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Going to study up on those sources no doubt. I can say I'm going to remove her completely from my life, but in all honesty, I'm a wimp. I'll most likely chicken out. However, I'm definitely not getting back with her in any official capacity after this. I'm going to lift, learn the ways of the alpha, and hopefully gain the confidence and strength to cut what remains off if I'm still seeing her at all by then.
/r/askTRP28/04/14 12:10 AM
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Ah, I understand, and I totally get how this is my fault. The lifting I can do (I used to lift a ton senior year in HS which is when we starting dating). I can and am willing to adopt RP theory as well. It's just fucking hard to leave the only thing I've ever had. Let alone cut all contact. I get that it's just something I'm going to have to deal with. The biggest obstacle in this situation for me is honestly just fear of the unknown. I like having an SO, and I'm really fucking scared of having …
/r/askTRP27/04/14 11:54 PM
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Nah, I don't agree with that. Going to bars/parties and drinking is fun, and I want a girl friend with whom I can do that. I'm in college; I shouldn't have to stay home every weekend or abstain from alcohol -or try to make her abstain- to avoid something like what happened. Thanks for the good wishes though!
/r/askTRP27/04/14 09:00 PM
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Fair enough! I completely acknowledge I'm thinking about this way too emotionally. I haven't walked away because I'm insecure and beta. I need to fix myself, and think about things of this nature much more objectively. Agreed.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:57 PM
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She does that. A lot. What she says she's going to do usually means virtually nothing. I learned that way before I found TRP.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:48 PM
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Thanks, I wasn't sure whether or not I was over reacting. It felt real bad though. And yeah, that was my argument with her. I kept saying I didn't feel like she was attracted to me, so you hit that nail on the head. Shit.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:19 PM
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Meh, I don't know man. Sure we could blame this completely on the alcohol, but like I said she wasn't non functioning by any means. I've drank with her a lot over the course of 3 years so I know how much she can drink. I'm also 90% sure the guy didn't come on to her by any means. But hold going to the loo? No, what am I supposed to do, piss my pants? That seems rather illogical, and some what blue pill to me. I feel like I shouldn't have to watch her like a hawk every single second to avoid her …
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:16 PM
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Sorry I guess I should clarify: She just had her hands on this guys tits and was all leaned up against him and talking very closely. So maybe I'm over reacting? For more info when I dragged her off of him (that was my first reaction) he said something to the effect of "she's really nice". Yeah, and unfortunately I'm not a troll, I'm just super beta. I wish I was trolling. And the sex was a hot button issue for the longest, and still is to a degree. I did the worst blue pill thing you can do when…
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:09 PM
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I'm confused. She's 21 years old haha, why can't she drink at a bar with friends. And yeah, if she can't handle herself for 3 minutes while I take a piss then that's on her. Like I said, not quite sure what your point is. Oh, and again, she didn't seem that drunk. Walking and talking coherently and all that jazz. Yes if she was black out drunk and vomiting I can see where it would be my fault. Not if she's just chillin while I go to the bathroom though.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:02 PM
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That seems to be exactly what the other guy is saying too. It's also the exact thing I was hoping not to hear :/. I guess it's a lost cause.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 08:00 PM
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I was drinking too, we were bar hopping with some friends.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:58 PM
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I guess it's just the blue pill side of me, but I feel a really strong urge to stick up for her when you say that. Is it really that bad, just from what you know? And yes, I've realized how fucked up I was over time from this relationship.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:56 PM
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You're right. It seems like you're saying that I can't take her back without condoning her behavior regardless of how I act in the future. This only leaves me with the option of manning the fuck up I suppose...fuck.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:50 PM
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After finals it is my intention to work out EVERY DAY before I leave campus just so I could get some dread game going. Unfortunately she intends to do the same, even though she doesn't really need to. I was wondering if this would negate my dread game. Yeah and like I said I was super bad about that at first, but I've been calling her out on her shit lately and have seen a bit of improvement.
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:42 PM
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Yeah, super beta. Just slowly trying to change. In her defense she was pretty drunk, and she did apologize for it when I told her what she did the next day. So I don't know if she really just doesn't remember or if she's faking the drunk amnesia. She didn't seem to be that level of drunk, but who knows. The thing that's holding me back is that I really like having a SO, and I'm terrible with women. Not to mention the fact that I was genuinely in love with her for the longest. I still may be, but…
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:35 PM
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Lol that is the point isn't it? If people didn't need help, they wouldn't be asking. You're not wrong, you're just an asshole :]. Also, to your other comment, the side bar is no replacement for actual human interaction sometimes...
/r/askTRP27/04/14 07:26 PM
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