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TRP_mask/r/askTRP28/08/19 08:49 AM
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TRP_mask/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:27 AM
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TRP_mask/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:36 PM
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Great post, but I would like to make a remark on the wanting to go out to make friends. I have that desire regularly, sure, but not always. That's because I'm not very extraverted (but very social) amd hence I really desire not having to talk to people occasionally. Being around people is fine, but the need for fun conversation and small talk... ugh. In other words, it's portraying a need to feel extraverted, which isn't fair to more than 50% of the population.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/23 11:02 AM
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What, that he married someone even though he wants to be free? If he'd learned anything from this sub he wouldn't have married at all.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/23 11:53 AM
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This is close to incel mentality, go touch some grass
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:47 AM
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If you're one of those many people that marries someone after less than a year of being in an LTR then of course you're at high risk of not having chosen the right person lol. This is about people who marry after they were already together for 5 years or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:15 AM
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It was obvious that with younger girl in this context he meant someone in that age range, at the very least 18. And yes, relationships between 18 and 28 happen to, I've seen it happen. I mean, literally my uncle and aunt have that exact age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:52 PM
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Yeah you'll find that many women from 20-25 go with a guy 5-10 years older than themselves, if not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:47 PM
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Idk in what world you live or how young you are but it happens A LOT
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:58 AM
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Lol you're joking in your first paragraph right? I'm pretty sure you're joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:28 AM
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Well that was a lot but to answer your question, I'm quite red-pilled and I'm active in a progressive center party called Volt (the pan-European party). I see no reason the 2 can't be combined, apart from the very extreme gender ideologies that come to light there and feminazis (sorry for the term but honestly this summarizes it best) that everyone is annoyed by anyway. LGBTIQ+ and "power to women!"-discussions can go far and it's the only thing about progressivism that annoys me, probably due t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 01:44 PM
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It would? You set the ground of why all women TRP works on have borderline, which is now not a valid 'why' anymore, and you claim the argument would be the same? I mean, we could talk about why it works when people have borderline, but the point of your post becomes completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 12:47 AM
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I didn't skip over that, it was already mentioned in an earlier comment
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 10:25 PM
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Yup, that safe and simple. You literally have no clue how the vaccine works huh. And besides, if you're that scared of being a guinea pig, you're not. Even though it was tested, at best the first people to get the shot were a guinea pig in some way (even though they REALLY weren't), and nothing happened. If you don't get any side effects in the first 2 weeks, you won't get any side effects at all because the vaccine will be completely out of your system. But stay scared of being a 'guinea pig', …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 06:52 AM
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You being scared or the MRNA vaccine's only interesting ingredient being a protein?
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 11:33 PM
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Might not give you long term immunity, but a blueprint of the genetic code of a deadly virus currently completely unknown to your body is a pretty damn good way to ensure that we can handle it better and less people get deadly symptoms. Then it might actually become a sort of flu.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 11:27 PM
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The reason they didn't want to be held accountable was because of what happened with Astrazeneca, and because it's not sure how long the effect of the vaccine on your immune system will last. There is a misconception that there can be long lastinf side effects. You can't, it's literally impossible. If you don't get side effects in the first 2 weeks, there is nothing left in your body to get side effects from period. So no matter how much it is pushed (which it is because EVERY COMPANY wants the …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 11:23 PM
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The only one scared is you apparently, for a vaccine containing simple proteins.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 11:14 PM
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So you didn't realise OP posted this to mock the original poster?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 11:25 PM
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That's not really true. That might hold for most people, but there's also many people that always care when they enter a sexual relationship because they don't care about relationship for just busting a nut. And yes, in that case, it sucks that you have to hold frame like that, but it's part of the game, and no, that's not the same as being a bluepilled idiot.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 03:52 PM
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I've felt like you have before. Maybe you really have completely moved on, but this is not necessarily the case. When I was dating after a 1 year LTR, I could definitely think about what I should do, that I should flirt, date others and have fun. But, for seemingly no reason because I wasn't feeling bad about 'losing her', I was unable to; something held me back. Took me 5 months only to get a hookup at a party. I hope you have already dealt with it, but this might not be over yet.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:55 AM
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Lol I'm still getting sex so I must be doing something right
/r/askTRP29/04/21 08:44 PM
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I'm comparing it with alcohol because this guy is not using it to cure an illness, but as a shortcut he shouldn't need, a supplement that makes him weaker cuz he needs it to change his mindset for a girl. THAT'S why I'm comparing it to alcohol. In all the paragraphs you wrote you failed to mention that OP here has none of those conditions. Idk about you, but I was still talking in the context of OP.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:35 PM
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That's a bs reasoning. There is no medical reason to use alcohol ever, just like this guy doesn't have defacto illness and doesn't need a pill to get him up to speed. The pill is not treating anything, and certainly won't treat him much longer if he keeps using it because your body adapts to it. Ever been addicted to a pill you no longer need/no longer helps you? It's awful.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:50 PM
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It's never healthy if your frame depends on a pill you have to take every day. It's the same thing as people that can't be social without alcohol. Might be a tool that's nice to use, but the core of addiction is thinking you need the drug to be something. Learn how to keep frame from it, and stop taking the pills. Also, seriously, joke around a little bit. She playfully teased you for that mask and what, you're afraid you're gay if you keep wearing the mask or something? She's just joking around…
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:24 PM
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Yeah that's very true. I never wanted to settle with the first girl I dated just because I was young (21 now) with so much to experience. But yeah, the mental block is just there. I know she's expressed she's fine with it and that's why I've been thinking about how I'll proceed now. I've fallen before this block before and I want to overcome it, but it's like I'm, idk, too careful? I guess I'll try that out, I 'need it to learn more.'
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:08 AM
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Not to put down this post or anything but the main reason it makes sense they end up banging is because both actors are usually RB10 models anyway
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 12:03 PM
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It was abundance mentality I was talking about, I've never seen 'abundance' used like that before. And abundance mentality is abundance in more than just getting sex
/r/askTRP13/02/21 04:47 PM
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If it gets you sex, it means you're winning on all other fronts already. I never said abundance isn't important; anyone taking the red pill should have an abundance mentality. But no, abundance does not imply regular access to sex
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:37 PM
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I have some issues with this response. Firstly, it's fine to use TRP for long term relationships. There is more than enough to find on how to keep a lasting LTR and even have kids, it's not bluepill in the slightest to want to settle at some point. It's more of a personal opinion really. Second, abundance does not imply regular access to sex. I bet a lot of people on here wish it was that easy. There's your own standards (I could fuck some HB3 if I wanted to but I refuse), your looks, the way yo…
/r/askTRP13/02/21 01:41 PM
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If I have a lot on my mind I literally forget to respond sometimes and accidentally ignore people for days.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:37 AM
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Then he's just busy? If you really want to know just text him again and find out
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:21 AM
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There's 2 things I can think of: He lost interest and saw your texts as a nice way to mutually close the dating, since he had his fun. I can imagine he isn't looking for something serious per se with a girl 12 years younger. He's thinking about the consequences. It's not the best image when a 38 yo guy dates a 26 yo girl in a serious relationship. It happens, but for serious relationships it can be tricky. If you made him think through your texts you're not entirely sure about everything you mig…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:00 AM
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He asked if you could break it down in bullet points, summarize it. Making separate paragraphs can help a lot too
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:51 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:50 AM
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You're right, but pretty much anyone is still unique. You'll find that the people closest to you that you know best have a lot more characteristic traits, maybe as small as the way they speak/words they use, how they react on a given time during the day, etc. But on first glance, or lesser known friends even, you can often characterise them. Note that this is not the same as saying everyone's the same.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 04:22 PM
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Ah yes. That girl you 'dated' for 2 months even though she barely felt that way, and have been stalking ever since. Stop caring about her lol Bette male
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:14 AM
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I disagree with meditating. I hear it helps some people a lot, but I find it to be a complete waste of time. Wouldn't delete all social media either, they can be a pretty good tool. Also, religion? I guess when people feel down it can be an escape, since religion is something people hold on to in tough times. Apart from those, solid list.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 12:11 AM
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You aren't taking advantage of them. You're not just getting pussy, you're giving them the d as well. It's not like women don't desire sex. I guess you can go down on her if you want her to feel better. Know that if you were a beta buck, she'd take advantage of you.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:27 PM
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It's funny that the part about her mom putting poison in her head is exactly why my first LTR ended
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 11:13 AM
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Oh this is how I rate any girl on online dating apps, always have. I don't ever like when all they have if face pictures or filters. There are the few actually interesting girls who are at least interesting, but most of them are the same
/r/askTRP24/12/20 03:49 PM
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Seriously, your post vs your replies is like adult vs butthurt 12 year old
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 10:44 AM
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Curious what you see as 'acting like women', because men have emotions too and idk if you've ever been so down that you need to talk about your issues, but I definitely have. It's a struggle to find the right people for that, because a lot of guys will lose some of their respect for you and girls will see you as less masculine, but I guess it also shows you your real friends. Being masculine doesn't mean being a fucking rock with no feelings at all.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 10:41 AM
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Not everyone is like that. My first was a 21 yo virgin, but she wasn't a virgin for any of the above mentioned reasons. I can assure you that after our rls she went all out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 11:57 AM
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Dude I listen to things from Gryffin, Illenium, Dabin etc. Emotional music. Lots of feelings. That doesn't say I'm beta. Who cares that I enjoy that music? I also enjoy some hard trap, or those same DJs throwing down Dubstep at parties. Can listen to anything really, and I dj myself. Bro if you listen to opera you do you. Part of being alpha is not caring about what other people think. Music is for your own enjoyment after all.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:59 AM
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No, I just meant the age. Mainly cuz at this age and age difference people usually get in different stages of their life. And of course, women start showing age from like 30. Might read the sidebar again though. Been a while
/r/askTRP22/11/20 07:02 PM
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Old post I know, but if it's a girl you've met beforehand it can be someone that's simply very attracted to you
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:46 PM
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You're overthinking texts. I can write anything in a text. Just wait, if she doesn't reply well, shame. You could even invite her to event x next week as a spontaneous invite to see if she maybe is interested. It's clear that she's stuck in your head, though, so set your mind to something else.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 01:35 AM
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Yeah true, I get what you mean. I've been with too few women atm to realise how little making out means (granted, I'm 20), or at least positively... making out with anyone with your ex nearby suddenly gets a load of shit over you lol, so the negative impact is definitely still there. I will have to give up the mindset of 'taking the final step' when making out with someone.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 09:28 PM
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Well yeah we're students so Uber is not really considered necessary ever, but I wonder why so many people including myself have done this before with no bad ending such as this. I will definitely keep it in mind though.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:48 PM
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First response that actually makes a lot of sense. Drunk said like 2 things inbetween the making out sessions, and after that she wasn't necessarily distant but thinking of it, her behaviour changed. It's good for me to reflect on this well since the game is there, and feels natural for the most part, I just need to filter out the stupid mistakes.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:39 PM
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Define 'followed', having her wait for me and giving me directions to her house doesn't make me consider myself creepy. One's gotta follow someone home for a one night stand. (Not walking home though, biking) I could keep the abundance mentality up all night tbh, which is also why this worked out in the end. I don't really know how to 'fake' abundance if you want to sleep with her at some point though, since you gotta make it clear somehow. How would you approach that? I'll also go for the numbe…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:02 PM
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Yeah a shitty bed for 1 person on the highest elevation of a student house wasn't gonna cut it, but I'll see if I can fix that in the coming months. I really don't see how this is a problem though. She's more comfortable in her own place and I can flee before dawn if need be lol. So far, all my one night stands have been at the girl's place.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:32 AM
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About your first point: of course you should always think of yourself as the prize, but stay realistic lol. If you'd worn my face and expected to be able to flirt with any girl you meet and find succes daily you'd be very, very disappointed. I don't care, and I still get lays, but it's realistic.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 09:06 AM
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There really is no positive meaning for it
/r/askTRP16/01/20 09:42 AM
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"When it comes to women though just be an "asshole" and attractive" You're here to learn TRP, not to become a NiceGuy lol. Yes, you're very wrong there.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 01:11 AM
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If this is the case after every LTR I don't think I ever want to be in one again
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:55 PM
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I like to believe that there's plenty of time for women when I graduate, but I often find that it's the opposite and I honestly don't know what to expect. Let hope for the former. I am definitely approaching girls, but it is often in a social drink environment based in one of a few associations I am known in. People come and people go, making it the most exciting thing at the start of the year (which is where I still had an LTR, ruining my introduction to many of the people I got to know back th…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 02:54 PM
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All the women I know are not from Computer Science because I have been going out with all the time I have. I do meet a lot of people both men and women because of how I choose my drinks and parties to go to, I've just simply lost my game like this post states. I am busy because besides university, I'm doing an Honors track at the uni's Honors academy, active in several committees at various associations which might change into a board year next year, I play in an orchestra and with whatever time…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:52 PM
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It's like you don't think STD's matter
/r/askTRP12/11/19 07:30 PM
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Precum is the reason there is a risk of getting someone pregnant without a condom even when you pull out
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:50 PM
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But that's the point! You can't rely on pulling out because it's influenced so easily. If you're fucking some hot chick and she gives you the sexiest look saying "cum inside me baby", something clicks inside of you and suddenly it seems the most beautiful thing in the whole world. And of course, STD's are a thing. Especially with older women.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:47 PM
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Dude, always wear a condom. I don't know anyone here that would tell you otherwise, what the fuck dude.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:02 PM
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Girls find it exciting to do sexual things to you behind their parents' backs
/r/askTRP12/11/19 06:00 PM
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I remember me pretty much confessing to a girl when I was drunk. She eventually picked some random guy and just started kissing him right in front of my face. I was so embarassed
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:58 PM
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"Shitting where you eat" should really not be used for students. You can definitely date a classmate considering it only lasts a quartile anyway and then you'll most likely never see her again in the same class.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 05:49 AM
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!remindme 1 day
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:46 AM
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School is inefficient untill you actually start studying (i.e. go to uni/college). Work hard enough to pass and spend all your other energy on lifting and going out. You're not obligated to drink you know.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:44 AM
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Yeah uni life right, looking to fuck a girl who has a bf 2 weeks from now when we go drink something. She hasn't mentioned him, I just know he exists but she doesn't care anyway.
/r/askTRP03/11/19 11:50 AM
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I recently got a text of a girl telling me sorry for ghosting me 2 years ago lol. Blew the mind of my friend in the meantime I said, who is one of the most bluepilled people I know but in trying to wake him up even he thought she was insane lmao. It's amazing how this post quite literally described her.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:51 PM
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That's not what I said. Never ask for advice on things people (read: strangers on reddit) cannot help you with, especially not with this little information.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:02 AM
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Then why the hell are you nervous lol
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:01 AM
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People cannot tell you how you should spend your time and live your life. The only one that has the information to make that decision is you.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:45 AM
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Oh now you're gonna act all alpha here huh? I added this profile for redpill only, I've been on the redpill for 2+ fucking years and had my fair share of experience. The texting is a GUIDELINE and the only reason you tell people to text for logistics is because they lack the experience when they ask about it here to not fuck it up. Attraction isn't gained through text but in today's society it's definitely a tool to extent attraction you've already built. So no, not an opinion. Your exaggeration…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:39 AM
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It's called oneitis and the only way to stop oneitis is by not seeinh her and fucking other girls. Now go reread the sidebar
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:33 AM
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Yes you should aim to text mainly for logistics, but your exaggeration is bs
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:28 AM
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I mean how do you want people to possibly answer this
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:22 AM
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Same here, but about 4 weeks ago and a 1 year relationship. Basically, I told her that once we break up we won't get back again because I don't believe in second chances. It's weird when I see her on campus coincidentally but apart from that I've been gaming other girls again and realised I missed that a lot. Also got a lot worse on it too. It's fun and it helps remind you that that one girl isn't 'special'
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:29 AM
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Holy shit America is so fucked up
/r/askTRP26/10/19 08:21 AM
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Why not do it the same way that you did it before?
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:54 PM
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Fraternity? Do you happen to mean 'dispuut'? Anyway, get a hobby, meet people on campus, go to a local bar. Many ways to start anew. And brach out, you've seen that it's important!
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:53 PM
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Dude, it doesn't matter what you look like. There are hot bodybuilders that are insecure. The only legit ground of insecurity is your own mind, and you're not gonna find confidence asking Reddit. Again, you have to work hard to achieve anything.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:19 PM
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Then go to the gym and work your ass off to improve. Asking strangers on Reddit will not get you confidence, they can't help you. All the tools are out there, including the sidebar, and you have to work hard yourself to achieve any of it even confidence. Something like that takes time, but in the meantime you can better work on your idgaf mentality because nobody cares about your man boobs except you. There is no magic pill that solves everything.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 07:13 PM
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Dude, when you get your clothes off I assume she's ready to have sex with you lol so she's not gonna give a shit anyway. Only thing she cares about at that point is your dick
/r/askTRP22/10/19 06:44 PM
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So what's your trick? Asking for a friend
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:52 PM
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I'm trying to imagine someone asking a girl 'can we have sex now?' without it being awkward and I just can't
/r/askTRP22/10/19 02:50 PM
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You don't, it's true. You always keep yourself from getting too emotionally attached. But on the other hand, who cares? As long as you get pussy you should focus on yourself anyway. Wait why the downvotes
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:13 PM
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Just do enough to pass. I'm an honors student myself in the Netherlands, loving student life and going out but studying always comes first
/r/askTRP22/10/19 12:11 PM
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It's as easy as to just stop wasting your time. No advice here is gonna change anything because you are in charge of what you do, and if you're too weak to stick to your own plans then that's a problem only you can solve. Maybe find a different study if you hate it that much.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:43 AM
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Nah this would've looked the same with any other girl that's equally attracted to you
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:32 AM
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I mean in uni it's basically fine to be a skinny little thing (I'm tall though but skinny for sure), if you dress the right way it can look amazing and way better than the average student
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:27 AM
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This first date doesn't tell us anything about her other than how you got sex out of her
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:22 AM
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It's because your only reason to engage in conversations is to get sex and it shouldn't be
/r/askTRP19/10/19 11:47 AM
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Have fun doing it. It's all a game, it doesn't matter anyway as you cannot lose, you can only win. You're the prize remember
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:54 AM
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The one that made me believe redpill more than before? Didn't really date women prior to TRP as I was 17, so I guess my first (or second actually idk) date is fine. Yeah she texted me last week lol, after more than a year. Even my beta friend figured out by now that she's fucking insane, and desperate for attention as well. "Sorry I didn't respond back then" gave me a good laugh.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:42 AM
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He's probably lying, his most recent post is about fucking someone 45-ish. Dude's 22 lol
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:37 AM
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Give her a sexual glimpse and then keep walking. Or ignore it and text her to come over tonight right after you left the room. Or whatever, it's so easy proceeding from here lol. Don't be a bitch almost screaming 'oh my god someone smacked my ass'
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:30 AM
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I know several people that would look bad and old when bald, but not you man... Saw your post history, you're fine. Just don't wear the hat anymore, and abundance, no need to worry about any responses.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:21 AM
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Wow dude he gave you advice, why the hate? Read the sidebar if this is new to you
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:18 AM
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You don't lose social skills, you fall behind. And you know damn well the only way to improve social skills: by being social. Go out
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:15 AM
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Go date someone your own age
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:14 AM
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So I met this girl once 2.5 years ago on another continent. Into each other at the time but of course nothing happened in 2 days in that setting but still we've been chatting ever since. I don't expect to ever go back but still keeping contact. Life's weird, friends can come from the weirdest places in the strangest times but they can be more loyal than any woman you'll ever date.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 10:06 AM
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Where do you go to clubs lol here every girl has beta orbiters and don't talk to anyone of any gender if you don't happen to have met her anywhere before. Guess it's a student thing (technical studies so yeah) but damn I want clubs like that
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:36 PM
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While in the end I wasn't the one actually breaking up with my LTR 3 weeks ago I definitely was prepared for this with this in my mind, although I'm 19. I relate so much to this
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:27 PM
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It's really not hard to go to a local pub and meet people
/r/askTRP12/10/19 08:48 AM
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I mean you can at least tell her why you left, even though she should know. The way you phrase it sounds like hard nexting gone extreme
/r/askTRP11/10/19 10:15 PM
3

I mean it can work if she is already super attracted to you but nah, this is a bit over the top. At least for many of the women I meet
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:22 AM
6

I actually did point one of my best bros in the right direction as well, but he had to find out his own hard way. At some point he was just being used by a girl I dated once (she's insane, literally. I'm glad nothing more happened). After having this girl ditch and try to ruin him, after another woman fucked him up like 4 months prior to that, he finally realised how it works. It's actually funny when we look back at it.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 09:51 PM
1

Oh 'murica
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:53 PM
1

I actually meant the sex after breakup part lol but this works too.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:59 PM
1

I mean we didn't fight or anything and I'm definitely not getting back with her. It's not like I suddenly go full 'fuck off' on her lol
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:55 PM
1

I already told her we should not meet up for like a few months to basically find our own way. Not planning on sitting still
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:27 PM
4

I will, I just got so much 'satisfaction', if that's the right word, of it that I was wondering if it's some weird psychological shit. First breakup so what do I know anyway.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:07 PM
4

Literally just making a shift in behaviour from being antisocial to networking with purpose is enough to make a change like this.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:17 AM
2

Being young is not really a reason. I have thought about fucking different girls rather than keeping the LTR but honestly, the LTR taught me so much and I'm quite satisfied with it. I actually would recommend anyone for an LTR just to learn, literally. It's not like you get into an obligation; you can end it any time
/r/askTRP12/09/19 12:16 AM
2

Giving guys their number is often a way to shify their attention
/r/askTRP06/09/19 05:10 PM
2

?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:06 PM
1

I don't want to change your view, you're absolutely right. Just stop changing the minds of people that are too blind to see it, because nothing will change anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 06:15 PM
2

I just want to say that if you sit on your computer, it breaks
/r/askTRP01/09/19 05:07 PM
0

Who hurt you bro
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:18 AM
2

Yeah well we had earlier discussions and she made it clear she can't do an abortion. With her being scared she told me she would, but it was clear now that she wouldn't be able to do it anyway. And now she's scaring me again with 'it's less than usual' and 'the blood is darker, older.' But the worst thing is that she lied
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:29 PM
1

I am getting a pregnancy test regardless. She live on the other side of the country but we study at the same uni so I will see her next week and be able to see her anytime. She already agreed to a pregnancy test even when she still has her period.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:29 PM
1

After the stop
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:00 PM
6

I just hope I'm not this unlucky person after all, but it's a good wakeup call to never be this stupid again
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:29 AM
1

I believe if was 8 days after
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:16 AM
0

I have a lot of trust and don't think there's any way she will lie about this, but many will tell you including myself from personal experience to never be surprised if the reality is different. It's like bragging. People can tell you whatever the fuck they want but actually doing it is another step.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 09:15 AM
1

That's how 'NiceGuys' are born, don't let it get to your head
/r/askTRP08/04/19 07:44 AM
1

Many will tell you that it's because they are blue pill and therefore see red pill as a bad name. However, I get why they do so. I have a lot to be thankful for thanks to the red pill, but, even though I'm gonna get many dislikes for it, there are many extremists in this sub, I'd like to refer to as 'dicks.' And TRP, while truthful in its roots, is definitely not something to always write home about. Read trp with a filter to see the purpose of it. Read it with the wrong filter and you only see …
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:31 AM
1

I don't hate this sub. I learned a lot from it, more recently that it's not all black and white and life is not just explainable by means of the red pill. After a year of red pill and putting it to good use my views shifted a lot, as I'm still 18 years old. To me, red pill is and will always be a good standard to work your way to the top. It's definitely not the best way in all circumstances or the only right way. The core of this sub is amazing. Some things might be a little too harsh (but the …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 02:06 PM
1

How about today?
/r/askTRP22/10/18 08:42 AM
1

Just like your replies. Good day
/r/askTRP18/10/18 02:05 PM
1

I definitely am. Just need to be privately in a room with her asap, which is harder than it sounds due to distance. What I meant was that I didn't want to rush it, as in it has to happen as fast as possible, but it's clear that that's more important than I thought at first.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:45 PM
1

This gave me a good laugh. Been here for one and a half year and I've read the sidebar at least 3 times. If you think I'm a noob to this, you're wrong. I've improved myself over the last 2 years and I still am. If you think I'm a noob to LTR's however you're definitely right, I admit that. And why the fuck wouldn't I, I'm only 18 years old. But that's all you're gonna get. Throwing unsupported claims around doesn't make you any better.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 11:39 AM
1

If you have nothing important to say then what are you even doing here. Would love to prove you wrong in a few weeks tho.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:54 PM
0

If you think that you either misread the post or I failed to portray my thoughts in a foreign language. Or both. But sure
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:12 PM
2

I would've done this if she wasn't a virgin as well. That said, we've had 2 dates and have seen each other in public very often. I was already planning on setting the next date at either my home or hers, the reason I hadn't done that yet is because it's kinda hard due to distance (we see each other weekly tho). She lives in a student house of 3 people, in which one of her best friends lives in the room next to her (just great) and I live at a 1 hour travel from the city I study in. I'm trying to…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:11 PM
16

I disagree with this post on a certain level. Of course it portrays you as weak if you show that you're in pain, but sucking all this up and not letting it out is something we're not made for. What helps is a few people you can let yourself go with, without suffering consequences. Family would be best, or some of your best friends. I have a main friend group of 3 people and some others often coming with, but we 3 can be very open to each other without being afraid to feel weak because we know ea…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/18 09:04 PM
1

Okay that's a bad choice of formulating. She asked me if I was coming next wednesday and I was like I think so, but it depends. I'll text you. But anyway. I think it's not necessarily ruined yet, I should just wait it out till I see her. I did however lose my guard because I thought it was going so well and had this feeling that it would be fine anyway, developing a bit of oneitis along the way. If this ruins my chance tho, it'd be quite painful considering this was almost guaranteed. Let's hope…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 05:49 PM
2

I mean, if I can, obviously. But there's been no tension at all so far so I'm still wondering if she actually meant it that way. Simply because it doesn't make sense lol.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:27 PM
4

Many people stay virgin untill their 20s. That's what I hear a lot here, but people laugh at me for being a virgin at 18 years old, mainly because they obviously aren't. People keep saying it here but I really don't think it's true.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:44 PM
1

I'm gonna subscribe to see how fast I'll get banned lol
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:37 PM
2

I have massive respect for this man and wish he could teach me his wisdom. A true legend.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 10:58 PM
1

I like how you mention Jordan Peterson. Lately I've seen him passing by on youtube, love his discussions
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:56 AM
-2

Why the hell do you see this as a problem?
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:48 AM
4

I just hope that people have common sense and that this is a troll, but I fear the opposite...
/r/askTRP18/07/18 11:46 AM
3

I just want to say: non western countries don't have these problems. That's not because they don't exist, but it's just unimportant. We on the other hand have to deal with it because everything else became unimportant. We suddenly have time to worry about women taking over the world or no-fap so you can improve and get more women, because we took care of everything else. We fear terrorist attacks (which are tragic of course and I don't want it to happen but look at statistics and it's just pathe…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 04:54 PM
1

What you're forgetting is that 'chad' took the phone from someone else and the women didn't know they were chatting with a different person
/r/askTRP14/07/18 03:22 PM
1

I didn't follow everything, but yes pretty much. 2 girls he already slept with months ago, 1 he was trying to get a ltr with (so for these 3 it's true) and 2 had already rejected him once. It just went so fast you know
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:51 AM
3

True, but the difference here that a chad was doing the work for someone who's not chad, not using his own identity in any way. That means the only thing the women could hold on to was any attraction the non chad left behind, which is why it was so unbelievable to watch lol.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:46 AM
7

Haha it's private, I hope I learned from it myself though. To summarize, he always started with something along the lines of 'I miss you' as soon as he got a snap or text message, if that helps. After that it was straight to teasing, being sexual, savage and nice in pretty much that order if that helps. Also I just realised screens wouldn't help anyway since most of it is Dutch
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:44 AM
4

Hadn't read trp for a while, what the heck did I miss?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 10:16 AM
2

Just remember kino and keep the conversation going. Simply make her like you by being verbally interesting and try to catch shit tests. It's no shame if you fail, there are more than enough women you can date with. Just remember that she accepted the date and therefore is already somewhat interested in you.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 03:05 PM
3

How can we tell what looks good on you? We don't know you, what cloths you have, what you're like face to face. Just pick the best thing from your wardrobe, long pants are mostly better imo but if it's too hot short is fine. Technically, a simple shirt is enough, maybe sunglasses if it's really hot. I could also be wrong though, because as I said: I don't know you Don't overthink this shit
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:50 PM
1

I just graduated (I'm Dutch) and I'm going to the university of Eindhoven (TU/e) next year, so I know what you're going through. I started looking at studies 3 years ago and I hope you did too because this is what's important in finding a study: -you need to be interested -you need to be talented in the topic -you need to know if it's worth it Ordered from most important to worst, for example if you're doubting between 2 studies to which the first 2 apply equally you see which will earn you the …
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:35 PM
1

The issue I'm dealing with at this point is that I can't do now what I could do half a year ago, so basically taking a step back. And I can live with that normally, but it's something that has been going on for so long it's starting to worry me.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 02:23 PM
1

Am I the only one who kinda sees purple as a softer red? Like, they agree with the red philosophy, but there are some extremes that are disagreed with (and often refered to as BP, even though I completely disagree with BP im general). At least that's what I think. And I'm pretty sure that defines what pill I am: for some purple, for some red.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:58 PM
1

What are we even supposed to say here?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 09:14 AM
4

I think he wants advice on what he should do, or at least what he really did wrong or something
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:38 PM
8

I don't see the risk in gaming her. If you initiate, be sure to see her outside of gym time, but only if you're truly interested. If it doesn't work out and she now hates you forever, who the fuck cares. Seriously, you say your smv is at risk, your social status. I'm convinced that if you show you truly don't give a fuck people will see you as more confident. Also, if she's really that hot, it would mean you can pretty much date any girl. In short, I see no risk at all, just make sure your gym t…
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:29 PM
2

That's a surprisingly accurate explanation
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:22 PM
2

Depends on your definition of free will. Nobody can proove these theories because nobody can even answer the question 'what is free will?' with 'proof' of what they think. Everyone has a different idea about free will.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:18 PM
1

Why would you think about texting her if you just broke up with her?
/r/askTRP06/07/18 01:13 PM
1

Marrying isn't always a bad thing, just be sure you're making the right choice.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 08:30 PM
1

I don't want to be rude but how is he a good friend if you can't even give him advice because he might not take it well? Just be honest with him.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 08:06 PM
1

You can tell him your observations and that's it. It's his life, you're not in control of it.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 07:53 PM
3

People here will just tell you to read the sidebar and you'll be fine, but I don't think so. For some people it's part of their genes (you can fake any personality of course, but that works only for so long) to be considered 'nice.' I used to be like that (I'm 18 years old right now) and I'm pretty sure I still kinda am, but just like everything on TRP, it's something you need to work on and takes time. What I've found out is that this trait started fading as soon as I started to understand peop…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 11:59 AM
1

Yeah but it's hard to do something naturally when you've only done it once or twice and not even in a 'serious' way. Honestly, that's a pretty big step from kino for me, and I think most people my age feel the same way (age on that party was kinda like girls average = 17 and guys average = 19) which is why I'm still not comfortable with it. And it's stupid, I know, but I guess it's become a barrier for me in many situations.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:49 PM
-1

I know too many succesful marriages to ever believe this topic of TRP. I know the 'benefits' for women vs the downsides for men, but it's just bullshit to say that men always lose. They don't. Maybe in theory, but it simply doesn't work like that in the real world.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:36 PM
1

Dude, if you feel better there's no fucking reason to ruin that by for example saying you don't deserve it. How will you ever make progress if you think you're too 'low' to actually do so?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:50 AM
4

Wow.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:46 AM
1

This is just stupid. You're not sure if you should? How are you not sure if you should feel better?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:42 AM
5

This is actually a great idea
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 12:58 PM
0

With that line I meant that I didn't want to be reminded of how I fucked that up, not because others tell me I fucked things up with her (since they don't do that). No I don't think getting together with her will fix all my problems. I don't even desire to get back with her. Not everything is oneitis. Apparently you don't get that.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:10 PM
0

It's not a oneitis post because I don't really care to get the girl 'back' that caused this, I just want to fix whatever is ruining the things I could get before. I don't give a fuck about what they say, or at least I try to. That's one of the mistakes I mentioned that left me ashamed of myself.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:41 PM
1

Just decide to stay if you want to. It can't be that hard. Less alcohol helps. I always get to that point but most of the time it fades after some time. Then again, I'm a guy that goes to bed at 0:30 - 1:30 and gets up at 7:00, so I guess I'm kinda used to the time.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:29 AM
1

My man, just read the sidebar. It will all become clear.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:23 AM
9

2 'Netflix & chill' dates and I didn't get any futher than cuddling. This is a year ago now but I still hate to think about it. She broke contact soon after and it's simply awkward now to see her in school. I know the reason though. It was the first time I got that far (I'm 18) and I was simply to shy as everything was new to me. I guess failing is the only way to learn.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:27 PM
6

Let's just say I'm still learning. You don't 'know', at some point it just feels that way. I've just fucked up in the past because of this.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:19 PM
15

If it was a close friend I'd help him, but he isn't. As rude as it is, you should care about yourself and simply leave him be. If he gets that many girls, he'll realise he's been doing it wrong at some point.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:15 PM
1

Escalate and you'll find out. Not worth posting here.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:12 PM
20

Knowing when to make that last step. I fucked up more than once because I held back too much.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:03 AM
1

What made you think my comment did not say exactly what your comment just explained? As I said, I don't mention it myself because I don't feel like I need to talk about it, but if she asks then sure.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:34 PM
1

I honestly don't know how to explain it, but I don't think you shouldn't say it, more like approach the topic in a different way. You have to talk about it at some point, and if telling girls always failded then many people I know that suck at this wouldn't have had an LTR.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:35 AM
2

I wouldn't tell a girl, however I also wouldn't dodge her question if she asked about it. I'm about to study computer science & engineering. Since everyone has opinions, many would see a nerd in front of them. I still tell them if they ask. They aren't worth my time if they don't accept who I am.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:06 AM
1

Not exactly following here, what Jordan quote?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:08 PM
2

I wouldn't say failing is the answer. I used to be so confident when I was a kid, being able to grab a microphone and have some fun in front of 2000 people or making the weirdest photos cuz it was fun. Years and years of bullying destroyed that. I'm now nervous if I need to present a topic in front of 10 people. When I see someone filming me, I hide and hope to never see that video because I'll get depressed. I feel like bullying basically is failing, and it destroyed my confidence. How the hell…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 09:10 AM
1

You sound like a pampered kid. Assuming the age of 14 here. Also, if you think you're 'using' red pill here then I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but you're not. Are you a troll?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:37 PM
1

I don't know why you shouldn't. Hell, if I wasn't introduced to TRP by a friend I wouldn't be where I am now.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:32 PM
3

But that means they break this 'rule'
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:29 PM
1

I have no idea what study you're doing, which could make a difference. I'm going to study Computer Science & Engineering on a university myself. When I go for my masters, I too get the chance to go abroad which I already know I'm going to take. The study has great job options everywhere, but my roots will still be at the university I started. Companies literally surround it to hire people finishing their studies, so I'm almost assured to get a job when I finish. You'd have to tell me how it work…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:05 AM
2

I don't think we can know she isn't interested from his explanation. The excuse about the job could really be true (don't go say 'if she liked him she'd make time,' she can't go cancel her job), although it is likely that she's not interested. Op is just gonna have to find out on his own. And escalate next time.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:57 AM
1

No, I wouldn't, nor for £5000. How overweight are we talking about here?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 10:41 AM
-2

Absolutely not
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:16 PM
3

If the relationship is already bad then why are you still in it?
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:20 AM
2

I don't know how old you are, but I know going out on your own when you're about 18 doesn't work as well as they say on TRP. It's probably because it's very important for people to 'belong' somewhere and many people will have no attention for outsiders at that point. That's my personal experience at least, maybe that's the reason you're having trouble. It could be culture, age, amount of alcohol. I can't really give you a specific solution.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:01 PM
1

Results will always be varied, that's the risk of an approach. Your night hasn't 'failed' if you can't get a girl lol, it's a great oppertunity to simply expand your social circles and just have fun.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:46 PM
1

What age groups are we talking about here? She's 40 you're 25? Or you're 18 she's 33? 15 years is a lot, better find someone your own age I'd say.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 01:32 PM
2

I'm not as far as you yet, but I suffer from the exact same thing. Confidence keeps shifting from amazing to 'I am useless' and I can't stop it.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:52 AM
6

You don't need to be cold. What I think is that you're an orbiter, being rewarded for providing them attention. A rejection doesn't have to be definitive, but if you want to give them the 'benefit of the doubt' they need to be following YOU, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:58 AM
2

You have to create tension as soon as you get the chance. The more tension, the better. Once you start things will lead you in the right direction, there's just a barrier you need to cross. This also depends on age btw.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:46 PM
2

I already played an instrument, did high education. What TRP gave me was an understanding of people, which helped me so much. Apart from that it also gave me my confidence back, which I lost due to bullying.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:44 PM
1

Why do you need a plate? If you have a healthy relationship, your LTR should provide what you now want to get from others. Then again, how would I know. I'm only 18.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:42 PM
1

It has given me the confidence in my life I needed. Because I'm autistic (not heavily, I just have a harder time with catching up on social skills) TRP has helped me to understand people's behaviour better, particularly women, and I'm now getting the benefits of it. I might still be a virgin, but I'm only 18 years old and if I compare my life to what it was 2 years ago by looking at friend groups and activities, my life has gotten 10× better.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 09:36 PM
1

Look at her actions, not her words. Social media (snapchat) is her weapon, it means nothing.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 10:38 AM
6

Spend enough time on it and TRP will become your second nature. TRP on socializing doesn't give you specific strategies for specific situations, it teaches you how others think of the way you react. Because you now understand, you can easily apply it in any conversation because you understand what you're doing. See it as mathematics. Sometimes you learn a new mathematical skill but you just don't understand it. You study hard to remember it but every year you need to read about it again or else …
/r/askTRP17/02/18 01:16 AM
2

I'm gonna study at a university and I'm renting a room for it starting in August because I think it's too far to travel each day. I'm 18 years old. Mom keeps offering you chocolate. Okay, so what? Tell her you don't want chocolate. What's the deal here lol. You want to get out because the women that are gonna come over don't want to meet your mom while you are having sex in your room, not because of chocolate.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:24 PM
4

Dude, how obvious can it be? She follows you now, okay. Don't start a conversation with her, just wait till she wants to hangout again and get laid. This is basic TRP knowledge, go read the sidebar already.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:22 PM
6

Don't let them break you. I'm actually bullied by people because they can't stand I'm improving, or just people that keep reacting surprised when they see my head on someone else's instagram. Some will accept you and they can be your friends, but if they don't, and I speak from experience, don't even try to change their view of you because they don't want to. That immediately gives you the oppertunity to sort out which people aren't worth your time.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:18 PM
8

Honestly, you shouldn't do anything untill you see her at a club or something, by accident. Social media is her weapon, and since you haven't seen her for a long time, all the attraction there was is gone.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:33 PM
7

This is the point where oneitis comes up in my mind
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:19 PM
1

It depends on your culture. In the USA, people say 'how are you' to strangers all the time, but where I come from, the Netherlands, people will either be confused or angry or they will really try to answer the question. Where are you from?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:34 PM
1

We were at a club, few selfies that's all.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:27 PM
2

Sadly I didn't come up with this response. I responded with 'were you planning on using it then?'
/r/askTRP15/02/18 07:16 PM
4

I wouldn't be as direct as 'I don't talk to girls I can't fuck' but I get what you mean
/r/askTRP15/02/18 06:51 PM
1

This is kind of where I'm at. I'm slowly becoming more self aware and I'm slowly starting to see results, but I still have a long way to go.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/18 06:44 PM
0

I know TRP is all about the AWALT theory, but women are still human. She could simply be a nice person who sees you as her friend. Or she's waiting for you to make a move. You'll have to find out.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:58 PM
10

I just finished a school project on stoicism. What a coincidence
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 11:13 AM
1

I don't have a drinking problem. I was out with friends I haven't known for that long and we always buy rounds for the whole group, but this time I already had alcohol before we went out. I forgot to count as I usually do and beer was kinda forced on me as well so I went too far.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 11:30 PM
1

I told her how I feel and have now started ignoring her completely because she kept trying after but I hate doing it. She doesn't really give me anything, she'll only consume time and embarass towards others as she is very low level. Still, this might actually be one of the hardest things for me from TRP.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 09:06 PM
-1

Lol no
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:57 PM
1

Done. Probably one of the worst things my drinking caused up to now, big mistake.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:33 PM
2

Her pictures showed me she's wearing lots of makeup and would actually be a 1
/r/askTRP27/01/18 08:30 PM
2

It feels so weird using TRP the exact opposite way. And you're right, that's why ghosting would be a pain too as I expect to be seeing her a lot more from now on. Thanks for the comment.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 03:02 PM
1

I thought of this indeed, good idea
/r/askTRP27/01/18 02:59 PM
2

I would rate her 3, the only thing she isn't is fat :/
/r/askTRP27/01/18 01:41 PM
1

As he said, he's new. Probably the first TRP post he's ever seen.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:06 AM
11

This was a refresh I needed, now I understand what I did wrong a few months ago. Kino was perfect but I had to leave early and I didn't kiss her, only a kiss on her cheek and a hug. It's understandable because I'm still a virgin (17 years old) and I'm super nervous myself, no matter how well I try to hide it, but it's still a shame I got so far and still mess it up in the end. I'll remember this, thanks op.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:04 AM
2

I only thought about TRP during that episodes, loved noticing things I learned here. Btw why not post this on the TRP reddit?
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:06 AM
2

Yeah well fuck me then, I'm an autist. Thanks for the confidence there
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:28 AM
0

Procrastination isn't always a bad thing, as you make seem it is. Half a year ago, I told myself to go lift 1 and a half month later, and I did. You could argue that month is wasted time, but why would you? I did what I wanted from myself. You can procrastinate.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:33 AM
1

I don't think I'll ever be able to do this, but it's amazing that it works
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 03:26 PM
1

Good idea, but one that encourages progress rather than already made accomplishments.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 01:03 PM
3

No fap is bullshit, it's actually good every once in a while. Just no porn
/r/askTRP06/12/17 07:01 AM
9

I'm just trying to figure out how she can be so well educated but unable to find a good job. It hurts reading this, it's so obvious that some BP guys would agree with me.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:50 PM
3

The person that introduced me to TRP and the one I introduced (who are both from the same friend group) are the 2 people I fully trust and know almost better than they know themselves. These are the people I obviously want to give the chance to improve.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:37 PM
1

I am. For 3 months now I have been lifting (I haven't changed my eating habits though, I eat a lot but I'm super skinny), I have played in an orchestra for 5 years now and even though my reputation in class is garbage I got friends of whom most are older than me and had some game with girls. Sadly I have never been able to turn it into something more, as I lack the experience. But I'm working on it.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:32 PM
1

Your explanation is something I'll remember because it's a pretty easy but accurate explanation how this 'development' works. I have a year time to get ahead of it before I'm going to college, and since I'm starting a new life then because I move to the city it's essential to be ahead of it in order to right all my wrongs when I got to high school. Thanks for the reply
/r/askTRP05/12/17 05:15 PM
28

That's a myth, there weren't really 300 spartans who held off the entire Persian army. The reason the Greek states were conquered easily by the Romans is because they fought too many wars between each other and to defend themselves from the big empires east of them. They simply didn't have the numbers anymore.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:45 PM
23

'Nofap' is bs, it should be 'Noporn'
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:11 AM
1

Because more TRP males will strive for the top 20% of men which will make it harder to get there
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 08:32 PM
3

One of my closest friends introduced it to me when we were drunk, said I should read 'how to get laid like a warlord'. Only half a year later I seriously started reading TRP because it started to interest me (I'm 17 btw). I'm sure you have a few close friends that will support you no matter what; those are they guys you can introduce. I'm trying to introduce it to my best friend, but even if he doesn't want to swallow TRP, he won't judge me for it. On the other hand, better don't get too many TR…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 03:45 PM
5

If you have a girl with a man's brain it's not a girl.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 09:59 AM
1

There are many different scenarios that require different behaviour. Read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 08:55 AM
1

Just tell them 'well now you do', raise your shoulders as a respond or don't respond at all. It's something you shouldn't care about, since it's a useless comment on its own. I doubt that that's the reason they ghosted you though.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 02:10 PM
2

Always go for small talk if you get the chance. Talking to them means they're more likely to remember you when you see them another time somewhere else. If it goes well ask their number, you know what I mean. Can you give me 1 good reason why you shouldn't try to get in contact with womeb that way? The only reason I can think of is being busy with work, which is more important than women, but if that's not holding you back, which I think isn't, you don't have any other excuse. Also, why are you …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 02:05 PM
1

Knowing my face is like a 3 or something I don't want to accept number 5 but I know it's true and I hate it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 11:18 AM
3

Because obviously 2 people of 80+ have sex as often as a young couple.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:55 PM
1

Actually, when I go to university I am moving to the city. This is another reason I'm trying so hard to improve myself; I want to show met at my best in the city where I'll spend at least 3 years of student life.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:07 PM
4

What I learned from this post is that I'm not the only one who has problems with confidence. Let me explain. I've got an ugly face, I'm really, really skinny and I look so white every single bit of red from acne or blue under my eyes is extremely visible. I've also been bullied in the past. That said, I am improving in terms of lifting and social circles but I basically hate myself. I look like my father and it destroys my whole confidence. Seeing you write down how you had luck in the genes and…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 11:08 AM
1

The only way I can get out of that loop is by doing and achieving things that show myself I matter. I feel down about 3 times a week, and I just can't control my thoughts due to the way I'm feeling. But, no matter how depressed I feel, I try to finish school with proper grades so I can go to university, I try to lift 3 times a week and I try to expand my social circles as much as possible, all in the hopes that this loop exists because of puberty and I can get out of it when time passes. I don't…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:49 AM
3

'If you are a beta your woman will always leave you eventually' This is bs. It is indeed way more likely, but it's absolutely not certain it will happen. I know so many examples of betas taking their marriages to their graves.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 10:35 AM
0

Try puberty. I'm trying and improving, really, but any 'downsides' of myself turn into reasons for depression during puberty. Gaining confidence is incredibly hard when you're in this loop.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 08:00 AM
1

It's what the whole post is about lol
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 06:33 AM
6

Mine was relieved too, but that's no surprise. Especially with dementia, it takes so much energy to watch and help them all day long. They have the right to be relieved after staying with him till the bitter end.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:45 PM
3

I more or less wanted an answer that would explain it and prove me wrong. I read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 02:05 PM
3

As this all happened when I was young (I'm still 17) it's indeed part of how I was raised, backed up with a real life experience. It's a good thing to take into account that my grandmother is from a different time, it's just hard to believe my grandmother would be that rare 1% of women. TRP might have changed the way I think about women, examples such as these make it hard to connect some of the dots.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:08 PM
6

If everyone falls down but 1 person falls towards the sky, gravity is a lie because we have 1 different example. Yeah, I absolutely think that's logic.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:03 PM
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Then why my grandmother always stayed with my grandfather even though he was suffering from dementia for years now and he couldn't even talk normal anymore? Why would she have stayed if really AWALT? You can downvote because it is against TRP logics but then at least take the time to answer properly.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 12:17 PM
1

Dude seriously, obviously he's willing to suffer because it's his LTR. If someone said he lost frame when he approached someone, are you gonna say he shouldn't care that he lost frame because wanting success is BP? You're taking it too far
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 01:50 PM
1

Cutting her whrists on purpose to destroy your frame like that would tell me she's not completely sane. Then again, I'm 17 years old so what do I know, but seriously if that happened I'd want to get as far away from her as possible (after getting her help of course). There are limits, and this doesn't only go past your limits, but also the limits of sanity.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 10:12 AM
1

As a teenager I probably can't tell you anything you don't know yet, but to be honest, I think you don't want to hear what you already know. There is no easy road to confidence, but confidence is the only way to truly 'fix' this. The best way to gain confidence is by lifting, doing hobbies etc. and focusing on the things you accomplished in life. You have to be able to be proud of yourself and with every failure think of the fact that they can't take away what you have accomplished and they don'…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 10:01 AM
1

Just commenting in hopes of being notified
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 09:49 AM
3

AskTRP subreddit is a good place to ask your questions. However, if you read the sidebar, you should be able to recognize your mistakes and do it right next time. Don't expect to be a master after reading a lot here, it takes practice.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 11:47 AM
9

If you're gonna argue when someone says 'no' then argue when someone says 'yes' as well. Otherwise you're not making sense (apart from the fact that you need someone to say you're 'allowed' to use social media)
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:58 AM
2

I don't care I'm weak; I'm learning. Since I'm only 17 years old I have a long way to go but also a lot of time to work on myself.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 09:51 AM
1

I talked about this yesterday because I was told I should do it but I couldn't really find a proper guide on how to do it anywhere. What a coincidence, thanks for posting!
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 09:31 AM
16

I recently made a post about a girl's texting behaviour because I wanted to know what it meant, what was going on in her head, and I specifically said 'it's not oneitis'. Yet pretty much all of the answers mentioned it. I didn't post it because I want that girl so bad, I posted it to learn and understand women better. It wasn't a long post or something, seriously. It's often taken too far and it's annoying.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 11:14 PM
1

Having in your head that whatever happens, I need to do this and that. For example: Whatever happens today, I need to: - get ready for my exams tomorrow - lift Try to imagine them being essential (they should be) and get to work. The rest is putting effort in it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:16 PM
3

Do you have time to do some gaming, go out with friends once a week, go home in the weekends? Don't for one week and read all sidebar posts or a recommended book and see how far you can get. I'm going to uni next year and I know how much effort you need to put into it, but you also have time left. It's your decision how valuable that time is for you and how much time can be spent on reading instead of just hanging on the couch, bored.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 11:29 PM
1

This is either completely wrong or I'm in the wrong age group or something. I'm 17 years old, high school, and I have Aspergers which has given me a reputation in the past and even though I've become way more social I'm still the loser in school. It doesn't really matter because I have red pilled friends outside of school, but it doesn't help either. I'm dating this girl, who happens to be the sister of one of my classmates. I went to a funfair with her and passed a few classmates of mine, who o…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 07:43 AM
1

When I don't understand a math question I ask the teachers. I don't skip the question because the odds it specifically gets asked in the exams is very small. Still I ask the teacher to answer the question. Why? Because I want to learn and not make the same mistake again. The teacher also wouldn't say something like 'ah it doesn't matter, just forget about it. There's a million questions on this topic' because every answer can get you closer to understanding. This is exactly the same. I want to l…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 10:16 PM
0

Noob here. Can you give examples of lines to use in this situation without opposing 'your side'? Or is it alright if you say something playful like 'now you know why I fall for women' or something like that? Also, I definitely would not disagree with them all the time, as not all men are the same. Isn't it okay to tell her that not every man is the same or will that result into her noticing a weak defence and thus breaking your frame?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 10:05 PM
1

I didn't want to hear I'd have to ignore her completely
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:13 PM
0

Dude come on. I simply wanted to know what it meant because I didn't really get it, as she was implying she wanted to talk and then didn't. It's that simple. No, it's not oneitis. Thankfully, there are 2 guys that answered the question
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:43 PM
0

Because oneitis is the most common answer and I damn well know it doesn't have to do anything with this, as I told you I'm fine with nexting her
/r/askTRP05/11/17 04:34 PM
1

I know what you mean. The reason I have a social circle is because it was almost forced on me and TRP learned me how important it is, so I tried my best joining and staying in it. I live on a boarding school (see it as a childcare for people till 18 years old. It's the best word I can give it, it's not punishment or anything. My parents are simply sailors, and I need some place to stay to go to school) and I literally got friends there served on a plate or something, and I learned a lot from it.…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 10:41 AM
0

I'm in this situation right now, only difference is that next year I will be going to university and start a completely new life. Also, I joined a friend group that weren't 'connected' to the people I have this reputation of being a boring nobody, which allowed me to expand that social circle, learn a lot about using TRP in my own life and now even got me a girlfriend, which I first thought impossible because I felt like moving to the city for university would be my savior.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 11:44 PM
6

Flirt, pass her shit tests and escalate to make it clear you want to fuck her. If you do all this she'll get wet so fast you'll easily get her in bed.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:33 PM
1

This is only for questions. If you want to discuss this, you should either make a post about it or comment it under the weekly 'Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread'
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 11:24 PM
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If you know it so well you can at least give him a decent answer
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:29 PM
2

It's very simple: wear what you like. Personally, I got a bit of everything. I've got a few shirts with vests, a few blouses, 2 sweaters. Shoes are black and white. Jeans are black/grey most of the time, some blue jeans as well. But that doesn't matter, it all depends on the person. It depends on what you look like and your posture. If you're muscled you should aim for wearing shirts where you're able to roll up your sleeves and show your muscles. Do you have a cute face but you're very skinny, …
/r/askTRP01/11/17 05:22 PM
6

Wear a shirt and roll up your sleeves a bit. I always do this myself, it's a small detail but it makes a huge difference. Your arms will look a lot stronger. It wouldn't be the first time I got to a party where every guy took his shirt of because everyone was drunk as hell, but to be honest apart from this happening to you I don't think there really is a way to show off other muscles. Just work on your chest and shoulders and eventually you'll be able to see it while wearing a shirt.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:07 PM
6

I'm 17 but ages are different in my country, I actually am allowed to go in many clubs, all clubs when I'm 18. For improving your game the best thing you can do is simply talk to people and try to notice things you read about here. Talking to random strangers on the street helps a lot. Texting can be risky, but that's also a way to improve because you get to think of what to react instead of being forced to say something and letting others know how you feel by unconsciously showing body language…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:47 PM
0

I actually read most of the sidebar. I've improved a lot the past few months, I just know this is one of my weaknesses at the moment and want more knowledge on the topic to get rid of this weakness.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:24 AM
0

Can you give a link? The only link in the sidebar I see about shit testing is shit tests 101
/r/askTRP01/11/17 09:20 AM
1

What I wonder when reading your post is why you've never asked her to come over, pointing to the Netflix & chill way if you know what I mean. If you think you can get something out of this, you should go. No excuses. If you don't want to go you should've said no in the first place. This can obviously happen once or twice, but seriously, changing your mind everytime doesn't make things better. Just say no right away when you know you won't come anyway.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 09:55 PM
0

Confront her with why you're angry. Best to do it in person though. You are the one leading, so if she does something that pisses you off, you tell her. You show her that she can't do that with you and that you're not afraid to tell her how you feel about it, and she'll respect you for it. However, if you keep being angry via texting you show weakness. Talking about your problems is obviously not the TRP way, but I think everyone agrees that when you have problems with each other but both of you…
/r/askTRP31/10/17 01:08 PM
2

I'm only 17 so don't be too surprised. I never got laid before. I am getting pretty close though. It's just hard to keep my personal life and school life from colliding. Personally I'm a guy with close red pilled friends who has a lot of social contacts. In school I'm a weird nobody that doesn't really belong anywhere (my closest friends have all finished high school, mine was a year longer). The girls I meet often know the people I know in school, and even though I don't care what they say abou…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 10:07 AM
1

If you have any plans ask her to hang out in a few days or so. Don't say anything else to her before that. If she doesn't want to, you lost her, if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:31 PM
2

You shouldn't even have texted her. Wait for her to make a move and if she doesn't even though you really think it can work out, you text her when you want to meet, a few days after that night. You care too much. Same goes for that first girl. Her saying she'll go away if you go to the bathroom shouldn't bother you. Answer with 'sure' and turn your back on her. You'll see her again later that evening.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 12:02 PM
2

It's both important, but lifting is essential because it improves the way you look (more muscles obviously) and makes you more confident
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 08:31 AM
2

I think it's pretty common for 17 year olds, I mean I got something like that as well and I feel like it's very normal
/r/askTRP26/10/17 01:47 PM
2

I didn't know about it untill your comment. How do you get the community to know about it? Because 300 subscribers isn't gonna get you there I'm afraid, you need way more people.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 01:09 PM
1

The only thing you should use Snapchat for is to keep contact in an 'innocent' way so you don't come off as needy even though you pop up at somebody else's screen daily. For game on Snapchat it's pretty equal to texting, it's just easier to send pictures in maybe a playful way(I recommend to not send selfies, no matter if you're hot or ugly as hell).
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 12:51 PM
8

The thing is, you can open up to your LTR as long as you don't show too much weakness. Knowing when you're on the risk of going too far is very hard, which is obviously why it's recommended to never do that. The best thing you can do is talk about it with friends or family. You can open up to your LTR, but as soon as you do you're at the risk of losing attraction because you're bowing to her frame and losing dominance. It varies from person to person how far you can go.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 12:45 PM
5

Why not do both? Keeping 1 friend group active helps you improve too, as well as picking your new friends based on your new standards. If the girl didn't like you you wouldn't be cuddling. That she falls asleep either means she's tired, comfortable, you're silent as hell or all 3. It doesn't mean anything. You made out, she still wants to hang out. You're fine.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 10:35 AM
0

Sidebar
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:12 PM
5

Of course there are many examples where the man isn't the reason for the breakup but the situation is. Still, it's always completely the man's fault. If a woman loses attraction for you, which is obviously the reason a woman breaks up with you, you lost your frame. When you get a woman in your frame the only way to lose her is letting her get out and maybe even swapping the roles. So when you lose her, you couldn't keep your frame and it's your fault. Leaving aspects out such as distance and une…
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:12 PM
3

Actually, one of my closest friends and member of the friend group I am in now encouraged me to check out TRP and all of us are lifting now. Sadly one of them is overseas for half a year (pretty much the leader) and one of them is often too far away, exept for weekends sometimes. I guess I've just been lucky.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 11:02 PM
1

Now that it's over I feel so stupid for posting this because I was overconcerned. It went well. I'm just gonna delete this post soon.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:53 PM
5

I lol'ed
/r/askTRP18/10/17 12:12 PM
1

Lock your phone away when you need to focus. It makes it easier to keep yourself from taking a quick look on your phone.
/r/askTRP15/10/17 09:20 PM
1

Good Past my week of schoolexams pretty well, expecting good grades. Learned from my past texting mistakes and managed to keep attraction. Date tonight and expecting my first kiss. Bad I only went to the gym twice. Got drunk yesterday and not proud of something I did/said.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 12:52 PM
2

Delete this post from the top already, jeez
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 01:13 PM
1

Saturday I'll have my first 'date' (not entirely sure it can be called a date but fair enough) and I know a lot of people that still know the old me. Because we're going to a public place where I'm pretty sure I'll meet people I know, I can expect some reactions from them that are meant to embarass me in front of her. I know because I've experienced when I'm just talking to girls and I read it's because people can't stand it when you're not the shy beta they know. Now I can easily ignore those, …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:00 PM
5

I need to be careful because the progress I've made and the way the people that know me for years see me are about to collide so yeah I do kinda want to be careful. Maybe I shouldn't care but since I'm in school 7 hours a day I do care about the way people see me there.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 03:09 PM
10

Right now I'm texting with this girl (she's trying to start a conversation every time) and it's going pretty great. However, I'm pretty bad at noticing hints on how she likes me (as a friend or maybe more). Sometimes some awkward things come up, like sending a kiss emoji and then saying 'oops wasn't meant to do that' as some sort of shit test. She also talked about how I was drunk on last party (after which we started texting) and the only awkward thing I did was grabbing her hand and that it wa…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 01:50 PM
1

I think age is definitely a good excuse. For someone who's 16 years old it's harder than for someone who's 20.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 01:32 PM
1

At the moment I'm feeling like I'll get friendzoned, as she mentioned a weird thing I did (which I actually was conscience about but considering the topic I said I forgot): grabbing her hand, while we were talking about a friend of mine that was completely drunk and she also mentioned going to a party with her and a friend because I said I didn't figure something out yet. I'm probably overthinking it right now but I don't get many oppertunities like this and up till now I ruined all of them. I h…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 07:10 PM
53

That's probably the luck I've had since I first came here. Pretty much everyone I know have said to me 'I never expected you to be here/do this/achieve this.' I hear it at least twice a week, and still when I go to the club because people from my old school haven't seen me in a long time. The people I hang out with however, they let me embrace this change. In fact, one of them actually showed me the red pill and said I should start reading it every once in a while. It's this reason that I know h…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 11:16 AM
1

I've never heard of the dark triad, did some research and found the traits it is about. Of course I don't want to be like that completely, but like TRP I'm sure there are important things to use in rl as well.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 10:11 PM
1

My excuse for not lifting a lot this week is homework for important tests coming up. I feel like that's a good excuse
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 07:26 PM
4

So this Reddit page lately has a big influence on my life, as I'm lifting now and far more outgoing, as well as becoming more socially aware (but definitely not good at it yet). Whenever I'm feeling down, I come to this page and it gives me confidence. Thanks for that by the way. Now I've been bullied in the past for being ugly. This never hurt me before because I was very self confident on my own, but when I hit puberty that started to change (I'm 17 years old). Not only that, people always tol…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 06:24 PM
2

So this Reddit page lately has a big influence on my life, as I'm lifting now and far more outgoing, as well as becoming more socially aware (but definitely not good at it yet). Whenever I'm feeling down, I come to this page and it gives me confidence. Thanks for that by the way. Now I've been bullied in the past for being ugly. This never hurt me before because I was very self confident on my own, but when I hit puberty that started to change (I'm 17 years old). Not only that, people always tol…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/17 01:20 PM
3

Of course I complain about my looks! I lift, try to wear good clothes and am trying to look as good as possible, but at the same time I'm still skinny as fuck, my face filled with acne and so white I look unhealthy. With one of the things of puberty being insecure, I think it's quite obvious I complain. At the same time, though, I do everything to improve as much as possible, but some things you can't change.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 09:10 AM
-1

The reason I'm not deleting my social yet, or at least my older social posts, is because I'm still learning and changing on the journey. The people I am with for another year however will still be the same. They have this... view of me that I can't change anymore, since they've known me for years. I try my best to meet new people of course, but I live in a village (there is one actual club in the village next to me and the range of people going there is pretty much 5 villages around it). This me…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 04:01 PM
1

I'm always on mobile so I didn't know. Checking now
/r/askTRP26/09/17 01:50 PM
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