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| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 21, 2025I have a great job where I get positive feedback from up the chain but I’m a slacker. I do the bare minimum and sometimes less. Spend some time thinking about your career goals, not your work goals. It's easy to fall into being lazy if your ambition ends at your paycheck. You get the check whether you're giving it your all, or you're slacking but getting it done. Does your job have upward mobility? Is that something you want? Look at the people in those positions. Are you envious of their opport… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 21, 2025She kept trying to dodge, but I made her answer the question, which was obviously no. Wow, sounds like you really won that argument! Congrats man, that'll show her. Very cool breakdown of how you reacted to your wife this week. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/01/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 14, 2025They give me an outlet for my energy that is just easy and more addictive than drugs. They are such a big outlet for me that it becomes really easy to become dependant on her. This is a good realization, but push further. Woman are an easy way for you to feel like you have accomplished something. Most real accomplishments are harder, and take more work. They are harder for some people than others because life is like that. But every time you use a woman's attention to feel like you have shit goi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 14, 2025Granted I’ve shifted my reward system to the odd glass of wine and shit loads of coffee but I see it as progress. This needs more work. You're not a child that needs a cookie when you're a good boy. Your only "reward" around food should be seeing the scale drop as you become less fat. As long as you're giving yourself food rewards you're keeping that bad wiring in your brain alive that good boy = treats. If you keep that alive and you'll fast track your backslides when things get rough. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 07, 2025I realised she effectively has zero respect or admiration for me anymore Be honest with yourself and you'll realize that the real issue is that this is how you feel about yourself. Your wife is just mirroring that back to you and that's why you finally are forced to see it and come to terms with it. I am a classic Nice Guy with unbelievable codependency issues and people pleaser tendencies These things are incompatible with a positive self image and self respect. You can't respect yourself if yo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/25 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 07, 2025LDRs are often, at best, just projections on both ends. People filling in the blanks with their idealized relationship and not having the real life interactions to reality check them. I think they can often be a dangerous blue pill fantasy land. At worst they can be a way for one person to take advantage of the other. It sounds like maybe you experiences something like that. This is easier said than done, but you will really benefit from removing any focus on relationships for a while. Focus sin… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/01/25 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 31, 2024This whole thing is all about what people are doing to you, or how you are reacting to things. That's a sad way to live life. What do you actually want? Being afraid of being alone is a big tell about your mental state. It further shows how deeply you are in the frame of everyone else but yourself. You need to figure out what it is you actually want from life, independent of other people. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 31, 2024I've been making a lot of little positive changes in myself and my behavior over the past few months, and my wife seems to have responded with Read this back and look at how you are measuring the outcome of the work you are doing. This is a fundamental thing that will carry through everything else you do for self improvement. You're wife is not the ruler by which you measure your progress. That's just running a new set of behaviours to do the old plan of whatever it takes to make your wife happy… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/01/25 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Validation CalibrationCouple of things here. The sex isn't anything too crazy but it has been slowly improving as I've been lifting and added a bit of dread. Your mention of dead is a big covert contract. You're treating it like a lever you can pull to get a result. Pull lever - get more better sex (validation) It's just sex for validation with more steps. You're having lots of sex so this isn't about genuine desire it's all validation seeking. When it comes to validation seeking in general, here's something that wor… | /r/askMRP | 03/01/25 03:36 PM |
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