a good parallel for goin…
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 09:27 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 08:21 PM
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Yes they should. Like I said, though, that doesn't guarantee anything she says/does in the future. Men ask for paternity tests in the frame of mind of trust but verify, while women automatically see it as being accused of infidelity. That's where the big disconnect is, and is what this thread is about. I understand your point, but I'm trying to say that vetting your woman doesn't guarantee anything on how she will actually feel/think in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:50 AM
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Have you heard the saying; "Trust, but verify" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:39 AM
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That's just behavior from women who aren't that interested in you romantically, not a generational issue. It's like that for every generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:34 AM
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But we don’t trash men our age. Yeah right!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:32 AM
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Only date and marry women who agree to this. The reason I brought up marriage/divorce is because it is easy for a woman to say one thing at the beginning of the relationship/marriage and feel differently about it later on. My last ex wore a HUGE mask in the beginning, and after 3 years with her she was a completely different person than the woman I first met. Imagine being a guy who went over this with his girlfriend and she agreed, then they got married and 5 years later she got pregnant and go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:42 PM
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I'm not married. But let's not pretend like that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 11:38 PM
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If you're having a child with someone, it says a lot about you if you don't think they can be trusted to tell you the truth. Kind of like that trust from those wedding vows your wife told you 7 years before she divorces you because she doesn't find you attractive anymore (or insert any stupid reason she wants to divorce)?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:05 AM
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It's because men don't want to unknowingly raise another man's child, not over some accountability fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:56 AM
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Men vet women who they want to marry, and half of those marriages end in divorce anyways with women filing 80% of the time. There is no consequence for women to vow marriage in sickness and health until death to a man and then a few years later divorce him because she "fell out of love" or some stupid shit. Doesn't matter how well men vet a woman, she still has the capability to change and/or betray him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:54 AM
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Yeah, I had a Crazy & Lazy and it was NOT fun.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 07:09 AM
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My ex used to get ISIS/Hamas mad at me saying that I did not do any chores around the house, but whenever I asked her what specific chores she was talking about all I got was "you just have to figure out what needs to be done and do it without asking". So I told her; whenever you see a chore that I'm not doing, write it down and we can make a list so I know what to do. But she said no to that, because it would "make her come off as controlling". 🙄 I think it's just a vector they use for control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:25 AM
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This makes the most sense out of anything, but society tells us that kids can not live without their mothers so the mother always gets default custody regardless of who makes more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:37 AM
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It was a non issue until things got serious and she moved in with me, then it came out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 08:33 PM
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Bro that's why she's an ex..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:25 PM
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Didn't become an issue until we got serious and she moved in with me. It was like a switch got flipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:24 PM
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My last ex was an anti-gamer. When I met her I was a play Overwatch with the boys for a couple hours one or two nights a week, but she straight up FORBADE me from any video games. She just could not handle any of my attention not being on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:15 AM
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This is the reason. My last ex was fueled by chaos and she literally told me that this was the reason for it. In that relationship there were times that the seas should have been smooth sailing for a while, but after about a month of no chaos she would get edgy and always start some kind of shit out of nowhere. When we tried couples therapy (before she stopped going), she said her chaotic childhood is why she is like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 07:38 PM
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People have virtue signaled this for decades now. 95% of the people who are aware of PPB's right now don't realize that it has been a thing pretty much since the internet made it into our homes. Back in the day they used to call it "mail order brides". In 2003, they had Chris Raab marry a russian bride for an episode of Viva La Bam. Back then, the virtue signalers used to try and spin the narrative that these poor russian women were literally getting purchased by rich american men. In reality, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 01:05 AM
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you give each other a shit-ton of slack and don't "nickel-and-dime" them in a transactional way Have you not heard about emotional labor and mental load? There are women out there divorcing their husbands because they don't do enough house chores. Have you read "she divorced me because I left my cup by the sink" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:13 AM
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I'll get downvoted for this, but it could also be because she is fat herself and is attracted to her looksmatch, which is respectable in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:44 AM
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Open and shut case, my man. She hooked up with somebody on her break and got it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/24 07:30 AM
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Right, it's exclusive to all women regardless of their promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:11 AM
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They also get divorced all the time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:08 AM
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Regardless of these justifications about why some women are promiscuous, it still doesn't change anything on how men perceive them. I think everybody loses their minds and think men hate promiscuous women. We don't, but we just know better when these women try and be wives. It doesn't matter if a woman is promiscuous from childhood trauma or from trying to fit in during college, the outcome is still the same. Just like it doesn't matter how an alcoholic forms their drinking habit - their outcome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:05 AM
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Western men's standards are unreasonable high You do know that drizzle drizzle is satire, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:23 AM
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It's just nature, man. Same thing applies to people who were born smart vs. stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:18 AM
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What is attractive to you is on a sliding scale, mostly determined by what you are surrounded by on a daily basis. If you took a man and put him on a deserted island with a group of other men for 10 years, then brought him back into a big city and put him in a room of women that are 4's and 5's, he will think the 5's are 10's. Then when he goes outside that room and sees all of the other women around in the city who are 9's and 10's, those 5's which he had previously seen as 10's are now back do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 12:15 AM
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I have no doubt that they have improved, but it's not enough to totally obsolete the original model. I watched all of this happen within the last 3 years. I'm sure one's location also plays a role too; high population urban vs. sparse population rural.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:39 PM
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For sure.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 10:35 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Duluth_model That doesn't mean it doesn't exist or isn't still true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:24 AM
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It's still true; I have observed it happen to 2 of my close friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:00 AM
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Being NT Ps. I am autistic myself Dafuq? How can you be NT and ND?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:55 AM
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It's called masking, and autistic people can learn to mask better with age and with more social exposure throughout their lives. Also, the 'tism doesn't automatically mean they have no emotional intelligence. It's absolutely possible for somebody to be full aspie and still have a high level of emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:54 AM
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Doesn't matter how tall and handsome you are, if you got some of the 'tism then you're going to be alone. Source: me the 6'6" former athlete aspie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:46 AM
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Whenever there is a domsetic violence call, the police automatically assume that the man is the aggressor and arrest him without question, even if he has injuries from getting beat up by his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:38 AM
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Family court, and the Duluth model are a few examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:35 AM
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Dude, when I was young I had friends who were in relationships with BPD women and I didn't really know what it was apart from them just being deathly crazy. They'd talk about how bad it was and all the trauma from it. In my mind, I'm thinking "damn, that would really suck to be with someone like that", just oblivious. Then, wouldn't ya know.. I ended up with a BPD woman. 😂 Seriously, though, one of the worst trials a man can go through in his entire life is to end up with a rabid BPD woman. I ha…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 03:13 AM
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Nah, there are plenty of "alphas" who are just sick of dealing with women and have no issues with staying single.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 02:33 AM
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Is it negative? Lies? Yes
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/24 01:43 AM
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I feel like empathetic mothers of boys are the subset of women who are most likely to understand men's issues, as they eventually see all the bullshit their sons have to go through.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 11:45 PM
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It is like this for votech/trade schools now as well. Around 4 years ago my (now ex) gf wanted to sign up for our local votech to do the welding program. I'm a career cnc machinist so I told her that was a great move as learning a trade like that would level her up in life. She enrolled and got BOMBARDED with women's scholarships. She got the entire welding program paid for via scholarship. Just for shits and gigs, I enrolled there and put my occupation as unemployed, showing interest in the wel…
/r/MensRights29/06/24 11:42 PM
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Totally relatable. Spent a good majority of my 20's single but dreaming about falling in love and starting a family and all that stuff. At the time I thought I was missing out, but looking back now being single in my 20's was without a doubt the best time of my life by a long shot. I wish I could go back and relive it with what I know now.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 07:51 AM
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In my 20's I gave up my hobbies because of girlfriends that would complain about them, especially the ones who would complain about me spending money on said hobbies. But I don't tolerate that anymore. Just one of those life lessons you learn over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:47 AM
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What women say will happen: "Women love interesting men with hobbies, get a hobby - you will meet more women and they will find your skill/hobby interesting, you can't fail! I know 4567 people who all met their SOs doing hobbies!" What Society Says will happen: "Don't get hobbies or join sports etc to meet women, do it for yourself, if you meet a women it's a bonus, but that is how a few of my friends met their S.O's. Maybe you'll be lucky and connect with someone" What ACTUALLY happens: You joi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 09:21 PM
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Have you seen the Twox sub, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:59 AM
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Don't fall for it man, she's just bullshitting and you caught her fair and square.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:58 AM
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They even have phrase for it "LBH" or Losers Back Home This term is just something that American women have created and started spreading. I have a friend in Lviv and one in dumaguete, both familiar with foreign dating, and neither of them knew that term when I asked them about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:54 AM
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It's not specific to any industry, it's like that any place where you have women and men together in close confines or in a fast paced environment for 40 hours or more a week. It's even worse with nurses, and hospitals in general. It's nothing more than just exposure.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 11:20 PM
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Even that is getting spoiled, with how western mindset is spreading across the globe and the "passport bro" movement is getting shit on now by those who are trying to push the gynocentric narrative. I looked into foreign dating in easter europe over a decade ago, and would have gone that route if I could have afforded it back then. Not so sure it's a slam dunk anymore, as they say once you bring them over on a K1 they just become corrupted by the women here.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 11:14 PM
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At the end of the day if a woman has lots of experience and chooses you, that has to be a vote of confidence, doesn't it? Not if she has no standards and lets anybody in. There's no gain in confidence from just being whoever is in front of her when she is horny, she didn't "choose" you.. you were just the nearest warm body. Like, you really think you're somebody special as #98? You're nothing more than a walking sex toy at that point. There's nothing wrong with this, but don't act confused about…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 11:11 PM
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I get that some men really get upset about high numbers I just don’t understand it. There's nothing wrong with women that have high body counts, but when looking at it through the frame of a person you want to marry, it is the biggest red flag. Frame it like this: Let's say you own a business and are looking to hire somebody reliable who will be there with you long term. You have two applicants, both equally qualified, one who has worked at 11 different companies over the past 4 years, the other…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 10:50 PM
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100% true. I worked at a restaurant when I was in high school, and every single one of the women servers were hooking up with someone there.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 10:39 PM
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Yup, being a caretaker personality is noble but it always attracts the cluster B's.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah that's codependent behavior (her).
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 09:22 PM
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You might not realize it right now, but getting a boat is a home run for attracting women. That woman flaked on you for a normal date, but if you had invited her out to a cove party on your boat she would be locked in. If you would have responded to her flake text with something like "Oh no worries, I'll just be taking my boat out on the lake this weekend instead, maybe you can join sometime." and I guarantee she would immediately switch up on the other dude she decided to go on a date with. In …
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 09:21 PM
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I wasn't married to her, but was with a BPD woman who did the same thing about telling her kids. We were together for a long time and I came around when her kids were young in their formative years, me and her kids created a strong bond. She would go through her typical cluster B discard phase and tell me to kick rocks, and I would tell her that she has to tell her kids. Otherwise, she would just not say anything to them at all and if they asked about me she would say something along the lines o…
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 05:43 AM
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Or, you'd spend 6 months initiating but getting shot down. And then on that ONE day where you worked a 16 hour day and start coming down with a cold or something, worst day for sex for you, she initiates and you aren't up for it. THEN, it's world war 3 when you turn her down.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 03:10 AM
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I feel I must have missed some worldwide event that suddenly reduced everyone's IQs. Social media
/r/MensRights08/06/24 09:21 PM
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How hot is she, tho? An average or below average 24 year old woman does not have as many opportunities to be hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:30 PM
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A man that far along in life, if he has had experience with women before, should immediately spot that as a trap.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 07:03 PM
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Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:12 AM
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Above median income
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:10 AM
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It will go nowhere. I was told to just avoid talking to the woman unless it's work related.
/r/MensRights01/06/24 07:45 AM
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Very few people become financially successful working a 40 hour week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:06 AM
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That's the emotional labor that men have to go through, but it is invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:16 AM
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If it's a day/time the mom doesn't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:10 AM
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If it's so easy, why aren't more dads doing it? When the dads try and do stuff like this, the mom always finds something wrong with it. And many women have to be in control of everything, so they do not let their men do any of the planning because they can't handle not being in control.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:03 AM
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Many men are SAHD homemakers and do it well, but nobody gives a shit about it because they aren't victimizing themselves over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:58 AM
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Once kids get to school aged, there is nothing difficult about being a SAHP. The first 5 years is brutal and I will never deny that, but once the kids are autonomous then being a SAHP is literally easymode.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:56 AM
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No SAHM is consistently cooking 3 meals a day every day. Even so, that's an extra 20 minutes a day of dishes. I didn't have a dishwasher until I was 32 years old, it is not that big of a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:54 AM
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Yup, that's been my experience. I was the SAHD for a while and that shit was soooo easy. But I also think it ties in to a person's work ethic. I have a strong work ethic (I have 2 jobs now, even though I don't need a second one), and I did 4 years in the oilfield. I'm no stranger to HARD work and am conditioned for it. People with strong work ethics are going to see a SAHD as an easy gig, those who are either lazy, no work ethic, or are not conditioned to hard work will see it as hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:51 AM
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You aren't washing dishes for an entire restaurant for 8 hours when you're at home. At most, you have to rinse out the pots used to cook, 6 plates and glasses from the family, put them in the dishwasher, and then hit a button. I am a home chef and doing dishes is so damn easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:53 AM
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The type of women who complain about laundry are usually the type that is high strung or neurotic and must have every piece folded and/or put away exactly how they want or they will have a meltdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:50 AM
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Anyone who is financially successful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:49 AM
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Remember when they made a feminist ghostbusters movie? 😂
/r/MensRights29/05/24 02:33 PM
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Can't forget Tomb Raider, Resident Evil, Kill Bill..
/r/MensRights29/05/24 02:30 PM
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So, my comment was to a woman who wrote an essay about how the 5/10 was pretty much the hottest person alive, saying this is why we have an epidemic of women with overinflated views of themselves. Which we do - that is an actual problem today. Regardless of whether it's "rude" or not, a person should not put themselves out on the internet if they can't handle any blunt honesty. These female presenting men are absolutely simps, because normal well adjust men do not come unhinged over a "rude" com…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 06:11 AM
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So telling a 5 that they are not a 10 is insulting?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 05:21 AM
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Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 04:37 AM
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Matter of fact, men should only be allowed to leave the house for work, they’re not needed anywhere else. Sadly, this is actually the life that many men already live on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:33 AM
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I was in a FB meme group and some large woman started a "post your selfies" thread with a heavily filtered picture of herself. She was definitely a diesel F-250 but she wasn't hideous. Tons of women replying with the "omg ur so beautiful", one woman wrote out this big ass reply that was like "you're SO stunning, ive never seen anyone so beautiful in my life". I replied to that woman with "This is why we have an epidemic of 5's thinking they are 10's". And immediately there was this squadron of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 03:10 AM
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Painfully fake rage bait story trying to get everybody worked up over a big age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:19 AM
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What you are describing is not social outrage or stigma, rather just young women not liking older men. Exactly as my comment said.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:56 AM
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Which gender is doing the roasting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:44 PM
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Top level response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:44 PM
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What gender does the most harassment come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:17 PM
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Not denying that there weren't young women who did t like old men, but there was no outrage nor stigma against it until social media hit the scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:12 PM
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Realest take right here. ^
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:53 PM
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Sure, but it's still villainized today on the same level as an 18/40.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:46 PM
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Yep, this is almost exclusively an online type of mindset. If it weren't for vocal minorities making noise about it on social media, this wouldn't even be a topic of debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:45 PM
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These older men don't love or respect these girls. They're just using them and wasting their time. What's the difference between this happening with an older guy vs. a guy the same age? Older guys aren't the only ones who use women ya know..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:39 PM
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So, here's the thing. The outrage over this a recent phenomenon. When I was in my 20's decades ago, nobody gave a flying shit about big age gaps. In fact, in high school the senior girls who had early 20-something college boyfriends were viewed as high status and very popular. The meta surrounding age gaps now only exists because of a vocal minority of radical feminists who use social media to try and brainwash people with it. This is why you rarely, if ever, hear outrage over big age gaps IRL. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:34 PM
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In 2024, regardless of how independent a woman is.. a 36 year old dude pursuing a 23 year old woman will get roasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 08:28 PM
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Really? So anyone who doesn't use a $2k milermatic is a hack? Guy isn't trying to learn hobby welding by getting a 6g pipe cert, buying expensive welders to learn hobby stuff is a monumental waste of money. In fact, the most recommended beginner welder that trade schools now recommend for their students is the eastwood mig 135, which is just a marked up $200 harbor freight squirt gun. A HF flux core mig will do just fine welding a transmission mount. Yes, when you start learning how to work on c…
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/24 10:15 AM
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Yup, Mike Pence rule is the way to go.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 04:22 AM
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Not gifts, but I have been friends with average looking women over the years that constantly get bombarded with male attention. One of them used to go to car shows with me, and when we'd get there I could watch all the dudes scoping her out. They all thought that she was my gf at first. But then when they found out that it was just my homie, they were ALL up on her. It was like that everywhere we went together; getting perpetually scoped out by dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 11:02 PM
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Yes, that is where the advice of "stop looking and love will find you when you least expect it" is rooted. That is advice for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 10:54 PM
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So, I'm a guy with high aptitude levels that has had many hobbies my entire life. Building cars and hotrods, drag racing, road racing, r/c helicopters, car audio competition (turned that hobby into a second job as an audio engineer), 3d printing, 3d modeling, extreme PC overclocking, PC gaming, custom PC watercooling, drone photography, and my first passion (cnc machining) has been my career for the last 22 years, which I also do as a hobby from home. I have not had a single relationship my enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 12:39 PM
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Having hobbies only matters if it's a mutual hobby, or one that women on average are interested in. If your hobby is something that is male dominated, women literally don't give a shit about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:03 AM
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Many women have. "I'm not your therapist" "It's not my responsibility to fix your problems"
/r/MensRights20/05/24 07:08 AM
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Once you've been through it, you can spot it a mile away!
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 04:30 AM
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BPD
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah, because personality changes due to concussions is a common thing with married couples. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 09:54 PM
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Why would you even commit to marry someone you don't like tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 08:05 PM
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One of my friends who was going through similar shit beat a false narrative against him with footage from his dash cam. Apparently there were times that she would approach and scream at him while he was in his car, and there was some footage of her being hysteric when his car was pointed towards her. When he would go pick up his boy, he would park his car so that it was looking right at the front door and stairs to her house, and it recorded the many times where she either wouldn't answer the do…
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 08:27 AM
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They really struggle finding men to be the primary parent They can't find men to be a primary parent, but 0% of them would financially support him if they did find one! 😪
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:08 AM
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He's one of the guys in the poll that thinks the patriarchy exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:05 AM
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Lots of simps these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:02 AM
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It's not just college aged women, that bleeds well into adult women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:59 AM
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Many tradesman make that much and there are zero women in their sphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:29 AM
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What percentage of women out there actually make over 100k, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:19 AM
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There are plenty of single dads who take care of their children as well as thrive at their career, just like the plenty of single mothers that do the same. Yes, devoting time to take care of young children is important, but there are alternative ways to do that like daycare, nannies, or grandparents. It is a far stretch to claim that a breadwinner is only successful at their career if they have a partner to take care of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:12 AM
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Just as many assets as if he did not have "support". An ambitious man will earn those assets whether he is alone or with a partner. i would actually argue that the man will be able to earn more assets without a partner, as a partner is an added expense. What kind of "support" from home increases a man's earning potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:38 AM
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Stay at home work is easymode in 2024 even with kids. We literally have machines to do all of our chores for us, bills and appointments are all automated, and there is online shopping with grocery delivery so you don't even need to leave the house to shop. The vast majority of my life is automated now, the only chore I haev t I was the stay at home partner during the pandemic, and even with homeschool work for 2 young girls, that shit was a breeze compared to going to work for 40 hours a week. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:24 AM
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If it gets to the point where the bread winner can not even afford necessities for the stay at home partner or family, being stay at home is no longer viable. The stay at home partner will need to work. Anything hypothetical past this is just goalpost shifting. It is entirely appropriate for a provider to cut off the stay at home partner if the stay at home partner is overspending. Budgets are a thing. And that also ties into my first point - if they are struggling that much with a stay at home …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:23 AM
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So which is worse: going to work for a living and not having money for much beyond necessities. staying at home and not having to work and not having money for much beyond necessities. ? Financials are usually discussed and agreed upon whenever one partner wants to be the stay at home partner. The only time it ends up like you are presenting is when one partner declares they are going to be stay at home while the working partner disagrees, and then limits shared funds. But that is understandable…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:09 AM
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Most people have wants beyond their basic needs. Wants beyond needs are not even guaranteed for those who work now, have you seen the economy? Do you? How is that guaranteed? When you get married and have a joint bank account, you have full access to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:57 AM
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The context around this is usually about the assets she entered the marriage with vs. the assets she left with. A woman can enter a marriage with nothing to her name, not work, and then leave the marriage with half of the assets that were earned during the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:46 AM
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You don't get a paycheck, but you get all the needs in your life taken care of for you. You don't have to worry about making enough money to make house payments or pay bills. You don't have to dedicate 40 hours or more a week working outside the home. You have access to a bank account where money just shows up, and all you have to do is keep the house and family maintained.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:41 AM
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That's not true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:38 AM
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Any man who says “I’d love to be a stay-at-home husband!” is imagining a future where his wife never leaves him, cheats, or abuses him. He’s never imagining that his wife could fall out of love with him. What happens when you try to enter the job market after 20+ years staying at home, no work experience, and no college degree? Good luck getting any job that pays more than $15/hr. If he is a man that isn't scared of work: student loan for a 10 month trade program at his local vo-tech Finish with…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:36 AM
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It's just a numbers game. I grew up in a small town, have moved all around the country and even lived in Phoenix and Houston, and I'm back in a small town now. What you don't realize is that if you want that small town life, you need to find someone to marry by the time you're in your early to mid 20's. Because after that, your dating pool in a small town shrinks to almost nothing until you are in your 30's when all the divorced women start hitting the dating market again. Small town dating is l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 01:41 AM
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You guys will act like this is feminists taking it over, but the reality is that BSA enrollment had been dropping for years and the organization was bleeding money. They did this inclusivity rebrand to boost membership in an attempt to "save" the organization. If they hadn't done this, it was headed right for bankruptcy.
/r/MensRights11/05/24 11:47 PM
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My mother got her first bank account in 1971 when she turned 18 and graduated high school. She also got a loan at 23 to build her first house. All of that was on her own as well.
/r/MensRights10/05/24 05:41 AM
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Better analogy would be if men started posting "I choose the snake over women" propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:04 PM
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This bear vs man is literally just a narrative that is intentionally getting pushed to justify women being able to shit on men more without being held accountable. It's just the evolution of the modern hate movement against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:01 PM
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Yeah I did my first Philmont trek in '97 and that is where I met some of the girls doing treks in the ancillary BSA programs. The narrative that always gets pushed around this is that women are trying to invade men's spaces.. but the reality is that the BSA was dwindling in numbers and they did this in an effort to get head counts back up again. Luckily, my time in scouts was in an area where there wasn't any religious influence; I couldn't imagine what mormon influenced BSA would be like.
/r/MensRights09/05/24 02:01 AM
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Here's the thing.. if you were in boy scouts, you probably already know how big of an absolute joke the entire girl scout organization is. Politics/agendas aside, there is a legitimate case for the young girls who are ambitious and want more than the girl scouts could ever offer. When I was in scouts I knew some of the girls in our local girl scout den who were just as badass as us boys. I think if they keep troops segregated and don't let things get out of hand, it's not a bad thing in the end.
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:51 AM
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There are only 2 things that made people aware that the girl scouts even exists: cookies, and the colloquial term "brownie points".
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:46 AM
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What about for events like jamboree or summer camps? I'm an eagle scout as well, and segregated troops seems like no big deal to me. The only issue I see are events where the troops co-mingle. Mainly because I know how young horny teenage boys in a troop get when they are around girls. I did Philmont 10 day treks for 2 years and did Rayado 21 day trek in 2000, there was a women's Rayado trek and you can only imagine what a group of 17 year old dudes that just spent nearly a month on the trail we…
/r/MensRights08/05/24 10:42 AM
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Is that what a BEAR would say, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:17 AM
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You've heard about the show before this post, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:15 AM
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The only people who care about what the bitter hens on The View say are other old bitter hens.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 03:11 AM
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Here's the thing, even if you make money this is still a possibility. I'm 6'6" and gross just a hair under 100k, but I had always put my girlfriends first and put a lot of effort into my relationships. I still got used and discarded.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 09:18 PM
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About a year or so ago I overheard some women at work talking shit about some guys, one of them used the word "Scrote". So I went and googled that and that's when I discovered FDS. So, yes, I have..
/r/MensRights05/05/24 07:42 AM
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It’s not “ALL MEN ARE BAD” Have you seen the comment section on any social media platform that this has been getting posted on tho??
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:36 AM
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Yeah, this is on its way to becoming a new meta for women to shit on men. The vast majority of them are still going to choose men IRL, but any time a man does anything they don't like, you're going to hear them say "this is why I choose the bear".
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:22 AM
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A few years ago I was walking out of a gas station that had double doors. I saw a woman approaching, one half of her hair was blue and the other half was green, she was covered in piercings and tats, you know.. that type. I held the door open for her and she never even looked at me, and went straight to the other door and push through it while I'm sitting there holding one side open for her. NBD to me, but that was the first time I saw a rabid one IRL. It's all downhill from here.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:14 AM
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Yeah, it hit home for me when I started seeing the local FB Group for my city become overran with women spouting bear shit for the last couple of days. Like these aren't just random people online, it's the women who actually live in my city and that I might cross paths with IRL some day.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:08 AM
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Mormons are definitely still churning out kids en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:57 AM
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The problem with this is that the act of "restraining" gets viewed as the act of aggression to these women and law enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:53 AM
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What are you going to do if a petite young woman flies at you throwing punches and kicks? Like, obviously we know she isn't going to be able to beat you up, but what is your course of action? Run? Push her away? Sit there and take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:32 AM
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Must have something going for me if they actively wanted to be with me. wbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 03:28 AM
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They are all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:33 AM
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Do you? Telling somebody they are the problem if all of their exes were bad is literally gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:27 AM
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What do you consider verbal or physical aggression from a woman From my comment: literally tried to beat me up one time, street fight style.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:51 AM
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Yup, I had no clue what cluster B personality disorders even were until I tried to get the BPD ex to go to couples therapy. She only went a few times and literally had a meltdown right there in the therapy room when the therapist called her out on something she said. I went to that therapist for another year and she said that she can not officially diagnose her, but based on what I was talking about and what she saw in person, that she was sure it was BPD. Once you learn about BPD, it all makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:50 AM
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Nice try at gaslighting, you sound like my ex. They were all nice in the beginning. They also all cheated on me too, does that factor into how much of a piece of shit I apparently am?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:48 AM
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My anecdote: 40yr, 3 serious relationships, exclusively dated 5 for brief periods. I am not aggressive or confrontational, and don't even raise my voice unless I'm being attacked. The women in all 3 of my serious relationships were verbally and physically aggressive. One of them was BPD and literally tried to beat me up one time, street fight style. The 5 women I dated all became aggressive and verbally abusive when things would end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:19 PM
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co-parent
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:10 AM
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The dating pool at that age is almost entirely divorced single mothers, and there is a big risk that you will lose everything you have spent your entire life working for when the woman you marry divorces you.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 03:09 AM
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It would shock you just how many grown ass men I see on my local FB groups that are simping over this shit. It's embarrassing.
/r/MensRights02/05/24 02:21 AM
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Remember even if they speak badly about the guy, he's still on her mind and it's usually to throw you off the trail and to stop enquiring. One of my exs kept telling me about this "loser" that she felt sorry for, he was revolting to her and she just enjoyed using him and he was so pathetic to keep giving her money. Same exact thing with my last ex and this fucking dweeb that was like 20 years older than her. Started getting buddy buddy with this guy, they would talk on the phone for way longer t…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 06:52 AM
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Can't leave out hotshot LLC's who hire drivers for their fleet of trucks. When I was in the bakken, a brand new ram 3500 and 30' gooseneck flatbed would pay for itself in a little over a year if it kept driving around the clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:31 AM
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Uhh, you have no experience in the patch if you are actually saying this. I've worked in the oilfield alongside pipe cert welders and on rig sites, and they make good money but its nowhere near millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:28 AM
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The problem is that it is shockingly common for many women to do this. Ask any guy who has relationship experience and who has opened up to his s/o and how it went, and the majority of them are going to tell you how much it backfired on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:23 AM
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Guaranteed. It's just a big trap that has caught me multiple times. It always results in them nagging you to do all of the chores they want you to, but you don't "do them right" (which is just code word for not doing them exactly MY way). You are still tricked into doing the chores, the chores still get done, but you "not doing them right" still puts her in control and makes you think you're still in the negative and in a deficit of responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:01 AM
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I am an eagle scout and loved my time in scouts, I feel mixed about letting women in. My main issue is the drama and the shit it's going to start when all those hormonal young boys and girls are out at camp together and catch feelings. Probably lots of sex happening now. Which I'm sure from the POV of a 13 year old boy who just got his star sounds awesome.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 04:37 AM
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Like someone said just above me, women invading Boy Scouts is one example.
/r/MensRights21/04/24 04:34 AM
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Yes, women with good character and values are a great minority. In regards to relationships, they are the ones who always get snatched up and married by their early to mid 20's. These women are worth moving mountains for, they are worth investing 100% of yourself into. Unfortunately, many men will never know what it is like to be with a true good woman. And this creates turmoil from the men investing a big part of themselves into women who are not good, and that turmoil multiplies when the men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:52 PM
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the women who say they arent going to be their partners therapist are usually the reason why their partner needs therapy. That's Quotable. Men need to write this down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:38 AM
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Yup, never had a relationship with a woman that added anything to my life other than dread, stress, and chaos. Nothing is ever good enough, and they are black holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:27 AM
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It's because modern women have high expectations above their class and don't put any effort into the relationship. They have learned words like "emotional labor", "mental load", and have started saying things like "I'm not your therapist". They use those notions to pretend like they're oppressed any time they experience something they don't like, or when they have to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:25 AM
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Imagine if your great grand pappy thought this during the great depression, you wouldn't even be here today.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:57 AM
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I am iffy on relationships, and especially marriage, based on what I've been through throughout my life. But there is nothing more I want in this world than to be a father. Right now, ideal scenario would be to find a woman who also wants kids but doesn't want to deal with marriage, and co-parent a child with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:41 AM
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Yes, that is why trade jobs get the reputation of ruining your body. There are many tradesman who are still macho and sabotoge themselves, but there are also many who take care of themselves and people like to overlook that. I'm not trying to argue - just trying to point out that the automatic notion of trade jobs injerently destroying your body is not the full story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:45 PM
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That's understandable. I'm mainly talking about physical aspects of the jobs. If every tradesman out there would get an inversion table and decompress upside down for 15 minutes a day after they get home, it would extend the usable life of their bodies by 10-15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:38 PM
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Are you kidding me? That's a great job! I would be super proud to have a girlfriend that delivered mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:37 PM
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How well did they take care of themselves outside of the job? Glucosamine/chondroitin and collagen supplements, essential vitamin supplements, and chiropractor visits were what kept me tip top outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:19 PM
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Damn. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:16 PM
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That's pretty spot on. As a tradesman, I have profound respect for anyone else who is competent and successful hard workers. But I also do still have respect for desk guys, because they do a lot of shit that I don't have aptitude for. I can pretty much fabricate and machine anything you can literally dream of out of a chunk of metal, but put me in front of an excel spreadsheet with formulas everywhere or try and get me to do accounting number crunching, and I'm defeated. I still have respect for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:54 PM
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When I was in high school 25 years ago, one of my friends dad was head of the sanitation department in our city. So my friend naturally got a job hanging off the back of garbage trucks when he turned 16. He got ROASTED at school when people found out what he did. Then, some people learned that he was making like 17 bucks an hour.. which was a LOT for a 16 year old kid in 2000. Dude had a brand new Blazer ZR2 that he bought himself, he always had the nicest shit out of anybody in school. But he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:46 PM
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Only if they don't take care of themselves. There seems to be this perception that blue collar jobs are these brutal physically demanding labor jobs that turn your body into mush, but that's not true. That's the guys who are not healthy, who smoke, who lift with their back, who don't follow proper PPE and will paint shit without any respirators, etc. If you practice good habits and follow all of your proper safety guidelines, its not hard on your body. Having a blue collar job is no different th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:44 PM
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Hell yeah, HVAC is a GOOD path if he has good mechanical aptitude. I have a friend who is dumb as a fucking box of hair, but he's a commercial HVAC tech specializing in big freezer units for stores and restaurants and really good at it and he was making well over 100k in his mid 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:39 PM
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Same here. This is some old time wisdom that needs to be carved on a stone tablet somewhere. I have also deeply opened up to a woman who I thought was going to be my life partner, and sure as shit, she hung it over my head and tried to ruin me with it. It was about some traumatic shit that happened to me when I was a kid that I had told nobody about before. If word got out, it would divide my entire family. During a big fight, which of course she was the one that started, she told me that she wa…
/r/MensRights14/04/24 10:38 AM
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It's not an anecdote at all, if you're past the age of 16 and you leave your house and have been around people IRL, you will see guys like they are talking about. I know plenty of dudes like that; average dudes with natural rizz. It's like being born with an instinct for it. Even incels notice it. It's usually the terminally online or incels that don't understand this.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 09:47 PM
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I don't know why you got downvoted, but you're spot on. Some guys are just born with rizz/game and many are not. And it's not something you can just choose to teach yourself. Its just an intrinsic trait. These guys can play the game perfectly without even realizing they're playing a game at all.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 07:53 AM
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OP explicitly said man/men, not boy/boys. I'm sure there are a lot of 20-something dudes who are parasocial for twitch streamers, I've seen plenty. But there are no grown-ass men who do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 09:51 PM
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And I'm telling you that I have and do and that's not my experience. Literally your words. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1bzksjl/women_today_are_the_ones_slut_shaming_men_and/kyqs39f/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:12 AM
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Women making false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:14 PM
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Just because you have not seen it happen does not mean it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:07 PM
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Has been shockingly common at my job. Multiple women over the last 7 years I've been there have done the false accusation thing. One woman did it so frequently that they actually fired her for being such a lawsuit liability. All the men on the shop floor became privy to it, and they would actively avoid her which caused problems in production. Had it happen to me when this snake of a woman started a rumor around the company about my gf, I confronted her and told her to knock it off. In retaliati…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 01:06 PM
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I used to think this, until I overheard some women shit talking men a few years ago and one of them used the word "Scrote". Looked it up and found out its origin in the FDS community. Believe it or not, the shit we see online has started to leak into real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:56 PM
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That's actually a fairly common tactic.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/24 06:59 AM
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Hard to swallow pill for reddit, but there are probably more horny teenage boys who think this than not.
/r/MensRights07/04/24 11:26 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 01:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:49 AM
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No, it's true. I was athletic and in shape during high school/college and played every sport there was, never got called a creep. Let myself go after college and gained 50 pounds, would get assumed to be a creep. Then in my early 30's I lost the 50 and got in the best shape of my life, no longer treated like a creep. Now, 40, gained the 50 back plus my hair fell out, back to being side eyed as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:46 AM
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I swear to god, no matter what happens with our economy people always find a way to shit on the trades. I was already grossing 100k before I was 40, and only working 3 days a week. And I still get mf'ers struggling at some job that has nothing to do with their degree making less than me talking shit.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 05:32 AM
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look at universities, see how biased they are in favor of women, handing out scholarships and 'safe spaces' left right and center Trade schools do this too. My ex gf enrolled at our local vo-tech and got FLOODED with scholarships just for women in trades. She was able to do the welding program there 100% covered by a scholarship. Just for shits and gigs, I also paid the admission fee and did enrollment paperwork at the same place, zero scholarships.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 02:18 AM
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People who do a trade are not required to contribute much to their training 😂 As a skilled tradesman, that guy can go get fucked. It takes years of experience to nail down the skills needed for most trades.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 02:14 AM
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Could this be related to /r/antifeminists getting banned 3 days ago?
/r/MensRights31/03/24 11:33 AM
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Going through a relationship or god forbid a marriage with a BPD woman is probably the worst trial a man can go through in his entire life. I've been there done that with a RABID bpd woman, so I understand just how much that shit guts you and takes away your will to live. It takes a really strong man to recover from it, and it permanently breaks some men and they never recover. It's absolutely that bad. But the good news is you're still here and your kids are giving you the wind for your sails, …
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 02:25 AM
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Young boys growing up right now are constantly hearing the narrative that "men ain't shit" everywhere they turn, at school and from their feminist single mothers. I can totally understand why we have so many young boys shooting up schools now. Imagine growing up and everybody around you tells you that you aren't worth a shit, like the guy in that video.. you're in your formational years so the message is getting carved into your psyche and now you have nothing to lose. That + the unstable emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 03:35 AM
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The only man a woman will ever unconditionally love is her son.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 03:02 AM
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One of the most important things young boys need to learn before they start to seriously pursue women is that what women say they want and what they actually want are ALWAYS totally different.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 03:01 AM
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I was banned from my other reddit account from some woke feminist who sent me a chat message whining about some comment I made that she didn't like. I told her to shut the fuck up. Next time I logged on, I was banned for "harassment". lol
/r/MensRights24/03/24 01:31 AM
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There can be a legit strategy there, if the said woman has a lot of single friends.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 01:13 AM
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This shit needs to be carved onto a stone tablet somewhere and archived for the rest of humanity. Absolute gospel here. The modern women put the expectation on a quality man of him being able to "put up with her shit". They know they are difficult and unagreeable and see no reason to stop being that way.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 01:08 AM
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Having a BPD partner is probably the worst relationship trial a man can go through in his life. Been there, done that, and it can absolutely break you for good.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 12:55 AM
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That's such bullshit and hasn't been a thing for the last 50 years. Ever since Affirmative Action policies started taking place, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:21 AM
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That's called fear mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:17 AM
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This is what originally started out as MGTOW. I'm talking about a decade+ ago MGTOW, not the modern variant of it. The revolution was to focus on improving yourself and placing your own needs first in lieu of sacrificing your MEAT (money, energy, attention, time) on women or making them a priority in your life. The movement was doing just fine until some men came along and peed in the well to contaminate it. A lot of men nowadays are practicing old school original MGTOW principles without even r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:00 AM
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Only works with crypto if it doesn't involve KYC. If you do KYC on any US based exchange, you're done for with crypto unless you are mining it yourself, or buying Monero from a DEX and cashing it out on bisq.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 08:21 AM
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It's already starting to happen. If you pay attention to all of the feminist subs on here, there have been an increasing number of posts showing up about women who are pissed off about men at their workplace Mike Penceing and not paying attention to or acknowledging them anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:45 AM
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I made a little less than you, but I had the same shit happen! Had a lot of money in savings, a couple Bitcoin, zero debt, never worried about money when I first met her. Then within a year I'm suddenly living paycheck to paycheck with zero savings and having to find shit to sell each month just to make the house payment. It's a modern marvel how women can become such a financial black hole and have absolutely zero to show for it!! If I go out and start spending money on stuff, at least I will h…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:24 AM
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It wasn't about a death, but I opened up to my ex about some really fucked up shit that happened to me when I was 8 years old and that I had only told a couple people about it in my life, none of my family knew about it. A while later when we were in the middle of some stupid ass fight that she picked, she said she was going to call all of my family members and tell them about the childhood event that I confided in her. NEVER ever open up deep with your gf/wife or show vulnerabilities, they will…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:15 AM
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We both worked graveyard shift at the same company. We got home from work around 7am one morning, had sex, and went to sleep. She woke up at around 10am, woke me up, and said she wanted to take a bath together in the 1-person jaccuzi tub. I reluctantly agreed, and it was like 10 pounds of shit in a 5 pound bag with both of us in there. Not even remotely enjoyable. She said she wanted to fool around in the tub, but I told her I was not feeling it at all. She went ahead and tried anyways but I cou…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 07:09 AM
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She even wants dinner once a week and I've offered to help with her new place in the future and set both houses up so that the kids get it later. Stop this. As innocent as it might be now, this falls under the "no good deed goes unpunished" category. This is 100% wasted money and time. You have zero obligation to be this kind of man for her and support her anymore. The second she switches up on you and turns mean, you are going to regret these favors for her. I know because that's exactly what I…
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 09:48 PM
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/r/bpdlovedones
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 09:13 PM
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Ah yes, BPD spouse survivors always remember the first meltdown. Mine was about a month into the relationship when we just finished having sex, I was singing a silly song to her and she thought I was calling her fat. 2 day meltdown. What the F were we thinking going back to them after that??
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 09:13 PM
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I was furloughed for 8 weeks before getting called back to work but was still bringing in around 75% of my normal pay on the unemployment + extra unemployment bonus. And I was still using that to pay the mortgage and all of the house bills so the financials of the household didn't change. She was still working her job during lockdown so I took on all of the domestic duties at home including the home schooling for her 2 kids. Everything - cleaning, cooking every night, you name it. Even packed he…
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 07:06 AM
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Been there. When you turn the last corner on to your street and the dread starts to set in.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 06:52 AM
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See, you didn't say that. You should amend your comment to say "24 hour on call supervision for 9 year olds with disabilities". Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:42 AM
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I've actually raised my own child. The thought of someone saying a 9 year old kid needs 24 hour on call supervision is so ridiculous that it's a giveaway that the person saying that has no clue about parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:34 AM
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You have experience being a kid, but not taking care of one. Did you require 24 hour on call supervision when you were 9?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 08:29 AM
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Kids need 24 hour care and supervision until they are 8 or 9. You have no clue about what kids need.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:56 AM
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Yeah, silence from them when you lay it out like that. During covid, I got furloughed for 4 months and I became the stay at home stepdad. That shit was fucking easy street compared to my actual job, and that's even with the girls and their homeschool work. I honestly think that the women who bitch and make being a stay at home mom seem like the most difficult job in the universe haven't actually had a hard fulltime job before. Took me maybe 3 hours a day max to get everything done, including coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:52 AM
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Exactly. A lot of men will bounce out of respect for the woman's boyfriend and their relationship, so they won't cause any problems. There isn't a woman in this thread who would be okay with her boyfriend suddenly meeting a new female friend and start getting close and spending a lot of time with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:49 AM
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A lot of men say their wife's female influence helped them grow as people and quit bad habits. Literally never heard any man in my entire life say anything that even remotely resembles this. Where are you hearing men that say this? Or are you just making it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:46 AM
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This comment is peak wisdom. It needs to be carved on a stone tablet somewhere.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 03:02 PM
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So fucking relatable. Always mad about something you didn't do. With my ex, I could have given her 100 dollars in 5's and she would have bitched because it wasn't in 20's.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 12:28 PM
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Yup!
/r/MensRights15/09/22 07:50 AM
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90% of the posts in there are either pure fiction or heavily altered versions of real events.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 07:42 AM
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BPD, PTSD Brother, I hate to say this but you are about to be in for the ride of your lifetime. Imagine the absolute worst case scenario around every part of what you're worrying about.. that's what is going to happen. This is spoken as the survivor of a BPD spouse. All I can tell you is to brace, expect the worst from everything, and plan/act accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/22 09:59 AM
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I am commenting here to see if I get autobanned by any other subs.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 09:44 AM
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Yeah the twox sub is perpetual misandry fuel for MRA and antifeminists.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 07:08 AM
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Very true. Not only that, but it's indicative of a woman who likes to push boundaries and thinks she can do whatever she wants. That's not the type of woman to want to settle down with.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/22 11:20 PM
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Yeah for once 4chan gives solid advice. At least if it was how it was condensed by the OP. They're not wrong: women getting validation from other men is a slippery slope that has ruined many relationships/marriages. I've seen it happen plenty of times with people in my life. It's a tale as old as time.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/22 11:18 PM
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Exactly. Zero tolerance for making an onlyfans. This whole mindset is a result of women thinking they can just do whatever they want in a relationship.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/22 11:15 PM
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Secondly - /r/twoxchromosomes is a good one. It tries to keep things about actual equality and does call out misandry. 🤣 Good joke. That sub is a cesspool of misandry.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 09:38 PM
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^ When you can't come up with a coherent reply so you just start typing the first things that pop into your head?
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 03:14 PM
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Unless the codependency is rooted in BPD, which was my experience. They definitely monkey branch.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 03:08 PM
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This man understands women.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 01:47 PM
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They act on emotions but are still somehow very cunning.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 01:46 PM
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So true. It's like they can't go a certain amount of time without some sort of fight or conflict. Like they feed on it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 01:42 PM
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Truth bomb. And hopeless romantic women usually have codependency issues as well.
/r/Divorce_Men18/08/22 01:03 PM
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LOL! Did you just try and compare washing some damn dishes to roughnecking on an oil rig? I worked in the oilfield for 5 years and there wasn't a single woman out on any location ever. Not one. Never even saw a female hotshot driver either. The work was too physically demanding. The only jobs women had were either at dispatch or in the office doing our payroll. Shockingly, there was a group of women that started to proliferate while I was doing my time in the patch. Oilfield Wives Support Group.…
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 12:53 PM
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If you're a good dad and set a good example for her she won't turn out like that. Girls who end up like that are ones who have no positive male influence in their lives.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:52 AM
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Myself and every woman I know would prefer a woman to help us with our periods. That's sexist tho.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:44 AM
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No problem as long as they're qualified.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:40 AM
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Gotchya, after a little googling I found it. There is also a spinoff of that sub with the acronym BFHS that is exclusively for women to find and brigade male subs they don't like.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:15 AM
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I think he was trying to troll you.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:06 AM
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Yeah, we know women can be great at sitting around and bossing people around or creating things, but they won't be doing the manual labor showed in the video.. which is what the video is about. You missed the forest for the trees.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:05 AM
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It would just be that much bigger of a mess for the men to clean up. Not worth it.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:01 AM
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It would be just like having 30 cats in the same room.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 02:00 AM
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What's AHS?
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 01:50 AM
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Nope, this is the beginning of the end for this sub. There is no recovering from it. This sub has just been detained currently and will soon be arrested and charged.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 01:40 AM
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Dudes have been reporting twox garbage posts for years now, it doesn't do anything.
/r/AntiFeminists18/08/22 01:39 AM
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Yeah I get it. I've seen plenty of age gaps the last 20+ years of my adult life and nobody ever had a problem with it. I think the fearmongering that's popped up around it lately is just some kid of internet feminist thing that doesn't translate to real life.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 03:00 AM
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I've noticed over the last couple of years or so, age gap relationships has become a HUGE trigger for the feminist crowd. I wonder where that came from? Nobody used to care about age gap relationships hardly at all until recently.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:36 AM
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I would bet that the guy doesn't actually have any trauma from it, he's just being smart about it because he knows the risks.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:29 AM
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This dude is incredibly wise to use that rule. I've worked at places where there are a lot of women mixed in and even if it's not about harassment, this is a good rule to follow because of how much fucking drama can potentially come from it. Women absolutely notice how much time other men and women spend together, especially alone, so all it takes is for a man and woman to be alone enough and now they're the fucking epicenter of a bunch of manufactured drama between the other women. And that dra…
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:27 AM
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This is one of those things that I think fathers should start including in "the talk" with their young boys when their balls drop.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:22 AM
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Not just her, but her damn parents too. This guy is breadwinning for her whole damn family!
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:20 AM
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This is true. And it also relates to what the husband does at work, which is really fucking smart, because if he is alone with a woman long enough other women in the office will complain about it and it will be the exact same thing as if the wife complained.
/r/AntiFeminists14/08/22 02:19 AM
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That's called legbeard.
/r/AntiFeminists12/08/22 01:56 PM
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If you want to get sick to your stomach, look those books up on Amazon and read the reviews.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 02:12 AM
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Spot on. I've met a lot of women in my life who do this to some extent, but the worst I had ever seen was with my ex that has raging BPD. She would pull in scenarios from another universe in an alternate dimension and try and pin it on me.
/r/AntiFeminists03/08/22 01:44 AM
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Honestly I think a large majority of the posts and the situations presented in that sub are straight up fiction. Like they went and took a shower and got themselves all hyped up with imaginary scenarios like you do when you're in the shower, except they dried off and decided to make a post about their Feelz over Realz scenario.
/r/AntiFeminists01/08/22 07:52 AM
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Oh I read the twox post that started this trend.
/r/AntiFeminists30/07/22 10:29 PM
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Good catch. She just posted one from this sub that has one of my comments in it!
/r/AntiFeminists26/07/22 09:12 PM
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I think when both partners work with each other to establish their fair share of responsibilities and defined roles in a situation like this, it can be a great life. My mom is educated and was the breadwinner for our family when I was very young, but she started having health problems when I was a teenager and my parents decided it was best for her to be a SAHM. Dad was in his 40's and went back to college taking night courses and got a degree, and it boosted his earning to where we were able to…
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 01:06 AM
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Do you feel like the free love movement contributed to the state of things today?
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 12:26 AM
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That's not what this sub is about, though. We come here to complain about feminists' nonsense.
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 12:16 AM
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Seriously: if you're 6'6" but look like a big goon, you definitely aren't getting the poon.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:53 AM
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Women go into relationships thinking they can change the men, while men go into relationships hoping the woman doesn't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:56 AM
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Honestly you're going to have to move somewhere with heavy religious influence and join a religion to find a quality woman. For the most part, devout women are not as spoiled as typical western women but they don't ever date outside of their religion. So you just have to join a church and pretend to go through the motions for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:01 AM
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You know the saying.. if she doesn't find you handsome, she should at least find you handy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:56 AM
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Height doesn't matter one bit if they aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:51 AM
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Yep, because women still seem to look down on blue collar or tradesmen these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:49 AM
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That only works for you because women are into art. If you were a broke video game dev or something, you'd be striking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:49 AM
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The twinkle in their eyes when they monologued about something they loved, was infectious. I see this notion all the time, but I think it only matters when it involves something that the woman is also interested in. If a woman is with a guy who is say a dirt track racer or he's into gaming pc's or even any other male dominated hobby, she's definitely not going to swoon when he monologues about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:46 AM
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Money and assets. An average chubby guy making 50k can punch WAY above his weight if he has a boat, a camper, 4 wheelers or jetskis, or even a boat. You wouldn't believe how many skinny attractive young women form a damn line to go out with average dude on his boat on lake days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:42 AM
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Men don't get on tinder to date, they get on tinder to get their dick wet. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:38 AM
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Dude this was true even 15-20 years ago. I was in college during y2k even before texting when everybody was still rocking nokia brick phones and the college women were putting in absolutely zero effort back then as well. I don't blame them either because every second of their existence while on campus was flooded with dudes giving them attention. But I also had a strategy figured out that worked well enough to get their attention, but it didn't involve me jumping through hoops to keep it so they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:01 AM
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raise their sons to hate themselves I don't think people, and especially feminist parents, realize what kind of lingering effect it has on young boys to grow up hearing "men are trash" man-hating rhetoric all the time. I think this is a direct contributor to why so many young boys and young men go on shooting sprees. When you go through your formative years hearing feminists bashing all men you actually start to believe it, and these young boys who shoot up schools reach the point where they leg…
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 12:42 AM
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Very rare to find this in the western world in 2022.
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 12:38 AM
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This guy is a trainwreck before it even leaves the station.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 12:31 AM
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I know, I think it's probably rooted in codependency as any guy who is independent and been through a divorce will never have the urge to get married again.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/22 12:14 AM
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Dude, your situation is straight up nightmare fuel. I don't mean to cast it in a negative light but reading your first two comments legitimately gave me a bit of anxiety. I'm so sorry you have to go through that and I can only imagine how infuriating it would feel. I know people who would make somebody disappear for less than that!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/22 10:39 PM
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Your post pretty much describes my last relationship except she would never admit when my plan was the effective one. 😂 Always had to do whatever she wanted even if it was a blatant bonehead idea. If I said anything in opposition, cue the meltdown for "undermining and controlling" her. When her bonehead plan shat itself, now she's mad at me for not trying to tell her that it was a bad plan.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 11:42 PM
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When they go the birth pain route, just ask them how they handled their last testicular torsion.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 10:42 PM
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Yeah they deal with their own unique hardships but wait until she has a tire blow out on a busy interstate during high traffic hours and she's sitting there on the shoulder with a stream of cars constantly flying by and the air from each car rocks her car a little bit each time. Yeah she ain't getting out and changing that tire. That's when she'll call the man to do that for her.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 10:41 PM
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I get great satisfaction from her reaching out to me for resource type stuff and making overly stupid or petty excuses on why I can't help. Like, "my car is making a noise can you look at it?". I'll reply with "Sorry, I'm busy taking a nap". Or, "Hey I'm helping a friend move can we use your trailer?". I'll reply with, "Sorry, my buddy's great grandma is using the trailer to haul her zero turn mower right now".
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 10:30 PM
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It really reads like you’re a woman that is harboring resentment. Are you a woman? I'm imagining it as pegleg's ex wife found his reddit account. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 10:15 PM
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Yeah she is creating the perfect storm to turn that kid into a school shooter. These young boys grow up hearing women shit on men all the time and women sit back and wonder why most school shooters are men.
/r/AntiFeminists10/07/22 09:58 PM
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Right. I usually have the attitude of letting bygones be bygones for most things, but this person is a 100% waste of oxygen.
/r/AntiFeminists10/07/22 09:48 PM
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This is what they call Feelz over Realz. Truly nightmare fuel. If you want to get sick to your stomach, go read that user's profile for submitted posts. She literally deranged.
/r/AntiFeminists07/07/22 03:50 AM
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Been there. The fucking Amazon packages were coming in quicker than I could get the cardboard cut up in the recycling can and collected. Like literally every day it was a pile of boxes showing up on the front porch. It got so bad that what was once a 2 car garage was suddenly just a 1 car garage with a 1 car sized pile of boxes taking up one of the spaces.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 07:06 AM
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Yeah this is one of those hills that women just love to die on.. about the m e n t a l l o a d from managing the household being too overwhelming. Literally no more than a couple hours a day in maintenance to keep even a pretty big home spotless. But they always make it seem like it's this 24/7 burden. My observations on how this is perceived differently by men and women: Men will focus on it and do the work without stopping until its done. This is why it only takes a couple hours. What women wi…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/22 07:03 AM
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🙄 No, there's no mental gymnastics that can be applied to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:51 AM
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Haha yup! This is why so many men create their own "man caves" so they can escape the scrutiny. My personal thoughts on it are based on observations that most women mainly value men by what they can do for them more than anything. If a man's relaxing, that means he isn't doing anything for her, and that's why she can't stand it. He has to be productive and he is not valued if he isn't producing something for her. I know a few women who aren't like this, but the vast majority are. Here's a good a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:45 AM
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She thinks ugly people shouldn't have children, if that tells you anything about her personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:50 AM
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That person literally made a thread saying she thinks ugly people shouldn't have children. So, your intuition about her is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:49 AM
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How would I know if she's telling the truth or not? If she gets mad or takes offense for you simply asking her the question, then she is the type of woman that will lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:39 AM
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My ex gf, who had moved into my house and was not contributing a cent towards any financial part of living it (that's a story on its own), lost her shit on me when I got furloughed for 3 months at the start of covid. With my unemployment and that additional $600 relief I was still bringing in ~75% of my normal pay so I was still making the house payment, all the bills/utilities, groceries, and everything else. But she would get sooo mad when she'd have to go to work and I would stay at home and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:33 AM
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What about the percentage of divorces that are initiated by women, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:22 AM
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In the long run, yes. This is text book hypergamy, and we know women are hypergamous. My IRL experiences and observations echo this. Guys, if you want to see this in action.. go buy a nice boat. Women that wouldn't give you the time of day otherwise will be tripping over themselves to go out with you on lake days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:20 AM
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Yeah right, the vast majority of consumer spending is by women. Women direct 83% of all consumption in the United States, in buying power and influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:16 AM
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I find my emotional response to them is the worst kind of trap for my future Exactly, when I get attention from women the first thing that automatically comes to my mind is "What do I have that she wants?". Deep down they just want something from you because you're a resource, not actually being interested in you as a person. The worst for me was after I got a boat: women that wouldn't give me the time of day otherwise were tripping over themselves to go out with me on lake days.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/22 06:18 AM
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The new euphemism for that is "curvy" (lol). Also T H I C C
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/22 05:53 AM
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I've gotten one of those messages too.
/r/AntiFeminists30/06/22 04:46 PM
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Right. We live in the era of instant pots, robot vacuums, and appliances that do everything for us (laundry) and they still act like its slave labor.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:29 AM
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Another BPD survivor checking in, that shit is no joke.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/22 11:22 AM
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There are 2 outcomes: It will still somehow be your fault in her eyes. She will only hook up the cable box and apple tv and suddenly say that she only wanted to use those two anyways all along, never admitting that she was wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/22 08:23 AM
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I find the reactions to both sides of this hilarious. We have promiscuous women/future single mothers who are so upset that they are either getting tubal litigation or claim they are not having sex anymore, and the other side we have this fucking swarm of simps and male feminists rushing out to get vasectomies suddenly. I honestly think congress was trolling us with this because they knew it was going to ignite one of the biggest self eliminations of low hanging fruit from our gene pool. Literal…
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 12:21 AM
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There is an entire database of doctors who give young women hystos in the childfree sub. It's not as hard as it used to be.
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 12:10 AM
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Nope, I reported that post for threatening violence and it came back as not violating tos.
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 12:08 AM
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Women: Why are all school shooters men? Also women:
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 12:07 AM
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I reported that post for "threatening violence" and it came back as not violating reddit tos. 🙄
/r/AntiFeminists26/06/22 12:06 AM
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I mean I'm sure there will be some guys who are upset, but most guys probably aren't trippin about it.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 12:05 AM
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No, none of them exist within those hobbies. Been doing that stuff for 20 years now, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:21 PM
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I know, because she offers no benefit to a new man's life at that point.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 09:28 AM
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5) Like mother like daughter is 80% accurate. Scope out the mom. If she is well rounded and not a fucking lunatic, well that’s a decent sign. This is very true, but also to add on to this: Her male influences throughout her life, which can be a father or step father. If she has bad influence or no male figure at all, that's a bad sign. Even if her mom is great. Young women need a strong and stable male father figure in their life so they can learn to respect men. More often than not, women who g…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 09:27 AM
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What benefit can a middle aged woman with kids who is too old to have anymore possibly bring to a man's life?
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 09:15 AM
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BPD?
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 09:12 AM
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Someone carve this on a tablet and entomb it so that the next human civilization can find it and learn from it. Reminds me of that Willie Nelson quote: "I'm never getting married again, instead I'll just find a woman who hates me and buy her a house".
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 09:01 AM
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You know better than to try that there. Come on.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:46 AM
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Mine would always bitch about me not taking enough time off from work to take her on fun adventures. So I started taking a lot of time off work to go do fun things with her and then she'd bitch about how I didn't have as much money. She said "Where is your money even going??". 😂
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 08:43 AM
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Yep, any man who's been with a BPD woman knows about that intuition. My ex has rabid BPD and I could always tell the second when her behavior changed ever so slightly or she said something in a slightly different tone. Then I'm panicking.. trying to prepare myself for the meltdown that was never far away.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 08:40 AM
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People who know their actions will have consequences; deserve to live in those consequences. That's the thing.. the women that do these things have zero foresight into the consequences that come with their actions. They act before thinking and suddenly they're in a shit situation wondering how they got there.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 08:33 AM
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Usually they line up a new sponsorboyfriend to help them out financially.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 08:27 AM
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Yeah mention prenup in any of those subs and they will come unglued.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 08:14 AM
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The type of man to get a vasectomy as part of this movement is a man who is not/has never/never will have sex so it really doesn't matter?
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:09 AM
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A quit claim on a property with a mortgage is one of the worst traps to ever get roped in to. All of the financial responsibility with none of the equity.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/22 08:03 AM
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women close their legs in response to this religiofascist ruling. Honestly, this is probably a net gain for society as there would be a lot less children being raised by single moms.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:00 AM
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There's a video I saw a while back on Youtube, I think it was actually a Ted talk maybe? But it was this woman who used to be a feminist talking about how she realized how her perspective as a feminist was so detrimental and how she reformed herself to avoid that now. I wish I could find it because it was a really interesting video. I mention it because as an echo to your last sentence: I think a lot of these modern feminists have been indoctrinated without even realizing it, and it will be too …
/r/MensRights25/06/22 07:53 AM
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Hey some people are really into that. Enablers. This guy was not only married once, but twice. His second wedding he couldn't even get out of his bed so they just rolled his bed up to the altar.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:56 AM
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The "buffet" approach to traditionalism/chivalry and modernity/equality is a very common critique that Red Pill has of post-modern feminism. My mother who is almost 70 was a strong second wave feminist and even she calls modern feminism "Cafeteria feminism". Because they just pick the few things they want and leave everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:46 AM
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My $.02? It's because women don't know what they want. Women: "Why won't he open up to me??" Also women: "I'm not his therapist"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:25 AM
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Women will start to go WGTOW and blame it on men not being good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:21 AM
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They could have married those guys when they were younger and skinny and still had hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:20 AM
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Reminds me of that meme about what it takes to be physically attractive. Men: Years of dedicated hard work and discipline at the gym Women: Just don't eat a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:14 AM
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Most likely you have at least ONE characteristic that you are either normal or above average in. That's what you go ALL IN on developing, and then eventually you will find a girl that values that thing. So far I haven't found one single woman who gives a shit about building 2hp/cubic inch racing engines, designing and building speaker drivers from scratch and tuning high end sound systems, building sick watercooled PC's, and complex CFD modeling. What you're saying only works if the thing you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:11 AM
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I'm being honest. lol. I stopped reading at "mental gymnastics" because I figured the comment was going to get worse and as a result never read the last part of your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:02 AM
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Benefits like what? Not being able to comfortably fit into a lot of cars? Being extremely limited on the types of clothes you wear because nobody makes tall shirts or 34"+ inseam pants? Or nobody making size 15 shoes? Having normal showerheads spraying water at chest level? Having to slightly duck when you're wearing shoes and walking under normal sized doorways? Bumping your head all the time? Having to bend over to below waist level to chop your onions on your kitchen countertop when prepping …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:00 AM
2

Honestly, I stopped reading at "mental gymnastics".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:51 AM
3

I also feel like a lot of women would get pissed if they were in a committed relationship with a guy and found out that he keeps his past FWB contact info in his phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:47 AM
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How is this scenario any different than any other guy having women he knows he could screw , knowing who you could screw and doing the actual screw is way different. Because keeping that ex/fwb in the contacts creates a temptation for the woman to seek them out again if there is ever problems in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:46 AM
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This is the way. My last ex was exactly like Amanda in the story, except she kept a rolodex of her ex's on deck. She never talked to them when things were going good during our relationship except for when she would pick fights with me or create drama and have emotional meltdowns (she was BPD). Then she would immediately run to those exes. Within the first hour after our first big fight she drove right over to one of her ex's house, fucked him, and then came back home a few hours later with her …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:44 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WGXhmz1bEfg
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 05:22 AM
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You're delusional if you think these same women will start paying attention to the 90% of men that were previously invisible to them. These men are still going to be invisible. These women are just going to stop having sex for a little while until they get really horny and then start hooking up again. This is a hill that they are just going to lay down on for a while but not die on.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 05:11 AM
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Yeah these promiscuous women who are going on a sex strike will be all about it until they start getting horny for some d1ck. lol
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 05:09 AM
6

Brutal
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 04:59 AM
0

Bye felicia.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 04:44 AM
0

Am I really creating a one-sided narrative? Yes. Are you going to be the one to bleed to death of an untreated miscarriage? Are you gonna take one for your team and be a victim of rape forced to carry to term? That's exclusively been your one sided narrative so far today in this sub(those are your words). If you're going to die on a hill, at least make it a hill you know anything about. 🙄
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 04:34 AM
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Yes, both parties are accountable. For women, the risk is pregnancy. For men, the risk is child support for 18 years. Stacy has other options like IUD, and Chad takes the risk when he doesn't wear a condom. I'm struggling to see why you have an issue with this? Or why you seem to be creating the one sided narrative that I'm not aware of or don't support this? This entire comment thread has been you shifting the goalposts with each reply to try and catch me in a "gotchya". You didn't even know wh…
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 04:10 AM
1

I never said it was a win for anybody. I literally just replied to your comment about women getting pregnant from rape and/or dying during pregnancy about states' trigger laws. You've just tried to shift the narrative and poke any kind of hole into whatever I reply with. But SHOULDN'T Stacy have the unalienable right to an abortion due to a pregnancy brought about by a one-night-stand? IMO, no. There are plenty of contraceptive options for stacy, as well as the option to get sterilized if she do…
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 03:37 AM
1

Do you have the actual guttmacher source? The one you linked to about Utah is only from "news nation now". There's such a grey area around "rape" that it creates the problems with trigger laws. There's a stark difference between Uncle Tim molesting his niece and getting her pregnant vs. what many modern women are interpreting as rape. A woman can claim rape from just having second thoughts about consensual sex afterwards, and that's not what trigger laws are for. Trigger laws are not for support…
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 03:16 AM
1

What's your source for all of that? Not the RAINN. Those are vague highlights, but there are some states I know for a fact that include rape and incest in the trigger laws that weren't mentioned in your comment. I'm not saying they're oppressive to men, but I'm pointing out that trigger laws provide exemptions for abortions when done properly, which most people seem to ignore to promote more of a victim narrative.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:42 AM
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they don’t get stuck with the outcome Men do get stuck with the outcome, though. For 18 years. The woman is the one who has the right to choose this outcome for the man while the man has no right to choose.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:13 AM
1

How often does that end successfully, though? Not often.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:12 AM
1

Sure it does. You don't have to have a conviction of the rapist for a trigger law, just a police report. You should read up about this and educate yourself a little more, and maybe read some literature from RAINN, so we can discuss the actual merits of trigger laws.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:10 AM
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That's literally what women everywhere do any time a topic about mens rights comes up. "women have it so much worse". Men can't talk about their rights anywhere without women barging in, one upping, and making it about themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:06 AM
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Even with states that make abortion illegal, you can get exemptions for rapists, incest, and health complications with just a police report. In my state it's called the trigger law. The RAINN estimates that 70% of these cases go unreported.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:00 AM
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Even with states that make abortion illegal, you can get exemptions for rapists, incest, and health complications with just a police report. In my state it's called the trigger law. The RAINN estimates that 70% of these cases go unreported.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 02:00 AM
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Not so easy to do that, hoss. You can only sign your rights away if there's another man who is waiting to adopt the child.
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 01:54 AM
3

Social media is what spreads the most ignorance around issues like these. The majority of the people with strong opinions about this only get those opinions from either indoctrination or from just parroting the same things they see other people saying without knowing the first thing about the issue. If you were to ask most of the women who are so frantic about RvW right now about the details supporting their opinion, the only answer you would get is "but m'uh riiiightsss". Most people who spread…
/r/AntiFeminists25/06/22 01:52 AM
1

The older women still want that, only they're now burdened with kids. If they never have kids, they usually stay free spirit for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:57 AM
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The problem is that even if you do something as simple as grab her wrists to stop her hitting or just push her away from you, in her eyes and the police's eyes that's just as bad as whooping her.
/r/AntiFeminists20/06/22 11:41 PM
2

Yeah send her out to an oil rig to be a roughneck on a 2 week on / 1 week off schedule.
/r/AntiFeminists20/06/22 11:38 PM
3

We live in the era of outrage culture.
/r/AntiFeminists20/06/22 11:33 PM
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It's a LOT of them, though. The RvW leak has them coming out of the weeds in hysteria.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 09:17 PM
1

When people on reddit like to "gotchya" about anecdata.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 09:15 PM
1

20 year old data, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:17 PM
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No source
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:47 AM
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There are ~4 billion women on this planet with ~4 billion different minds/opinions/ thoughts. I always see this thrown around, but how many of those women are actually accessible to you? Probably a fraction of a percent of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:33 AM
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So if women get pissed that we navigate dating in the only way we can, how are we supposed to do it. You just don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:30 AM
1

Oh my god. 🤦‍♂️
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 08:26 AM
1

You can't comprehend insults? Like the actual insult, or the logic behind it? If you insult people they're going to insult you back. lol
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 08:23 AM
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Get educated. In the sidebar description for that sub: This is weaponized beauty. Yeah, a sub that's about using beauty as leverage to get what they want from men. You think people don't know what that sub is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:22 AM
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If you were fine with it you wouldn't be mad at getting called a virgin and/or femcel after you called OP a neckbeard. 😂
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 08:18 AM
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This is truth. I always find it funny when you see women who argue against this saying that everywhere they go they see couples where the woman is attractive and the man is not. IME it's mostly opposite of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:15 AM
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Most guys screen for women that like sex as they probably worry she’ll be more likely to cheat or not be satisfied or will leave etc (reasons I’ve heard.) I think you're referring to promiscuity. Liking sex ≠ promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:13 AM
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Life lesson: If you fling shit, expect others to throw shit right back at you.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 07:57 AM
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But I notice that most men making this post want super attractive, model-teir women. How is this logical? You aren't seeing this IRL. I have a feeling that this is something you have constructed in your own mind. If not, got some examples to show? If it's so common it should be easy to find a few examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:52 AM
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Spot on. Modern women are allergic to accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:47 AM
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Agreed. The thing I always noticed is they would always say hated drama or wanted a drama free life, but actually go stir crazy in short time when you give them stability, and just manufacture the drama they crave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:46 AM
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IME, everything in your post aligns directly with my experience over the last 20+ years. All I had ever wanted since being a teenager was to meet my person and build a life with them. Never was attracted to wild girls. I've never had ONS or casual sex and was always the guy who offered stability in a relationship, but that's BOOOORING! I have literally had women that I dated as a young 20-something, who ended up going free spirit and leaving because they craved spontaneity and excitement, hit me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 07:42 AM
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It's rooted in preselection. Women unknowingly judge a man by his success or lack of success with women. A regular man by himself gets no attention, but a regular man with an enthusiastic bombshell woman who is hanging off of him and appearing happy will have every single female pair of eyes missile locked on him because it gives him status. They think that if she is so happy with him, that there must be something really great about him. It's why the whole wedding ring phenomenon works - women l…
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 05:11 AM
1

If you don’t want me to call you neck beard don’t be one. t r i g g e r e d
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 04:33 AM
1

Yup, the walls of text are almost always some form of their mental gymnastics.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 04:34 PM
2

Honestly, with any of the feminist subs, any time I see walls of text I already know it's going to be some bullshit and don't even bother reading it. If a post or comment is more than about 4 or 5 sentences I just skip by the majority of the time.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 09:44 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_female_astronauts There are 2 women aboard the ISS right now..
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 03:59 AM
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Are you not aware that women are better drivers than men? 😂
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 03:55 AM
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The o2 canister sprung a pinhole leak and they need to do a spacewalk to repair it. "Ugh, but I have a headache. I'm SO exhausted from all this m e n t a l l o a d"
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 03:43 AM
1

Honestly I'm glad he has never had to experience it.
/r/AntiFeminists12/06/22 12:35 AM
1

Are any of them girls? If so, wait until they are preteen and he goes out with her alone.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:10 PM
1

Can confirm.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 05:31 AM
1

You jest, but there's truth in this. I had some karens call the police some years ago when I took my daughter to the park so she could play on the playground. They thought I had kidnapped her. I stopped taking her to places where there were going to be people around after that.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 05:31 AM
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Yeah, I'd like to see the strong independent women go out and man an oil rig and roughneck on a 2 on 1 off schedule!
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 05:13 AM
2

Men are oppressed when it comes to caring for or even being around young children. I've experienced a group of feminist karens calling the police on me while I brought my daughter to the park so she could play on the playground... they thought I was a kidnapper that was trafficking my daughter. Any man who is in the presence of any young kid without a woman also there is automatically assumed to be a pedophile or kidnapper/trafficker. I stopped taking my daughter to places where there were going…
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:50 AM
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This is painfully fake, though.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:46 AM
2

Yup, BPD woman can easily go chameleon and sneak in there with the love bomb undetected.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/22 11:47 AM
1

This guy has an awesome Youtube channel with a lot of videos like this that expose double standards.
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 02:06 AM
2

It is a lot of men. How are you quantifying "a lot"? Where are you getting the data for this?
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 09:46 PM
2

Incels threaten to rape and kill people. Many condone rape. Many incite violence. Many partake in violence. I feel like this is one of those things that gets repeated over and over again until its completely blown out of proportion. Yes, there are some men who threaten to rape and kill, but it's completely out of touch with reality to try and say it's "many" who are like that. It's a generalization, just like how people could generalize that all or most feminists are man haters.. you know that i…
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 09:43 PM
9

Lately the common feminist shaming is calling men "rapists" and "pedophiles".
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 09:35 PM
4

Yup, more often than not "strong" = difficult.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 11:15 AM
1

Of course, there's a thread about this on twox within hours of the original.
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 12:07 PM
1

Yep that's why they mad about it.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 12:58 AM
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If your bills are paid get your nails done. Mom needs self care too. Pay for your glow up now. Once its in your account, its your money. If your kid is provided for its up to you and only you how the rest is spent or saved. Nobody elses business and nobody needs to guilt trip you for taking care of both of you That woman's views on child support.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 02:44 PM
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A huge step is keeping your kids off of social media and showing them the importance of privacy, as well as how important it is to have your own thoughts on things and not to listen to other kids or groups that try and influence them.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 02:37 PM
1

Bro there was a guy who came into a college and tried to shoot it up with a crossbow in a little town I used to live in.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 02:35 PM
1

Care to find some of them and share?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:50 PM
1

Oh, I haven't dated in a while. Not sure which post you're referring to but any comment I've written about dating has been observations and/or trends with how the dating market has changed for the worse over the last 20 years. But nice snap judgement, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:56 PM
1

Ok, cool. Unlike your friends, I don't ever try and date undesirable people, "projects", or "niches" (whatever that means).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:38 PM
1

Imagine a man saying that to a woman. "Just date some normal people".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:28 PM
1

Yup, been there. Even with the confirmation text, they ghost. When it's Monday or Tuesday and you set up a date with them for Saturday.. you text them Saturday morning: "Hey, everything still good to go for the date tonight?". no response.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 01:28 PM
1

guys need to adapt to it. I know, guys have always had to be the ones to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:59 AM
1

Okay fair enough. But what if you only got to choose 1 car for the rest of your life? How would that change things?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:51 AM
1

That's just the way that it is. Still not a valid justification.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:45 AM
1

Did you really just compare dating in 2022 to a song from 1851?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:42 AM
2

What I found out is that you had to make the plans within a day or two otherwise they would flake. So say it's Monday or Tuesday and you make plans with her for Saturday, chances are within those 3-4 days she will find a better option and flake on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:40 AM
2

100% truth in every word with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:37 AM
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Is it the women though Yes. Not saying that weird shit like FB photo thing doesn't happen, but more often than not it is definitely the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:25 AM
2

Yeah I've experienced so many flakes like this over the years and it feels like it got worse as time went on. Definitely different 20 years ago vs. today. Back in the day before social media and when online dating used to be irrelevant, the women I'd start talking to would at least tell me straight up that they didn't want to date or just saw me as a friend. Not a problem, respected them for that. But once OLD became a thing and women started getting flooded with options, I noticed them start to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:23 AM
1

I'm just a bit sick of being on PPD and every response being twisting and turning so that there's not one hole in the original beliefs. It's literally a debate sub..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:18 AM
1

RIP trying to be like this in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:11 AM
4

They just pick whatever's in front of them and have fun with them until they're bored, then discard them for the next one that pops up in front of them. Most young people these days pursue situationships with FWB's for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:10 AM
3

I judge men for what they do now, not what they could do for me in the future. If you were car shopping and you found this flashy awesome looking car that you REALLY liked that was quick and comfortable and perfect and everything you wanted.. but the salesman says "the design of the engines in these is very bad, they all fail within the first 10k miles and need replacement and that isn't covered under warranty". Would you still buy the car knowing that the engine will fail in 10k miles even thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:07 AM
4

If she's not actually fucking you, don't assume she's interested in fucking you. Stop making up narratives out of thin air just because you want to believe. So then why is it okay for her to fake interest in guys she's not interested in? Men don't give a crap about what the girl thinks she "sounds like" or whatever for rejecting them. Men want women to be honest with their intentions and it's being dishonest to men for a selfish reason which should not be justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 11:01 AM
2

Yes, this is just a result of the modern dating atmosphere where desirable women are spoiled for choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:58 AM
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Exactly. There's a big difference between a conservative woman who does not have casual sex and has a low partner count doing this vs. a promiscuous woman who has lots of casual sex doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:54 AM
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I doubt she has sexual attraction to him if she can go that long and even SECURE commitment from him and still not want sex. That's probably because she is night riding her FWB on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:51 AM
1

Got 'em!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:50 AM
2

Sounds like he didn't want to commit to a woman to begin with if this is more important to him. That's how men view women who do this. That she doesn't want to commit to a man because access to sex with other hot men is more important to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:48 AM
1

having sex with someone you don’t care about is different from having sex with someone you do care about. if the man she only wanted sex with leaves after, it won’t hurt. if the man she wants a relationship AND sex with leaves after, she’ll be very hurt. You forgot the part about how if the man she wants a relationship with but has not had sex with yet leaves, that will hurt too. So it completely invalidates the notion that making him wait for it would make her feel any different if he left.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:40 AM
1

Same situation here. I got couples therapy set up and it was with a man who didn't side with her on hardly anything. So she said we had to find a woman therapist. I did, found a good one. A short while later, the new woman therapist called my ex out on some contradicting things she said and my ex literally had a full on BPD meltdown right there in the middle of the session and stopped going after that. "Therapy just doesn't work for me". Nah, you just didn't hear what you wanted and can't take a…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 09:23 AM
2

Yeah, exactly. Ask pretty much any woman who is divorced or even a woman who ended a LTR about why it ended and they will spend 10 minutes telling you about how "abusive" their ex was or how bad he treated them regardless of her contributions to the split. A woman can cheat and when asked why she is divorced will still browbeat her ex.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 09:14 AM
1

The moment the female starts crying … end of story A frantic or crying woman is one of the most powerful things in our society.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 08:39 AM
3

Same, I would walk in the door from a 12 hour shift and she'd be asking me what I was going to fix for dinner before I even had a chance to kick my shoes off. While she was still wearing pajamas. And it wasn't even about sex either. She devolved into laying in bed and screaming through the house for me to bring her things while also somehow complaining that I never do anything. 😂
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 08:32 AM
1

Have you ever ran into any men who tried to hide assets in crypto?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 08:03 AM
1

In the BPD world, they call this move the "hoover".
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:55 AM
2

I have a buddy who many years ago bought his first wife a cheap CZ ring from Helzberg and actually made his own altered documents that made it look like it was real diamond that he paid many thousands for. Fooled everybody and nobody knew about it until right after his wife filed on him and she went to sell it thinking it was worth something. Nobody knew until she kicked up a big shitstorm about it on social media!
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:53 AM
1

She has an attachment to the money she got from pawning it more than likely.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:45 AM
1

I don't know any man that would ever want an expensive blinged out ring though. That's why those tungsten rings are so popular because they're cheap, practical, and tough.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:35 AM
3

A spouse with BPD is absolute worst case scenario and will completely ruin a man. I only lasted 3 years with mine, I couldn't imagine what 20 years with a BPD would be like.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:17 AM
1

No, the botox treats the migraines, not the "headaches".
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:13 AM
1

😂 Relatable. I've gotten the call from my ex, "my car is making this weird noise when it takes off..". I ask her when the last time she has checked the oil. "Idk?". I ask her "You do check the oil.. right?". "Idk...". Guide her over the phone on how to pop the hood find the dipstick and how to check it. "There's nothing on this stick". 😳 This was early on after the split when I'd still help her out in dire circumstances, but turns out the oil was so low that it wasn't even touching the dipstick …
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 07:10 AM
1

It's good when the stars line up to form this kind of situation, but more often than not it doesn't ever work out like this. My ex's revolving door of boyfriends varies.. some of them are cool and others perpetuate drama.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 06:33 AM
2

Yeah, it's a crazy double standard. There was one time in particular where my ex somehow blew a fucking gasket and started raging on me while I was in the god damn shower. She started throwing all of my clean clothes into the shower over the top of the shower curtain and was just going crazy. She threw over a hoodie that fell to the bottom of the tub and became fully soaked, so I grabbed it and Kobe'd it right back over the shower curtain and it turns out that the soaked hoodie smacked her right…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 05:46 AM
1

Absolutely correct on every part of this. The "flow of information" like you put it, as well as social media enabling toxic behavior and supporting it with echo chambers really puts us men at a disadvantage when it comes to support. It's almost got to the point where women's bias against men is reaching indoctrination levels of exposure.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 05:37 AM
1

It sounds like you have your head on straight and your eye on your new goal, but I can't stress enough how much continuing to "be friends" with her is going to end up being a sunk cost in the future. It is literally just a benefit to her at your expense. It's fine to be friendly with her, but thinking you can stay "Friends" does nothing but prolong the process and it makes the whole adjustment in life harsh for everybody else including the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 05:27 AM
1

She was grazing off my Qdoba burrito bowl and chips and queso while I was watching Obi-Won last night. Said we should remain friends. My heart is broken and she’s eating my chips! Honestly, my man.. I say this because I've been through the same thing. It might be time to lay down some boundaries with her, because this is the kind of behavior that enables her to steer the entire situation to happen exactly how she wants it to. I've been that same man man devastated after getting a bomb dropped on…
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/22 05:23 AM
6

You don't even have to say anything that disagrees with them. Any comment that simply implies that you're a man gets you banned.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 03:18 AM
2

All you have to do is make a comment in disagreement with literally anything they say.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 03:17 AM
1

Yeah, he dodged that bullet by dying.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 03:04 AM
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It's happened to a lot of guys. Happened to one of my buddies many years ago when we were in our early 20's. He went out to a bar, hit it off with this chick and they walked to her apartment and hooked up. Next day, her boyfriend finds out so she claims she was raped. My buddy got the brand of shame. Later on, it came out that she made it all up. Police to the girl: "Okay sweetie, thanks for coming forward with the truth". Police to my buddy: ...
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 02:49 AM
4

Women: do things like this to men Also women: Why are so many men shooting up schools???
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 02:44 AM
1

I don't have to re-read someone's opinion on reddit, I spent 3 years with a BPD partner and over a year in therapy learning how to cope with and eventually get over the damage from it. When you actually see a professional who is knowledgeable about BPD and learn actual facts about it, it really helps the people whose opinions on BPD are uninformed stand out from those who have actually dealt with or learned about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 11:59 PM
1

Have you ever heard of the term "ink therapy" ? A lot of people just like getting tattoos regardless of what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:58 AM
1

There's literally no other reason for a tattoo like that..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:56 AM
1

A lot of people IRL don't like them either. It's like beards. A small percentage of women like big beards on men, but a ton of men grow them out anyways because they think women will like it. But in reality, the only compliments they get about beards are from other men. "Sick beard, bro!".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:54 AM
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Agreed. And to add onto that: a good father. A young girl can have a shit dad and it's just as bad for them as having no dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:51 AM
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You're spot on. And to add onto that: growing up without a strong father figure messes kids up too. We're going to see the effects of that in the next generation or two with so many kids being raised by single moms now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:50 AM
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100% truth. And they will never get better. It's one of those things you learn as a BPD survivor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:47 AM
1

BPD does not predominantly affect women I'd like to see your source for this, because it's pretty much established that it's about a 3:1 ratio of women to men with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:44 AM
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clinical evidence suggests a good percentage of BPD affected people show remission 10 years later. There is no evidence that supports this at all. BPD isn't a disease or condition that can go into remission - it's a mental illness that doesn't cure itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:42 AM
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It's the height of female privilege that says "just reach out for help lol" like it's that easy. Right. A lot of women can't seem to understand this because they can't relate. If you did an experiment where you took an average young woman and sat her out on a park bench somewhere and she was crying to herself, people would come up to her and ask her if she was okay or try to help her. But the same setting just with an average young man, sitting by himself on a park bench crying, nobody would eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:38 AM
2

He simply wanted people to be realistic in their standards when it came to relationships in regards to what they bring to the table. As I descend into my 40's I have noticed a lot of other similarly aged regular dudes who had started following Samuels and others like Better Bachelor. And they aren't misogynists.. just regular dudes, some divorced, who had just become sick of being treated badly by modern women who had standards and expectations that were out of this world. They ended up finding …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 08:20 AM
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I have been friends with this woman for decades since high school and we always seemed to be on the same wavelength, but recently she made a FB post about how she's starting to think that Johnny is a big bad abuser and how she thinks Amber's the victim in all of this. And rational me is starting to see the red flags and considering unfriending her after all this time.. because once that train of thought starts, it just snowballs until they've achieved radfem status.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 01:35 AM
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I mean this isn't the first time. They milked Sandy Hook completely dry for as long as possible, but it was just during the infancy of social media's influence from radical extremists so it didn't have the same kind of reach as today.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 01:33 AM
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You know, when it comes to ground level radical or indoctrinated viewpoints you can kind of understand how they're formed, but at this point these feminists are straight up delusional and living in another reality and they've reached the level of significant mental illness.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 01:30 AM
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They just get all worked up and make up things out of nowhere based on how they feel when they are worked up about something. Like how recently some of them are going around saying that the family court bias against men is a myth and that family court supposedly heavily favors men and women are always losing. 😂
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 01:29 AM
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Well, if the AI is supposed to replicate women I can't imagine it eventually won't start bitching and complaining about shit and being irrational. Imagine being a man with a IRL girlfriend who henpecks him all the time and becomes a burden to his life. So you leave her and get an AI girlfriend. Then the AI girlfriend starts bitching about you not doing chores or whatever.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 10:16 PM
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U mad
/r/PussyPassDenied22/05/22 04:02 AM
1

The problem is that a lot of women who are on BC slack with it and lull men into the false sense of security over it.
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/22 12:31 AM
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I have seen so many young indoctrinated feminists in their early 20's who are desperately trying to find doctors that will give them a hysto. And it's really sad because they are still so young and impressionable and are making a life altering decision purely out of echo chamber induced rage. There's a reason that it's hard to find doctors to do hysterectomies on women in their early 20's.. because more often than not those women end up regretting it later on and seek out retribution from the do…
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/22 12:28 AM
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Shut up.
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 11:48 PM
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Yeah, I just got banned for literally asking you for some sources on your riduculous claims. Y'all can't handle the truth and rely on banning every man in sight even when you make totally bogus claims. You probably actually believe all that crap you made up.
/r/AntiFeminists21/05/22 11:29 PM
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The ability as a dad to take your young daughter anywhere in public alone without having people go apeshit thinking you're a kidnapper, predator, or trafficker.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 10:01 PM
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These women are probably frequent twoxchromosomes posters and went home after that incident and made posts about how they were victimized.
/r/AntiFeminists18/05/22 05:53 AM
1

Fair enough. Many do, though.
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/22 12:06 PM
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Right, I actually laughed out loud when reading that. 🤣 They are so mad they ganged up on me in the modmail, which is hilarious. "another mod here.."
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/22 10:35 AM
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For women, that's a hard to swallow pill of truth. They know they do it but get maaaad any time men bring it up.
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/22 10:31 AM
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Most men(there are exceptions) that put having children on the top of their list of life goals are losers. Imagine gatekeeping other men for wanting something different out of life than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:59 PM
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Right. When they get old and don't have anybody who will take care of them. And then they die and all the stuff they achieved through their "mission" gets auctioned off by the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:58 PM
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Also same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:54 PM
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TRP is just like feminism.. only the extremist vocal minority gets heard, and everybody starts to generalize the movements around these extremists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 11:52 PM
1

Dude, what's up with your comment history?
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 09:32 AM
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Yeah, but are you making posts to feminist reddit subs about how you're so upset over this that you're never having sex again?
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 06:22 AM
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Got banned from childfree sub by the feminist mod Finger11fan who went off on me for literally just asking a question in a thread where a feminist is trying to convince her 24 year old daughter to sterilize.
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 03:30 AM
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it makes me wonder how do they live and handle relationships? In real life More than likely just like they do on reddit.
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 03:25 AM
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Yeah that sub is unfortunately swarmed with snowflake feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists14/05/22 03:24 AM
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Yeah, same, it's beyond ridiculous now.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 08:51 PM
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Got banned from /r/childfree the other day in a post about a feminist trying to find someone to sterilize her 24 year old daugher and literally just asking her if she thought it was ethical to do that.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 06:33 AM
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Anyway, it is completely non-sexual but caring touch has impacted me deeply. It is kind of a new age place, and the other day she asked me what more was going on. She said that the body often stores emotions you are unable to process in the body, and she thinks that is what is going on with my back. She said that is why body work can be important to emotional healing. I can echo this. I've been seeing my chiro regularly for many years now, but any time I was going through some shit with my ex my…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 11:03 AM
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I feel like men who have had the unfortunate experience of being with emotionally damaged and crazy broken women like that have learned an acute skill for sniffing that out.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 10:35 AM
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They're still there.. she must have blocked you. Looking through her post history, I'm seeing posts in CPTSD about her mother who she went NC with trying to contact her and her getting triggered by it. Obviously some sort of emotional damage there. Then, one where she recently learns in therapy that she is angry: I'll be 64 this this year. The anger started probably in my 6th year of life. I built up on it from there - layer by layer. The reality is I don't know what it's like to NOT be angry. M…
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 10:14 AM
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Guaranteed there's another side to that story. Seems like the "oh, btw he was abusive and has anger issues" always comes out later on in replies to criticism, not even being mentioned at all with the initial notion. Imagine working hard to provide for a wife and she waits for 40 years to divorce you right before retirement.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/22 09:57 AM
2

The lovebombing didn't help either.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 09:18 AM
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All the "let's be friends" talk pisses me off now. Can any of you relate? Yes. My ex has this friend who is divorced and re-married but stays close friends with her ex husband who they have 2 kids with. I mean it's beyond absolute cringe levels.. like the ex husband goes on vacations and shit with his ex wife and her husband and their kids. The woman makes posts on facebook about how close they are and shit. Any sane man who sees this will have his penis just suck right up into his body and disa…
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 08:15 AM
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get into trades, work your ass off and make bank for what..? A negging 200+ pound landwale on the couch checking her instagram? Relatable AF
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 07:56 AM
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Looking back I can see a lot of BPD traits developing but didn’t realize it at the time. Dude, BPD is a fucking nightmare to deal with and if a man's not aware of what it is she will hand him his ass before he even realizes what's going on. I'm a BPD survivor and luckily learned through therapy and a lot of introspection about the condition and how to spot it from now on. But honestly, I wouldn't wish a nasty unchecked BPD wife on my worst enemy.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 07:50 AM
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When I was in my early 20's I moved to an oilfield town for work and met a guy in his early 40's who had lived there his whole life. He bought his house when he was single and paid like 80k for it, had already owned it for almost 10 years. Met who would become his feminist wife, and she was 100% dead weight. Completely worthless and ugly human being with tons of debt. She worked barely-part time hours as a home health nurse and contributing nothing to the marriage. But he simped for her and defe…
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/22 07:43 AM
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women seem to be deadly allergic to responsibilities Yeah, accountability has never been a strong suit for women.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/22 01:06 AM
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It's already happening. Birth and marriage rates are already in free fall.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/22 01:04 AM
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Who spends all of their time being that upset about the events of the world? Women are going apeshit about this. I caught this thread earlier about a woman who had her tubes removed and suddenly wanted her boyfriend to use condoms to put her "at ease" over this whole situation.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/22 12:57 AM
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Women are too much work though. Yep, for the average or below average man, the amount of hustle he has to put in to get somewhere with modern women is almost like a 2nd full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 11:01 AM
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I'm going to halfway agree with this. It really only works if the man's interested in something that the woman also likes or thinks is cool. For example, if he is passionate about building fast cars, car audio, and watercooling PC's, and the woman doesn't give a shit about any of those things, he might as well be invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:56 AM
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They lowkey look down on men with no degree as options but most of 'em won't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:50 AM
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Intelligent and educated women don't give men who are less intelligent and/or less educated than them the time of day. They always want to be with somebody on their level or higher. You can have a good blue collar man with good values that would make a great partner who earns a very comfortable middle class income, but he's invisible to educated women or women who earn more than he does. The 6/6/6 rule applies more than ever to men's education/income when we're talking about educated women. So t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 10:47 AM
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Yeah I wasted about a year and a half in the same kind of limbo. I get it. I wish I had known back then what I know now. I read the books "I hate you, don't leave me" and "walking on eggshells" as advised by my therapist and they really helped put things into perspective as a partner to a BPD.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 04:42 AM
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I bet the therapist was a woman, possibly a feminist.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 04:26 AM
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Fighting tooth and nail to get her to go to couples therapy. After a huge battle, she finally agreed to go. The therapist recommended weekly couples + individual for her. I was paying $1100 a month for this. After a short while of couples, she had a BPD meltdown right there in the middle of a therapy session when the therapist called her out on some things she said. She said therapy was stupid and "didn't work" on her and stopped going. Then started with the "this is just how I am, either accept…
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 04:16 AM
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More than likely he has no clue about BPD nor enough foresight to see any problems, and she doesn't see a problem with how she behaves because that's just part of having BPD.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 03:19 AM
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Excellent post. I resonate with this as the survivor of a undiagnosed BPD ex, and I can guarantee that the new men she brings into her life all have expiration dates. 6 months to a year max for each one before they're discarded. These new men she monkey branches between will never offer enough stability or be around long enough to be considered a legit father figure, so being a stable figure for the kid(s) will always prevail.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/22 03:18 AM
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Perfect example of feminist indoctrination. I would have a serious talk with your girlfriend about where she is reading about stuff like this. Because you dodged a HUGE bullet by circumstance, but something tells me that she still has some sort of feminist influence.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 04:09 PM
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I don't know, but based on my life experience I would believe that number. Especially in the era of social media.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 04:06 PM
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This is why I have cameras in the common areas of my house as well as forward and cabin recording dashcams in all of my vehicles. I don't trust my daughter's friends.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 04:05 PM
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Same. Very important.
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 03:48 PM
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Having a vajayjay gets you out of the draft, though.
/r/AntiFeminists04/05/22 03:35 AM
2

Honestly surprised he hasn't been doxxed yet.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 08:44 AM
1

femaledatingstrategy If you somehow made your way here and are already posting in fourthwavewomen, you should already know what that is by now..
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/22 06:29 AM
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True, I guess I should have used "largest" instead.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 09:30 AM
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Not at all. But I've been seeing a lot higher than usual amount of other women recently in the male subs that are trolling and starting arguments.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 01:30 AM
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What's with the explosion of feminists and FDS women invading male oriented subs suddenly?
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 01:11 AM
2

My quote was from when that was less than an hour old and had 3 comments, looks like the commenter I quoted got deleted.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 12:23 AM
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That sub is like 92% as bad as FDS. Where do you think all of the FDS people are going to gather now that they got shut down? Twox and fourthwavewomen are going to be the new misandry hotspots.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 12:17 AM
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I got banned for mythbusting one of them for completely misrepresenting an interaction to make her seem like a victim, which it seems is common. From what I've seen by investigating, any time one of them makes a big claim about getting harrassed or browbeat over posting something innocent, 97% of the time they're full of it.
/r/AntiFeminists01/05/22 12:13 AM
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I'm surprised they weren't all single moms. Where I am, 90%+ of the women who are 30+ with OLD profiles are single moms.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/22 11:41 AM
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I knew they would be leaking into the other subs. twox and 4thwavewomen are going to be the new FDS 2.0.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 09:59 AM
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Right! I thought the same thing about that story from her. This one, right? My favorite part of the story: But like, the attorney and prosecutor were basically just... I don't know, gossiping. Trying to make me look bad, then the witness look bad. Not even unreliable so much as... dislikable lol. It was all just appeal to emotion.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 08:00 AM
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The first thing that came to my mind is the audio from that guy who says "She belong to tha streets". 🙏
/r/MensRights30/04/22 05:58 AM
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Oh, looks like they've already started trying. it's not a men's rights issue, theres no such thing as a mens rights issue.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 05:55 AM
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Trying to point out hypocrisies or misrepresented situations to members of that sub is 100% wasted effort. I used to enjoy going into that sub and mythbusting a lot of their scenarios to point out how they're fake, but all they do is just get mad and ban you. This one is my most recent, which got me banned. If you go through that sub and look at the post and comment history of the women who make ridiculous posts about misandry, you will see most of them active in subs regarding mental illness.
/r/AntiFeminists30/04/22 05:41 AM
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My plan is to wait until the next crypto bull market so I can pay off my mortgage and then spend the rest of my days restoring and selling old chevy trucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:26 AM
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I see both of those subs, 4thwavewomen and twox, getting a lot worse as time goes on and the orphan fds redditors are trying to find new echo chambers.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 02:01 PM
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How have you made it to the year 2022, in an anti-feminist sub of all places, and don't know what an incel is?
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 12:45 AM
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Women base their reality solely on how they feel at any given moment, so if something upsets them it's now wrong!
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 09:31 AM
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Comments getting invaded by feminists. Look at the recent post about the jogger getting pepper sprayed, for the first little bit it was up the comments defending it were pretty ridiculous.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 04:22 AM
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Honestly I cancelled all of my streaming services and started pirating again. With the whole home on a plex server, it's actually working out well.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:51 AM
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Especially true after they have successfully created the narrative that incels are now terrorists. We're going to see it get a lot worse before it gets any better.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:48 AM
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Purplepilldebate, relationships, relationship_advice, amitheasshole, trueoffmychest, divorce, marriage, dating, tinder, badwomensanatomy, nothowgirlswork, vindicta. Just off the top of my head.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:46 AM
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Their secret kink for being choked is just a sign of mental illness. Prove me wrong.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:44 AM
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Is there such thing as logic in feminism poison? No. You should know this by now. 😂
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:40 AM
2

She will do that on her own!
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 01:33 AM
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We have an individual who is "fluid" so male one day female the next and you never know as their clothing never changes. I swear they do it just to cause trouble for other people and they seem to revel in reporting to HR. We have one of those too. They're the worst. With ours, you literally can't tell what sex they are and people have been reported to HR in the past for asking if they were male or female. lol. I have to tell new hires that ask about them to literally avoid talking to them at all…
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 01:25 AM
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Dealt with it and found out that the #1 most important thing in regards to this is to under no circumstance ever say anything negative to your child about their mother. Don't complain about her, don't try and tell him that what she's saying is wrong, just lead by example.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 12:59 AM
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if you don’t agree then you’re a sexist racist homophobe. You forgot to add mysogynist to that!
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 12:49 AM
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My daughter soon saw through the bullshit Same. I worried about it for a long time, but I'm glad she is now able to see through her mother's BS.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 12:27 AM
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Yeah, modern dating is like being on a different planet now compared to 10+ years ago. It's turned into a highly competitive marketplace.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 11:45 PM
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Life experience, rather a lack of it. I can tell by the way your posts are worded.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:24 PM
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He's right, though. Once women make up their mind about ending things, it's DONE and nothing can change their mind. I was spending $1100 a month on couples therapy plus individual therapy for her only to have her literally have a meltdown right in the middle of a session when the therapist was calling her out on some things she had said. I spent almost 2 years trying to fix things only to learn that she had already checked out before then and nothing was going to change her mind.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 11:20 PM
1

I get the feeling that you're in your early/mid 20's.. ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:12 PM
1

It results in a lot of time and lawyer money wasted for zero gain.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 10:57 PM
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Pretty much every sub involving relationships, marriage, or divorce in general is overrun and controlled by angry manhating women. Even AITA is like that now also, and askmen is on the cusp of being overran by women.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/22 10:48 PM
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You're spending time around adult women without underlying mental health issues who burst into tears over trivial things? Yes, even adult women are very emotional and cry about trivial things. Especially when they're on their period.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 10:23 PM
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My 12 year old watches some twitch streamers, and in the process of learning about that I've seen some of the shit the boys at her school do and say on there. Some of it is beyond cringe.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/22 12:14 AM
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😂 Right. No good deed goes unpunished.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/22 12:12 AM
1

Blame only hurts the blamer. Care to expand on this?
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 01:58 PM
1

Straight from the sub's description: The point of looksmaxxing could be anything- to help you get ahead in society (pretty people get more job opportunities), to help with dating, or to become an e-girl and scam moids out of their money This is about playing the game to win. This is about turning the ideals that have been forced upon us into a blade in our hands. This is weaponized beauty. Weaponized beauty to get money from men. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 01:50 PM
1

[disagree]
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 10:51 AM
1

Here's something to think about. I understand compatibility, but what's wrong with a man who checks most of the boxes? Can you really not stand the thought of being with a man who wasn't vegan? The most important thing is the childfree thing since that's based heavily on values that are important, but that other stuff seems ancillary enough that it could be overlooked for the right person. I know lots of couples who are different religions, different lifestyles and interests, but work well toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:51 AM
1

Women become very resentful when a man is sitting at home and not providing. Truth. Women can't stand seeing a man relax. Even if he is providing, they still can't stand him sitting around at home.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 08:48 AM
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Good 'ol projection.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 08:43 AM
1

That doesn't sound so niche, honestly. Out of all those, the vegan part would probably be the hardest to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:37 AM
1

It's all relative. I used to build some really sick custom hotrods, but right now I'd push that all to the side for any second I can get with my daughter. Once she's an adult and on her own I can pick up on the hotrods, but I don't miss it for one second right now since my daughter is my #1 priority.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 07:35 AM
1

All of that, yet you're making posts in a pill debate sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:30 AM
2

I really resonate with this. If your kids are anything like mine, you will also notice an improvement in their mood and behaviors as a result from getting to spend so much quality time with them now and your bond with with them will grow stronger. My daughter's mom was very codependent and couldn't stand any attention that wasn't on her, so I couldn't spend much time with my daughter without her mom getting pissy or picking a fight. Now that we're split up, I have spent so much more quality time…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 07:27 AM
1

For sure an epidemic. Very evident over the last decade. I think one of the root causes is other women supporting the bad behavior. Women want to give up everything they have to go be a h0e again, and every other woman within a 50 mile radius will tell her "you go girl!". Which is something they would be shamed for not even 20 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 07:17 AM
1

For sure. If this isn't evidenced by the overwhelmed foster care system they get siphoned through when that adoption never materializes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:14 AM
1

"no u"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 07:13 AM
1

I get laid off and she files within 12 months. I got furloughed for 8 weeks at the beginning of the pandemic, and even though I was the one who was literally paying all of the household costs as well as food, gas, etc, still doing that with unemployment, my ex acted like the world was getting ready to implode. You're right - there is no rhyme or reason at all to the female brain.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 07:09 AM
1

Same, I spent many years working HARD to get where I'm at. I'm talking 100+ hour work weeks going months without a day off, with occasional lulls, but doing that for years. Now, even though I'm not rich, I am pretty much just coasting and making a comfortable living. My ex used to get super jealous about it and was always browbeating me about how lazy she thinks I am because I don't have to work hard at my job. When I met her she didn't have a pot to piss in while I already had a 4 bedroom house…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 07:05 AM
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You sound like a man that most women would love to be in a relationship with. IME, especially with the younger generation, this is one of those things that they say they want, but don't actually want anymore once they get it. There is a lot of stuff under the surface that dictates how they view and respect men, and this pokes right at it.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:53 AM
1

A lot of women thrive on NRE (new relationship energy), which goes hand in hand with the honeymoon period.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:51 AM
1

Yeah that job was a blessing in disguise for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:49 AM
1

how many people you know that are happily married? 3/1000? It really became evident to me when I got to my early/mid 30's and watched all of my married friends the same age start dropping like flies. Right now, out of all my friends I grew up with or are of a similar age now, only 3 of them are still in happy marriages. Never saw it coming, and some of the couples that divorced were ones that everybody thought were made for each other.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:45 AM
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Yeah this guy's post needs to be carved on a stone tablet somewhere.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:31 AM
1

There are still a ton of great people here but the problem is that they are getting smaller and smaller. An epidemic of young boys getting raised by feminist single mothers.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:20 AM
1

For sure, all of the divorce lawyers in a given area are all in cahoots with each other.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:17 AM
1

Are you trying to gaslight him??
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:14 AM
2

Very important. No poor women, nor women that get in trouble with debt.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/22 06:12 AM
0

You're literally exemplifying his point without even realizing it. lol 7 Society has told women that if a guy is 25 -30 or older dating a 18 year old , that he must be a creep , lame, or a groomer He is a creep 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:08 AM
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Hell I barely stand a chance as my preferences in a partner I'd be willing to commit to exlusively is so niche that they barely exist. Curious about this.. care to expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:05 AM
1

3 is a huge one that a lot of women are completely blind to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:02 AM
1

Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:57 AM
2

This is why we see so many women on reddit try and preach that the bias against men in divorce and family court is just a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:52 AM
2

Not being automatically assumed a threat to children. Ask any single dad or stay at home dad what it's like to take your kids out in public and have women act like you're a pedophile or a human trafficker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:43 AM
1

Yep, it's a multi-year process full of turmoil and setbacks and can cost as much as a median middle class salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:36 AM
0

That sub isn't the best example of people trying to improve themselves, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:21 AM
3

But the point is that your view of your friend is still going to always be the fat guy who lost weight regardless of how much you encourage him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:17 AM
2

Those people "Get it" because they've figured out how to behave to get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:15 AM
1

The potential for success. I've known some truly incredible people that had tons of potential but wasted it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:14 AM
1

One thing I recommend all men do - make a joke in the first couple of dates about credit card debt. If she lets on she's bad with credit and has maxxed out cards, run - do not walk - from such a woman. This should be carved on a tablet somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:12 AM
2

I think there's something here. If you look at how women alter and prioritize their perspective based on their emotions and how they feel at the moment vs. logical thinking. Once a woman sees you as a nerd or a beta, that's how she feels about you and that gets saved to her disk. No matter who you are and what you are in the future, she will always associate you as what is saved in her memory. This is a theory I have about why women are notorious for necromancing all sorts of shit from the past …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 05:09 AM
2

K has realized she doesn’t want to deal with all the insecurities and jealousy that come with dating really good looking men. This is called settling...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:58 AM
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You ASSUME. You don’t know the people involved. Actually take the story for what it is rather than adding your own spin. This story is either entirely made up, or at best, a caricature of a scenario that the poster created based off of some love story she heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:57 AM
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Women and men who haven't experienced what R is about to go through yet are the only ones who think it's winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:54 AM
2

It's not about the low-hanging fruit, it is about how high maintenance would that person be. This is true. I've always been able to punch above my weight so to speak when I was younger, and a lot of men don't realize that when you're a 6 who ends up with a 9 or 10 that you are now always on the defensive. Most men won't be able to handle the attention she gets and the sheer number of dudes that will approach her or hit on her, even when you're there with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:50 AM
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Right, that's straight out of a Lifetime movie script.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:46 AM
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Your friend doesn't realize that if she's such a unicorn, all she has to do is exert a little effort herself and show interest in guys and she won't be single. She's probably like the rest of the women on that level - expecting the men to always initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:44 AM
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men are lucky that she wants to settle This is pussy pedestal logic right here. Nobody should be considered lucky that somebody settled for them, man or woman. Anyone who considers this kind of thing lucky either has no self esteem or no dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:39 AM
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Naivety. R will be happy until he isn't. This is like going car shopping and seeing a car that you REALLY like, but when talking to mechanics they tell you there's a major flaw in the engines and they always blow up after a certain mileage. And then buying it and expecting it to last past the failure period of those faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:36 AM
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I can only imagine how often she gets "headaches" before bed. Probably enough that she should get checked for a brain tumor!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:33 AM
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Yup, R sounds like the typical guy who actively keeps himself in the friendzone of a woman that he knows isn't attracted to him but pines over unrequited love until she realizes she's out of options and settles with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:31 AM
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Yeah, this is a worst case scenario for R. They aren't even out of the honeymoon period yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:27 AM
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Yup. It won't be long before she will fall out of love and lose connection, telling her friends that they broke up because it was like "living with a roommate" to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:23 AM
1

R got extremely lucky and that is not the case for most men out there who are also R's.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:22 AM
2

I told some of my guy friends what he said and it made them want to go for hotter girls. They still think about it months after I said it lol I guess it’s shocking, they didn’t know they were attracted to low-hanging fruit their whole lives /r/thathappened 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:19 AM
1

That's nothing. Do another 5 and then get back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:05 AM
1

Modern women want that, but they want it in the context of FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:01 AM
1

Ask any modern woman or any modern feminist what they bring to the table in a relationship, and you will see them come unglued.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 04:00 AM
1

This honestly sounds like some boomer giving job hunt advice in 2022.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:59 AM
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Most women don’t cry over trivial things Honestly sounds like you haven't spent much time around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:51 AM
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Like if you live on the earth for any period of time you will see women wholeheartedly devoted to ugly poor nobodies, particularly among the lower classes I don't know about anybody else, but I rarely ever see couples out in public where the woman is attractive and the man is ugly or fat. People say this happens all the time but I never see it whenever I leave my cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 03:28 AM
1

I'm just saying.. this sub is in their sights.
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 05:07 PM
1

I was part of /r/marriageisntworthit and saw it get banned for posting the same things as this sub.
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 04:45 PM
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1 month until this sub gets banned
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 11:42 AM
1

It's bad for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:19 PM
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Yeah, the misandrist echo chambers are on fire this morning. I got banned from badwomensanatomy for asking a legit question and making a good faith comment, both of which got attacked by feminists, and then I was banned. It was pretty funny actually because my comment was getting downvoted and the OP commented on it asking why it was getting downvoted. Another feminist replied with "He's a baddie!!!", so OP edits her reply saying "Nevermind, he's a baddie.. get him!!".
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 10:07 AM
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The internet, and all these forums are literally warping and ruining peoples minds. In all seriousness, I agree with this 1000%. I was already an adult before social media was a thing.. signed up for Myspace when I was in my 20's.. and have seen first hand over the years how social media and echo chambers have absolutely poisoned how both men and women view each other. The sad thing is that it's only going to get worse from here on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:04 AM
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The thing that stands out to me is if the genders were flipped and you were a woman doing this, nobody would even bat an eye. I've noticed more and more family and wedding photographers are women these days.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 01:44 AM
1

A double standard.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 01:19 AM
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Now that they've proliferated the narrative that incels/mgtow are terrorists, it's only going to get worse from here on.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 01:19 AM
2

Wisdom.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 01:16 AM
1

If you are married to this person, it ends up being your problem when she gets mad enough and starts the divorce rape process.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 01:02 AM
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I resonate with the same notion because I'm a 6'6" 320 pound dude that has the body of a retired offensive left tackle, and have been used to being looked at as intimidating my whole life. But it's still something you have to be cautious of when it comes to a situation that is dictated exclusively by a woman's emotions and how she feels in that moment which can negatively impact your life. A woman who is intimidated by you enough that she seeks help can be enough to warrant police showing up and…
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:58 AM
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I would much rather a Woman or anybody think of me as a threat rather than as a bufdy they can play around with. You will think this until your ass gets handed to you by a false accusation.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:52 AM
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Holy fuck, 4400 comments to that thread. I already know it's going to be a cesspool.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:51 AM
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This image has been altered and passed around for at least a decade now, if not longer.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:49 AM
1

The short time of pleasure you get from this is not worth WW3 once you leave that room.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:48 AM
2

Women do this and then bitch about how they are so against mommy-ing their men.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:47 AM
2

Women that have got to this point are not trainable or salvageable.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:46 AM
3

Nobody: The friend: Gets nipples pierced and doesn't wear a bra The friend: Mad that her boobs get sexualized
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:36 AM
2

Women like to get mad at men over stuff like this because they believe it's just manosphere propaganda or hate speech, but males are realizing this as a result of what they've experienced.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:28 AM
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What you're saying about men being assumed as creeps and predators until they prove otherwise is part of it. The other part of it is how differently we use technology to interact these days. I'm old enough to have grown up without technology or social media and the pandemic of male loneliness wasn't anywhere near what it is today because of how different our interactions were back then.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:23 AM
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It's the same with daughters. I worry every day that my daughter will end up being influenced and brainwashed by modern feminists and become the type of woman that men are avoiding.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:20 AM
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I fully support the notion of teaching young boys about this and making sure they're aware of it through their formative years. Not indoctrination or redpill, just making sure they know what to expect before making any decisions regarding women that could ruin their lives.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:19 AM
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We're already seeing that effect on those men in the form of dropping birth and marriage rates.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:11 AM
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They're going to keep going after mgtow for as long as it's being viewed as terrorist threat.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 12:09 AM
1

You just described hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:18 AM
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I don't think it can be condensed down to be that black and white. I don't doubt that pill guys who chase sexy stacey to get sex have their own experiences with that, but there's a lot of grey area where good men have met what seem like good women only to run into this phenomenon. I think it's tied to emotional intelligence/maturity and a woman knowing who she is and what she truly wants in a partner or the opposite. You can have a woman who seems to have good character, but if she is not emotio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:26 AM
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That's probably true. But from what I've experienced on reddit and IRL those empathetic women sound like a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:16 AM
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So all the men who've experienced this are just making it up? Men are just reacting to how they're treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:30 AM
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Because it’s an echo chamber of other hurt men all with the same bias. No, I mean it's what I see the women say.. not the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:47 PM
1

Whatever, typical know-it-all reply. RemindMe! 20 years "What all has she learned"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:04 PM
1

I know enough to maintain my own healthy relationship. I also knew enough to avoid the toxic relationships other men and women found themselves in. You can look at what other people did wrong in their relationships, what they did right. Take it back and learn from and reflect on it and implement it in your relationship. That's not even what the narrative of this comment thread started out as; that's just what you started lecturing me about. The original comment was about women saying they want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:39 PM
1

I’ve observed enough 🙄 It doesn’t take 20 years of your own mistakes to figure out what works and what doesn’t. You just think you know it all already, but you don't. I certainly hope you don’t date anyone under 35 then since people in their 20s are “barely adults” That's not even what we're talking about. What does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:25 PM
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This isn't surprising. I've ran across this a lot when I've taken my daughter out in public. I stopped taking her to the park completely because of some karens that went apeshit one time thinking they busted a pedo and scared her. Even picking her up from school when she was in grade school was risky.
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 01:20 PM
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I’m not gaslighting you, I’m being honest with you. I can't even take your lectures about relationships serious knowing that you're a 23 year old woman. What kind of experience would you even have with this? You're barely even an adult, what experience do you even have with LTR's or marriages to start giving unneeded advice to people who have been dating longer than you've been alive? Get another 20 years of relationship experience and then come back to this post and you will see how gaslighty i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 01:15 PM
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Nope, I'm going off of IRL experience even with somebody who I was with for years and engaged to for a while. Nice try at a covert diss, though. I don't know why so many women try and gaslight men about this. Just look at how many other men in this thread have experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:45 PM
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No, what I've learned is that women only want you to open up about surface level stuff that they're used to but can't handle when you unload real shit on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:57 AM
2

I'm not doing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:45 AM
2

Hard pill to swallow. A lot of women get super wet for cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:48 AM
3

My mom was a SAHM and she did an awesome job of keeping the house clean and dinner cooked each night, and she spent about 80% of her time watching TV. She had so much free time that she actually took up sewing and had a part time gig making wedding dresses from home while I was in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:45 AM
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it's annoying, exhausting and thankless. So is being a breadwinning husband to a SAHM with school aged kids that become overwhelmed with the basic life responsibilities for the 8 hours each day the kid is at school.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:43 AM
2

That's what entitlement does to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:38 AM
1

Yet there are tons of single moms out there who work and take care of their kid? They never had a gravy train to give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:35 AM
1

Entitlement is the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:34 AM
1

Not only this, but it's a HUGE red flag if your kid reaches school age but your wife refuses to go back to work. That's because she knows being a SAHM for a school aged kid is a gravy train and she would rather fight to preserve that than to go back to serving tables at On the Border.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:34 AM
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If she was a server at Buffalo Wild Wings or a hair dresser or other entry level job when she married then she will have zero problems finding those same jobs after a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:32 AM
1

I am a single dad with 60/40 custody and already do all of these, plus a full time job, and I have tons of free time. I'll go over this list and show you how easy it is: Meal planning: 30 minutes a week. There are apps for this, a good one being Allrecipes Dinner Spinner. You plan out what you want to eat, favorite them into a list, and there is even the option to add the ingredients to your walmart shopping cart online right through the app. Grocery shopping: 20 minutes a week. Use the walmart …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:17 AM
1

That's a good mindset to go into it with. I think when women view having kids as a labor of love, it doesn't ever seem like a burden to them. I'm in my 40's and I've observed a clear divide in this with the people I knew growing up who got married and started families. The happiest families are where the woman wanted to be a mother and of course the women who were miserable and who some of got divorced were the ones that didn't actually want kids.. so they viewed that as a burden. I look back at…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:40 AM
2

Most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:32 AM
1

SAHDs are going against stereotypes and usually only do this if they're passionate about it and have really thought it too. I know some SAHD's who were previously hard working blue collar dudes and they love being a SAHD because it's way easier and a lot less work than having to go work on a shop floor. One of them actually gave it up because he was so bored being at home that he wanted to go back to work. For people who are motivated and hard working, being a stay at home parent is a gravy trai…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:30 AM
1

I've also never ran a house before Don't let these modern women train you into thinking it's actually hard. The majority of the "work" can be done from your phone without actually leaving the house. You set up your bills on autopay, sign up at walmart for grocery delivery so all your groceries show up at your front door, and if you don't want to cook and your husband can afford it, you can just doordash dinner. If you do cook dinner, loading the dishes in the dishwasher after everydoby's done ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:23 AM
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That's just a cope that women came up with to justify being lazy. These are the same neurotic women who came up with the concepts of "emotional labor" and "mental labor", which are actually just normal life responsibilities that everybody else has. I know some hard working women who are SAHM's and they say that it's easy street once the kids are school age. My mom was a SAHM and kept the house spotless and cooked us dinner every night, and she spent about 80% of her time watching TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 07:06 AM
1

Or you get angry calls a week or so later Yup, this is what my cheating ex would do. I could always tell when she was straying because she'd always call me out of nowhere mad and pick a fight over some mindless stupid shit after she would have a fight with the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:46 AM
1

I think it's opposite. All the men I know view being high value as having a stable career, making good decisions, being kind and supportive, having no bad habits, putting effort into relationships, and being loyal. Women are the ones who secretly view HVM as Chad but won't admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:42 AM
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/r/toxicwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:39 AM
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That's just a result, though, not a root cause. They have already realized that women in large aren't worth pursuing so hentai or anime porn is just all they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:35 AM
1

High value is determined differently by men and women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:28 AM
1

Nah, HVM works. If you have high value, women come to you and you can get laid if you want. The difference is in how men and women each define HVM. What a man thinks is a HVM is drastically different than what a women thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:28 AM
1

He uses the wedding ring phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:26 AM
1

Yup, and to tack on to this: Even having a platonic female friend or two can be a YUGE boost for your preselection levels if you do it right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:24 AM
1

Yup, preselection doesn't work when the guy comes out of the gate showering her with attention or simping. He has to also pretend like he doesn't give a shit about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:22 AM
2

I'm tall but not very attractive and I learned how to game preselection at a very young age which allowed me to punch way above my weight when it came to getting interest from women and dates with them. It's not explicitly about appearing to have options, but also appearing that you're confident enough to not give a fuck about them. When I used to go to parties in my early 20's what I would do is bro out with my bros, give one or two brief bits of eye contact with the women there (just enough to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:17 AM
1

Have you never heard of the wedding ring phenomenon? Lots of good PUA's use that to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:12 AM
2

And so many of them deny it and choose to die on that hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:11 AM
1

It's not. It happens but it's not common at all. It falls under the category of things that they say they want until it actually happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:05 AM
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Yup. Funny story about that ex. She ended up giving me the boot but didn't tell any of her friends or family about it because they all loved me to death and thought I treated her better than she deserved. She KNEW that if any of them found out she monkey branched to some new dude that they were going to give her shit about it so she just tried to sweep it under the rug and ignore it. Then some months later she finally posted a picture of her and the dude she monkey branched to on IG and I got a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:03 AM
0

Yup, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:57 AM
1

Spot on, my IRL experience mirrors this. Women will form an opinion of you based on their emotions at the time of the incident, and when they do this they lack the foresight to see any sort of improvement and will always associate you with those emotions they had no matter what you do. This is why they necromance things you said or did years ago any time they pick a fight with you. Any man with relationship experience has gone through this.. you're in a fight and she brings up some irrelevant sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:46 AM
1

My favorite cat that I had for 17 years died, and I went out and gave him a little burial in my backyard. I kept it together until I lowered him into the hole and then I couldn't hold it back and started ugly crying. The woman I was seeing at the time went cold on me after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:39 AM
2

You must have a pretty posh or privileged life if you've made it through adulthood and never had to worry about or stress over anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:37 AM
1

Yep. What they want are emotions that are on a similar level to theirs. Surface level stuff that men usually don't care about. And then when men unload about some real gritty and crunchy shit he's going through, which overwhelms the woman because she's not used to or conditioned for that, she can't handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:35 AM
1

It's because she loses respect for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:33 AM
1

I was so sad with how my ex dealt with his father's death. He basically showed 0 emotion to me. Here's the thing, though. Are you cognizant of the root causes in our society that make men act like this? Men don't just choose to act this way, they act this way for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:28 AM
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It's one of those things that most women say they want but realize that they don't once they experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:24 AM
2

Yup. Men with relationship experience have definitely had this exact thing happen and have learned from it. Meanwhile, women in this thread are still preaching denial and that "most women" aren't like this. What they don't realize is that they think they aren't like this until they aren't. Just like how they will say they want a kind and honest man who treats them well and offers stability, but when they get that they get bored of him and go chase toxic men. Any man who has had relationship expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:22 AM
3

The only people saying that make emotion makes woman uncomfortable is men who have opened up to their women and had them go cold Men are just reacting to what they have experienced. Women will say they want their man to open up until he does and they lose respect for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:14 AM
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All I've gotten from here is justification of my real world observations that most women are hypergamous, victims, and biased against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:50 AM
3

I'm not into anime but this sounds like a cool storyline.
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 12:37 AM
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On your 2nd paragraph, the women who don't look for toxic men usually always find that good man when they're young like early 20's and are already settled down with a family by their mid 20's. All of the women who are left over after this are the ones who seek toxic men. So if you're a man and you want a good woman to start a family with, you have about a 4-5 year window after you graduate high school to find her, otherwise you're left with the bad women and at that point you should never get ma…
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 12:36 AM
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When men exclude themselves, they're being sexist to the women they aren't allowing influence from. This is actually what they have started to believe. That one guy who did a shooting had mgtow in his browser history and so feminists have used that to run with the narrative that incel/mgtow are terrorits now. I've actually seen some link to quotes from FBI documents that they have mgtow/incel stuff on a watch list for terrorism. So of course, now feminists have curated the narrative that mgtow/i…
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 12:28 AM
1

Literally anything you post in that sub either gets downvoted, removed, or reported as harassment/hate once they find out you're a man. That sub has become FDS 2.0 when it comes to man hating.
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 12:22 AM
2

A lot of men trim and even shave their armpits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:39 PM
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The women and the simps/white knights who defend shit like this have no idea that they are just perpetuating the cycle of hate by giving it one more push. Young boys grow up hearing this shit.. how all men are bad, and they see women hate on men.. and then they get treated that way their whole lives and end up committing mass shootings. While everybody else throws their hands up in the air saying "How did this happen?!?!".
/r/AntiFeminists13/04/22 07:27 AM
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All you have to do is just make a comment anywhere in that sub and you will get banned.
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/22 08:35 AM
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Watched it happen with a friend's wife who started out an "all natural" kick by refusing to shave anymore. Then, she started using "natural" deodorants. Then, she stopped washing her hair and eventually cut it all off. And of course, it devolved into no showers. The final straw was when she started refusing to use a microwave to heat up food and had to warm food up in the oven instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:10 AM
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Nope, you're putting words in my mouth by insinuating that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:02 AM
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And I have never once even came close to the notion that I think that's wrong; just that I do not prefer it and I think it's lazy. In this comment thread you're the one who said it was wrong! You even bolded the word!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:56 AM
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Again I don’t see how it’s relevant what men prefer. It's the topic of the thread..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:53 AM
1

My partner being on a level to pursue higher education and a good career would carry the highest level of admiration in my eyes. Maybe it's because I've been unfortunate enough to primarily end up dating high school diploma single moms struggling to make ends meet at low skill jobs and having to always financially carry the relationship. But I would LOVE to be with someone who was educated and had either motivation or skills to make something of themselves and not have to be dependent on me. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:47 AM
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I know it's just one data point but I've ran across this in a shocking amount with women, even IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:42 AM
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People are entitled to their opinions, though? I have the opinion that not shaving one's ass and cooch makes them lazy. You disagree. That doesn't make either of us wrong or misinformed. It's easy to dismiss the notion since it's on a reddit debate sub, but as a man who knows a lot of other men IRL, I can tell you that the notion is also carried by most men IRL as well as on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:40 AM
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If you consider it part of a hygiene ritual, you are flat out wrong. It’s cosmetic and cosmetic alone. I'm just the messenger on this one, but like I said a lot of men consider it part of hygiene as evidenced by the overwhelming number of comments by them in this thread. Nobody is wrong or right but that doesn't change how the majority of men feel about it. Sorry if you don't like hearing that. You're free to do you, but I'm saying don't act shocked that a lot of men aren't on board with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:51 AM
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A lot of people consider shaving, especially pubic hair, part of maintaining good overall hygiene. Coloring hair and acrylic nails are not considered hygiene items. Look at how many other men in the thread are responding that their partner shaving is important to them. There are three types of people responding in this thread: The majority are men who consider shaving important in a partner A few outlier men who say they don't care if their partner is sasquatch or not Women who don't shave and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:36 AM
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If not doing something because you don't want to put the small amount of effort into it isn't lazy, then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:24 AM
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Like I said, you do you. I don't hold it against women who don't shave; I just won't be romantically interested in them. When someone who presents basic shaving as an ordeal and doesn't do it because of that, then yes I consider that lazy, but I won't judge them for it. But my narrative in this conversation has only been that shaving pits, ass, and even legs is not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:18 AM
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Lots of people. https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2016/06/i-stopped-showering-and-life-continued/486314/ But after a while, the idea goes, your ecosystem reaches a steady state, and you stop smelling bad. I mean, you don’t smell like rosewater or Axe Body Spray, but you don’t smell like B.O., either. You just smell like a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:13 AM
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skin rubbed raw covered in infected pustules 😂 Your descriptions are what is killing me. Why hasn't anybody else figured this out yet?!?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:04 AM
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I actually shave my ass and balls frequently and I'm a big buy with a fat ass. Manscaped Lawnmower 4.0 is a game changer. Lawn mow the entire crack from belly button to butthole before getting into the shower, takes 4 minutes. Then with the bic in the shower on top of that, it takes 2 minutes. The whole diatribe that makes shaving your cooch and crack seem like an ordeal is wasted energy on me. You do you, but just don't try and make it seem like it's something that's even remotely difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:03 AM
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What kind of "trauma" will your "sex organs" receive without pubic hair that they wouldn't with pubic hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:45 AM
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Is it really hard to spend 5 minutes shaving pits and vag once every couple days in the shower, and 10 minutes once or twice a week in the shower to shave legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:43 AM
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It's not hard to maintain a beard, and that's why I have no problem maintaining mine. And it's why I expect the same in a partner. But back to my question: If you got with a man who was smooth shaven like you prefer, and then he declared that he was never going to cut any hair again and ended up looking like Diesel Dave.. would you stay with him??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:37 AM
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I mean, idc so long as there's no visible dirt and they smell okay. That's a pretty low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:33 AM
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Getting a manscaped lawnmower 4.0 is a game changer. Shave your asshole, your crack, and trim around your balls and it makes you feel so much cleaner, especially when you're wiping your butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:31 AM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:29 AM
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Yeah but not enough to let it get to the point of being a bush.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:24 AM
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What's your reason for even keeping armpit hair that long?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:16 AM
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Haha yeah, deodorant is the first thing I thought of too. It's like when those women who stop showering claim that they naturally stop smelling after like a week or two, when it's really that they have just become noseblind to their own scent and actually smell really bad. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:11 AM
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What's the reason for women to want to stop shaving everywhere and grow their armpit hair out? Is it laziness?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:09 AM
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I won't judge a woman if she doesn't want to shave her legs and pits, but I equate that as being a part of practicing good feminine hygiene. But if it's somebody I'm in a relationship with I couldn't support it at all since I practice good hygiene and its important to me. I personally think a lot of guys underestimate how much work women put into their appearance (and I’m not just talking about “deceptive” stuff like makeup). Is shaving really that big of a burden? My last ex had awful hygiene h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:07 AM
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Beards require trimming and maintenance to look good, otherwise they end up as "homeless beards". You'd be lying if you got with a guy you were attracted to who was normally clean shaven and would stay with him if he suddenly stopped shaving/trimming his beard and cutting his hair only to look like a homeless gandalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:00 AM
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This is one of the things I worry about the most with my daughter, is her getting brainwashed by this when she's older. Luckily she has enough emotional intelligence now to first hand see the pitfalls of how her feminist mother acts and so far she understands how its bad.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 10:50 PM
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Without sex, fertility, and physical attraction women literally have nothing to offer men.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 10:42 PM
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Have fun getting pregnant and giving birth in your 50's. Oh wait men are still fertile in their 50's right?
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 10:40 PM
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I'm glad they lurk here. No, this is a bad thing because eventually they will gather and screech loud enough to get this sub banned.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 09:57 PM
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This is true, generation Alpha is going to be the first generation to be raised by and grow up with this kind of bias and it's going to be scary to see what that is like in 10-15 years when they are adults.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 09:44 PM
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Try being a single dad with a daughter. Can't hardly go anywhere in public with her without some fucking feminist karen acting like I'm a human trafficker or something.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 09:42 PM
3

one of the best things about life Sex is great, but as you get older it isn't one of the best things about life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 07:06 AM
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You know the saying: If it floats, flies, or fucks.. rent it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 07:04 AM
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The problem with women marrying and being a SAHM is that they don't consider their husband working to provide for the family as a contribution. The SAHM convinces herself that she's the only one doing any work in the relationship and eventually becomes overwhelmed with domestic tasks, even when kids are of school age. So because she views things as being so unbalanced in her favor, she feels entitled to spend whatever she can of the husband's income. That's what the root cause of issues like thi…
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 07:01 AM
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🙄 Right back at ya
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:05 AM
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Sure, but the narrative which that notion is used on Reddit is a straight up virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 05:55 AM
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LOL that is the mothership of all strawmans right there. This has nothing to do with blacks or jews. Stay on topic if you want to be relevant in this comment thread.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 03:36 AM
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The women that whine about this are exclusively first world privileged. You don't hear any women who live in third world or less privileged countries ever say any of the same things.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 03:30 AM
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That's just another year's salary wasted on legal fees to do that.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 03:25 AM
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It's not dislike, contempt, or prejudice. The comment in the picture is just pointing out the difference in how opinions of men and women are perceived differently. Not misogyny.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 03:24 AM
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It's a perfect comparison because both notions are rooted in prejudice. Age gap relationships have zero effect on the person I replied to's life other than "It's just gross to me". That's the definition of prejudice. If an age gap relationship that you see has zero effect on your life, who are you to judge them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 02:41 AM
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It's really just prejudice. It's no different than going back in time 60 years and people being uncomfortable when they see mixed race couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:21 AM
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I’ve seen age gaps where one party or the other is extremely immature, or controlling, or demanding, or manipulative. I've seen this more in similarly aged couples that are 30+ years old than age gaps. Just because somebody is older doesn't mean they always act like it. My last ex is 35 now and she literally acts like and has the same relationship expectations as a 17 year old girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:19 AM
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What about it grosses you out? 60 years ago, people used to say the exact same thing you just did when they would see mixed race couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:14 AM
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/r/redpillwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:04 AM
1

/r/redpillwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:04 AM
2

Yeah, you get banned from /r/whereareallthegoodmen for literally using the word "simp".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:48 PM
2

That function is worthless unless you are a yapping feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 11:11 PM
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That's their narrative. The feminist leaders on reddit go out and search for our safe spaces to destroy, like a terminator. Example
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 11:10 PM
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Could you imagine one of those women actually becoming a mother and trying to raise a child with that kind of attitude?
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 11:05 PM
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Someone in that thread made a comment that the women of FDS are just a pack of chihuahua's nipping at your ankles. That perfectly describes them. Just a bunch of tiny little bitches that show their teeth and start yapping at anything that moves.
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 11:02 PM
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Here, let me attempt to silence you and invalidate your opinion based on your sex -a feminist reddit
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 11:00 PM
2

Yep, exactly. Once the women lawyer up, their lawyer gives them the same damn playbook that is written play by play exclusively to be so difficult and time consuming for the man and his lawyer that it drains all of the money from the man. Not uncommon to spend a year or two's salary in lawyer fees just to make it out of mediation. While the woman's lawyer is coaching her for unreasonable and ridiculous demands intentionally just to draw things out. "Ohh you'll get more money if you ask for (this…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 01:21 AM
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Definitely somewhere in cluster B. My ex was BPD and had a lot of the same behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 01:10 AM
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I've followed this whole comment thread and love the continuation of the banana analogies. What about a man who wants kids but finds himself divorced at 40 with no kids? His only option for kids is the green banana. Also, where does the banana that's too brown to eat but perfect for making banana bread with fit in to this??
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 01:07 AM
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I say get rid of no fault divorces is the first step.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 12:49 AM
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First of all, that sub is pretty much a beehive of angry man hating feminists and any post in there by a man, no matter how concise it is, gets downvoted and you get berated. Not even worth trying to post there. Secondly, I've been seeing it more and more lately on reddit where angry feminists are saying that the bias against men in family court is a myth. The thing I worry about is that these women are so ruthless about it that it will eventually become one of those things that gets parroted en…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 12:45 AM
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Even though I don't plan on getting married, I'm interested to hear about how one would structure pre-martial assets to stay that way.. Also, you're spot on that the vast majority of redditors posting relationship and marriage advice are women. The worst thing anybody can do is take what these women say with a grain of salt, because mostly what they say isn't how things happen in the real world.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 12:39 AM
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Just look at what the boy scouts has become. Even though women have girl scouts, they made it their mission to invade the boy scouts and now it's co-ed.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 10:39 PM
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As if they don't already have enough places to do that already.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 10:29 PM
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There's a difference between your wife being a hoe before you married her, and some random 304 getting mad that new men she meets are asking her about her body count.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 03:25 PM
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For now.. I can't help but think it's in their sights.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 09:23 AM
2

Yup, I know that life all too well. There's nothing like dreading the drive home after a 12 hour shift, and you're either getting screamed at or asked to do some sort of chore as soon as you walk in the door before you can even kick your shoes off. I remember one time I did a 14hr graveyard shift and I walk in the door at 6am to hear "What are you making for breakfast?? We're hungry". Most modern women are DOA when it comes to being able to pull any weight in a relationship.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 04:37 AM
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The newest thing I've started seeing women say they bring to a marriage is "household management" and e m o t i o n a l l a b o r. There's actually a YT video I stumbled across not too long ago where 3 dudes on a podcast were asking these 3 hoodrats what they bring to the table in a relationship and the hoodrats got absolutely triggered. I wish I could find it again because it was hilarious.
/r/MensRights03/04/22 03:10 AM
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One of the most important things you can ever understand about women you're in a relationship/marriage with is that the second they make up their mind about the relationship it's DONE and from that point on there is no changing or going back. Picture it like a blown fuse.. there is no way that blown fuse is going to repair itself. Someone said it earlier, that the first time she starts saying the word divorce you need to file and beat her to the punch. Because once that's in her head she is not …
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 02:28 AM
1

Those little spy camera USB charger bricks work well for this also.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 01:50 AM
2

Yeah, this is the better option than trying to get married to have kids. Look at it like buying a car or a house or something - you budget it out. Instead of it being a car or house payment, you can look at it (child support) as a child payment for your kid. You're going to end up paying no matter what route you take, so this is the smartest way to look at it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 01:35 AM
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Believe it or not, I've actually had this talk with my parents who are boomers that were born in the early 50's. But they are very cognizant of how times and people have changed since they were young. They were the ones who actually helped me realize that just finding some woman, knocking her up, and paying child support as an avenue to have children is actually the better option than getting married and trying to do it that way in the current times. You know the system is completely messed up w…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 01:33 AM
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This is why you get rid of all your social media, man. All that does is cause problems.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/22 01:25 AM
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Including yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:27 AM
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I know. I just want a place to bitch about modern women that's safe from the angry feminists. Is that so hard to ask??
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 04:07 AM
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Sucks that they banned the sub.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 03:34 AM
1

Let’s just say for arguments sake, his wife stayed home to raise both his children. Would you agree there is some value in that? We're talking about $183k to "raise" a 16 and 18 year old..
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 02:55 AM
1

That's not what I'm saying, though. I'm saying that you have no clue what dating in 2022 is actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:38 AM
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So you don't have any experience other than reading about it? That's what I mean. You can think you know how it is, but I bet if you ended up divorced and tried to start dating again in 2022, you'd be in for a rude awakening.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:25 AM
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That's cool, but how do you know what dating and women are like in the present time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:02 AM
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There are a lot of people here with decent personalities, but unfortunately most people prefer that as a friend instead of a romantic partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:42 AM
1

The dating landscape has changed over the last 30 years since you got married, my dude. In 2022 it absolutely matters to women if a guy is a low earner, even if they tell you it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:35 AM
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Yup. Usually also the same ones who also like to parrot that bias against men in family court is a myth.
/r/AntiFeminists02/04/22 12:28 AM
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First mgtow was banned, now this sub. I just want a male dominated space safe from bitchy feminists to complain about modern women. Is that so hard to ask for??
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 11:59 PM
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The funny thing is if you go into any of the feminist controlled subs like fds and twox, every single feminist there will actively play a victim and talk about how reddit is male dominated and there are no "female only safe spaces". Anyone with a brain can see that reddit is ran by feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 11:56 PM
2

Getting you job and promotional opportunities 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 03:20 PM
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You say that as a naive woman, but I'm telling you as a man how fellow men think. The only way you're right is if you're not attractive enough to tempt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 08:59 AM
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They aren’t orbiters Oh, I'd bet you a whole bitcoin that if you got divorced all of those exes would be right back up on you the second they saw your last name go back to your maiden name.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:04 AM
1

How long have y'all been together?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:58 AM
2

networking assistance Wtf does this even mean?? managing of appointments So the same job as the calendar app in every phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:28 AM
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They tend to have to pay in a divorce in exchange for her doing unpaid work taking care of his children and household, Who provides that household for her, though? Hey, here's this house for free.. all you have to do is not let it get out of hand. Raw deal for the woman, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:25 AM
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Literally the man's resources. That's why they don't want to marry a LVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:23 AM
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or that you think a sahm or dad doesn't deserve support Their support is a roof over their head, groceries, living expenses covered, car / insurance / gas paid for, shopping, anything they want or need paid for. You think all of that just shows up out of nowhere without the breadwinning partner working hard for it? It's like the hard work a man goes through to provide everything his family needs is just invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 06:15 AM
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This might be controversial to say, but I've put a lot of thought into it: Most people are not marriage material and should never get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:13 AM
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You'll forget about him once this whole thing is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 05:05 AM
1

Both men and women really only have two to three shots at getting an LTR right in their 20s before it starts taking a toll on them in ways that are extremely difficult to come back from later on in life. As a man, even though I'm not married and just got out of a LTR at over 40, there is nothing about it that has made my life any more difficult. In fact, it's the opposite. I am right in the middle class income bracket for my location and I have more money, more things, and more time to devote to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 05:13 AM
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Preselection in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:05 AM
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How sure are you that this would actually work, though?
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 06:45 PM
1

It's not paranoid, it's called being smart. No man wants to invest in a woman who he knows is going to bounce.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:06 AM
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Yeah, I know, and they just bounce between those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:27 PM
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Your heart is in the right place, but you have to understand that men have already learned from first hand experience that it's very common for the woman they're seeing to dry up and lose respect for him when he opens up to her during a time of vulnerability. We can't explain it, and women can't explain it, it's just our lizard brains in action. But the results of that are out there and it's what explains why men never open up to women. It's one of those things that women say they want until it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:52 AM
1

Naw that's not just you, it's definitely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 09:45 AM
2

Of course you're not buying that. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:54 AM
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Yes, it's wrong to always assume a guy cares about it simply because he asked. If he's genuine, he is asking to get to know you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:40 AM
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I shouldn't have to explain the logic behind such a simple concept. If I ask you whether or not you like Thai food, and you don't happen to like Thai food, do you interpret me simply asking that as incompatibility or difference in values even if I also don't like Thai food? That's literally what you're doing here.. it is the exact same thing as you ghosting me just because I asked you if you liked Thai food. But the difference is that you aren't insecure about Thai food like you are your body co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:30 AM
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