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| 2 | Seeking adviceShe might be a great girl, but if you actually have to ask if you can kiss her, it's over. You'll have to work so hard for any amount of fun/intimacy it's not worth it. It's unlikely she'll respect you the way a random girl would. I know that doesn't make sense, but that's the most likely outcome. You can't be too aggressive of course, and risk doing something perceived as assault, but actually asking a girl if you can kiss her means she's no longer the right girl for you. I wish this wasn't how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 06:03 AM |
| 3 | Ok, Karen.Must be the angle. She's probably built like Ashley Graham which is very fun for now, but not after several years and an additional 25-75 lbs. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/12/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Ok, Karen.Karen is either the Goddess Lakshmi with 4 arms or she is 50-75 lbs overweight with the weirdest figure ever, or this is photoshopped. I'm guessing she is obese and this angle is just as much to hide her wideness as it is to advertise her breasts. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/12/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Woman who wanted to be a man finds out post wall that she's a woman after all.I took a new job, and in the new context, my toughness — my superpower — ceased to have its usual effect. This wouldn't entirely be her fault, except for being oblivious if it's accurate, but is it possible that at the age she switched jobs she was no longer one of the younger and hotter women in the office? A lot of thirsty betas can make female coworkers' lives easier, even if the woman isn't trying to exploit it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/12/19 05:45 PM |
| 24 | She expects us to help her after a lifetime of poor decisions"I THOUGHT was good for me...causing my home to be invaded raided by the violent offender task force for drugs" Girl you didn't THINK he was good for you. The part of your brain making these decisions is the part that generates 100 tingles for every felony this guy's rap sheet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/12/19 05:16 AM |
| 18 | Redditor can’t understand why she has no boyfriend and is alone in a friday night despite being pretty...I'm 23, and never been someone's official girlfriend Chad's #1 plate. FTFY | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/12/19 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Are looks the only way guys measure weather shes a high value women or not?Number 7, Rachel Uchitel. Technically she was a hostess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Are looks the only way guys measure weather shes a high value women or not?I've probably always been purple pill since reddit began, but I lean red. I just created this throwaway account to post on r/theredpill because I knew how dangerous anything in the manosphere is if someone were to get doxxed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 100 | Are looks the only way guys measure weather shes a high value women or not?If it's between a btchy 10 or a caring 6, I'd take the 6. If it's between a bitchy 8 and a caring 3, I'd take the 8. Once a certain attractiveness is met, personality and other factors do make a difference. But looks are the single most important factor. If you reduced a wife's income by 50% would most men care? Probably not, but if you reduced her looks by 50%, it would make a huge difference. Deep down everyone knows this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/19 06:14 AM |
| 14 | 24 year old decent human being, pregnant with triplets. Has her shit together so expects nothing less from her man. Not looking for hookups but you can be her beta Instagram follower.Based on what I can see of her photo, she looks very good looking RIGHT NOW. Never underestimate the number of thirsty men who may wife her up and think, ",to me, these are my kids". Most guys will be smart enough to at least just play the role of baby daddy during the pregnancy, help her with Dr appointments, etc. At some point during the 9 months she may screw it up and he'll realize he's taking a lot of responsibility for no gain. But some REALLY thirsty young betas or even some childless 50 … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/11/19 02:14 AM |
| 5 | How important is the role of father?To answer this question, and I'm not trying to be pedantic, is you first have to determine what the development of a young man should look like, relative to young women. If you believe that there are some inherent differences between men and women (especially regarding sexual attraction) either due to physical, mental or hormonal differences, it can have a huge effect having a masculine role model. If you believe most differences are social constructs, then it may not matter in a generation or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/19 06:57 PM |
| 10 | A good man is getting even harder to find for strong, picky, independent women. (analysis in comments)Overall, this is a decent article, and I agree he's not a true White Knight. But notice how you see more articles discussing the imbalances in education and the downside they seem to think the most important/urgent to discuss is the fact that WOMEN WILL HAVE A HARD TIME FINDING A GUY THAT OUTEARNS THEM. Fewer articles discuss that you will have more unemployed and possibly underemployed men if the trends continue. A lot of the discussion in dating difficulties focus on women's frustration and th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/10/19 03:44 PM |
| 19 | [48F]"I always felt so safe with 6 ft, 400 lb felons."This has got to be the most repugnant and delusional dating ad I've ever seen. On top of all the other red flags, are there people really so dumb or lacking in self awareness to think that spending a whole paragraph about your ex bf (that is an ex con) is a wise dating strategy? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/10/19 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Should men have less hang ups about girls who did porn in the past but are now retired?Better to do porn than rob a bank. The stigma is nowhere near as bad as a felony conviction I wasn't making a direct comparison. My point is that instead of robbing a bank, you could commit some financial fraud or similar crime and get even more money for less risk. Just like if you are going to sell your body for money, there are ways to do it that can earn similar or more money than the small amount a porn star will make in say six months of shoots resulting in their hardcore scenes online for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Should men have less hang ups about girls who did porn in the past but are now retired?In addition to the fact that anyone can watch your girlfriend having sex on their smartphone, doing porn is a really bad financial and life decision for most girls today. It's just not enough money relative to the costs involved and yes, the current social stigma. I've seen many 'porn stars' that are posting their test scores on Twitter, advertising their availability because the work has run out. Basically begging for work. Doing porn is a big life changing decision, not as big as having a kid,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you think there would be a market for gestating human babies in genetically modified pig wombs, and if so how would this impact the SMV and RMV?I think this technology is about 50-100 years away, and by then, I think the concept of a nuclear family will be a thing of the past and that will prevent most men from wanting it. I think most women that want kids will want to do it naturally but I think fewer women will want to have kids at all by then because the concept of a family will be dead by then. People will still have kids, and I suspect there will be a market for artificial wombs, but I think it will be rare at that time. So I don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Chad pumped and dumped, I don't use protection, now I am pregnant."The sad part was that I told him that I would take care of everything, abortion of course and he knows I would do it if I ever got pregnant, but I just needed to talk to him just because he is involved in this situation but he doesn't care at all" Wants to 'talk' to someone that WAS involved but no longer is = welcome to alpha widowhood. Not trying to start any arguments, but her quote reminds me of a caller on ' The Atheist Experience' that Matt Dillahunt told to him live on air that "YOU ARE … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/05/19 04:08 PM |
| 3 | All her other pics just showed how Tatted up she was.What does she own, an mlm business or something? Also, she has three kids but doesn't indicate that she is recently divorced. So she either had three kids with one guy (possibly husband) a long time ago and left him to 'upgrade' to her string of ex-boyfriends, OR (more likely), the string of ex boyfriends are the baby daddies. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/05/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | The Child support catastrophe by DalrockLook at those Japanese, throwing away hundreds of years of tradition and increasing out of wedlock births by 100%!!!!!! /s | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 12/05/19 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Don't worry ladies, you don't need to settle if you're over four decades old; also, why can't we find love?But I still have faith in men. I believe they have also been damaged and alienated by cultural perceptions of relationships and masculinity, and I think we should persist in modeling what it is we need them to be as partners by standing firm in our own values. I believe men are more than capable of being quality partners (with and without means and education), because after five years of being single, I now call many good men, my good friends. Translation: even after her middle age epiphany, she… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/04/19 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Girls and their orbiters are a mutual beneficial relationshipIf it were in fact a mutually beneficial relationship, both parties would usually be satisfied with how it ends. But that is never the case. Sometimes both the orbiter AND the girl are not satisfied with the outcome when it ends. Whether the girl is a bad person for letting the relationship continue is debatable, but the orbiter does not really benefit from the relationship. All he gets is false hope and most people don't want that. If he is informed that he has no hope but continues, that's all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Claims that female mate selection favors evolutionarily superior men aren’t scientifically supported. What gives?'Good genetics' for most of human history would probably mean the ability to escape other predators and physically compete with other men and height is probably a good indicator of that, all else being equal. But as one of the articles indicates, being tall today is correlated with a higher caloric diet, which means that by the time a taller person reaches 40-50 years old, they've absorbed a lot more carcinogens than shorter people (on average). But, even today, most Chads will have already prod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/19 07:53 AM |
| 9 | I am looking for a genuwine REAL MAN."If there are any REAL MEN, truely genuwine, and down to earth MEN, where are they???" Proceeds to post the most repulsive, unfeminine photos. Real men are out there, they just want real women. She probably had a chance to lock up some guy when Ginuwine (she couldn't even MISPELL that right) had a top 10 hit but couldn't find one good enough or did and he later found a real woman. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/04/19 12:34 PM |
| 15 | Women that have an open and seductive personality will have an easier time getting men than women who are simply beautifulI see two issues with your statement. First you don't define what 'ugly' means. Second, although there is nothing wrong with a woman being seductive and picking up random guys, most women don't want that. Any woman that's not grotesque or seriously obese can rack up a high n count if she makes it clear she's DTF. Due to the scarcity of low-effort sexual encounters with women, any woman can probably have a very high percentage chance of getting a random single guy to sleep with her, provided her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/19 10:58 AM |
| 8 | Translation: "I want to trigger your inner white knight by focusing on the fact that I'm dying and making you feel bad for swiping left, while swiping left myself if you don't look like Michael Phelps."But if I was 25 and looking at death in the face, I can't say that I wouldn't want love before crossing the finish line, and as far as I can see, that's the extent of what she's asking for I actually had a similar view as you, I was thinking "where is she asking for a Michael Phelps type guy"? I guess there are two reasons that this post fits the sub: It's the weekend, and the requirements are relaxed a bit on weekends, so that alone could make it allowable. She is (regrettably obviously), suffe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | [28F] wants it all. Sex with other guys, a loving husband, a little house on the prairie and a little cock from the milk man or whoever. Alarm bells go off when her meal ticket starts feeding other women.After some snooping over a day or two, I have found evidence that he is meeting her for evenings out and lunch. You know in that song "Me and Mrs. Jones", that part where he talks about how they meet up at a cafe at a certain time but they have to try and not get their hopes up that it will become more than that? I guess this guy is supposed to do the same, but instead whenever they meet for casual sex they share a cigarette and try not to get their hopes up that they can have dinner together. "… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/19 03:35 AM |
| 2 | With her obsession with you owning a pet, one must wonder if this bitch has been dumped for a dog a few times.OP you have a 94% match! WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR! Just remember her golden rule(s): If you have a pet in your life, SHE comes first. If you have ANYTHING else in your life, SHE comes first. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/03/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | "[every man I desire] has the exact same thing in common: he is unattainable."This woman can't be accountable because she's delusional. As referenced in another comment, she broke into the apartment of an ex to delete a topless photo he had on his phone, cause she 'thought' He might do something vindictive with it. It doesn't even seen like he even made an actual threat, and she had no qualms with breaking & entering: [Link] (https://www.whimn.com.au/love/dating/i-broke-into-my-exs-house-to-delete-my-nudes-off-his-phone/news-story/698d20c245438b55499ee0bc1680c842) | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/19 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Because we haven't talked about sexbots enoughYou mean 'Her'. I predict there will be two important milestones in the creation of sexbots: 1. The point when the sexbots are virtually indistinguishable from real humans physically and 2. The point where the AI is sophisticated enough that the sexbot's speech and behavior can trigger emotional responses from people. I think both of these will happen in the next 25-50 years, barring some huge shock to civilization. Men will know that a sexbot is not a real woman and doesn't really 'want' to fuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men rejecting ugly women is as sexist as women rejecting men for their height.Men don't find taller women to be more attractive, at least not the way women feel about taller men so I don't know why they would say that, unless you mean gay men. I'm responding to the OP's assertion that women find taller men more attractive in part because they are more successful. I'm saying that COMPONENT of attraction should not be a major factor in a gender equality world. It would be like saying that women find white males more attractive because they are more successful. But that succ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:25 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men rejecting ugly women is as sexist as women rejecting men for their height.It's a conditioninal statement. IF women find taller men desirable simply because they find them more attractive, it doesn't hold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:10 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men rejecting ugly women is as sexist as women rejecting men for their height.Taller men are more successful today in part due to the biases people have either due to evolution or social conditioning. If it's evolutionary, it will be difficult to overcome just like it's difficult to overcome a reluctance for guys to date ugly women. If it's just due to some mistaken belief that taller men make better leaders, progressive women should be able look past it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 03:54 PM |
| 4 | There goes the neighborhood: A look at the RP mentality of “enjoy the decline”.White knights are as much to blame for the change in the sexual marketplace and most TRPers should acknowledge this. And I think college is unaffordable in the U.S. due to our culture: most people are dumb with numbers, and play the game of trying to get into the best school as possible and borrow as much as possible and worry about the consequences later. But with many people doing that, colleges can raise their prices even more encouraging more borrowing. iIT's my opinion, it's similar to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 12:55 PM |
| 9 | Local woman I'm friends with on Facebook. Surprisingly, she's not the only one in my town that posts shit like thisI don't understand #5. What the heck is that about? Is that a sophisticated shit test? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/03/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | There goes the neighborhood: A look at the RP mentality of “enjoy the decline”.I've always viewed "enjoy the decline" to just be a cynical view of people's behavior and accepting that it's futile to fight the overall negative or unfair effects of social media, third wave feminism, affirmative action, etc. Yes, these things do have positive effects but the overall effects on society can be negative, or at least negative if you are a white male. If you are in an avalanche it's futile to try and fight it, I think you are just supposed to try and 'swim' with it and stay above … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 12:28 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Being fuckzoned is worse than being friendzonedBoth can be bad but you are making assumptions that a woman friendzoning a guy is truly a friend, but often it is not mutually beneficial. Often the guy is the one who is always there for the other person, willing to pick her up from the airport, etc. Of course he's an idiot for doing that if he thinks she will eventually find him attractive. I guess both are bad if they are preserved through outright or implied dishonesty. If a guy sleeps with a woman and suggests he'll be more than a fuckboy t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 04:22 AM |
| -7 | I just find this rude...It's possible the profile was sarcasm. Not sure though. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/19 11:53 PM |
| 4 | 21 with Chad's 2nd on the way. I want happinessIt looks like an engagement ring actually. I've noticed some delusional women will claim they are married or engaged, referring to some guy as their husband even though are not. I don't think I've ever seen a guy do that. Some guys May not care if some girl refers to them as a fiance/husband as long as they are still having sex. Not sure what was going on with this one though. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/19 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Would you ever wife a former pornstar?She’s hot and has nice boobs. I like boobs Even after being damaged by that hockey puck? I don't consider her hot. She's about average but has a great body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 05:22 AM |
| 3 | Would you ever wife a former pornstar?Unlikely. I'm assuming you mean a star that stuck around longer than a few months and made over 10-20 movies/scenes. Porn stars today, partly due to the proliferation of free porn on the internet have to rely on social media, camming, selling snapchats, to make enough money. This means in addition to possibly being alpha widowed, she's had the experience of hundreds if not thousands of suckers giving her daily validation. Some porn stars have wish lists and some suckers will buy stuff without ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | This winner from my home town, who has four kids, all by different fathers; doesn't appreciate when you ask about her kids' fathers.One topic not to touch with me - Are all your kids by the same father? Girl, it sounds like if the are Chad or Tyrone you let them touch anything they want. Except maybe the condom drawer. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/03/19 11:54 AM |
| 2 | I need a beta bux simp to help teach my 2 boys how to be accomodating pussies. Also i am the most important thing in your world, make sure you have the time and money to do what I want...always.The delusion is thinking that she can find a desirable man IN HER EYES that is interested in something long term. Most guys interested in a long term relationship aren't going to consider a woman that is 47 with two teenage sons. And the ones that do will most likely either be below her physical standards and/or unwilling to put up with her ridiculous demands. I'm probably in the minority here, but I think she has aged OK, assuming her photo is recent. The lack of a full body shot may mean she's… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 4 | She wants someone funny.Should say "If you liked 'One Day at a Time', Van Halen, are still living in the past and your best years are behind you". I think those are her most likely legitimate matches. It IS also a narrow group of men, but at least it's a group that would even show up. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/03/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Who is ready to pay child support?Sucker: "Hey thanks for swiping right. I read your profile and it's awesome. We're having a Game of Thrones night want to come?" Her: "Ew, that's only for Dorks and losers" Sucker: "I dont understand, your photo was captioned 'Mother of Dragon's' ???" Her: "Oh, Dragon is the real baby daddy but don't worry about him. He ain't been around for, 12, maybe 13 weeks" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/03/19 06:36 AM |
| 1 | 31 single mom tired of hookupsI'm gonna be honest, I'm too scared to date King Kong Bundy's daughter. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/02/19 08:03 AM |
| 53 | Unwanted EggsI think some may misunderstand the woman's post above the link. It confused me at first at least. The woman in her thirties is saying that she can't DONATE her eggs any more because I think only donor eggs from younger women are bought by fertility banks. We don't know if she did or ever wanted to have kids. At least that's how I interpret it. The blue lipstick individual (prefers the pronoun 'they' as she is non-binary) wants to be sterilized but faces obstacles because she's still in her twent… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/19 10:53 PM |
| 20 | Those insecure men are yet again Rejecting Career-Driven Women for Being "Too Successful"While many men will say they want to date smart, driven, and ambitious women, in practice this does not always seem to be the case. HOLD THE PHONE! You mean sometimes the type of partner people actually prefer to date doesn't match up with the type they SAY they want to date??? My God, I think this article is on to something! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Is political division the cause of the disparity in the SMP?No, any disparity in the SMP and RMP is due to the fact that it is now a relatively unregulated market. Previously, it was more regulated due to different marriage laws, social shaming, etc. - these things helped ensure a higher percentage of the desired outcomes of the time (less premarital sex, fewer single parents, more women paired with men that could be providers). Now, people are much freer to engage in as much sex with as many partners as they want and there are fewer social pressures to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How important is having the ability to propose in a relationship, and whyIf he was being henpecked, any barrier to marriage would be a blessing in disguise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 4 | How important is having the ability to propose in a relationship, and whyCan you give examples of when a man DOES NOT have the ability to propose marriage? I'd say it should be possible for any unmarried man in a relationship over 6-12 months. Heck a guy could propose after the first date but that would be considered weird in most cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/19 08:57 PM |
| 2 | "The Lonely Amazon", directed by kevin32I can't wait til all these embarrassing women die off, so men will have no choice but to date us strong women. By the time that happens, any men left WILL have the choice to date AI sexbots that act the way they think feminine women act, the women they are actually attracted to. It's also possible that by then, what we think of as men may be extremely rare in the developed world, maybe even extinct. We may be on the course where anatomically male and females have similar behaviors, fashion, hair… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/02/19 07:35 PM |
| 11 | Single Mother Marries, Has Affair While Dad Watches KidsMeanwhile she spent $260 at Vic Secret, got 2 facials ...I think she got a few more facials you don't know about yet. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?You expect people to click on a nsfw photo of a person of questionable maturity? You trying to get purple pillers arrested? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?Not if the minor is under 13. He probably didn't have sex with her, but the strict liability applies to all sexually related offenses. Regardless of the law, it's still a valid question to ask if he really believed she was 19. I don't think he thought she was over 16, but none of us will ever have all of the facts of the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Guy gets sent to jail after girl lies about being 19 yrs old. Was justice served?It sounds like UK. It's hard to judge this without knowing what age the victim would appear to a reasonable person, not just on looks but also based on conversation, etc. Because of her age, her identity will be kept secret, as it should be, so it's only the judge and (if there is one) the jury to determine that. It's hard to imagine a 12 year old being mistaken for 19, but you'd think there would be other clues. A 12 year old served in the US Navy during WWII so it's theoretically possible, alt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Toyota Super Bowl ad: Does anyone honestly believe 'Toni' Harris, as talented as she is, has a chance at playing in the NFL?My question was with the assumption that she made it to the NFL based on merit, or at least if that is what her supporters and admirers believe. It's possible some that support her do believe she may make it just as a political statement by the NFL to promote gender equality and not due to her ability, but none of the articles or comments indicate that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/19 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Toyota Super Bowl ad: Does anyone honestly believe 'Toni' Harris, as talented as she is, has a chance at playing in the NFL?A recent article says she is 160lbs, but every photo I can find of her in uniform, she looks closer to 130lbs, which I think I read in an older article. Even 160lbs would be unlikely for a male DB with a low body fat %. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How much money would I have to pay you to switch your gender?Could you clarify what kind of transformation? Would you be the same level of attractiveness and the same age? Would you have any memories of your life prior to the change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | My terrible life and how you can get there too! (Analysis in comments)She's a good looking woman. No, she's not super hot. But she's attractive enough to have been able to get someone she was attracted to interested in her. I think this was true 25, maybe even 10-15 years ago but it is no longer true. This is a woman who has hit the wall hard. I'm basing this on her videos, and some of those videos are at least a year old, so she had to be less than 50 when they were made. Whether it is natural aging, smoking, or excessive tanning, her looks have decreased substan… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/02/19 05:45 PM |
| 11 | She has four "relationships" this year. Any guesses why they didn't work out?IT'S SO UNFAIR! I SHOULD BE ABLE TO SWIPE LEFT ON HUNDREDS OF GUYS AND THE CHAD THAT I SELECT SHOULD SLEEP WITH ME AND STAY WITH ME 4EVA! ISN'T THIS HOW IT WORKS FOR OTHER GIRLS??? FML! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/02/19 12:43 PM |
| 3 | She's currently 19. Kids father has never even seen the baby. She's been single for more than 2 years. Quit her job at McDonalds and now spends most of her time posting get rich quick scams of FB.I bet you that get rich quick scheme she's promoting is the Motor Club of America ponzi scheme. And look at those other suckers commenting. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/01/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Are you tall, educated, and want kids? Are you in luck!Calm down guys, we shouldn't be so harsh and we should forgive Bea for being in 'The Star Wars Holiday Special'. I think she redeemed herself later with 'The Golden Girls'. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/01/19 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Feminist discusses her frustrations with dating and lack of chivalry "Do I want a free meal? Well, who doesn’t?"And not sure what you mean by my comment history, except for the occasional satire post, I put a lot of thought into my comments, even if the ideas aren't politically correct. Thanks, now I'm even more worried about doxxing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Feminist discusses her frustrations with dating and lack of chivalry "Do I want a free meal? Well, who doesn’t?"So satire is trolling now? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Feminist discusses her frustrations with dating and lack of chivalry "Do I want a free meal? Well, who doesn’t?"I normally don't comment on a writer's appearance, as I think it's just ad hominem, but I'll make an exception in this case. Ever see that movie The Cell? She reminds me of the villain in one of his dream state avatars. He was like this built androgynous doll. Did you see her traps? She either has great genetics (depending on your perspective) or she's paid her dues deadlifting and shrugging. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Feminist discusses her frustrations with dating and lack of chivalry "Do I want a free meal? Well, who doesn’t?"True story: during the 50's and 60's I was a civil rights activist, because I 100% supported racial equality. It was such an important part of who I was I always described myself as a civil rights activist when asked to describe myself. I even attended some of MLK's marches becaue they were so important to me, and I was even invited to some of his meetings. But my close involvement in the movement came to an end when I suggested to MLK and some of his followers that maybe the movement was moving… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/01/19 05:58 PM |
| 16 | I dumped my long term SO to find myself and went with another man, now rejoined the dating pool and can't find anything other than a fuck buddie in the largest city in USA, should I broaden my dating pool?The main issue with this poster is that she's delusional. She's not ugly, but she's not very attractive either. I've seen what she looks like but won't say how, and I'd say, objectively as far a raw beauty, she's somewhere around a 4-6. But, she won't appear that attractive to a lot of men, as she has a style which she describes herself as Afro-Punk. This is not very feminine, so to some Chads she might as well be a 1-2 even though with a more traditional look she'd be much higher. That's just h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/12/18 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Too much female independence means more lonely men? Is this true and if so what do we do about that?If you want something from someone, you have to offer them something in return (unless you are a brute and just take it). Female liberation and to a certain degree, socialism (and mixed economies like the U.S.) result in fewer things that women want or need from men. A man's task is to obtain something of value to women by improving himself and his status if he wants women to desire him. If he is unable to do that due to really bad circumstances (grotesque face, extremely low height under 5 ft o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | TheRedPill's quarantine demonstrates reddit's commitment to free speechCorrect, but businesses shouldn't advertise that they are offering a service that is actually different than what they are truly offering. Nor should a company go around and proclaim a list of core values that they don't really hold. Quarantining is not banning but effectively it is close to it. I have not been able to access TRP since the quarantine from my phone and have not found an easy solution. I understand the banning of subs that were ruled to be tantamount to harassing people like r/fat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] How to escalate with a woman at work without blatantly asking her on a date?It's not worth the risk. Try to keep it cordial and may be if you totally switch jobs or move to a department several miles away it may be worth trying. Even the latter is probably too risky in today's environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: is dating an irrecoverable dystopia for men?You'd need to define what true love is. I'd say for men, any thought of true love requires the presence or hope of genuine sexual desire from a woman. If he knows from square one that a woman will never desire him sexually, I think it's almost impossible he'll develop true love for her. Society has fooled a lot of men into thinking they can be sexually desirable to a larger subset of women than they actually can, so they do feel love for women they would not if they were unplugged. Women are sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Sister asks about plates, what should I do?You tell her it's fine to be a plate if that's what she wants when she's an adult. You tell her you don't mislead a any plate and that you are just having fun. Maybe when you are ready for something more a plate or new girl can become an LTR but that's not what you want right now. Because sex positivity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel society discourages women from taking responsibilityYes, at least in the U.S. But a lot of the blame for this goes to men especially whiteknights. Consider a woman crying loudly in a cafe because her bf broke up with her. If this goes on for too long, people will start approaching her, asking her what's wrong, telling her how her bf is an idiot and it's his loss, etc. No one would even consider telling her any unfortunate truth even if that's what she really needs. Now imagine if some guy was crying in some cafe. Very unlikely anyone would approa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/18 09:31 AM |
| 5 | Question for Red Pillers: Should a wife disobey her husband if disobedience is in his best interest?I think the question is moot because she really should just leave this man, and I don't think redpillers would disagree. I think you are taking an extreme view of "wives should respect and obey their husbands". Even if she restricted his food intake, at some point he'd have enough mobility to feed himself. What then? A man should make a reasonable, good faith effort to give his wife what she wants (if it's reasonable) and vice versa. I think this guy stopped doing that a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | How much traction will the me too movement have in changing the way men behave around women?He didn't just get 'busted'. He admitted his actions and said that they were the reason he started the company, cause he knew he had contributed to the problem. I wouldn't call his crimes sexual 'assault' but I would say they were sexual misconduct, but not so great that he has to hide under a rock for the rest of his life. He didn't just get 'busted'. His clueless SJW employees just didn't think that their boss could be one of the 95% of men that have done something improper of a sexual nature … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Would some feminine men be more attractive to women as crossdressers? Interesting topic.My guess is to create relationship/romantic interest, he'd need to be like one of the most super famous cross dressers in the world. Otherwise, he's just a pet or a friendzoned weirdo. Tons of women would hook up with Danielle Radcliff, but only cause he's super famous and rich. If some regular guy looks like him, he probably struggles with most women. Just because a man can generate interest from women doesn't mean it's genuine, sexual interest or can blossom into sexual desire. I'd argue that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/18 02:55 PM |
| 8 | What Is This Subreddit's Stance on Issues Pertaining to Sexual/Romantic Ostracisation?Make no mistake, Elliot Rodger was so messed up mentally and so narcissistic, even if he was hitting it out of the park in all areas (looks, wealth, etc.), he'd still be very antisocial and generally unlikable. Best case is he'd be someone like Charlie Sheen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Why do married men become pussy whipped?Take away a person's ability to walk away and you'll see things like that, and it's not easy for men to walk away from marriage, especially with kids. You ever wonder why cable companies offer sweet deals to new customers but don't offer them directly to existing customers? Because they know most existing customers won't leave! If you threaten to leave, they might offer you the same deal, but you still have to ask for it. Although it's regrettable, dread game does work in some situations but oft… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Q2W: Would you accept to sell your eggs for a surrogate maternity?I know they are different things, but I'm surprised that the 'King of LBFM' would be so against the organ trade. What's so wrong with people willingly buying and selling organs? At least in First World countries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 01:20 AM |
| 22 | SAHMs report being happy because they chose that lifestyle.Who is claiming that all women would be happier as a stay at home mom? Is that a position you are claiming TRP has? Whether a woman will be happy as stay at home mom is obviously going to be correlated to whether they want to be a stay at home mom, like almost anything. But what you are missing is the fact that whether a woman even considers being a stay at home mom an option is in turn related to what kind of gender roles she has accepted as normal/preferable for men and women as well as what k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/18 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Post a picture of what a perfect 10/10 female body is to you. Ignore the face.Maybe something like this: link . Dolly Castro is close to a 10/10 body, but the super lean stomach isn't necessary. There's really a variety of body types that could be considered 10/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/18 05:19 AM |
| 2 | is it bad or immoral if at 23...No, not at all. The question is whether it is hypocritical/inconsistent with the values she supposedly holds or portrays. Pursuing a career as an artist can be synonymous with saying you plan on being unemployed for 50% of the rest of your adult life, so unless your partner doesn't want you to contribute financially or is rich enough to patronize them like Ayn Rand, I wouldn't fault anyone for breaking it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/18 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Is a man or immoral if at 23....No, depending on what you mean by "leaves her". If this just means he seeks other romantic interests, nothing immoral about that. People leave their significant other all the time when they can't fulfill their romantic needs and in this case their was no engagement or talk of long-term commitment. I think he should still be supportive though and provide company when possible although this may turn off selfish bitches potential girlfriends. If it were me and it was confirmed that the cancer was t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 08:15 PM |
| 6 | Q4all: do you think men would be happy in this type of society?No, because it takes away the ability to walk away. People often get taken for granted in such situations. Look at the cable companies. Do they willingly offer their best deals to loyal customers they've had for years? No, not unless they threaten to leave, which most customer won't do due to the hassle or lack of other options. But they'll willingly offer great deals to new customers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/18 10:22 AM |
| 3 | How can so many people be entering romantic relationships if only a fraction of the population is physically attractive?The percentage of conventionally unattractive people is not as high as you think, at least for women. A woman who is under the age of 40-50 would need to be really obese or grotesque to not be able to generate sexual desire from most men, assuming she's trying to. I'm not sure how much physical attraction a woman needs to maintain a romantic relationship but it's possible non physical traits may help in keeping a relationship going if the man is no Chad. Not everyone woman will dump her man for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Should sex bots have rights?No, not unless they are conscious, which may be impossible with machine only androids. Even if it is, we are probably decades if not centuries from creating such machines that have full consciousness. The issues will arise when we get close, because the machines will be bound by their programming. How do you know what a machine 'wants' if you control its programming, even if you establish that it does, in fact, have true 'wants'? It brings up the whole 'free will is an illusion' dilemma. Which r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/18 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Dolls vs ProstitutesThe problem is, sex can also be a horribly unhealthy bonding experience. Not that people shouldn't strive for the positives, but sadly many people will never see the positives, or even if they do it may be a net negative in their overall lifestyle (think ugly beta bucks). This reminds me of a quote from a song: "Question: what is love? Answer: it's the same as hate if you're not careful." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/18 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Nothing is wrong with the Casual Sexual Market PlaceNo, it's not a free market as you describe when monetary exchanges are illegal and other exchanges are considered abuse of power tantamount to rape. But the regular sexual market place can be seen as a free market. Women just don't have the same demand as men and won't accept substitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/18 02:37 PM |
| 2 | It's socially acceptable for a woman to destroy a man's property after a bitter break-up, right?You forgot that popular song by Carrie Underwood about destroying a man's truck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/18 02:17 PM |
| 31 | You don't get to determine how attractive you are. You don't get to determine what you deserve.A better way to put it is: YOU DON'T GET TO DECIDE WHAT TRAITS OR BEHAVIORS THE OPPOSITE SEX FINDS ATTRACTIVE! Some of these you have control over, most are due to genetics and you don't. You're a guy and expect women to like you because you like to share your feelings? Hope you like the friend zone. You're a girl and decide to get a pixie cut because it supposedly works for Emma Watson? Great, you just turned off 50% of your current dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 10:22 AM |
| 10 | Have any of you ever known a popular, attractive young woman who ended up a cat lady? I haven't.The hypothetical woman you describe is rare but I believe the frequency is increasing. The reason is due to one of the causes of the middle aged cat lady - women not willing to admit that they are no longer as desirable as they once were, relative to other single women. These women are rare but as more women focus on their education and careers their attractiveness goes down over time (one factor) but due to social media their abilities to recognize this and accept it is lower (another factor). … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/18 10:00 AM |
| – | What's worse: A woman who spent her youth having casual sex and meaningless relationships or a woman who spent her youth on her careerFew people respect stay at home dads. It's a very risky choice for most men, however noble it may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/18 11:39 PM |
| -6 | Q4Men Post a picture of what you consider an average girlEmma Stone and Emma Watson are close to what I think the average, non-obese woman looks like, with Watson being the slightly more attractive one. I know I'll get some flak for that (mainly listing Watson), but if neither were famous I don't think they'd be anything special. Now I know many will disagree here, but I think if you take a random girl of similar age who is not obese, there's about a 33% chance she'll look better than Emma Watson, a 34% chance she'll look roughly the same level, and a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How over is it for me?Aren't there loopholes? Like can't you marry a tree or something and then divorce it and then find a real wife? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/18 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Q4Men: Do you think most women overvalue themselves in the SMV/RMV?SMV: No, most women don't underestimate their value in the SMP, because most women have tremendous value in the SMV, IF they are sexually available. A woman would have to be really obese or grotesque to not have a lot of value in the SMP. RMV: Due to the RMP being relatively monogamous (one to one), a lot of women probably do overestimate their RMV. The population willing to 'buy' what a woman is selling in the SMV is almost always larger when she is available in the RMV, unless she's a 9 or 10.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 07:48 PM |
| 3 | The year is 2018. What's the status on the "three date rule"?Of course it's satire. I don't doubt that you are sincere in your reply, but you are basically punishing the guys you supposedly desire the most, and rewarding the ones you don't. This obviously isn't your intent, but that's how I think most guys would see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | The year is 2018. What's the status on the "three date rule"?I can speak from experience that being the second guy you mentioned, the guy girls are 'meh' about utterly sucks. The first guy gets to wait weeks or more for sex while their dates get emotionally invested in them and meanwhile I can have sex with dozens of women in one month that act like they don't know me the next day. One of those first guys you mentioned even was so clueless he even suggested he might want to trade places with ME. I couldn't control it I started crying immediately. Trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/18 09:47 PM |
| 1 | If the key features of a high smv man are looks, money, status and game/personality what are woman's?In the SMV, it's a balance of looks and sexual availability, or at least being able to signal sexual availability. That's it. For the RMV the key features are a little different for women, there is a threshold for looks that can't be offset by sexual availability (this threshold is different for every man, of course). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/18 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Married couple sign up for tinder - female vs male experience.Woman will always have tremendous value in the SMP, even after they hit the wall, if they are offering casual sex. There are simply too many guys seeking casual sex compared to women offering it. An average looking, married guy that has just turned 40 won't have any luck on tinder. He has nothing to offer that isn't offered by younger or more attractive guys. Nothing he offers is scarce. If he were single, no kids, solid financially he could have more luck but tinder is not the best place to loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 04:50 AM |
| 3 | Married couple sign up for tinder - female vs male experience.No, can't you read? She's a solid 6, maybe a 7 with mascara. Don't argue with her 'truth'! From that pic, she appears to be at least 20lbs overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.It's a legal advantage due to the biological differences and leverage a pregnant woman has (a potential human being that only she can choose to abort/deliver - depending on applicable laws). It's not fair, but I don't see the Law doing anything to balance those differences. Allowing 'financial abortion' COULD solve it, but it won't happen, because of taxpayers and 'the best interest of the child'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.I'm discussing ONE of the advantages of being female and having the right to choose whether to bring a baby to term. Even if what you describe can be considered a significant disadvantage, it doesn't eliminate the other inherent advantage having a uterus provides. Whether it is a NET advantage is not part of this thread. That being said, based on the number of women voluntarily having children out of wedlock, I don't think as many women actually fear it as you imply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 06:51 PM |
| 7 | CMV: During sex, men commit to the possibility of a child. Women commit to the possibility of pregnancy. So men who regret impregnating a woman only have themselves to blame.Bottom line, in matters of life and death, only trust those who you trust in matters of life and death. For most people, that's like maybe one or two people (Mom and Dad) and almost never includes a sexual partner you've only known for a fraction of your life. It sucks when women lie about birth control, and that they can enjoy unprotected sex with full autonomy of the outcome, but that's a biological advantage they have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Anti-slut Defence vs the growing numbers of women doing porn?Only a small number of women do porn. Some are escorts just trying to get exposure while others honestly think they can hit it big and make a career out of it even though the success rate is low, partly due to the internet taking potential revenue away and a continual supply of other amateurs trying to hit it big. The number of women willing and able to do porn is still small but it is definitely equal or greater than the demand so it's -EV for most aspiring porn stars. There's so much porn out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/18 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Many, Many Women are Unlovable Because of Their LooksA lot of those guys are probably betas that don't get nearly as much sex as they want from their partners. Most women aren't so unattractive that they can't get their partners to be loving towards them, IF they have sex with their partners at the frequency their male partners want. Unless their partner is obese or really, really grotesque looking, I'd say the average man 20-45 years old can have sex 7-18 times a week. Most women don't have the same desire, especially for a non-alpha, and after m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/18 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How much are problems in the American SMP and SMP influenced by the opiate epidemic?The opiate 'epidemic' is not widespread in the US as the media may have you believe. There are some rural counties that have been hit hard but it hasn't affected a serious percentage of the population. As others have said, the SMP has been impacted the most by obesity and I think marriage rates have been impacted by obesity and female upward mobility. Focusing on education and careers has eliminated many marriages that may have occurred when men and women were under 25 years old. Once a woman ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think is the best piece of Red Pill advice?Best piece of advice to me is based on a post I read, and it is relies on a few assumptions: First assumption, there are two main types of males that women will spend time alone with: The men she will dress up for, take effort on preparing her hair, makeup, etc., when she knows he's coming over. The men she will put on sweatpants and won't worry about her hair, etc., when she knows he's coming over, will do shared interests with, but may spend a lot of time telling him her problems too. Best pie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Movies where the male lead spins plates, doesn't commit, and is portrayed positively? (besides James Bond)You aren't going to see that type of character that often because many movies revolve around a typical romance focusing on one woman per man. If the male is the lead and he's spinning plates, it's almost certain the movie isn't a romance or typical drama and will be some action like James Bond or outrageous comedy like Austin Powers. The only exceptions I can think of are the main character in 'Alfie' (although he does have flaws), and Owen Wilson's character (not the lead though) in 'How do You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/18 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who has seen multiple prostitutes?Probably not. A woman who has seen male prostitutes multiple times would have to be a very high status/rich woman and either very unattractive or very hard to please. There is an abundance of males available to horny women, if she used prostitutes quite often it would be a sign she is either TOO high value or TOO low value, if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Can we discuss SeekingArrangement.com?There's a whole sub for the SA crowd. They even have their own terminology like POT for 'potential' sugar daddy. A lot of women there claim they aren't prostitutes and that they would never sleep with a sugar daddy they wouldn't sleep with in real life but you can make your own conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Will "sexbots" change the dating scene?You're ignoring the supply/demand factors with escorts as well as the privacy issues in most countries. None of those will be an issue once reproducible sexbots are available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/18 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Will "sexbots" change the dating scene?It will when they become a reasonable substitute to sex with humans. Right now I think they are at least 5-20 years away from this level, but barring a severe depression I think they eventually arrive. Some have argued they won't be created for decades or longer because the only ones who could afford them initially will be rich people (who can get sex from real women and have no use for them). But even middle income men right now would pay $100-200k for a suitable sexbot if one existed, and with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | BETA BUX ExampleHe didn't marry her, and it's his house. So you got to admit he's doing some things right. He could kick them out if he wanted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/18 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Why would an attractive man need TRP? What's the purpose of it for men with ability with women?TRP is a framework of theories/ideas about how women behave and how the SMP works. You don't 'need' it the same way a naturally muscular fit man doesn't need to understand bodybuilding, strength training or hypertrophy. A proper understanding of TRP isn't needed if you are getting what you want out of your relationships. That has no bearing on whether TRP is generally valid or beneficial to other men, or whether TRP properly describes women's behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of the opposite sex are objectively inferior to masturbation, in your view? (Long)It's just a metaphor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of the opposite sex are objectively inferior to masturbation, in your view? (Long)Are you assuming the woman is into it, and willing to dress in such a way to increase attraction from me and other men? If so, and provided she's in shape (not excessively skinny or obese), I'd say somewhere around 75-90%, depending on their age. If it's just starfish sex, maybe only 1-10%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Questioning Marriage/Relationships like an atheist questions God?I think you touched on it, but the idea accepted by most is that almost everyone is capable of loving and accepting their partner for who they are, and providing unconditional love and support to their spouse. I'd say only 1-10% of people are really capable of this. This wasn't as much an issue in the past because external factors and biological needs made marriage somewhat mutually beneficial, at least during the first few decades of marriage (yes, men probably benefited a little more from marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)So he should be banned for life from every having any position in the church? I'm more Pastafarian so doesn't really concern me, but to me that seems harsh, especially considering the whole forgiveness part. Heck, Paul murdered a lot of Christians before becoming the denial facto leader of the early Church. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)Are you a troll? That's like saying asking someone to prom or a marriage proposal are 'assaults'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/18 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)The issue isn't about him being removed from his position 20 years ago. It's about an incident from 20 years ago which appeared to be resolved being made public because the young women believes she was sexually assaulted. If you believe she was assaulted and its ok for the media to portray him as a sex abuser that's your opinion, I'm asking for arguments why the 'victim's' and the media's portrayal is accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)Can't post links right now, but just google 'Andy Savage' and you'll see plenty of articles. Even the NYT and Washington Post have articles about it. I don't know exactly what she wants. Seems like maybe she wants him to be fired and also wants to share her story so other 'assault' victims will have the courage to speak up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 07:36 PM |
| 6 | Red Pillers do you realize that women are not the reason why the free market declined?I don't know if any actual link can be shown for the U.S., but the stats and polls I've seen for the U.S. show that women are heavily more liberal than men. There's significant overlap across gender and race though, I'm just speaking averages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)Assistant youth pastors have little, if any, authority over students (just based on my experience, it may be different in other countries and churches though). Also consider that he was 22 at the time and she was 17. I think the risk that he will do this again is extremely small, and is up to the church and congregation to decide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)So he should be publicly accused of a crime he probably didn't commit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Encouraging men to be more open about their feelingsAs a society I think we are moving away from the extreme he describes. I don't think it's a big deal for a young boy to cry if they bang their knee, but a teenage boy is expected to handle it tougher, but I don't see the problem with that. I don't think it's as big a deal for a boy to be into cooking once he reaches the age where he can operate an oven himself. My question is if we as a society have a problem with being too accepting/sympathetic of female displays of emotion? If a young female s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)He was eventually forced out of the position. Probably not quickly enough, but he did leave. So are you saying that since he wanted to have sex with a 17 student about to graduate when he was 22, 20 years later as a married man he's still a risk to sleep with a student? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?We should teach whatever the current legal standard of consent is, at a minimum. Beyond that should probably be up to parents, church leaders, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: Would you prefer validation even if it were dishonest?Objectively, no. Wanting to believe something doesn't make it real and has marginal effect on whether you DO believe it, IF you are truly enlightened. That's why all this 'success is the best revenge' is BS. Success IS always good, but it doesn't erase past rejection. If you win the lottery and truly enlightened, a random 9 may be more desirable than the 5 or 6 you fell in love with but rejected you. Why? Because although you can be almost certain the 9 is only into you because of your newly att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 01:24 AM |
| – | Can we downvote comments that don't add to the conversation from either viewpoint?I don't know what the exact criteria would be, but I think it would be better if the mods just deleted meaningless comments like the one you cited. It contributed absolutely nothing and with the responses below it, it makes the thread messy for no good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/18 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4PP: What makes you purple?I lean heavily red because I can not accept most blue pill ideas. Simply wanting something to be true doesn't make it true. That to me is the essence of blue pill. (In other words, just because something is anti-redpill doesn't mean it's truly blue pill). But believing that selflessly giving someone want they want will result in them giving you what YOU want (which is probably different) doesn't make it true. I'm not totally redpill because some of the sidebar are extreme exaggerations. Few thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Women should help men out with happy living without sexSo if I'm an avid book reader/collector and can't walk into a bookstore without leaving with a bunch of books (all obtained legally), should I seek advice from an illiterate since he or she us doing OK without ability to read? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/17 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How do arguments with your SO usually go?Anyone have this type of argument: Her: "Well, the body is like 98% water" Me: "That can't be accurate, I don't think it's quite that high" Her: "YOU NEVER TRUST ME! I can't believe you treat your girlfriend LIKE THIS!" Me: "No, it's not that at all, it's not about you, I just doubt that it is so high" Her: "LEAVE ME ALONE, I don't want to talk right now!" Me: "I suppose if your family tree were made up of mostly Water Elementals with a few Humans you could be 98% water..." Her: "What are you ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/17 10:53 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Proof! men are doing it to themselves!Are you high on something? Schizophrenic? That's some borderline word salad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/17 05:09 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "Married RP" is not RP and the only good end game for RP men is MGTOW.Not necessarily. There are still traditional women in certain countries and even in the U.S. you can find some redpill women or truly objective first wave feminists that can lead to a successful marriage, from the RP man's perspective, that is. However, unless you are a true alpha, it may be getting difficult for men to ask for regular sex, respect, and support from their wives without being labeled a misogynist or emotional abuser from the average woman in some countries. If that is a man's onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: "Married RP" is not RP and the only good end game for RP men is MGTOW.Marriage may be inconsistent with extreme RP theory but that doesn't mean that married men can't apply RP principles when applicable. One thing that RP gets right is the fact that at the end of the day, your best negotiating tactic is your ability to walk away. Divorce/Family court obviously take some of this away but men can offset this somewhat by being as high value a man as possible and staying in shape. None of this matters if the woman refuses to respect or appreciate what her husband stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/17 08:56 AM |
| 0 | Q4Men: How can women protect the feelings of their male friends if they are not romantically interested in them?Yes, some women are afraid to be blunt because they fear a backlash, but this is usually unfounded. If she really fears a response like that, maybe he's not the best friend/acquaintance to have. More often though, I think it's because of two factors: Not wanting to appear shallow and/or a hypocrite. Genuine reluctance to make people feel bad. It's much easier for most people to give people useless advice (just be yourself!/there's someone out there for you!) or just let someone drag on with fals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/17 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: How can women protect the feelings of their male friends if they are not romantically interested in them?Maybe two things the woman can do: Don't ask him to do anything you wouldn't expect a girlfriend to do unless it's completely random or unplanned (like you are driving in your car with him as a passenger and you get a flat tire and ask him to change it). If it's obvious he likes you in ways that you know you will never be able to reciprocate, tell him, that as far as you are concerned, he has no penis and never will. Tell him he's just like a girlfriend to you, only stronger and without any risk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/17 02:24 AM |
| 2 | What does the Purple Pill think about this conversation from Up in the Air?I don't feel sorry for average women that have unrealistic requirements that rule out a large chunk of eligible men, many that are also average too. Few woman can have everything, any woman that thinks she can needs to objectively evaluate why she thinks she is an exception. It's a coincidence but interesting that the role you quote was played by Anna Kendrick. She 's definitely not ugly, but she's not really beautiful, even outside Hollywood. So although it's fiction, that is a good example of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/17 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Q4MEN: Would you rather have a stereotypically feminine or a stereotypically masculine woman?I'm not sure what you're getting at, but of course most, if not all, men would choose the stereotypical feminine woman. Your stereotypes are extreme, women actually do well in high school and college they just haven't been pursuing the STEM fields after high school as much as men (at least in the U.S.). If the stereotypical masculine woman you describe was actually quite feminine for 1-3 hours a week, you might get a lot of men to pick option #2. I know this isn't realistic though based on the t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Does lack of pursuit on your part indicate lack of interest?Despite my name, I'm mainly purple pill. One of the things I agree with TRP is the emphasis on abundance mentality and having an IDGAF attitude. Rejection sucks, and it is very, very hard for average to below average, maybe even slightly above average guys to pursue women unless there are obvious signals of interest, which would rule out pursuing women they don't know well (cold approach). Especially guys in high school or maybe even college where any rejection could be a source of embarrassment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/17 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Is porn demeaning? If so, is it demeaning to men or women? Why?I don't think women have to do kinky stuff necessarily to stay in the business, it's just that if they don't hit it big, they aren't in demand for repeated shoots since there are plenty of hopeful newcomers willing to take their place. I wish the show would cover the economics of this. It's more a supply vs demand thing than straight exploitation. I saw the film but not the series. Fortunately the female talent can make extra money through webcamming or social media but even with that some women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is porn demeaning? If so, is it demeaning to men or women? Why?I'd say some types are demeaning, but most aren't. I don't think any of the major megasites display any truly demeaning scenes but that is subjective. I think your #8 is wrong though. Although men are identified by their large penises only, it's not as often a focus (maybe due to the ubiquity of large penises in porn), just look at the names of some of the titles in straight porn and lots of them have to do with the female anatomy (titles focusing on big tits, big asses, etc.). I don't think tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/17 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Louis CK Statement: Contrition or a Bad Precedent?Maybe he's just a perv. Of course, you can't spell dick without CK. Too soon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Louis CK Statement: Contrition or a Bad Precedent?That's a Weinsteinian dynamic, but that's not why he's claiming what he did was wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/17 03:53 AM |
| 6 | Louis CK Statement: Contrition or a Bad Precedent?Because no one assumes that exposing yourself after asking in a private home or rented room is considered indecent exposure. I think that would be too broad of a definition and I'm surprised you'd think it would apply here. Husbands could conceivably accuse their wives of indecent exposure if they exited the bathroom with no clothes on. Keep in mind Louis CK claims he asked first, so even if they said no, which he implies they didn't, they would still have some expectation it could happen (grant… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/17 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Louis CK Statement: Contrition or a Bad Precedent?It's usually intimidating because you want them to like you and make a good impression. That can create fear but not fear for your safety or your job. Those women could easily say no and walk away. Unless we want to get into a discussion of whether anyone really he free will or not. Even if they reacted the way they did due to physical fear, my point is that's not the way in which Louis CK is saying he abused them. He's saying that their admiration is enough to give him power to abuse them. Labe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/17 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Louis CK Statement: Contrition or a Bad Precedent?With all due respect the situations these women were in were quite different than the one you described, at least based on Louis CK's statement. He's claiming his power came from their admiration of him, not fear. Your example seems a little bit racist, unless I'm misunderstanding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/17 12:35 AM |
| 1 | TV/Movies Heavily Push the Idea that Average/Ugly Men Date Elite Looking womenIt's because men liking looking at hot women and the show will get better ratings. Unless the female role is supporting and/or unattractive by design (think Ugly Betty or Blossom on The Big Bang Theory), the leading ladies will be at least above average in attractiveness. Some dramas are exceptions like Better Call Saul but it's not trying to get every demographic and the leading lady is still at least average looking. No guy thinks he can snag a hot wife if he looks like Kevin James unless he h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/17 05:15 AM |
| 2 | "Rape by Deception"Look, we're on the internet here, /u/Kralee posted a few different links each having several different cases. We don't know which one you are referring to. We have to assume you are referring to the original story they posted about, which as Atlas said, is a nonsense definition of rape. That guy is a lying scumbag, but he's not a rapist. The current laws in the U.S. are clear that they try to protect and individual's right to sexual autonomy. Unless you want some type of nanny state where the go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | [Shower thought] When a man achieves a college degree, his dating pool increases. However, when a woman does it, hers shrinks.As long as a woman is attractive and sane, she'll have a pretty large dating pool. Getting a degree doesn't decrease the pool a whole lot, but it does narrow her taste in the fish she's fishing. Both effects are somewhat involuntary, but the second can be overcome. This is usually described as 'settling' or 'lowering ones standards' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/17 05:07 PM |
| 4 | The psychopathy of Red PillYou need to be specific what strategies are harmful. Is keeping a clueless guy as an orbiters selfish? Immoral? I have no problem with selfishness based on rational self interest. If TRP advocates something contrary to that, I wouldn't do it. That doesn't mean that TRP as a whole is psychopathic. Taking it to an extreme to further your own interests might be, just like religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/17 01:47 AM |
| 8 | The psychopathy of Red PillRedpill is about sexual strategy. You're free to treat friends and family and strangers however you want to. If you are trying to get sex from someone, being super nice is not always, possible never, a good strategy. This doesn't mean you need to be mean to women, but being cognizant of what works and what doesn't work for average guys is the point of TRP. I don't see anything immoral about abundance mentality. Going full dark triad may lead to some behavior traditionally considered immoral, but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/17 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL:Do you agree with this FB Post?Simply being pressured to do something you don't want to so is not a broad definition to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL:Do you agree with this FB Post?I'm not sure if she was claiming that her worst experience was sexual assault or sexual harassment. It might meet the definition of harassment because he was blocking her. My concern is that her broad definition of assault and harassment could make almost any encounter with the opposite sex a potential assault or a case of harassment, even encounters much much tamer than the one she describes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/17 08:54 PM |
| 11 | Q4 average and attractive people, what would you do if you woke up tomorrow as a 2/10?Nothing would change. I don't think I'm a 2/10, somewhat higher, but nothing would change. Everyone including women love me for my personality and what's on the inside. I know cause they told me so. Haha just kidding. I'd try and make as much money as possible, and in terms of dating try and find a 4-5 mail order bride. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/17 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Dawn of the Sexbots: How does the dating market change?I doubt they will every be truly self aware. Initially they will be programmed to have certain responses, which, even for humans, are most involuntary. But with sexbots we can fine tune them for specific owners. You know the response Stacy has when Chad walks in the room with no shirt on? Well imagine Incel Ichebob getting that daily. You're suggesting sexbots will evolve to only feel that way about real Chads. I think that is very unlikely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 04:48 PM |
| 8 | Dawn of the Sexbots: How does the dating market change?But if a sexbot meets your sexual needs, why do you need a validating relationship with someone from the opposite sex, unless you want children? I do wonder what % of men and women that are married or in LTR actually get genuine lov, support, and loyalty from their spouse or SO. Nothing can compare to a loyal, (especially attractive) spouse that supports and praises their partner on a weekly or daily basis. But if you aren't getting that, which I imagine is the case for a lot of people, does it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Field report: Got my hair did, thought of something that could help incelsReally unattractive incels probably won't hire escorts because they also want genuine affection/companionship. Incels with social disorders or narcissism probably won't do it because they don't think they should have to do the work or pay anything for sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Men, would you LTR a woman who didn't shave her legs and underarms? Women, would you/do you not shave?Yeah, on my small smartphone screen, I didn't really notice the hair, but those bugs bunny feet were obvious. I don't think it's disturbing, just doesn't match my idea of femininity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 07:46 PM |
| 14 | Men, would you LTR a woman who didn't shave her legs and underarms? Women, would you/do you not shave?Even if she did shave, I wouldn't consider her feminine looking. I don't think I'd date a woman that didn't shave if the hair was very thick and dark. If it is relatively thin, especially if the hair is not too dark, it might not be an issue. Why would I not date such a woman? Probably the same reason I wouldn't eat a cake shaped like a dog turd. I know there's nothing really wrong with it, but it's easier to just find another cake than overcome my aversion to it. Sometimes life isn't fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | The word regulated is in the 2nd amendment, so let's actually observe it. Everyone who is willing gets a musket, and any firearm above a musket is illegal. Seems fair.What does 'above' a musket mean? Is it like the SMP where everyone can be categorized on a 1-10 scale? And I don't think regulated means what you think it does in the 2nd Amendment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | I wish the place I lived in had only 4'11" non white girls. It would make dating easier.Any marriage comes with risks. Don't propose if something is off or if she'd be a 9/10 in the US and you're like a 2/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I wish the place I lived in had only 4'11" non white girls. It would make dating easier.Get a mail order bride. Seriously. I've been meaning to make a post asking why more incels don't consider a foreign bride after a years of failure in the SMP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Incels are shitty narcissists. They're worthless to themselves and have no faith in themselves like a good narcissist has. [SERIOUS]Someday I'm going to make a post about this but there are at least two types of incels. One type are the narcissists as you describe. The other are 'legitimate' incels due to extreme unattractiveness and/or psychological disorders (like severe anxiety, aspergers, etc.). The question I have is for some how much the psychological problems are influenced by physical shortcomings (which can impact interactions with strangers or even how much a parent favors one child over another) versus perceived p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Dicussion: Perfect substitutes to sex and relationships.Don't buy a boat. Remember - if it flies, floats, or fucks, it's cheaper to rent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 05:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Plastic surgery is the logical conclusion to the SMV-raising that red pillers should advocate.I've also advocated limb lengthening as at least a consideration for men under 5'5 as being 5'7-5'9 puts you on another planet in the dating world compared to being 5'2-5'4 but most said that was crazy. I think it is extreme, but being that short has to be an extreme experience average to above average-height men can't understand. Plastic surgery is even safer and established, if someone has a legitimately unattractive feature I don't see why it should be discouraged. However, often people think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/17 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Science: Indians with big cocks don't exist.Wouldn't it make sense that they have a lower standard deviation? They had a much larger sample and the sample was probably ethnically homogeneous while the US sample was smaller and probably racially diverse. Maybe some John Holmes (RIP) or Mandingo snuck into the US study. Also, the mean length for the Indians was basically the same for the US (actually a little longer). I must admit, this surprised me. The girth for the Indians seems smaller than the US, but again, the US is probably a racial… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you agree with this gilded TRP post in which a TRPer tells a rape victim that she should be happy that it happened and that it was merely LMR?That would still entail some manipulation of her underclothes by SOMEONE. I didn't feel the need to explain that 'removed' could mean a few other possible actions too. I was just working under the assumption that when a woman who is previously fully clothed, wearing underwear, PIV can't begin without some adjustment of the clothes/underwear, even if they aren't fully removed, and how this occurs is relevant to whether her claim of rape is believable or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you agree with this gilded TRP post in which a TRPer tells a rape victim that she should be happy that it happened and that it was merely LMR?The user posted a story about a possible rape, and I was just discussing on plausible scenarios where it would or wouldn't be rape. What's the point in discussing some obscure possibility that wasn't even mentioned in the account? Yes, it's possible he inserted inside her with her panties still on. If her dress was loose enough, maybe he even inserted with that covering her crotch. What's the point in discussing this if everyone adds very unlikely details that weren't mentioned. Goodbye PPD, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Do you agree with this gilded TRP post in which a TRPer tells a rape victim that she should be happy that it happened and that it was merely LMR?She was wearing a dress, but I'm assuming she was wearing underwear. You think they had piv sex while her underwear is on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do you agree with this gilded TRP post in which a TRPer tells a rape victim that she should be happy that it happened and that it was merely LMR?No, I don't agree with the post, but it should be noted that the poster does not believe she was actually a rape victim. I'm not sure if she was or not, it's possible, but I don't know if there is enough information in the post to determine that. If the alleged rapist removed her clothes/underwear, then I'd say it's 100% rape. We know that she got on the bed with him, and that he got on top of her (her account). In order for him to get inside her, her clothes would have to come off at some point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Implications of realistic sex robots/androidsIn the first 1-12 months I don't think things will significantly change, as they will be very expensive and out of reach for most men and women, even in first world countries. The turning point will be when they are affordable for the average consumer. I don't see realistic sexbots arriving in the next 10-20 years, but I do think they will arrive at some point. One redditer said that they will probably never exist, but I find this very unlikely unless something cataclysmic happens. Eventually th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: All-female colleges are the best way of stopping campus sexual assault.Fratboy Chad doesn't need to use force, coercion, or alcohol to get Stacey to sleep with him. It's Beta Bob and low tier fratboys that sometimes do. Chad may have no interest in sexbots (I think even some Chads will have interest in sexbots when the technology is perfected) but that's because he doesn't have to work hard for sex. As navigating the sexual market becomes more difficult for men (and women) and sexbots become more realistic, there will reach a point that the negatives from having se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: All-female colleges are the best way of stopping campus sexual assault.So you want to segregate by sex just because a miniscule percentage of men are rapists? A better solution that wouldn't require safe spaces would be to increase funding for the development of realistic sexbots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Eyeopening look (short Netflix documentary) at a real life Chad's dating life/use of mobile apps..In general, people should be honest about their intentions, but if he hasn't made any indications he's looking for a LTR it's not his fault some tinder babe thinks she'll be an exception. It's not really much different from women who have multiple orbiters but never explicitly tell them that they are unattractive to her they'll never sleep with no matter what he does for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/17 02:38 AM |
| 1 | The cost of a stay at home wifeIf the woman is married but is a SAHW, the money earned by her husband IS hers too. And being a SAHW IS a purpose. It's just not a very respected purpose or option as it used to be. I agree, no one, male or female should consider staying at home due to the risks of a divorce making them vulnerable. Unless the other spouse is making an enormous amount of money it's just not worth the risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | The cost of a stay at home wifeThe problem with your analysis is you are looking at everything from your perspective before being a bachelor and after marriage. In this context, your analysis is basically OK in my opinion. But your wife has the potential to have her own career and allow you both to earn money collectively. While this does increase stress and may not be an option you or your wife is open too, it's still an option. So in this context you have to look at your wife's potential income as an opportunity cost of bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | If you were put on a committee tasked with programming an android companion to be the perfect woman/man, what are some things that come to mind that you would add?WARNING: May be a long response, and I may not fully answer your question. However, I hope that if I don't answer, I at least explain WHY I am not providing an answer. First, for a split second, your question almost made me reverse my opinion on one of the common objections to sexbots: that sexbots are bad or won't be in demand because they can't provide an "emotional connection". It is correct that sexbots won't provide an "emotional connection" that matches a human emotional connection (at lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/17 04:35 PM |
| 1 | The Collapse of DatingI agree with most of your points, but looking at your post history you seem to be big on resiliency, sustainability, and having an idgaf attitude toward today's society's standards and expectations. This is a good thing but I'm wondering if this can decrease your potential dating pool, either voluntarily or involuntarily (if you give off too many 'bad' vibes to women that still want a traditional relationship/family). Of course if you are Chad you can get away with saying a lot of things that ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 11:21 PM |
| – | Men Legally Allowed to Finish Sex Even If Woman Revokes Consent, NC Law StatesI don't see anything really wrong with this bill, but I think the whole article is misleading. MEN (OR WOMEN) ARE NOT LEGALLY ALLOWED TO FINISH even if their sexual partner revokes consent in NC! It's just that the way the old law is written pertaining to consent, a person can't be guilty of rape for not stopping if consent is revoked. They can, and should, be guilty of other crimes if rape is legally not on the table, but the old law as written doesn't allow for a rape conviction under those ci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/17 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Exhibit A: The Fully Oedipalized SubjectThis is probably fake as UMD does not have a valedictorian. Whether it is a stunt to get exposure, who knows? The truth will come out eventually. And I don't even agree with a lot of his points. True friends don't judge you? A true friend will judge you and tell you it's a dumb idea to drop out of college two weeks before getting your degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/17 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Did the father do the right thing in this situation?He should just say no more having sex with strangers in his house. She can do that at her own place on her own time, so if she wants to continue that life she's free to leave or find her own accomodations. If she somehow ends up in a LTR I suppose he might be open to having overnight visits on a case by case basis, but that's up to him. Of course, his daughter is a long way from being LTR material. Some terpers would argue she will never be LTR worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Is there a compelling reason to support the relative indifference to homeless men in the U.S.?If you look at the full report in the link, there are about 4500 homeless in the Seattle area, and about 3500 of them are adult men. That's about 75%. The number of of homeless indoors (in shelters or transitional housing) is about 6000, and adult men are about 40% of that. These aren't exact percentages but rough calculations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 09:52 PM |
| 3 | The state can evict a man from his own house during divorceSomewhat off topic, but was the "How can she slap?" video from India or another country? One of the first things I thought of when I read your post - a bunch of white knights kicking a man when he's down because they see a 'victim' of the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/17 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill thoughts on Climate ChangeSince TRP is about accepting reality I would think most redpillers would accept that there is in fact climate change and at least the possibility that humans have contributed to it. How much and how big the perceived long term risk will vary based on each person's assessment of these factors as well as their optimism on technology helping mitigate some of the impending changes. That being said, TRP is also to some degree and egoism movement. Why should I or anyone care about climate exchange's e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/17 01:40 PM |
| – | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?Fortunately this is not something I have to think about, but my view would be that, given how much society and especially women focus on male height, I'd rather be a 5'5-5'6 male with funny proportions than a 5'2 male with regular proportions - assuming I could still move around without being a total klutz. At 5'2 you have to be hitting everything out of the park to even be noticed as a male in the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?I've looked at her before/after photos from the front via Google and it definitely makes a huge difference, but from the profile photos you posted she doesn't look better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?I was trying to think why the one on the right doesn't look better than the one on the left. That definitely was improvement of the nose, but overall it doesn't seem to make a big difference in her appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 09:09 PM |
| – | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?I never recommended limb lengthening to anyone in this thread. I only said that the benefits would be dependent on how short a person already is. Are you saying that a man that is 5'2 should never even consider limb lengthening? If he could increase his height to 5'10 why not consider it. If it's too dangerous, please add some commentary instead of just saying it's not a viable option. I did note that it was an extreme procedure. I don't see why men in the bottom 10% in height shouldn't consider… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 09:04 PM |
| – | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?Is that even the same woman? It's hard to compare as she is not even smiling in the photo on the right. Her face actually looks better on the left but that could be due to the lighting and the frown on tho photo in the right. Assuming the nose isn't so distracting from a front view, I'd take the left girl that's smiling vs. the RBF on the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 07:28 PM |
| – | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?I don't know but they've been doing nose jobs for decades so whatever complications that are common have been documented. I doubt there are any severe side effects after a few weeks but that's just a guess. If you haven't really struggled in dating I doubt a nose job would make much difference. If you've been struggling in dating it COULD be a factor but I wouldn't be so quick to blame it on your nose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 07:19 PM |
| – | Should unattractive/ugly men consider plastic surgery to increase their SMV?Your question is too broad to answer as any type of surgery you have to consider the cost/benefit. The benefit will vary from person based on their appearance and what their goals/values are. The short answer is YES, unattractive guys should at least consider it. Short guys should also consider limb lengthening surgery, but the incremental benefit is totally different for someone going from 5'4 to 5'9 compared to a guy going from 5'11 to 6'4. Facial appearance is probably the same way. If a guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do you think this person is a nice person?The thing is, everyone is shallow to a certain degree, but hardly anyone wants to admit how much they are shallow. In fact most want to disguise it as much as possible as society in general praises those that appreciate 'inner beauty', etc. To fit your original analogy, many of the reddit 'nice guys' would be like somebody going up to the charity donater and saying "can you give me $500,000 so I can buy a house. I see how you don't value money and like to help those in need". The other person re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Do you think the mother was right?Heck no. It's bad for several reasons. First, he's 17 and not having two kids to be responsible for lifts a huge burden from him. Like Steve said, some doors are closing but others are opening for him. It will obviously suck for the mother but that's on her. It might also suck for whomever the real father is now, but as Mr. Pink said in Reservoir Dogs "Some guys is lucky some guys ain't". Another reason it's bad is that he may not have any legal rights to the kids. He might act like a father and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/17 04:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: 99% of young males who claim to be traumatized by sex with an adult woman are lying in order to obtain money in a lawsuit.I think it's rational that the experience totally changed him and left him broken, similar to how a super high n count can indicate a woman is probably damaged. That teacher gave birth to his kid, so that also is a factor. It can be argued that a random encounter may not result in permanent damage to all teenagers, but I do think that an adult grooming a teenager (male or female) over time and creating offspring with them can have a detrimental effect, even if the victim doesn't see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 03:39 PM |
| – | CMV: 99% of young males who claim to be traumatized by sex with an adult woman are lying in order to obtain money in a lawsuit.I think it's rational that the experience totally changed him and left him broken, similar to how a super high n count can indicate a woman is probably damaged. That teacher gave birth to his kid, so that also is a factor. It can be argued that a random encounter may not result in permanent damage to all teenagers, but I do think that an adult grooming a teenager (male or female) over time and creating offspring with them can have a detrimental effect, even if the victim doesn't see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/17 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: 'Curvy': Can technically overweight or obese women still be attractive to non-thirsty men? Where is your personal limit?I can't comment on your physique but the face shots aren't bad. A little of a Shailene Woodley thing going on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: 'Curvy': Can technically overweight or obese women still be attractive to non-thirsty men? Where is your personal limit?Yeah, I was trying to pose the question as neutral for both pills, but what I really meant for the first question was, "would you bang?" and not whether you would find them suitable or unsuitable for a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/17 06:14 AM |
| 0 | Q4all: If you lost $10000 every time you had a fling. What will be different?You need to be more specific as to what a fling is and what qualifies as a LTR. It sounds like what you are proposing would simply discourage or eliminate casual sex and ONS for most people. Smart people that wanted to break things off would just pretend to be in a LTR to save money. Who knows maybe some of them would end up staying together before the time limit expired. A more interesting question would be, assuming divorce rape is still an issue for men, what would happen if women had to pay … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Man pushes woman into having baby and ends up as single dadHe's an idiot, assuming the story is not some satire. And not just for choosing to get this woman pregnant and pushing her to have the child, but thinking that courts would force visitation when the parent doesn't want to. If courts were able to force parents to be involved in their kids lives when they don't want to, there would be a lot less broken teenagers and young adults, which is why I think this is satire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/17 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: Aren't whiteknights just old school pick up artists?I think you are misusing the term 'whiteknight' (at least the reddit term of 'whiteknight'). What you describe is closer to a reddit 'niceguy', i.e. a guy that thinks that by complimenting and assisting a girl he is entitled to her romantic interest. I'd define the reddit 'whiteknight' as a man that goes overboard with compliments and assistance (including physical defense of the woman) in cases where the woman either: doesn't deserve it (due to irresponsibility, obvious guilt, lack of virtue, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/17 03:24 PM |
| – | A post for people who are against child support to readI don't see how this would affect anyone's opinion on child support. If you want to compare two things fairly, you have to look at all of the costs AND benefits of one and compare it to all of the costs AND benefits of the other thing. Child support is usually around 20% for one child and often the child support payer has to pay for the child's insurance too. Those who pay usually only have custody for limited periods each month and don't have as much influence in raising the child, choosing whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/17 12:22 AM |
| – | Girls settling for betas allows betas to fuck out of their leagueYou're basically saying that after a woman hits or approaches the wall she can get a betabux by offering sex. TRP doesn't dispute this, it just says it's not the best strategy if some self improvement is possible to get women to want to have sex with you. Yes, some guys are so low SMV that few if any women will WANT to have sex with them, but being a betabux with the risk of being cuckolded is an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/17 10:37 PM |
| 5 | Non Stacys and Beckys and even Janes got attention. It was just that they didn't get attention from Chads.I'd say average to below average women in high school get plenty of interest in high school but the fear of rejection deters a lot of non-Chads from directly asking them out. It's not just fear of being rejected, but also everyone in the entire school knowing you got rejected. There's very little upward mobility in the social structure in school past the 7th-8th grade but certain failures will definitely be remembered for awhile. Even one semester of shame is like an eternity to a 16 year old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/17 04:09 PM |
| – | Discussion: 75-year study finds "The Secret to Happiness"I don't know what conclusions you can draw from those figures as the income gaps are so high the group at the bottom has to include a lot of men that are essentially making zero dollars. The differences in income they site are larger than the median income! I doubt the parenting factors they examines could make such a big difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is rooted in fearIn many ways TRP is just the consequences of rejecting the just world fallacy as it applies to the SMP and adjusting behavior. Maybe some of the assumptions are wrong, but to say it is mostly based on fear is an unfair portrayal. Would you say that BLM activists are unhappy because their movement is primarily based on the fear that doing what cops tell them may still get people killed? Would they just be happier human beings if they just rejected the BLM movement and accepted an alternate narrat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You don't need sex.I'd expand your post before it gets deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/17 12:36 AM |
| – | CMV: Marriage 1.0 ended and the men of the Red Pill still don't understand the direct repercussionsPerhaps men in the anger phase don't understand this, but part of the reason Trp exists is because marriage 1.0 is dead and access to sex from women is not as simple as having a job and putting food on the table. That doesn't work anymore in developed countries and the whole reason trp exists is to explain what works and what doesn't work in the SMP. Also, just because marriage 1.0 was unfair to women doesn't mean men have to accept marriage 2.0 if it's equally or even less unfair to men. That's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/17 12:07 AM |
| – | CMV: Most guys who are in the friendzone are happy to be there.No, most guys are not happy to be in the friend zone. They would much rather not be in the friend zone. If they were somehow convinced that they had zero chance of a romantic relationship with the woman they orbit, they would decrease the amount of time they spend with her. If they were truly happy to be in the friend zone, such brutal honesty would not cause them to deorbit the woman they are orbiting. Most guys in the friend zone may appear to be happy there, and in fact may really be happy th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/17 01:01 AM |
| – | Q4All: Is anyone lying about this case? "Lawyer uses hypnosis to sexually molest 6 women against their will?I don't think anyone is disputing that he TRIED to use hypnosis to get the women to do sexual acts for him, or allow him to touch them. I think the debate is whether hypnosis can allow a man to influence a women to be receptive to his touching, and be aroused, and even potentially orgasm from him and not even be capable of resisting or even remembering it. I mean, if someone were to wave their hand in front of a woman like a Jedi and say "you are attracted to me. you can't resist your desire to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/17 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Is anyone lying about this case? "Lawyer uses hypnosis to sexually molest 6 women against their will?For clarification, the case never went to a jury to decide. He agreed to plead guilty to kidnapping and other charges in exchange for a 12 year sentence. And he was a lawyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/17 02:10 AM |
| – | Gendered differences in "crazy"Was she your ex before or after you called the police 6 times? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/17 06:54 PM |
| – | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?I said 'creating' the child, not raising or financially supporting the child, so I don't know what your point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 11:19 PM |
| – | Deconstructing porn habits and the lust for mom-sex via Pornhub's YIRI think the average age for a woman in a MILF title is about 26 (people do lie about their ages though). The popularity of the search probably has more to do with the other factors that have been cited in this thread (nostalgia, maybe the thought of sex with an experienced pleaser). Also, due to the perceived age of the performer I think a lot of the appeal is similar to other somewhat common fantasies like a secretary or librarian, i.e. getting sex where it's unexpected or not allowed. Of cours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 04:03 PM |
| – | Q4Women: What policies would you pass that will incentivize men into favoring marriage?Are you saying that out of wedlock children are a problem and then blaming the gender that 1) biologically contributes the least time and resources to creating the potential child and 2) afterward has no say if the potential child is even carried to term? Wouldn't it be better to try and prevent this situation from ever happening? Personally I don't think it's the state's responsibility if a woman chooses to have a child with a man who doesn't want to be a father or husband. Let's face it, outsi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Introductory powerlifting is most men's best bet to improve the attractiveness of their physique to the largest pool of women. It is also not that hard for most men to do.Not exactly. There are a lot of bodybuilding routines that call for using leg extensions and cable crossovers which are useless to a lifting novice. But I agree that until a lifter can squat 1.5 X his bodyweight for 10-20 reps, there really should be no difference between training for strength vs. size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 11:54 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Shaming Incels, omegas and other unattractive people for their gross sexuality is a practice of freedom of expression.Freedom of speech, at least in America, mainly means you can say what you want without worrying about the government or some other organization punishing you for what you say (as long as the speech isn't criminal). You don't have to accept anyone's sexuality, but shaming them for it can result in you being ostracized. If you want to shame omegas or fatties, that is your right but it may cost you a lot of friends or employment opportunities, even if you can find a way to logically explain why sha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 04:35 AM |
| 3 | If I see a woman I don't know being raped, am I obligated to save her?What kind of question is this? Assuming this isn't a troll, no, no one is entitled to your protection. However, being raped is an emergency situation and the ethical obligations to fellow human beings in such situations are a little different than normal, everyday situations. So if you can do so safely, call the authorities and then save her. If you can't do so safely, you can still intervene but no one can demand that expectation from you, just as you can't demand it from them. This really isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | British woman has surgery to get a longer jaw, becomes beauty queen - is she hotter?Definitely huge improvement. Her main issue was the teeth. There was an xxx star named Vanessa Figueroa, her before pictures look a lot like Vanessa F but with really crooked teeth. So if she had just gotten her teeth fixed and remained in shape, that would be enough to move her to above average. Of course the jaw surgery resulted in even more improvement. I think the transformation is slightly exaggerated as she does not appear to be wearing makeup in the before, but only slightly exaggerating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/16 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Is a guy that does the reverse of AF/BB a jerk in your eyes?You are responsible for contracts and agreements you voluntarily enter. If its not a contract you aren't responsible for others expectations and are not a jerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: How can you go around calling people and things "Red Pilled or "RP"?Red pill in the Reddit context is a sexual strategy that rejects conventional beliefs or teachings that are based primarily on how society wants or feels the world works rather than how the world really is. In the broader sense redpill is just the same type of thinking going beyond sexual strategy. Not a good example but remember when that middle Eastern woman won Miss USA? BP: we are expanding our definition of Beauty! RP: No we haven't. She still is relatively thin, with long fine hair, just a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | "you only dated Chads"What is the name of the song they are playing? It's a different genre but it sounds a lot like 'Hell Awaits' by Slayer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/16 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Is ''The Wall'' genetic or environmental?To me the wall is where a woman sees a sharp decline in her ability to get what she wants from high value males - usually validation and commitment. This usually happens due to aging looks and to some degree declining fertility. If a woman simply only desires sex from men her wall may be 10-20 years later than the average woman if she stays in shape and has decent skin. There are always rare exceptions. At 35 Meghan Markle is currently dating a Prince. I do wonder how much this is due to the Pri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Some men can never be alphas. Their SMV will always be relatively low no matter what.I don't think that TRP would disagree with this. Nobody wants to be a beta but they shouldn't be vilified if that's all they can be (white knights are a different story). Your example would be someone I'd say is borderline mgtow due to the cost/benefits (in the West). If he can get a desirable woman as a beta that may be his best strategy. In his home country it would be different though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/16 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Quick Q for RP men onlyAn actually serious non-trick question - if a woman agreed to sex specifically with a condom, and the guy turned out the lights and didn't put on a condom while lying that he put on a condom, would you say that's rape? First, to the OP question, that would clearly be rape, as consent was given, but then consent was taken away, and it was clearly communicated, both verbally and non-verbally, that consent was being withdrawn. To your specific question, I think it would be up to the courts to decid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/16 06:27 AM |
| 1 | "Friend" teasing me for a year, but I cant get herForget her, move on. She is never going to give you what you want if you keep trying like this. She's getting what she's wants from you and sex isn't one of them and probably never will. Just move on, keep minimal or no contact. If she contacts you be cordial but be sure to let her know what a great time you are having. She may suddenly show some romantic interest once you break out of her orbit but honestly it will be too much work to have anything intimate with her. Also, in the current legal … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/16 06:27 PM |
| 14 | The most important muscle group you are probably neglecting in the gym.I think if a novice does starting strength or something similar they shouldn't worry about neck exercises. Until you can deadlift 300+ lbs for reps, neck exercises are probably a waste of time. Neck size and traps can be improved but I think genetics will limit the maximum more than most muscle groups. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Short men have it harder dating not because they're unattractive, but because of the social stigma associated with dating a short man.You're still young, work on what you can, and save up for limb lengthening surgery as a last resort 6-7 years from now. If you then feel like it's no longer worth it or you meet your unicorn, you'll have at least saved up a lot of cash. It will probably be a lot cheaper and safer in 6-7 years time. Thus may seem like an extreme solution, especially considering there are drawbacks in addition to the cost. However, I only mention it because at your height, it's the single thing you can do to expan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/16 02:59 PM |
| -1 | Short men have it harder dating not because they're unattractive, but because of the social stigma associated with dating a short man.I won't try to change your view, but how old are you? If you are under 25, you can consider limb lengthening surgery. Of course you'll have to have your legs broken first. If you can't afford it, start a GoFundMe page and explain your story. Heck, even if you don't want to do it, someone start a GoFundMe page like this to troll all the "just be yourself" crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/16 02:14 PM |
| 9 | Why was Madonna considered a sex symbol in the 80s?Take a look at her earlier videos like Material Girl and you'll see she was well above average in appearance. She later adopted an edgier look with much shorter hair which could be argued to be somewhat androgynous. But it was her original feminine good looks plus sex appeal that made her famous. I don't think anyone on trp would disagree that a 5 or 6 with the right dress/makeup will get more attention than a 7 or 8 that dresses like a Pentecostal. edit:typo, clarity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/16 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Do you think reforming sluts deserve happiness?Do you think they deserve an honorable, committed, loyal, and honest man? If they are now an honorable, committed, loyal, and honest person, then they are WORTHY of relationships with people with similar qualities and that would also include romantic relationships. That doesn't mean they DESERVE it, which, as others have pointed out, is difficult to determine. A better question, but no easier to answer, would be should she suffer any consequences of her past promiscuous behavior (we'll make the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/16 02:51 AM |
| 8 | Asian women hate Black menIt's low, but you need to account for the averages, it's low for all men. There is a difference, but percentage wise it's not as different as the low absolute rate may suggest. For example, the rate for black men is a little lower than Asian men when sending a message to an Asian woman, but both are lower than the rate for white men messaging Asian women (which I think does support some of the OP's claims). | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/16 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Girl gets rejected by a guy in relationship, blames it on society. PPD what are your thoughts on this scenario?This has less to do with the fact that she's Asian and more with the fact she couldn't land a possible Chad. There's plenty of betas she could get, white, Asian Hispanic, African-American she just wants to blame racism for this one rejection. Now it's possible that most Chad's DO prefer white women but she's not entitled to a Chad anymore than a neck beard is entitled to her. She's an above average looking woman (maybe not on campus though), she could easily find another man for casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/16 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Can it be rape if she doesn't say no?This sounds like quid pro quo. He's not (as described) threatening to put her in danger, the element of danger is already there - it's just a matter of frequency. She would normally have to be in the most danger 1 out of every 10 missions, he reduces this to 0 out of 10, allegedly in exchange for sex. His motives are debatable, he could be changing the rotation out of genuine love or it could be in exchange for sex she consents to (but reluctantly). Either situation is not rape. If he threatened… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/16 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Shouldn't we try to make women less hypergamous to solve the problem of incels and undersexed betas?'We' shouldn't do anything that violates someone's individual rights no matter how noble the desired outcome is (barring situations where individuals' rights might be violated out of necessity, like quarantining a community to prevent the spread of disease). If there is an imbalance in male incels or even ma le access to regular sex from women with a similar SMV, we should try to find moral ways of changing that imbalance. That could mean finding ways of improving incels' SMV if they are willing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Women from local newspaper\ news agency threat the owner of business center to write a false article about perverts working in business center if men use women bathroom to wash dishes\foodYou really need to explain the configuration of the office and bathrooms. Are they single use bathrooms where the only door can be locked? From your post it appears like it is a typical bathroom with multiple stalls. Where I live no man enters the women's bathroom unless he's with maintenance and vice versa. Actually nobody washes dishes there either - that's what the break area is for. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Elliot would have got laid if he tried. Agree? Disagree?If he had a normal personality and try hard he probably would have been able to get above average women. He was crazy though so it was never was going to happen. A man like him in society will eventually do some damage. Even if he had exceptional looks and talent to get top women easily, best case would be he ends up someone like Charlie Sheen, who still has no problem getting people to dislike him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/16 12:22 AM |
| 61 | The Wall is real and unforgiving.This is Redpill gold. Especially the woman that had the affair, even though she knew he would eventually leave her, and even defined her life before him, and after him. So much in the article. One woman decided to 'take risks' with birth control. Lol, I wonder what that means? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 12:03 AM |
| 2 | I know this may seem totally off topic but I don't know ANYBODY else's opinion on the internet that I can actually trust like I can with you guys. Here it is: Are 401ks the biggest scam of this generation?This thread will probably be deleted as it is off topic. In addition you aren't very clear about why you think 401ks are a scam. 401ks are just a way of investing in the stock market or money market with some possible tax benefits (usually through mutual funds). If you are OK with the stock market, you will have to point out what specific aspects of 401ks you think are a scam. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/16 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to stay "in love" with the same person forever?I'd say it is very rare, for what you describe both people have to truly accept the other person with whatever flaws they have, and have little or no desire to change them. I think it is hard to do this forever with so many other options available - remember people only see the positives when considering cheating or branch swinging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/16 03:15 PM |
| 3 | My company has been attacked by feminists for creating products geared towards men.I read that first article, and it was ridiculous. There are tons of products marketed/designed for women that aren't inherently gender specific, but no one, especially feminists, are criticizing those. In the rare case they do, it's usually about how women are victims of the patriarchy by being treated differently. Social media and the internet has it's pluses, but things like this, (the criticism your company is getting) is one of them (although as has been pointed out, there can be positives f… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 10:59 PM |
| 46 | Woman in relationship_advice sub proves that, even when women don't want you anymore, they want you to be around.Notice that she says that he deleted her within MINUTES, and that she just got a text from him asking "why now?". The only thing that makes sense is that she broke up via text, but, according to her, she was "considerate of his sensitivities". The poster is either a troll or a clueless bitch. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/16 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Frame battle /1st date - need adviceNext her. Don't be the guy that shows up to help her paint. If she wanted to go out she would. Tell her no thanks and go silent. Even if she were telling the truth, is it worth the hassle? More than likely she can be comfortable with a guy, just not you. Don't waste your time. You can use that time finding other girls and/or improving yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/16 05:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Sex/Love bots would actually make the world a better place for everyone.It probably wouldn't make the world a better place for children as it would further reduce or destroy the traditional family. Since a sexbot can't divorce you, sue for alimony, custody and child support, fewer people will get married. A sexbot can't 'accidentally' get pregnant either. In affluent countries I could see birth rates dropping even further. At first, I imagine incels and low value men will be the first to openly own them and as ownership expands to higher value men, you'll see anti-s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/16 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Do women dress revealingly in order to attract sexual attention from males?Yes, but only for sexual attention from SOME males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 11:06 PM |
| 1 | A hard gainer stuck at a plateauThis isn't the right forum for this. Also, how much are you squatting, benching or deadlifting? How many calories are u eating per day? 110 lbs at 5'10 sounds borderline emaciated. We're u diagnosed with any disorder? I was about the same height and 135lbs at 18 and around 21-22 years I was able to add about 1-2 lbs per week until I got to about 155-160 lbs by eating more and working out. This is still small but at the time it was a huge change for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 04:14 AM |
| 6 | SELFISHNESS: A Social Virtue Amongst Women, the Same a Social Pariah Amongst MenIn general, women are given the benefit of the doubt as to the motivations of their actions. As an example, women are almost always described as making a noble sacrifice if they put a child up for adoption, because they want their baby to have a better environment. In most peoples' minds, it's not possible for a man to make a comparable decision if he is not ready to be a parent too. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Lets travel to the past! Scientific research finds muscular men have more one night stands, short term flings, sex with women in relationships, and higher number of sex partners over all than non-muscular men.That article from Yahoo reminds me of an article I read. The conclusion (written by a girl) was "nice guys finish last because that's where they should end up - with the girl". Even pre-redpill that didn't seem right. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 03:09 PM |
| 32 | Why you should be selfish more selfish rather than selfless and why being selfish benefits both parties more than just yourself.A big rule of Objectism is that not everyone deserves love or friendship and you should only offer yours to those you feel deserve it. Socialism seems to teach that all people deserve my support by simply existing. A stranger does deserve some support for emergency type situations, but I shouldn't be obligated to offer more than that if I don't want to. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Contradiction in what TRP wants for society versus what they advocate to the individualThose two things are not totally comparable. RP's official stance, if there is one, is that sexual strategy is amoral. So a guy spinning plates or a girl riding the cc and not telling her beta bux about it when she hits the wall can't be evaluated from a moral standpoint. Expecting fairness in individual relationships only makes sense when both individuals agree to some set of terms to follow. Marriage can be viewed that way, but in general TRP discourages marriage and marriage 2.0 is usually a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/16 04:41 AM |
| 38 | Girl Gives me Her Boyfriend's Number... LOLThis post is confusing. How do you know it was her bf number she gave? Isn't it possible she left it on a table with no password and he saw it while she was in a different room? Based on the facts as you state them, I think this is the most likely explanation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 10:29 PM |
| 14 | New York City Tax dollars at work: Study Shows Women’s Products Cost More Than Men'sA full analysis would probably find a lot valid reasons for the differences. You know one reason why a pink bicycle costs $20 more than a green one? Because a green one can be bought for a boy OR a girl! How many boys will ride a pink bicycle? Airline pricing does not always appear rational and there are ways of taking advantage of this. Similarly, If I were determined to get a pink bicycle, I'd consider buying a green one and painting it pink. I've heard that women's fashion trends are not as s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Alpha Paul Walker dated 16 year old. Angry shrew pens bitter screed.It's illegal in most jurisdictions to have intimate relationships with women that age (where the age gap is that large). In general most people view it as creepy for a 33 year old to be dating a high schooler, no matter how mature she is. I don't know if we should be criticizing this. The bigger question, which TRP has an answer, is how come no one really cared that he dated a 16 year old but would raise hell if some 35 year old beta pizza delivery man did the same thing? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/15 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Being a Red Pill man and supporting the existence of government are incompatibleA strict Libertarian or Objectivist view on government is compatible with Redpill. A progressive tax to finance the appropriate roles of government may not be compatible, but that's a different discussion. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Serena Williams is a superheroI just watched the surveillance footage of the incident. She didn't run, she just walked fast. She didn't chase him down - I saw no footage of him actually running. Heck he was still putting on his coat when she 'caught' him. Even if he is a thief, this is one of the greatest embellishment of all time. You can see the footage at sbnation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Lisa Ling's This is Life on Sugar Daddy's/BabbiesThis reminds me of an article where Lisa Ling describes when she herself was somewhat of a sugar baby to an older wealthier man but left the relationship because she felt like he 'owned' her and wanted to be independent. She avoids ever saying that part of the reason she left may have been that she was just not physically into her sugar daddy. link:http://www.cnn.com/2014/09/25/living/lisa-ling-sugar-baby-essay/ "One week we'd be cruising the Mediterranean in a massive full-service yacht, the ne… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/15 03:21 AM |
| 9 | Ayn Rand: 'I Would Never Vote for a Woman President'I've read some of Rand's stuff, and I think her reasoning on why she wouldn't vote for a women as President is a little more complicated. She felt that a woman could in fact be capable and logical enough to be the President (even if this is a rare woman) but Rand also felt that one of women's roles was to (I'm paraphrasing here) to 'hero worship' a man. Being the President of the U.S.A. also encompasses being the Commander-In-Chief of one of the world's superpowers, if not the #1 superpower. She… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 08:50 PM |
| 16 | Man shares a particularly brutal example of AWALT. "The amount of power mothers have over fathers is simply disgusting. It is a horror show."One thing no one has mentioned is the other mistakes this guy made. I applaud him for wanting to be in his twin's lives, but once his baby momma told him to go away and that she wouldn't pursue him for child support, what should he have done? To me, he should have done one of two things 1) Call her bluff and demand she allow him to legally terminate his parental rights and responsibilities or 2) try and be in his kids' lives using whatever legal means he has, but continue improving himself in li… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Forgive Josh DuggarIt's natural for some young males to explore their curiosity about human sexuality by touching their younger sisters inappropriately. LENA DUNHAM DID THE SAME THING AND ADMITTED TO IT. Part of the Red Pill is seeing things as they truly are and not allow emotion, blind loyalty, or political correctness affect how we see and evaluate events or behaviors. This is a complicated one, but if, as you describe, Lena Dunham had done the same thing as Josh Duggard, then it would be understandable to call… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Trp Guilt?You should feel absolutely zero guilt. You guys were married and I'm assuming there were some vows taken and both of you had reasonable expectations - you'd stay together as long as both of you were supportive of each other and raise the daughter as a family. She wanted to change the rules because she felt it benefited her. She doesn't get to do that and just go back to the way it was before just because she's doing worse under the new rules. She lost me, half of her daughter's time, the apartme… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 05:22 AM |
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