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MetaTRP_Lee_zard/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 08:08 PM
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TRP_Lee_zard/r/askTRP07/07/16 09:09 PM
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Ok, I'll start by asking...why is your phone not 100% muted (no ring no vibration)? Your night is for you to get the oh so important sleep...and you would keep a plate - here, lesson learned
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:41 AM
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True but its still mostly men who are judges and sentece other men because if white knight. Bitches are crazy no doubt, but they use men to fight for them. We cant change women, but we need to focus on changing men
/r/MGTOW15/03/19 07:18 PM
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Thats very clever, and when Sally is pressed tell her you will drop charges if she testifies against Bob, destroy him and his white-knighting by the "Damsel is distress" herself
/r/askTRP20/02/19 12:26 PM
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Thats horrible of course, but seriously - it's not like it's a new thing. It has been like this for 10+ years now (that in case of divorce it's the woman who will get the kid in most cases). ​ So what men should do is either not have kids (definitely not marry) or if they are set on kids...take it that at some point they can be ripped out of your life and there is not much you could do about it.
/r/MGTOW13/02/19 08:59 AM
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Man, it's not "never quit" also - sometimes it doesn't make sense to invest more in a lost cause (a lot of guys stay in dead end jobs or relationships on that basis). Don't be afraid to fail, but strive to get better. Don't deal in absolutes, but always look critically at your life and surroundings.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:56 AM
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Was she the only chick at the venue? Drop her like a hot rock and go for others. The more you work and engage a chick doesnt mean it wi be more worth it. My take is that it is the opposite, the more you need to do the less the return on investment.
/r/askTRP28/08/17 11:33 AM
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I will just leave this here: https://youtu.be/CKjDXrFmSw0
/r/askTRP09/08/17 01:07 PM
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Sorry for late reply - its awesome, physiologicaly no difference, but psychology, when all you have to worry is STD but you KNOW you wi not have a kid by accident
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 03:58 PM
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People dont have their own shit together yet are convinced that the kid will "turn out ok", if you seriously think, you are up to the task - go ahead, but keep in mind - if you fail its someone elses life you are bargaining with. Everything you do, has impact on the kid - and they might one day grow to loath you
/r/MGTOW30/07/17 11:43 AM
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Yes, it is - same as one should be critical about oneself, he should be critical of his closest. I have exactly same oppinion of my father, who was absent, didn't know what it is to be a man - yet had kids, with no idea what to do next. Wasted his life yet has the audacity to lecture me - when, so far I do everything better. Being a father is a fucking choice - so be ready for criticism if you suck at it - as you deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 10:54 AM
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Its not a coincidence you said its your first relationship - hard as it might be to believe this, more will come and in bigger numbers. Relationship is a side quest, dont mistake it as main!
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:27 PM
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Yeah, and become slave to your kids. Before you say anything - see whatbhalpens with guys who lose their kid, are you ready for this?
/r/MGTOW27/07/17 02:23 PM
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That is projection: you interpret this as a man - logically, women interpret this emotionally and for them this is attractive. Thats why (said it yourself) it works. Stop thinking "what if someone would do this to me?" man and women are completely different in that matter
/r/askTRP27/07/17 05:51 AM
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Glad you asked - sooner than one month in she will probably start making "demands" like: do you have to spend so much time with your friends? And act all sad and unattended - being a great guy he will cut down on going out - and for some time will be rewarded with sex, Next it will be "do you have to play games/read/*do whatever alone all the time" - same scenario follows. At this point guy starts to get frustrated - but chicks have this practiced - she will go : you wanted to live with me and n…
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:08 PM
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Dude, this doesnt work, once you live together there is only marriage or breaking up, you cannot go one step back - remember that women typically say "where are we going" etc, they considder what already happened a set rule, and you cannot go back to pre-rule.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:57 AM
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Dont, get a roommate and she should do the same. Million times, don't All "I will set boundries", "we will split bills", "I will remain my independency" will be gone within 1 month.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 11:55 AM
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She will stop payin rent sooner than later and if you bring it up she will say you are cheap, only about money - you will cave "just this once" and will keep paying till you dump the bitch. And this will not be the biggest problem. Do Not Do It
/r/askTRP15/05/17 05:36 PM
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True, but going by this logic you should be a hermit - there are reasons to earn money and one of them to enjoy them, buying things that eventualy will lose value (like 90% things on earth). But would you rather sit by the fire in a cave, or watch a movie in a comfy chair on a good TV?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 06:09 PM
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I'd rather get a loan for a tv or car than to buy with cash, in case of money shortage you have physical money and instead pay monthly calculation. Why spend your own money, instead of using banks money and adding a bit on top
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:09 PM
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Cannot really say about the price (only because I'm from eastern Europe - but here it was around 500-600$ - 2000Pln in Poland). Recovery was one week, where you shouldn't jerk off, have sex etc. the only side effect is a peace of mind no one can even imagine...
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:57 PM
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20 minutes, fully aware and joking with the doctor performing the vasectomy. BEST INVESTMENT EVER - no need to remember about a pill, no worry that a condom might break or leak. It is funny that guys will happily put their balls into womans vile hands, but won't allow a certified medical professional to save their fucking lives.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:37 PM
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Actually the really sad part is that he still believes there is a one, but not this one. To your point - as far as I know guys like this we cannot consider that he's on the hook - simps like that want to be the daddy, even if it's not his, most will pay gladly, explaining that: child shouldn't be punished for the actions of mother.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 02:28 PM
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Smoking some weed works wonders for me. Not only I last longer but also it's much more likely that I will get another erection in less than 20-30 minutes.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:53 PM
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I like to listen to Tom Leykis reruns on youtube - though I fully understand not all might like it.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 12:49 PM
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I fully get your point and agree. Maybe I was too hasty to write this - as you said "At one point" and this is the key. If a chick starts cleaning everything during couple of first weeks (or even months) I would consider this a red flag - if however it's a plate that you know for longer and she (for instance) will take her glass to the sink and wash it - I would even encourage it. I just see chicks that clean like this as nestors - that soon start be demanding (and that's when you have to hard n…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:47 PM
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From what I noticed here, many guys brag that woman cleans their house - for me it's such a huuuuuge red flag. 1. She thinks it's filthy 2. When she cleans it, she will most likely move stuff (so already doing things the way SHE wants) 3. She starts to make you feel comfortable and why women do that? So that you lower your guards. My conclusion - whenever chick starts cleaning I would start soft nexting, cut her at the knees, put on ice for a some time.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:07 AM
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This is one of the shit tests, if you fight with fists - you lose, if you flee-you lose, only when you fight with their weapon (using lawyer and legal ways) you will win and the girl will not only lose credibility but might also end up a social pariah - this way other bitches will know not to fuck with you.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 11:21 AM
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Exactly and as OP stated, men are creeps and women live in fear - in their world. As most here know, it depends who is doing what, but in general women consider all guys as creeps at first.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 10:37 AM
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This fits perfectly into the fem-centric world. Women think they can do anything (stand in front of a charging bull), because they think it would stop in it's tracks to reconsider (as they stand opposed to all natural laws and hope they will be banished in favor of "equalism") They all seem to be living in a tampon commercial.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:27 PM
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Accept that people come and people go - there is only so much you can and are willing to do about it, but sooner or later most of people you know right now will not be by your side, there will be others though.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 10:24 AM
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Actually, yeah. Try it, first with very small things (things you are afraid, but haven't tried). For instance, some people are afraid of skiing, because they can fall and hurt themselves - but when it happens in most cases they are unharmed. This is something that my kickboxing coach tought me years ago - the imagination of being hurt is much worse than reality. To add, after you find out that it wasn't as bad as you though you will move up to bigger things and change your mindset to: what's the…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 10:09 AM
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Truth to the matter is that plenty of people are afraid of success, only because they are afraid of any change - with success (for instance with chicks) they will find new and unknown ground. They are much more comfortable with the not-so-good, but known situation.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 09:28 AM
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You nailed it. Even women will say "I'm more mature now and it doesn't work like this" to one guy, when they will jump on Chad the next day. What more, guys will be shamed for not appreciating their woman being a strong mature woman and getting scraps.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:58 PM
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What you see here my man is a serious discussion on subjects. TRP is a strong advocate of humor and encourages to be funny, witty.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:41 PM
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No, it's part of everybodys nature. I'm last to stand for a woman, but it 90% of situations like this chick will tell a guy she is not interested, but pathetic mangina will practicaly force her to accept his gifts, tokens of affection etc. Why would she (or anyone to that matter) refuse to take something when they are asked to take it over and over again. It's not her fault he was a pathetic beta, she just used him as he was supposed to be used, maybe, just maybe he will open his eyes.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 09:31 AM
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Misery loves company - that's my take. People (even when unhappy) want others to join in, so they can justify their choice (everybody's doing it), to have others to complain with last, but not least - so they won't be jealous of someone who DIDN't make the same mistake.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 11:23 AM
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Can't you just let them go? I understand their value (intelligence) but if you have a gold bar, locked in a chest you cannot open it holds no value to you anyway and is just a weight. Don't spend to much time and energy on something that will not give any return.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:09 AM
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Listen to Tom Leykis for this, always wear a condom (unless you are certified sterile/had vasectomy - in this case...always wear a condom). Never trust a woman
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:54 AM
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I would say even worse - if you will push her to give you BJ she might take it as invitation to be her BF (well, she explicitly told you the terms and conditions). If she's a good lay, fuck her and get head elsewhere I would actually be very suspicious if she would agree to give you head.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:25 PM
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Addicted to bad ideas
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:14 PM
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I think there is a good reason behind it. For guys like this their art is #1 priority, they tend to be focused and have clear direction. This is what TRP is preaching, have a goal that is NOT a woman. All the "Alpha" dudes you talk about are going after woman and that is exactly why she can string them along, because although having a lot of cash, being jacked etc. doesn't equal "Alpha". They might be rich, jacked beta dudes - and if they propose to sponsor shit like this they probably are.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:15 PM
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I have a different point of view, if you are alert you cannot be calm and in control of yourself - anything that moves or makes a sound will basically force you to turn your head, when you should ignore it. I recently started to just look ahead, just like you would be sailing/driving - don't stare just in front of your vehicle, don't focus on other as well as you will not see the road. You should look to where you are heading, but still register with the peripheral vision the surroundings. And c…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 12:30 PM
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I wonder, with these kind of women how would they react on a date if they tell me what they do and I instantly take out my phone and tell them - so you are OK if I record everything that we talk about and do - for our mutual safety of course.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 01:31 PM
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Gotta to take into account the diminishing returns. If you lift but want to compete 95% will not be enough, you gotta go 100% But this still isn't to me going outside of comfort zone - you are doing the same thing...just more seriously. Same goes for your other examples. For instance with business - want to get out of comfort zone, don't go for the best - sell everything and start over in a different field Other than that - completely agree, just changing the habits for different ones isn't enou…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 02:56 PM
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You are correct - but ask yourself WHY do we need more people on earth? Is over 7 billion not enough? On one hand most people worry about what are we doing with earth etc, but on the other they are set on putting more people on the planet - and why? Just because they believe that their copy will be somehow special, better than others. Drop the ego I don't see much point in having kids unless you have some genetic mutation that makes you invincible or resistant to some illnesses.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:23 AM
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It is said to be possible to undo the procedure but if you are 100% set on having kids some day you can always freeze your sperm or I believe it can be collected directly from the snipped pipes. Had vasectomy around 4 months ago - best decision ever (however to be fair, I never want to have kids). Why? If you save your sperm the women you choose can still get pregnanet...but when you are ready for this, not when she decides. Guys in general don't have power over when the kid is coming, but this …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:18 AM
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In the beginning you mention that BP think that hard work, dedication will make him happy, successfull. Later you say that RP means that you need to work hard, be dedicated... so there is no difference? I would say that BP does promote hard work, dedication but being "true self", and RP is actually a shortcut, or rather a direct way to get something. Not through hard work, but smart understanding of the world of the dynamics that rule everything. Working hard is pointless if it's not in a smart …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:41 AM
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Honestly, better that she aborted rather than having hubby pay for not his kid.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 11:12 AM
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Pick up a hobby, but not just any hobby - one that you can do outdoors, in public and seems fun and interesting. Some examples: glass ball contact juggling, magic tricks, longboard This way you will build a social circle, you will meet girls and will have something interesting to talk about.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 10:33 AM
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Not realy, I have to agree with what was already written numerous times in this sub and some blogs - overconfidence is better way to go. Noone else truly knows what you can, or cannot do. That is step one, step two is, if someone trusts you with a task or mission they will tend to be more in favor (they had already trusted you, being negative towards you would mean being negative towards their own judgment)
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:02 PM
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Do it one step at a time, don't rush and don't try to skip levels - this is a part of the "lesson", to focus on what you do here and now and not plan for what will be next. When thinking "what next" you build in your head scenarios that will not happen, but you are preparing for them (either good or bad - you either get hyped for something that might not happen, or be depressed/worried). This way you are stripping yourself from the fun you can have now for either dissappointment (good thing that…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:58 PM
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Ok, maybe my answer will make more sense - you first have to show a girl you are interested and that you consider her as a potential partner. Then you can ignore her. You have to show here first that you are interested and later that you don't care much. If you ignore from the beginning you have almost no way of showing value (a lot of guys dress well, are groomed and not overweight), well, unless one is ridiculously attractive.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 11:47 AM
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For someone who has never chewed food before - yeah, it's necessary to show them how it's done. If you would go to the gym and someone gave you 100kg on a bar and told you: just squat, it's easy.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 10:34 AM
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"I think what motivates most guys to live with their LTR is a constant supply of pussy(...)" Potential supply of pussy. Let's be honest once you bust a nut the thing guy wants the most is for the chick to be gone so he can do whatever he wants. One cannot be fucking 24/7...well, not the same chick at least. Many chicks treat sex as a 30 minute investment so that dude will spend the rest of the day (life?) with her.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 09:25 AM
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What about lying to the police/prosecutors? Isn't it punishable in US?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 09:11 AM
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That's why they cannot give straight answer when guys ask them "what should I do so you would consider me a man" - this question dries up their pussy instantly. He needs to know this, better yet, needs to viscerally be a man
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 08:40 AM
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That's babies you are talking about. Anywhere from primary school boys do stupid things to impress girls. Instead of focusing on education, development most cater to women, or pursuit girls. What you are talking about although exist is an exception. Only few guys can "found a different girl you liked, grabbed her hand and of you went" Why do you think idea of Oneitis or "Crush" is so popular, why so many guys complain about being in the friendzone. If what you say would be true for most it would…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 08:39 AM
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I would appreciate if you could cover what you mentioned at the end. There is one more thing that maybe I didn't make clear. Boys aren't men - that's obvious, but due to feminine imperative everything masculine is considered "toxic" as recently posted by Rational Male. So guys grow up doing everything to suppress their masculinity just to later hear from women "we want a real men" so they ask them - the woman, what is this real men they want.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 08:35 AM
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It surely doesn't always pan out, however risk taking teaches that in most cases bad outcome is not as bad as one was imagining. It is basically what PUA and RP teach by "forcing" to approach. Being rejected doesn't feel as bad as it seems, falling down doesn't hurt as much as you imagine - but both give invaluable lesson and input.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 03:15 PM
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Don't agree, for every girl there is a guy who thinks she looks like a goddess. So if you don't find a girl attractive, just move on - otherwise she will try and go an extra mile, just to get your commitment - and then stop, as soon as she gets you. Later if you try to leave her she will play victim and how you only care about the looks. You must be attracted to a person you want to hook up with or get into the relationship, otherwise time will come when you will loath yourself. Unless you think…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 10:24 AM
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It's hard, lol the irony :-D. As Sandman mentioned, if you go no-fap for too long you end up with wet dreams. It's normal to rub one out, just stop making your life revolve around it. You boys go from spanking 45 times a day to nothing - everything in moderation. Yank it once every week, or every two weeks and no harm is done.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 09:35 AM
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The thing is, you stayed late at night because you misplanned, or let something take over control of yourself. You talk about guys who get up early and go to the gym - sure enough there are zombies early in the gym, but most are well rested - why, because they know that resting is a crucial part and when you were working, reading a book, watching a movie or screwing that HB8, they were sleeping because they are focused on the training. And you say they feel better - they should! They do what mos…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 06:15 AM
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Sounds to me as rationalizing. There is a time and place for everything. Sure you dont have to lose virginity before 20, but if you wait til 40 you are screwd and the first experience would be shitty. Gaming experience is rather weak, because you can select from hundreds of games (even 20-30 years ago) to suit you best. Yoi cannot check 20-30 girls right away, you need practice. It is good to screw chicks in your teens/20s, but it definitely is not the peak of life.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 05:55 AM
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Hence the praised here outcome independance, you will actually lose 90% of time, but you lose every try that you dont take. With 5% win ratio, you have to try only 20 times to get firat result. What more, every failure teaches you more than 5 successes.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 07:07 PM
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I actually don't agree with both. Being quiet is better in amny cases. but not being silent and hanging in the void, one need to convey the message with body language, eyes and face expressions. Thats what I noticed in past 2-3 months, when chick would say something I don't like just a slight frown (extremely subtle) made her come close and hug me like a kid hugs the father after doing something wrong. In other situation just little one eyebrow raising made the chick elaborate more on what she s…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/16 11:53 AM
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However! With RP knowledge you can use it as a cheat code - they will NEVER expect it...just make sure to wrap it up 100% o the time or get a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:16 PM
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If I may add - the "preselection" most are talking about is different than single preselection. When guys who are in LTR's are saying other chicks digg them, it is merely because they (chicks) know this guy is broken in already, he is a relationship material and they also know that most likely dude is not fucking enough - easy pickins', just throw some ass at the guy and he will be happy and so gratefull. They don't see him as the alpha he thinks he is, but the beta provider that he actually is …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 09:33 AM
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That - a million dollar answer! If you can keep it under control (be honest with yourself) almost everything can be used and in moderation. But if you see it is taking over things that you would normally enjoy - there is a problem in paradise.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:21 PM
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There is always someone ready to do the heavy lifting... If it's that important for you find a chick that will be down with that - also ask yourself a question - if it wouldn't be you, but a superstar/celebrity...do you think she would refuse?
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:11 PM
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But "Abby" is right on money that they have matured - when young chicks want to be taken by masculine alpha, when "matured" they crave the beta.. simple as that. If you think about it, they require the same from men: when young he can do whatever, but when matured a guy should take responsibility, have a family and instead of looking for "hot girl" he should be happy with old hag that he can "talk with" (as she won't fuck beta...)
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 03:53 PM
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Be extra careful about those nurturing chicks (I would say it is a red flag), this is their way to betify you into complacency. As for your question - I would say, delay as long as possible. Why, one reason - test how long she can keep up the jig (let's be honets, they put on an act untill they get commitment/kids)
/r/askTRP04/11/16 02:20 PM
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But seriously dude...why go into LTR in the first place? From my perspective they are bound to fail - some sooner, some later but still. LTR's require too much effort with not nearly enough reward - what more, being in LTR means you suspend the belief that "She's not yours, it's just your turn".
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 12:37 PM
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Take into account that many (if not ALL) people who have children treat those who don't as "perpetual children"/Peter Pan syndrome. As if having kids/family means one is an adult. Simple peer pressure and they don't want other to be without the burden/added responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 10:47 AM
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You are correct about my interpretation - and I will say it again, I considder myself an introvert. What being introvert is, is basic overthinking and let's be honest - even with great analysis you cannot take all variables into account, but what being an introvert tought me is that one will paint different scenarios, possibilities, options - but when just one thing is off, everything falls apart again. Back to the drawing board - repeat the whole process. Introverts can spend hours, days, weeks…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 04:23 PM
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I see it from a bit of a different side (also consider myself introvert) You became introverted because whenever something bad had happened you dwelled on it in your head (think about it - being introverted means you have discussions with yourself, in your head - noone to take your mind off of what happened) This is how I understood what OP meant in the post you mentioned - stop dwelling on things (what you might call managing/coping) - just move on. From what I understand you try to reason why …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 10:46 AM
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She was never yours, it was simply your turn Enjoy what you had, move on and start enjoying your life again. This is one of the cornerstones of TRP, enjoy your life/mission and don't let any woman become your primary goal - they come and go.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 10:47 AM
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The problem is not drinking, but that you put so much pressure on it - which in turn makes you anxious and almost paralyzed. I would say drink, but only 1-2 drinks to get you to a nice and comfy relaxed mood and first and foremost - don't overthink it, just do what you find pleasurable.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 08:57 AM
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Massage! - thats what you did wrong When you do things like this, it is obvious you are priming her for shagging, showing that you can "wait for her to be comfortable and ready"...doesn't work like this, either show a girl you don't care about sex AT ALL (so do kino escalation, but without sexual context) or go full frontal (Sex God Method) - demonstrate that you are a man and want to have sex...right now!
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:29 AM
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Don't live with your parents - that's for sure. Isn't it possible to find a compromise - a room that is in between current (expensive+social) and the other one (cheap+far from clubs etc.)?
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:10 AM
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I understand, but still stand by what I said. I'm not an advocate for "loving, care-bear" type of friends but not ones. Sometimes it's just best to let go. Like in Law 16 of 48 Laws of Power Additionally, if you stick around after the person does something like this it is sort of like you are approving of this behavior, or you don't have an alternative - either way, not good.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 06:34 AM
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Ditch the group? Why bother staying with a group that puts some insecure dude above you? Withdraw for some time, find some new people to hang out with - it's supposed to be pleasure, fun time. As a side note, if the core of this guy is making fun/picking on others, once he loses the targets he will get boring and the rest of the group will eventually come back to you
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:00 AM
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As it is covered numerous times in TRP - women like talking that conveys emotions, not facts. With psychology it might work as it is pretty much opinion based. If you know how to talk to women about anything and nothing however being able to rock her emotions - you will get laid. Try watching some PUA youtube videos, it's very often they say things like: "I could get a chick by talking about poultry"... it is not WHAT you talk about, but it's HOW you talk. To be honest - this is still a theory f…
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:50 AM
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You actually answered your own question ;), you're 230lb bodybuilder - serious bodybuilders have conditioned their bodies for massive food intake (as it is essential to build big muscles). I know several personal trainers that aspire to serious body builders and practically all of them eat 6-7 MASSIVE (for me) meals a day.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:47 AM
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They put stress on the digestive system - preventing from efficient sleep. This can be often noticed that after having big, heavy meal before sleep (less than 2 hours before going to sleep) you will most likely have a hard time falling asleep, and sleeping in general. My method is, I eat no later than 2 hours before sleeping (usually even more), drink just enough water for the last hour to keep you from feeling thirsty and (my personal preference) take a scoop of glutamine 30 minutes before. Thi…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 12:32 PM
1

This is exactly as you described: aggressive and "invading" her personal space - but you need to understand that is what women want, a guy that is not afraid to express his needs! You should touch/kino not because you read that in a book but because as a man you want to touch beautiful women.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 10:25 AM
1

Actually, I don't fully agree with what you say - chicks will stop listening to their fathers when they see him as a blue pill mangine that they have full control on (and doing EVERYTHING for their sweet daughter is how they give them full control - "daddy will not let you cry sweetie"). I've met couple of girls that didn't immediately show the AWALT traits (not saying they are NAWALTS, but they showed some restrain) - always when father would treat them as a guy during childhood.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 07:26 AM
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Sorry if I sound harsh - but you forget who pampered her from very start. You take all the responsibility off of your parents on how they raised their daughter. This is something I see practically every day, parents allowing their daughters to do anything as she is "daddy's princess" and he will do anything to protect her - most fathers of daughters are cause of current situation as they inherently become blue pill mangina for their daughter. So chicks get used to having everything provided on a…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:42 AM
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Fucking chicks also gives dopamine rush I suspect - should all also avoid that? It's not about not doing things, it's about doing them in moderation. Drink alcohol, fap, watch porn, do some drugs - fine, but limit the frequency and amount so it won't become the baseline.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 06:29 AM
1

I think this might be the case of a scapegoat - they want to show they are not biased against men, so they all join the bandwagon. So in future if anyone accuses them of stacking the cards against men, they will bring this as example.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 08:19 AM
1

Thanks, thats what I was asking for exactly. I've been recently reading about the gut flora, and started to supplement with pro and prebiotics - although haven't really seen any result yet, not sure if there will be any.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:44 AM
1

As an addition. Carbs (especially sugar) causes huge insulin spike, that drops as fast as it rises - causing not only hormonal imbalance but also feeling of being hungry (the body tries to resist the drop in insulin and creates craving to keep the level at "neutral" level - which is actually increased). This in turn causes the insulin resistance, sort of tolerance building, so more and more is needed for same result, but the overhead is almost immediately transferred by liver to the fat tissue. …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:32 AM
2

Can you elaborate a bit more on not needing fiber? Recently I've been interested in the topic and only found information about adding fiber.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:17 AM
3

Well, women are trying to solve problems they have created - first they were quietly saying what men they would like...some men listened, next they said it loudly and "proudly" that they want a partner, someone equal - more guys followed, later they demanded it via political parties and now they will force it - all the time being more and more unhappy, as "these are not the men they want"...and "where have all the good guys go"
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 08:17 AM
2

I think you might have watched too many movies, where shy guy meets the pretty, classy and interesting girl. I was like that some time ago, but it doesn't work - and I think this is the root of your problem, when you stop looking for the "perfect one" and just do what brings pleasure to you (with occasional hookup) you will feel excited again. One more thing - you should be the one who pushes you to become better, don't count on a woman to do it - as they never will (since they know when you bec…
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:20 PM
3

Thats actually the main point "DIFFERENT" woman! Most guys loose interest when being in LTR (or not being with a chick for long as a matter of fact). A lot of guys are thrilled by something new, not doing the same thing over and over again (as the saying goes: for every beautifull woman out there, there is a guy tired of her shit in exchange for sex)
/r/askTRP29/09/16 02:14 PM
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Fully agree - the post seems to suggest a way of thinking "I'm a nerd now...but wait, you'll see what I will become someday" High school/Uni jocks might become the married "looser" but the beta-nerd can as well. Even worse, after studying, saving money and becoming successful he is the prime target for post-wall bitches, who plan to settle down after riding the CC for years.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:40 AM
2

Don't agree with your notion. Self improvement, better yourself, trust in your skills - these are true catch phrases as you can always tell someone "you still need to better yourself". One can always find a way to improve and on the other hand unless you are a pro (and I mean full on PRO) you cannot "trust your skills" without the confidence - you trust your skills because of confidence and not other way around. Recently I've read a piece by Rollo Tomassi where he stated (and if I remember corre…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 08:04 AM
3

As Tom Leykis figured it out - when throwing the condom, put few drops of hot tobasco sos into it... her screams from the bathroom will be quiet compared to your laugh.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:48 AM
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Because from what I noticed (working in tech and having worked with many women before and currently) - they expected to be treated preferentially, when they don't get it they get upset. One told me: That's why I went to IT so I won't have to work with women.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 09:40 AM
5

Slow down there - although I am advocate for fapping don't over do it. Some is good, too much is not. If you feel horny once in a while and there is no plate/booty call around go ahead and rub one out, but 7 jerks per day, every day is an addiction.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:11 AM
3

Thats it! For years I thought that I'm introvert and it's just who I am that I don't want to socialize - but as I've learned here it is a bullshit that I was comforting myself with. Act and instead of setting a goal and trying to reach it - learn to enjoy the process.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 01:56 PM
13

I see this as a form of respect the winner has for the looser - this is very common with guys, with women on the other hand the winner needs to reaffirm the fact that she is better and doesn't stoop so low as to console the looser. Same thing is with arguments (male vs. female), in most cases when a guy would win argument - he will leave it at that, or somehow try to show women that he still sympathizes (not always though), with women - when they win an argument they feel the need to fully destr…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 03:26 PM
1

Alternatively end with: "give me a hug me to make it better"
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:13 AM
7

And one more lesson learned I could add (that actually paints into the hillbilly picture as well as many others) - they don't internalize failures. You hear it very often from loud, direct guys when a chick would reject them: - That stupid bitch, probably a lesbian They don't see rejection as something they did wrong, but as something someone else did wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 02:09 PM
1

True, I would actually suggest sharing with a good mate - always good thing to have a spotter ;)
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 07:35 AM
2

It's shit like that when I realize that I have no game what so ever. I'm like a kid on a trike looking at Michael Schumacher or Lewis Hamillton. And I have to admit, this is a bit discouraging for me.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 09:59 AM
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This is something that should be thought at every gym, by every trainer - but, as you can imagine if people would just do squats and DL from the start they wouldn't need the long and expensive training plans that give...squat
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 07:48 AM
1

The same goes with women often saying that everyone deserves respect, not acknowledging that respect should be earned - mostly because they are aware they have not much going for them so are not able to earn respect - hence everyone is entitled to be respected...without any reason and without respecting other as a matter of fact.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 09:30 AM
2

I left the rest out, because I don't think it is relevant - it is not society/norms that tell me what I find attractive. My dick doesn't read newspapers and watch TV to know what is currently trendy - and if it would and if I would comply with social norms I would find fat chicks sexy. What i pointed out is - if a chick gets fat, there is no point in talking to her, because I'm yet to meet a girl who when told that she has some excess weight would not get defensive and irritated and actually tak…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 01:35 PM
2

No, sorry I don't follow: Ask her if she wants to join your plan, ask her if she’d like you to make a workout plan for her or to go to the gym together (or apart). Straight up tell her you love her for everything she is Let me show you how it goes, in most cases: So you think I'm fat? If you really love me for everything I am, you wouldn't tell me to go to the gym/eat better On one hand you say to show appreciation for a woman regardless of how she looks, on the other hand you ask her if she wan…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 12:37 PM
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But how can you cuddle with a chick that is fat and flabby - and you cannot tell her to cut down on eating, encourage going to the gym (as in many cases fat people will get defensive). And I'm not talking about obese etc, but "just some folds". More, I DO NOT want a woman to be confident and beautiful with her "not so perfect body". I've been in a relationship like this, where I would wake up every morning, go the the gym for an hour or so - not force my LTR to join me, but showed how it makes m…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 12:17 PM
1

The thing is, women don't just want to fuck - they want to fuck with specific traits. They are not like most guys, who are in many cases happy to just get a dick wet, they want to be properly fucked by a guy who excites them.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 09:01 AM
4

Just because there are exceptions doesn't invalidate the rule.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 08:13 AM
4

If you stress something or someone to full capacity 100% of the time it will break - this is why you cannot be always productive and in pursuit of self development. Everyone needs a moment to rest - keep in mind any form of self development puts stress on the body and/or mind - if you don't unwind every now and then the gains are slower up to non-existent. This is even in most workout programs - every couple of weeks there is a rest period, every couple of days you should not workout. How I view…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 08:25 AM
3

Wouldn't it make more sense to just tell them you don't want to drink - without any explanation? I've tried it couple of times and sure, at first my friends get a bit surprised and think I'm joking (but that's because I used to be very heavy drinker) but after 1-2 occasions when they see me with a glass of water they don't even notice it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 08:12 AM
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As with everything - ask yourself, are you in control or is it in control with you. Same goes for porn, jerkin' off, smoking weed, etc. - if you cannot live without it, you should stop, if you don't care much if you do it or not, then understand that everything is for people.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:59 AM
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Sure, but if you don't take risk you cannot reach higher altitudes. Radio silence is a good starting point (to prevent noobs like me from fucking things up by texting too much), but when you start to feel a bit more comfortable it's good time to experiment.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 12:46 PM
1

Ok, maybe I should be more clear - I don't really care (or cared) about weight, but fat vs. muscle percentage. My weight was (when I was eating around 1500-1800kcals) fluctuating between 80-83 kg's through the week (without seing any drop in fat content), currently when I switched to proper lifting instead of HIIT and eating a lot (and I mean waaaay lot) more I weigh 85-86kg's (slowly gaining) and I can see that muscles start to appear and and replacing fat.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 06:04 AM
2

I wouldn't agree with that, it is something that you just switch in your mind, but it must be accompanied by outcome independence and IDGAF attitude. Abundance mentality doesn't mean there is infinite number of chicks that will sleep with you, but that there is almost infinite number of chick you can approach. If you approach counting on sex you get quickly discouraged and close down, if you approach not assuming what result will make you happy you are on the correct way. Disappointments come fr…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:23 PM
7

I lol, just because I've recently met with my ex (who I cheated on and she found out), first thing she said upon seeing me was: god how ugly you are. Later she continued to try to put me down (without TRP I would be sooooo destroyed), telling me about her boyfriends, how they were better than me in any way imaginable (taller, wealthier, better cars, more adventurous, bigger cock). But as TRP teaches - don't listen to words but actions - hate is very close to desire So when I said I'm leaving (no…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 02:18 PM
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Nothing that would suggest that (as a part of panel I've had test for thyroid hormones and came back right in the middle of "norm"). But also, after some consultation with friend personal trainer he told me that eating way below maintenance will actually block burning the fat - so could be the case I've cut the caloric intake too much.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:55 AM
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Proper write up man! Props. I do have two questions for you though. 7) Have her join you in progress - there are places in TRP where it is suggested to be a bit late (showing the IDGAF and that guy is busy/values his time) how would you comment this? 13) Keep the communication to a minimum after the first "date" What if there is no first contact from chick after the first meetup? Reach out, or just let it go and go ahead around your business. Should the contact after the first date be always fro…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:41 AM
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Don't agree on the "eat less" solution. For the past year I was eating very little (averaging at around 1500kcal a day) with mostly meat, vegetables (very little carbs) and going to the gym 2-3 times a week (sometimes HIIT and sometimes weights) and wasn't able for the life of me to drop the fat I had - recently started a "diet" (rice, meat, veggies in general) averaging at around 3000kcal a day now, I'm building weight very slowly but at the same time I can see the fat going away and revealing …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:53 AM
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Point taken, after pondering on it for a moment I have to agree - showing wealth doesn't necessarily mandate that chick will be a prude - frame and game take higher ground.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 07:30 AM
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This might be true, however in this day and age, being a compliant corporate drone without a spine can land you a nice position with big paycheck (seen it happen so many times). Money is just one of the indicators in Sexual marketplace, but I wouldn't say determining.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 07:45 AM
1

Thanks for the replies guys. Maybe I should clarify - as we know the most attractive women are around rich/powerful/famous men. It's not thinking one is inferior, but even the most alpha regular dude, doesn't stand in comparison to (for instance as mentioned: Cristiano Ronalno etc.) I think I was looking for answer that /u/zedsdedforever posted - if I'm pursuing my goals I shouldn't care who's in the room. This I think opened my eyes on the fact that I'm not, that apart from gym and some minor t…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 06:03 AM
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I just started to wonder, is there any way around it! For instance 20% of monthly earnings is kept on company accounts and only available if a person requests it (or have a company card that is bound with his personal sub-account) this way the money would be still owned by company but available for the guy. This way if divorce rape should happen, she would get half of HIS assets, but not touch the assets that company that employs him. Any lawyers to check if this is possible (I'm not from US, ju…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 09:19 AM
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Ok, let me put it as simply as possible: "we have to talk, I'm pregnant and it's yours" Unless you are snipped you could be screwed. Another thing is - doesn't matter if you don't plan to keep her, if she plans to keep you, she will play prude and you get boring missionary sex, instead of crazy monkey one.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:11 AM
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Ok, let me put it as simply as possible: "mrbossman123, we have to talk, I'm pregnant and it's yours" Unless you are snipped you could be screwed. Another thing is - doesn't matter if you don't plan to keep her, if she plans to keep you, she will play prude.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:11 AM
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But why? Does your work suck that much? I found an occupation that not only lets me pay bills and have some spare money, but also allows me to develop every day, learn, forces me to socialise. My point is, if I would win 10mil $ I would still work, just to keep myself on top, constantly on edge. It just seems a bit odd to me, that people would rather spend their 20's and 30' on a shoestring budget, devoiding themselves from most pleasures (everythinf costs money now) just to have some nest egg a…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 06:57 PM
1

how long ago did you start? I've read about this like 3-4 years ago I think, but found many mixed reviews online.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 06:53 PM
1

oh but it does, you must've read the stories on this sub where chick was a whore before a dude, but would suck his dick - if she is considdering you as a wallet she will act as prudish virgin - if she thinks you have money she is planning a future with you and doesnt want to show as a whore that she is.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 06:39 PM
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You want to present yourself as someone not bothered with money (again, abundance mentality) and not bragging about what you do (if you tell chick your investment banker she will drop her pants, but on the idea of how much you make and how she can milk you later on).
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 10:40 AM
1

One comment to the great write up. When you mention two options, I don't fully agree where in the first you say to escalate sexually - In my opinion one shouldn't do it. Why? When escalating for sex you show her that even though she disrespected her man, he still wants and needs her. Women want sex with desirable partner just as much as guys want it, but it is easier to hold this back and therefore use sex as way of reward/punishment as well as currency. If you will be able to show her after a c…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 08:52 AM
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If you want to keep the job do EXACTLY as she tells you to do (during the training and evaluation period) - women that are so long in their occupation tend to get defensive and even aggressive if you do things differently (doesn't matter if you do it better) - it is critical that you do things without any deviation. As for the gossiping, again - should you want to keep the job, let her gossip, but do not say anything back. If she will pressure you into responding say you are just the quiet type …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 07:01 AM
2

You forgot to mention that this is around average salary in Poland (and by average I mean majority of working people don't see that kind of money).
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 01:29 PM
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i didnt say I can't tell fake orgasm, just that I dont care. What you gonna do if a chick fakes, call her out? Showing how much you care about her validating you in bed. I do my thing and yet they keep coming back.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 10:42 AM
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Dude, she won't change (well, might for a second when you dump her ass). 3 weeks ago I've gotten out of BPD relationship - how, by not engaging - when you say you had a fight, you fucked up! You show you care about her (you wouldn't be arguing if you wouldn't care). Withdraw and if necessary leave, don't look back - LEAVE. Btw, the only person looking after you can be you.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:20 PM
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Why would I care about HER orgasm(s) (which she can easily fake by the way)? I think about my pleasure and how can I use her for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 08:58 AM
5

same here, as I've posted before. I've went without porn or fapping for 2-3 months, result - I didn't even want to boink my ltr who was horny as fuck and would fo anything for a shag. The moment I jerked off I had another boner and linido would jump. Not saying no fap doesnt work, just its not for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 05:38 PM
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As OP stated, this is also because of peroxide and spray on tan - so it's not that natural blonds are like that, but girls PRESENTING themselves as blondes. As we know all women are fake and depending which "persona" they take upon you can narrow down what they want (same with librarian girls might prefer an intellectual type of a dude).
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 10:52 AM
1

This is ridiculous - how are they unrealistic? Are the models made of plastic and real women that look like that do not exist? That is demeaning to the models who work very hard to have nice, toned bodies. *edit: Not to mention on the bottom of the article: Under the law, models need a doctor’s certificate to certify they are fit to work, and employers are at risk of jail or fines of 75,000 euros, or about $85,000, if they break the rules. Wonder if it also applies for the "plus size" models - o…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 01:08 PM
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My man, you have explained one thing that was boggling my mind for some time now. I was wondering what's the point of multiple venues when on a date - now it all makes sense! Good breakdown in general!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:06 AM
2

Waaay ahead of you bro - I've got older sports bike that provides me ample of tinkering and fun. As you are most likely aware my ex used to hate the bikes - as I've spent more time and money on them yet had more fun than with her...
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 09:56 AM
2

This is what chicks do to guys in LTR - you are a constant work-in-progress. She asks you to fix one small thing in you, only to find another thing that needs changing after you succeed. This is what you need to do to yourself - once you reach a goal, find another, repeat indefinitely.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:54 AM
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Not sure if I understand correctly, but I think this might be a fallacy - if you perform at 100% all the time you are bound to fail at some point. If you plan your goals and steps correctly there is a place for indulging, there is a time and place for a cake (cheat meal if you will). Since I started in workforce I learned that best results are obtained when you plan for 80% of the capacity (leaving 20% basically on idle, or vacant/pleasure). Why? Because in case of any unforeseen circumstances y…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 09:17 AM
2

The thing is - if what she wrote is true and, she didnt do anything wrong (yet), she is fighting the inner slut and describes the AF/BB...saying that she is a slut is just the rage talking (not saying she isn't). Although, if it's not a bait, I believe she fucked him already just left it out of the post.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 08:55 PM
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Very good insight. Made me think about one more aspect of this. As most of people here know, what is on facebook is not real - it is an idealized version, it shows what other wants you to see. Same goes with ideas, political correctness - they know what is expected of them and have an idea of how they want to present themselves - this is where white knights shine - they present themselves not how they really are (frustrated and groveling) but as courageous, righteous. As more people show this, m…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 09:52 AM
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Stop expecting anything from people - if you do something FOR someone don't count that they will repay it, or even most likely remember it (well, maybe if they need something again). Also, you said you pointed out that his LTR is not good for him - that was your mistake, let everyone find their way, encourage it but not force or show it directly. Once you point out his LTR treats him poorly, you subsequently criticized his choice and this trips the defense mechanism in so many people.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 09:23 AM
2

This is one of the issues I can see among TRP (especially, well, mainly when talking about LTR's) - for me there is nothing worse than having a chick that does absolutely nothing except school/work and then gets back "home", has nothing interesting to talk about (only talk about work/school/tv shows). For me girl that has friends, likes to spend time with them is much more interesting - the first one makes you tired, because she drops the responsibility on "having a good time" on you. Apart from…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 11:06 AM
1

Although you are correct I don't fully agree with your view: I agree with the fact that not all refugees are dangerous - it is still a valid threat (because the non-dangerous ones are supporting and enabling the ones that are hostile), so it is much safer to assume all are dangerous, rather than assume that most are docile. Also, even the "good" refugees still are demanding things to be provided/given and request that local laws and traditions be changed to comply with theirs - which is ridiculo…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 10:37 AM
1

See, this is what world would want him to think: he is doing the right thing. Letting go of masculine traits and being a tool for a woman to use and discard if she doesn't need him anymore - and it is his reward to be of use to a woman. For him, as well as all betas out there, TerPers are ones who should be ashamed as we willingly let go of our duty/honour of helping every woman out there.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 01:37 PM
1

I actually can concur - my grandma said almost same things to my sis some 10 years ago. Woman up!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:45 AM
1

Not only what you said - but it's even worse when you see that in this scenario you are the only one putting in effort - girl is mostly like: "thats the way I am and you have to deal with it" Yup, plus one on the BPD bandwagon.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 02:54 PM
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I am wondering for some time now - is it realy like that with kids or is it rather affirmation of situation that is not going to change? You know the kid is there, it is not going anywhere, if you abandon it you will be the scum - so all you can do is just enjoy the misery. In general like this guy Vujicic - he is in a situation that will not change, so he learned to enjoy it - full respect for the man no doubt. That's my concept, but as you said cannot say it actually is like this.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:58 PM
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The request to be replied within an hour might be reasonable - but not expecting one to do so. The fact that everyone has a phone at all times is a recent thing and as OP said agreeing to such request makes you a slave to your phone and your woman. Try leaving the house sometimes without the phone, making your own decisions rather than depending on phone at all times. to OP: you are married so I assume you are living together - if she wouldn't hear from you for 24 hours without knowing your wher…
/r/askTRP10/05/16 08:54 AM
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How does that line up with the idea of captain amd first mate? Following through is what makes the real difference. Never said that I tell her what do do, just that I expect her to do what she said she will do. I expect that of everyone. I despise people that make promises and when time comes they check out, because it might be difficult. However I did fuck up by letting her move in, wasn't that RP aware at the time and it seemed as "nice" and "kind" move...there is a name for it in here ;-)
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 11:24 AM
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Exactly, the main point I made with my LTR: she hardly ever follows through. Said she will get up early and go to the gym - sleeping late etc. Not for the fact that she would go to the gym, but if she drops her plans and intentions as easily just because it is comfortable, easier - that's one of my main red flags. I would also add another from my flags: allow her to do almost anything, check how much she will push when she feels comfortable (she will stop trying after marriage, so best to show h…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 08:37 AM
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But they don't need to have social skills - attractive woman can do anything and most guys will still kiss the ground she walks on. I think Sandman recently had a podcast on this: atractive chicks have some skelletons in their closet - just because they know, they can get away with it. Cannot argue the autistic girls (although I have mostly heard about autistic guys)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 11:03 AM
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This works well if you are trying to get a woman to do something - reward her later with attention; but what to do when you want a womand NOT to do something? Withdraw attention would be the logical answer, but chicks don't connect why you withdrew the attention - it is necessary to be clear about this. This is my main problem, not how to get a chick to do something, but how to make her stop...
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:03 AM
1

Add another one: chick wants considders herself an LTR after 1-2 months: Showing potential for beta provider: buying her stuff, listening to problems, being a "good boyfriend" Possible solution: assen up, become more of a jerk, do not listen, show that sometimes you don't pay attention (but sometimes - so she knows she is not that important), don't let shit tests slide (sometimes chicks needs and actually wants to be put in her place).
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 09:17 AM
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There are things that cannot be explained quickly, especially when they require the audience not only to read something, but to stop for a moment, think about it, let it fester and draw your own conclusions. What I see in this post is exactly what I see in TRP in general - the posts, topics are merely a framework and each person has to do the lion share of the work - this takes time and cannot be done in "5 quick steps". What I see in this series is people writing: "But I know this" To me this a…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 08:54 AM
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One more thing I would add to what you just said - people in general don't like to be wrong - and making any change, bettering yourself requires that first step is to take an honest look at yourself and admit that something is wrong, needs improvement. You say that you crave self improvement - most people I bump into on a day to day basis don't want self improvement...they say they want to learn something, get better at something else, but in reality they are convinced that they do "everything t…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:54 AM
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Shit, recording a breakup message - you might actually gave the best way possible :D. Hold the recorder to chicks face and see how she reacts - love it
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:44 PM
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You could try changing the therapist - if therapy doesn't give any results after couple of sessions it's pointless. Good therapists should aim to make you self-sufficient, not needing to go to therapy constantly, but unfortunatly it is easier for them to say: just hold on, it will pass...and keep billing you.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 03:35 PM
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They can and they do - (sexual) harrasment claims are closed cases in my oppinion: how would you explain? No I wasn't looking at the other person in this way? Doesn't matter - feelz were hurt and used as a weapon. Also what other guys said - it's Canada and remember what their PM said about why so many womyn in his cabinet: it's 2016...it means the year of the women, feelz and irrationality.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 09:02 AM
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Whenever I play any video game and everything is going easy and smooth I suspect that something is amis and it's a trap - usually I'm spot on. If everything is going so good, chick is trying, being nice, paying for shit and what not - I would consider it alarming at least. So you say she started going to the gym - cool, so you say she want's to move out from her parents - and let me guess: live with you - and this is the point where the fairly tale ends. Do whatever you can to keep the current i…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:50 AM
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Agree with everything you say, but "good genes" is somewhat dangerous term, as most people think they have good genes. I haven't heard many guys saying: I won't have kids because I'm short, or have male pattern baldness.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:42 PM
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You throw a lot of big words (funny you should use mansplaining on TRP...). Your credentials mean nothing to me as a matter of fact, they proof nothing. But what they do suggest is that you forgot how to be an entry level corporate drone. It is easy to be a partner and shareholder and tell: "be your own man" as there is virtually no one that can call you out on your bullshit. You somehow didn't mind to make an ad hominem remark "You can't really be this pathetic" And really - explaining yourself…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:09 PM
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Well, actually I think that in regards to biology it is not that simple. How I see it, when male would conceive an offspring the male would bring food to the female and later to female and offspring...but the male is not much involved in raising the offspring until it becomes grown enough to hunt (speaking for male offspring). So currently, the idea of having kids is not that natural, because it requires man to split the caring of child in a way of 50/50 (or with single fathers closer to 100%) -…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:56 PM
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Also...you don't really know how corporations work do you? Corporate culture usually demands some sort of conformism (you wouldn't go for a top management meeting in a t-shirt...unless you own the company or this is normal policy). When OP wrote he feels, I'm quite sure he meant that this is his impression and not emotion - learn the difference and don't bash fellow RPer for something you misunderstood. Although, after some time in corporation I do agree, it's important to have own style, method…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 09:01 AM
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This might not be the hamster, this might be the courtesy - would you think of her better if she would dump the old boyfriend telling him: because you are boring, lame, pushover? If people would accept: "I don't want to be with you" without asking for a reason that's how it would be - but because most people "need" to know (not that it will help in any way) so when dumping it is common to make up reason (it's not you, it's me). Also the conclusion shouldn't be AWALT (this we know, but it wasn't …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 02:55 PM
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I might be in opposition to most comments, but there is a concept claiming that depression (and most mental problems) are caused by chemical imballance. My first suggestion would be to do full blood panel (including hormones), whenever you feel fine go and workout, workout hard - this will create a feedback loop (working out when being fine makes you feel well, so if you are in your low and go to the gym brain might recognise it as a signal that you should feel better), Balanced diet.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 01:55 PM
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No, it was the truth - you killed the romance by "making her happy". You were a utility and luckily (by accident) you dodget the bullet - otherwise you would always be used by her to make her feel better. Once you stopped being usefull to her, she dumped you. Being strong doesn't mean physically strong, but in case of your past relationship the physical strenght (or things you can do for her) was the only thing. Also...when you need her by your side? This is the moment chicks know they have a ho…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 07:48 AM
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As a matter of fact...I do, just so I can throw her out of my flat.
/r/askTRP16/03/16 09:08 AM
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This is an interesting topic (unsure you got downvote for this). Read in many places that Zinc is very good supplement when working out, boosts T-levels etc. I have been suplementing with Zinc for around 3 months now and frankly...I don't see any result, athough not sure if it might be because I'm not supplementing enough or that something else is missing with my diet or workout.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 08:45 AM
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Are you living together? From my past experience (and present as well) the moment LTR moves in with me is a downward spiral. I think (in my case at least) it dials down to having someone around all the time makes me annoyed with that girl and definitely not horny. When you first hook up its mostly touching, kissing, sex - or you are parted, when you move in the "normal" daily things start to take over and I stop viewing the person as such sexual object. I boink my LTR 1 every week maybe even per…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 08:38 AM
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They use victimizing and shaming as a way to get to the top, but fail to understand that once on top they too will be the target for all attacks - and as we know, they don't have any idea how to fend off an attack when there is no one to do it for them.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 12:28 PM
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I noticed after one evening with my LTR (that she named: the best talk we ever had...) what it means for her to "talk" and to be friends. All I did during this time was "uhm" and as experiment I didn't say the usual "I understand" but rather "thats tough", "can't imagine" etc. What I noticed from this was: Friend to a woman is someone that tries to connect with her emotionally But even better if the person is showing that although listening it is "hard to understand" - this allows her to feel sp…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 01:07 PM
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I would add one bullet to your list: -Are ready to have their world crushed just to rebuild it brick by brick.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 01:05 PM
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Al Bundy said this years ago
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 09:39 AM
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This sounds like a great solution to how most people would admit they are not perfect and need improvement - the only problem is that majority would just say: ok, I'm not perfect, but who is/what can I do with it. With your approach it is focused on changing the small things, instead of "making myself better" which is extremely vague.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 02:13 PM
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Did the same with my mate I pulled the guy to the gym with me for almost a year now - after gym I made it sort of a habit to go for a spliff (kind of reward for getting his ass to the gym). In the process he doesn't drink as much beer, trains hard and limited the weed intake (when he used to smoke 4-5 blunts daily), now it's 2 after the gym. Not to mention, joint-time is a good moment to pass some RP knowledge
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 08:54 AM
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That was the night I learned I don't like black chicks Why is that? Frankly I've never even spoken to black girl (they are extremely rare in my country) so to me they are complete mystery.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 11:05 AM
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This is my problem with the no-fap: I loose libido, when I was fapping I got horny from time to time, but once I stopped (for the past 4-5 months I fapped maybe 4 times) and it's gone. I'm in a LTR and just don't have the sex drive, it got to a point that my girl is begging me to fuck her but I just want to go to sleep. But it's not LTR only - I don't care about sex whatsoever. And again, if I fap it is back to "normal". Just to point out that rule: stop fapping is not universal for everybody.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:38 AM
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Shit, I've done the same thing this year. As my LTR was misbehaving week prior to V day. On Sunday when she asked what I have planned, I told her that V day is a reward for good behavior and asked if she think she deserved it. She sulked for a while, but later went out and brought me a cake and made dinner.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 05:23 PM
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This is something I've been pondering about. Chicks don't accept the idea of becoming thinner because they were always told (and believe in this with all their heart and soul) that they are perfect they way they are...well, you cannot improve perfect, so how losing weight/going to gym will make her life any better? I noticed it only works, if a chick gets hooked on just going to gym and really working out - the effects come at later stage, but she needs to endure the beginning when it is tough (…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:18 AM
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And instead of not being legal it will soon be mandatory, or bachelors will be taxed - that is how blue pill/socialist politicians work.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:31 PM
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You can try Elliot Hulse that OP has suggested: HERE
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:22 PM
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From my point of view it is a matter of internal dialog: you are/should be honest with yourself. You are the only one who can differentiate if something is just a whim (buy a bag of donuts/chips) - that will go away after some time, or if the thing is a lasting need that will benefit you, if not now than in future. As I see it being a man is understanding your needs and not following them blindly. If you want to do something think why you shouldn't do it, if you don't want to do something think …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:16 AM
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This is something that took me very long to understand about frame (what is the mystical frame) - it is a measure of how you are confident about the reality you live in and that you are presenting. Of course you could next every chick that doesn't respond with clear and eager YES, but for chicks everything is a shit test - so when she doesn't say explicit NO I would treat it as a shit test - one that can be passed and get one laid.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 01:56 PM
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This is somewhat helpful but would you be able to give some good examples(when and how it could be used successfully)? For me, being a trp noob, it is still kind of vague and in a sense "you will feel it".
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 11:06 AM
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I think good example is in school if a kid would do something incorrectly: Female teacher would say something to keep the spirit of the child (very good, but it's not what I was looking for - as to not hurt the child) Male teacher will focus on the merit, so that a kid can better themselves (Show that something is incorrect and show where and why, holding to the facts and not how one feels about this)
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 12:59 PM
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In Poland there is a "joke" that the most Alpha guy would walk up to a girl and say something in line of: do you fuck or will I have to date you? I once though about it as funny, now I realize it might...it will work.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 12:32 PM
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No, do not marry period - woman will always have agenda. I'm quite convinced that this guys wife was supporting it at first - but later she felt she might look bad in comparison - so what is the best way to get out of this situation? Force the guy to stop working out.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 10:28 AM
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Don't - once you get in her head you fall out of your frame. She sends nudes, since it doesn't "cost" anything - to be on the safe side (not saying it is like this for 100%) you can assume she only send the nudes to keep you on her hook - to keep you interested. And, seeing this post - she was successful - you are way overthinking this - nothing good comes from overthinking.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:47 AM
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And trust me, it's much better/easier to be dumped than to have to duck a chick yourself with all the crying, terrorizing, drama etc. As others suggested, move on - it really does work if you let yourself believe in it.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 11:22 AM
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Can I ask what is the situation with your parents? (What I mean is, would they stand on your side should shit hit the fan?). I'm asking because you (and your parents) are the employer of the school, of the teacher - and maybe, just maybe it is time to switch schools (if possible). It's something I learned in the workforce and relationships - if there's something in your workplace/relationship you don't like and cannot change it the best way to keep your integrity is to change the workplace/relat…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 09:16 AM
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Your Grandma gave you the best lesson and gave it very early (as you said, you are 21 yo - most people don't know/don't allow this though through their lifetime): People are selfish Woman might be in particular, but always suspect that someone has an agenda, although it might not be clear (even kids cry when they want something, because they know it will help with their cause - consciously or not). It seems that although very tough situation you know your goals and even in very tough conditions …
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 11:25 AM
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As a corollary to the "law of attraction" that you mentioned - a corresponding thing when riding motorcycle/bicycle: if you fix your eyes on something you don't want to hit, you will hit exactly that spot. This actually fits many BP (know from personal experience) when focusing on failure with a chick was so overwhelming that failure was certain from the beginning.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 01:51 PM
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Body breaking down is a symptom that although your superficial muscles might be strong, the stabilizers are not that much. I've been watching many videos of Elliott from here: https://www.youtube.com/user/strengthcamp Dude explains everything in a very straight forward way Also, I would supplement the watching with https://www.youtube.com/user/JDCav24 Also some good inputs. All in all, if you get injuries from normal training (not getting hurt in any way) it's your body telling you to slow down …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:55 PM
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Dude, that was deep! I love how this Sub keeps opening my eyes on small things. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 12:34 PM
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I didn't say you don't/can't criticize them, but how they react. In most cases if you criticize a guy (and it's a valid criticism) he might get a bit angry, but will agree - after he allows for reason to speak. If you would do the same with woman - she will get upset/angry, because you showed that she is not perfect - something that the world has been telling woman for a long time now. Again, not saying that it happens with 100% of woman, but close to it. *Edit: and don't fall for the apex falla…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 01:57 PM
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The second doesn't work because women do not want to have guy friends, they want friend for validation, support without usually giving anything in return (at least not what the other part wants). This is why such friendship is unlikely to exist, women in general (not all, but definitive most) cannot give a guy what he needs from friendship (understanding, loyalty, honesty and if necessary criticism). With man/woman friendship the relation is that guy treats a girls like his girlfriend (commitmen…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 10:31 AM
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What I've been doing for a long time, if a woman expects ANYTHING from me I first stop doing it and later most likely dump her- I show her that whenever I'm doing anything for a woman it is because I wanted to do it and I did it for my pleasure; the moment she starts to expect something I stop doing it immediately to show that I'm the one who decides when she gets it. Same goes for fucking, sometimes I will tell her I don't want to fuck and make her earn it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 09:44 AM
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Nice post, During the read I have realized something: Women put up the shit tests to see if the "form" you are presenting is really the final product - should you fail the shit test, you are still Work-In-Progress, hence less interesting (doesn't mean it disqualifies a guy).
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 01:20 PM
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Good read, although I do not agree fully with one notion: to talk only to chicks you plan to lay - I think it is a good think to just chat with some chick with no plan, just to see their reactions, to experiment (without hoping for anything) - and should the girl become interested, you become Marco from your story, the "intriguing" guy that doesn't want to fuck her (and let her spin the hamster)...
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:40 PM
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Yes, you got it 100% right - women will set goals for a guy (any guy), only so he can reach them, they will check if off of their list and set new goals - that's why there's no way in "pleasing" woman by doing what they say.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 02:31 PM
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But is there any law that forbids recording without disclosing it? Not for publishing but for the...recordskeeping. Seems this would be the only option, to document every intercourse on video.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 12:23 PM
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This is the problem, you wanted to be sure before ending it - and if you push enough buttons everyone will break eventually. Shit tests are meant to display how much guy can handle - shit test are necessary FOR YOU, just to cover your ass in case something goes south, so you can reject the responsibility of the relationship. If you see any red flags (shit tests are not needed for this) a person should end the relationship just based on the flags - but you need confirmation that what you are doin…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 10:56 AM
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Dont think that because she's your sister you can reason with her - I know because I am in the same situation, older feminist sister - AWALT, always knows better, never her fault (even though she's a single mother. And why is she a single mother? Because the father was an "asshole" (sorta Chad - dude had like 4 kids with different woman) and she left him - still his fault, not her bad choice)
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 09:13 PM
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Lol, the dude on the dumbbell pullover photo has sandals :D Anyways, great read - will try it on Friday!
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 10:13 PM
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They might want to chase the alpha, or ex-alpha - but "Desperate houseviwes" is not real, rich, handsome, bulk and smart alpha (so one that "successfull" woman wants) can and will get a 25y.o. HB9 and not a 35-40+ y.o.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 12:19 PM
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I don't think that this will ever happen - the "fall of betas". You assume that women only want financial resources from men/betas - the truth is they want resources they cannot get themselves. Most of the production (and therefore the value that is created) is still created by men - women don't build roads, houses, they do not work in many dangerous environments. What are we looking at in future is a world with "educated" women (you know, social studies, history of women and other bullshit) and…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 12:09 PM
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As most of you failed to noticed OP is not asking if he should get married, but where to find mates to spend time with when current male friends don't have time due to marriage/kids and what not. I think that if your friends are marrying/having kids and therefore don't have time to spend with you, you shouldn't worry - it's their problem (they are the ones that don't have time right?), if you haven't already - find a hobby (one, or more) things that you enjoy doing alone but can do with others a…
/r/askTRP17/11/15 12:32 PM
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You could actually post the name of the company, so that someone outside could email the company with the same question... Otherwise I would suggest anonymous press information (there are buy working in newspapers). Only way to do it is not to do it by yourself, but let the D&I explain the same thing to someone outside.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 10:53 AM
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