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I'd echo everything you said. Not jerking off gives you energy and the will to act. I also thought I had a small dick but it turns out I don't haha. Fuck porn.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 11:56 AM
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Top strategy for this: Get the HPV vaccine - protects against two strains of warts as well as the kind of HPV that can give you cancer. Wear a condom ALWAYS go down on a girl. I know I'll get some hate for this but bear with me - whenever I take them back to mine I keep the lights on bright and go down on them in a slow teasing way (lots of time for inspection!). I'll spend 30 seconds to a minute just kissing their inner thighs and intermittently breathing heavily on their pussy. This will make …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 02:19 PM
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Psychology is a very female degree - it’s not a career-builder. It’s really interesting and a vital tool, but get a degree in something more employable. You can always read psychology on the side - Influence: The Power of Persuasion was a great read. How do you feel about economics or business? I’ve always been raised to really value education and it’s served me well, but that also means I’m kind of prejudiced against your barbershop aspirations.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 01:28 AM
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I feel shame for my last LTR - I really pulled her in, then broke up.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 04:01 PM
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King.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 09:58 PM
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Not all women are superficial retards, but when you first meet them you have to establish rapport and an alpha frame. Talking about real things is definitely beta frame but you can do it once you’re in an LTR as part of adding comfort
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:31 AM
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samthesimp
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:20 AM
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Jesus you don’t know how to take criticism and from the comments you can tell that your frame is weak because you’re so emotionally brittle and volatile. With that in mind I would consider my advice to be just an extra point, your top priority needs to be to lose the ego investment you have in everything, it’s what gives you such a weak frame. I’ve had people on asktrp tell me I’m an idiot, the point is I don’t care, in fact IDGAF - which is exactly how you should be. A man who can’t take critic…
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:16 AM
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You’re missing one important thing - look at the other guys. EVERYONE is such a fucking loser. If you lift, have discipline and invest in yourself you stick out like a sore thumb in this giant fucking ocean of muscleless, charismaless, ability-less, alphaless, frameless, soy-latte popping, inverse males with no prospects and no ambition. Believe in yourself, everyone else is a cuck.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:54 AM
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Yeah I hear women love humble men
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:17 PM
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Got to love socialism
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:16 PM
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Good, don’t be afraid to look after her kids so she can go out with Jamal this Friday night, she deserves a break!
/r/askTRP07/01/20 01:13 PM
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Single mother 32 y/o -> what a catch
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:23 AM
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You’re very ego invested in everything, try to stop that
/r/askTRP07/01/20 08:22 AM
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It’s good for abundance mentality
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:43 PM
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TRP is about maximising what you have. Lose the incel attitude, it’s unattractive.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:55 PM
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Bullshit
/r/askTRP06/01/20 04:51 PM
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Breakups are always fucking horrendous if it’s an LTR and you care about them, particularly if you’ve been with them for a while. However, if you want to break up, it’s time to do it
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:59 AM
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If you find yourself asking needless questions when you could be saying the same thing as a statement, that’s a start
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:52 AM
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This is all very negative. Women are abundant and if it’s not working with one, go get another one. If you’re putting yourself across right then they’ll value you and cherish your company, but at the same time you’ve got to be wary of the Light-Switch effect. But even then, who cares? You need to be more IDGAF - you clearly do give a fuck
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:47 AM
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You’ve seen Married Red Pill right?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:45 AM
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Ok, she’s flying in a few days time, I’ll re-post it then
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:56 PM
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Final two paragraphs
/r/askTRP04/01/20 11:52 PM
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Read Humansockpuppet’s guide to teasing bitches in the sidebar of the main sub
/r/askTRP04/01/20 10:43 PM
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You are not demonstrating abundance
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:22 AM
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What’s your technique to pull this off?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:20 AM
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Testing is artificial, observe how they behave over time
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:19 PM
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You even have to earn it a bit on Tinder, there are other apps like Bumble, Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel if you want to match with more emotionally balanced women. That TRP guide is good and should get you started.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 06:11 PM
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You can get that dopamine rush from banging and meeting women, it definitely helps with gym motivation. If there are no real organic ways for you to meet women (doubt it), then you should try online dating. Read the Red Pill Guide to Tinder on the main sub and you’re on your way.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:23 PM
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Bro watch less porn Jesus
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:44 PM
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32 year old moving to Oregon from New York City might be doing so to settle down. Be careful of post-wall women and pregnancy.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:39 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:37 AM
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Both herpes and HPV get around condoms. I wouldn’t risk it with this girl but get yourself an HPV vaccine - prevents both warts and rare cancer caused by HPV. Herpes look for sores if you’re going to go down. The rest are covered by condoms.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:35 AM
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When you ask her out say ‘I’m free on X for Y’, eg. ‘I’m free on Saturday for drinks’, ‘I’m free on Sunday for coffee’. It says you’re leading and chicks like to know what you’re going to do in advance, helps them say yes
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:28 AM
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In the Rational Male it says that people you knew beforehand won’t like you changing, even if you’re improving. They see you as fake etc and that has been my experience. However, anyone you meet knew just takes you as you are and makes a judgement of you in the absence of noting any change. I have only a few pre-TRP friends left and that is basically because one Red Pilled me and I Red Pilled another. Saying that, I’ve now made new friends - they only know the TRP me (the real me actually). They…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:06 AM
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Lol nice troll idiot
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:49 AM
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Bro who fucking cares?
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:35 PM
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A lot of women’s ability to cum is related to how attractive they find you
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:33 PM
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I set things up 1-3 days in the future with new ones.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:31 PM
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Obviously. Women find men who lose fights unattractive.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:30 PM
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Get better at using condoms and bring your own ffs. I keep mine in a (quite hidden) coat pocket. Also vasectomies aren’t as reversible as they are portrayed in our gynocentric media. Don’t mutilate yourself for some bullshit reason, fathering children is the essence of life and legacy. You will come round.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:29 PM
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Dancing is really great if you get good at it. I fucking LOATHE that initial two left feet stage, but once you go beyond it, it’s a nice to have in your arsenal
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:27 PM
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I basically defined beta male until a good friend Red Pilled me a year ago. I remembered a good BP anecdote the other day - my ex from BP days used to put on several (normally about 5) alarms in the morning all spaced about 5-10 mins apart. I used to sleep on the outside and get up every morning to turn each and every one of them off individually while she stayed warm in bed asleep. Yeah. Really. TRP gave me life bro.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 08:42 PM
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Great comment. I just want to add that breakups take months and they take even more months if you text her, see her and fuck her. There’s plenty of women out there, OP should stop looking at 30 year olds and go for the Leonardo Di Caprio tactic and date exclusively 21-25 year olds.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:08 AM
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You need to date the single mother, it’s the right thing to do. Don’t even worry about sex tbh, although she probably will have sex with you at the start of the relationship, the important thing is to care for her child like a father and make sure you give her a break because being a single mother is so hard! So many guys are focused on pointless things like whether a child is theirs or not, but what they don’t understand is that genetics are irrelevant and if you care for a child, you are the f…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:02 AM
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Just stop asking her to meet up and stop texting her. If she messages you, you are busy
/r/askTRP01/01/20 03:14 AM
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You can talk to them rationally but it bores them. If you talk to them like a child and like you know best and they’re just a child (with unshakable frame) they seem to really love it,
/r/askTRP01/01/20 03:13 AM
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If you want to go for the Red Pill you need to lead a good life yourself that he might aspire to, drop subtle points occasionally about female desire (not pressing the point home too much, just leave them dangling in the air) and finally go for the Red Pill in a weak moment (my buddy got me within 10 mins of a breakup, changed my life. I Red Pilled a close friend shortly after he got rejected by a 4 he’d been working on for weeks). Good luck.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:26 PM
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Yeah I think if I earned that money I would. Fair play to them as well Edit: it’s so much less beta when it’s only a few hours of your day for a great evening. But if you’re slaving away for hours on end to give your hard earned cash to a woman for 15 mins of “Labour” then you are being exploited, plain and simple.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:57 PM
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I respect your earnings but I can’t afford that. I think I’d rather go on a series of nice holidays as well. I went to Barcelona for £200, I could do a similar trip so many times instead. Each to their own I guess.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:56 PM
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Ok I see where you’re coming from. How much does it all cost? If you do it how you just said
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:25 PM
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I might, it’s just that I don’t like the idea of validating a woman so much by saying that me having a go at her pussy is worth hundreds of pounds (British). It just feels so beta to say that fucking her is worth 10 hours of my pay from work or whatever. It’s hardly ‘I’m the prize’. Imagine slaving away all day at work just to give your earnings to some bitch who opens her legs for 10-15 mins. It’s so cucked.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:12 PM
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I can’t get over the price - no woman’s pussy is worth that much when you can just go for drinks with a Tinder date
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:40 PM
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Why is this necessary?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:37 PM
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I had this in my BP days - ex let herself go. It means the LTR has no future, she’ll only get worse with time. Develop an exit strategy but know that you’ll be better for leaving. Drama with a girl you live with in college is awful, particularly as you head to exams, so bear that in mind. One thing you could do (if you already aren’t) is to work out more often and be less available - this will give her some dread, sending her the message that you’re improving and she can’t take you down to her l…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 03:04 AM
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He basically set me up professionally - even prepped me for interviews that he used to sit on the panel for. He then started drip-feeding me opportunities. I didn’t think too much of it until his other daughter’s LTR broke up with her and then while they were negotiating about getting back together he made a massive power play and got a powerful friend to offer the guy a job with a massive pay raise. It was then that I saw that indebting us to him was part of his strategy for getting us to marry…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 02:46 AM
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This is a bit left field - but use the power of music to build momentum. I genuinely have a ‘Revision motivation’ playlist (typically pumped up montage songs from films) and a ‘Montage’ playlist which again is montage music from films. Both of these playlists help me feel like I have momentum. I play a song or two between hour-long study sessions when I’m off having a break like getting a snack and it pumps me back up for of energy and motivation. It lets me study way longer. It’s a bit niche bu…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:12 AM
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I make worse decisions after I’ve nutted - pre-nut clarity is a thing
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:07 AM
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Hot water bottle helps sore muscles recover faster. You can do it up to 20 mins 4 times a day. You’ll be surprised by the results. Also masturbating puts back your recovery because you’re using already sore muscles (try not to do it anyway because of the Pheromonal Beta).
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:05 AM
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I had an LTR’s Dad do this to me in my BP days, he also got his other daughter’s boyfriend a really good job (or at least tried to). That’s when I realised it was a strategy - a strategy to make you beholden to him. Don’t fall for this trap. It made it way harder to leave my ex. I repeat, this is a trap.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 01:01 AM
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I feel really bad about alpha widowing, I can’t help doing it but I still feel bad about it. Maybe it’s because I liked my last two LTRs as people and I wouldn’t feel bad doing it to a hypergamous skank, I don’t know.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 05:01 AM
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Ok I get why you feel that way, I just don’t understand why you wanted it in the first place
/r/askTRP19/12/19 04:55 AM
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This whole ‘I didn’t make her orgasm, I was just into my nut’ - is this just an excuse to say you are shit in bed? It’s really not hard to make a girl orgasm, really not rocket science. Happy customers come back, I’m not sure why you don’t put more effort into this.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:22 AM
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Maybe you need some sidebar again, this is quite basic
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:16 AM
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I really don’t understand this anal craze. Pretty sure it’s something that’s been pushed on us through pornography to normalise homosexuality. Why would you want to put your dick where poo is stored and comes out? I don’t get it.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:14 AM
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Disagree, you just can’t be completely devout. I’m Christian but TRP is life. It’s the principles of how to better yourself and be attractive, it’s important for all men.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 02:11 AM
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That whole ‘if you want me, you know where I stay’ thing literally defines operating in a woman’s frame. Don’t do this again!
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:41 AM
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I haven’t, what is it?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:39 PM
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Text, it’s less intrusive
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:37 PM
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Became TRP bro - started lifting for the first time. I’ve replaced all of my narrow-chested photos with ones where I look broad. Also of course SMV rises naturally every year in your 20’s, can’t discount that. I feel like I crossed the precipice of the 80/20 rule and finally joined the 20. I look quite cocky and dominant in my photos, that could’ve helped.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 11:02 AM
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I went from 2-3 matches on Tinder a year ago to 30 a day right now after I’ve been off and improving myself for a year. Very good for abundance. Only give up on it if you’ve maxed yourself out. But yeah the culture here is less conducive to day-game than elsewhere I think. Although, I may just be a beta boy who needs Tinder to get laid.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:54 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:52 AM
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I use Tinder
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:47 AM
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You are a true soldier. Being able to stop half way through as a hormonal 16 year old, I fucking salute you sir! That was natural selection in action!
/r/askTRP17/12/19 10:45 AM
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Women are hypergamous - this one has already proved herself to be. You need to realise that when you lose your contextual alpha by moving her to your country she is capable of branch-swinging to another man. Is it worth it when women are so abundant?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:20 PM
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If anything I find a woman’s touch demotivating and I have to consciously override the lack of desire to keep improving that results from repeated female affection. True discipline comes from within.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:16 PM
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Because it works on the uninitiated
/r/askTRP16/12/19 12:07 PM
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There is an optimum hip to waist ratio that all men desire and once women’s hips go beyond that we don’t find them as attractive. I wonder if this is like that.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:59 AM
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You could bang her again and then set up another bang right then and there. Seems so much simpler than asking her out
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:37 PM
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You can’t change other people, only yourself.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:27 PM
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Do logistics through the Tinder app and after your date they’ll ask for your number
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:54 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:32 PM
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Shamed by who? Villain is good, women want to fuck villains
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:32 PM
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Nice frame
/r/askTRP15/12/19 03:31 PM
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Who cares what they think? You’re the prize, fuck them
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:59 PM
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How is your kino? For me that’s so much of escalation
/r/askTRP15/12/19 11:06 AM
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Stay away from any women who have shown themselves capable of a false rape allegation. Fucks sake bro
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:19 AM
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Don’t masturbate
/r/askTRP15/12/19 10:16 AM
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You need to improve your vetting process, this is a big flaw in the system
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:24 PM
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How have you not already nexted her? Come on get some self-esteem this isn't even a real question
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:23 PM
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Lol that sounds really expensive
/r/askTRP14/12/19 11:50 AM
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