TRMineNotYours Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	First Holiday without her		TRMineNotYours	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 01:54 AM
9	Hardest on the kids		TRMineNotYours	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 02:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	I knew this would be tough. But to see her immediately with another man… Together 24 years. Separated 7 months. She’s already going on dates. It really does suck	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 02:35 AM
6	How do I accept she’s never coming back? I don’t know. For me it’s been 7 months after 24 years together and she’s already dating. I just want to be able to move on also like she has. One day at a time is what they say	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/26 01:21 AM
9	So hard 7 months in and Im pretty much in the same boat. 39 years old, together since I was 15. She was my person. My everything. She has filed but I haven’t been served yet. Some days are hard. Others are harder. Waiting for the easy days. It really does suck	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/26 04:12 AM
5	45M, 7mo separated after 20y together, we have two kids. I feel I've alone the rest of my life. 39, coming up on 7 months. Together since we were 14 and 15. I don’t know how to even start thinking of someone else. I feel like she’s already moved on. Trying to work on myself but I see and feel myself taking steps back and staying stuck in place. The life I had and the one we were building is over. I keep hearing the first year is the hardest and things will get better and that’s all I can hope for at this point	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/26 05:07 PM
5	How to be alone 39, we were together since I was 15. Two kids together and separated since January. Divorce is still in the very beginning stages. It is so hard. There are so many times where I want to call or text her. But things are just not the same anymore. Slowly finding my way, but it’s rough for sure. I just keep reading posts here and finding hope that things will get better/easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/26 04:01 AM
4	Recently Divorced - What's the toughest hardest moment of your day - nights, mornings, work or co-parenting? Just coming to terms with it all. Still in the early process of it. Separated about 45 days now. We had our issues but I never saw it happening like this. Nights are bad. Sleeping with a person for 20+ years to sleeping alone is rough. Trying to figure out a whole new schedule now. It just sucks	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/26 06:57 PM