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Red Pill TheoryTRPhd/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 04:25 AM
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Red Pill ExampleTRPhd/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 05:02 PM
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Field ReportTRPhd/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:24 PM
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Men ... also want to fuck as many foreign girls as possible. Naturally, it's just most of us cannot be as successful at it as can even very average girls.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:40 AM
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If you're in an LTR, how is it appropriate to address that? You: "Hmph." Her: "What?" You: "I just didn't think you were that kind of girl." Her: "You asshole... blah blah cunty blah" - Next her with no drama supplied. Her: "No, it's not going to be like that... blah blah whiney blah" - Soft next her when she comes back from her trip. Her: "Well, if you don't think I should go, I won't... blah blah blah luring you into unintended commitment blah" - Mentally demote her to plate status, and go "ra…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:35 AM
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Molecular biology. Honestly, you should look into working for a patent attorney evaluating other people's patents. I've heard that a PhD in engineering sucks because a lot of companies consider you unemployable since you are "overeducated". Sorry.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 02:28 AM
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Dominating all the other males through physical strength and masculinity. And yet this doesn't work when women are involved. Frequently women will shame no-game guys who try to muscle in on their interactions with guys who have game. When the no-game-all-body musclehead bumbles into your group and tries to AMOG because he's drunk and figures he can benchpress the moon, it's the women who shut him down, not you. They do so overtly with subtle and then not-so-subtle insults, and finally telling hi…
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 02:30 PM
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he will physically snap her stupid neck if she looked at him wrong His capability to do so is why females evolved the necessity to manipulate males for resources. Also, non-psychopathic humans don't murder one another with impunity, even in Stone Age cultures.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 02:25 PM
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Cool, but it didn't sound like you had any fire in your belly for a minute there.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:29 AM
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Occupation: scientist Income: salary based on grant funding. If you can get grants, or works for someone who does, you will always have a job. Basically as a scientist you are a profit center for your university; they take half of your grants for "expenses". The next largest part goes to "salary", so you pay yourself, but fucking believe your department will have something to say about what you pay yourself. The National Institutes of Health has a salary maximum of about $180K per year, but PhD …
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:14 AM
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If "everyone" is doing it, someone will profit by breaking it at some point. Call me cynical, but that's been the historical perspective on that type of thing. The men selling supplies to gold miners in California during the Gold Rush made a lot more money than the miners ever did.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:01 AM
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Trust me, the army treats its enlisted like shit. My relatives agree that the Army and Navy treat enlisted like shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:47 AM
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I concur that life is better when you're not weighted down by possessions.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:37 AM
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It sounds like you're stagnating. What are your plans to enjoy your life more? You could theoretically work from overseas, yes?
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:34 AM
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Contact Dante Nero, the comedian. He has a podcast about all of this stuff, and he does email consults for a reasonable fee. The email is save me dante at gmail dot com. Can't hurt, right? He used to be a stripper and pimp, so he's got some ideas about how to game both normal and "extreme" women. He's also pretty fuckin' funny.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:31 AM
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Motorcycle. 200-lb-vibrator. If you're near the coastal highway (is it Highway 1 to Monterey?) then all the better... make it a day trip to Big Sur.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:28 AM
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I've heard that manufacturing board games is very expensive due to lead testing, etc., with it costing up to $30K just to get a prototype approved for sale in the U.S. Is your board game for sale in stores or online?
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:25 AM
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I'm trying to understand when tactical skittle gifting becomes productive. If you're thinking about whether it's appropriate, it's inappropriate. Here's why: you'll have doubt when you hand it to her. When you don't give a shit and just give it to her, then she'll be grateful for what she gets. Some women show more gratitude for Skittles than others do for diamonds; it's all about her character and your behavior. My girl yesterday just thanked me for being in her house. If I gave her Skittles, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 12:42 AM
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Bitches be crazy. With this early of a relationship and little investment, internally thank her for demonstrating her character, and go work on your abundance. I'd also be careful of pedestalization. You sound like you're working on yourself for her, not for yourself. I might be wrong, but examine your own motivations just in case.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 12:35 AM
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Clutter is a problem, but keeping your network on a digital platform costs you nothing.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 09:56 PM
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By what metrics was apple's valuation sky high? P/E for hardware/electronics manufacturers. Dividends are an inefficient way to return value to shareholders. Ah, the old "value" chestnut -- what about money? Is it an efficient way to return money to shareholders? Nah, not really, but it's better than the other ways that have been tried. Dividends = cash flow. Cash = king. No cash = dead. Dividends = good. Simplistic? Yes. Effective? Also yes. Are dividends the only way to get cashflow from your …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 01:52 PM
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You'll also notice you see information from friends who have very popular/well-liked things. That's why pictures of brides and babies pop up in every feed, even if you haven't seen that person in 5 years. Besides, there's always direct messaging to your friends. Also there are apps that connect to your network's network of friends. Coffee Meets Bagel is one example I know of, but there are others. Point is, if you have the network you can decide what to do with it later. If you don't have it, it…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 01:45 AM
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Google pays no dividend. Is this NASALT? Google is pretty damned unique. Until recently apple (a company with a license to print money and a FCF behemoth) paid no dividend. Until recently Apples valuations were sky-fucking-high and the fundamentals argued heavily against investing in it. It was a hedgie-hotel, and though it worked beautifully for over a decade (as long as Jobs was alive) it was still a zebra in a herd of horses. Fundamentals are fundamental for a reason. Any schmuck who knows ja…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 01:37 AM
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Until VZ decides to cut the dividend. One of the surest things in the world is shorting a company that cuts their dividend (if you're fast enough). They usually bounce back, but you can make a buck fast if you are quick on the trigger.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:35 PM
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Dividends are an excellent way to measure the financial health of the company. If they are able to continuously pay dividends, and to increase them on a fairly regular basis, then you know that they are well run on a cash-management basis. If they don't have a dividend, or heaven-help-them actually cut their dividend, that's a bad sign in my book. A skilled accountant can make a failing company look like it's just fine, and all the moreso if he or she is willing to break the law. Exhibit A: Enro…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:34 PM
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Nobody just starts a business ... out of nothing. Most businesses start out of nothing, but unfortunately they end up amounting to nothing.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:31 PM
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I have multiple degrees in the industry Worthless. (I) have had multiple companies Okay, NOW I'm listening.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:30 PM
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Any asset can make money. I repeat: ANY. ASSET. It's all in the price you enter... the price you exit is just the frosting on a cake you baked when you bought it. The only exception is something with no real value, in which case it's not really an asset.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:28 PM
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What do you pay for? Look at your bills. Think about each expense you pay, how generalizable that is to the market, and how you can capitalize. Not everything is "passive" to start, but you need to approach each idea Example: my first expense is rent - you could own real estate, which is a very popular and common approach. My second expense is my car - sell or rent cars. If you bought mechanically sound cars and then did the body work to re-sell them, that can be very profitable (or you can lose…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:24 PM
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One has to start from the bottom on this sub; there are a number of young guys who have never heard this basic stuff before and it may get their ideas flowing.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:12 PM
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This is just the beginning, he mentioned he would have follow-up posts.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:09 PM
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Remember: if you own the company, she gets half. Also, who owns the house?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:08 PM
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You'll spend more than $100K-$150K if you have kids with a wife. It's just not all upfront.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:05 PM
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Step 2: Pay yourself first Every month take 10% of your income and put it in a savings account. Do this before you pay your bills, child support, taxes etc. My only quibble: once you have a "REAL emergency fund" of $1000, use the "pay-yourself-first" money to pay off any consumer/student loan debt you have as fast as you can. Unless you are very financially sophisticated, you will most likely pay more in interest than you will gain by investing this money when you are starting out.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:03 PM
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If you invite them to do a few clean-living activities with you then they have no right to be mad, even if you know that they won't want to go. "I'm going hillriding Sunday, you comin' bro?" (You know he'll be hung over.) "Nah, next time maybe." "Okay, cool, catch up with you later."
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:10 PM
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Don't burn bridges, man. Give 'em a soft, "Oh, sure, that sounds great, let's set up a time that works for both of us..."
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:09 PM
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You can next them in real life, but don't unfriend them on social media/LinkedIn. You need your connections, even if you don't want to hang with them on a regular basis. I had over 500 FB friends back in 2005 (when that was a lot; now that's nothing). If I had kept up with that and not unfriended my college friends when I moved on then I would probably be in the 2K range by now, which sounds a bit lame from a "cool-guy" point of view but if you're trying to launch a start-up or trying to crowdfu…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:07 PM
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Retaliate in kind, or get her to choose a different target. It's like martial arts; you can't block the attacks you can't see. The best defense is if everyone likes you enough to ignore her shitty behavior, but if you aren't Mr. Popular they are going to believe the average woman over the average man. You can't win all battles. There's no shame in diverting her elsewhere -- manipulating her emotions via a cat's paw would be the ideal. The upside is, if she starts in on someone else it reduces th…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 07:01 PM
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A hitman is only $50K. Just sayin'!
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:37 PM
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Dread game is worthless once you're already married. No, wrong. Dread is necessary, but it must be tempered with comfort.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:35 PM
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You want to make her feel like she won. This is gold. Maybe even cry in front of her how broke you are, how much she's taken. Double bonus: 1) she feels like she won, and 2) she feels contempt so she's glad to be rid of you. It's important not to cry all the time, because animals are emboldened by weakness, but if it's just once, that's enough. If you have kids, all bets are off though.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:33 PM
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He needs to add some comfort. Dread is a balance. As long as they've been together, he's primed for divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 04:27 PM
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This is quite conflicting with TRP advice, which is essentially "look after yourself and fuck everybody else" My interpretation of TRP is: be the man you choose to be, and although TRP is amoral, you as a man should choose your morality. I don't think TRP advocates being dark triad -- it's just clear that those traits help to seduce and control women. It's my opinion that we should each reject all societal programming: you're free to reject Disneyism as well as Machiavellianism if you so choose.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:19 PM
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Interesting! My comment withdrawn.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 04:15 PM
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at least for now The most important part of your comment. Also, add in, "As far as I know".
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:42 PM
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Plateau = boring. Women hate plateaus, and you hate them too, in movies. How many times have you been watching a show or movie and it slows down so the characters can talk, and you're rolling your eyes, or going to get more popcorn, or whatever. Women hate plateaus. Game of Thrones is a horrible show to be a fan of. Any character can die, and while some have more stability than others (Danerys, Tyrion), even some you thought were safe are not (Jon Snow). That is the way women view relationships;…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:39 PM
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It feels like a double standard. There is a double standard for adults and children, and no one is bothered by that. Reject your programming.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:28 PM
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But even if you hold out, date around, and then after a year choose one, the moment you relent and commit, she loses respect. Women would rather share an alpha than own a beta. This is, essentially, true. But if she has already given you exclusive access to her vagina, if she is a quality woman, she expects exclusive access to your wallet at some point. Otherwise you get the, "Where is this relationship going?" talk, and then it's fuckin' cold coffee. Women who do value their pussy expect you to…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:21 PM
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Paranoia is a heavy burden... guess how I know.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:32 AM
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Damn skippy. When the husband's away, all the dependapotami play.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 03:28 AM
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British snobbishness: "jumped-up public school girl". Eh.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:36 PM
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There are a few Cassandras calling out that exact prophecy, but no one knows what to do about it. Stop technological advancement? Pay people even less to make automation less economically competitive? Mandate employment levels despite automation? Provide workers with more job security guarantees European-style? How do we fix it? Have less kids -- done. Population growth is stable or decreasing throughout the developed world. But what next?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:31 PM
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About $300K per year is top 3%, with top 1% being about $400K. http://money.cnn.com/calculator/pf/income-rank/ This is a cool calculator to mess around with, take a look.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:28 PM
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sovereign citizens are legally correct Yes, they are, but they are not practical. It requires judges following their own laws, and we all know how well that works in the United States...
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 03:22 AM
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She might have something to teach you. Plus, if she's twice your age, she has zero relationship expectations. And if she's rich/successful, she might be able to give you some decent advice on business. Women over 40 are often worth more than just their vagina, if you take a look. The problem is if they act entitled and bitter, but cougars are never bitter with their boy-toys because their expectations begin with the letter d and end with the letter k, and that's it.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 08:00 PM
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That's what matters! But this chica needs her own portfolio; it would suck for us both if she was trying to leech off of mine in retirement.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 07:49 PM
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In Japan young men and women are realizing that marriage is a bad deal, particularly for career women. They are rationally choosing their career over a family life, weighing the pros and cons of both. Hell, 45% of them are basically saying "boys have cooties" and swear off sex altogether. (Of course, we know that what a woman says and what a woman does are two very different things... I bet these women are still getting their strokes once or twice a year, especially on vacations.) So, women can …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:54 PM
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My LTR is a well-paid hospital administrator. Her last job offer had an annual salary equivalent to the price of a nice home in this city. No fuckin' way am I having that kind of cash sidelined... We can pay a maid and a cook to come in a couple times a week and still have a shitload of money left over. The sex-on-demand thing, that doesn't sound so awesome. She wants it a lot more often than I do, so it could get pretty exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:49 PM
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It happens: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nine_Inch_Nails It just almost never happens.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:27 PM
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Great answer. I have to agree. Natural is best, unless you're a natural pussy, then learn to be a natural badass. Yep.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:01 AM
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I actually saw it on a shirt, like this one: https://image.spreadshirtmedia.com/image-server/v1/products/18556790/views/1,width=378,height=378,appearanceId=2,version=1440417743/It-s-not-going-to-suck-itself!-T-Shirts.png I didn't make up the line, I just used it.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:53 PM
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I have more BB traits than AF ones. But she has a low partner count and her prior dating experiences were mostly with very BP men.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:52 PM
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I think "sociopathic" is a bit extreme. I agree that when he becomes more natural, more instinctual, he will have more fun, but all social interactions are governed by rules and his increased understanding of them, until they become rote, should be considered an unfortunate and temporary necessity. He's not a fucking sociopath. I don't think you've ever met one, if you are saying that.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:50 PM
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Good work. I interpret your last interaction as, you went over to Sarah and the guy appearing to mate guard, and then appearing to fail at mateguarding. The only thing worse than beta behaviors is failing at them. Based on your story it seems your confidence is growing. Sounds good, keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:15 PM
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Here's the thing, though; once they get the "complainer" stigma, they get what they want in the short term, but everyone wants to be rid of them in the long term. Think of that Law of Power - don't associate with losers (essentially). No one wants to be around a sadsack, so if she cries harassment and it's valid, she sucks, and if it's not valid, she's pathetic. They do manage to ruin men, and they get sympathy or something like it for a while, but in the end a sexual harassment complaint ends u…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:07 PM
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So here's what's crazy: they're not, really. But that's the thing, you've got to have the equivalent of about five master's degrees and a JD to figure out what to do in any given situation, and yelling at cops while driving on the road is not going to do it. The chair of the Libertarian Party of Florida publicly announced he would be driving without a driver's license from that point on, and basically dared the cops to pull him over for it. He wanted to take it to court, but they knew he'd make …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:04 PM
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Okay, I see your point. In this case, the other 70 men would have restrained her (not harmed her, but restrained her) in that circumstance. Not for your sake, no, but so that the poor dear didn't do something she might regret.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:04 PM
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Link to archived article, so comments aren't fully up to the minute: https://archive.is/dN5QL
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:19 PM
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Archive link: https://archive.is/dN5QL
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:19 PM
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Archive link: https://archive.is/dN5QL
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:19 PM
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I don't want to have to replace you. I like you. Dread and comfort in two easy sentences. I'm using this one in the future, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:17 PM
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You're not paying attention. Most likely you won't pay the price, because most men don't, but if you do then you will pay it for the rest of your life. I'm not going to point you in the right direction, because you sound like a cocky asshole. You'll probably be fine, like I said. But if you fall astray of the wrong woman... I'd say God help you, but God seems to care even less than women do.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:14 PM
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Maybe it's better as a minor.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:10 PM
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Eh, there are better places. But if you do come here, try Texas out, it's still a fairly manly place if you stay away from Austin. (Don't get me wrong, Austin is a fun place full of hot women, but they also have a greater-than-average proportion of hipster douches. Just sayin'.)
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:10 PM
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That's the literal translation of "aardvark".
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:30 AM
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Yes. I-Bankers make more money and have more testosterone. They aren't as smart (by reputation; in fact they may be smarter), and are more likely to cheat, but if you were going to divorce in five years anyways, they're better. Doctors make great second husbands, though.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:29 AM
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I was much more excited that Deadpool was coming out.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:24 AM
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Not quite. He's saying that he won't go out of his way for used pussy. Used, old pussy has to deliver itself on a platter.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 06:04 AM
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If they are in a miserable relationship, they think: "At least I'm not single."
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:53 AM
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Nah. Being "alpha", whatever that means, suggests living life the way you choose, e.g. Sinatra's song, "I did it my way". You choose to hire a woman for domestic services on your dime and with your contract, that's not "beta" -- that's fee-for-service.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:49 AM
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It's all sex for money. All women are whores. The question is, do you pay up front, as agreed, or later, when she stabs you in the back? Nah, betas will still marry. What they want from a marriage cannot be provided by a whore, namely, they want a wonderful, wonderful woman to acknowledge what great guys they are, because if a goodly and wholesome (guffaw) creature such as their fiancee (hahaha!) approves of them, they must be good, right? If it turns some BPs kinda purple, that might make a dif…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:46 AM
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I disagree. Unaffected while she's clearly losing it is pretty damned awesome.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 05:41 AM
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Tats and green hair are much more common, but still a sign of fucked-up-ed-ness.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:19 PM
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Integrity is a poor survival strategy, hence women select against it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:18 PM
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followed by Mason getting a BJ in a club bathroom. Or in Adam's Ferrari. I was at a wedding and one of the women's husband was away on business. He was a Ferrari collector, had some pretty old collectible ones. She offered to take me back to her house and show me the cars. I declined (it was a family event). I don't know if she would have fucked me in her husband's car, but if he loved the car more than his wife that's exactly the kind of fucked-up-shit married women do (marriage drives normal w…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:17 PM
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No, but you can point him towards the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy". That will get him here eventually, but is more socially acceptable because it's about self-improvement and not being pathetic.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:15 PM
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You forgot fucking her sister. He absolutely must fuck her sister, or if she doesn't have one, a close cousin, or her mom.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:14 PM
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Women are insulted when unattractive (i.e. blue pill, i.e. beta) males try to get with them. If an unattractive guy hits on you, it says you are unattractive, i.e. he thinks you can't do better and would settle for him. What's attractive to us men is appearance; what's attractive to women is "game".
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:13 PM
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It's not us; it's them. They aren't ready to unplug from the Matrix. Sunk Cost Fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:11 PM
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You have to practice. This isn't a video game with cheat codes... it's way too complex. If you are not talking to five women a day (even grocery store clerks or old ladies in line at the bank) you will not be comfortable talking to women or picking up on their social cues. You must practice. There's no shortcut.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 07:10 PM
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No phone calls. Phone calls show lack of abundance. The best guys at all this have two or three meetups (don't call them dates, even in your own head) scheduled for the same night. If she doesn't flake (many do) then only spend one hour, one drink, and then head to the next meetup. Text the girl the next day, tell her you will cook her a great dinner at her place. If she's down, she's down; if she offers alternate plans, she's down; if she refuses without alternate plans, she's not down. If you …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:47 PM
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I've been pursuing ever more education for TWELVE FUCKING YEARS. Don't do what I did. Be happy instead.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:34 PM
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When female doctors don't marry doctors, they marry nurses. Goes to show, many people find their spouse through work. Bonus: they don't lose much money when their nurse-husband (or nurse-wife) becomes a stay-at-home-parent.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:32 PM
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No, a text. If she responds the next day, you're good. If she doesn't shoot her a text the middle of the following week. Something non-committal, maybe only one word. "Beer." No question marks, no explanation. If she likes you, she'll text back (my percentage on that is pretty low, actually). If not, not. Meeting women at bars or clubs is a numbers game, and not in your favor. I prefer to meet women at private parties or through friends, where you have a degree of social pre-selection. You don't…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 06:14 PM
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If a super hot chick is just getting started, she'll be on Backpage for, oh, about two days. Then she'll be recruited elsewhere, to where the hot hookers are. That said, there are still some attractive women on Backpage, as long as your okay with some imperfections like a little cellulite here or a wonky nose there. They're not bad, just not 10's. Backpage is about 2 steps up from the street corner.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 04:03 PM
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would help if there's a breakdown on how much the costs of living in the US Median family income in the US is $50K, with more in some regions (New York) and less in others (rural Texas). You can have a middle class life in the Midwest for about $3000/mo. after taxes, but that will just barely cover rent in a shitty New York apartment. a cost-to-cost comparison of what they get if they invest hard earned cash + "being a nice guy" to a whore who gives them starfish sex for once a month Just assume…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 03:59 PM
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No, she's bottom-of-the-backpage.com-barrel.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 03:49 PM
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how am i suppose to know the person walking into the room is a lawyer and not some sleaky police officer trying to get me to talk? He'd be in the cell next to you, until you walk out the door after the judge dismisses your case with prejudice, and then you file your civil suit. Considering it's a 5th Amendment violation, his offense would be a federal one... no cop buddies could protect him once the US Attorney gets word of it. http://answers.uslegal.com/courts/attorneys/16625/ https://answers.y…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 03:03 PM
1

"I didn't do anything wrong, but this sounds like it could be serious. I'm not going to say anything until I talk to my lawyer." And then don't say anything until you talk to your lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:56 PM
2

Our local med school's parties are lame. A bunch of nerds who studied their asses off for 4 years in university, then for 2 more years in med school, then spend 60-70 hours a week in a hospital and can't talk about anything else. They only study, work out, study and binge-watch Netflix. The women are fucking beautiful, seriously, but boring as shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:52 PM
2

Either immediately, or 3-4 days. Usually immediately, as in, minutes.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:43 PM
7

Zero or one, for any age. Four is too many, because 20% of men get 80% of sex, so the odds of her being alpha widowed are pretty high. This is the wrong way to calculate it, but back of the envelope 0.2 x 0.2 x 0.2 x 0.2 = 1/600 chance she didn't fuck a real alpha, and if he put some effort into not being crap in bed, she'll be potentially widowed for life. That's why they call them unicorns. Plus, it is very difficult to find out the true number. If she says 3 she means 3 boyfriends, 7 drunk ho…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:33 PM
1

If the video catches her kissing you goodbye as she walks out the door, hard to cry rape after that. Just sayin'!
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:25 PM
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Show. Don't tell. Take him to a bar. Tell him very clearly not to White Knight. Do some caveman game. He'll be annoyed, he'll WK (he won't be able to help himself) but his WK will come across as judgmental and the girl will defend you. Get a number, but don't go for a close (Betas think a number is a close). This is a fast track to the anger phase. RP is hard, but you need the anger to motivate you.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:51 PM
3

Low partner count is the only thing that matters in an LTR. Everything else (except psychiatric diagnoses) comes after that. Getting fingerbanged at a party doesn't exactly sound like a low partner count to me.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:41 PM
3

Yeah, plan for her to cheat. Exclusivity is not a guarantee even if you live together, let alone hundreds of miles apart. Plan on downgrading her to plate, then when she comes back see if she can earn her way back up to GF status. Personally, I'm a serial monogamist, so I wouldn't bother. If she's not sucking it once a month, then someone else will -- it's not gonna suck itself.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:38 PM
1

He's rich or comes from a rich family.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:36 PM
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She's not fooling around. She just goes to parties, and sometimes things just happen. She's still a good person. Besides, he kinda deserves it for being whiny/annoying/not fucking her right.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:36 PM
3

They are not a good arrangement, that's true, but sometimes they are necessary. This guy has some decent, practical advice for a LDR (which starts with: avoid them if possible). http://markmanson.net/long-distance-relationships
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:34 PM
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I agree. If you think she can't see past you, you might get cucked, but if you are looking for her to look astray and see that she is only into you, well, that's a different story. If you ever have a woman that far into you, that addicted to your cock, then you'll have a better idea of what it looks like. I'm always on the lookout for competition, subtle signs, etc. They just aren't there. Either she's the best liar I've ever met, or she's unavailable to every other man she's met. It's both grat…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:43 AM
2

Stereotypes: ruthless user of men/gold-diggers, heartless, dry you up like a prune then dump you with extreme prejudice... UNLESS -- if she loves you, she will be insanely in love with you, Bonnie-and-Clyde in love with you, it's a lot to handle I've heard. EE women are more cruel and more passionate than Western women, stereotypically speaking.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:39 AM
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Want to see your ex boyfriends? That's cool, I'll start seeing other people too. Good opportunity to bring up an open marriage. Read Blackdragonblog before you do, though. Shit, if she can even see any man besides me, the LTR is on the downslope and it's time to look at other options.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:27 AM
9

Book: 1984. Relevant principle: Five Minutes Hate. Lesson learned: give someone something to hate, they will gladly transfer all of their hate onto the designated object that is powerless to harm them.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:21 AM
3

Absolutely true. If you don't use the jargon, the discussions are generally well-received by men and women alike.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:19 AM
7

Males are only good for three things in the eyes of women: Protection, Provision, Procreation... in that order. Women have a need to feel safe. Your presence calms her, knowing that if another male or other threat (wild animal?) comes, she can at least hope you'll fight him/it off for her. Protection. Women also desire material security, i.e., clothing/food/shelter. Males are the natural source for all of these things in a woman's mind. It does not occur to a woman that she should provide these …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:08 AM
3

You don't need warning signs if there's no audio. Video-recording in your own home for home security purposes is widely acceptable. If you do it in your bedroom, you should have a good reason (like a safe the camera is pointed at), but by-and-large you don't need a good reason to video-record your own home. Your area may vary; check local laws. But audio is usually the problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:46 AM
2

Very useful and high quality.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 08:07 PM
1

There are shoes with built-in lifts. Those are very subtle and the lift varies from 1-3 inches. (search Amazon for elevator shoes: height increase ranges ~1-5", prices ~$20s'-80's)
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:28 PM
1

Beta-blockers: Just as safe as taking vitamins Pretty safe, but side effects include depression, hypotension, loss of consciousness and erectile dysfunction. Don't take them if you need to be physically active, or if you are diabetic. There are other reasons not to take them, do your own reading, but there is a reason they are not over-the-counter.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:21 PM
1

AskTRP. Subreddit. Go there. For what it's worth, you can never fix it with this chick. It will never be what it needs to be, it's too far gone. You've got one-itis (calling her a 9, but saying she's chubby) so your head is in the wrong place. Dump her, move on. Fish in the sea, dude. If you can't imagine dumping her, that's when you absolutely have to dump her. A loser dude I used to know (kicked out of the Army for being promoted too slowly) had his hotter wife wrapped around his finger, and t…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:16 PM
1

Limiting conflict to the legal and economic arena is good for individuals. It's good for individuals vs. individuals. But you concede that corporations and larger organizations already have more economic and legal power than individuals. You contend that, yes, individuals are outclassed, and were violence an option, then individuals would be even more outclassed. I concur, that is absolutely the case. However... Since the powers that be have organized the system, they have organized it in their …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 05:58 PM
1

True. And he had been warned. But no one is truly invulnerable; everyone's got a blind spot.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 05:55 PM
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News companies are still corporations. If there is any chance of losing ad revenue or eyeballs....
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:58 PM
8

Better is a subjective term. Based on increased productivity, certainly we are more productive. But how much more productive would we be, or could we be, if the ones in power feared the ones they rule? It's academic of course, which might as well be a synonym for unknowable. But it is interesting to contemplate.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:41 PM
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Sabot is French for "shoe", and what it does is hold the projectile (in this case, a shotgun slug) while the projectile travels down the barrel. The sabot in a rifled shotgun barrel takes the rifling of the bore and uses it to create a spin in the slug. Spinning projectiles are more accurate, and in this case allows similar accuracy with a shotgun slug that one would achieve with a hunting rifle (albeit at a shorter range). http://www.theboxotruth.com/the-box-o-truth-46-shotgun-slugs-sabots-and-…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:38 PM
1

That gave me a genuine laugh, I like your sense of humor. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:29 PM
9

If we were more vindictive as a society, we would treat each better. I agree. In Viking times, crossing someone else resulted in a blood feud which could and did exterminate entire families. There was a lot more incentive to be fair in your dealings and reasonable in arbitration. As an individual, however, it is not feasible vis-a-vis risk vs. reward to punish someone after-the-fact. If blowing them to tiny bits motivates their replacement to make you whole, then perhaps, but if you are already …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:26 PM
5

if he had cash-flowed things from the start Not many new college grads can cash-flow $70K starting out. If he was cash-flowing, he'd have been more like Tim, and wouldn't have gotten screwed for an entirely different reason. It's just not possible to cash-flow some businesses from the start-up.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:23 PM
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A medical business I know of had a grant/zero-interest loan from a government agency. A large, well-known pharma company made them an offer, but the president liked his employees and liked working so he declined the offer. They approached the other shareholders but they were mostly retired guys who didn't need capital infusions and preferred just holding on for dividends. One month later the government agency called in the loan. The company was worth 20+ times the amount of the loan, but the com…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 05:12 PM
21

No one is going to rig a pipe bomb to their toilet so that when they flush sodium powder mealed with fine powder magnesium is then dumped into the water tank to detonate a ten pound black powder charge in a waterproof case filled with screws. No one is going to rig simple mousetrap bombs to their wheels so when they pull out of their drive way, a thirty pound black charge bomb mixed with twenty pounds of red phosphorus goes off underneath the driver's side. Bombs are complicated and get instant …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:57 PM
1

Based on your downvotes, I wasn't the only one. Big boy.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 04:19 PM
2

From my observations, one or both of the gay guys ends up acting like a woman. I'm sure there are gay relationships where both men are masculine, but I haven't seen them.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:27 AM
1

Make booze your hobby... brew homemade wine and beer. There is an equipment cost to start, but if you know someone who already knows how they can get you deals or even sell you used gear. Like all male hobbies, though, the better you get at it the more you will want to spend on it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:17 AM
1

Have you tried a private pilot's license?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:16 AM
1

Brew beer; you will make friends at the brew shop. (I've found the best spot is by the hops/yeast refrigerator. These are very opinion/taste specific, and are thus open to nigh endless discussion.) As a plus, discussing mash temps and all-grain vs. partial-mash ad nauseum will make women watch PBS to avoid the numbing boredom. Seriously, beer. It works.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:14 AM
1

I thought you were a feminist troll at first, which is why I was trying to hoist a fembot/whiteknight by his/her/xer petard. Party on, Garth!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:11 AM
2

Eastern European women... The stereotypes exist for a reason. Sorry, man. Ouch.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:40 PM
1

are not indications of a bad girl, Are you projecting that level of judgment? He just stated she didn't meet criteria for a monogamous relationship, not that she was a bad person. Isn't it acceptable to be cautious about partner deception? Aren't women? Does that mean that any woman who ever doubts her man is insecure, and not a strong-independent-womyn-who-don't-need-no-man?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:36 PM
3

Check out blackdragonblog if you haven't already. You might be interested in his viewpoint vis-a-vis relationships.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:32 PM
5

LTR is a compromise. You are always paying a price. Only you can determine whether the price is worth it. The risks are far larger than society leads us to believe, and there is no way to eliminate the risk completely. To some men that means no women (MGTOW), to others it means no commitment (PUA/RP) or exclusivity (Blackdragon), and to still others it means watch your dick and try-try-try not to stick it in a razorblade-mousetrap knowing that you might end up doing so no matter what you do. So,…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:31 PM
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if there are no hobbies, chances are "men" are her hobby This needs to be somewhere in the sidebar reading.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:26 PM
7

Unicorns are real. https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/35/0f/b1/350fb189a3ce132877de32d8a1efcba7.jpg
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:25 PM
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Nothing else matters more than: partner count. Okay, psychiatric diagnoses count too, but usually if they are mentally ill their partner count is high as well, so it all washes out anyways. Real Estate: Location, Location, Location LTR: Low Partner Count, Low Partner Count, Low Partner Count
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:21 PM
1

Everybody gets "got". It's all in the lessons we learn.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:17 PM
3

Daddy issues: good fuel for fucking, but gasoline on a relationship bonfire.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:16 PM
1

Funny; I interpret this as if she was trying to show you her best social proof, which I infer means she may have been feeling a little out-classed, and you making her explain it probably changed the meaning of it in her own head. (As we all know, women are experts at post facto motivation editing.)
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:15 PM
1

There are two 'manly' ways to communicate: truth, and silence. Obfuscation is not morally superior (truth can be pretty brutal), but if it doesn't feel natural you can prioritize your comfort-level with outcomes. Deception is effective but if it's unnatural you can live without it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 10:11 PM
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isn't this akin to her having no (or minimal) consequences for her actions? Removing access to you is the greatest punishment possible. Believe it or not, women would rather have the man they are in love with yelling at them than not having him around at all. She wants your presence, she wants your energy, she wants your pheromones... she'll do anything to get these from her guy. Ending it coldly, almost wordlessly, and walking away forever is the nightmare scenario. Men don't understand 'Gone W…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:07 PM
1

If you don't ask, but if she tries to explain herself, it says very little about her motivations but it says everything about what she thinks about you. If she says you're not tender enough, she thinks that you're too macho; if you're frugal (cheap) she'll say he made her feel special by taking her out, yada-yada-yada. Her explanation 'why' always has more to do with you (or her perception at least) than it does with any root cause of her behavior.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:00 PM
2

This gives the impression of a copy-paste. I for one would prefer your own take on it.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:55 PM
2

Everyone wants money without working for it. The difference is that these shrill harpies are actually pissed when we don't give it to them. I buy Powerball tickets when the jackpot is $200M+, but I don't shit in the governor's drainpipe when I lose...
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:53 PM
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It's simple, you start with something they can relate to: "Did you know waitresses make more money than waiters, but restaurant managers make more if they are men?" I have no idea whether that's true, but it moves the frame of the conversation from "all women" to "waitresses", i.e., women of a certain job. Bam, you just explained Simpson's paradox. Throw in an ass-kissing compliment ("women care more about things other than money") and you won the argument. Of course she's always going to stand …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:49 PM
2

Mr. Manning's benign neglect of his wife was oft-rumored in Indianapolis for years, with not-infrequent sightings of Mrs. Manning out on her own with her friends and no hubby within shouting range. Often that is a bad sign, but who really knows? About five years ago there were rumors of "divorce" swirling, and shortly after the Mannings drafted some new recruits (not from the Combine; from her uterus). After that they moved to Denver, but by all accounts Mr. Manning finally had something as inte…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/16 08:22 PM
1

Don't tell me; tell my Kurdish friends.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:57 PM
0

Evidence... inferring a singular statement as representative of more comprehensive agreement with one's own worldview... to-may-toe, to-mah-toe...
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 05:31 AM
2

East Asians do differentiate between themselves and Indians, and also (perhaps especially) Filipinos. Whites don't want to feel rare. It causes a lot of paranoia in the U.S. that whites are starting to feel rare and disadvantaged compared to other races in the lower economic classes.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:59 PM
1

So, Persian. If you had said Iranid, I would have looked it up and learned something.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:57 PM
1

You choose to ascribe what you see as positives, I chose to ascribe as what I see as negatives, that's fine. Cynics are never disappointed when the glass is half-full, but they can still be happy when it's more full. I would put money on her solipsism before I put it on her enlightenment, but whatever. Diff'rnt strokes.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 10:46 PM
0

You do realize I am part Iranian Iranian is a political distinction. Are you Persian, Kurd, Assyrian, etc? Also, you well know that Iran was quite a cosmopolitan country until the 70's. Many would say it was the most Westernized of the Middle Eastern countries until the Revolution. There was plenty of opportunity for men from Iran to meet European women.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 10:17 PM
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Arabs are brown (Semites descended from Ishmael, reputedly), while there is no such ethnic group as "Iranian". The Kurds, Assyrians (not Syrians), Chaldeans etc. have a strong Caucasian influence (as in the mountains, not what we call Caucasian) and could be called "white", but miscegenation (there's a quasi-racist word you don't see every day!) has given them a solid brown tint. (Except for the Assyrians -- they're pretty hardcore and don't mix as much with brown-types.) So, Iran is fairly whit…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 10:12 PM
1

Of course my comment is speculative -- its purpose is to provide color and, frankly, to vent. Your comment does not add anything to the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:36 PM
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Whether he "pre-dates" TRP is not relevant; he deliberately stopped posting here and announced his Neomasculinity as an alternative, rather than in addition to, TRP.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:59 PM
0

You could tell she was afraid in that video. The way the one guy kissed her, I'm betting that was her boyfriend and she trusted him to protect her.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:10 PM
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Unfortunately tribalism < nationalism. If a nation unites, it will absolutely crush any number of tribes, the only real limit on the nation's behavior being the nation's conscience. Conscience takes a bit of a hit when the tribes are raping your women. They say that SS soldiers were psychologically traumatized by the blood soaking up from the ground out of mass graves and getting on their boots. Rape a German's mother and he will fucking dance in the puddles. You don't want to be on the bad side…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:07 PM
2

Touch my mom, my sisters, or my nieces, lose a hand. Force yourself on my woman (and she can prove it), lose a hand. Touch some salty SJW manatees (eww...) that's no sweat off my brow.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:04 PM
1

Not necessarily. They can use stuff like this for fundraising.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:53 PM
3

He used to post here, but then cut ties so that he could brand Neomasculinity for his own benefit, etc. It's not hate; it's just that he is perceived as selfish and self-promoting to the detriment of some men who don't know about Redpill or who might benefit from more perspectives.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:47 PM
5

Just to let you know: viola is a musical instrument, while voila (usually voilà!) is a French exclamation for "there it is".
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:45 PM
0

Link to cancellation story: http://fox61.com/2016/02/03/pro-rape-blogger-organizes-meetings-for-men-across-u-s/
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:43 PM
1

Cancelled: http://fox61.com/2016/02/03/pro-rape-blogger-organizes-meetings-for-men-across-u-s/
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:42 PM
2

Definitely go. Bring a protest sign. Laws of Power, baby.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:39 PM
3

Congratulations, you're a unicorn! Seriously, though, good job and keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 07:36 PM
4

What a whiner. Boo-fuckin-hoo, princess. Wake up. Also, women don't care about your physical appearance as much as they care that you are strong. It's nice when a gun is pretty, but an AK-47 will do the freakin' job, and women view men that way. Good looks is just frosting on the beefcake to most women. (Basic bitches be basic, tho.)
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:26 PM
3

Losing weight and keeping it off for one year is actually fairly common: http://ajcn.nutrition.org/content/82/1/222S.long But keeping it off for life is much more difficult:http://www.pbs.org/newshour/rundown/study-shows-hard-lose-weight-keep/ http://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/27/health/biological-changes-thwart-weight-loss-efforts-study-finds.html http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2015/03/diets_do_not_work_the_thin_evidence_that_losing_weight_makes_you_healthier.htm…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:22 PM
4

If you like fatties, fuck fatties. I wouldn't recommend the pregnancy thing. If you like to splash off in a chick, you should think about a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:38 PM
2

Exception: when you're trying to get over another woman. In some cases less attractive women are safer, since you are less likely to transfer emotions. Fuck a few slump-busters, then get back on the horse. Just don't make it a habit.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:35 PM
5

The problem isn't "wanting" to lose weight; it's wanting it enough. They all want to be skinny, but either don't know how or can't make the sacrifices. Once fat, forever fat, 95% of the time (there have been studies).
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:33 PM
3

I agree in the context of fat chicks. Once fat, always fat. Source: PhD in metabolic field. I disagree in the context of women who just need to be "feminized". They need makeup, better clothes, etc. They have a good figure and good eating/fitness habits, but they just missed the memo on how to be a girl. These women can be coached - want to be coached, really - and with time they really start to enjoy makeup and clothing because it makes you happy (and they get better affirmations). Of course it…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:30 PM
1

What is it we say about exceptions-disproving-rules around here? NAMDALT. (Not all military despots are like that.)
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:23 PM
1

Bet your ass she still bitches about how only 10% (or whatever made-up statistic they're using now) of C-level executives are women, etc. She probably believes the 72-cents-on-the-dollar statistic, too. Teenagers. They don't connect A with B, and we're wrong for expecting them to do so.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:21 PM
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And the simp would be grateful. And she would think she was doing him a favor. They don't take advantage of this perk more often because they know there is an expectation of sex, or that her social circle will think they are having sex even if they aren't.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 04:16 PM
1

You don't really understand women yet. It's okay, you'll get over the bitterness, we all do eventually.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 09:41 PM
6

Your own (no doubt made-up) statistic disproves your own point. If 75% are lies, then 25% are true, hence the women are out there to be found. Even if the percentage of made-up stories was 90%, there are still women like this out there. Cynicism is not a sign of critical thinking; pessimists are not more intelligent people.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 09:40 PM
3

what if the problem is only by setting up a date, not the leadership part. I think you need to ask this in the askTRP subreddit. I'm very passive(i never do it) in setting up dates or inviting friends over. I always expect(demand) to get invited or that they ask me if its ok too come over. This sounds like a bitch move. It might work, sure, but you're not doing what you want to do -- you expect to be included in what others do. What if you want to go to a comedy club, or go mountain biking? Do y…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 09:37 PM
1

Sounds like you're on the right track, my man.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 09:03 PM
5

This sounds butthurt. That's understandable; you went through a lot. When you hit your true inner happiness/peace you will realize the past is past so why worry about it, and you won't want to hold grudges anymore. The inner fat guy is still seething in you, but you'll get to the point where you can let him go.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:44 AM
1

Yeah, redpill is P.N.G. on reddit.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/16 04:49 PM
1

People still marry, but one generally has to have FB friends of a certain age to see it very often.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:50 PM
-1

Didn't realize I was insulting you. I guess I'd be sorry if I hurt your feelings, but it's the Internet, so fuck it, we'll both live. My jimmies aren't rustled; I just felt like using some colorful metaphors.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:11 PM
2

Newlywed women will sometimes status-whore by putting their new husband in the picture with them, for a certain amount of time. Then again, they can just as often just put pictures of themselves in wedding dresses alone, so there's that too.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:25 PM
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They can kegel their way to strongman-status on their "external pussy" (pubococcygeal) muscles, but the inner looseness from shitting a fuck-trophy out of their front-butt cannot be reversed so easily. I'm aware of what sex researchers say about the matter, but pushing a watermelon through a donut is going to leave a fucking mark and no shithead, ten-penny, if-he-had-half-a-brain-he'd-have-gone-to-med-school shrinktologist is going to tell me otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:22 PM
1

Double down on the birth control, though.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:13 PM
1

It's too bad this comment is toward the bottom and a lot of guys who need to hear this will probably not see it. Damn.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:47 PM
2

I remember her telling me her mum told Her the woman isn't meant to want sex and the man always has to be the one to ask for it, I think she basically told me she was told to use it as a tool. Very typical Eastern family advice. If she told you that she was told this, she is very honest. Listen, dude: why would she ever fucking admit that? Why?? She wants you to end it. She's begging you to end it. She wants to save face with her family, when they inevitably ask her why she split with you, then …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:43 PM
1

my family really likes you This is the big one. The family knows very little about you, so if they approve of you it is ordinarily based on rather shallow criteria. If you have status to give and are a reasonably affable human being around the holidays, and if she's not using make-up to cover up Irish sunglasses on a regular basis, they will likely be on your side. Their approval means everything to a status-conscious female, because social survival network. That doesn't mean status whores won't…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:28 PM
2

"Feelin's got nuthin' to do with it."
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:17 PM
1

their 'cut tail and run' approach is a pretty bitch move also Only sane response to a rigged high-stakes game is not to play. Call that a "bitch move" if you want, but that's not the case. Some women are for marrying and some for fucking, and this bitch is the latter at best.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:14 PM
4

Red Pill and LTR is already hard-mode. Add lawyer into the mix and it is old Doom-style Hell mode, no chance. You just slaughter demon after demon hopelessly until you are inevitably dragged down in blood, pain and gore. I'm all for challenging one's self, but I wouldn't do so by jumping from a plane without a fucking parachute.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:04 PM
6

She'd be doing him a favor to branch swing. It might rip his guts out, but it would leave him free to find a nice kindergarten teacher.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:02 PM
139

Nah, lawyers are a little different... they're worse.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:57 PM
5

"I guess that makes you a whore then. Whores fuck for money, you said you'd fuck me for more money, ergo, you are a whore. Get the fuck out of my house, whore." Besides, lawyer women are known problems. Google around for stories of men married to lawyers; you will find plenty of material for your worst nightmares. You are in for some serious shit if you don't call it off. "One thing you can never say is that you haven't been told." https://youtu.be/bzVeLjj6Ao8?t=226
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:48 PM
1

Putting the following letters in the following order is an insta-ban in most subreddits: r e d p i l l It's their subreddit, they can do as they like, but you knew that before you hit the 'save' button, didn't you?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 06:36 PM
2

"I love you" is the most powerful drug we have. Why encourage that they build up a tolerance? Instead combine those words with her oxytocin high for sociophysiological synergism. If she needs other words at other times, fine, but those three words in that combination are only for the most sincere, intimate and loving moments. I was with my woman for more than a year before she heard them from me even once. They can be powerful words if they are not overused.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 06:30 PM
1

Forget 48 hours... more like 45 minutes.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 06:23 PM
1

Sometimes you don't want to know. It's a big decision (and potential legal can o' worms) to initiate surveillance on your spouse.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 11:37 PM
1

Women with children are never, ever 9's. Never. Even if you think the woman is a 9, she doesn't, because any high-value male will be less interested in her due to her having already reproduced. Each child subtracts 1 point from her hotness score, with the additional rule-of-thumb that four-kids-is-a-4-score on total attractiveness.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/16 11:32 PM
1

I see another angle. I think she knows she's not hot enough to have kept a rock star, so now she gets to wax wistful about what might have been. Women are very practical about what men they can keep (not which men they can get, but which they can keep) and I think the fantasy means more to her than the reality might have. She wouldn't have minded getting a nice divorce pay-day when her rockstar husband cheated on her, though.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 12:31 AM
11

It's left over seduction/PUA jargon.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:33 PM
13

Keeping a woman interested and invested into you is damn near fucking impossible cause eventually the relationship plateaus and her eyes begin searching the upper branches. She's not yours; it's just your turn. If you don't expect her to be something she's not, then there's no problem. A bengal tiger is beautiful and majestic, but it's not a lap dog, so don't mix them up and you'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:31 PM
6

No, he fed the hamster before he left.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:30 PM
1

Cerclage is definitely a get-out-of-P-in-V-free card, but it's not an oral or handy excuse. What a selfish bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 07:59 PM
2

Hormones. You don't need any other explanation.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/15 07:55 PM
11

I need to get back to Germany one of these days...
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 08:29 PM
2

what it means to be this level of loyal and how I can embody this in my relationship That degree of loyalty from a woman is pathological. Think "Bonnie and Clyde" -- not a good thing. The best you can do, that any woman can ever do, is to maintain a level of respect. If your gal-pals are bashing their men, you just shut up and remember how lucky you are. If his underpants are inside-out in the laundry again, and he should know that drives you bonkers, then you just think of where you'd be withou…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 07:16 PM
30

1 kg gold = $34,000 USD. 1 year median salary in U.S. = $26,695. Dead bedrooms have sex 6-10x/year, so split the difference and divide the median salary by 8, you get $3,336.88 per lay. That works out to 0.1 kg gold per starfish in a dead bedroom marriage; quite the price for some sad ass. You could get a truly top-notch hooker for $3,000 in the U.S. Pussy for rent starts at about $150/hr....
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:07 PM
1

When I was injured and required surgery, my ex-wife started fucking another dude. That's kinda the opposite of unquestioned loyalty. What I would really like is a woman who had my back, no matter what. Like my Army buddies did, and like my brothers do. If my brothers needed me to do anything -- literally anything, moving a dead body, whatever -- I would do it. It is impossible in my mind to conceive of a woman having that degree of loyalty to me unless she were my mother. Honestly, if she did ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 05:45 PM
-2

It's not me; it's women, it's their nature.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 05:41 PM
-4

It's the female evolutionary strategy. They want to 1) fit in, and 2) stand out in a good way. It's womanly pre-selection; if they have a good husband, they must be a good wife/woman/mother. It's just how they are, no use trying to change it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:09 PM
1

We really want unquestioned loyalty. We really want to be desired and valued, despite setbacks. We really want a lot of sex. And we really, really want them to not fuck our kids up. Most can do the last one. Some can do the second-to-last one. None can do the first one.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:08 PM
1

Do i have a Unicorn No. You never have a fucking unicorn, because unicorns don't exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:16 PM
1

when you are weakest, THAT is when they attack the most No loyalty. Your male friends rally for you. Your own wife wouldn't piss on you to put out the flames if you show weakness.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:15 PM
1

She says she thinks I should share more with her; I hardly ever feel like asking anyone for support Dante Nero (Beige Phillip) says that his marriage ended because he was too independent. The higher your SMV, the more fuel she needs to feed her hamster that she's important to you. Start a project with her; she'll probably be worthless at it, but the point isn't the project, it's her thinking that you need her. That you would lose something if you left her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:08 PM
-5

Trips aren't good gifts for holidays. It's better to give something tangible. Just imagine what she can brag to her friends about, and buy that. Trips are great surprises. Even if it's not far, or long, if she can brag about it or post it on FB, then you did well.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 05:00 PM
6

"Watch what they do. Ignore what they say."
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:08 PM
8

A sick one. Literally sick.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:06 PM
3

Yes you can. Various endocrinopathies and psychological/psychiatric causes can eliminate sex drive completely. It's not normal, but it can happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:06 PM
2

Its not real and they know it. They don't admit to themselves that they are incapable of providing what we really want. They hamster away that just being in their presence is privilege enough, and why wouldn't they believe that with the way orbiters hang off of them? They often see pussy access as the ultimate favor and many think that they don't owe you anything else (but they'll still cook and do laundry to make themselves "feel domestic"). They will never overtly acknowledge any of this, of c…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 04:04 PM
1

No, that's inductive reasoning which, in this instance, is unwarranted. "Fish are wet. I am wet. I am a fish." See what I did there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:07 PM
1

Essentially a definition for pre-selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:12 AM
1

Hence the RP talk of "naturals". TRP is absurd to "naturals".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:09 AM
1

No. Men value loyalty. Certainly there is a percentage that would move on, but you are saying "all". Even interpreting "all" as 90%, though, you are incorrect. Loyalty is a uniquely male characteristic which is reinforced by male-oriented play and increased testosterone (which reinforces social-stratification), and women will never understand loyalty the same way that men do. Women know what loyalty is, and a woman will often show it towards her parents, but as far as most women are concerned lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:07 AM
2

Rape is not really about sex, it's really about power. If it were about sex, a lot more men would be rapists. Part of male enjoyment of sex is how much she wants it, how much she enjoys it. Exhibit A: the absurd noises and articulations in porn oriented to men. Case closed. Rape is about control and power. It's violent, it's perverse, and it is profoundly anti-social. Treating another human like that would be impossible; she (or he) is less-than-human when someone uses them in that way. So why d…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 04:02 AM
1

Yes, and the result was multiple generations of scumbag, alcoholic men who have 10 years less life expectancy, rampant gangsterism, absent fathers and anti-social behavior, accompanied by highly competitive (and manipulative) females focused on giving men what they want on the surface but in the end just settling for the pigs of men that are available. I would wish that Russia eventually gets its shit sorted, but I'm not hopeful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:56 AM
1

The problem with relationships with 9's is the "Hot/Crazy Scale". If a woman is a 9 in appearance, there are other issues there. I'd rather have a loyal and likeable 7 for a relationship than an Instagram validation vampire. (I've never had the problem of worrying about dating a 9, just sayin'.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:54 AM
1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transactional_analysis Instead of validation exchange, you can consider it "social strokes". Fascinating topic, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:52 AM
1

This is because they are interpreting it as Powertalk. When you point out positive traits in other women explicitly, your friends interpret that as you saying something about them. So if you point out an Asian girl to a Caucasian girl, she will be mystified because there is no way to interpret that as a gentle constructive comment for your friend to use to improve herself. A comparable example might be her telling you to be more like Tupac, which for a middle-class Caucasian male would be absurd…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:49 AM
1

I think that where the essential difference comes in is that men do not tend to re-evaluate their options once a permanent (or at least nominally permanent) relationship begins. Cheating aside, most men will keep their wives, even when she's no longer very attractive to him. Men will remember what she looked like when she was 20 even when she's 40 and a mother-of-three. Whereas a woman often tends to view a man with a utilitarian lens, i.e., what have you done for me lately. This is even more tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:44 AM
1

Remember the Red Pill truism: women's truths are related to their emotional state at the time. Your mind will either change, or it will not, but the possibility that it will change and you will desire permanence is very real. The ratio of "happy singles" to "happy marrieds" is astoundingly one-sided; it might be better for you to take your chances with a white picket fence kind of life while your options are still optimal. YMMV. It's your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 03:37 AM
3

The less power men have, the less power they have to say "enough". This is the heart of MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:32 AM
9

Usually a male hamster is just trying to justify a woman's bad side Good point. A RP maxim should be: all hamsters end up working for women, in one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:28 AM
2

What you're essentially implying is that women are mentally inferior to men No, I prefer to think of them as "alien". If you address it in terms of superior/inferior, based on criteria of creating the best possible consequences for choices made and efforts expended then the male viewpoint is superior, but as far as getting the most benefit for the least expenditure of effort then the female approach is superior. what is the basis of parental imprinting of right and wrong unto our children? It's …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:15 AM
5

Police are government employees: no matter their original intentions, they always devolve to the lowest-expended-effort denominator. It's just human nature.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:06 AM
3

How is that fair? Mama said it: #Life ain't fair#.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:11 PM
7

I would make it my personal mission to DESTROY anyone stupid enough to try to fuck with me like that man or woman If that's the case, I'm sure you realize that the right time to do that is not in the heat of the moment. There are two essential aspects to winning a fight: 1) hitting the opponent, and 2) taking as few hits as possible yourself. First dodge the "attack" she made, then, in the cool light of day, once the initial instance is past, then you can think about things... contemplate approp…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:10 PM
3

Your life will be a living hell if you (the male) are the beta. This should be tattooed on the forehead of every recovering "nice guy" out there.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:56 PM
15

Police saw through her lies I suspect She most likely refused medical treatment and refused a rape kit. Both people drunk and no rape kit? No prosecutor in the United States/Canada/reasonable parts of Europe is ever going to want to touch that one.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 07:53 PM
1

They will often say these things, and multiple other women will agree, but they are Powertalking so the words communicate different things depending on the listener. Laughing at her worries translates as "confident", or sometimes "strong". So does leadership and dominance. Hell, almost everything good that women like about men translates as "confident"... but it's also appropriate for them to say "strong" if their identity is congruent with requiring help/support.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 04:43 PM
2

When you explain yourself to her, you are justifying her behavior. You are not treating her childishness as childish, you are addressing it as if it were serious. That's why she's angry (even if she doesn't know it).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 06:19 AM
2

If you'd been there, you wouldn't have to ask.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 10:10 PM
2

Divorced women want every other woman to be divorced as well. Women are such social creatures that being different bothers them. Plus, if she's happy in her marriage they might feel some compunction about not working their marriage out -- as if, gasp, they might have had something to do with their own divorce! If wifey has divorcee friends, they are not in favor of your wifey staying wifey, no matter how awesome you are. If wifey keeps those friends it's because their bitching and sniping and co…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 02:47 AM
1

whether her divorcee friends are poisoning her against him This is not a question.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 12:08 AM
3

You can move out of the bedroom, but not out of the house. Also, document when she leaves the kids alone while you're at work. Also document when she doesn't come home at night. Document everything. Give away nothing, make no verbal agreements, just say, "We'll see, we'll work it out". I know you are sad right now, but don't do anything dumb that the consequences will last so long for your temporary feeling down... Men can "make do". You'll be fine, you'll get through, even on a shit salary at a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 12:05 AM
2

Don't move out first! Get a lawyer now.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/15 12:00 AM
5

Don't flush them if you have a septic, you can flush them in municipal systems.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 03:15 AM
1

Or grin lecherously and ask her if she's ready for a rebound hookup yet.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 04:27 AM
0

just be brutally honest and not give a shit. In case anyone was wondering, this is the option that they actually prefer.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 04:24 AM
1

I must have misunderstood, I thought you were anti-prostitution. Anyways, carry on, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 04:09 AM
1

Like so many things in life and in love, the "why" matters as much, or more, than the "what". Why did one man steal? To feed his family. He is forgiven. Why did another man steal? He used his investment bank to rob old people of their lives' savings so that he could feel like a bigshot while he snorted coke off of a hooker's butt cheeks. So, the why of their agreement to withhold sex was the relevant matter at hand. She withheld it to "feel special". He respected that, in fact, he respected her …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:48 AM
1

They will still cheat on a dude if the situation is right. The thing is, only having been with their husband is such a major part of their identity that they can't risk losing it, unless they can get a new, better identity from being the secret lover. The hamster has super powers. All of us just have to realize that short of tying her up Blacksnake-Moan-style, there is no way to be sure she will never, ever cheat.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:26 AM
1

My current LTR made me wait 42 days. It didn't bother me because 1) she wasn't my only option at the time, and 2) she had a really good reason. When the day finally came she was definitely down, which made the wait not seem so bad after that. As long as there is a calendar date set, with a good reason (say a doctor's appointment, or the end of a vacation, or waiting for the divorce to finalize, whatever), it shouldn't be a problem. The just-wait-until-I-say-so shit is someone who is BDSM but doe…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:23 AM
0

Even as a red blooded male 3 dates seems way too soon in most cases The zero date rule is the new rule. If you are looking for plates or FWBs, spending money on them is counterproductive. It's like fertilizing your lawn with rock salt -- don't fuckin' do it. If you think three dates is too soon, then you are really really lost in the weeds, you need to read a lot more and get with the times. There are a lot of men here and in PUA who think paying for a girl's coffee is a bitch move, let alone th…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 03:18 AM
6

Yeah, no thanks. Just get a terminal cancer patient to do it, he's gone in a couple months anyways, plus his family could probably use the money. (Yeah, sick thoughts. Oh well.)
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:58 AM
1

I mean does this girl even realize, she's a complete parody of herself? That's the beauty of not understanding what "irony" actually means; if anyone calls her on it, she just says that she meant it ironically, which would in fact be ironic in that it wasn't ironic when she meant it to be.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:50 AM
-13

This dude is either 1) a liar, or 2) a piece of shit. I actually hope he's a liar, because otherwise they are going to find human skeletons buried under his backyard someday. Seriously fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:46 AM
1

Kids can stay on their parents' health insurance until they are 25, and I've heard that as long as the kid is making progress and getting acceptable grades a man can be forced to continue to pay support until the kid is done with a four year degree or 23 years old. Definitely a good question to ask a lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:38 AM
3

The problem comes in when they decide to blackmail you later, or flip on you to get lenience for some other crime.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:32 AM
2

Murder-for-hire sounds good in theory, but it seldom works out. The kind of people who do that kind of thing (thugs) travel in different circles than your average insurance adjuster or IT guy. Usually the story is a woman getting caught trying to hire a man to kill her husband, and the guy she hires is an undercover cop. Or that prison guard who let the inmates escape so they could kill her husband, etc. It's tempting to think that killing someone solves a problem, but it really just transmutes …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:30 AM
3

Nope. Because if he's good, he'll bang her, and then you won't want her because she's used goods. Guys will pass around a fuck-toy, but you won't want to marry your friends' used goods unless you are really really desperate.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:22 AM
4

It's not your place to police who and what is posted on this sub. I don't agree with what he said, but as far as I'm concerned you're the asshole because you want to silence him. Don't be an asshole. Let him write his obnoxious comments.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:12 AM
1

Internet meds are like Internet information -- the quality is variable. I prefer a Walgreens.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:10 AM
2

Wow, what a bitch. Fuck that bitch. I'm with the other guy now, you might wanna cut your losses.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:06 AM
2

I'm deleting the advice I had here, because based on what you said in other spots, she's a bitch who criticized you for not fucking her right so get the fuck out while you still can.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:03 AM
3

If you mean arm bars and such, the strength and mass of your own limb can actually work against you if your opponent is knowledgable. If you mean pressure points, no, you are never too strong for those, but you can become desensitized to them with practice.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:54 AM
2

Pain techniques are extremely effective if you haven't been trained to resist them.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:39 PM
-1

Cringing is a normal reaction to abhorrent stimuli, it's worth keeping that reflex intact.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:29 PM
1

It will leave her hollow. No matter what she experiences in vacations and possessions, women were designed for more than that (just as men were designed for more than cubicles and playstations). The only karmic justice is that we all die alone, sad and desperate for more time... just a little more time.......
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 02:36 PM
2

Logic demands that you be able to articulate what bothers you. TRP is amoral/non-judgmental. If you choose to abstain, and choose to discriminate against those who make other choices, that is your prerogative, but if you want to convince anyone for any reason, you should explain. But you don't have to. I'm just sayin.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 02:12 PM
2

Yes, and no. There is a type that's obsessed with money, so a percentage are absolutely that way. Then there's another type that doesn't think that they are, but could get used to that lifestyle if they had it. Nothing, nothing, NOTHING gets a woman wet like the combination of money, fame, power and other women desiring their man. Nothing can touch that.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 02:00 PM
2

Rich men are used to getting what they want. Plus there is a lot of competition for sugar daddies. If I wanted to blow $20k on a woman (and if I ever do, please shoot me and put that $20k in my niece's trust fund), there are a hell of a lot of women out there that would do whatever it took to get their well-manicured hands on it.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:58 PM
5

The sex bots are verbal only, inside a silicone body. They don't really have moving sex bots yet... when they do, MGTOW will be all over it.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:56 PM
1

I've heard that spine specialists in Florida make the most -- up to $1M/year if they are partner in the practice. That's just rumor, though, I have no facts to back it up. Surgery is a shitty lifestyle, though. That's the real beauty of plastics and dermatology.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:55 PM
1

Direct plastic residencies are more common now. They do 1 or 2 years general surgery (butts and guts!) and then go directly to plastics. It's a thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:52 PM
3

"If it fucks, floats or flies, it's cheaper to rent it."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:47 PM
3

Sometimes photos don't represent true attractiveness. Sometimes there is a chemistry/pheromone thing involved as well. She doesn't look 19, though, that's for damn sure.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 01:46 PM
2

Perhaps porn is our equivalent. One can certainly become addicted to it.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:27 PM
3

Extremists choose the extreme positions. Extreme abortion rights activists would allow abortion up to the minute the infant leaves the birth canal. In China my understanding was that any infant who had not yet taken a breath was considered a fetus and could be "aborted". I'm not certain whether that is true, but it is the viewpoint of some extremists. Some extreme fundamentalists (usually extremist Catholics or Christians) oppose the blockage of a fertilized egg in any way, so for them even bloc…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:20 PM
3

Making a woman love you... What a joke, they aren't that special The problem is, many men are raised/taught to pedestalize women, for whatever reason. That's why they need to be taught RP.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 04:13 PM
1

That can't be true for the entire community. I'm confident in saying that because it's not true for me. We speak in generalizations to escalate the dialogue.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 05:53 AM
1

No way to know. He wasn't on the DASH diet, or a vegan diet, or the 80/10/10 diet, so who knows? There are people who eat complete shit and have the hearts of 12 year olds, and then there are people who eat carefully still drop dead from their first MI at age 40. No way to tell without a good personal and family medical history.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:38 AM
1

Nah, the solution is right in front of them. Just settle for the guy they can get instead of the guy they want. If they are lonely and miserable because they "deserve better", then that is their own fault. Reproductive technologies are letting 40 y.o. women have babies; if she can't get her shit together and settle by then, then she should not be shitting out a cunt-puppy at all.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:33 AM
5

Men in their 50's and 60's.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:27 AM
5

In the United States it is easy to get an abortion in most states up until the 12th week of gestation. The abortion itself can be chemical (abortifacients) or dilation and suction through the cervix. It generally costs between $300-$1000, but for low-income women there are often grants and charities willing to subsidize abortions down to the $50 range. (The morning after pill, "Plan B", is not an abortion; it prevents implantation of the fertilized egg into the wall of the uterus. It doesn't end…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 04:17 AM
2

Exactly! What's the point of RP, if it only keeps you at the same societal probability of divorce? That's just it, RP isn't for saving your marriage; it's for saving you. MMSL's big proviso is that he'll make your marriage better if it survives, but he tends to not stress that last part so much when he's selling it to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 04:06 AM
1

Certain types and ages are more flaky in general. That's my $0.02
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 03:49 AM
11

CAD is a complex syndrome that can result from a plenitude of interacting factors. No "one factor" is at play in most men; sometimes you can isolate a genetic or toxic factor (I'm lookin' at you, alcohol), but often it is the relative interaction that dictates whether and to what extent one has myocardial ischemia or infarction. For example: chronic inflammation is a major player in heart disease. Why? Because white blood cells decide to eat oxidized cholesterol in your arteries and form plaques…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 03:39 AM
2

It's not me saying it; it's Athol Kay.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:09 AM
10

Athol Kay says that 50% of the time reclaiming the captaincy of your marriage will wreck it. Either she's not a good person, or it's too far gone, or you are inconsistent/weird about it, or she has someone else already... the list goes on. The point is that men come to the Red Pill because something is already broken. I know healthy men (two) who have looked at Red Pill and they dismiss it -- that's a sign of a healthy man. The BPers and manginas and white knights know there is truth in it, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 12:38 AM
2

Sudden improvement in technique is always worth investigating. Unless you don't want to know. If she's suddenly better at it than she ever has been in the past (ever), then that would get my antenna up. Either she watched a video or sought out advice to please you better (good) or some other guy taught her how to do it right (very bad). Be subtle, don't approach it directly, but it should be in your mind what you think may have happened. If she used to be that good, and now she's just getting ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 05:48 PM
6

Your description comes across as butthurt-pouting.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 05:43 PM
1

Religion and family are the best (only?) reasons for a man to get married. Don't think religion will prevent a woman from cheating... it will reduce the chances, sure, but in the end it is still possible/probable if the man doesn't maintain his place in the relationship. Religion vs. Biology is a tough battle, and make no mistake; it can go either way. I don't know about Orthodox Jews, but from the Jews I've heard talk most of the secular ones have mommy issues and become a bit pussified. Their …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:10 PM
-1

Not all women want to be submissive, but the ones who do are very easy to please and love to please you if you are dominant enough. http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2012/07/29/the-three-types-of-women/ It's important to note that dominant does not mean the same thing as dominating. Think Blackdragon's "Alpha 1.0" vs. "Alpha 2.0".
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:05 PM
1

Did this just last night, but we were more at 45 degrees, not facing each other. http://images.idiva.com/media/photogallery/2013/Nov/couch.jpg It's impossible to argue/fight while she's sitting on your lap.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:01 PM
4

Toward the end if the night she started looking sad (rare) and said you hate [daughter] and me, don't you. This is a comfort test. I don't think it's wrong to give her positive feedback with a comfort test passed here and there, especially when she mentions the daughter that she gave you. You don't have to be hardcore all the time. It sounds like she is fucking you, and she notices when you do things, so you're on the right path. Remember, if you play too hard, she'll think she has no place in y…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:54 PM
2

It's cruel to even try to get them acknowledge the truth. We know they don't want it and can't handle it, so why try?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 11:17 PM
3

Dr. Bill Betabux here to pay for Chad's spermlings and all your white-picket-fence dreams!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 11:17 PM
3

she’s not interested in sex or in making her husband feel loved, especially considering how hard he works for her and the family That's our job, and it will never change. Men love women... women love children... children love puppies... dogs love men (alphas). If you try to run the natural cycle backwards it just doesn't work. You can either MGTOW, LTR, or FWB/plate-spin, but no matter what you do that natural cycle does not reverse.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 07:00 PM
1

Friendzone -> notFZ is impossible Not impossible. Just very, very difficult. A span of time followed by alcohol and emotional vulnerability can turn a pussified friend into a regrettable lay for any woman, overnight! Hurrah! All he had to do was be her emotional tampon for six years, no problem at all.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:36 AM
1

The problems are manifold. Sociology is not my bailiwick, but I'll take a shot: 1) defining terms. What do given terms mean to various women? 2) instruments. Psych/social researchers use standardized instruments (questionnaires) that have been rigorously studied to avoid bias. It's a major part of the experiment and it has enormous potential to skew results; think of the difference between a poll and a push-poll. 3) IRB. If you don't know what this is, count yourself lucky. 4) interpretation. Wh…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:33 AM
2

You're young. You'll be fine. Just remember not to pedestal the pussy. You said she was hot, fine, spend your time on less-hot women because they will be easier for you to keep frame with. Once you realize that women at your age are shallow and narcissistic, they will largely become interchangeable to you. (Later some of them develop personalities, a little while after you do, most likely.) Wrap the rascal, and get it in when you can. That's the name of the game in high school. Freshman year of …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:18 AM
14

I've heard that, too. Find every good divorce attorney, give them the minimum retainer, and then only use the very best one for your actual divorce. The attorney can only represent one side, so the ones 'working' for you can't be hired by your soon-to-be-ex. I understand that retainers are seldom refunded/refundable, so it might be an expensive strategy, but it'll cost less than alimony, so maybe it's just a cost of doing business.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:09 AM
4

Remember, though, a woman has integrity amnesia; whatever she says is true at the time she says it, but not necessarily afterwards. Beige Phillip, gentlemen; Dante Nero is a genius.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:05 AM
1

Yeah, my last ex-wife is the poster child of not-giving-a-shit. Better than psycho-stalker-bitch by a long shot, but still... interesting case study.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:04 AM
8

"You're going to get STD's if you sleep around, you pig." You know at this point she's accepted you as a player with hope of "redemption" into a relationship guy. When gaming 30-somethings, this is an excellent sign that you will likely get laid on the next date, but with 20-somethings I'm not as certain as to the meaning.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 05:01 AM
4

Yes. Exactly. Even if she says no, she'll respect that you had the balls to do it. If she does say no, laugh it off, make it a game, chase her with it and shake it at her. It's childish, it's immature, it's completely inappropriate -- but it's fun, it's funny and it's anything but boring. Rules 1, 2 and 3: don't be 1. weak, 2. needy, 3. boring.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:54 AM
3

Tell her to suck it. Asking is a problem. Also, it is a shit test. When she shit tests a beta, she tells him to do stuff, and he does it. The thing is, when she tells you to do something and you do it, you are failing. When you tell her to do something, and she does it, she's passing. It's very straightforward, actually.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:10 AM
1

The end goal of all RP is to be the man you always should have been. Your goals have to transcend your woman; what else do you want to do with your life? Once you figure that out, turn that into your marriage's mission, while keeping what you have with her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 03:38 AM
6

It's never a dealbreaker to tell her what to do sexually. They generally like that (and if they don't, end it). It's a dealbreaker to ask her to do something, i.e. "Will you suck it?". Just do the stuff you normally do, and if she does it happily, she likes you, and if she doesn't, she doesn't. Emotional creatures are easy to read; just make sure you're not emotional so that you are not easy to read.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:49 AM
1

but they probably won't leave you You might wish she did, depending on how high she turns up the Bitch Volume dial. (My ex-wife's dial went up to '11'.)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 01:44 AM
2

They believe it in the moment, which is all they ever expect to be held to. If their feelz change later, they'll hamster it away as your fault, so the contract was honored! Magic.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 01:42 AM
1

I think that the ultimate truth is to desire nothing. But people interpret that as not desiring anything, which is different. You can never not desire, but if you desire nothing more that what is then you will be happy with what is -- you will have your heart's desire. The thing is, we all want something, we all want more. I want success, I want to make a difference, I want to achieve -- so I do not want to desire nothing. I don't have happiness because I don't want it.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:18 AM
12

Telling her to do anything sexual. Open your zipper, pull out your hard-on, and tell her to suck it (or stroke it, or sit on it, or whatever). If she seems happy to do so, it's a very good sign. If she doesn't seem happy to do so, there may be a lot of reasons, so it's not necessarily a bad sign, but it's not a good one.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:15 AM
-1

Blackdragon says, "90% player, 10% provider". Lots of stuff on that site, it's pretty good. http://www.blackdragonblog.com
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 11:00 PM
6

Beige Phillip - "The best game is no game at all." Abundance mentality will destroy every shit test out there, and if it doesn't, who cares?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:58 PM
22

"Hey, get me a beer while you're in the kitchen." If she wants to please you, she will. If she's a generally nice person, she will. If it doesn't cost her any extra effort, she will. If she doesn't, it is a very bad sign.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:57 PM
3

what makes the rest of Reddit hate you guys Oh, noes! Peeplez hatez us! Whatever shall we do?!? Seriously, fuck reddit. You haven't read the sidebar. AWALT means "all women are like that", meaning, all women want the same three things: provision, protection, procreation, ideally from the same mate, but if not, oh well. Also, "all women" does not mean all women, it means a statistical majority allowing for generalization... we just don't want to footnote every post saying *Except for Sarah, Lupit…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:49 PM
3

Here's the thing though: all women have a dualistic strategy favoring reproduction from one male and provision from the same/a different male. She has failed to maintain her procreator for provision, so your automatic placement is as provider. She does not crave provider genes, i.e., sex is a problem, or very likely to be so. If you are going to be a provider, don't you want a shot to also be a procreator/sexually desired? Why start from a place of disadvantage when it's difficult to maintain a …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 07:00 PM
4

Cry in front of her. Then text her 15 times a day for two days. Then send her the "we-need-to-talk" text and go completely silent. Chances are, you will never hear from her again. How do I know? Umm... a friend. That happened to a friend. Yeaaaaah...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 05:02 PM
1

I agree with the sentiment overall... but my car is used.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:59 PM
3

Men love women... women love children... children love puppies... dogs love men. You cannot break that circle, even if you think you have, you haven't. Only a dog (a literal dog, not an ugly woman) will ever love you the way you want to be loved. If you accept it to be the truth, you're better off, and also think about getting a non-shedding breed because getting fur in your burrito is kinda nasty.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:57 PM
1

Sounds like a manic episode. Read up and get yourself checked if necessary. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:22 PM
5

You can certainly choose who you do not love. That's emotional maturity, and humans are supposed to attain it somewhere around age four. Is there some guy still pining away like a teenager for some lost, tragic "love"? No. He's just displacing some other emotion on top of an unfortunate infatuation. He needs to get over it, move on, and get some introspection.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:16 PM
2

That's like saying trying heroin once is forever going to ruin someones ability to enjoy anything else for the rest of their lives That is exactly and precisely true for a small percentage of people. the fact that a woman may once have fucked an alpha that was attractive to her doesn't mean that her future relationships are going to be fucked It's not about the fucking; it's rare, but some women can even be alpha widowed even without getting laid. It's about the expectations she sets on herself …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:09 PM
1

I'm not convinced that wanting to is the hardest part Someone is trapped in obesity. How do they escape? Eat better, work out more. But they don't want to work out, and they do want to eat Little Debbie snack cakes...
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 04:04 PM
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But why go into a situation knowing that that is the situation? She just said "her kid comes first". She said that she wants help disciplining the child, but no woman will ever let you discipline "her" child unless it's yours too. She says it, "my child", over and over again. She also says her kid is a brat, over and over again. Why sign up for used pussy, when she has a nice car but can barely make ends meet some months, and the dad is still partially in the picture, and the kid comes first no …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:41 PM
32

She did not say with whom she would be romping. She's still got Chad's number.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:37 PM
15

Wrap it up and make sure you cut ties before she engages Lunatic mode. Still taking a risk.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:36 PM
8

How do you feel about "starfish sex" about 10 times a year?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:35 PM
9

My child does come first Nope. Nope-nope-nope-nope-nope.... (TBH, I nope'd out a long time before that, but that is the nope-iest of the nopes.)
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 08:32 PM
9

how can we love and get married with men that we dont want? ... how can you blame any human being that wants to enjoy his youth, the best time of his life? That's just it; you want to eat your cake and have it, too. You want us to wait patiently while you have your fun, standing by until you are ready for us. What are we supposed to be doing while you're having your fun, having our fun, too? History (and genetics) have shown that women are consistently attracted to the same type of men, and that…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:54 PM
2

This Pew report talks about the demographics: http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2014/09/24/chapter-2-trends-in-the-share-of-never-married-americans-and-a-look-forward/ The Pew chart suggests that women are less likely to want to remarry, not marry for the first time. If you look at the data, though, 78% of women find men with a steady job "very important", while there are only 90 employed never-married men per 100 never-married women. Both men and women also want someone with equivalent education, …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:42 PM
2

As you say, of course, but remember: most women are out of shape, and grossly so. It's only easy to be attractive when you're young.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:24 PM
2

We value logic here. Do try to keep up. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non_sequitur_(logic)
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:22 PM
2

My anger fades and fades... I just don't want to spend the energy.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:16 PM
3

And willingness to marry in the youngest cohorts of men continues to decline. Men are going on "marriage strike", only a few percent now, and perhaps the trend will reverse, but it is a real effect.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:15 PM
0

It only takes one bullet to make a true widow, and only one man, one time, to make an Alpha widow. Frequency increases the likelihood, certainly, but just like crack can kill with the first use, so can sex kill her pair-bonding with just one lay.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:13 PM
8

The reality is that our (Americans, at least) desires are constantly stoked to a level of hunger that can never be satiated. "Live well and be happy," has become, "Pursue pleasure at all times and at any expense." Life has never been easy, but now that it is easier than any time in history we find ourselves less happy. There is no sacrifice required of most of us, so we wither internally living a life of "quiet desperation". The only -- and I do mean only, there is no other -- path to happiness …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:09 PM
10

Yes, you were the one who wrote that. And you do sound like a woman to me. Maybe you're Stockholmed somehow? It's not a No True Scotsman situation because there's no denial of a counter-example -- you don't have a counter-example.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:06 PM
8

I mentioned in the first paragraph that they can easily get commitment, just not necessarily from highly desirable men. PlentyOfFish really should be called PlentyOfThirstyBetasWhoWearTrilbysAndWillPutTheirCoatInMudForM'LadyToStepAcross.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 07:04 PM
-3

If you can't explain how Person B got their money - people just "give" it - then you can't really explain how they are going to stop getting their money. Maybe a minor celebrity who slowly fades in fame, stops getting commercials and appearance fees, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 04:54 AM
1

There is a subreddit called AskTRP that is more likely to help.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 04:52 AM
2

I appreciate that you're trying to contribute, but I think that your thoughts should be more organized, and that you should follow the structure laid out in the formatting requirements for this sub. Thank you, though.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 04:51 AM
1

I think you misread. He said "guys she actually wants", not BP/betas.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 03:49 AM
2

Even looking for the reason is a waste of time, unless you could have prevented it and that knowledge would change your future behavior.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 06:14 PM
8

But she's definitely looking for a new puzzle to complete ... and this doesn't necessarily mean she leaves. She might just get a wandering eye and scratch her itch somewhere else without you knowing about it. Dem tinglez.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 06:10 PM
1

Well, I admit it, I was wrong. You are an Internet asshat after all.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:44 AM
0

Yes. But it's not even a moment we all get to experience. Death and decay are the fate of all organisms, hell, even organized molecules. Even atoms will die one day as the universe eventually turns into uniform lukewarm iron mist. You can't live as Chad indefinitely, so if you get the chance, enjoy it while still planning for the future.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:13 PM
1

OP, you need to read Blackdragon's blog.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:02 PM
1

Even Chad isn't Chad: Beige Phillip rule - everybody gets got. Dante Nero has fucked so many women he stopped counting, he is over 6' and used to be pretty ripped (he was a male stripper), and he even fucked 11 women in a single night. He was a bareknuckles street fighter, alleged drug dealer, and a literal pimp -- and he says that everybody gets got. Chad is an ideal that some men maintain for a while. The frat president - he's probably a Chad, for now. In six years when he's selling insurance …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 05:59 PM
8

Minor criticism: your TLDR was TL.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 05:53 PM
0

The thing is, I know how to fuck. I would just like a second opinion on some specifics, because women are generally so hesitant to talk about what actually pleases them. I don't know if it's body shame, or if they want you to "just know"... but they grow out of it sometime in their mid-30s.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 05:49 PM
1

I resent female incursions to male zones, but only when they attempt to feminize those zones, not when they respect the spirit and character of the space. e.g. I don't mind a woman being in a cigar bar, as long as she's not there to protest against smoking.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 05:44 PM
-1

I'm going to assume you're not just an Internet asshat, and try to answer your questions. I do not concede that 50% of the post is that "she is a girl". I do agree that were that the case, it would be an unworthy post, but as I said, I disagree. Valuable perspective: it is often said that even lesbians aren't really lesbians. Even this woman focused on being a tomboy and lifting says that eventually she would like a husband and children someday. The girl that cheated is also focused on a husband…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 05:36 PM
5

Ass-whooping. Doesn't matter Dad will beat your ass for it later, so what, sister got hers first.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:39 PM
4

I'm not prejudiced against women, therefore I judged her post as valuable insight from a new perspective. If you are angry that a woman posted here as an equal, that says more about you than about her.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:32 PM
3

Eh, take advantage of the decline. We tell each other that all the time.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:30 PM
2

Pics or it didn't happen. No, seriously, if my chick got freaky with another woman, I'd be asking that other woman for tips. (Should I try the dual stimulation of the G-spot and clit at the same time, or is that too intense for her? How much butt-play; just a little, or a little more? She seems to like the vibrator on the outside but the internal stimulation doesn't seem to work for her, what did you think? etc...)
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:30 PM
2

Future doctor: perfect husband material (particularly in Asia) If she gets her jollies on the side, well, at least you can't get her pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:27 PM
2

There are women who believe in men's rights. I met one, once. Also, that lady on the Internet who does YouTube videos. So, there's two at least. /s
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:26 PM
3

I don't think you'll like my tits i'm not that gifted in that area Ha! Don't discredit yourself, though; it's like the comedian Ron White said, "Once a man sees one pair of tits... he wants to see the rest of them." Nice or not, tits are tits.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:25 PM
3

You post has value, thank you. Gender irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:23 PM
2

Hence the quotes he put around "proved".
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:05 PM
3

In addition to dread game, reminding women that they have a better guy than their girlfriends is always a good idea. (Edit: subtlely)
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:03 PM
1

I agree with you, they will fuck betas (starfish style) to keep the provision going.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 03:00 PM
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She got a lot of leverage by snooping the RP out. She's not going to leave soon, but she will eventually, because she damaged his frame and made him apologize/explain. If I were him, I'd start lining up other options, and soft-next.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 02:57 PM
3

One of the comments: a place that thinks it's a mistake to apologize to women (current front page post) My post. I'm pretty proud of myself now.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 02:54 PM
1

Nah. I think a series of slump busters show you the true value of pussy, i.e., it's not that special. I had a couple hotties and a couple maybes when I was getting over my last broken relationship, and it didn't really matter. I'd rather have banged the two hotties more, but, eh, whatever, one of the average girls was the most fun in bed. Don't pedestalize the pussy -- 9.0 pussy is not better than 6.0 pussy. I've only banged two what I would call 9.0's in my life, and that was awesome, but they …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 08:08 PM
6

So they don't ask you for favors anymore. Simple, really.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 07:46 PM
3

Nope. Nope-nope-nope. Remember, when an interaction with a woman goes wrong, it's almost always your fault. You can't blame the scorpion for stinging you, you can't blame the psychopath for murdering you, and you can't blame the woman for running you down in the street like a dog to get what she wants (advantage, or revenge). Treat women like either: 1) you treated your schoolteachers in high school (for coworkers), or 2) like kid sisters (for romantic involvements). 1) Schoolteachers - you didn…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:49 PM
1

Do a favor for them once, then ask them for a bunch of small favors. Two reasons for that: 1) when people do you favors, they like you more, and 2) they don't want to "owe" you. Unlike other male rules/precepts, women are aware of the owed favor dynamic, since they use it so extensively on men and one another. They generally don't feel the need to pay men back for favors, BUT they do hate to be asked (creates an awkwardness). Yes, women deal with (and actually enjoy!) some types of awkwardness w…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:44 PM
1

The 1000-cock stare is a real thing. It's actually a bit sad in person, makes me feel compassion for these young women who have already lost their childlike joy in life.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:40 PM
5

I have not noticed this. Then again, I'm naturally gregarious, and I can communicate that I want nothing from them from the outset. If you mention that you are LTRed, or wear a wedding ring, you will see a different set of behaviors. They will try to pull you into their orbit, to make you their "work hubby". You should avoid this, of course, but it doesn't hurt to seem like you are benefiting women in the office in a general way.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:39 PM
7

Eh, still... if there is a possibility of poisoning a well, you gotta think about it. Young guys just starting out make this mistake, and it rarely burns you (as far as you know) but potential consequences can be serious. Women you know from work also tend to become relationships, whether that's your intention or not. A lot of guys do it, but like sex without a condom, it's a risk every time.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:34 PM
0

"Getting over a woman is as easy as getting under five others." [Paraphrased] Beige Phillip/Dante Nero Sex will heal a beta's soul. In my experience you really can't turn the womanizer mode off once you turn it on, but women secretly don't want you to.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:17 PM
2

The nice thing is that inflation works in your favor on debt (i.e., the money you are paying back is worth about 3% less than the money you borrowed, compounded, yearly). Of course if your debt is compounding at 8%, that means your debt is still increasing 5% yearly in constant dollars. (I know that's an oversimplification, just go with it.) If you can deduct the interest, that can be useful in limited tax situations, but it's not very often possible to do so. (People who waste money to get dedu…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:13 PM
2

Perhaps I confused it with self-talk. I guess I need to re-read.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:05 PM
6

Straight talk: for male friends/peers only. Power talk: for work, and for women. Baby talk: never, that's for women and cowards, don't lie to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 03:59 AM
-3

So, are you saying, if he strikes her hamster down, it shall become more powerful than he can possibly imagine? https://i.ytimg.com/vi/0RmaX1K4w4Q/hqdefault.jpg
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 03:56 AM
0

That makeup is very distracting.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:47 AM
1

Really short... she would have died in the plane.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:45 AM
4

There are times and places for apologies. Example: you borrowed her car and hit something. Shit. Apologize. Example: you burned the mac 'n cheese. Oh fucking well, NBD, no apology. Example: you said some shit in front of her friend that she didn't like. Too fucking bad, part of the package, no apology. Example: you fucked her friend. Apology probably needed there. Example: you fucked her mom. Uh, yeah, another apology situation. Example: you Eiffel-towered her mom with her dad. No apology; just …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:33 AM
9

Thinking women will be impressed when you lecture them on all their little tricks You fell for it. She doesn't care about your bullshit, she doesn't care about football or Star Wars or philately... she cares about securing 1) good genes, and 2) provision, with feelz as a nice byproduct. If she has to convince you -- even convince herself -- that she likes or appreciates x, y or z, she'll do it, but there's no sincerity there. Sometimes women genuinely like something you like, it happens. But if …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:26 AM
5

We use the same words as them, but it's like a parrot. When a parrot says the phrase you trained him to say, he gets a cracker. It could be, "Cracker please", or it could be "Feed me fuckface"... he just says whatever he needs to say to get the cracker. Women are also sources of validation for women, so they say whatever they have to say to others to get that fucking cracker. It's understandable. Noble? No. Comprehensible? Yes.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:23 AM
1

Exceptions do not disprove generalizations. One woman in one circumstance/environment does not disprove AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:21 AM
27

Women know that other women do it, but they think that they are better than those bitches. You'd think a female relative would be on your side, but usually not, they're only interested in what they can get out of you too. They don't see it as using or taking advantage; men exist to provide for women, after all. The only question is what do you provide, and for whom?
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 02:20 AM
2

If black dudes... realized they could be in Costa Rica getting their dick sucked by a Latin girl on a beach instead of in some project tenement Some black men are going to Brazil. Good documentary on it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOjvPOBvd9A
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:52 PM
1

You can enjoy your business, but it's business just the same.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:50 PM
1

In reality the European just faces his mortality... his extinction. What you envy... is dying out. Whoa, fuck you too, dude. Seriously. I mean, shit, that's dark.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:49 PM
0

Boo-fucking-hoo. You know how tall the guy at the bus stop I just walked past was? He was 6'6". He also had busted teeth, homeless guy clothes and skin black as pitch in a racist red state. Lucky him, right? He's so tall... Sack up, princesses. We all got our shit to shovel. http://patriotupdate.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/gunny-now-what-hit-them-with-your-purse-lmao.jpg
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:46 PM
2

Just do something. Don't plan, don't wonder, don't stare at the fucking stars or sheep intestines -- just do something. http://markmanson.net/do-something
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:40 PM
4

The best way to learn is to try and to fail. That was literally 80% of my PhD, with classes making up less than 10%.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:25 PM
4

I've found that the recording-level of paranoia is dysfunctional. That degree of stress leads to excess cortisol -- it ruins your sleep, your health and your appearance. It's just a shit life all around. Better for you to find a new situation.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:23 PM
1

The saying is: two kinds of people will never starve -- farmers, and salesmen. My grandpa's farm was pretty small, but we never would have starved.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:21 PM
1

Yes, and no. There are unpleasant aspects to every job, even a job you love.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:17 PM
3

Picture of you sky-diving or scuba-diving, then.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:16 PM
2

If you are passionate about it, that will shine. It will take time to build a brand and loyalty, but if you are sincere, it will be apparent. You don't do a good job for this customer, but for all the other customers that this obnoxious whiner is going to send your way when you make him happy.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:14 PM
8

Passionate about politics is a disqualifier for working in that field; it's renown for burn-out. As I was told about journalism, the best way to get a journalism job is to be an expert in something else, i.e., be an engineer first, and then an engineering journalist, and then a journalist. Politics is the same, as far as I can tell.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:13 PM
3

Places that scan resumes automatically note whether or not there is a degree. When you have what I call "stranger" or "cold" interviews, they also use it as a point of conversation. If your network located your job for you (Dad knows Fred), then it doesn't matter as much. My field is defined by obtaining education, of course, so YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:10 PM
13

First, you save $1000, before paying off any debt. (This is so that you won't need a credit card to pay for emergencies.) Next, you pay off all of your debts, starting with the highest interest first, or alternatively, with the one you can pay off the soonest. You pay the minimums on all but the "target" that you want to pay off. As you pay each off, then you move to the next. When all of the debts (including car & student loans, but not including house) are paid off, you are 66% of the way to F…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 07:02 PM
5

Definitely stop. No reddit at all. News sites are fine, even sports sites should be avoided though.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:57 PM
7

She was going for a kiss and I licked her face. She fucking hates it.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 06:40 PM
2

Fear is the problem. If you are confident it's not an issue. You honestly think that a woman is going to risk the social censure of pressing rape charges against her husband because he ripped her clothes? That type of woman is so crazy there is no saving anything... fake your death and move to Mexico.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 12:12 PM
13

She needs to be choked. Gently. Firm, even pressure. Don't leave any marks (that would be embarrassing for her). Another favorite; just rip her clothes off of her. Hulk style. Just tear that shit up. Rip them the fuck up and then just fuck her raw. It won't hurt her, she'll love it, and she will never look at you the same way again. The key is to do it so that she knows you give exactly 0.00 fucks about what she thinks.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 07:15 PM
10

Women respect any kind of mastery. You can blow it from there, but if you are visibly awesome at something they're interested in then it creates a good opening. Rember, though: nothing helps if you smell like a turd and your breath stinks, dirty hippies!
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:29 PM
2

You were trying to get insurance to cover it, that's why you had so many problems. If you went cash-pay, you'd have had it on the 2nd visit. Sucks, but true.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:23 PM
1

I hate to say it, but the professional societies (Endo and Uro) can be bought. They matter, but not as much. Endo's reccs on DM, for example, are widely thought to be overly cautious, so USPSTF is used by most PCPs instead. It doesn't count until USPSTF says so, and they ain't said nothin' yet. http://www.uspreventiveservicestaskforce.org/BrowseRec/Search?s=testosterone
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:19 PM
1

I don't think it's so necessarily gullibility. When they want to discover the truth, women can be relentless. I think it comes down to a verisimilitude in their own private movie... everything has to be 'believable' and it has to have a place in the narrative, but if it does, they won't question it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:14 PM
2

The whole thing was a victim-brag. About how the customer was unappreciative to someone she had power over (the server) and when the customer tried to be condescending suggesting the server find her own husband, the server was able to serve up the I-already-have-a-husband-he-buys-me-nice-things-and-is-also-cuter-than-yours-by-the-way schtick. Unless the server wasn't wearing her wedding ring (and why wouldn't she wear her ring at work? so she can flirt more effectively? hmmm interesting) then th…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:09 PM
2

There is an organizational life cycle of companies, I can't remember where I saw it, but it's related to the powertalk articles. Anyways, it talks about how when a company is young most of its bulk is made up of productive people. As bureaucracy layers on the productive people move on and the business becomes a ossified organization that exists for its own propagation. That type of business is where the true social/political power of a pretty, single 20-something can be observed to full effect.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 03:02 PM
1

Trauma can and does have multiple effects. PTSD causes anxiety, which would make the individual even more prone to seeking safety and security. Humans are complex.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 09:57 PM
1

This is good general knowledge. We all have friends and family members (and ourselves) who go through some shit. If you have a life-threatening experience, you might be glad to know that there are chemicals to reverse the physiological changes in your brain chemistry (that may have been helpful as cave-men, but now can be a very big problem). Also, if anyone has PTSD, get a dog. Dogs are awesome for that, they sense your anxiety and help you be mindful of your brain chemistry.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 04:17 PM
1

Early medication helps. Anti-depressants for anxiety disorders, and beta blockers combined with therapy. Wine and talking it out with a sympathetic friend can have a similar effect -- seems to work for women anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:41 PM
1

Not necessarily. Women are more prone to PTSD, even from car accidents. Even if she doesn't get PTSD, she might get a case of the BBs.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:28 PM
1

Yeah, she's going to LSNFTE you to lock down a BB, but if you're the best lay she's ever had she'll come back for AFs down the line. (LSNFTE= Long Soft Next For Temporary Exclusivity.) http://www.blackdragonblog.com/glossary/
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:27 PM
1

The legal system works great... for those with financial resources. Get financial resources, don't worry about unfair legal problems.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:22 PM
1

You can marry her if she's richer. If it costs her to divorce you then it's to your benefit. "Cheat and Grow Rich"... fuck her if she goes all starfish on you. The only thing is if you have kids she can cut off access, but other than that, you're winning.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:17 PM
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I will burn this motherfucker (the relationship and all that goes with it) to the ground in the event that I need to Easier to say before the kids, but much more important to be able to say afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:15 PM
1

Yes, and no. At the hospital or in the clinic they are the boss. They make the decisions and the calls, they are the authority. In that way they seem very alpha. To women who do not interact with them at work, they seem like good providers. Also, other women want them, and women always like men who are good/involved with children, so pediatricians hold a special awwwwww place in a woman's heart. So, they can seem alpha (especially surgeons), beta (especially pediatricians) or a mix of both. Defi…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:01 PM
1

Well, anyways, there are tutorials on YouPorn or PornHub.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 03:51 PM
1

That is the wisest option in the current environment.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:32 AM
2

50% of couples divorce, which means 50% don't. A substantial percentage probably should divorce, because they are miserable... but that still leaves a proportion of happy marriages. HAPPY. MARRIAGES. DO. EXIST. They are not unicorns... they are just rare. Now, I know that I will never have one. It's impossible for me now; I'm too fucked up by fucked up women. I do know what they look like, and I'm not here with blinders on. My brothers and I are very honest, and I know which of my brothers has a…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:57 PM
1

Median income $50K (less for those just starting out). Let's assume three talented young men decide to do business, computer science, and medicine. All three: 18 years old, $0 debt, $0 assets All three go to a good school, say Purdue (good for science and engineering, but not expensive for in-state). Since all majors essentially cost the same, the men all payed the same tuition and all have the same debt as they graduate. All three: 22 years old, $80K debt, $0 assets The business and computer sc…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:45 PM
2

First off: not all women like their pussy being licked. Those that don't think that vaginas are gross or something stupid like that, but oh well, that's her issue, so don't force it. If you're going to face-fuck her honey hole, here are some thoughts: 1) Have her shower first. If she won't shower, then she doesn't want it, and don't bring it up again. No words are needed. For women who like a tongue-lashing, they will do anything to get it... if your girl told you that you had to shower to get h…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 07:54 PM
54

That FB thing... that's exactly what women do when they really like a guy. Fucking clueless.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:59 AM
1

They get a good salary, but lose 12 years of earnings and accumulated interest, as well as garnering six figures of debt. So, don't be a doctor for the money -- go into banking instead.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:51 AM
2

BioEngineering = Biology + ??? Biology plus molecular techniques, i.e., cloning genes, developing plasmids/vectors, genetic analysis, CRISPR, you know, science-y stuff. There are also tissue and cellular matrix engineering, which are highly specialized applications of cellular bioengineering (i.e., how do we get all these cells to work together?).
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:48 AM
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Bio majors are focused on: medical school, dental school, science research or maaaaaybee being science teachers. The grading curves in those classes are brutal, because all the future doctors and dentists are trying to crush every class to get into a good school. Nurses study pre-requisite classes that have a different identifier, i.e., at my university it was "K" for biology/science majors, and "N" for nursing/healthcare majors. If a nursing student accidentally found herself in a real biology …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:44 AM
3

Some things are done in this world with muscle, other things are done with influence. Just being built and wearing athletic-style clothes all the time is fine, sure, whatever. But when you want to present yourself as successful (to other men, particularly to, say, investors or clients) then you need a suit. In some cases looking completely jacked is a hindrance for your professional advancement.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 03:44 AM
15

Most people on this board 1) are recovering betas or 2) have seen some seriously fucked up shit with their dads/friends/themselves. In my family both of my brothers have good marriages -- natural alphas who married low-partner-count Christian women and then knocked them up. If you've never seen Marriage 1.0 work in this society, which it sometimes does, then you might believe that it never can. It can. It's just not worth the risk to most of us.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:19 PM
16

I think that most women genuinely want a good man around. They want someone to do shit for them that they don't like to do, they want to sleep next to someone who will protect them in the scary night, they want someone who will pick them up when they have a flat or their car breaks down, they want someone who knows how to fix cars/houses/computers, they want... they want... they want... Women genuinely like having betas around. They just don't like fucking them. If you don't get in the way of he…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:14 PM
21

Yet mothers push us to BP behavior and marriage. You can trust their intentions, perhaps, but never their actual actions or words.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:12 PM
1

I don't know the answer; I can just point out the problem.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 09:08 PM
1

Anatomical and neurological neoteny cannot be assumed to correlate.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 04:33 PM
1

http://freediscountcouponscode.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/hot-pockets-crispy-crust-cheese-pizza.jpg
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 04:31 PM
2

There is another way. Be the best version of yourself, and then look who is around you. If there are good men, you have friends. If there are good women, then you have potential mates. Remember that all of life is compromise. Sometimes the HB9 is an awesome person who hasn't been railed like a roller-coaster until her pair-bonding is weaker than a fridge-magnet, but much of the time that is less likely to be the case. Even HB6-7s can be alpha-widowed CC riders; homeliness is no guarantee of virt…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 04:28 PM
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I disagree with not using the mouth. That's up to your preference, maybe you've got a "thing" about it, and if you do then you shouldn't do it. It's not natural for you, but I enjoy it, and I make it my thing. Absolute dominion is not essential in relationship sex, it's necessary to be dominant but also passionate -- the woman gets off on knowing you find her irresistible and if you are skillful and passionate down there then that is only a plus. If she's an alpha-addict I see your point, but re…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 04:15 PM
4

No one would invade Germany to stop them from killing immigrants. Sure the West intervened in wimp-ass countries like Bosnia, but even Serbia was too intimidating for boots-on-the-ground. If Germany decides enough is enough, and the immigrants can leave-or-die, ain't nobody got the balls to do jack-shit about it. The last time they gave Germany two countries for free before they tried to stop Hitler... if Germans kill "Germans", the world will be full of "condemnation", but that won't stop the m…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 04:01 PM
2

Gay men love women. They just don't loooooooove women.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 03:54 PM
3

I don't care what they say or what offends "them". "They" can never be pleased, appeased, mollified or otherwise convinced to accept TRP as legitimate or even worthy of mere rejection -- condemnation is the lot of the male sexual strategy, no matter what we say. That said, I knew he was being sarcastic, but considered the comment in poor taste, so I downvoted it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 03:52 PM
11

*eludes /ēˈlo͞od/ verb (of an idea or fact) fail to be grasped or remembered by (someone) "the logic of this eluded most people"
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 03:50 PM
3

Surrogacy is often discussed here. I think the price tag is somewhere around $30K right now. The egg donation is the really expensive and difficult part, IIRC, with medical/pre-natal/delivery care a close second. Haven't done it myself.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 03:44 PM
7

It's easier to start "hard" and go "soft", than to start "soft" and then go "hard". Prison guards, cops, parents... they all know it to be true.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 03:40 PM
1

I've heard that to get off the hook you have to get someone else on it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 10:35 PM
1

Damn, man, you got screwed. In this story, though, it was completely fraudulent. The soldier in question would be able to file a counter-complaint, and the state wouldn't pay up but they would definitely allow you to garnish her wages and potentially her future tax returns/tax credits.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:13 PM
1

If they were garnishing his wages, wouldn't they notice where the paychecks were coming from? I don't know, but I'm asking.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:11 PM
2

It boosts one's ego to say that you support the underdog... this is particularly an American and Western trait, though it is seen other places as well. It's easy to make sacrifices with other people's money, after all.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:09 PM
1

Most politicians do not want to be seen anti-military. Many judges are politicians, and all DAs are (or will be).
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:07 PM
1

Law was originally passed in the 40's. Updated in 2003. My story is from '99.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:06 PM
1

They'll humiliate her. For fun. No consequences, though.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:57 AM
5

Yes, she could be prosecuted for perjury. DAs don't like sending single moms to jail, and they don't have any money to take in fines and whatnot, so it's a loser case a DA might only play up for political grandstanding (pro-military, anti-welfare scammer).
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:49 AM
4

Nope, saw that. Yep, they'd enter a judgment or whatever they do. Then, when they figured out he was in the active duty military AS THEY ARE GARNISHING HIS WAGES they would figure some shit ain't kosher and some details need filled in. On further review the situation gets un-fucked, and everybody moves on, unless they go after the liar for perjury (but I wouldn't hold my breath).
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:47 AM
8

True, you have to get fucked before you get un-fucked. But I would love to see what the feds do to the woman who named a military guy she didn't even know as the dad. Imagine the following exchange, with her under oath: "Ms. Pumpndumpd, could you explain to the court who is the father of your child." "Cpl. Devildog over there." "Ah, I see. And was the conception natural or artificial?" empty stare "Ahem, I mean, did the two of you have sex to make the baby." "Yes." "And did you disrobe during th…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:45 AM
10

Law was passed in 1940's. Soldier I knew, that happened in '99. I do happen to read, yes, occasionally. And I know some other shit, too. Like numbers and shit. Yeah.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 03:39 AM
2

The best way to engage a mob when outnumbered is to snipe. Nah, it's to put on the enemy uniforms, wiggle your fingers mysteriously, and say, "These are not the testicles you're looking for... he can go about his business... move along. Move along." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsvbYKr19ng
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:47 AM
1

Did I miss your sarc tag? Oh, no, there it is... it's in a little blue "downvote" icon, right up at the edge there, I'll point it out to you... there. Oops.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:41 AM
4

The movie isn't appealing to "Blakes"... they are all drooling over the Rock. The movie is appealing to "Emmas", who love their sons and hope their sons get nice girls. Moms with sons --> want Ben to get Blake Moms with daughters --> don't want to compete with daughter for Rock Daughters --> want 10 minutes of naked-time with Dwayne Johnson
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:38 AM
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Uh-huh... nope. Soldier and Sailors Civil Relief Act of 2003. Includes (not limited to) the following protections: 1) Delay of Court and Administrative Proceedings - required to grant 90 days minimum, SPECIFICALLY mentions child custody cases 2) Default Judgment Protection - can reopen any judgement under certain conditions including overseas deployment 3) Civilians can be prosecuted for FEDERAL CRIMES if they defraud members of the military who are on active duty, particularly if those individu…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:31 AM
1

Constant approach is good for your professional skillset too.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:16 AM
3

It is possible to contract herpes without any visible sores on the other individual. It is less likely, but still possible. It is possible to contract gonorrhea or chlamydia from receiving oral sex, but it would be unlikely. It is more common for men to get thrush from performing oral sex on women than vice-versa. HPV has unknown consequences for the performer of oral sex, but I've not heard of it being transmitted from the mouth to the penis. Stranger things have happened! If she's a circus per…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 02:14 AM
1

Yeah, women get really confused when alpha-ish dudes act beta-ish around them... the inconsistency makes them uncomfortable. If you are RPish in general, but you orbited her (by your choice), then that will make them not know which box you fit in. As social creatures, they are very focused on their own social hierarchy, so if she can't categorize you then you are not adding to her value in any way she can account for. She had to either flip you beta-orbiter, or sexualize it, or mine it for drama…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 12:23 AM
1

I disagree. I think that some people will continue to think poorly about him, but they are not hockey fans. I think most hockey fans are on his side. Then again, Roethlisberger is still haunted by his allegation, so maybe you're right. I guess I hope not.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:30 PM
5

Every woman there is multi-red-flagged, instantly. Drugs and parties are easy to find, even if your work is straight-laced, at least a few employees have worked at other restaurants or are still working at other restaurants/bars. If you want to troll some gold-diggin' ho's, you can, but 1) you better be verified-sterile, and 2) wear your jimmy-hat or your urethra might end up being the Health Department's newest petri dish. The cool thing is that the women don't shit test as much as other women.…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:27 PM
4

as if I actually want to stay friends with a cheating whore I don't get where your emotion is coming from here, unless you had a thing for her. Why get upset when some dame cheats on some schlub with some other schlub? It's got nothing to do with you, why waste the energy being angry?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:23 PM
7

Restaurant workers have a well-earned reputation... bar workers even more so. You know, so don't act like you don't know.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:22 PM
2

"I tried to confide in you, and all you did was judge me" We can't accurately judge them. The standard we compare them to -- what we would do if we were women -- is nonsensical. Maybe you're a bit disappointed, but your emotional reaction reveals what she already knew... that you had a hidden thing for her. If it was really AWALT, you wouldn't have cared. The pill inched a little deeper down your throat.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 08:20 PM
1

And as long as your frame is titanium, you're good. It's funny, we're both kind of like Blackdragon. You: zero tolerance for drama. Me: prefer avoiding bad behavior to correcting it. Funny how men just find what works for them and we end up doing the same stuff, kind of as if all women have certain things in common...
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:54 AM
3

And women also don't realize 1) SMV decay, and 2) the difference between fuckable and dateable as applied to themselves. 1) She still thinks she's the number she was when she got you. If she's had a kid, she might not, but then again her physique might be similar to a trashbag full of shoeboxes (thank you for that image, Dante Nero/Beige Phillip), so some reality has to set in. But many times, pre-kids and early on, she still thinks she's a 12-out-of-10. She'll do what she wants and figure she c…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:51 AM
1

the real dollar value of a vagina is set by prostitutes Hmm, I've been looking for a suitable tattoo... translated to Latin is it the following? "Verus valor est vaginae scorta"
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:36 AM
1

Slaves got raped, too. From a not-getting-ass-raped perspective, yeah, that's a good analogy. Anal-ogy. Anal. Butt rape. Get it?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:29 AM
2

Remember what women fear most of all: being cast out of the group. If divorce will significantly worsen her social standing, then she will do what it takes to avoid it. If you have a good SMV and remind her of it, that helps all the more.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:27 AM
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When you add RP to a BP marriage, 50% chance of divorce, according to Athol Kay (MMSL blog). But, hell, that's all marriages in the U.S. nowadays, so take your shot, nothing to lose.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:25 AM
1

Or interpreted that he just called her fat...
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:21 AM
1

You're going a little bit nuclear. (I am aware of the oxy-moronic nature of that phraseology, but I'm going with it.) Some men have zero tolerance for drama; you are one of them. Some men prefer to play it off; I am one of them. Women give you less drama and put in more effort to please you, but that makes them less comfortable in general and they will have a lot of stress. Breakups will be sudden, but readily revoked. Women give me more drama and do less to please me, but are less likely to pul…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:18 AM
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You entered her frame. Never enter her frame. Cocky-funny was the answer.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 04:13 AM
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Well, at least the ass-raping is metaphorical.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:39 AM
2

most women will support you even if they don't know you very well. Yes, women are naturally moved to compassion. But when they view a man as requiring nurturing, that works in opposition to their attraction. They cannot simultaneously feel compassion and lust... it's not in their constitution. This is not a flaw; it's a feature. We don't want them fucking children (whom they nurture), and the flip side of that is sympathizing with the man who tears up their vagina.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:38 AM
2

shrug [go about your business] She'll hate it, but she'll respect you for it. If you answer or argue, you've entered her frame. Never enter her frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:54 PM
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If my boyfriend or friend I was close too didn't tell me his brother died, I'd be sad he DIDN'T use me as emotional support. THIS is why we never ask deer how to hunt. My ex-wife, I articulated to her that I couldn't tell her things because she reacted negatively. (I know, BP mistake.) Then she says, no, no, you can tell me things. Then I tell her a trouble at work. Then she says, are you going to quit? Fuck no, I wasn't going to quit, but that's where her anxiety-riddled brain went INSTANTLY. I…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:51 PM
1

you get the eventual "Why didn't you tell me?" shrug [go about your business] It'll drive her crazy; she'll love it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:48 PM
0

Not only is it sexist, implying that they can't handle reality If it has nothing to do with them, why should they care? Plus, very few things are "sexist" -- that's a label too often used to shame legitimate criticisms and observations of sex/gender differences. When adjectives exercise a "chilling effect" on conversations, use different fucking adjectives... unless you only want to be sung to by the rest of the choir, of course.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:46 PM
1

Oh my fucking god. I guess it works for some people, that's fine, but seriously that is not the way to live a man's life, as half of a unit obsessed with itself.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:43 PM
1

How? Your emotions are not there to control you, they are there to power your discipline and drive. You are deep in the shit, dude, and RP can't fix you. Start with the No More Mr. Nice Guy book; it has changed a lot of lives. If you read it (and do the exercises), your life will be better. Men live by actions, not fucking feelings.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:42 PM
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That is not what a woman is for. She is an alien mind to yours, she will never understand you and you will never understand her. Why would you want to seek sympathy from a stranger (and women are essentially strangers to us, they are so foreign in thought and motivation)? You cannot rely on your woman to support your feelz -- that's your job for her. It doesn't matter whether you see it that way, she sees it that way, and that's the root of the problem. Is it appropriate when single moms burden …
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:39 PM
1

The OP's point is that you don't want anything negative associated with you. If they find out from another source, it's not associated with you, and then they can admire your stoicism. If they don't find out, fuck it, they didn't need to know.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:36 PM
1

It will be a lot worse if women find out about bad news and see that you didn't tell her Only if it's her business. If you blew the family budget in Vegas, then yes, tell her. If your buddy's buddy went missing in the National Forest and they haven't found him for three days, does she really really care?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:34 PM
1

I like where Guy 2's head is at, but better to do and not say.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:33 PM
1

You're better off just working extra And let her suspect you might be with another woman*... dread level increased. (*Does not apply for crazy jealous bitches, obviously.)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:32 PM
2

Negative feelings are still feelings and should be used as necessary. The best ones to use are negative feelings about her. She's the director of her own movie, and dramas need a bit of conflict, so you give her some conflict to chew over and "resolve", and then bam, back to whatever. If it's something that has nothing to do with her then it distracts from her internal "movie" and so what is the point?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:29 PM
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One more story about single moms...
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:28 PM
2

Good point. Better to hand someone else the turd, and when they put it on the table, offer the boss some toilet paper you just happened to have handy...
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:26 PM
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He's not getting any time on the inside, just a shit-ton of fines, probation and community service. That way the "justice" system can extract resources and not expend them on a clearly non-dangerous individual.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:21 PM
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Never, ever, under any circumstances, intentionally or unintentionally, violate any kind of restrictive order. If you did accidentally, call your lawyer IMMEDIATELY and ask for advice. (Tell him/her first, don't let them hear it from the prosecutor.) Leave the city/town if you can. Seriously, protection orders are Get-Into-Jail-Free cards. If you don't care about jail, fine, you won't care, but if you are focused on self-improvement and building a good life those things are like cyanide. Run-fuc…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:11 PM
2

Hence why part of effective plating is limiting your time with a female. The less time spent not having sex , the fewer chances you have to make a mistake that compromises your frame. Yes, this is the genius of it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 11:06 PM
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the same broad who pledged true love to you in the bedroom will be in the arms of another man before the screen dims on your smartphone If you start with a strong frame, and it weakens, they will sense the inconsistency and they will begin to consider other options. You still may be her best option, so she may stay, but things will change. It's not the weakness itself (lots of weak guys have women); it's the dissolution of your strong frame. If you are going to play weak later, then play weak ea…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:07 AM
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She was a "pixie" type. They cast their spells, you fuck for a while, then they move on. Not unusual. They make you fall in love, you can't help yourself. Like Beige Phillip says, though, "Everybody gets got." It's a privilege to tap a pixie, and you kept her a lot longer than most. Kudos. Lorazepam's brand name is "Ativan". Same drug class as Xanax. Red flag.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 12:04 AM
2

If the conversation is discussing penis size, and it is before she's had occasion to view my member, to me that is a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 07:23 PM
1

Grandparent rights, sure. But not custody.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 07:02 PM
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Not a judge in the world is going to take that child out of the home with the parent he grew up with, to give the child to the mother's boyfriend who knew he had paternity but didn't speak up until the mother was dead. Not a judge in the world. If there was a woman to give the child too, well, that's another tale...
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:59 PM
2

I hope that's a fake story.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 06:56 PM
1

The right way, and the wrong way. The right way: add value to others, society, yourself. Make the world a better place, because increased efficiency benefits all players. Turning trash (wasted time/resources/efforts) into gold (value/productivity). The wrong way: exploit others and take their money. No matter what your view of morality, you don't make the overall "pie" bigger by stealing other people's slices. It is a lot easier to lie your way to your first million than to work your way, but yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:53 AM
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Or as revenge. Fail shit tests... beta, weak, cheat on you. Fail comfort tests... asshole, doesn't love me, cheat on you. The only way to win is to not play the (married) game. She can't cheat if you're not monogamous.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:43 AM
1

The only physician I've met who I know to be clued into the manosphere is also an anesthesiologist. Interesting... (I suspect another to be as well, but she is a very interesting case in many ways. I admire her greatly.)
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:48 AM
1

If a girl has been with an alpha, but he had an off-night, or whiskey-dicked, or didn't think she was worth the effort and he didn't put any effort in, then she might not be widowed. It's possible to be anti-widowed: a woman can experience profound disappointment from a man she had built up a great deal. Just because she yielded to an alpha doesn't make her a widow. There is a high probability that an exceptional man around whom she has had time to construct a narrative could provide her with a …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:42 AM
3

The Sex God Method incorporates a large amount of psychology. It is a total methodology (that I have not studied in-depth).
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:37 AM
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In the last paragraph, he says that traditional mathematics cannot encompass the incorporation of the new, feminine math, and that future discoveries in "fuzzy logic", "Catastrophe theory" and "Chaos theory" will be required. It's amusing that he called feminists illogical, chaotic and catastrophic thinkers and they published it in their own journal. Brilliant.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 12:17 AM
2

These types of women are more difficult in some ways and easier in others. Being cerebral types they can be a bit inside their own heads, and they can also be quirky-for-the-sake-of-being-quirky. There are also a fair number of Travel-Widows. The positive aspect is that once they consider themselves to have invested in you (for some that means sleeping with you, others it takes more) then they tend to be more loyal to you. And by loyal, I mean that will put a lot of effort into deceiving you if …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 12:21 AM
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I disagree, and I've known many dozens of them. It's not pedestalizing to acknowledge differences in quality.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 12:07 AM
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The quality of women in medical school is much, much higher than in other fields of endeavor. There is a reason approximately 50% of doctors are married to other doctors, even with the number of options male doctors have. Even these female doctors grow bitter and sad, however, once they leave the "target-rich" environment of medical school. There are many unattached male doctors-to-be at medical school, but if she misses the proverbial boat and doesn't attach one of her male classmates to hersel…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:01 PM
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I agree. It has been my experience that average to below-average women occasionally get more attention than very attractive women because a larger percentage of men perceive them as obtainable.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 07:40 PM
1

Deception is the only viable strategem for her at this point.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 07:30 PM
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