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Thanks dude I just need time to focus on myself, I just really need it
/r/askTRP06/09/18 12:32 PM
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A good example of this is the woman beating fiasco, I've been here for yrs, so for those not in the know over time trp members were starting to support woman beating, if you go to the top all time posts you can see a post where mods had to shut that shit down I'm glad guys like the OP and others are addressing the ability of users to think critically, because as with the woman beating scandal when trp is misinterpreted there are dangerous effects.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 12:48 AM
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Yes, I am indeed black, a black african to be specific
/r/askTRP22/04/17 10:04 AM
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Yeah I'm finishing university now, so trying to achieve financial independence for myself, so at least I can rely on myself or my mum at worst, but not him at all sadly Not the answer I wanted to hear, but you're right, I'll give it more thought as I grow up, had a series of fwbs and ons, a first LTR would be a good place to start. Shame culture is still strong in West Africa,husbands and wives might lead separate lives if the marriage goes to shit, but divorce is a no go so ideally I'd find a w…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 09:36 PM
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Thanks, do you have any personal experience with the question I've asked ? I will check out the book
/r/askTRP19/04/17 11:38 AM
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fair enough
/r/askTRP19/04/17 11:37 AM
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lol asset rich, cash poor, maybe in the future that might be an option, even then I'd prefer to have my child raised by family
/r/askTRP19/04/17 11:37 AM
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Painfully offensive, it's as if black africans can't have wealth in their own countries My grandfather was simply a banker in my country, why escalate to wild speculations dude ?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 11:36 AM
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Thanks for being one of the few people to give a reasonable reply, plus for being a generally great contributor He's not drugged up, he's just incredibly lazy and unreliable so my mum tries to instill responsibility and leadership in me But what if I do want to have children through marriage ? Is it ever a safe and reliable option ?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 11:35 AM
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Felt the pain in your words OP, just go monk for a while, cut off this girl and rebuild yourself into a better man. As always with TRP, the gym is a good place to start, your career seems good so you've got a major part of your life sorted. Focus on what's important Yourself
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 10:19 PM
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"Mentally satiating" is a great way to put it! I agree with others that music can put you in a very proactive state of mind if used correctly which is a nuance you touched upon. After reading this post, I agreed with the majority of the OP because I abuse music to put myself in a state of placidity, reaching a point where I believed music was the ultimate controller of my state of mind and that doing tasks without music was largely impossible. Obviously that's wrong. So today I spent the day wit…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 09:08 PM
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Well ideally when you get a chick's number, she's given it to you because she's interested and by giving away too much about yourself over text, that intrigue dies out, it's hard to convey being cool over text when you haven't established a good face to face relationship
/r/askTRP01/05/16 04:38 PM
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nah man today OVO radio has a live broadcast of the whole thing at 10pm
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:35 PM
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Assuming you had a flirtatious vibe with her when getting the number, you didn't really convey this by text bruh you could have found out if she was off by googling the shop's opening times haha When it comes to texting it's important to have built a good flirtatious face to face dialogue, because you then have a reference point for texting and you're more memorable Eg. Got a phone number off a girl in the library, text her a stupid joke about the book she was reading (to jog her good memory of …
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:33 PM
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It could be you're soft spoken (they can't hear you) or they're not interested in what you have to say. The basis of social success imo, is being warmly accepted by the majority of guys where you're at - obviously you'll have different levels of friendship with them all but even for them to acknowledge and accept you is some form of social proof. From there it's about you having status in the group, which is achieved through having charisma, being funny or excelling at something cool (eg. a spor…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:27 PM
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You'll never think your SMV is high enough to start approaching, because it's easy to create excuses as to why you shouldn't approach. Best place to start, before you leave your house, look in the mirror and ask yourself if you look like somebody respectable, confident, somebody worth giving attention to If the answer is no, go to malefashionadivce, it's surprisingly easy to act confident when you look confident, kinda like feeling cool just for wearing a suit. The looks part is important, becau…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:36 AM
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To add to this OP, you're experiencing failure, it's experience of mediocrity, it's easy, comfortable and means you don't have to do anything Now set yourself up for success, see how high you can go, find a focus (g.career) and do all you can to excel, then you would have distinguished yourself as a somebody in a whole full of nobodys *I know what you're going through, I was pissing my degree down the drain when I knew my problem required a simple fix, all I had to do was start working and quit …
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:21 AM
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Yeah you're right, but how do I display my intent ? So like talk, dance, kino and isolate?
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:37 PM
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Some good gems in there summarising RP " I think once they are "truly" red pill they are just confident men with enough self-respect not to neg you, insult you, etc. If they don't like you they won't waste their time talking to you." "I think the ultimate goal of a rp man is to not need a woman to be happy, but still be able enjoy her company, be it by sleeping with a lot of women " "People new to RP tend to be the chaotic ones that will walk up to you and outright insult you and casually await …
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:02 PM
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I've pursued women more aggressively, which is the common trend in this thread. I also get harder - which honestly feels great
/r/askTRP15/03/16 10:22 PM
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I never said that, it's just a good way to lose weight, very conveniently - just go outside - then run.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 07:45 PM
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Yeah what type of work environment allows this shit to happen, I think OP and this guy are surrounded by betas and women, so the guy is trying to AMOG and OP is his target
/r/askTRP10/03/16 11:42 PM
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Point taken - You ever tried standing up to him, man to man ? I doubt he'd start a fight at work, forcing him to stand down - all bark no bite Something similar happened to me at college, when I when up in the guy's face he didn't want a fight, so he stood down and left me alone
/r/askTRP10/03/16 11:21 PM
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'What you need' Baby keep on those high heel shoes I love it when you're looking down at me I'm looking up at you I don't give a damn baby watch me knock your shoes off' I'd interpret that whole song as seducing a girl in a relationship, with your assertiveness and self-confidence you knock away her facades (makeup, high heels, beta praise) you see her for what she is, so you give her what she needs
/r/askTRP10/03/16 11:15 PM
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Meh I'd argue he's fine starting out as a weeknd copy cat, but the dark 'trilogy' weeknd would be a good base to start from, as nobody I've heard has filled that niche
/r/askTRP10/03/16 11:12 PM
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From what you said this shit is coming from one guy? A first thought would be to ignore his stupidity, he's probably getting a power trip from seeing you react helplessly to want he says and does. When you ignore him, (not blindly staring into the distance but going about your usual duties, what is he going to do? He sounds like he's all bark and no bite imo) He looks childish. Besides that, I'd suggest you take up jogging, it's easier than physically going to the gym and it'll help you look lik…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:56 PM
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To expand on this - they want your ability to make choices and show leadership. I had a female friend who used to drive me around, smart young woman at a top 10 university, yet she struggled to make choices when it came to direction It could be us driving down a one-way road going right, she'd become confused and need me to tell her to go right (I wish this was a fucking joke, but as I made more choices, she'd need me to make even more) It is was, it is
/r/askTRP10/03/16 10:31 PM
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Haha Drake literally says this in a song where he's like, Women just wanna sleep with me or atleast know that they can No guy has it perfect folks, some just have it better than others...
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:18 AM
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Yeah that's why I didn't bother with it, I did the general small talk challenge because it seemed reasonable, but talking to a random woman for 30 mins is a fair stretch. Keep doing what your doing, ill see you next challenge
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 10:22 PM
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Great work, haven't seen other users log progress as you have. Maybe in the future /u/bsutansalt could emphaise progress tracking in the OP. It has helped me a lot to stay focused on challenges and provides a good basis for reflection, which could benefit others
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 12:01 AM
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This seems to exemplify the 80/20 rule, being that the top 20% of guys get most of the girls, which is probably why some of the posters can't see where your coming from, if there in the 20%. OP it's not that deep, your game is probably slacking. Your in one of the best capitals of the world! Go out and daygame! You're right girls do ignore average joes because their boring, from what I've read what makes you different from thirty Joe Bloggs? Are you charismatic,funny,interesting? Do you dress we…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:46 AM
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This post was long winded parts like the below, could be cut, or said in fewer words: I said, I have had 2 shots of Whiskey tonight, but I am no where near drunk/tipsy/buzzed. It annoys me a little bit though, because I am fucking doing them a favor! As we are walking towards the car, I get on and bench a tippy toe walk on it, and tell this girl: "See, if I was drunk could I do this?" Then Miss Piggy Blue eyes, jumps and says something: "I could easily do that if I was drunk!", I laugh my ass of…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:08 PM
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OP it's a bit long winded and repetitive but the overall gist of the piece is ok
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:05 PM
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The fear of humiliation is diminished when you realise how self-centered people are and that confidence is always attractive. At most if you fail your attempted approach becomes a funny story for a girl to tell her friends, then it's forgotten about it the sands of time, you'll just become an other blurry unfamiliar face in her memory. At best you display confidence and assertive, having more balls than most guys do and boldly stating how you feel and what you want, being a phone number and a da…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:04 PM
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Legacy as I see it, is the ability to leave behind something to make the lives of future generations easier, fair enough if you don't want one, but in my family it's what we do.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:15 PM
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Yep checked legal laws in the UK earlier, if the judges believes that the trust is your key financial asset (not an emergency saving fund for instance) he can include it in your divorce settlement. Meh I'm 20, I'll see how the laws change in the future, if not I just won't get married. It's a shame seeing how marriage used to be an honerable union, now it's like giving your wife a gun and hoping she doesn't get an itchy trigger finger
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:17 PM
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It's just a phase, I went from living in a multicultural city to a city mainly full of white people, once you've pulled a white girl a few times it feels good, just to know that you can - esp in a white environment But generally race is never on my mind when doing anything, as black people it's easy to feel we don't belong/ shouldn't be doing certain things in certain places eg. Daygame and in fear of being called white (such a stupid slur) I just abandoned those thoughts and began doing what I …
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:32 PM
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Magic City on a monday mentioned in TRP? We out here for real
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:23 PM
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The pre-nup might break but the trust shouldn't, that's why I want it in addition to the trust
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:53 PM
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It would be between my brother and I * Looked it up and trusts can be viewed as financial resources in divorce courts and will be taken account of in a divorce That's a real shame, marriage might be a miss, but I still want children, generation upon generation has worked to build up my family, if my bro and I decide not to get married and never have children, then it all feels short lived and everything would die with us. Good question OP, for guys like us who want a legacy, what is end game?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:51 PM
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A TRP community in real life would be too risky, but it would be great to be surrounded by like minded people. Out of curiosity how is life as an older bachelor going?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:19 PM
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The trust should still protect me though
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 02:16 PM
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20 years old: The end game for me is looking like, my family putting all of our assets together in a trust, getting the chick to sign a waterproof pre-nup and then get married Some TRPers are married, they refer to it is as 'The Red Pill on Hard mode'. The idea of raising children and having a 'good' wife is very alluring, compared to sticking to the bachelor life, although that too is good. There would still be a feeling of emptiness not having my own family in the future, because my family now…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:13 PM
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Meh crime is crime, anyway I don't care too much, just wanted to ask some questions and look at his evidence.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 08:21 PM
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Your opinion is valid on face value because it's backed up by fact, plus it promotes discussion - which if not engaged leads to problems as in the OP. So Why do you think most murders are committed by blacks, I'm intrigued? *Quick look at your source and the difference between white and black murder rates is 8% - here we see how sensationalist language is used for dramatic effect. Someone else could say 'Just under half of all murders committed by whites!' Therefore making them "a massive proble…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 04:21 PM
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The point about selfishness is the most valuable one here, sometimes it's best to be selfish and in doing so focus on yourself, because it allows you to spend time giving value to yourself (eg. getting enough sleep, going to the gym, getting work done). With time people will come to value your attention more, because it isn't something you have given away freely, and they'll want to bbe associated with you because you've taken time out to become a worthwhile human being. It's a strange phenomeno…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 10:36 AM
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That was really well put, in fact it's something that most ethnic men could understand, when the media portrays your culture as bad you reject it. Your also right that we should westernize ourselves, but that doesn't mean forgetting your roots. For instance I'm black but if asked in public where I'm from (for the sake of appearances) I'd say I'm English (born and raised in London) just like you'd say your Canadian, the only difference between us is that I identify as African. Go beyond the veil …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:58 PM
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This is such rubbish, you're better off embracing your culture, it's something different from Western culture so it seems cool and unique. You can of course try and act white but who are you fooling, they'll see you as false (and a clown, ethnic guys who try and act white are always made fun of because they'll do anything to be accepted so they put up with it) and worst of all you'll be rejected by your own culture - making you a true outsider and an alien every where you go. Plus nothing imo be…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 04:26 PM
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weds: spoke to cashier thurs: spoke to some ppl at church
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 02:48 AM
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Mond: Spoke to cashier tues : Fail
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:26 PM
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spoke to friendly taxi drivier
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 02:55 AM
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Weird Got approached by 2 international students at on uni campus, they seemed cool but it was a surreal experience, the chick was doing most of the talking and it felt kinda like how a girl would feel if she was approached. Naturally I was shocked and kinda in awe, I tried to let the convo die as I wanted to be left alone, but she kept asking me questions about myself, which is key as she didnt let the convo die and she was encouraging me to talking about myself, which people normally love to d…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 11:30 PM
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Tues: Nothing Weds: spoke to cashier
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 11:58 PM
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Agreed, if you're a guy who needs to talk about deep shit, you're best consulting a close male friend, they'll listen to you and even offer good advice. Having said that your value is still top priority, if it falls a close male friend will be there fore a while, but if it keeps dipping you'll get abandoned.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 11:56 PM
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When handling a shit test, do it in a way that's funny to you This mindset also helps your outcome dependence because your main goal is being true to yourself, your second goal your trying to get the girl
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:12 PM
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Done nothing the past 2 days Today though: Gave a black guy, the black guy nod (when two black people see each other and you make eye contact, sometimes a nod of acknowledgement is given/recieved) Spoke to some guy on campus about a student debt board - not nice seeing the figures :/
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 11:16 PM
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I was going to neg you for promoting infidelity, but it's not truly a bad thing. In my parents time, a married man was allowed to have a 'sweetheart'. He could sleep with her and even have children with her, but he couldn't leave his wife for her. This isn't really a bad thing, the man gets to have numerous partners and his wife gets lifelong protection and security (something the 'sweetheart' wants but will never get)
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 11:12 PM
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Spoke to checkout girl plus I spoke to a homeless guy whilst giving him a free book, I always see him reading and since as a literature fan myself I have too many books, I gave him one. He looked SO fricking happy
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 10:47 PM
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Ran a bike stall, had to approach quite a few people to sell and had some good banter
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:16 PM
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Yep straight outta the Disney handbook, I don't blame him though some of us can identify with that shit, once upon a time. It's a shame his wife will become a typical American woman once in the States.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:13 PM
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My story is basically the same as yours, just that after acting out and failing in school for too long I remembered that my Dad took his faith seriously so I thought that would be a good place to start. It worked well, I got to college and helped my mum more, so homelife improved. I knew I needed a masculine figure so I looked to the men/friends around me for guidance, that worked less well because copying somebody's actions without understanding them can be very confusing Then at the grand old …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 10:19 PM
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Monday: Spoke to some chick in my Portuguese class, she's kinda cool. Complimented some girls having a bake sale, they'd been working some 9-5 and brought some cake Tuesday: quite day just stayed inside working Today: Asked some people what they were queuing for, turns out drama auditions are taking place, then simply said good luck to them and walked off Doing it is a lot easier when you don't over think it, just like opening sets
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 05:15 PM
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There's a difference between laying blame on the area and laying blame on one's race (let alone an entire continent haha), ghetto is the word you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 03:45 PM
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good post ruined by racial stereotyping, shame
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 11:01 PM
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Yeah you're right just next for awhile, if she was ever interested she will contact you worse case scenario you bump into her and get face time. Be careful though stuff like this "I would love to secure her as a regular plate" sounds needy, plenty of other options after all
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 10:10 PM
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If you're constantly asking this specific girl to hang out haven't you lost your outcome dependence?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 09:38 PM
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Hmm, perhaps dominance was the wrong word, it's more a partial sign of you're influence and respect (to a degree) among the people you neg For instance if you respect a friend and he highlights a bad trait in you, you might try to change depending on how much you respected his opinion. Additionally you're right, this doesn't work on the self-confident (social intelligence) or people that don't respect you're opinion highly. Negging if done wrongly can make you look like a try hard AMOG, so it's …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 09:20 PM
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quite day today, tried to talk to the dude next to me at a football match, but he didn't really hear me.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 08:30 PM
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Had jokes with shop assistant.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 11:51 PM
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Spoke to book shop assisstant about Sartre
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 11:49 PM
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No, the red pill is a discussion of sexual strategy. That encompasses everything related to sexual strategy. That encompasses learning game, learning about the nature of men and women, learning the nature of communication, exploiting this knowledge, and building yourself into the version of you with the highest chances of sex. Trying to reframe this as simply "self-improvement" is kowtowing to serve the feminine imperative. I don't care if sexual strategy sounds bad, or if that makes us misogyni…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 11:20 PM
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Don't know why you were negged, if OP was has high SMV and had female friends/ acquaintances at the party the girls had probably discussed him - Also known as social proof Still OP bossed it, he had to take the initiative very few girls will approach a guy
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:58 PM
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exactly! I made small talk with a shop assistant that turned out to be North Africa(White) and he guessed I was African myself because I was black. The guy gave me 50% off a $110 jumper.. That day turned out great completely due to making small talk with strangers
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:22 PM
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1st December: failed 2nd December: Spoke to some HR people 3rd December: Spoke to some guy I shared the lift with about football
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:12 PM
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It's up to us to generate our own content just like OP. In general what type of content do you want? edit Personally I'd like to hear how older black guys cope in job environments - generally game and socializing aren't problems but as a soon to be graduate I'm curious
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:04 PM
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TRPWerther will take part in this challenge
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:36 PM
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what's the posting format? I could tell I fucked up, checked the sidebar and couldn't find anything - I've messaged a mod so maybe they can help. And yes you're right, this guide is mostly for students (I'm one myself), I've tried this at sports clubs where I haven't known anybody in a none student setting and it works. I'll add a summary and a lessons learned at the bottom now
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 01:58 AM
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RSD Tyler did a video on this, on the surface it can appear as envy/ jealousy but really, their afraid that once you improve yourself you'll leave your stagnant friends/family behind. A good example is relationships, the guy wants to go to the gym, the girl stops him - if he gets fitter and so more attractive he might upgrade on his current gf. But if he stays home and becomes fat - she holds the power to jump ship when someone better comes along
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 07:06 PM
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Reading is good to internalize the info, but you'll learn much more quickly by approaching. If that's too much, start talking to strangers ever day until you become used to it. Then it when it's time to approach it should be easier.
/r/seduction21/11/15 11:18 AM
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But does seddit and TRP do that already? It's so cliche, but you don't ask a fish how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman. In my experiences when I've asked girls how to get girls, they just tell me to be nice and do loads of unwarranted favors for her. Maybe I'm wrong, I'll give the forum a look before casting judgement Just checked it out, it's not bad. I'm conflicted though, in the presence of women the dynamics of men change. New members may become purple pilled, aware of RP truths but stil…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 11:19 PM
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I couldn't dream of telling a girl about TRP, plus they don't belong here. I'm at university (bastion of feminism and SJWs) and one society that I'm in demands all men and Non-ethnics leave the room so all the feminists can talk in private - fair enough, I don't want that drivel in my life, nor do I feel like pointing about the hypocrisy. But the reverse should be true, men should have places, where only men are allowed. I suspect due to reddit guidelines Women's TRP was created but it's all a f…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 03:27 PM
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Nice work OP Introducing guests to other guests is a big must on my list, it makes the party flow more smoothly through breaking the ice. Some party goers don't mind breaking the ice themselves, but having the host do it seems more conventional and slightly more natural. How do you build a social circle large enough for a party? For example I've got a close group of friends, but we're only enough for a gathering. Inviting you're close clique is obvious. But outside that how do you know the peopl…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:52 PM
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Attack the comment not the user. Quit dragging down TRP
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 10:40 PM
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Yeah I used to dress up before but now I literally throw on a white tee,jeans and shitty black trainers (shoes always get ruined in night clubs) Funnily when I've been out dressed like I don't give a fuck that's when I'm most successful
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 10:48 PM
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This concept is raised in 'Manipulated Man' that media has been manipulated so that woman are largely viewed as sex symbols. This manipulation ironically enough is controlled by men, thus men have been conditioned to do everything they can to obtain women, through beta behavior of course. This is partly why the sex industry is so huge, as men we don't need very many material items but sex is an urge that we have to satisfy. In turn we become the biggest consumers in the sex industry. It's really…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 11:13 AM
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Extremely well put, when I was a teenager ill health and coming to grips with the death of my father really knocked me down, so much so I spent an entire summer in bed, waiting for everything to end. I don't know why but one day I woke up and vowed to choose life over death, after that day I never looked back. You're a living a living testament to life overpowering death
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 09:43 PM
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