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TRPKaty/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:46 PM
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This was the first hang out/date if you couldn’t tell by reading the post.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 06:14 PM
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I was no longer having fun long before she started doing that. I was no longer interested in her sexually. After I was finished in the bathroom I was already planning on telling her to leave. So I had absolutely no plans of escalating.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:07 PM
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Ah haha I was confused but I’m not sure it was a few months before she and I started dating.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:26 AM
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It’s not. Considering all my majors fall under business a majority of the classes are the same. I will graduate on time. You may be a consultant and I respect your experience and insight; however, not every company operates the same. Especially since my first internship was at a much smaller firm that’s not even on the fortune 1000 list. And congrats, today you met someone whose triple majored.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:23 PM
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Not in the sense that it means but I just prefer to have higher SMV then my LTR. I’d rate myself an 8 and my (ex) LTR a 5. And nah, but the rest of my life I’m going to maintain a high level of awareness. Watch for early signs, verify every now and then. I’m not saying I check her phone Every day or don’t trust anything she says, I’m saying I probably check it every 3-4 months, maintain healthy skepticism to certain things, etc.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:59 PM
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I like average women. I don’t like my woman to have a higher SMV than me. I want them to rely on me and my value. And thank you. And because there’s nothing wrong with verifying if she wants to cheat she will, but I won’t get caught in the crossfire. I’ll end it before it happens.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:27 PM
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I don’t need your validation or for you to believe me. I know what I’ve done and what I’ve accomplished. I’m triple majoring in business related majors. One of them is marketing another is management information systems. Obviously I have to be vague because this is the internet and I don’t want to get doxxed. If you’re sick of “dudes like me” in this sub then I suggest you find another sub. I started working when I was 14. I did my first internship when I was a sophomore. I already had experienc…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 08:25 PM
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In order of my priorities I place myself first, my career second, my family third, and my friends fourth. It’s all about self care. I did what’s best for me. And what was best for me is not being with a woman who lies to me.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:24 PM
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I set boundaries early on. And kept implying them over time to make sure she knows and understands her role. As I said to another redditor if she wants to fuck the other dude that’s fine, but because of how my good future is lined up for success, my connections, my smv, etc. I will have no problem finding other women to fuck, plate, or LTR if I choose to do so. But for now I’ll focus only on fucking women, my career, my gains, and my studies. Thanks for your input I appreciate it wholeheartedly.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:21 PM
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One of the 7 wonders that’s for sure haha
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:18 PM
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Keep progressing. Just be open minded to things and everything will fall into place
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:13 PM
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I broke up with her today. This all happened this morning. The dude called her last night.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:13 PM
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Business
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:12 PM
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100%
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:45 PM
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Everyone’s journey is different. I started late too. So far I’ve done 4 internships at big firms Fortune 100 firms and am set to make 100k starting salary post grad due to my experience and knowledge, while those who graduated before me are going to be making 50k starting.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:45 PM
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I agree. Most people won’t and they’ll suffer for it. However I won’t be a made a fool. I’ll end it before that happens.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:25 PM
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Thank you for reassuring. Any idea how to get over the pain? Besides gaming new women and lifting.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:24 PM
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Started 3 years ago. I’m a senior now.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:23 PM
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Lol alright bud
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:23 PM
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I understand. I’m not. I have decent frame, discipline, and self control. Once I decide something I rarely if ever change my mind.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:49 PM
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I’m mid 20s. It didn’t take long. I joined clubs, was outgoing, got involved in community service, and did leadership positions on campus. I also went to events and made myself known by being outspoken and blunt. It doesn’t take long if you’re naturally outgoing and people oriented. EDIT: typo
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:47 PM
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Don’t wanna think about it. Nor do I care. It’s over.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:44 PM
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Not going to haha. There’s better women out there. Plus I’m in my 20s, entire life ahead, more women to fuck, more things to experience. Plus I can’t even look at her. I’m disgusted.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:05 PM
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Thank you. It’s clear in the relationship she needed me more than I needed her. I have more connections, status, money, and better looks.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:01 PM
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That was my idea too. I wasn’t upset about the dude. I was upset that she lied to me. Oh well. Time to go balls deep in a former plate.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:01 PM
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I understand that. Which is why I’m not too upset. Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 04:00 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 03:59 PM
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I’m not worried I’ve already decided to break up with her. I just wanted to know if it’s the right move. Did you even read the post?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:36 PM
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You sound naive. It has nothing to do with insecurity. Especially when I have many other friends she could’ve reached out to, instead she chose to reach out to the one she has interest in. Seems like a potential branch swing. It may be my birthday but I wasn’t born last night to know where this situation is headed.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:26 PM
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Read my other comments to redditors under this post. My LTR has shown interest in my male friend and I believe she was just using my birthday as an excuse to get his contact. She chose to stay in the room I didn’t force her to. It has nothing to do with insecurity.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:20 PM
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Read my other comments in this post to other redditors. Hopefully you will understand the situation better. Thanks for your input. Stay blessed.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:07 PM
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I have many other friends most of which are female. She could’ve asked any of them. She has shown prior interest in my male friend and he and I talk about it often. I told him as long as she doesn’t act on it I don’t give a shit. In my eyes this was an excuse to get his number. As I’m always busy and there’s need to contact my friends to get me out of the house. I believe she didn’t even mean to tell me and it was a slip of the tongue. The irony is me and my buddies pass women around so the real…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 07:01 PM
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She has shown some indicators of interest in him. I’m not threatened but as the saying goes if she wants to cheat she will, however I won’t be made the fool. So I’ll end it before it happens.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:57 PM
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She crossed a boundary that I told her from the beginning was something I wasn’t okay with. It has nothing to do with being a sociopath. It has to do with respect. She disrespected me by crossing my boundaries. Or are you the type to let your LTR, plate, etc. walk all over you?
/r/askTRP23/09/19 06:51 PM
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Yea she tried to convince. Remained stoic and blocked her off everything.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:50 AM
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I agree.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:49 PM
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How do I confront her on this without losing frame or do I not?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:46 PM
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Have held frame immensely good, have high SMV, and the relationship is in a position where I need her a lot less than she needs me. I’ve been single for so long I forgot how hard LTRs are.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:17 AM
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How I can sue Bob and Sally for defamation and slander. Lawyer helped me issue a cease and desist and told me to tell the university the situation. There’s not much he can do on his end though because this situation hasn’t really “affected” me per say.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:34 AM
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Yes. EDIT: Adding more context. I’m not sure what Sally initially told Bob, but Bob came to my house telling me that Sally claimed I raped her or tried to rape her. When the police were called, Sally told them I did NOT try to do any of that, and that what we did was in fact consensual. Bob can’t believe Sally did that so he’s still trying to frame the situation as rape.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:26 AM
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I have a feeling that this is exactly what will happen. I’m an influential leader on campus as well. And people who are in Bobs organization are also leaders on campus and in other campus organizations and they will blacklist me from attending, joining, or becoming a member of anything.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:50 AM
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Exactly. The worst part Bob told his organization AFTER Sally explained that it was not rape or sexual assault. So Bob knows it wasn’t rape but he’s still telling everyone it was. The main person blowing this up is Bob. I see Bob everywhere on campus now and he stares me down and smirks every time. It’s hard to restrain myself, but I understand Bob is a beta and if I even say one word to him, I’m screwed. He will twist the story to his favor.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:48 AM
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While the money for damages is a factor, I mostly care about my reputation. It’s not fun having people in your social circle avoid and isolate you. It’s not fun being labeled a rapist.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:46 AM
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I’m planning on it. I will be meeting with a lawyer this week. My only worry is I have no idea how I will pay for the lawyer since I’m in college.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:44 AM
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We were flirting, I was escalating and applying kino. She was showing high levels of interest and flirting back. I also utilized push/pull strategies. The rapport and build up was there.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 10:19 PM
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I did do leg work to make her comfortable. We spent 20min trying to find my car. In that time we were talking, getting to know each other, etc. She was asking me about my major, job, etc. She was extremely comfortable coming back to my place especially since she was the one who suggested it. At the party I did talk to her and meet her when I first arrived.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:44 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 04:29 PM
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I understand that’s how it may seem from reading the thread. But I wasn’t passing in and out. I was simply going to sleep and kept getting woken up by noise. So I went to find another place to sleep.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:54 PM
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I didn’t do anything retarded. I was just tired. I literally just slept.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:46 PM
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I understand. Thank you. I won’t be smoking weed anymore after this event. I’ll also keep it to a 2 drink minimum. I’m not making excuses, but the reason I went all out is because I was amongst friends or so I thought.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:45 PM
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I remember everything that happened. I was just tired.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:43 PM
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I was just tired man. I had worked all day and wanted to sleep from the partying. And the weird part is I was alone for a majority of the time upstairs. Except when Erin’s sister came in the room with her two friends, and from what I assume when Sally saw me in her room on the floor sleeping when she yelled “what the fuck?!”
/r/askTRP23/08/18 02:58 PM
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I know the post may seem like I’m concerned with what she thinks. I’m not. I’m concerned about my reputation and I feel she may try to tarnish it by telling people I got upset because she didn’t like me anymore when that’s not the case. We have the same mutual friends. I understand the importance of reputation and don’t want mine tarnished. The case is if she and I aren’t fucking, she has nothing to offer me. There’s no reason for me to engage her other than Hi and Bye. Would you say I did every…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:45 AM
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Disappear. No contact until about an hour before the date just to confirm. You could always fuck something up by constantly messaging/calling her which will make her cancel the date. Keep your mouth closed.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:17 AM
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I figured that was the best course of action as well. It irks me sometimes that women (and some men) are inconsiderate of a persons time. I’ll ignore it and see what happens. I’ll reply tomorrow late afternoon or something who knows.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:56 AM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:46 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the input. It’s valued and appreciated.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:46 AM
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I did call one of my other plates. I’m upset at the fact that she didn’t let me know she wouldn’t be able to make it. It’s common courtesy to let someone know you’re going to cancel on them. It’s unacceptable because I see it as a form of disrespect and it was being inconsiderate of time since it’s valuable. The time I made those plans with her I cleared my schedule to do so. Luckily like I said, I did have a back up plate for later that evening. I always schedule two plates on the same day in c…
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:45 AM
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That’s essentially the cycle of a woman like that. They do a complete 180 and whore themselves out and ride the CC. It’s tragic but inevitable.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 05:17 PM
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Pretty much sums it up. Good thing I’ve maintained my abundance.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:37 PM
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Ah ok I didn’t think of it like that. I understand they can never be LTR material or GF material again. That make sense though. Thanks for breaking it down. I think the way I’m seeing it as that she’s 7hrs away so making her a plate isn’t really ideal or worth it.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:30 PM
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Thanks! I appreciate it!
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:19 PM
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It’s crazy how easy women are to understand. Creatures of pure emotion. Like I said to another user, sometimes they make me sick. I remember when I used to be perceived as “beta” the old me would’ve tried to make shit work. Luckily I found TRP and I have improved a lot thanks to you all in this sub and r/TheRedPill.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:19 PM
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Exactly I don’t want an LDR. I’ve only been at my new university for two weeks and I already have 3 plates. And one plate back home for when I go down for work. College is amazing. For anyone in a college town I recommend downloading tinder+approaching in person.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:17 PM
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Screw being friends with an ex. I see a lot of people suggesting I turn her into a plate as well. Honestly I don’t believe exes are worthy of being plates. To me (this is just my opinion) I believe once you end it with a girl you end it. There’s no going back and you can’t salvage anything. Turning an ex into a plate reeks of oneitis to me and scarcity. If you (Not you, I’m just speaking in general) maintain abundance and have high SMV then you’d understand that there are better outside options.…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 01:15 PM
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Sounds good to me. Most likely not gonna plate her though.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:27 AM
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Amazing explanation of what happened. Couldn’t have said it better. Thanks for your input. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:27 AM
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Thanks and thanks for the explanation! Enjoy your week friend.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:49 AM
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I am a guy. Katy is an Alias as this is my throwaway haha, but thanks.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:39 AM
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Can you elaborate on how I set boundaries? I’m not understanding.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:10 AM
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It’s honestly most likely gonna be a hard next for me.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:08 AM
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Of course not. I should also add the fact that she might try to make the breakup my fault. So she doesn’t feel bad about herself and like another user said “feel she made the right decision”. Women disgust me at times.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:08 AM
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Thank you for this. Will do. I admit a breakup does hurt no matter how invested or not you were in the relationship as a breakup is like a form of rejection. I feel sad, but I can release that sadness into one of my plates tomorrow night.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:07 AM
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I just need affirmation in my assumptions.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:05 AM
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I mean when it’s over, it’s over. Even if I do plate her in the future or take her back things won’t be the same. I’m not really up for making her a plate. She isn’t even plate material at this point.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 03:05 AM
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I encourage you to read it so you can offer better/more insight.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 10:12 PM
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Yea I've been with a lot of women after the breakup. The breakup was 2 months ago. But I still find myself thinking about her from time to time. I find myself thinking about the good times we had.
/r/askTRP14/05/17 10:11 PM
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I'm stable enough but I don't want to plate her. She's not worthy of being a plate.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:41 PM
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Agreed that's what I was doing. We broke up because her family got too involved in our relationship and I didn't want that. She was a good LTR at the time but ultimately she let her family control and manipulate her which says a lot about her character. I moved on easily because why waste time stressing over shit like that when time could be better spent finding a new woman and improving yourself. But thanks!
/r/askTRP15/04/17 06:41 PM
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If you're not going to provide anything useful don't comment.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 05:09 PM
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