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Field ReportTRPerseverance/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:15 AM
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Leave now. Read my last FR submission to TRP. Leave.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 07:46 PM
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Sad thing is, if you had just walked away after she hit you she would have hated herself the next day. I know and believe this to my core. It's eating me up that I didn't just walk away and have her burn inside. I just know her hamster along with an echo chamber of female friends have convinced her that she is the victim because she was struck back. I have no way of knowing whether she has tried contacting me. When I blocked her from ALL forms of communication, I meant it. The only way she can c…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:27 AM
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I will, my gut tells me she will try to rescind her decision to drop charges (not possible) or attempt to get a restraining order even though I dropped my charges. She's the "last laugh" type.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:23 AM
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Mouth is sealed. I'm trying to contain this the best I can. As for the mutual friend to record the convo....lets just say she is incapable of thinking that far in advanced.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:20 AM
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I 100% agree that I should have pulled her to the side and talked to her, that would've been the smart and calculated way of handling it. Given the variables at play (loud club, alcohol, etc.), I didn't think it would have escalated that far. She has thrown tantrums like this in the past, and ignoring the behavior in the past usually solved her misbehavior. don't think that you're "ALFA AS FUCK" for being a cheeky cunt and treating her like a prick. I have to disagree with your assumption that m…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:19 AM
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Not sure about her contacting me. She has a big ego and an echo chamber of friends telling her how much a of a victim she is and how much of a piece of shit I am blah blah blah. If she does attempt to contact me, I'll know it's because she is either lonely and horny and wants to fuck, or is looking for closure. Either will be met with silence from my end. I may consider making a post of the tactics she uses, just for our betterment and to recognize these traps before we walk into them.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:51 PM
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No developments really. Just got a call the next morning from a mutual friend asking what happened blah blah blah, then she asked (the real reason for the call) if I was going to press charges somehow. I said no, I don't have time for that and wish her the best, click.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:47 PM
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I may have misjudged this one as "not a huge party girl, just likes to have fun like me". Nevertheless, the princess comes is still there no matter the level of party girl she is at. I found that even if she is a low level party girl, it tends to increase as time passes. No LTR for a long time, the emotional/mental investment required is too high and comes at a point in my life where self improvement has a higher rate of return for that same investment.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:42 PM
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Yes, and that legal definition is loosely defined and is really up to the officer/judge to decide. In my situation, given my size, I would have a hard time proving "minimal force".
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:38 PM
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This. This is the correct way I should have played it. Now I am forever that person that struck her back. The hamster will spin and spin that she is the victim and in the right. If I could go back and play it over, this is the best and most satisfying scenario.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:31 PM
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Obviously, you felt threatened. Try to examine that further. This resonated deeply with me. I'll be digging into that.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:27 AM
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Thank you for that perfect metaphor to get a better understanding. I've carved out time tomorrow to do some research on it. Also looking forward to googling hamtard and seeing what I find.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:20 AM
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It happened already when I didn't firmly no contact and has lead to this. Thanks for the reminder on not making the same mistake twice.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:14 AM
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The fuck up was one main thing that I should have recognized would happen. I failed at keeping the excitement in the relationship up. We met partying, loved going to festivals, recreational drug use, vacations, whatever. I found RP, tired of that scene, getting my finances in line, took on new family responsibilities, you know...the boring stuff women love and tends to happen upon graduating college. This FR is the perfect example of an already lost situation. ^ This. It was a lost situation whe…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 07:12 AM
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I agree 100% with you on NEVER hitting anyone and am in disbelief and disgust with how things went down. It is horrible form for any reaction stemming from anger. Never could I have imagined I would type out a non-fiction story like this. I would be bullshitting if I said I wasn't feeling it every second since it happened. But I disagree with the main motive you think I had in writing this post. My own bias may have shown through my post. I feel a majority of men may experience a situation where…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 06:55 AM
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Yes and no. The LTR lasted a little under 4 years. There was some behavior that raised a concern (even in my BP days) but nothing on this caliber. Recently, this biggest red flag was when she decided to get a boob job in January. She has it paid for and scheduled for this summer. I was concerned she would branch swing when given the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:16 AM
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Thank you for your thorough explanation on mindfulness meditation. I remember reading about it in another post and intended to circle back on it. I have added it as a priority in my action plan. Hard way to identify this area of improvement. Now, is this something that requires a good foundation/routine of meditation before practicing mindfulness mediation?
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 03:10 AM
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Thanks man and yes, the cop wasn't a dick and was looking out for me in a sense. Really there will be no updates on this. HARD NEXT after this bullshit. Not just her, but everyone else that was there and is a mutual friend. Too much energy would be wasted on trying to tell my side of the story and rebuild a positive reputation after an event like this. Monk mode for at least this quarter and maybe the next. Even when I was BP, I still understood there is no coming back when a woman emasculates a…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:52 AM
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I'm not sure whether it is because I called in my own report or due to the witnesses. Flight before fight is usually my go to. I stood much more to lose than her and she knew it. I'm reviewing older frame posts and taking up meditation to avoid being faced with a similar scenario whether it be with a female, coworker, family member, or whomever.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:47 AM
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I think that many showed due to the area we were in. It was downtown on a strip of bars and clubs. But I get you're saying, our tax dollars keeping us "safe".
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:42 AM
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The relationship started with us partying together. Our 2014 resolution was to not drink for a whole year. I never had a problem with alcohol since I wasn't a heavy drinker to begin with. She lasted 3 months then caved. The reason for calling the cops was to have some sort of perceived leverage favoring my story. The cop told me she said nothing short of a beat down happened. Thankfully they separated the other girls (witnesses) and got a common denominator story before comparing it to mine. No …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:40 AM
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You're right, neither of us should have hit anyone. As for her tantrum, that was her used to me in my more blue days of chasing after her and apologizing. Right after that incident I said to myself: "fuck it, go around the club and dance/flirt with other girls, don't let her ruin your night."
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:33 AM
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