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That’s assumes theses guys know anyone who can invite them to a party. Chances are they are loners who don’t know anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:25 PM
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Do this. Each of you has to go and talk to 5 girls. You tell the girls something t like this: “omg you are exactly my friend Bob’s type. I’m sure he’d love to meet you. Here is a picture of him. What do you think, blah blah. Actually, we are throwing a party at this bar, swing by and I will not produce you, but fret not, there will be other hot guys there, blah blah blah”.
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:47 PM
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Please don’t use such language. It’s fucking creepy.
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:45 PM
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I was asking OP
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:05 PM
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Ok dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 08:30 PM
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There is no game. Get out of this frame of reference that you need to be “gaming girls”. It’s stupid and needy. You are still putting them on a pedestal as if you attraction is some special process that you have to execute perfectly from start to finish. You can be attracted to a woman just by looking at her, smelling her, etc. But for a woman to be attracted to you you need to excite 153 steps perfectly???? What a load of BS. Instead of focusing on getting “game”, focus on being an attractive a…
/r/seduction17/06/24 08:03 PM
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Simply by putting her in the friendzone. When she can’t have you, she will want you way more than when you are available.
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:59 PM
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I’m not confusing anything. If your biological imperative is to procreate and you do not, for whatever reasons, the claim most posters make is that it leads to depression. I am therefore asking, what about people who choose not to procreate? Are they automatically depressed and worthless form a biological standpoint? If so, why are they many childless people who lead fulfilling lives? Same goes for people who have procreated successfully, but no longer can do it again. Is their life over? Now th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:47 PM
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I would say survival is our biological imperative. You’d need to survive first before you can procreate. Survival is the only true need.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:43 PM
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Sure. I’ve approached women on subway trains, cafes, bars. I met my wife in a bar. I guess our common interest was Irish pubs and drinking beer. Which is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:02 PM
1

Ya, because 99.99% if people don’t have the balls to walk up to an attractive stranger and strike up a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:01 PM
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So Germans only fuck people they’ve fucked before?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:52 PM
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Yeah sex has existed long before there were any hominids populating the earth who even had a semblance of a language to describe some nebulous concept like “marriage”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:11 PM
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The fact that you are so outraged and emotionally twisted over this is clear enough evidence that these type of posts/videos actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:10 PM
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Why are you so afraid to risk rejection?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:09 PM
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People approach each other solely based on their looks all the time. I haven’t found a way to read a woman’s mind and know what her interests are before hand. I also don’t quite like stalking them in order to find out this information, so I prefer to go talk to them and find out for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:08 PM
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That’s her job doofus.
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:33 AM
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Here is a tip: pretend that you are actually a gay man. Like super flamboyant and all that. Say stuff like “girl, you got ass! I betcha your boyfriend can’t get enough of it” OR “Jenny, you are such a slut….just like me, hehehe”. Listen up, this will help you fly “under the radar”. So one day one of them will invite you over for a Martini and some girl talk, heheh, that’s when you make your move. If she acts weird just say “I know I’m gay but I’ve always wanted to experiment with a girl and you …
/r/seduction17/06/24 10:33 AM
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If they are new dates, never Friday or Saturday night. You should really have a life and be out socializing on those nights and not setting up dates. Even if you are just sitting at home with nothing to do it’s best not to have dates on those nights because you will come across as no life loser. Which you probably are anyway
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:16 AM
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You are retarded.
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:15 AM
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Ngga coming here and doing fucking math. Get lost niqqa
/r/seduction17/06/24 03:12 AM
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To women the requirement for a FWB and a boyfriend is pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:17 PM
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Well look at that. You can’t bribe women with your earnings, house and ability to open a joint bank account. You might actually have to be an attractive, outgoing and fun guy who is also good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 08:46 PM
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How to talk women out of having sex with me 101.
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:19 PM
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That’s total bullshit. Everybody knows that women these days need to be constantly communicated with. You have to always be sending them memes and funny TikToks. You always be asking them “what you up to”, “how was your day” and so on. Only texting to set up dates is what boomers do. They are so old and dumb. They know nothing. The reality is you have to text a woman and get to know her over text for at least 3 weeks before you may possibly suggest getting together for a coffee, but only if she …
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:18 PM
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Even better, tell women to find you on Facebook or Insta. They will figure it out.
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:15 PM
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Do this. Look at yourself in the mirror every morning until you feel like fucking yourself. Once you feel like that all the time, I want you to change your story when you go out. NEVER go out to pick up girls or try to get them home. Go out to give women the OPPORTUNITY to meet you and impress you. Think of it the way hot women think of dating. Ask a hot woman what she brings to a date if she doesn’t offer to split the check and she will say “I spent 3 hours getting ready. I bring myself and my …
/r/seduction16/06/24 05:13 PM
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It would be a sad sad day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 05:06 PM
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I’ve done worse. I actually tried reading Rollo’s book and it’s nothing more than the woe is me cries of a super nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:15 PM
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Okay, so you don’t want to let go, you don’t want to kill yourself, you don’t want to make the necessary changes to get a girlfriend cause she may have fucked someone taller and better looking and you at some point in her life. So what is left here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:13 PM
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That was my point. If it’s hopeless, give women up and just be happy anyway. You are not getting one so why suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:02 PM
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Interesting definition of truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:43 PM
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Ok, so there is no hope. What’s the alternative? Get the rope?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:28 PM
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Oh my, it doesn’t sound like there are that many advantages. Wonder why it makes sense to hold on to negative feelings and thoughts then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:27 PM
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Well, you are right. There are a lot of benefits to feeling angry and upset and wronged. You feel morally superior, anger is intoxicating, you always have someone else to blame (that’s conveniently not yourself) and so on and so forth. But here is the real problem. If a man really wanted success with women, he’d have to do all the work. The world won’t change for him. Women won’t change for him. He’d be the only one who can and has to change. And that’s so fucking unfair. Why do men have to do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:11 PM
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lol you can’t be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:04 PM
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But whatabout but whatabout
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:04 PM
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Why don’t you move to Saudi Arabia. You won’t even have to look at female over there, they are dressed like this 🥷.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:00 PM
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Let’s see: When you are hopeless, you will never be disappointed because you won’t get your hopes up Your depression is an honest expression of your loneliness and yearning for love Your constant pain is a motivator to keep trying If you actually became happy without a partner/love, you would lose all motivation or need to find one and you’d probably stop caring altogether about women You are basically following what everyone else in society is telling you you should be doing: getting married an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:38 PM
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Aren’t men allowed to have close friends they can share feelings with? Ok, not kissing and having sex with, you can go and jerk off, but you can make close and deep friendships. Or is that beyond reach for men as well? In which case, it begs the question that the problem might actually be them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:24 PM
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Ok, so your fate is predetermined and there is absolutely nothing you can do to change your life? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:20 PM
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But you are going to be loveless so you as well give up and try to be happy without it. Why be both loveless and depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 02:30 AM
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I guess you haven’t accepted your total hopelessness then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:44 AM
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There are a lot of advantages to being depressed and unhappy. I could list a ton of those as related to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:22 AM
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I know many married men or men in ltrs who are miserable. Lost their freedom, lost their balls, their friends…etc. Many people who stay in a marriage out of sense of duty, fear or just out of spite of the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:20 AM
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Abortion clinics.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:11 AM
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I don’t know what you guys find all these sausage farm bars. I guess you only go to gay clubs. Here in NYC everywhere I go, the hot women outnumber the men. Of course, I go to classy places not some shitholes with ghetto ass people.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:11 AM
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What else do you need to give her? You already gave her the gift of your time and your presence? You gave her an opportunity to hang out with you and even get kissed by you? Isn’t this more than enough? And she’s STILL in the running now to be considered for being your casual sex partner. I mean giving her the dick is like the ultimate trophy she can win.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:09 AM
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I just literally saw a guy walking around with his date who was in a wheelchair. I think I’ve seen some documentaries about guys in wheelchairs who have girlfriends and everything. I think you just need to keep going for it.
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:03 AM
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I’ve never had success with chasing a woman for more than a couple of dates. If I’m not banging her on the the third date, it’s not happening and I DONT WANT it to happen. Even three dates is a hit long tbh
/r/seduction16/06/24 01:00 AM
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The only way to flirt with women is to more or less accuse them of hitting on you. The only compliment you should give a woman is about her good taste in men (you), and congratulations her on about how hard she’s working to win you over.
/r/seduction16/06/24 12:58 AM
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Can you provide some actually studies or evidence for this? But I think you are missing the point. For men who have given up and who know they will never find love, isn’t it better to find purpose and meaning in other things as opposed to making yourself miserable because you can’t get something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:50 AM
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Are you sure? Because I know plenty of pretty but really nice boys, who don’t do very well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:16 AM
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Have you heard of Chris Cornell? A literal rock star, wealthy, tall, good looking, beautiful loving wife and two daughters. Did you know he took his own life too?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:15 AM
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So other things can make you happy even if you lack a relationship? Sounds like you are contradicting your original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:14 AM
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Are they now? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:13 AM
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I don’t know what the point is. Plenty of people don’t procreate or continue to exist and lead purposeful lives after they have procreated and their children are adults. What about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 12:13 AM
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So if a relationship/sex is the only thing that guarantees happiness, why do miserable and depressed people exist who are very much loved and have a ton of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:12 PM
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Didn’t know that not having a companion is the same as being put in isolation! Nice straw man though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:11 PM
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That’s a bingo!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:10 PM
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Not sure what you are trying to say. Are you trying to say that meaning and purpose in life are more important than happiness and relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:09 PM
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Ok, so making absolutist claims that it’s our nature to be needy for love and sex is probably not exactly the right way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:08 PM
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Well, people do choose to withhold happiness from themselves for a number of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:08 PM
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I would say the exact same thing. If she’s accepted that she will never be pregnant, why doesn’t she choose to be happy either way. There are people who choose to be child free and they seem pretty happy to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:15 PM
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I have yet to see any empirical proof that finding a woman to love is our ultimate purpose in life and that if we don’t achieve it, we have somehow failed our cosmic duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:14 PM
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So, if men can’t be happy without a woman, how do you explain gay men? They are often repulsed by actual vagina. So how are these men capable of happiness without a female partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:38 PM
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But many of these have said they have resigned to a life of loneliness. They say they will never get a chick. So instead of being alone and wallowing in misery, why not be alone but happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 06:35 PM
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You do it by changing how you think about women and seduction. Instead of trying to get their attention and hoping they will give you a chance, change your thinking to: “I’m too hot for these chicks, but if they really convince me by pursuing me and talking me into having sex, I might give them a chance to suck my dick”. Instead of looking at a woman and saying “Damn, she’s exactly my type, she’s so hot, what can I say to impress her”, you will look at a woman and think “she’s alright, kind of c…
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:50 PM
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You should stalk and find out where she lives or goes to the gym for example. Then confront her about not replying to your DMs.
/r/seduction15/06/24 05:46 PM
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Posts like these make me laugh, because whenever a guy asks: “I got this girls number, but what should I text her between now and the date I’m two days, because you see, if she doesn’t hear from every hour on the hour between now and the date, she will certainly instantly forget I exist and will jump on the first Chad’s cock she comes across”. The reality is that the less and less frequently you communicate with people, the more they obsess about you and wonder what did they do wrong that you do…
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:12 PM
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Now that you can’t have, you want her. When you had her, you didn’t want her. Now that she can have you, she won’t want you.
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:10 PM
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The so called Dark Triad people have one thing going for them which is very attractive to women. And that’s the fact that they put themselves first. They are inherently selfish and only looking out for number one. Nice guys have had their selfishness bred out of them or at least conditioned out of them since they were kids. Be nice to every one, share your toys, don’t put on those clothes, everyone will notice you, wear shades of grey, brown and green instead so you can blend in with ever other …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:09 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:01 PM
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and I’m saying it’s entirely possible that reality is reality and his irrational beliefs about reality are making him feel like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:59 PM
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Nobody has figured that out yet. Be a true pioneer!!!
/r/seduction15/06/24 01:35 PM
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It’s funny to me that literally all men here are aggressively opposed to therapy. My favorite therapist, Dr David Burns, who popularized and developed Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, actually wrote a book in the 80s called “Intimate Connections”. Unfortunately, it’s one of his lesser known works. The book was born out of two things: his own experience with loneliness and being a total dud in the dating game and later his experience as a therapist, where at least 60% of his patients came to him bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:23 AM
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And you are making the assumption that the beliefs that are ruining your mental health are true instead of completely irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:08 AM
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There are a lot of benefits and advantages in seeing yourself as an underprivileged victim of biology and society. Let’s list some of them. You always have an excuse for why things don’t work out for you. Anger at others or at society can be very intoxicating. Even when claiming you are an underprivileged victim, you can claim a sense of moral superiority. Having an external enemy to blame for all your problems saves you from the hard work of accepting your own flaws or taking a hard look at wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:06 AM
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It never ceases to amaze just how poorly most men think of themselves and their gender. I have no idea who spread this insane idea, but it seems that every sexually unsuccessful man has accepted as a universal truth, kind of like the speed of light always being constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:59 AM
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It’s funny to me, because any privilege that women get as described by OP is literally only given to them by men. Oh, you can get dick on demand through Tinder? Well, who is giving that dick? Men. Of, you are treated better in public? Whois doing the better treatment? Men, because it sure ain’t other women who often are viscous to each other behind their backs. Oh, they are “born” with value? You mean a “vagina”, which is literally valued only by men. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:55 AM
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Well, you have to understand that women have two major fears in dating (okay, not counting fear of getting raped or killed). The first fear is the fear of rejection. Of course, no one likes being rejected but for women it’s even worse, because their entire lives they’ve been told their ONLY value in this world is their sex. Young, sexy, pretty women are super valued while older women nobody cares about. So when a woman offers her sex and gets turned down, you are not only rejecting her sex, you …
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:36 PM
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What’s the last time you got laid? Be honest?
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:29 PM
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Never ever do what women want to do, unless you are in a relationship or have been dating for a while. And definitely not when she just matches you on an app.
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:28 PM
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The reason they are saying all of this stuff is to impress you with how cool they are. It’s actually a good sign. It’s the same reason why women will talk about how much they fucked an ex boyfriend or that they took a blow job class (a date actually told me that) and other stuff. Men think women are crass when they say stuff like this, but the woman is thinking “I will casually mention my blow job skills so he lets me fuck him”.
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:27 PM
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What’s the purpose of having really strong convos for a week?
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:24 PM
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On the first date/get together explain to her your rules, that you are looking for something casual, but that you are totally game for being friends and respecting each other outside of the bedroom of course. But right now you are not emotionally available for anything serious or committed.
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:20 PM
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There is a difference between not making a move because you are in total control VS not making it because you are chicken shit. If you frame this as “this is a 30 min interview for her to prove to me that I should consider having sex with her”, then you don’t need to make a physical move. You can just say “it was great talking to you, I will be in touch”. Leave it at that. Then text her in a few days “let’s plan a get together. How’s this Thursday? You bring the wine, I will order take out. Here…
/r/seduction14/06/24 08:18 PM
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Part of being a man is being able to control yourself. If you want to be in control with women, you need to be much better at controlling yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:12 PM
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That’s why I let women do all the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:56 PM
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Reframe how you see women and dating. If now you see a girl and you think: “Wow, she’s soooo hot, I’d give my left ball to sleep with her” change it immediately to: “She’s kind of cute, I might give her a chance to impress me and convince me to sleep with her”. When going on dates if you are now thinking: “I hope I impress her enough and create enough attraction so that she wants to sleep with me” change that immediately to: “Ugh, another date with some chick I’m probably not going to want to fu…
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:41 PM
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Don’t ask for a phone call. Tell them you want to do a video call first. Let’s say you’ve exchanged a couple of messages on an app or whatever. Then you message: “super busy, but suppose we can jump on a video call” Or after she matches with you “noticed your interest, might be able to do a quick video call”. Basically use it as a screening method, a hoop they have to jump through to qualify for your time. You really need to be giving women a much harder time.
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:31 PM
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You have the wrong mindset. You should only date women if they work hard enough to convince you you should date them.
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:24 PM
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I mean you have her a chance? What more do you want?
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:23 PM
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Rejection is simply feedback. The biggest problem though is that men have been trained to go all in and try to earn women. Earn their attention, attraction, sex and love! So with this hidden assumption, they give off the vibe that women are more important than themselves and women treat them accordingly. If men acted a little bit like “okay, you are hot, I MIGHT make your day and talk to you to see if you even qualify for an interview to potentially be considered for a girlfriend”, they’d have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:58 AM
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That sounds….sad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 08:04 PM
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Well, it’s important that you have a good opinion of you. You’ve known yourself your entire life. She may have known you for all of 5 seconds or however long it took her to see you coming up to her or scrolling through your profile. So you are saying the opinion of you of someone who has known your for 5 seconds has more weight than your opinion of you, someone who has known you your entire life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 05:51 PM
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I tell men to never forget rules number one and two. Rule number one: who cares what women are thinking or saying. It literally doesn’t matter to me. You can have whatever requirements you want. I can either fuck you or not. If not, I will go somewhere else. Rule number two: you are the most important person in the relationship. Your needs and wants are number one. She can take care of her own needs and wants. I need to focus on mine. I don’t care if she says she wants a tall man with an 8 inch …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:45 PM
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It may be easier but extremely ineffective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:42 PM
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Anything you do to impress another person is you saying “YOUR opinion of ME is more IMPORTANT than MY opinion of ME.” And there ain’t anything more diminishing to a person’s status than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:41 PM
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I don’t mean to come across as one of THOSE guys, but a first step is to actually focus on having a life that you actually enjoy with or without women. If you are bored, lonely, directionless, a lot of times you think having a girl will fix all of this. So guys go out wanting to get something from women (treating them life trophies) hoping it will fix their shitty life. To women that comes across with a very needy energy. It’s kind of like the homeless guy who approaches you and says “nice shirt…
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:44 PM
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Have an open relationship where yo both fuck others but are each others primaries.
/r/seduction13/06/24 11:00 AM
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It’s been two days. I’ve been wondering when someone would reference the 15 year old unscientific Ok Cupid “study”, that apparently disproves the theory of relativity and everything we know about life, the universe and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:51 AM
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Well, a few pointers. Make sure you are always dressed to kill. Even if you are a UPS delivery man, make sure your uniform and grooming are impeccable. If you walk a lot in your day to day, you are probably always going somewhere with a purpose. That’s great! Make sure you always walk with a purpose as opposed to being some guy who hangs out at the corner trying desperately to pick up women. Start practicing simply smiling and saying hello. If you feel too uncomfortable doing it with attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:43 AM
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I’ve been through the same thing. Flakes happen because he is coming across as too needy and pushy. Simple as that. Once I fixed that issue, everything else fell into place.
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:35 AM
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The right amount of caring is always ZERO.
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:43 AM
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Women are flaking because you are being a needy try hard. They know you are trying to get them and they get off on manipulating you toying with you. Stop TRYING TO GET women. Let them get you. Let them impress you. Let them be worried you will flake on them.
/r/seduction13/06/24 01:29 AM
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You are trying too hard. You need to relax and let things happen naturally. You are so needy that she gets turned off because you want something from her (sex). Just chill and lead the interaction. Tell her you are very attracted to her and kiss her. If she pulls away or doesn’t want to come to your place, tell her “Ah, too bad that you will have to be sleeping alone tonight, ok, bye”. And just go.
/r/seduction13/06/24 12:10 AM
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You have to let go of this incredibly needy attachment to attracting every single woman you come across.
/r/seduction13/06/24 12:08 AM
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I mean of course one should take the other person’s needs into consideration, but you have to put yourself first. You are responsible for your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:49 PM
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I’m not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:48 PM
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These are good, but it’s infinitely more important to include how she treats you. Is she good to you. Does she take care of you? Does she suck your dick? Cook, etc. Make sure you include those things on the list. Does she play games, etc. Once you have that lists you have to become brutally relentless about screening women. You have to be out there meeting them every day. Just having a profile on an app is not enough. Where will you meet these women? Where do women like this hang out? If you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:15 PM
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It’s not a democracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:04 PM
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At least my grandpa rode a motorcycle and was “cool”. In his village of 100 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:03 PM
1

You’ve nailed down the exact reason men struggle with women to begin with. They are trying to obtain them. Like an object or a trophy. Not looking to connect with them like human beings. They out these girls on a pedestal and then wonder why women are looking down on them. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:49 PM
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Sexual attraction is an easy to understand concept. Both men and women want the exact same thing - someone who is good for making kids. That’s it. Even if you consciously do not want children, the purpose of sexual attraction is to procreate and that’s what we select for. When it comes to the female of the species, it is pretty straightforward. Because the female bears the child in her body, her body is what men look at to determine if she’s good for making kids. Her youth, hip to waist ratio, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:29 PM
1

Makes a lot of sense. I think you are on the right track here.
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:18 PM
1

I read your other posts. So let me get this right. You have no friends, no hobbies, no interests besides working remotely online by yourself. You frequent a bar where everyone knows you as a loner. I think you are looking at women to solve a problem for you. You are looking to them to make you happy and sociable and accepted. This will never happen because the is type of neediness is a huge turn off. Think of it as two sides of the same coin. On one side is what having women/sex/relationships me…
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:04 PM
1

Ok. So not a dating app. She said she is just looking to drum up business. So why do you want her? If she’s not looking to fuck, what use is she of to you?
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:56 PM
1

I mean, you met her on a dating app and went on dates. And you are sitting here wondering if she just wants to be friends?
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:32 PM
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I don’t think dating is right for you at this moment in your life. You seem to be a bit of a mess.
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:05 PM
0

You are just like every other creepy nice guy who joins groups to try and get a date and when you get rejected you get all butt hurt.
/r/seduction12/06/24 10:45 AM
5

You met on an app and have gone out and dates and she’s giving you signs of attraction? wtf is this retarded sub turned to?
/r/seduction12/06/24 10:43 AM
10

But you are not a woman and that is enough to render your opinion on his attractiveness moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:30 AM
3

Put yourself,’your needs and wants front and center. Decide what it is you want and go for it. But you need to have extremely good brakes. If you get a whiff even for a second that a woman is not exactly what you want, you step on the brakes and turn around and sayonara.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:28 AM
6

The actor died in real life. Jesus fuck you guys are insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:34 AM
1

Just fucking relax and stop trying to make things happen and plan everything.
/r/seduction12/06/24 04:27 AM
-4

If a woman’s hobby isn’t sucking dick better, I don’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:15 AM
3

Whatever floats your boat. I always went for what I wanted. Didn’t always get it but I got it many times. I have enough friends who were afraid to even look at a strange woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:15 AM
1

I think today it’s easier than ever. Women are actually starved for men who respect themselves, have some romantic streak in them and know how to take charge. Their infinite choices are a bunch of wimpy PPD men, who can’t pull their heads out of their asses and need to ask mommy for permission for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:14 AM
1

You dummies need to stop looking at this as doing it to attract women. Do it because you like and respect yourself and want to treat yourself like a king. Women have evolved to follow a man’s lead. If you show up with the vibe, outfit, grooming, lifestyle and behavior of an average, dull man who thinks he is full of shit and unworthy of a woman, guess what? Women will conclude you are average, dull, full of shit and unworthy of them. Simply follow your lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:12 AM
1

Don’t want me to fuck those girls for you as well?
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:49 AM
0

Nice story bro.
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:01 AM
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It’s funny because personality and aura can come across even without words. There are times when I feel needy and unconfident and might as well be invisible to women. And when I am in my zone, confident and focused on my wants, women are constantly eye raping me. All without saying a single word to them. Just being in the vicinity. Personality is complex. Many men mistake personality for being pleasant and non-offensive. But it really comes down to how you feel about yourself and vibe you give o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:59 AM
12

Just like you hear about psychopath men in the news who abuse and kill women, there are also psychopath women. They are probably less violent but it doesn’t mean they don’t see others as dumb victims begging to be taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:52 AM
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Ask her if she wants to be a real friend of yours, if she will introduce you to any of her single girlfriends for you to fuck? Tell her that if you knew a bunch of single girls, you’d set up all your best friends. Tell her this is what friendship with you entails. See how she responds. Then dump her ass and go fuck someone else.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:50 AM
1

This sub is for us married assholes like the make up and weight loss and Botox subs are for women of certain age. We want to keep our edge.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:48 AM
1

I want a serious relationship but I will take no strings attached sex. I will also settle for a one night stand. Also if she wants to be friends and just hang out without sex Im ok with that too. Yeah, buddy! You are super clear about what you want. 🙄😒🙄
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:46 AM
2

Make a video of yourself pissing in a cup then drinking it. Share it with us. You will make lots of friends here.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:43 AM
-4

Have you tried getting a life?
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:43 AM
-2

It’s a woman’s job to chase the man.
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:43 AM
0

You see violating rules 1 and 2. David Xs rule #1: who cares what she’s thinking? You are trying to figure out what’s going on in her head. You are not a woman. You are not her. You have no idea. All you are doing is spinning your wheels and coming up with insane assumptions. Rule #2 of David X: you are number one in the relationship. Your wants and desires are number one, front and center.’who cares what you think she wants. What do you? Do you want to fuck her? Then go fuck her or fail fucking…
/r/seduction12/06/24 01:42 AM
1

Going where the women are
/r/seduction12/06/24 12:44 AM
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I work in sales. You need to be confident in the product or serve you sell. If someone showed up at my door to sell me a product or service and used the words men on PPD use to describe themselves to describe their product such as: “Average, boring, autistic, inexperienced, etc.” I would kick them the fuck out. Why should I invest in a product that’s is average and boring and unproven? If you are not selling yourself confidently, don’t fucking talk to women. They will eat you alive. If you show …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:43 PM
1

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-and-cleavage/id1545792830?i=1000657215189
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:53 PM
7

Why would you want someone who firndzoned you? Do you like getting kicked in the balls?
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:53 PM
1

Start by getting your ass off of your couch.
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:51 PM
2

What? They knew what they wanted and they went after it. Why were you trying to change them? If you were liking for a relationship then look for women who want a relationship, not the once who stated they want to fuck around. Leave those women to us. 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:50 PM
1

These men know what they want, they don’t take shit and they do whatever they want. That makes them exponentially more sexually arousing than nice guys, who are overly concerned with pleasing women, who let themselves be walked all over and who only do things because they think women will approve of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:48 PM
2

No they are not. They just want men they can follow. The problem is 99% of nice guys and PPD guys expect the woman to take the lead. You guys shit your pants at the thought of even talking to a strange woman. You want women to approach you, meaning you want them to lead you. As I said. Figure out what you want and go for it. Do whatever the fuck yoy want not what you think women want and women will follow you. That’s why those assholes and dark triad men get laid. What they want is front and cen…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:14 PM
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I find it hilarious that men think women are picky. Women would fuck literal scumbags and losers. Female pickiness is a myth. The one thing that differentiates those scumbags from the nice guys is that they are selfish and go after what they want, while nice guys try too hard to please women and go with their program.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:21 PM
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Focus on what you want. Just do what you want and have little concern about what she’s thinking. She will follow or not.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:07 PM
1

❤️
/r/seduction11/06/24 11:15 AM
1

If you do any of these things hoping they will impress women, you will always fail at impressing them, because trying to impress others is making their opinion of you more important than your own opinion of you. And I can’t think of anything that’s more diminishing and pathetic than that. I go to the gym, read, make money, travel, eat the best food, groom and dress to kill because I like treating myself as a KING. Not because it will impress some above average thot. Surprisingly the less I care …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:39 AM
3

I think that 99% of you guys are just severely depressed and extremely socially anxious. There have been treatments for these afflictions for many years, ever since psychology existed. I recommend cognitive behavioral therapy for starters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:36 AM
8

You know that MILF refers to the general age of the woman not that she actually has kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:33 AM
4

She was definitely NOT flirting with you. I’m pretty sure she was an undercover FBI agent trying to catch creepy predators and you will have a SWAT team breaking down your door any minute now.
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:21 AM
1

You are trying way too hard. If you want to spam approach you must do it with a purpose and a lesson in mind. For example, if you are too shy or socially anxious, then talking to strangers will help you get over it. The problem is you are going in with all of these expectations that you have to succeed and have a great conversation and that the pick up line you read about online has to work or else….or else you are just a wretched loser who can’t get a girl. These over expectations will fuck you…
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:20 AM
9

You pickup bros are so fucking cringe and creepy. For real.
/r/seduction11/06/24 10:14 AM
1

Get a harem of 2-3 girls and have one spot where you audition new girls. See them once a week, but have some free time for your own sanity. Once you have a few you are dating, you will become e extremely selective with whom you approach. The days of approaching hundreds of women a week would be a distant memory.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:26 AM
25

I asked a chick I just started chatting up at a bar “so what do you do besides picking guys up at bars”.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:25 AM
1

Bro, it’s all downhill after 29. Get the rope bro.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:21 AM
2

In the beginning not really. Maybe here and there but let them initiate. I always love it when guys think “I haven’t texted her in 2 hours, she will totally forget I exist”. Niqqa, if you are THAT forgettable, then you have much bigger problems.
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:21 AM
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Everyone this happens to me it comes down to neediness and focusing too much on what women want. It’s an inherently very submissive frame. You are craving attention and attraction and your brain is telling you the easiest way to get it is to please them. To finagle yourself so you become what you THINK women want you to be. It’s hard to explain, but it is caused by focusing on what you think they want instead of what you want. Try to focus on your needs and wants. Make yourself front and center.…
/r/seduction11/06/24 12:16 AM
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Here are my tips: Random approaching is okay ONLY if you do it with a specific goal in mind. For example if you be never spoken to stranger woman and have trouble even holding eye contact, begin by making eye contact as you walk around. Once you do it 10-15 times and feel comfortable, start making eye contact and smiling and saying hello in passing. Now, this may sound a little backward but bear with me. It’s part of your exposure therapy. Once you’ve done the smile and hello practice, I want yo…
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:40 PM
1

Well, since a whore has never been treated particularly well or nice by men, but when you treat her like a queen, she will walk barefoot through hell and back for you.
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:27 PM
1

I do it because I enjoy it and because I want to. I can give 1,000 examples of things you use every day that are not a basic human need yet you do them or have them because you enjoy it. I’ve never heard of anyone else referring to eating at a restaurant or going to the movies as a basic human need without which they would die. Yet, tens of millions of people enjoy doing those things every single day. They are just not that emotionally attached to the idea and don’t consider it a basic human nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:32 PM
1

You need to define how you understand desperation. I have never met anyone who needed love and relationships and was successful getting one without being a nightmare. I was the needy guy who was very motivated to get laid and get a gf and I did. But it was tremendous effort and the women I got weren’t quality at all. So yes, it probably works marginally better than staying at home and jerking off and never talking to females, but it is not the most effective method at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:46 PM
3

No woman will ever admit that she is involuntarily celibate or that she has no guys interested in her. But the larger question is, why did you ask her out for dinner and you didn’t even know that she’s available? Did you use a false pretense?
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:45 PM
0

You should always do what women tell you. Be a good boy.
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:44 AM
3

Pilates
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:42 AM
2

Treat a queen like a whore and a whore like a queen.
/r/seduction10/06/24 10:39 AM
3

The brattiest most entitled women are the most submissive in bed. It’s all an act, a veneer that is presented to to the outside world. As they say: treat a queen like a whore and whore like a queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:38 AM
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Moms totally want to sexualise their sons. The same way dads take their daughters to buy mini skirts, high heels and crop tops and to get their bellies and nipples pierced.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:37 AM
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You got them this time! Men 1: Women 0 Good job lad!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:26 AM
0

Your logical mistake is that your post assumes a 100 men to 1 woman ratio or something. Or that some frumpy chubby plain Jane can get 100 Chads in her DMs. You guys are chronically retarded. And wtf do you know about pre special media. You are 23 and still got yellow behind your ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:25 AM
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Is it? Men here are constantly accusing women of being sluts and skanks and whores because…..get this, they exercised their own free will and went to bed with a guy just because he’s cute or tall, or has a bear they like, or because they were bored or horny or whatever. They are hypergamous sluts in the eyes of many man. If anyone told you that you are a creep (the male equivalent of “slut”), because you decided to take home a girl because you found her attractive, funny, cute, or your were horn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:27 PM
9

Pay the bill, get up and walk out.
/r/seduction09/06/24 06:51 PM
0

I gotta tell you something. I’ve never seen a black guy with a white woman. 👨🏿🙅‍♂️👩
/r/seduction09/06/24 06:50 PM
2

How do you think that many of us earned our red wings?
/r/seduction09/06/24 06:47 PM
2

This makes sense. But there are a lot of things people do that make zero sense. Trying to impress a woman with a fancy dinner makes no sense because she may “like” you just for the lifestyle you are able to provide her. So why do it? Yet men do this all the fucking time. Women push for commitment and in many cases they get it….from desperate suckers. I wouldn’t put money down on the first house that I saw if I was in the market for buying a home. But that’s just me. Interestingly, when I offered…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:54 PM
2

They see incentivizing them. By putting off sex to show you they are not a slut. Otherwise you’d think they are a slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:50 PM
7

You get it totally wrong. It’s the guys who don’t present themselves as boyfriend/husband material who get the easy and fast sex, because women are not worried about securing commitment form them. They are there just for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 02:56 PM
3

There is always ropemaxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:38 PM
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Because women are terrified of being taken advantage of. For example, if they decide to have sex with a guy fast and he doesn’t follow up on the next day with them because he concluded “damn. She gave it up so fast to me, it means she is probably giving it to ANY guy so she’s a slut and is only good for one thing. I won’t call her again”. Because of that fear of giving something of value to receive nothing back, the woman pushes so hard for commitment to get some guarantee that she won’t be take…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:37 PM
1

Because women have been socialized that their only value in life is measured by the social status of the man they can get to commit to taking care of them. A woman who can’t even secure a man to take care of her security, is seen as the ultimate loser. The same way that men measure their self worth by their ability to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:31 PM
1

Love is not an adult human need. The second you stop telling yourself that it is, you will be free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:59 PM
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I think most men have such a black and white view on this. It’s either being a creepy stalker bothering every woman in your vicinity or staying home all the time and never having social contact with other humans. Nothing in between. For me “cold approaching” has always been about those situations when you are out and about and you see a really attractive person. The type of person everyone would say about “wow, look at her, damn, I wish I had a shot at that” and actually walking over and introdu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:03 PM
9

Even if you use a dating app you have to eventually see them in person. Why is approaching in real life better? Because you are forced to get over your fears and once you, you realize just how powerful you can be instead of constantly tweaking your profile looking like a puppy that wants to get adopted hoping some mid chick picks you. You are a man. Go out there and hunt for what you want. Stop being a pussy hoping you get picked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:15 PM
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There are a lot of logical flaws and erroneous assumptions in your analogy. First. Hunger is a basic physiological need. Sex and relationships are not. Try going without sex for three days and see if you die? Right away your premise crumbles apart because you assume that the man needs a woman more than the other way around. Or that he needs her in the first place. Here is your other erroneous analogy. You assume the bakery has something of value to offer (baked goods), while the starving person …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:07 PM
0

So you are saying it’s the women who initiated and chased the man. They preplanned it all? So the man is the selector and has all the power because women are pursing him? Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:58 AM
2

You don’t have to pick women who don’t have the traits you want in them. Simple as that. I also want a woman who will be perpetually 19.5 yo, have the body of a porn star, has anal sex whenever I want it without having to prep, because she’s always clean, makes me a sandwich and so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:53 AM
2

It’s just another way of saying “Whaaa, whaaa, I’m the worlds biggest victim, pitty me, whaaa, whaaa”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:49 AM
2

Don’t let anyone disrespect you. It’s as easy as that.
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:47 AM
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I don’t think anyone in Poland has ever had sex with a stranger so you are fucked and not the good kind.
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:46 AM
2

I truly think the young generations are fucking retarded. He met her on Tinder, yet proceeded to chat on Instagram for two weeks not asking her out once. I just can’t figure out if he was born retarded or was dropped on his head as a kid?
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:44 AM
6

Here are a few examples: make out with her in your car at a stop light and keep doing it even when the light turns green and others start honking at you. At a bar or lounge, your your feet on the table, spread out. Ask her to go to the bathroom and take her panties off and bring them back to you. Make out out and touch her in the back of an Uber. Lean over and whisper in her ear in a public space with lots of people around that you can’t wait to take her back to your place and maker her your lit…
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:11 AM
8

You tell women you are not looking for anything serious but will love to have a casual relationship where you both take care of each others needs without any judgment. Offer them non judgmental acceptance and they will throw their panties at you faster than you can say your name.
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:06 AM
4

Steroids and a tailored suit. Haircut and a nice fragrance.
/r/seduction08/06/24 03:05 AM
3

Second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:22 AM
1

Women will ALWAYS want what they CAN’T get. The only reason they settle for nice guys in their later years is because their looks declined and because the bad boys are banging women half their age and have no intention on settling. I’ve seen some truly beautiful and successful women act completely pathetic with their commitment phobic on again off again boyfriends, who treated them like trash. But since that guy was difficult to obtain and land, she wanted him more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:22 AM
1

And do you think that wifey material “good” girls have the 3-4 digit n-counts or is it the porn stars and club skanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:20 AM
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That’s what needy men believe. Because they equate sex/love/intimacy with a basic human need, they believe that women are depriving them of their basic need fulfillment. Hence they feel angry, bitter, resentful and inferior (because they can’t seem to be able to fulfill what they believe is a basic human need). All of this is easily solved by getting over the silly idea that we need love and relationships to be fulfilled and happy. Only you can make yourself happy and only you can make yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:19 AM
4

These traits benefit society BUT not the individual. Society benefits from a bunch of neutered men. The men don’t benefit from it individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:17 AM
2

So next time you see her and chat, introduce the idea of “us” in the conversation. For example, “so what does a fellow superhero like you enjoy outside of class”. Her: “oh, yeah, Ik kind of a homebody, I like reading and cooking”. You “what’s you favorite cuisine?” Her “probably Italian”. You “well, we are gonna have to cook some pasta together one of these days”. Her “yummy, are you a good cook?” You: “ that’s for me to know and for you to find out. But let’s grab a drink first and get to know …
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:07 AM
1

Just text her “hey it’s Hans from the bus stop. Let’s go out next Thursday.”
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:02 AM
1

Google Brent Smith Bulletproof banter
/r/seduction08/06/24 12:00 AM
7

Go in when there is a lull in how busy the place is, go order your coffee and say something about what happened to you today “I’m so done with work. I think I will just retire early and open up a bar on a tropical beach somewhere. How about you?” See what she replies. But probably she will be like “yeah, I know what you mean, work is killing me”. “Well, let’s runaway to a tropical island together then.” If she reacts well go and say “well, I should probably get to know you a little bit before co…
/r/seduction07/06/24 08:23 PM
1

I get it. It’s your personal preference and seems super important to you. My suggestion? Find out where girls who are into that kind of music hang out. Concerts, music venues, classical music appreciation groups, college classes, etc.
/r/seduction07/06/24 05:51 PM
1

You have to decide how important it is to you and how much of a deal breaker it is. I’m not saying be delusional, but do have standard and know what you want. Even if you are super horny and would bang a beached whale.
/r/seduction07/06/24 05:20 PM
1

Dude you just started approaching 10 days ago. You are talking out of your gaping ass and all I’m hearing is fart noises.
/r/seduction07/06/24 05:03 PM
1

It’s about noticing something interesting or attractive about her and going over to investigate further. Why would you take someone’s number who you know absolutely nothing about other than that she has a cute face or a nice rack? Not only is it stupid, but women will think you are a creep because you are obviously only wanting to get sex and you treating her and the phone number like some trophy devoid of humanity.
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:40 PM
3

Step 1: Decide what you want and be very specific. A. ONS B. FWB C. GIRLFRIEND D. MULTIPLE GIRLFRIENDS Step 2: Based on your answer from step one, decide what type of girl you want. Your choice in step 1 will inform your choices in step 2. For example, if you want fast sex, you won’t go look for smart girls who hang out at the library. And if you want a smart girlfriend, who doesn’t party and do drugs, you won’t go to find her at the club. Get it? Step 3. Once you decided what kind of relationsh…
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:37 PM
1

Doing mass approaches is only okay if you have a specific self development goal in mind. Getting over shyness and anxiety, starting a conversation. But beyond that, they are ineffective. I can show you a way where you don’t need to approach more than 2-3 girls a week and you will have better results than if you approached a 100.
/r/seduction07/06/24 03:18 PM
2

Talk about dating, relationships and sex. Thats something all men and women have in common regardless of where in the world you are.
/r/seduction07/06/24 02:11 PM
1

Understand that cold approaching is just about the neediest and weirdest thing you can do. And that any guy who has to resort to it is probably desperate and has zero bitches interested in him. Now put 2 and 2 together and try to figure out why your “success” rates are so abysmal. And why, if cold approaching worked so well, most men report that they have to approach hundreds of women to get laid once with a chubby chick they don’t want to see again.
/r/seduction07/06/24 02:08 PM
2

Completely fine. Have things to do and not worry about a single date. What’s the rush? Practice not making contact for that week. It will build your confidence.
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:59 AM
1

It’s cause his mom told him he’s the handsomest guy in school.
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:57 AM
1

Just about every loser who comes on this sub thinks that this is what approaching women looks like.
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:55 AM
1

A lot of nice guys work under the mistaken premise that being an always losing nice guy is who they truly are. But that personality/identity is just a construct of your own experiences, erroneous beliefs, phobias, anxieties and insecurities. It’s not real or authentic. Men are scared of “just being themselves” because they have never actually been themselves authentically with women. Being shy, anxious, lacking confidence and belief in yourself is just as fake as trying to pound your chest and s…
/r/seduction07/06/24 10:54 AM
1

You are doing something wrong on the approach and asking them out. The only right thing you are doing is that once they don’t respond, you never text them again and basically ignore them and act non chalant. Here is the deal. This applies both men and women but to women 10x: Women NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY what they CAN’T get. So I see two potential problems that would violate the above rule. You either came on too strong and needy, being o early eager or interested and that told the…
/r/seduction06/06/24 08:57 PM
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Actually the lack of high standards is one of the reasons women are not attracted to the majority of men. Let me explain. A man who has low standards communicates a few things (none of them attractive): he does not value himself/he deems himself unworthy of having the type of woman he wants, so he will settle for scraps having low standards means that he will be run to any woman who even glances at him. So a woman would #1 not feel special that he wants to be with her and #2 always be worried th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:16 PM
0

Well you lost me at having to “lie”.
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:37 PM
1

I was with you until the very last sentence in your post, which tells me you are already attached to an outcome you want and you have lost one way or another. You have to get out of that mindset that you are the lucky one to go out with her, that you have to entertain her, that you have to get her interested. The only way to truly master the game of dating is to have very crystal clear criteria and standards for what type of women you will let into your life. Chasing after some chick with the pe…
/r/seduction06/06/24 05:58 PM
3

There are a lot of things going on here. So I will need to break it down. On one hand, you have this very typical male trait of “I HAVE to be able to seduce every single woman I encounter”. It is driven by ego and by neediness. Telling yourself you need every single woman to admire you in order to feel good about yourself or that you need to be able to seduce every single woman so you can be happy. That is inherently very needy and will not only prevent you from having good results, but it will …
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:01 PM
1

Okay, I wish I had finished reading your post beyond the first few words before running out and shouting after a woman on the street “those tits are mine now”. Dammit. Anybody know a good lawyer?
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:48 PM
1

It’s so funny to me that you consider women the prize to chase after, considering that in 99.9999899999988% of human history man has obviously been the prize. Biologically speaking, man’s need for a woman comes down to a fertile vagina who can have his children and continue his DNA. But a woman’s need for a man goes way beyond a sperm donor. She needs someone who will stick around, who is willing to protect her and the young child, who has the balls to intimidate competing males, or chase away w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:39 PM
3

Another thing men forget is that just like men women want variety. That virgin who you married in 1-2-3-10 years might start wondering what another man’s dick tastes like. And because she never got to sow her wild oats, she would be more likely to cheat. But at the end of the day, the desire for a virgin woman is just another form of pedestalizing certain women and worshipping them. Same with those dumb passport bros pedestalizing a bunch of scrawny Thai chicks as being better than other women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:27 PM
1

Anything is better than KC. Except St Louis, Wichita, Indianapolis, Des Moine, anywhere in Illinois south of Chicago…
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:07 AM
0

No they don’t. They like well dressed men…who are also buff.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:01 AM
1

I’d give my number in a more targeted way rich environment like a bar or a lounge.
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:13 AM
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Ah yeah, the mysterious guy (not the shy guy). I once picked up this girl at a bar and then called her to arrange a date. It was almost a week between the call and the date. I didn’t text her once. When she showed up she literally said “you haven’t reached out to me, you are so mysterious”.
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:53 AM
4

I put in minimal effort with women. I don’t try to keep the conversation going. That’s being more invested in the interaction than she is. The easiest plays have been when they talk more than I talk. But that being said I do talk about myself a lot too. I want them to know what they are getting.
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:52 AM
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Here are my rules: Never go out for the purpose of picking up girls. It’s creepy and it will absolutely get noticed. Heck, I used to see guys in the park all the time hanging around, smoking a cigarette and jumping on the first single girl they would see sitting on a park bench by herself. I’ve seen guys jump across the street to accost some young lady. Etc. it’s a very needy behavior and will end up in rejection most of the time. Women see you from a mile away and they will think you are a weir…
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:48 AM
2

Bring your own condoms. Set the rules early on. What do you want this relationship to be like? Casual sex partners? A one off thing? Or are you looking to have a harem of men? Decide what you want.
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:31 PM
1

Why would I lie to get a ONS? You are better off being honest. “I’m not boyfriend material, I won’t stick around, not interested in emotional commitment BUT if you want to have a night you won’t forget and you will giggle with your girlfriends about, I’m your guy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:43 PM
3

Guys just want shortcuts. Go out there and hunt for what you want. If you can’t do that, you genetic lineage dies off with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:42 PM
1

People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN’T get. A guy who is still carrying a torch for his ex and is not so into her is someone she can’t quite get or land. He’s unavailable. The second she lands him, she starts trying to change him from a lion to a puppy. It’s basic female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 04:41 PM
2

Nice, what dose? I bumped up to 120mg/wk, but man I’m still stuck at 193 lbs. Can’t fucking eat this much 😭
/r/seduction05/06/24 02:04 PM
4

Start by getting a full blood test at your doctor. Ask for testosterone levels in particular. Get the actual blood results from them and don’t let your doctor just tell you your levels are fine. Why? As with all blood work there is usually a “normal” or acceptable range of bio markers. With testosterone, the labs have a range from let’s say 250-1000. What they don’t tell you is that 255, while in the normal range is actually what’s normal for a 85 year old man not for a 48 year old. Typically, t…
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:47 PM
1

With OLD texting, I’d try to connect a bit more before going for the kill. Try sharing something personal about you at this moment and then ask her “how about you”. Try something like: “Just came back from work, can’t believe I got another 30 years of this shit left lol.“ Her “omg, I know, it’s so exhausting”. You “well, that’s what I’m on the apps for - looking for a sugar mommy. How about you?” Her “lol, I thought you were gonna be my sugar daddy. Damn. No, I’m here looking for love and who kn…
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:43 PM
7

What’s your stack bro?
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:27 PM
0

There is always steroids.
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:27 PM
-4

Remember your job is to entertain her and impress her. You have to work really hard to prove yourself.
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:23 PM
0

Show up to the date and bring a strap on and a gag ball. Hand them to her sheepishly and refer to her as “mommy” or “mistress”.
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:20 PM
6

When you overcome your fear of loss, women will do a compete 180 with you. Instead of acting hard to get and difficult, they would be the ones trying to convince you to go to bed with them. It’s an attitude you have to cultivate. It doesn’t happen instantly. Practice by starting short, banter interactions with women but always have a cut off point. Something like at a bar “hey how’s your Friday going”, her: “all good, just getting drinks with the girls”, you: “good, are you staying out of troubl…
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:19 PM
4

It’s always possible that he may not be fully maxing out his appearance, but it wouldn’t matter anyway as long as he is needy and desperate.
/r/seduction05/06/24 10:32 AM
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Well, it’s kind of a mind fuck, because when it comes to women everything is very counter intuitive. I will start off with a couple of assumptions. First assumption is: women are always looking for high quality sperm. What does that mean? They want the guy that other women want. Just like luxury goods, everyone wants the products that many others want, that are in demand. Same with men. Men who seem to be in demand are more wanted them because that signifies they have quality sperm. Second assum…
/r/seduction05/06/24 02:01 AM
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You have achieved nothing because you are too desperate and needy. I keep telling guys - I did the whole approaching hundreds and probably thousands of women with little to no results. It doesn’t work because deep down something is terribly wrong with you and how you view yourself and women. The way women react to you is just a symptom of what’s wrong. Now I can pin point your exact problem. The thing is, you are not going to like the solution. Not one bit. You are going to balk at it and will c…
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:12 AM
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If you can’t be honest with a woman you are a pussy and don’t belong here.
/r/seduction05/06/24 12:05 AM
1

Here is a tip. The less you care about whether you get laid or not, the more you will get laid. The more you worry about getting laid and how to make it happen, the less it will happen.
/r/seduction04/06/24 08:35 PM
0

Take your dick out of your own mouth or ass or whenever you have it stuck right now.
/r/seduction04/06/24 08:34 PM
1

Funny thing about women! They keep making them! They are so fucking abundant that every second person on earth has a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:31 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:28 PM
1

I don’t know why you made it about being sex deprived. The reason women say this stuff is to impress you and show you how good in bed they think they are. It’s a way of bragging to entice you to choose them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:03 PM
0

Awww, hit too close to the sore spot, didn’t we?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:12 PM
1

Women have a vested interest in setting a cartel price on their sex. The price is always some form of security. Whether it’s a guy agreeing to buy her a nice dinner and a show, a guy paying off her rent or just paying the babysitter, or the most common of all - offering commitment before anything has been exchanged (read: before she’s slept with him). Women are also terrified of being taken advantage of, so they will demand commitment before giving up the goods. The same way a man will be terrif…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:00 PM
1

You are conflating a lot of things here. Approaching is absolutely NOT chasing, wooing, impressing and serenading. I actually can’t think of one successful relationship where the guy chased, wooed and serenaded a woman and they are both happy. It usually happens in cases where the woman ran out of time to have kids and settled for some guy who was more into her than she was into him. Approaching is nothing more than initiating an interaction. It’s the very first step in a dance. By approaching a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:52 PM
4

If I could cure autism through Reddit post, I’d have won a Nobel Prize already.
/r/seduction04/06/24 05:42 PM
1

You’ve posted in other subs that you are depressed and sad and lonely. Have you noticed that loners tend to be….alone. Wonder why? People who are depressed and negative carry an energy that tends to turn other people off. Self loathing and hate is another huge turn off. It’s not that people don’t like you, but when you feel down and in dumps about yourself, others don’t want to deal with your problems and downer energy. Seek therapy for this and cure your depression. Only way forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:38 PM
2

Just give her a huge smile and a wave. Walk around without your headphones. If she smiles back go over and say “Hey, it’s you again! I guess it’s Tuesday night already (implying that you always see her on certain days). I’m Bob btw, what’s your name? Well, it’s leg day for me today, how about you?”
/r/seduction04/06/24 05:32 PM
1

Go to popular classes and become a regular. Classes tend to have many hot girls attending week after week. You can start by saying hi, introducing yourself, banter before and after class. Eventually, if some warm up to you, just start introducing the idea of US in conversations. Like “how was your weekend” her “I went to the beach”, you “Nice! I love the beach. Actually me and my friends like to recreate the beach volleyball scene from Top Gun, so you should come watch me next time.” Etc etc. if…
/r/seduction04/06/24 04:00 PM
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I mean spend the time connecting and flirting. Kiss her. Then say something like: “Look, I find you very attractive. Ive been looking forward to seeing you again. I’m in town just for tonight but I would love to spend it with you having fun. I know nothing serious will come out of this, but why not have a memory that will last a life time?”.
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:59 PM
2

Most of these people are just as clueless. Their job is to produce armies of good boys, who behave well and work hard for the betterment of society. They are not equipped to help a boy see that he has to look after his own interests first. It’s in a boy’s best interest to feel confident and powerful unconditionally. But it’s not in society’s best interest because if it weren’t for shame and feelings of inadequacy; we wouldn’t be able to motivate young men to become productive members of society.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 02:48 PM
2

Yep
/r/seduction04/06/24 01:59 PM
3

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:42 PM
5

Put one foot in front of the other and keep doing it until you get to a drinking establishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:27 PM
10

Well, your problem isn’t not having a social circle, although that doesn’t help. Your problem is that you have a very clear agenda and you are chasing dates. This is a tell tale sign of a low value, desperate guy. The benefit of social circles is that you actually have to get to know the people you are friends with and you can connect with them in a safe environment (they know someone you know, etc). It’s the connection and relating to others that builds attraction. If you are just like every ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:51 PM
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Every woman I’ve dated magically has the most toxic, abusive, serially cheating ex. Many woman that I dated would openly talk about how good they are in bed and how men have never had any complaints. When this doesn’t work, they may bring out the big guns like saying “everyone in my life abandons me sooner or later” or some variation of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:47 PM
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It’s an easy equation. If every time you go out you get hit on by several girls and you have dated lined up for every week of the day, then you don’t have to do anything and you can be as critical of women as you want. BUT….if you can’t get a date to save your life, if women ignore you, if you have been rejected more times that you can count, maybe, just maybe, you are the problem and not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:44 PM
13

Basically 90-99% of men’s dating problems can be solved simply by getting over neediness and the fear of being alone.
/r/seduction04/06/24 11:14 AM
9

You have to understand that once you get hot as a guy, mid and average women will reject themselves
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:38 AM
3

You know you’ve made it when an actual porn star or stripper type says “you are so fucking hot. My room number is XYZ” and you are not even trying. Or a hot milf who models telling you that she doesn’t want to develop a crush on you after only knowing you for 20 minutes.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:36 AM
9

When I was skinny, I used to do well with attractive and cute women but never the super hot gym bunny types or the porn star looking ones. Once I got into terrific shape (thanks testosterone injections), now I can easily attract those types as well. Yes, of course being in great shape matters. A man can be attracted to a cute skinny girl with no real curves, but every guy knows the visceral attraction you feel for a huge rack or a round, bubble butt. The same thing applies to women when it comes…
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:34 AM
-4

Nobody cares man. The second you stop blaming everyone and everything else about your problems except for your own thinking, things will change for you.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:31 AM
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Reread your post several times. To those young women you so desperately chase after, you come across the exact same way that the women you are not interested in come across to you. You creep them out and make them feel anxious with your neediness and desperation.
/r/seduction04/06/24 10:30 AM
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What I’ve noticed among men is utter unwillingness to change anything about themselves and their obviously dysfunctional way of thinking and behaving in the world of dating. I’ve tried to give men on dating app subs, who post profile review requests, advice on how to dress and groom better, because let’s face it, apps are a visual experience as is real life. To this day, I haven’t had anyone take me up on my advice. I don’t know if it’s because men have grown up with the Millhouse’s mom’s advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:27 AM
1

What makes you think the “grown ups” are any better at this than the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:20 AM
1

lol. Women hit on me openly. Nice cope buddy. You know I was single once right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:14 AM
1

It’s the meaning behind words that matters. When people say “average” they literally mean “common, unremarkable, indistinguishable from the grey masses”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:13 AM
1

That’s what you gleaned from my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:33 AM
2

You are not getting it. People describing themselves as average, ugly, unremarkable, are basically saying “I’m nobody. I don’t deserve any better. I have no worth”. No matter how you slice it and dice it, women don’t want to be with a man who thinks of himself as a nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:27 AM
2

I wish that benching 3 plates would get you pussy, but alas, that’s not how it works. What gets you pussy is looking good like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:51 PM
3

Ah, there you go! So you can appreciate yourself and like yourself. Good! Write it all down and repeat it to yourself in the morning when you wake up and just before going to bed. And your snark at the end was really not necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:47 PM
6

Ask yourself: why would women find me sexy? Once you have listed 50 things, ask yourself this: why should some random hoe on the street be worthy of a guy like me?
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:46 PM
-1

Only every time I look in the mirror.
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:43 PM
-2

Well, your entire thinking here is erroneous from the get go. You will be met with nothing but rejection, disappointment, ghosting and disdain from women. I guarantee it! Now, ask me why I said that.
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:42 PM
0

That’s like asking: how can I scrape the bottom of this barrel harder so I can get some food from it because I’m desperately hungry and dying?
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:40 PM
-1

Be smarter, more educated and earn more. Remember, women are the prize and you should go through great lengths to prove yourself to them and impress them.
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:39 PM
1

Before I got married, I could end up on a date with every woman I approached and probably ended up in bed with the majority of them. But then again, I wasn’t out there approaching 50 times a night and approaching women who certainly don’t look like they want to be bothered.
/r/seduction03/06/24 11:38 PM
1

Ok. Well, I’m sold! I don’t see why women aren’t beating a path to your door.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:36 PM
3

The way you describe yourself, you may as well be talking about a loaf of plain white bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:26 PM
0

As a married man, I can afford to lightly flirt with women here and there. I can tell you from personal experience that women love to be approached by men of quality and caliber. However, if you use some or most of the following words to describe yourself: “average, ugly, short, unattractive, undesirable, shy, autistic, neurotic, boring” or any of their variations, then approaching women is probably not the right approach for you (pun intended). If you use the above words to describe yourself, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:51 PM
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Of course they are not. I meet plenty of single, unsatisfied women. They may be sick of their shitty options but they want nothing more than to find their Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:54 PM
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The only problem men have is that they believe they have a problem. If those men believed that women love them and want to sleep with them and find them sexy, guess what? Plenty of women would love them, want to sleep with them and find them sexy. Maybe not every woman in the world and maybe not supermodels, but enough women that those guys would just shut up about it. The problem is that they have convinced themselves they have a problem with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:53 PM
5

Actually, you make a good observation about people describing themselves as average. I think that’s part of the problem. Average means nothing special. You are just part of the gray masses. How is that compelling to anyone? If you can’t even find value in yourself beyond “I’m an average ugly guy”, then why would women even bother with you? Fuck. You may be average looking but find something that makes you fucking special and awesome. If you think of yourself as average, it literally doesn’t give…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 06:51 PM
-2

You don’t get it. The less picky you are, the easier to get you are. People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN’T get. Bragging about having low standards is a total self own.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:24 PM
0

Nope. It’s society as a whole. If you’ve ever uttered the words: “Women are born with value and men have to earn their value”, then you are a victim to this social brainwashing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 05:20 PM
8

are you serious? Plenty of men think a woman who “gives it up” too easy probably does it with EVERY guy, so she is not worth committing to. Don’t fucking pretend like men don’t do this shit. Even if it is not true for an individual man, it is the social zeitgeist that if a man gets ass too easily he won’t take the girl seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 04:04 PM
2

Stop asking them what they want to do and when. Say “Let’s grab a drink at 7pm at this place”. Take the lead and don’t be so ambiguous
/r/seduction03/06/24 03:54 PM
4

What men don’t understand is that women are conditioned to play hard to get when they meet a quality guy they perceive as boyfriend material. You hear over and over that women will sleep fast with some guy who is whatever, doesn’t offer commitment, makes it clear he is only offering sex, etc. But with a guy who positions himself as Mr Right, Mr Wonderful, who is offering commitment, etc, she doesn’t want to scare him off by sleeping with him too soon, she sex is put on hold. It’s no different th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:36 PM
5

Oh my, Mr White Knight. You certainly qualify for a medal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:26 PM
1

That’s true! And it does make one desperate and also puts them in the frame of “I have to prove myself to women and meet their standards”, which is a losing game. Again; the trick is to get crystal clear about what you want and not be willing to compromise (within reason), which will eventually shift the power of choice over to you. But it’s a recurring theme I see a lot: I want to get laid! Okay, what else? That’s it, I want to get laid! But if she wants something more I’m okay with that too. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:18 PM
4

Personally, I see the lack of standards and requirements as the biggest problem men have with dating. It shows that they don’t know what they want. “She has to be not fat and has long hair. But short hair is okay too. She has to be short, but if she’s tall that’s okay too.” That’s ^ not having standards and knowing what you want. That puts you into the weaker position because you can’t really filter and weed women out. The more selective you are the more you become the SELECTOR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:21 PM
10

And if she did, she certainly hasn’t been a virgin since she was about 15-16.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:15 PM
10

No mention of her values, how she’s supposed to treat you, etc. that’s as basic of a list as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 12:16 PM
-13

She has to be a 9 or a 10. PhD in sucking dick. Not annoying. Not clingy. Wants to fuck twice a day. Has hot girlfriends and enjoys threesomes. Can deepthroat. Has her own career and interests. Believes in honesty, trust and respect. Never says a cross word to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 11:24 AM
0

You are finally getting it!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:46 AM
0

Your approach?
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:13 AM
-2

Your mistake is focusing on what she wants and not what YOU want. Who cares what she’s thinking or saying. What do you want? You don’t even know that.
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:12 AM
-1

Tell her that you are a total wimp and will run with your tail between your legs because you are so intimidated by her.
/r/seduction03/06/24 10:10 AM
-4

That’s like a man saying: I will never date a woman who has had a period.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:06 AM
4

A “high standard” is any quality I don’t posses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:02 AM
21

Yawn you guys are getting so boring with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:24 AM
28

You guys give way too much power to women over your own happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:23 AM
1

Like the best seduction gurus currently live in Romania and you can’t find anyone to help you? Have you even heard of Zan Perion or Rick H?
/r/seduction03/06/24 02:19 AM
0

I don’t know man. Right off the bat you are finding excuses. I don’t think you are motivated at all.
/r/seduction03/06/24 02:16 AM
2

So you think you are better than them but they reject you and actually you have super low self esteem, stutter and have tics? And then you guys say women are delusional.
/r/seduction03/06/24 02:15 AM
6

Why do you view your “friends” like a business relationship with a profit and loss equation?
/r/seduction03/06/24 12:06 AM
1

Just talk about the here and now. Like “can you believe it’s almost Monday already?”
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:01 PM
1

All of this is literally stuff you are parroting from reading various incel and RedPill subs. You haven’t experienced any of that. You are making theories up in your head to make sense of your failings with women. You have no idea what women are thinking, unless you are the only man in the world who can read minds. So your brain just creates one negative thought chasing the next, culminating in depression, anxiety and impotent rage. All of this stuff is completely 100% untrue and irrational. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:27 PM
0

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 07:09 PM
0

You are the PPD version of the guy on a bike meme who puts a stick in his own front wheel and falls on his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:23 PM
4

I think I’m witnessing the making of a mental illness in real time. Your negative thoughts are just chasing each other around in your own head. Write them all down on a piece of paper and keep doing it until you start seeing just how irrational and crazy they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:18 PM
1

I think it’s implied that everyone enjoys getting tasteful sexual attention from a very attractive member of the opposite sex. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 05:09 PM
1

I don’t have any advice. It’s a choice you need to make yourself. Are you motivated enough to do something about meeting women or are you happy enough being a shut in with no social skills.
/r/seduction02/06/24 05:07 PM
0

Toothless? Imagine the blowjobs she could give!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 02:23 PM
6

Well that removes like 25% of the women from the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:09 AM
1

Well, it’s on Facebook. It must be true!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:08 AM
4

If your wife got fat and let herself go, would you ask the same question but reversed genders?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:07 AM
2

Absolutely NOT! Don’t forget! There is absolutely nothing human about women! They are like angelic aliens that nobody can relate to and they do not experience the real world or have the same emotions, desires and insecurities like you do. I mean what kind of a question is that!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:06 AM
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This has “Men writing women” vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:04 AM
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Well yeah, because it’s not about common interests or hobbies. It’s about relation to each other’s human experiences. Jessica J Dating has good videos on this stuff, she calls a Personal Relevant Statement plus HAY (how about you?). It’s the secret of connecting with people. As in: “I woke up so early this morning and I’m already browsing PPD. I need to get a life! How about you? What are you doing?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 10:02 AM
0

Really narrows it down 🙄
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:57 AM
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The only reasons you get rejected is because you either WANT something from the woman or you are OFFERING yourself to her. Can’t get rejected if you don’t want to get anything from her or try to offer yourself to her by selling yourself hard.
/r/seduction02/06/24 09:56 AM
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You are doing it wrong. The more you try, the less results you get. Why do you think all these guys here brag about making thousands of approaches and…..sleeping with 2.5 girls? They put so much energy in it, yet so little result? This is the part that guys never figure out. They either give up or try to mask their neediness and desperation. The more you try to get women interested, the more disinterested they are. The more you obsess over them, the less they notice you even exist. The harder yo…
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:31 PM
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lol. I don’t think a woman has ever shit tested me. I’m sure some have tried. Usually, if they say something I tell them “you sound like a ball buster. I bet guys usually run away with their tails between their legs”. Usually, they will agree to which I respond “I’m a wimp, the same as all these guys.” At that point they realize they are not dealing with your average loser.
/r/seduction01/06/24 11:05 PM
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There are plenty of women out there who will use all 3 holes to satisfy men. 3 men per woman. Everybody’s happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:53 PM
1

You can try and psycho analyze people from a two sentence post but I should let you know that psychoanalysis and Freudian psycho babble hasn’t been taken seriously in therapeutic circles in many decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:42 PM
2

Go on YouTube and search Brent Smith Bulletproof Banter.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:27 PM
2

Why do you need to show interest?
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:22 PM
12

You are going out to get something. That’s an inherently needy frame and very unattractive. If you want to skyrocket your “game”, change the reason you go out. Stop going out to pickup women and get them interested in you. Start going out to have fun and be the life of the party. Women are infinitely more interested in men who are leading fun and adventurous lives than men who are desperately pursuing them so they could make the woman their adventure.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:21 PM
1

Go to some party place like Ibiza, Miami Beach, whatever, that’s known for a lot of horny drunk college girls going there. Make up a completely different persona (take a break from being yourself) and go get laid.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:19 PM
2

….you have a far better grasp on masculinity… That’s what she said 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:16 PM
1

You care too much about what women are thinking. You don’t know what they are thinking and whatever you think they are thinking is usually wrong, so why even try. All you accomplish is make yourself anxious, afraid and insecure.
/r/seduction01/06/24 10:04 PM
5

I mean, the bigger problem is actually the neediness you pointed out. Neediness is extremely unattractive especially in men. I know I am very good looking, but when I feel needy and desperate, I might as well be invisible even to bleh women. But when I’m happy with myself and my life and couldn’t care less about attracting women, they are magically drawn to me, including pornstar tier women. It works like magic! But it is all predicated on how you feel about yourself and as you have astutely poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 10:02 PM
1

I have no idea where you got that from my post, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:58 PM
1

How will that be helpful to you exactly?
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:55 PM
6

People are constantly bombarded with the message that love and sex are a dire necessity for happiness. Countless songs sing “all you need is love”, “baby I can’t live without you”, “people who need people are the luckiest people in the world”. From the Beatles to sappy Bon Jovi power ballads to Barbara Streisand. And then the countless advertisements which show a fast car or an adventurous lifestyle and a hot beautiful woman, subconsciously giving men the message that they need to earn and achie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:54 PM
0

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:51 PM
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I want you to do this exercise ten times. Go out about your day and have 10 interactions with women that are very limited in nature. Meaning have the interaction without any goal in mind and then let go of it like this is the end of the story. Nothing else happens. No next steps okay? It is very important that when you have those interactions you are not having g a goal in mind, like making her like you, give you a number, insta, etc. As a matter of fact, you are forbidden to try and move the in…
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:50 PM
4

Have you tried saying “Hello”
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:35 PM
1

Do you want to know how I started my journey or do you want to know what works? Two very different things.
/r/seduction01/06/24 08:33 PM
2

Bro, it’s over. Don’t be a fucking creep. It’s over.
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:54 PM
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Females?
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:45 PM
7

Oh yeah she went to the club so she can talk about her job and her weeks schedule and not because she wants to go home with a guy and get her brains fucked out of her head.
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:45 PM
3

It’s actually all about you, what you want, what type of criteria you have for the woman.
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:44 PM
1

You are a creepy stalker.
/r/seduction01/06/24 07:43 PM
3

What if I told you what society values in you is completely irrelevant as long as you are able to value yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 07:20 PM
2

He is making it sound bad because he is pretending. He is not genuinely unafraid of being alone and not having to chase women for validation. He is pretending not to care when he actually does. You do it authentically when you learn to be happy and Ben when you are alone and creating a life worth living and enjoying whether it has a woman in it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:51 PM
5

Nope. Everything has to be Freudian psychobabble. It’s because her dad touched her a funny way. Yep. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:48 PM
1

The problem is that most men equivocate showing emotions with emotional throw up/trauma dumping. They want to talk about how insecure they feel and what losers they are and expect women to see them the same afterwards. It’s the equivalent of any woman telling you that she used to be a weird fattie who cut herself. It for sure won’t make her more attractive to a guy .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:44 PM
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That rarely happens to YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:56 PM
1

Women are looking for men who are at their status level or higher. When women complain there are no good men left, they mean that most men they come in contact with, see themselves and behave as lower status than them. Putting her on a pedestal, kissing her ass, treating her like a queen, trying to impress her. All of these are symptoms of a man who considers himself lower status than the woman. That’s why the girls you are not interested in are interested in you, but the ones you are interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:55 PM
1

That’s the source of all your problems with women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:17 PM
6

Yeah yeah childhood trauma anxious attachment blah blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 03:11 PM
4

Because it is true for both sexes. All dating advice subs are littered with posts by men telling the same story in a slightly different way: “So there is this girl I’m interested in, but she already rejected me five times. How can I get her to like me?” Yet those same guys totally ignore the homely average girl that’s pining for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:59 PM
5

BS. This is true for all genders, ages and social situations. It’s true even in job interviews, lol. Stop trying to make everything into some psychobabble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:57 PM
2

People NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN’T get. If you don’t like acting aloof and unavailable it is because you are using it as a technique and not actually living your ur life that way
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:52 PM
1

I’m sure a man with those exact qualities and the exact same age range and race preference exists somewhere among our 8billion population on Earth. Good luck finding him!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 11:45 AM
2

In what world are men excited by a 5 or a 6? I guess if I had too much to drink and haven’t gotten laid in months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:44 AM
3

Again, you demonstrate your complete lack of understanding of female nature. You are living your life in the servitude of women. Without them, your existence is meaningless. How sad is that? I believe they call you a pickme boy. It’s not a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:43 AM
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Honestly, this thread shows me how little you and most other men understanding the dating game. First of all, whenever people complain about dating, it’s always a mix of projecting their own insecurities and flaws and also complaining about the people they want not being exactly the way they would like them to be. When men complain about women being this or that, a woman can always make the case “well stop chasing after hot chicks and you will get treated so much better by the ugly girl nobody w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:05 PM
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This subs and the manosphere's disdain for so called Alpha males/fuckbois/Chads (or whatever you want to call them) is the exact equivalent of a bunch of average, chubby girls hating on the hot cheerleader types who get all the men. Think about that for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:35 PM
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You are looking at the veneer, the stuff that is fake and not really understanding what's beneath the surface that matters. You get caught up in these things like status and hierarchy and money. Human beings have been around for many hundreds of thousands of years and if you count our close hominid predecessors, perhaps millions of years. Money and careers didn't exist for the vast majority of this time. Yet humans copulated just fine. Apparently, for lasting evolutionary changes to occur, it ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:07 AM
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Source for "women find most men unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:54 AM
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I don't know, but seeing hairy pits and legs on a woman gives me the ick. So does unkept hair, nails and bad teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:53 AM
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You actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 07:57 PM
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There are two types of status. The one that virtually everyone observes is the so called social status. Things like wealth, height, race, career, proficiency in a specific area, position in a certain social hierarchy. The thing is social status changes from culture to culture, from subculture to subculture and from situation to situation. An NFL player will be treated like a rockstar in the US. But if he goes to Europe or Latin America (because nobody cares about American football) he is a nobod…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 05:52 PM
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Nothing. Treat it like this is it, end of story. Nothing more. Go and get a drink, go talk to your friends. The second you show zero fear of losing her even after making out, she will follow you. If she does, just shoot the shit and then say: "I'm heading home to grab a night cap. You are welcome to join". And start leaving as you say this. Don't wait for her. Don't try to convince her to come with you. The second you do this, the second she will resist. Women will choose to go home with you bec…
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:41 PM
3

What is your objective/desired outcome here?
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:39 PM
3

Gift him your face for him to cum on. Best gift ever!
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:38 PM
1

Being whiney little bitch is the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:09 PM
3

He wants a magic bullet or a wand that will magically materialize hot and horny women in his bedroom. Just by his line of (clearly sarcastic) questions: where does a socially isolated weirdo loner go to socialize, how does a dumb mute guy who plays video games 24/7 finds a girl to talk to, blah blah blah. It is clear that he has a certain image of himself that is not flattering at all and that he sees the world through the lens of the identity he has adopted (isolated, weird loner with zero frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:09 PM
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You feel creepy because it is creepy. What is the purpose of asking for someone's number? How do you know you want it? Just because she has a cute face or a big ass? Do you know anything about this person? You probably spend more time deciding what to order from McDonalds cause you don't want to waste your $5 then you do deciding if you want to stick your most precious thing in a total stranger.
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:07 AM
1

Definition of young, dumb and full of cum.
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:05 AM
1

Confidence in what? I am confident I can have an interesting conversation. I am confident I can plan a nice date. I am confident I can make a move on a woman. It's something you may need to practice a little bit. My achievements have nothing to do with my confidence. I like myself whether I achieve or not. I think I'm awesome and cool. You need to understand that you link achievement with feeling good about yourself because that's how society controls you. It tells you the only way you wave wort…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 10:54 AM
2

I'm not a simp.....I'm kinda getting desperate...both lost interest in me.
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:41 AM
1

Stop texting her immediately. Your next text should be: "I hate to talk to such a beautiful girl through a screen. Come over tonight. I will cook for you and you bring the wine." If you don't know what to do once she shows up, you are a clinical case.
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:39 AM
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You sound autistic or under 30. Which is the same thing. What is the fucking purpose on an Instagram? Can you fuck it?
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:38 AM
1

You are right. She waited for you for a year but now because you set the date in two weeks she will immediately forget about you and fall pussy down on the first cock that she comes across the second she is done reading your text message.
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:37 AM
1

I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas.
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:36 AM
0

The only thing I've found to consistently be true about whether I attract women to me is how I feel about myself. I've noticed that no matter how I look and dress, if I don't feel good about me, if I feel needy and approval seeking, I won't be able to attract even the butt ugliest woman. And on the contrary, when I feel like I'm the shit and I'm too hot to touch, I've had literal pornstars try to get me to go to their hotel room. The only common denominator is how I feel about myself, not how I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:28 PM
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Yeah, because there is a different biology and chemicals at play. Men cum once and we are ready go to sleep. Women cum once and want to cum again and again. There is a theory that in tribal/caveman times, when a woman is in heat (ovulating), she will climb on one guy, have him ejaculate in him and while he goes to sleep, she moves on to the next guy in the cave, until she is completely satisfied and has collected ejaculates from several specimens. Then those ejaculates fight it out between them …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 08:03 PM
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Except the posters are always men. But okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:42 PM
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I'm sure there are women who are supposedly friends who judge each other. Most that I've met, tend to high five each other if one of them hooks up with a hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:39 PM
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Nice retort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:35 PM
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Funny: every other post here is about how less horny women are than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:35 PM
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Judgment and being used are basically the same thing. A guy is super nice while he's sticking it into her vagina, but after he's done, he judges her for being a slut for sleeping so fast with him. In other words, the woman feels used and taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:34 PM
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Oh, there are plenty. You didn't bother to read my post and perhaps your lack of experience with women is stopping you from seeing the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:32 PM
4

Join the club. The dark side is that you become dependent on it and develop neediness. Which will drive women away like nothing else.
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:51 PM
14

Women want to have way more casual sex than they are actually having. But the problem is they have two extremely big fears. The first fear is fear of rejection. Of course, everyone hates being rejected, but for women it's so bad that they actively avoid any kind of overt approach or propositioning men. Why? Because they are socialized to believe their only value is their sex. So the idea that they can offer their sex to a guy and he turns them down is akin to having their entire being and identi…
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:48 PM
0

Basically any time you do anything to "try" and get a woman, it will backfire. Your entire goal here is to get her on a date or to have a hook up. Why? Because you are horny? Go jerk off. Why do you want a woman? Figure out why you want one and what kind of woman you want. Then stop trying to get them, trying to have sex with them, trying to date them, etc. Focus on figuring out if they bring to the table the kind of qualities you are looking for in a woman. Then the next steps would be super na…
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:40 PM
2

You are nervous because you want to get something from these girls and they you get afraid you might not get it and to make it worse you think about what not getting it means about you. You have no problem taking to your male friends, male strangers, old ladies, coworkers, etc. But a cute girl? You freeze up. Why? Because you want something from her. You want her to like you, you want her sex, so your entire body language and mind is preoccupied wjth trying to make those things happen, which not…
/r/seduction22/05/24 03:37 PM
1

You just be new here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:01 AM
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So, let's play some history here. According to the internet, the first ever company was founded in Japan in 578 AD. The resume or CV was apparently invented by Da Vinci in 1482. Tinder was invented in 2012. Do you know how long humans have been having sex? Tip: much longer than any of these inventions. As a matter of fact, according to the internet sex as a means of reproduction appeared on Earth around 2 billion years ago. Since human evolution can be tracked back to the earliest life forms on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:59 AM
1

Yep. Just as stupid as the "evil wimminz" who are preventing men from access to their vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:51 AM
10

If you've ever met a woman who says she is so over having women friends because she can never trust them and that she much prefers to be friends with men, you have your explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:41 AM
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So you are disclosing g your deepest and darkest secrets on a first date and you wonder why women are turned off? Am I understanding you correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:40 AM
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I keep harping on these guys. I've done all of this and probably had just as bad results as you. I was just never autistic enough to actually record every single approach. The reason your numbers are so abysmally bad and sad is because of how needy and desperate this whole thing is. You want one thing from these girls, they are just a number that you need to acquire. It's so fucking needy. Seriously. Find some meaning in your life other than women and getting laid. That's just sad. Once you do t…
/r/seduction22/05/24 01:43 AM
1

Don't do it! It's a trap! She has been gathering evidence that you are a creep and when you show up to your "alone" date, you will have the guy from Catch a Predator waiting for you a camera crew.
/r/seduction22/05/24 01:37 AM
1

Damn right these women coming to my country taking our jobs, breathing our air, taking out men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:36 AM
1

Not often but I've been desperate and horny enough to go for it although I'd not want a repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 01:35 AM
0

You can never get rejected as long as you don't want to get anything g from women.
/r/seduction22/05/24 12:09 AM
1

How you feel about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:24 PM
6

Jesus fuck
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:01 PM
0

Unfortunately (for you), most women are not tuned on just by a man's looks but also by how he relates to her, even if it involves just making her laugh. Since most men are completely clueless on how to properly relate to a woman and most importantly, how to feel good about themselves, they inadvertently end up turning the majority of women off. Which you interpret as women being less horny. You are also not going to appear horny if you can't get aroused by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:59 PM
-2

Well, hi there!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:53 PM
5

The same reason men say they want to take care of a woman but don't like being someone's foodie call.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:52 PM
0

Not gonna lie. Feeling good about yourself is absolutely required. It just doesn't seem you are there yet. Whatever flaws and problems you see in yourself, you will telegraph to women with your vibe. No other way around it other than believing you are sexy and feeling it. It's the only thing that will change your results.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 07:56 PM
1

I hear a lot of guys describe themselves as average. I've never understood this. Do you want a woman who is average and dull? Who doesn't stand out. Who is neither obese nor fit? Neither ugly nor pretty? I think it's a terrible way to identify yourself. Okay; you are short. What else is there about you that is special and that you can offer women? Are you interesting, well dressed, do you have a good handle of how to please them in bed? Do you know what you are doing? Can you make women feel saf…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 06:58 PM
1

Not at all what I hear from women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:49 PM
1

Men outnumber women on dating apps by quite a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:52 AM
1

So how are more women in relationships and more women are having sexual if none of them ever go out or talk to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 11:36 AM
15

You look at a woman like you are fucking her brains out. If she looks back at you the same way, she needs her brains fucked out of her.
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:57 AM
0

It means she thinks you are creepy and weird.
/r/seduction21/05/24 10:56 AM
1

No different than a woman doing Botox or getting lip fillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:40 AM
1

Sure. Europeans never talk to anyone they haven't talked to before. And surely don't fuck anyone they haven't fucked before. It's not like I lived in Europe for years either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:39 AM
2

Yeah I'd never choose to live in the Midwest willingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:34 AM
1

"You look like you know how to have fun" and run your index finger under your nose while sniffing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:33 AM
-1

I don't want socially anxious women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 10:31 AM
0

I'm just an older guy who keeps in shape and dresses to kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 03:02 AM
-1

Okay. You just don't know where to go. Here is a mission for you. Go out to a trendy cafe in your city. Sit down grab a coffee, read a book. When you are a good looking girl, go up to her and say "Hi there, sorry to bother you but wanted to ask you for some advice. I moved here recently and don't know the night life scene very well, but I was curious where good looking girls like you like to go out at night." Do this with 5 women and you should have enough leads. You may even end up dating some …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:42 AM
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Here is the little secret you are not telling him. Young women prefer places that are fun as in dancing and also high end...as in they can be seen in the outfits they just spend $800 on that they will wear once. Most socially anxious men avoid popular and trendy places, because they are too intimidating, opting out for low risk places like beer gardens, arcade bars, or other male oriented activities. Then they wonder where all the women are at. The women are at the trendy club or well lit high e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:38 AM
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I have no idea what that feels like. Literally, every time I go out to grab a drink or dinner wjth my wife, the trendy places are packed with single women who are looking at me like meat on a stick. Most places many of them stay around for a drink and then bail because there aren't any hot men talking to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:32 AM
0

It's like buying crypto (or insert any other stock/commodity) at its peak just before the price totally crashes. It's literally buying an over appreciated asset that is at its objective worse value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 02:30 AM
1

You sound like every time you enter a room you apologize to other people for breathing their air.
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:28 AM
0

It sound contradictory because you are not understanding the underlying philosophy of what makes women attracted. Everyone in this community reaches you to get attached to an outcome and pursue it it like your life depended on it. In the real world this means, you going out and setting your mind on taking a girl home. Here is the problem with all of this. If you ABSOLUTELY HAVE to have that outcome, you will always be a slave to how the other person reacts to you. Because her sex or whatever (ge…
/r/seduction21/05/24 01:01 AM
1

Yeah the age of "you need 7 hours of uninterrupted contact and complete 23 steps with 7 sub steps each" in order to get a girl's number, is thankfully gone
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:49 AM
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I don't know. Whenever they text me to want to hang out.
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:43 AM
2

I bet you'd eat 6 feet of her shit just to see the hole it came out of.
/r/seduction21/05/24 12:43 AM
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To me it sounds like you probably approach women wanting to get something from them: for them to like you, validate you, give you a number, go out on a date, sex? The problem is that when you want something out of them, it is actually pretty creepy and a huge turn off. Why? Because other than her looks, you know nothing about her and whether you should want her. So if all it takes is a cute face or a nice pair of tits for you to determine that you HAVE TO GET her, then there is obviously nothing…
/r/seduction20/05/24 04:59 PM
1

You don't look very well groomed. I mean you don't look homeless, but as a black guy you should get properly lined up. Your hairline is also receding so you should consider shaving it off or trying a style that suits you better. Your nails don't look properly trimmed, etc. These are the details women look at to determine if you are a high quality guy. If you don't treat yourself like royalty, why should they bother with you? Also, don't know the rest of your dressing style, but what you are wear…
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:59 PM
1

Do you really want to know what your problem is? Or do you want me to tell you what you want to hear?
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:51 PM
1

Another interesting podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feeling-good-podcast-team-cbt-the-new-mood-therapy/id1171155453?i=1000394023508
/r/seduction20/05/24 03:04 PM
6

Awwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:37 PM
2

Generally, women will not approach like men where they will say "hey hot stuff, wanna get out of here". But they will make eye contact, smile, hover around, ask you some silly question, etc. You still have to initiate. At the same time, if you see a woman that you are attracted to you should absolutely approach. But you have to do it in the right way. Watch these videos and it will make sense: https://youtu.be/BYZyiQuhD6U?si=SQwPi9w8_XZAMtKL https://youtu.be/xc_LfiXJVmU?si=VfsvU8tserqBQoPM
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:35 PM
3

What are you trying to accomplish?
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:46 PM
4

Offer the white woman a sandwich or a salad with mayonnaise. Tell her about your favorite lacrosse team. The best compliment you can give a white woman is to compare her to one of the Sex in the City characters. Wearing a "Freedom for Palestine" or "By any means necessary" button or screen saver on your phone will also win you a lot of points.
/r/seduction20/05/24 01:34 PM
1

You think I was joking? I've picked up other chicks after I left a girl's apartment smeared in that goo.
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:22 PM
0

You know you struck a nerve when all the usual suspects are out with pitchforks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:18 PM
3

You mean he sexually harassed her?
/r/seduction20/05/24 12:14 PM
3

Why would I want someone who ignores, silly cow?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:13 PM
5

Nice try honey. Women are as passive as rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:55 AM
2

Men can take it up the ass too. Most don't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:54 AM
8

The one who makes the moves is the one in charge. Period. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:54 AM
1

And that should be good news for men who are ready to take the reins. And bad news for men who don't have the balls to be in charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:53 AM
0

I didn't ask if I could cum in her mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:52 AM
5

Tattoo this on your forehead: Women NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. Expressing interest is fine. Chasing is not. Chasing is when you are trying to convince her or prove to her that you want her to pick you. People chase others because they believe the other person has something they need. The way to counter this is to sit down and be crystal clear about what you want and what kind of woman you want. Do you want a ons, FWB, serious girlfriend, a harem? Decide what …
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:51 AM
1

Don't ask. Treat every interaction like this is the last interaction and that's it. After a date or two after she's texted you, you can say something like "hey, I've been out a lot this week so I'm feeling a bit low key. Come over if you want. I will get take out you bring a bottle of wine". Alternatively, you can say "I got an early day tomorrow, so I'm gonna grab a night cap at my place and call it a night. You are welcome to join me" and start getting up like you are leaving whether she wants…
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:47 AM
1

The reason it's not working is because you are making sex the goal of the date/interaction and by extension you are making sex with her the prize. She is picking up on that and it's turning her off. The whole idea that you need to get every girl that you talk to in bed needs to die. Seriously. Having sex with a woman is really a reward for her for being worthy of your time. It's not a reward she's giving you.
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:43 AM
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Rub pussy juice all over your face. Other females will pickup the scent and think you are a breeder.
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:41 AM
3

I think it's time to buy a rope my friend. Don't know how you will ever be able to live with yourself after this.
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:37 AM
3

You lost me at RSD. If you want to learn from a bunch of sexual predators and knuckleheads, I think you'd better just stick to reading and watching instead of doing.
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:36 AM
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Yes common problem. You are unhappy and think getting a girlfriend will solve all your problems. So you try hard and in the process come on too strong because you are so needy and that turns women off. Sometimes when you don't try, they are more attracted to you because you mask your neediness. But it comes out eventually. No other way but to overcome neediness and I can tell you right now, this doesn't happen by going out and approaching hundreds of women. It only makes it worse. I did it for m…
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:35 AM
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Start by losing some weight and getting a proper, high end hair cut. Buy whatever product they use on you in the salon. Learn to groom your beard. Once you are done with this, set aside $2-3000 and go to a department store and ask for a personal shopper or at the very least spot a good looking sales clerk and ask for her some assistance with shopping for clothes. Tell her you want to look really sharp and don't know much about dressing. Alternatively, if you have any attractive female friends wh…
/r/seduction20/05/24 10:24 AM
5

I think you are the only one putting pressure on yourself to perform because you believe you have to prove to women you are worthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:22 AM
3

It's extreme effort if you are a socially retarded, terminally anxious guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:33 PM
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So what's your definition of desperation and what's your definition of enthusiasm? Men have a very difficult time dealing with subtlety so they have to have desperation slap them in the face to notice that something is array. You talk of enthusiasm in dating. Yes, guys who are "enthusiastic" are usually needy. If you date a lot and are around beautiful women, you don't really get enthusiastic. You might be engaged and interested, but enthusiastic is the same as needy. Why get so excited if you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:32 PM
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Sorry but you have no clue what you are talking about. Not only women but men can also sense desperation and neediness. Desperation is really strong, but neediness can be more subtle but just as unattractive. It's not about being apathetic and disinterested. That's not the opposite of needy. The opposite of needy is someone who is happy with himself and being alone and doesn't need a woman or a relationship to feel whole. So he chooses to talk to women he might be interested in but he doesn't HA…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:01 PM
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Same thing. Men act enthusiastic because they don't date or have sex much.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:58 PM
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But he saw her from over there and thought she was cute???
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:35 PM
0

So let me get this straight. You stalked this girl from one train station to another, ran after her and accosted her with "hey I thought you looked cute....and I've been following you for several stops of the train????" I know you didn't say that last part but I guarantee you that's what she was thinking.
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:34 PM
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Exactly! Now you are getting it! Stop trying to make exit steps happen. Stop thinking about what's next. Just be concerned wjth this very moment.
/r/seduction19/05/24 07:05 PM
0

What?
/r/seduction19/05/24 06:51 PM
2

Stop having over expectations of what you want to happen. When you have expectations for an outcome, you become attached to it and that causes you to get nervous and awkward.
/r/seduction19/05/24 05:33 PM
2

lol. You can't be serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:20 PM
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Agreed! It's completely overblown. Being able to related to each others experiences is much more important. I can like video games and she likes knitting. The two have nothing in common. Yet, I can tell her "Playing a video game is so relaxing after work and I feel like I achieved something, what about you and your knitting?" And she will say "My knitting is like my meditation! And at the end I get to have something tangible I can keep! Wow, we have so much in common!"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:18 PM
0

And what if I told you that it will not only NOT solve your problems, but that as long as you NEED relationship in order to feel happy, you will never get one?
/r/seduction19/05/24 04:05 PM
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Oh noes! She was so super duper attracted to you and interested that she totally couldn't think of a single day she's available for a date. And she also has been fantasizing so hard about you every waking minute that she couldn't even send you a text "hey, I'm free tho Tuesday". Sounds like last minute super duper slut bitch shield resistance bro!!!
/r/seduction19/05/24 03:10 PM
0

So what do you think dating will solve for you exactly?
/r/seduction19/05/24 12:59 PM
1

The other thing is stop suggesting going things depending on the girl. You need to be direct and to the point that you are taking them out. Lead. Stop pussyfooting around. After a few messages "I feel like we are connecting. Let's go out and continue to get to know each other. I'm free Wednesday and Thursday night and want to take you this bar XYZ". Direct and to the point.
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:41 AM
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You are kind of right but going about it in the wrong way. Have you heard of the Sexual Cartel? It's a bit like the OPEC cartel. The oil producing nations decide the price of oil and charge whatever they want for it. They can choose to go up or down as much they want to achieve their goals. Well, when it comes to the way women are socialized, there is something called the Sexual Cartel. Because women crave SECURITY more than anything else, they are socialized form very young to always exchange t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:39 AM
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Oh I see what is the real purpose of your post. To point the finger at women and bitterly proclaim: "You, harlots, don't care about true love. A man loving you has no value to you, because you are so shallow and vapid. You don't deserve a goody two shoes like me". While you go on PornHub and look for big tittied Asian sluts who take it in all holes. Cause you care so much about true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:25 AM
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Hate when that happens, but girls will be girls, with their grabby dirty hands, eye raping you all night and shit.
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:07 AM
6

I mean what's the point of dating someone who is so anxious and fearful? You didn't ask her to meet you at a secluded park in the middle of the night.
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:04 AM
9

Welcome to being a man
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:02 AM
2

Men can't get it up very well when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:51 AM
3

Oh god. That's not how you flirt. Flirting is bringing up the idea of US - you and her together doing something. With the wine example, you should have said something like: "I'm drinking this wine with my friend. He's cute, but I'd rather drink it with you." You may be coming across as creepy with your lines like "almost as tasty as you".
/r/seduction19/05/24 10:50 AM
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Hello fellow autist and social retard!
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:48 AM
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You are doing this all wrong. You pick a woman and then you try to fit her into what you want. Stupid. Figure out what you want, what kind of woman you want and then look for that type of woman specifically. And if a woman doesn't fit your criteria, she's got to go. So you are doing everything completely backwards. She doesn't want a relationship with you. Trying to force into one is how you get reported to HR, lose your job and get a reputation in your industry so you become unhirable.
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:46 AM
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Everything you need to know is contained in this video: https://youtu.be/aVFfvwbhNJE?si=J0hZkasi62hc3isp
/r/seduction19/05/24 02:44 AM
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I disagree. The goal should never be to get her to like you or to seduce her. That's basically playing into the weak frame of "I have to prove myself to her, I have to get her". I do absolutely nothing to "try" and get women. Me trying to get her means that I have already decided I need to have her/obtain her, which is antipathetic to my game. The point of approaching a woman is to FIND OUT IF YOU WANT HER IN YOUR LIFE. When you see a cute face or a nice pair of tits, you know zero about the per…
/r/seduction18/05/24 12:09 PM
5

Wear grey sweatpants with no underwear and white tank top. Do kettlebell swings with your hips thrusting forward in their general direction.
/r/seduction18/05/24 12:00 PM
1

First of all, I think both men and women are delusional in their expectations of the other sex. Social media definitely fits into that. Here is your logical fallacy though. You are talking about fairness and men not being able to have high standards. Firstly, you need to admit that men and women are different and have different roles in the mating dance. If you are a man and expect to be twirled, dipped and swept off your feet by a woman, than you are a clueless fool. It doesn't work like this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:05 AM
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First of all, I think both men and women are delusional in their expectations of the other sex. Social media definitely fits into that. Here is your logical fallacy though. You are talking about fairness and men not being able to have high standards. Firstly, you need to admit that men and women are different and have different roles in the mating dance. If you are a man and expect to be twirled, dipped and swept off your feet by a woman, than you are a clueless fool. It doesn't work like this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:05 AM
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First of all, I think both men and women are delusional in their expectations of the other sex. Social media definitely fits into that. Here is your logical fallacy though. You are talking about fairness and men not being able to have high standards. Firstly, you need to admit that men and women are different and have different roles in the mating dance. If you are a man and expect to be twirled, dipped and swept off your feet by a woman, than you are a clueless fool. It doesn't work like this. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:04 AM
5

One of life's greatest ironies. Alcohol makes women hornier and men less horny/able to get it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:53 AM
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The most common way to deal with social anxiety is total avoidance. They literally want to manifest a naked horny woman out of thin air into their bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:49 AM
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Strangers? That study must be total bullshit. Every woman on PPD has told me that they only sleep with men they have slept with before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:47 AM
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Rejection doesn't hurt at all. We get rejected all the time: we get rejected for that parking spot closer to work we were trying to get, we get rejected from the restaurant we wanted to make a reservation at but is booked, we get rejected by clients, etc. Rejection is a normal part of life. What hurts is what we thinking (romantic) rejection means about us. If you tell yourself you get rejected because you are worthless, ugly, undesirable, a subhuman lizard, then yeah...rejection will hurt and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:44 AM
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I will try to summarize my views on this and be as concise as possible. Accept that there is a game to be played. Humans have a mating dance just like the little birds on the Discovery Channel. Do it wrong and you are out of the running. No amount of "But I'm a sincere and serious guy, I wear my heart on my sleeve" is going to change that fact. Refuse to play the game and you will end up crying. Tattoo this on your forehead: women NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. W…
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:01 AM
1

Agreed 100%. It's neediness. Guys need to understand that neediness is not calling her 10 times in a row because she didn't pick up when she told you she would or following her around all night like a puppy. These are symptoms of neediness and pretty egregious examples. Most neediness manifests itself subtly through micro body language cues and vibe. Women pick it up and they are super sensitive to it. Expressing interest is like having two buckets. One is her one is yours. If you fill up your b…
/r/seduction17/05/24 08:53 PM
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You get to fuck what you believe you deserve.
/r/seduction17/05/24 08:45 PM
2

Aaahh, the mythical land whale you mean?
/r/seduction17/05/24 08:44 PM
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Here is an easy litmus test. If you were single, would you fuck him? If you and your husband had an open relationship or were into MFM threesomes, would you fuck him? Answer honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:43 PM
3

Omg, it's awful there. Never met such unfriendly and insular people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:42 PM
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My coworkers suggested I become a sales rep for adderall because I can't stop gushing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:41 PM
1

A few rules of thumb: Unless your dick can extend hundreds of miles, you can't fuck a woman who lives in another state or 2-3 hours form you. No more endless chatting with women on apps or via text. It accomplishes virtually nothing especially since you don't seem to be engaging and connecting with them. A woman talking about mundane stuff or about her problems is NOT attracted to you. Women who are attracted to you, always try to represent themselves in the best light. Once she starts talking a…
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:26 PM
0

It's a great investment
/r/seduction17/05/24 03:20 PM
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Women never said that 80% of men are unattractive. You are literally clinging to claims from an 15 year old blog post based on data collected from a long form dating website before online dating was the norm. You can literally get more accurate data just by leaving your apartment and going to places where a lot of couples go together and see that men of all sizes and shapes are happily dating. So the entire premise of your post is based on shitty data.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:59 PM
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Dumbass! You are supposed to remove that rubber triangular thingy and sit on the bar that sticks out.
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:07 PM
2

Can I just skip all that and shoot random girls in the butt with a paintball gun?
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:05 PM
1

You have to talk to the entire group so they feel comfortable with you. If there s a girl who is really bitchy, be extra nice to her. At the end of the night just say, "I'm getting out of here for a night cap: you are welcome to join me". Then start leaving.
/r/seduction17/05/24 01:01 PM
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Curious what you have to say about your male patients, because I have a feeling that while their problems might be a bit different, they are kind of the same. Edit: also low key disturbed that a guy like you, based on your previous posts, is actually trusted with treating patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:18 AM
3

The most common male to female advice is "don't be fat". Truly enlightening!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 11:09 AM
2

So you let the woman call the shots?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:41 AM
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They will be at well lit popular places in your city (clubs, bars, cocktail lounges), usually wearing redder lipstick, higher heels and shorter skirts. Look for more skin showing than usual. Inside the place, they will typically be with their back towards the bar facing the crowd with their scanning around. Usually the thoughts that go through their head is something like "I can do him", "Oh, I can do him", "Mmmm, I can do the both of them" and so on. Avoid women in large crowds, huddling up wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 10:41 AM
1

Can you do a TLDR? My adhd is not allowing me to give a fuck to read your rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:22 AM
3

So why don't you just honestly state what your expectations are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:22 AM
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Since when being a smart, humble diligent provider has been beneficial in society? Maybe that's what your nana told you you should be to get them young ladies, but if you made it past 14, you'd know none of these traits have anything to do with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:21 AM
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Women in China can absolutely do that because men outnumber women by tens of millions. Of course; it's all because parents kept killing their baby girls and now everyone is Pickachu face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:04 AM
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Women test men the way kids or dogs do: they want to see how far they can push boundaries before someone pushes back. That's how you get spoiled kids and badly behaving pets. The parent/owner lets they get away with murder and then wonder why they turned out so spoiled. Women will push boundaries to see how much they can get away with and from my experience you need to nip shit in the bud right away or else it snowballs into a bigger problem. Never let them forget that it's a privilege to be wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:02 AM
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Women love male attention. So while they may not want to get laid necessarily, they are there to either glow in the attention or if they do find a man, they can always go home with him. But the women who go to get laid are easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:41 PM
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Past doesn't matter. But you should stop getting rejected if that's your biggest fear. Why do men get rejected? Because they approach women already wanting something from them. Think about it, nobody can reject you if you don't want something from them or if you don't offer yourself up. That's why guys have so many issues with women. You approach having already made up your mind that you want to fuck her or at least get her number, have her like you, etc. It's a literal stranger, you probably sp…
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:55 PM
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Tell her you will end your life if she talks to another guy.
/r/seduction16/05/24 04:49 PM
1

Yes and? Who is pushing you to have relationships without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:47 PM
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They don't. The only power they have is the power men give them. Read the news about the OFs model who flashed the video portal between NYC and Dublin. If men weren't such horn dogs and giving such thots attention and money, those girls would be just another nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 01:22 PM
1

Sorry sir, won't happen again, sir 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:25 PM
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So here is the secret to flirting. Flirting is basically establishing an US doing something together frame. She did that several times. Talking about the two of you going to the park, getting together etc. Now it's on you to say "Hey, let's go out next Thursday. No cats! Just two sophisticated New Yorkers trying some cocktails at Bar XYZ". Take the initiative and lead. Be very concrete about asking her out. Do not say maybe we can go out some time or what are you doing this Saturday? You tell he…
/r/seduction16/05/24 11:13 AM
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People really misinterpret the meaning of "chasing" or "pursuing", equating it to "initiating". As a male I am completely comfortable initiating an interaction with a woman. It's my choice, I'm the one who decides I want to do it. All she can do is just sit there and hope she attracts the right male. At least I can go and see what she's about. Now, most men think: OMG, I have to go and talk to this woman and chase her and convince her to give me her number and convince her to come out on a date …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:07 AM
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Your reading comprehension is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:46 AM
1

Confidence is lack of fear. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:17 AM
3

What's the danger? She knows karate or kingfu? She's a special agent secret spy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:17 AM
5

A coward dies a thousand deaths, a brave man only once.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:15 AM
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Your entire worldview couldn't be more wrong. But because you believe it, it is true for you. And it is true for your friend because the men she meets believe it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:10 AM
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Another guy who wants women to twirl him around, dip him and spin him, sweep him off his feet and put on a strap on and go to town on his ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:09 AM
1

Sure you do bud
/r/seduction15/05/24 06:09 PM
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I've read your other posts and you are thinking t about this incorrectly. You do not have to be a liar and manipulator to have women. As a matter of fact, being honest with them is much more powerful. At the end of the day you are just a typical nice guy. Painting by the numbers, toeing the line, going with the crowd. You are part of an army of hundreds of millions of guys like that. Good guys, who never break the rules, who dress in shades of grey, dark green and brown so they can blend on with…
/r/seduction15/05/24 05:22 PM
1

The purpose isn't to get a yes, though.
/r/seduction15/05/24 10:14 AM
2

It's not uncomfortable. He's not asking to take a picture of your feet or spit in his mouth. It's absolutely not hurting anyone to ask a woman out. Plus he's not doing it with the intention of actually dating these women, but to simply face his fear of rejection.
/r/seduction15/05/24 02:25 AM
0

Tell me you are total loser without telling me you are a total loser.
/r/seduction15/05/24 12:39 AM
2

Extend the line a little more. Say "Hi, I'm Bob. You are really cute. I would love to grab a coffee with you some time. Here, out your number in my phone (as you hand her the phone) and I will call you tomorrow to make plans". Don't say or do anything stupid or offensive.
/r/seduction15/05/24 12:37 AM
1

Keep it to two drinks MAX.
/r/seduction14/05/24 08:33 PM
1

Funny, one of my best friends was a total playboy. In high school he just have banged more girls than most of you in a lifetime. He lost his v card at 14. Most of those HS years he didn't have 2 pennies to rub together and couldn't afford more than a cup of coffee: yet he always had girls into him. I hear his college years weren't all that different. How is it that he never spent money on woman and yet; was getting more women than most men can even dream about? I will tell you what his secret wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 08:21 PM
3

Since when courting=respect?
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:49 PM
1

Okie dokie
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:46 PM
3

Who told you that you have to court women?
/r/seduction14/05/24 05:46 PM
0

Doesn't swallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:50 PM
1

Another good one https://youtu.be/9eQVW9lwUxs?feature=shared
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:24 PM
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Found this one: https://youtu.be/9eQVW9lwUxs?feature=shared Really good
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:24 PM
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Because they have cockroaches in their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:48 PM
8

It's not decency or kindness. It's being overly nice and considerate especially in the early dating stages. Go to any of the dating advice related subs and they are full of stories of men who: -get one word answers from women on apps -men who have been stood up more than once by the same girl -men who have chased a woman for months and sometimes years -men who act as if women are doing them a major favor by taking time away from their week to go out with them. The one thing in common is how nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 03:47 PM
2

Sit down and write in great detail what exactly it is that you want. What kind of woman do you want specifically. Saying "pretty and nice, but she can also be average" is not being specific. You have to write: "I want a goth girl, that is at least a 7, she listens to the type of music I like, she treats me well, she has graduated college or is still in college, has her own car, blah blah blah". You need to decide that you want these women for. Do you just want to have ONS, FWB, a relationship? D…
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:36 PM
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Not true at all: they always blame the outside world for causing these feelings in themselves. The world doesn't care about them, gynocentricity, getting rejected, blah blah blah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:28 PM
5

A distinction without a difference. It's still a frame of "the woman has all the power and I have to be a court jester to make sure she is entertained and never looks at another guy's dick".
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:39 PM
3

Stop putting a date with a pretty woman on a pedestal. Act like you've been there before and not like you were just invited to host the Oscar's. The most important thing is to have a plan. Tell her meet me at this place at this time, or I will pick you up at this time and we will go there and do that. Have a plan, scout out the locations if you need to. The date isn't to impress her or woo her. The date is to find out if she's worthy of your time. You know nothing about this woman other than tha…
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:38 PM
2

Not too late but give up this notion that you have to entertain a woman like right now.
/r/seduction14/05/24 01:35 PM
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I don't think we read the same PPD posts and comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:42 AM
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One in a thousand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:39 AM
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😒
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 10:39 AM
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Beats me bro. I'm 42. Feeling super out of touch. But I think the general sequence is this: The male matches with a suitable and fertile female on a dating app. Male talks to the female for a couple of weeks on the app. Then, the male asks the female to give him her Instagram. She does that, so they move the conversation to Instagram. There the male spends another week or two trying to impress the female before he asks for her Snap. Once he has obtained the Snap, he has moved up in status in her…
/r/seduction14/05/24 02:26 AM
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You guys remind of that meme where a guy is riding a bike and then puts a stick in the wheel, falls down and blames someone else. Like WTF is online female attention economy? Is this the economy where dumb ass men throw their hard earned money and dignity at OF girls or buying the dirty bath water if some e-skank? And then you blame women for having all the power? When you literally threw all your power away?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:16 AM
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The toughest thing a woman will go through in her life is aging and the loss of power and privilege that comes with that. Some will desperately try to cling to every ounce of youth, whether it is cosmetic or surgical procedures OR in the case of most PPD women, they will cope with their own aging with bitterness and shaming of any man who dates roofer younger women. Sad but true. I actually have more respect for the women injecting Botox their faces than the bitter hags that want to convince you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 01:04 AM
2

You are better off reading a manual on cunnilingus. It's a universal language.
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:34 AM
1

Reading the Game and using it as a manual is like reading Mein Kampf and....well, you know.
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:33 AM
0

Is "hi" too much of a strain on your autistic brain?
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:32 AM
4

Wherever young women go to party and get laid. And no, your game won't work there.
/r/seduction14/05/24 12:31 AM
1

I would have a threesome with the two of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:30 AM
5

Typically asking women for advice on dating is "safe". The guys doing it know that women will give them platitudes and well meaning nothingburgers like: "Your person just hasn't come around yet" "It's them not you" "Dating is just tough" "You are such a great guy, I can't figure out why these bitches are being so dismissive of you" etc It's a function of how women are socialized and how they behave with each other which much more about validating their feelings than actually offering help. The f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:01 AM
1

Go fuck 10 other guys then compare who has the best dick game and go pursue him.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:35 PM
3

My advice is to learn to enjoy being single and alone. Approaching a woman will not solve any of your self esteem, anxiety or depression issues. It won't make you more respected, liked, admired, better at your job. It won't make your dick bigger, etc. Women are not magic. They are super enjoyable, smell good and there are many good times to be had with them, but don't put them on some pedestal expecting that getting dates and sex will transform you from a depressed, low self esteem nobody to the…
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:32 PM
2

To be honest, they will give you a decent understanding of why it is a problem, but probably won't really help you solve it, although the Kezia Noble video has some good advice. For that I would recommend this book: Intimate Connections by Dr. David Burns. It's kind of old and not on Kindle but you can find a free PDF copy. He is the guy who developed and popularized Cognitive Behavioral Therapy so a lot of his approach is about changing thoughts and beliefs. His podcast might be very helpful as…
/r/seduction13/05/24 08:51 PM
2

Jessica J is amazing. Kezia has a lot of good stuff as well.
/r/seduction13/05/24 08:45 PM
5

Check out Jessica J Dating on YouTube or Kezia Noble "neediness". But basically, I'm the beginning, you should show as much interest and investment as she is. The second you start showing more investment than her, it will scare women off. I've had this happen to me many time. The root cause of course is neediness (the belief that you NEED a partner/love in order to be happy/worthwhile). You need to tackle that first. It may be that you can't tolerate being alone or having ambiguity with women an…
/r/seduction13/05/24 08:03 PM
1

Right! So what makes a man a man? His genitalia? I mean it makes him of the male sex, but does it make him a man? Nope. It's something else. It's who he is on the inside and how he behaves. He know what his role is and what the woman's role is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:49 PM
1

Maybe it's how these butch lesbians make these girls feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:43 PM
1

That's only one way to have status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:43 PM
1

People lie in one of two ways. Either they offer way too much detail, which would be impossible for someone to fully remember, but they do it to try and convince you that they are telling the truth OR they offer zero detail and just brush over the event.
/r/seduction13/05/24 06:52 PM
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lol. I mean just read any comment from men on this sub. It's all "I'm inferior, I'm undesirable, I'm depressed, I'm anxious, I'm this I'm that". All of these are distorted emotions. There isn't any truth in them whatsoever. And there isn't any truth in the thoughts that create these feelings either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:50 PM
1

I mean the guy doesn't spare detail bragging about everything else but doesn't even say "yeah, her pussy was tight or her bjs were amazing". I can spot fake liars from a mile away
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:45 AM
4

I would never live with roommates.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:27 AM
4

Maybe he sensed he was losing his erection and needed a little break.
/r/seduction13/05/24 10:26 AM
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Just saying; there is therapy for your depression and anxiety. SSRIs are not it. Go do the real work with a cognitive behavioral therapist and be cured forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 10:24 AM
0

For me: high. For you? Probably 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:27 AM
1

You had me at "great ass".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:22 AM
1

Those guys always give themselves away because the whole approach and interaction was described in great detail. But when you get to the supposed sex: "and yeah, we just had sex". Like, seriously? You went through all this trouble but when you got to that promised land of sex, you could offer absolutely no detail? Hmmmmmm something fishy's going on here.
/r/seduction13/05/24 02:21 AM
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Here is the deal. Hot women don't want to stay in podunk little towns with nothing going on. That's why you only see middle aged women or very young girls there. Not much in between. All the hot young chicks moved to LA, NYC, Miami and Chicago.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 12:03 AM
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Communication and lots of foreplay. Whatever tricks the guy has learned he has to throw out the window because every woman is different and requires a different approach. Let her guide you through whether she wants it harder, softer, faster, slower, to the right, to the left. When a woman actually stops moving around and her face starts looking like a fucking alien, that's when you know you are hitting the spot. DO NOT STOP OR CHANGE ANYTHING! Keep going until she cums.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:21 PM
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When they don't swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:19 PM
4

Never send such a text ever again. You will gain nothing from texting them for feedback. I can give you your feedback right now. You went to both dates wanting to get something and that made you come across needy and they rejected you. The second you stop wanting anything from women, you will have any woman you want.
/r/seduction12/05/24 11:06 PM
2

Wow so many exceptions to the black pill rules!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:12 PM
-9

It's what happens when men try too hard and use "game".
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:01 PM
28

So much effort while your friend didn't have to do anything weird and he was hooking up with the girl within minutes. lol great "game" bro
/r/seduction12/05/24 04:29 PM
5

Only if you want to be seen as a weird stalker who is too big of a pussy to talk to her like a normal person.
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:32 PM
1

Or maybe women get off on getting degraded?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:38 PM
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lol. Bro I lived in the Midwest and traveled all around the region. I could go for weeks before I'd see a hot girl, which for me is not a daily but an hourly occurrence here in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:38 PM
3

Do me a favor. Go in the downtown area of your city and walk around alone at night, specifically around homeless and mentally unwell people. 99% of them will be men btw. Do this until you come across a situation where someone starts to aggressively ask you for money or just get aggressive with you. What will you do? Will you say "Get the fuck away from me, weirdo!" Or will you scurry away like a scared little bitch trying to avoid confrontation with a crazy person? Why do most people try to avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:48 AM
1

When you understand that the least masculine thing you can do is give women so much power over yourself including the power to shape your identity; maybe you will finally understand what masculinity actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:43 AM
1

I live in a city with a large lesbian population. Some of those butch lesbos are more masculine than the average guy walking around. And no, it ain't because they are tall and handsome. Most are actually shorter than their chicks and ugly as sin.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:41 AM
-1

So is it being tall and handsome or is is having money and status or is it being white/black or is it about having a talent (actor/musician), or is it about having a large penis or......so which one is it? Can you guys make up your minds already?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:39 AM
3

If I had to do that I would have busted out the rope many years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:37 AM
2

You literally give us zero background but already by the sound of it it seems that you were chatting with her for weeks without ever making a move.
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:31 AM
6

Generally a bad idea to ever go out with the intention of licking up women. They will smell it from a mile away. I've lived in a few major cities and every once in a while I run into weirdos who pace around a park or a book shop or a mall looking for "targets". I recognize them having been one of this guys at one time and trust me, women see you from a mile away too. It's inherently creepy, needy and weird. Normal guys never have to do this shit. Guys who get women and have a lot of bitches neve…
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:29 AM
3

Having been a loner myself, it's a symptom of larger problems. Tough pill to swallow but yeah, fix that problem with socializing and low self esteem first. Dating and relationships will not solve the inherent problem.
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:22 AM
-6

Have you been tested for autism or plain old brain damage?
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:20 AM
2

Well, it seems you ate the ignorant one and completely unaware of your ignorance.
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:19 AM
1

I loved in the Midwest but native NYer (well I've lived here for a very long time). Everyone in the Midwest is fat or wears hunting fatigues. They all blend in with the fucking environment. Men like me who stood out are constantly hit on by women. Those honeys are starved for stylish men who take care of themselves. It's actually like shooting fish in a barrel. The problem there are jaut as many women who have let themselves go as there are men. So overall, it's slim pickings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 01:16 AM
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Probably not really in the US. They enforce these things pretty hard because they don't want issues. But sure, it happens, but why the hell would you want to have sex imma gross place like that?
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:01 AM
-1

How many times do you drive from NUC to Chicago? The answer would be completely useless without understanding your goals and what exactly you are looking for. Taking your sex life more seriously is table stakes.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:59 AM
1

I still fantasize about some of the sex I've had with a couple of exes who I would frankly kill if I ever saw again.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:57 AM
5

You can only get what you are willing to let go. This plays out on so many levels that it is uncanny. The second you let go needing to have a specific outcome, the second you let go having to have a woman, get sex, get a number, the second you let go wanting to get something out of women, you get to have it all.
/r/seduction11/05/24 10:56 AM
0

How about we play a slightly different game. How about I tell you advice that has more than worked for me and that has been shot down by nearly every guy I've ever tried to help? Ready? Pay extreme attention to your looks and how you dress. Get an expensive and stylish haircut. Put product on your hair. Take a female friend shopping and ask her to help you buy stylish and attractive clothes. Burn your old wardrobe and all your clothes in shades of grey, dark green and brown. The above advice alo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:53 AM
-1

Yeah, the second point they take this to literally mean don't talk to others, don't ever go out, etc. It literally means stop being so fucking needy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:44 AM
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How else will you play out your daddy issues and kink fantasies?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:39 AM
8

You are needy and desperate and making finding a woman way too important: that's why they don't want you. Being in NYC is just going to make you feel worse because there a ton of attractive women here but you will keep striking out with them as well.
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:14 AM
5

As always look in the mirror first then look at where you are finding women. Saying that you'd do anything to be in a serious relationship is honestly giving me the worst vibes out of everything you've said.
/r/seduction11/05/24 02:06 AM
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Ngga u free to do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:43 AM
4

Women smell good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 08:30 PM
3

I'm sorry but you have no idea how to take charge and lead.
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:05 PM
4

Okay. Several mistakes here. Going out to hook up with women is the wrong frame. All you are doing is sending out needy energy, that you want to get something from them. Stop it. Change the reason you talk to women to "I'm evaluating them to see if they are worthy of my time and to see if I want to invest more in them or not". Complete change of perspective. Stop trying to impress them. The fact that you are lingering until they decide to exit the situation, shows me you are not in real control …
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:33 PM
2

You don't know that. She matched and responded. Some women have to just be shown the way. Some are salvageable.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:42 PM
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I think that guys look at approaching in the wrong way. They put it up on a pedestal, as if approaching a woman is an all or nothing affair. He either has to succeed and find his next wife OR he risks getting rejected and having his little ego crushed forever. So they put so much pressure on themselves and have all these over expectations. The reality is approaching is just the first step in the mating dance. And if you try to approach a woman so you can get something from her (approval, a phone…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:41 PM
2

How much energy do you lose by typing out a few words? If that's so energy intensive for you, you may want to consume more calories.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:26 PM
3

A few questions: For what purpose do you approach women and talk to them? What is your desired outcome? When you take the phone number, describe the situation and how you do it. Describe what kind of questions you ask (and why you want to ask them) and then exactly describe how you ask them out. Use specific examples of what you said. Don't give me generalities and ambiguous concepts. I need to understand your exact wording.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:25 PM
-5

Just in your first sentence you are making so many erroneous assumptions that it renders the rest of your argument completely useless. I'm not denying that there are men who are ready to date a woman just because she has a cute face or a nice rack and require nothing else from her. There are plenty of men like that, unfortunately, and the reality is that those type of guys are the ones who struggle the most with dating and sex. You call yourselves Nice Guys!!! After all, you will bang any girl a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:05 PM
1

If two people are talking but you don't see them being intimate, you can say something like "Wow, he is a really lucky guy to have you. If you ever dump him, give me a call". Of course, say the last part jokingly, but they may end up saying "oh no we are siblings, or we are just friends, blah blah". Then if she appears open, you can chat for a few minutes and get to know them but then excuse yourself and don't linger too much.
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:27 AM
4

Texting for days is absolutely the worst idea. If you had a very short time speaking to her, you can say: "hey this is Bob from yesterday. I know we didn't have much time to chat, but I would love to take you out and get to know you better. Let's grab a coffee at XYZ Cafe Tuesday afternoon and see where this goes". Don't make your first dates long. Spend at most an hour. Tell her that the date will only be an hour so she can plan something else after it.
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:25 AM
0

There are only two possibilities. Either you were needy, which by the way, can be just a vibe. It doesn't have to be: I called her 10 times in a row because she didn't pick up when she said she should. Every time you have expectations and wanting something to happen and trying to make it happen, that's neediness rearing its ugly head. But really the most likely culprit is bad sex. If I were you, I'd pick up some books ok sex, how to eat a girl, where the g spot is, etc. 70s porn is also good for…
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:20 AM
-1

Fucking creep
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:14 AM
5

You are not going to like my answer, but when you stop wanting to get anything from women.
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:14 AM
3

Well, treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. If you understand those words and put them in action, your sex life will change dramatically. The reality is, and OLD apparently amplifies this even more, many attractive women have their asses kissed and the ground their walk on worshipped by men. This results in them getting massive attitudes and egos, thinking they can treat men like shit. Do you blame them? Or are they simply a function of their environment, spoiled by simps and nice…
/r/seduction10/05/24 11:05 AM
0

I want to understand if you are 25 and under and whether your brain is still not fully developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:49 AM
0

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:45 AM
3

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2054949/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:44 AM
1

Oh baby, grow up. You are either an adult who can make their own decisions at 18 yo OR you are a child with an underdeveloped brain who is incapable of making adult decisions and should be treated like a pet. Can't have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:39 AM
7

I wouldn't be nice about it. I'd probably ask her if she's autistic or has a brain development problem and can only speak on single words.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:26 AM
1

Ninja please
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:22 AM
3

Yes, call them out. You guys are such pussies when a girl is pissing on you, you pretend it's raining.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:12 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:50 AM
1

On the contrary. Normal guys can absolutely have casual sex with women, but women are always afraid those guys will get clingy and start wanting more. That's why they also don't want to spoil friendships wjth men. Guys tend to get possessive and want more. If a guy is prepared to be super non/judgmental and virtually no pressure, no expectations, he can easily have sex with many of his girl friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:54 AM
1

Didn't know any men could orgasm with a flaccid penis!!! Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:51 AM
-2

It's not a numbers game.
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:51 AM
-4

What are you really hoping to accomplish here? If you are doing this solely to get rid of your fear of talking to strange women, then great. If you are doing it because you think it will get you laid, than I have bad news for you.
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:03 AM
2

No, she actually thinks you are a creep and child molester and is actually an undercover FBI agent.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:45 PM
4

It's not numbers game. Numbers game is a cope guys tell themselves because they think getting laid is just around the corner. At era dating women is about who you are, not what you do or how many you approach. You can approach a 1,000 women but if you give off the vibe that you need or want to get something from them, you will get 0. You can keep repeating the same mistake hundreds of times and it will not yield a different result.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:44 PM
2

Just call the office and ask to speak to her or to have her call you back and leave your number. Then when you get in touch, say "Hey, I didn't want to put you on the spot in front of your coworkers, but I would like to take you out on a proper date and get to know you better.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:41 PM
0

You are right about being better or on the same level but it's nothing to do with money or accomplishments. You were so close though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 11:37 PM
1

Never said he could be dating super models. Just like an average frumpy girl is not about to start dating billionaire 6'5" Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:34 PM
-1

Usually in high school clean and well groomed just means super boring and straight edge. You can't even quite formulate why girls should've in retested in you other than because you take showers and dress in clean clothes.
/r/seduction09/05/24 04:50 PM
-2

One woman's terrifying encounter with a group of men is another woman's forced gangbang fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:42 PM
3

I don't quite buy that theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:28 PM
8

I don't quite understand what you are hoping to accomplish here. If you are just observing social trends, then yeah, social media influences people a lot. It also indoctrinated people. Can you understand why a 20 year old man who hasn't lived his life, is willing to go out and mass murder innocent people and blow himself up in Palestine? Can you understand why a Russian will join the military and be sent to a Ukrainian near grinder and accept his fate without questioning it? You probably can't! …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:27 PM
2

And?
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:09 PM
-2

You sound autistic. Women don't want your "things". They can go and get those things themselves. They want you. Worry about being a guy they want. Not accumulating g things.
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:08 PM
6

There is no easing a girl. You tell them upfront what your expectations are and if she's is cool with it, great. if not, sayonara.
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:07 PM
-2

Jessica J dating.
/r/seduction09/05/24 01:05 PM
0

They are, as long as they get fucked constantly. That's why I much prefer sexually adventurous and active women, because they are more perpetually horny than a chick who hasn't gotten dick in months or years, but is considered by society at large a "good girl".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:00 PM
2

You do know that a man's penis has to actually be erect and stimulated in a specific way for him to feel pleasure, right? A flaccid penis is just an appendage that gets in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:58 PM
7

You have it wrong. I've had many casual sexual partners and women are not hung up on relationships as much as you think, although we all catch feelings and get attached. When women are saying "men want to use us for sex", they are pointing to a phenomenon that is somewhat inherent in males. Men are hunters, we are go getters. We go out to obtain things. And by extension, very often we try to obtain women and sex. But the act of trying to obtain something is the same as putting it on a pedestal a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:59 AM
18

Men really have no idea how much a woman's cycle affects her libido. Also, what a difference between men and women you pointed out on your last sentence. The less sex women have, the less horny they are. The more sex they have the hornier they get. Men are the opposite. The less sex we have, the hornier we get. And more sex we have, the less horny we get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 10:45 AM
4

Let me put it this way to you. You can never have anyone you are afraid of losing. If she's pulling away, you have already lost her anyway, may as well go completely NO CONTACT and see what happens. And I don't mean go no contact for a few hours or a couple of days. I'm talking at least a month.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:32 PM
3

If you don't see where you are chasing, read your last sentence 10-15 times.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:20 PM
1

Helping you will take a complete overhaul of your belief system. Ask yourself, what is the advantage of me chasing women? Write a list down. Then think real hard and ask yourself, what are the disadvantages of chasing women. Then ask yourself why do I need to chase women.0
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:32 PM
1

Got it. You are desperate. Not a good advisor desperation is.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:26 PM
7

lol. No sex. You are the one chasing her and trying hard to keep her interested and prove yourself with your flirty messages and what not. Can't see what could go wrong.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:16 PM
5

I love zoomers. We chatted on Facebook so she sent me her number so we can chat on WhatsApp where I will ask her for her Instagram so we chat on Insta, then from there move to Snap, where we will exchange snaps. Totally making progress bros!
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:29 PM
3

Stop being a pickme.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:39 AM
1

You suffer from the typical guy frame of "my goal is sex I've already decided just because I'm horny so now I have to prove myself to a woman so I can get sex out of her". This frame will fail you 99% of time. Decide what you want, what kind of woman you want, be super specific, not just she's nice, she has long hair, but short hair is okay too. She's under 25, but over 25 ia okay too. None of this ambiguous shit. Be very specific and then start filtering t women based on those criteria. If you …
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:31 AM
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lol, I've had women dying to go out with me after a 5 minute conversation and sometimes wanting to sleep with me that fast. And you think some chick who's been wasting your time for two weeks isn't there just toying with you and manipulating you?
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:27 AM
2

What do you want? Figure that out. What he wants doesn't matter. Figure out what you want, express ur to him, if he ia not on the same page with you, move on and find someone who fulfills your wants.
/r/seduction08/05/24 11:25 AM
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You have already went out and slept together. Don't be a doofus. Of course you can talk to her on the phone especially if she reaches out. You either haven't read his book 15 times or you are autistic.
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:58 AM
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Hey, so I will ignore the other doofuses who have no idea what they are talking about. I could barely follow the conversation that you were having, but the jist of it was "so what do you do for work, so what do you do for fun, so what are your hobbies". That's NOT how you connect with women. That's just boring everyday mundane stuff that any attractive girl will hear on dating apps five times a day. Your goal with any woman you are attracted to isn't to "get" her or to "attract" her. It is to co…
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:55 AM
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First of all, emotions are transferable. So if you feel nervous like you are dismantling a bomb, it's best not to approach. Take a few deep breaths and control your heart rate. Pretend you are doing some other exercise or stretch. If you have hesitated for months before, but you finally grew the balls to approach her, you can tell her a white lie. Tell her "hey there, I've been kind of wanting to talk to you for all this time, but I was dating someone until recently and didn't think it's right. …
/r/seduction08/05/24 10:40 AM
1

Generally women crave security the same way men crave approval. Getting commitment from a man is security. Exchanging DADDY, who guarantees her security when she was a little girl for HUBBY who will guarantee security when she's an adult. Men crave approval. We make our own security. So the security of commitment isn't appealing to us at all. But we enjoy the approval we get from having a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:32 AM
1

Better buy her a strap on for your birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:22 AM
1

Where did I advocate playing games?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:09 PM
0

Tell me that after you've tried dating women for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 08:05 PM
1

Your entire post is "am I doing enough to please you girls or are you still going to be unhappy no matter how much work I put in". But ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:25 PM
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But not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:59 PM
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Stop trying to desperately prove yourself to women dude. Just stop it. You are digging yourself into a deeper hole psychologically. You are fine. You already have all the qualities that you need for women to be interested in you. You just need to learn how to express those better. Stop trying to notice yourself to women in an attempt to get them and obtain them. Start thinking "does she interest me? Is she worthy of my time? How will she make MY life better?" Focus on ME, ME, ME and less on THEM…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:51 PM
1

Correct. But realistically, guys will try the hardest when you make them work for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:12 PM
1

People never want what they can get and only what they can't get. While, logically people will say they have people who play games, the reality is if someone is too "easy", the other person assumes that they have them in their pocket and don't have to try as hard. They may even be tempted to see if they can do better. I don't advocate playing games, but one has to be in control of how they communicate especially in the early stages of a relationship without coming on too strong or needy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:42 PM
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You are viewing this from the perspective of a guy who has zero options (a lot of guys) and probably doesn't have much of a life. Women are very good at reading between the lines of communication. That is, HOW you communicate tells a lot about WHAT you communicate as opposed to what you ARE communicating. Here are some examples: If you are available and reply too fast and write paragraphs in response, a woman will read into this that you don't have a life, you are not busy, you sit around and wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:36 PM
1

Maybe because men are the actual pickers and choosers?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:29 PM
1

I will smile and say hi as an acknowledgement that I find her attractive. If she smiles back and say hi, I will stop and say "I'm Bob, what's your name? Sooooooo....do you just randomly hit on guys in the produce section, or is there something special about me?"
/r/seduction07/05/24 05:13 PM
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Well then point is to get over your fear of rejection. To do that, approach 15 women with the goal of getting rejected. Don't say or do anything stupid. Just pull out your phone, go up to an attractive woman and say "Hi, I thought you were really cute, so I wanted to come over and say hi. I would love to take you out for a drink one of these days. Here, why don't you put your number in my phone and I will call you tomorrow to arrange something". That's it. Go and get rejected 15 times (meaning t…
/r/seduction07/05/24 05:11 PM
1

Okay yes very good idea. Highly recommended
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:29 PM
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My top requirement for a woman is to have a PhD in sucking dick. You don't earn that by staying home on Saturday night.
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:23 PM
0

What is that?
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:20 PM
3

You've learned wrong.
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:43 PM
3

First, you gotta get out of that paradigm of "girl has something I want (phone number, attractive body parts, sex!) and I need to figure out how to extract it from her". It does nothing but create the dynamic where you are chasing her, she's the trophy you have to obtain, etc. It actually creeps women out because it's the same thing that rapists and serial killers do - they want to obtain their victims. And why would you want someone that you know nothing about? You don't buy a car without looki…
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:36 PM
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First of all, the Game was not written as a manual for socially awkward guys to go out and bother women on the street with "I need a female opinion" openers. It was intended as a rebuke of the shallow and vapid lifestyle of so called pickup artists. Look up what happened to the main characters in the book. Mystery? Attempted suicide twice and his baby mama got full custody of his kid. RSD? Most of them are wanted in other countries for sexual harassment. The guy who rewrote the book? I think he'…
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:20 PM
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Because women don't go to the library to get laid.
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:17 PM
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So you are saying I should start with a neg instead of a compliment?
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:04 AM
1

They are shocked because that's a socially retarded way of approaching.
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:03 AM
3

You spent your entire interaction talking about another guy who was up in the at pussy and you are asking if you were too nice?
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:02 AM
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No.
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:01 AM
1

Oh god another one. Who should tell him?
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:01 AM
2

It goes deeper than this. The entitlement and bitterness comes from considering love a basic human NEED. While this may sound logical and factual, the reality is that this idea is mostly the result of social conditioning and brainwashing. We get constant messages like: "All you need is love, love is all you need", "I will die without you", "love is the most powerfully force in the universe", "people who need people are the luckiest people" and so on and so forth. We are constantly bombarded by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:59 AM
1

Why is she wearing so much expensive make up when I'm going to cum on her face anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:40 AM
1

I always give women a choice. I'm happy to pay for dinner but then you HAVE TO put out. If we split the check, then you get to choose if you want to put out or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:38 AM
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I slept with my now wife on our first date. We also had anal on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:41 AM
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Your post actually shows me that while maybe you approach, you are definitely not getting laid nearly enough for the effort that you are putting into it. The stuff you preach is exactly the stuff that I tell everyone to avoid.
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:27 PM
3

Because men don't want to face the reality that the only way they can have all their power is by not depending on women for their happiness and fulfillment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:24 PM
4

Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 08:23 PM
4

Not true at all. Just that most men have no idea how to communicate with women and get them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 07:49 PM
2

You wouldn't believe how horny and naughty women actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 06:41 PM
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My point was that she campaigned for soft on crime policies and antagonized the police and now is suffering the consequences (we all are).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:46 PM
0

Dude are you serious right now? You are comparing stats to 1990? How about to just a few years ago? Everyone can compare stats to the 70s and 80s and say "hey it's not THAT bad". Be smarter than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:12 PM
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Violent assaults are way up. Murder rates aren't the only thing brother. Stop repeating stupid woke liberal talking points. I can easily give you a bunch of facts about inflation being much lower under Trump, less wars, etc. They are all true as long as you want to cherry pick statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:05 PM
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Bro, I've lived here since the 90s. Right now shit is terrible and back to the Dinkins years. Only Giuliani and Bloomberg were able to clean up the city because they weren't woke nutjobs. They knew you can't fight crime with catch and release and Mets tickets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:58 PM
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Bullshit. We have an "anything goes" DA now in NYC and the crime rates are through the roofs. Homeless people pushing people in front of subway trains, minorities who think they have a free license to mug and punch people. Stabbings and shootings every day. Back in the day we had a 3 strikes and you are out policy and let me tell you, the city was much safer back then. Now everyone wants to coddle the criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:38 PM
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I shit you not. I'm Facebook friends with former coworker of mine. Female and Asian. I'm 2020 she posted a long rant about defunding the police, restorative justice, blah blah blah. Not a year later, she posted: "Hey all, due to the anti-Asian violence lately, I've been taking this self defense class that I want to recommend". It's like woke liberals can't see further than their own nose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:36 PM
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I have a feeling a lot of you are autistic or socially regarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:32 PM
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Of course she is allowed to disagree just not in a disrespectful manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:08 PM
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Because men don't say anything. Any time my wife gives as much as a cross word, she gets called out immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:57 PM
0

Aka psychopathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:32 AM
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DO NOT CALL WOMEN OUT LIKE THAT. You may think it's cute or confident but it will come across too strong and jarring. They are just as shy and anxious as you are or even more. If you call them out like this, it will embarrass them and they will act like they weren't interested at all. Just say something innocent like "Hi, do I know you from somewhere?"
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:02 AM
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Okay, here is how I approached in a similar situation: girl is working on her laptop, with headphones on, but not those ear buds, the big cans, she is wearing reflective sunglasses. And by the way, there is a ring of fire around her. And outside of that ring of fire, there are men with machine guns. And they are surrounded by a perimeter of barbed wire. Oh and by the way! All of this is happening underwater while I'm scuba diving. Dude, don't be such a fucking needy and desperate loser that you …
/r/seduction06/05/24 10:57 AM
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It's called psychopathy. And when he is talking about sharing first time experiences, he probably means the first time he gets to tie a woman up in his basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:51 AM
2

PPD men remind of that meme where a guy is riding a bike and then puts a stick in his own front wheel and crashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 10:46 AM
1

You seem to be obsessed with who women are fucking and not fucking. Maybe a little clue - it ain't you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:19 PM
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99% of the people there wish they had the balls to approach an attractive stranger.
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:47 PM
2

Brilliant! The shortest path from A to B is a straight line.
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:46 PM
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Most newbies use high standards as an excuse not to approach.
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:42 PM
2

Some women just enjoy sex and they don't give two fucks about what some incel on a Reddit forum thinks of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:17 PM
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I can't stand nice girls. They are like having a puppy. Utterly useless pushovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:14 PM
1

That could be a problem, but it's probably not. Women will be happy to hear from you if they dug, but yeah, if you text them at 7am it's kind of desperate. What are your interactions like? Why do you take their number? Just because you want to get laid is not a good reason. Have these women been hitting your list of requirements to date you? Oh, you don't have one! Then get busy making one.
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:13 PM
1

You have to try really hard not to use your humor to get other peoples approval.
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:11 PM
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Dating multiple women is a lot of work.
/r/seduction05/05/24 06:10 PM
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There are a lot of things people do wrongly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:02 PM
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Oh yeah, sex and hooking up are sooooo 2010.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:01 PM
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Men are the prize and the choosers - if they just approached dating the right way. Women don't want to be the prize. They want to open their legs for the prize and for the man who chooses them!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:00 PM
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I just wrote a War and Peace novel to explain what you so eloquently described in two sentences.
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:41 PM
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99.99% of pua advice is completely regarded and wrong. I did the whole "go out and approach 50 women a day" thing for years and my results were atrocious. Wanna know why? It's not about the act of approaching, although approaching is better than sitting home and jerking off. There are many normal men who get laid more than all of the pick up artists without having to do nearly as much work. What trips guys up is actually neediness. Neediness happens to be the biggest turn off for women and appro…
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:39 PM
5

You are doing it wrong. Don't invite them to your place. Invite them to a secluded park or a dark alley at night. Works much better!
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:08 PM
5

There better be enough bananas on that island for all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 02:02 AM
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Where did he say that?
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:38 AM
3

Lol no it's not.
/r/seduction05/05/24 01:30 AM
1

For there to be a gatekeeper of something, it must mean that there is another person who wants to obtain that thing. What happens when you don't care whether you obtaining sex or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 01:28 AM
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Can the mods just ban these threads? I mean the retarded mods are fine banning any other moderately intelligent threat BUT not this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:29 PM
1

Thats fine. Sounds more like insecurity that you won't be able to measure up, but whatever. But is that it? That's your requirement for a woman? Not very discerning if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 09:26 PM
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Maybe the frustration men feel is because they are approaching women and dating in the wrong way? As in, they think women are the prize and that they need them and so they have to impress them and prove themselves to women? And when that inevitably doesn't work, they cope by saying it's high standards and modern women are impossible, instead of seeking the fault in their own approach and behavior? Ask yourself this: who do men have to impress women or prove themselves to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 06:28 PM
1

I think you've lost the plot buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:58 PM
1

I'm asking on a personal not societal level. So are you saying that women don't need romance and love then? And if they don't need romance and love why do men need those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:55 PM
1

What do men need women for exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:50 PM
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Why would desirable men complain about dating? Makes zero sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:45 PM
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When men stop getting something out of feeling sorry for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 05:16 PM
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What mating dance do men have to do? Because in all my relationships it has always been the women trying very hard to impress me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:46 PM
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lol, the peacocking phenomenon was invented by a loser nerd magician who couldn't get bitches. Don't lump all men into that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:45 PM
0

Enjoying attention and NEEDING attention are two extremely different things. I like to work out, dress well and smell well because I find myself sexy. And when I find myself sexy, so do other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:44 PM
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Glad you finally realized the greatest secret women have that will set you free. Yes! Men are the true prize. If you think about it, what do you need women for? To continue your genes? There are many women who can do that for you? To have sex with? Again, many! Or you could just jerk off and be fine. But women truly need men, they just don't want you to know, because the one who needs least, has all the power. Interestingly; the majority of men seem to cuck themselves by convincing themselves th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:42 PM
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What are you standards? How do you filter women? Because all I hear is as long as she is not a whale and has to have less than 3 n-count. wtf is that? What are her values, what people does she hang out with, how does she treat you, her parents; her pets? You need to be very specific. The more discerning you are, the more you will give off an aura that not everyone can get on this ride and this attracts women because people in general only want what they can't get. So do you actually have standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:24 PM
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That was not the question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:22 PM
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It's a thought exercise. If you don't want to play that's fine.0
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:31 PM
1

How would you go about giving her a massive ego?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:30 PM
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Okay, sounds like your conversations are not engaging at all. Stop talking about hobbies and what they like. Ask experiential questions. Like "Oh wow, you are from Hawaii! What was it like growing up there?" "You went on vacation in Spain? What did you love about it?" Then you have to make sure you are sharing stuff about yourself as well: "I just love new experiences and having this opportunity to live in the US. How about you?" Or "what do you think?". Conversations about hobbies, where they a…
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:47 PM
1

After week of meeting and texting everyday? Am I missing something here or are you lying?
/r/seduction04/05/24 11:20 AM
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I'm definitely not attracted to average women whatsoever, with one exception - if I am extremely desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:09 AM
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It means you came on too strong, needy and desperate and that turned her off. She wanted to have some fun with a guy and you are way more invested in this than she is.
/r/seduction04/05/24 11:04 AM
2

What is your desired outcome on these dates? What are you hoping is going to happen?
/r/seduction04/05/24 11:02 AM
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The irony is they absolutely can experience the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:51 PM
10

Well, what did you expect from an Internet forum where men take pride in having zero standards for women and being willing to literally take "anything" as long as someone will have them. I just don't understand how they can possibly think this will make them even remotely appealing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:50 PM
2

That's like your opinion, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:49 PM
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You have two different realities. One reality men are the selectors and the prize. In a different reality, populated by different men but somehow coexisting in our reality, women are the selectors, they have all the power and men are powerless. Both realities coexist in the same spacetime continuum. The only difference is in the thought process of the observer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:46 PM
1

Again, you are looking at male/female interactions from the perspective of having to earn something. You want something from women. You want to obtain them, get them, extract sex and validation from them or whatever. That's why you see any interaction with a woman as you pursuing, because you want something so badly out of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:23 PM
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You just haven't seen hungry people or people who have food and water insecurity. They are generally not very happy about it. The point is, lack of food and water will kill you. Lack of sex, it may make you a bit more uptight, but it's not fatal or even detrimental to your health. Which is great news! It means you don't have to be so fucking desperate and needy for it. So finally instead of treating women like some prize and putting them on a pedestal going to earn their sex, you can actually ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:40 PM
3

Interior decorator? His apartment looked like shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:34 PM
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You are not getting it. Pursuing means that one party is more invested in making the other party interested. When you go to Starbucks and say "Hi, I would like a venti Orange Mocha Frappuccino" are you pursuing the barista? When I say "hello" to a woman, I'm not pursuing her. Simply initiating a conversation. She may want to talk to me OR she may tell me to get lost. In any case, I have no investment in trying to make her interested. On the contrary, if she tells me to stick a finger up my ass, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:01 PM
1

Ya dig fo' shizzle
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:00 PM
3

He killed 16 Czechoslovakians. Guy was an interior decorator.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:48 PM
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Men who want women to approach them just want to play the damsel in distress and have women come and sweep them off their feet. They are cowards. On the other hand, I don't believe men should ever pursue. They should initiate but not with the intent to pursue a woman, rather with the intent to find out if she is interesting to him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:34 PM
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You know what black people like? When you ask then touch their hair. Also ask them if they live on trees in their country. Also ask them if they are surprised you can buy milk at the store instead of having to get it directly from a cow. I see a bright future for you my son.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:46 PM
0

Hmmm. Being very loud and telling you she came is usually a sign she faked it. Maybe work on those pussy eating skills.
/r/seduction03/05/24 11:00 AM
1

Those go hand in hand
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:53 AM
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And do you know why this terrifies so many men and they want to fight tooth and nail for the old system? Because they are afraid they cannot compete on the free market. That they have nothing else to offer other than "things". But women can now easily get "things" as well. So it means they may have to develop their personality, work on their looks and how they communicate with women. But that's hard!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:53 AM
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You want someone more attractive than you are getting, but it's woman who are the evil hypergamous bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:46 AM
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You probably want it too much. The less you chase sex with them, the more they want to give it to you.
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:42 AM
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Mother Nature is way more weird than you think. For example, do you know how when you have sex and cum, you just want to roll over and sleep. But women always seem energized and want to do stuff? This may have evolved in our tribal past, when a woman would fuck one guy from the tribe, he'd roll over and go to sleep, she'd then sneak out and go fuck another guy and another until she's finally satisfied. Women can have multiple orgasms easily with little refraction period. Most men need quite some…
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:39 AM
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Very understandable. For a long time, I used the idea of being able to go out and pick up a woman to overcompensate for not being that popular in school. In a very insecure way, I was using women to feed my own ego and putting way too much pressure on them for something that had nothing to do with them. It's just some shit that you have to process and put to the side of the road, because carrying that shit around makes for a very stinky cologne. Take some time off too. Spend some time in your ow…
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:35 AM
0

How do you know she really enjoyed the sex? Were her orgasms really loud and vocal? Did she reach it relatively fast?
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:25 AM
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I love flirting. You sound overly serious and insecure. People who don't like or understand the mating dance often are.
/r/seduction03/05/24 10:23 AM
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Why are you so attached to the idea that sex and love are a basic human need? Does believing that help you get them easier? Because from what I've observed, anyone who believes sex and love are needed for their happiness have extreme troubles getting both. And people who don't consider them all that important and have learned to be happy with themselves, seem to get both sex and love very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:21 AM
3

Just don't be a negger.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:35 AM
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You give them a good snack on the ass and tell them to go make you a sandwich.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:33 AM
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Not high, just brain damaged then.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:45 AM
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How's that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:38 AM
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Are you high?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:37 AM
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Sure, when you are a child you need a loving parent or caretaker. You need food, sunshine, water, shelter. Do you need sex? Most people survive just fine not having sex for the first 15-20+ years of their lives. Some never have it. Why is it a basic human need exactly? Telling yourself that it's a basic human need is the actual problem. That's what creates the resentment. Not the fact that you aren't getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:29 AM
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If you sit and watch you are essentially telling her you are the biggest cuck in the world, leaving your girl to fend of male competitors and potential rapists. Can't think of anything more lame than that.
/r/seduction03/05/24 12:24 AM
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Why would you get aggravated that someone doesn't want to give you something that you don't need? Unless you keep telling yourself that you desperately need it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:14 AM
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Here is a video explaing what you need to do: https://youtu.be/Pjh7l-SbPS8?si=np26CIVk5h8Z9OPR
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:07 AM
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When you perceive/believe that sex is a basic human need AND only the opposite sex can presumably fulfill that basic need, you are effectively saying that women OWE you sex. And if they don't GIVE you their sex, it surely means they are actively DEPRIVING YOU of your basic human need. THIS is what creates feelings of entitlement and then bitterness. The reality is men don't need women nearly as much as women need men. If you don't believe me, here is the explanation from an actual woman: https:/…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:05 AM
2

You just want women to be the ones to sweep you off your feet and slay the dragon. Keep dreaming.
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:33 PM
1

Literally zero references are provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:03 PM
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Nothing kills libido like cohabitating and monogamy. Nothing. It's just the reality. All the dishwashing and childcare stuff is just an excuse, a cope, that saves you from having to admit that what everyone in your life told you should make you happy: get married to one person for the rest of your life, get a house with a white picket fence, take yourself out of the terrible and stressful dating game, make babies!!! All of this stuff turns out is not that amazing after all, but we just can't rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 07:34 PM
1

Introduce the concept of "us" in the conversation. For example: "You mentioned liking the outdoors in your profile. I love riding my bike on XYZ trail. How about you?" "Oh yeah, I like hiking but I also love riding my bike. Awesome to hear you do these trails. They look very scenic" "Oh my god, love that you ride a bike. I'm totally gonna race you down main street, unless you chicken out of course. I'm warning you right now, you will lose!" Blah blah blah blah blah blah
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:42 PM
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I think I discovered all of men's problems with women. Lack of functioning brain cells.
/r/seduction02/05/24 06:38 PM
1

Do you think that constantly talking about your inability to get bitches will somehow make you more attractive to women? What is the objective here exactly? You seem to be more interested in getting back at women for whatever perceived slights as opposed to improving your situation and actually getting ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 06:37 PM
1

Wrong question and totally wrong approach.
/r/seduction02/05/24 04:13 PM
-8

Most people try hard not to show their retardation on public forums. You failed.
/r/seduction02/05/24 11:49 AM
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Stop trying to get something out of women. Stop trying to impress them, hit on them, seduce them, create attraction, create interest. Just stop stop stop. When women talk about objectification, they aren't saying "don't you dare find my body sexy", what they are trying to tell me is "stop trying to obtain me like I'm some kind of an object/trophy you need to have". Let me give you an analogy that uses other men. Let's say you meet a guy through friends. It turns out that he works in a field or a…
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:57 AM
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OMG comments here are so pathetic. Why are guys so bent on winning the Victim Olympics at all cost?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:45 AM
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I fucked Eastern European, I fucked a mixed chick; I fucked black, Mexican, Peruvian, Guatemalan, Italian, Asian, Bangladeshi, Indian, Brazilian, and plain white American. If I didn't get hitched I would have loved to fuck one of every nationality in the world. Didn't get to it. My biggest regret. My point is, men may have a type but that doesn't mean we are not attracted to other types of women. Your point is totally regarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:47 AM
2

Your mom's place. With your mom.
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:09 AM
4

Not as bad as having zero girlfriends.
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:09 AM
1

Muscle makes you look better in tailored clothes and naked. It doesn't do anything for confidence. Getting over your fears does though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:44 PM
2

Regarded take of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 08:45 PM
3

Tell them they are too young for you and can't handle an older guy with experience like you.
/r/seduction01/05/24 06:48 PM
3

Make eye contact and smile. If she doesn't even acknowledge you, not all hope is lost, but the ideal scenario is that she looks at you and smiles as well. In this case, a simple hi will do the trick. Sometimes very good looking women avoid making eye contact or acknowledging others at all, because they don't want to give anyone the idea that they are actually approachable. If she doesn't make eye contact, you can try this. Approach her like she is an old friend and say "you look like you have so…
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:40 PM
0

Whatever helps you sleep better at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:36 PM
0

I appreciate your skepticism, but both of them were at the hotel for unrelated work stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:35 PM
1

I'm flattered but as my OP said, I'm married :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:32 PM
0

Are you hitting on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 02:14 PM
0

I look like a Hollywood actor. I take care of my body, grooming and dress impeccably. I work out 5 days a week and have 14% bf. The way I make myself attractive to women is that I don't try to actively make them interested in my, I'm not trying to get them, obtain them, win them over or prove myself to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 01:49 PM
1

Actually both of them were trying very hard to get me to sleep with them, which I wouldn't do (I'm married). But I know it's hard for some men to imagine what being desired feels like, so they come up with excuses to put other people down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:22 AM
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Young people are socially retarded. They don't speak to strangers, etc. They are awkward, including good looking women. I was recently at a conference and got hit on by a woman in her late 40s to early 50s. Very good looking, great shape, does modeling on the side and later on by a 38 year old porn star. They were both so easy to strike up a conversation with. But with someone half their age that is used to having conversations over text, speaking to a stranger is way too scary and uncomfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:41 AM
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Eastern Europe doesn't simp for westerners like Thailand does. We are white, usually good looking, athletic, we speak the language. The only advantage a westerner has is maybe a little more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:37 AM
0

I can't believe these drifters still make money off of suckers .
/r/seduction01/05/24 10:17 AM
3

It's the same logic as: why would you spend a $1M on an apartment in NYC and not buy a mansion for the same money in North Dakota? There is a reason why one place is more desirable than the other and why 8M people live in NYC and why North Dakota's (the entire state) population isn't even 800K (they have some of the worst female to male ratios too).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:11 AM
2

The crux of the problem is that most wannabe pick up artists want something out of women. Whether it's validation for their attractiveness as men, her number or simply sex. The way most gurus teach this is to treat the woman like a trophy that needs to be obtained, which is very similar to how serial killers and rapists see their victims. As things. Things they can posses and eventually hurt/kill. That's why the whole approach of "you are pretty, give me your number" is seen as so creepy by wome…
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:21 AM
2

I'm not a fan of hiding my intentions and having long conversations about the weather. Usually if I talk to a woman, we have already established through eye contact that there is interest/curiosity/attraction. I think you are on the right track, but making the classic mistake of thinking you have to be platonic and hide your intentions. The key to being successful at a cold approach is to treat the interaction as simply the beginning stage of an evaluation into whether she is someone worthy of y…
/r/seduction01/05/24 03:16 AM
1

You have already missed out and lost because of your fear of missing out. If you approach her because you already want her because she has a nice set of tits or a pretty face, you have already lost. Never make up your mind about a woman based on her looks. Looks are like the opening gambit in a chess game. A "hello, how are you doing". It's like seeing something in the window of a shop that gets your attention. You don't go in and tell the sales person: give me 10 of these, I just saw them from …
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:46 PM
2

I think guys struggle with the second point the most. They get needy and they chase. They feel they need to try and get a woman, try to win her over and I'm the process making it much worse for themselves. It takes a certain amount of overcoming a deep seated fear to completely let go of the outcome, I.e. not give a fuck if you successfully attract a woman or not.
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:40 PM
1

What is your objective? What do you want? Just to lose your virginity? The easiest way to do this is get a fresh haircut, brand new clothes. Sleep in the afternoon and wake up at midnight. Down a red Bull, shit shower and shave and head out to the bars and clubs and hour before closing time. The only girls left are the ones who want to hook up. Do this until you take a girl home. But once you complete that mission, then what?
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:38 PM
1

Ok lol. YouTube Brent Smith Bulletproof Banter.
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:36 PM
0

No caps. You look like an insecure loser
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:35 PM
1

A few mistakes: Don't ask women when they are free. You are punting the ball over to them when the ball should always be in your possession. You are the man. Lead. Period. Say: "I want to take you out so we can get to know each other better. How is this Thursday or Friday evening?" If she can't, she can suggest another day. She told you she is available a week or whatever from now. That's fine. Schedule the date. Don't be a loser excuser who thinks she will forget about you and stumble on anothe…
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:29 PM
1

Why would you want to deal with a person like this? The only reason is because you are desperate loser.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:51 PM
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No, not a good idea. You don't want your parents to think their precious little son is actually interested in girls.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:50 PM
1

Why would you reward her with a second date? You are still chasing pussy instead of figuring out what you want and filtering women out for that. You are willing to overlook lack of chemistry, attraction and red flags just because you are desperate to get laid.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:50 PM
1

The only time I had a girl in my bed who I didn't fuck was when I had too much to drink and passed out.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:49 PM
1

It's gone bro
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:47 PM
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Treat a whore like a queen and queen like a whore. The goodies you need to treat like whores.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:47 PM
1

The harder you try, the less attracted women are.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:26 PM
2

Go out to have fun, enjoy yourself, meet new people. Once you have a goal of doing this or that with a girl, your neediness has already taken over and then you get this: https://youtu.be/x__qSr6WWIU?si=KDnkLA9GY4baCVHK
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:05 PM
3

It's sounds like a very bad plan tbh.
/r/seduction26/04/24 11:01 PM
3

They don't want female friends. They want female vaginas. That's the problem with this obsession over NEEDS. A woman is not a human being who has her own feelings, interests, personality and emotional needs. She is simply the thing that can fulfill his neediness. An object to be acquired. It's kind of terrifying to women apparently: https://youtu.be/x__qSr6WWIU?si=KDnkLA9GY4baCVHK
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:55 PM
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You are preaching to the choir sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:52 PM
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Believe it or not, but the solution is for them to hang out with more men. Yeah, not joking. Hanging out with other men, soaking up their masculine energy is good for men. When we were tribal, then men would fuck off to hunt and find new sources of food. They weren't hanging out with the women all day. But when men lack male camaraderie and a purpose in life, they naturally turn to women to fill this gap. But women don't want the burden so they feel rejected and lonely. I keep telling them the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:47 PM
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I understand your frustration, just trying to help. Remember. She is the rightful owner of her vagina and she can do whatever she wants with, including not using it, stuffing a huge cucumber in there or giving it to a large farm animal. You don't have any squatter rights to her vagina. And by the same token, she doesn't own your penis. Just let it go.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:44 PM
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"I need some space" means "please leave me alone, there is ZERO chance we will ever get back together". You are about to get weird because you are talking about how much this is irritating you. You sound entitled to a relationship or something. Just let it go and stop being weird and creepy.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:21 PM
2

Ironically, it applies the most in romantic/sexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:12 PM
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You came on too strong and she was turned off. Probably made her feel suffocated or trapped and she wanted out before you got weird. And it sounds like you are about to get very weird.
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:51 PM
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I think you are completely misunderstanding the point I am trying to make with my original post. You seem to be stuck in this idea that you have to be an asexual, apathetic guy not interested in women in order to attract them. This is not at all what I am trying to say. Let me phrase it in a different way. Neediness is the result of having the self defeating belief that love is a requirement for happiness. In order words, you believe you are NOT capable of happiness or feeling good about yoursel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:46 PM
1

Do you want me to tell you it's the women OR do you want me to tell you the real reason you are having this problem? Just checking before I write anything.
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:18 PM
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Dude, do you think I was born married to my wife? Do you think people are born already knowing the people they will end up sleeping with or having relationships with? We were all strangers before we got together! Look, I don't want to convince you my way is the right way. It's probably not. All I know is that I struggled immensely with dating and once I gave up neediness and learned to be happy with myself, my dating problems disappeared. Just offering my perspective. You do you although by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:13 PM
1

Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:54 PM
2

Why would I want to leave my partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:54 PM
1

I completely understand your hesitation and mixed feelings about it. It seems you find more advantages to believing you need love in order to be happy. Since your happiness and fulfillment are solely dependent on love, I truly hope you can find it easily so you don't have to keep denying yourself happiness. Let me know how it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:17 PM
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I just gave you like 5 different reasons why being needy is actively sabotaging your ability to get into a relationship. You sound like you have a reading comprehension problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:13 PM
-2

Okay cool. Whatever works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:27 PM
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You are misunderstanding my point. The feelings of inferiority are caused by the self defeating belief that love/relationships are a basic human need. Let me give you an example. If I was not able to feed myself or drink water, which are basic human needs, I would probably feel inferior to others who can do that. I'm unable to fulfill an actual physical need that can kill me. Make sense? However, my argument is that love is not a basic (and adult) human need, so there is no reason to feel inferi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:58 PM
0

Have you ever heard of the expression "the hungry don't get fed"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:54 PM
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There are no disadvantages to love and relationships, but where are a lot of disadvantages to believing love and relationships are an absolute requirement for happiness. One of those disadvantages is that the belief creates neediness, which always turns other people off, paradoxically making it much harder for the person who believes they need love in order to be happy to actually find love in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 03:43 PM
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I'm not denying that we definitely have a drive and desire to be close to others. Not needing love doesn't mean that you should shun it and never talk to another human being. I'm not at all saying there is anything negative about relationships or love or sex. I'm trying to point out that there are many negative sides to believing you NEED love in order to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:56 PM
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You are not crazy. You just don't like yourself, but you expect others will like you. Do you even like men for who they are or only for how they can fulfill your emotional needs? Had your addiction to love actually gotten you that wonderful hunk that you so much desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:47 PM
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Sure, I'm a woman 🙄. People will die due to lack of food and water. Do people die due to lack of sex? Haven't met any one who has died of that yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:41 PM
1

You will be bored because you find yourself boring. But a man is supposed to find you interesting and charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:40 PM
3

They have an aversion to men because so many of you are so fucking needy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:36 PM
5

They never can comprehend that it is that focus on what they think they lack that is actually making them so unattractive to women. If a woman had a choice between a guy who is happy with himself and his life and is fulfilled going places VERSUS a guy who is needy, lacking, sad and miserable, has no life....which one do you think she'll pick?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:31 PM
2

I think you see yourself as a threat because you are not comfortable being you. Others just pick up on that and reject you because you already rejected yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:29 PM
2

You are just afraid of being alone. There is no guarantee your husband or boyfriend f will take care of you if you get sick. He may dip because he doesn't want the responsibility. There is no guarantee he will take care of you. There are services and hospitals which will take care of you if you get sick or disabled. If you lose your job, you can get unemployment and seek help from the state to get another job. Your fears are irrational. You see a man as a provider of security not as a human bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:28 PM
1

So you hate spending time with yourself but you expect a man will love spending time with you? Although you cannot even stand yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:24 PM
0

If you can't even enjoy your own company why should a woman enjoy your company?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:23 PM
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Sister, I've been preaching this on this sub for years. They never listen. The most ironic thing is that clinging to the idea that they desperately need a woman or a relationship to feel whole and complete is actively preventing them from finding such a relationship. Why? Many reasons! Needy people (people who believe they need a relationship to be happy) turn others off with their neediness. They are basically saying "Take me, I'm worthless without another person, I don't even like myself". And…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:06 PM
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What's your question?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:38 PM
19

While you are figuring all of this out the other guy is busting a nut on her face.
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:48 AM
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Why are you pursuing women in the first place? No wonder you get rejected.
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:47 AM
1

I mean if you an are just going to hover around like a creep and stalk her then what are we talking about here?
/r/seduction26/04/24 10:36 AM
-2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:43 AM
1

Did you forget to take your pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:30 AM
7

Honestly, not having a purpose in life. And I don't mean just getting pussy. Actually, even if that was their purpose I'd respect that. But guys don't even want to do that. They've completely given up on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:18 AM
-2

I would rather fuck them than empathize with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:17 AM
3

What about them? Stop worrying about getting girls and start worrying about whether they are interesting to you.
/r/seduction26/04/24 01:45 AM
2

What effort is exactly so much? Moving your ass from where there are no girls to where the girls are? Omg!'n the Herculean effort!
/r/seduction26/04/24 01:45 AM
8

She's stringing you along and you are too dumb to realize that.
/r/seduction26/04/24 01:36 AM
0

Well how did he meet them to ask them out in the first place?
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:40 PM
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Oy vey
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:31 PM
1

Yeah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:26 PM
1

The Block Account feature can be found in the bottom right hand corner, click the three dots (...) menu
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:25 PM
1

Womp womp
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:22 PM
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Men and women are socialized very differently as children and teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:22 PM
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Congrats now go get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:08 PM
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Take a step back and try to dispassionately remember the conversations you had with them plus their reactions, body language etc. give us a run down here and we will try to pinpoint the cause. It is probably nothing that you are doing wrong. Probably something that you are just NOT doing.
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:56 PM
2

Ask your mom to sacrifice a chicken and to create a potion to give him so he can fall in love with you. If that's not an option, just communicate your needs to him openly and see where the chips fall.
/r/seduction25/04/24 07:19 PM
1

Exactly. No matter how clear you make it that you are not exclusive, never rub it in their faces that you are dating others.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:13 PM
1

My bro, you don't need permission from anyone to hit on the girls you want. I think you asking for permission gave her the idea that she can had your balls in her hand and can do whatever she wants with them. Plus you need to be the one establishing the rules of the relationship. Stop taking cues from women on how you should live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:11 PM
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If you are the type of men I see around me who are fucking, you'd probably look like Prince Charming compared to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 07:07 PM
1

I'm just making fun of your sunny disposition and sense of humor!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:38 PM
2

Yeah brother, you have been brainwashed by society to feel worthless unless you have some achievements that society values. Scaling new peaks, going where no man has gone before. It is literally just a condition that you have placed on yourself, withholding your happiness and self esteem until you achieve something society wants out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:31 PM
3

I mean if you are there for a couple of nights, just say "I'm here for a couple of nights but would love to spend at least one of them between the two of you." Just be direct but in a non-needy way. You never know. They may say yes. You don't have to beat around the bush.
/r/seduction25/04/24 03:23 PM
1

Okie dokie
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:42 PM
3

The only reason you'd feel inferior to women because they get more attention is if you want to be a woman who is getting attention from men and wants to be swept off her feet. You are a man. You make your own way. I don't look at women as the prize. I am the prize. I have something they want. I feel bad for you that you don't believe you have something women want. Maybe you need to figure out what that is first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:33 PM
1

That's not what a leader is. A leader is someone who can say "Don't worry, I got this handled". What THIS is can be anything from picking the place and time to go on a date, suggesting a cocktail or a dish to her that you like, walking her to her car, kissing her, giving her the assurance that you know what you are doing and can get the job done in the bedroom. You don't need to be Superman. Just a man who is knowledgeable about interesting topics and can hold a conversation, someone who can pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:29 PM
2

You have to lead the conversation but there is not requirement to isolate. You are making it your goal to "obtain" her or "get" her, which is the wrong goal. You obtain a trophy or a prize, not a person. Trying to "get" women, wanting to get something from them will only turn them off. Instead, focus on getting to know her and figuring out if SHE is the RIGHT person for YOU. And by getting to know her I don't mean "how are you, what do you do, what are your hobbies". Enough boring predictable qu…
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:21 PM
-1

If the human race invented paper bags, that's how they survived. There is a reason some women are called Baggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:53 PM
3

I mean it's a number of things really, society and parents being probably the biggest influencer. You are not supposed to feel happy as you are. Happiness is the reward you get for pleasing others (through your achievements in school, work, etc.). Then many men get the message that they cannot be happy and fulfilled without love/sex, so they look at women as having the answer to all their problems, which naturally creates an inferior/superior type of dynamic in how they deal with women. But I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:51 PM
2

And if it dies then what? You are going to obsess over her and stalk her until she talks to you?
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:16 PM
17

Those girls were sure successful in gaining a couple of Insta followers.
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:14 PM
3

Ok. Do something then.
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:13 PM
6

Well, cognitive behavioral therapy has proven that feelings are the result of our thoughts. So our feelings of inferiority are nothing more than the result of how we think about ourselves and the world. Which begs the question: why should we think of ourselves as inferior to begin wjth? You are talking about inferiority as if it were a fact set in stone, an immutable law of physics if you will. But in my opinion, you are doing nothing more than projecting your own feelings and thoughts of inferi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:11 PM
1

What does she have to do to generate interest in you?
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:03 PM
3

You lost me at "trying to win her over".
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:27 PM
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Yeah, I mean looks sure. I'm big on a woman who always takes care of herself like hair, nails, body hair, etc. If I see chipped nails it drives me nuts. Personality wise, is she interesting, fun, spontaneous, likes to travel and try new things. Obviously, standards are more relaxed if just looking for a fling vs a gf. As for your self worth, the key is to get over the idea that you need women to be happy. The happier and more fulfilled you are in an independent way (not depending on a woman to b…
/r/seduction25/04/24 12:00 PM
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That's a common fear but the exact opposite happens. You will find more and more women get attracted to you fast, so sometimes you may loosen your criteria. I also don't mean to go crazy like women "oh he must be at least 6'2" and have a full head of hair, be a lawyer or at least make $400K a year and he must be an Ivy League grad, but also kind, compassionate, caring, attentive, generous, honest, he must want at least two kids, he must also only have eyes for me, he can't live more than a 20 mi…
/r/seduction25/04/24 11:44 AM
1

Ok. You do you.
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:56 AM
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She told you she went to the pharmacy before your date to get on the pill, she invited you to a bar and all you could think is "she doesn't want to sleep with me". I can't figure out if your are retarded or just plain stupid.
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:54 AM
2

Slow day on OF? And your rent just came due?
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:52 AM
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As with everything women probably stole it from men to begin with. For example the purse. On English ships the person who held the important papers and accounts was called a purser and guess where he held those things? High heels? Men invented them for themselves in Persia for riding horses. It goes on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:51 AM
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You do understand that if you removed make up, hair products, high heels, push up bras and a bunch of other stuff, most men would probably turn gay? Or those Chat to Beta Bux rations of 5/95 will also become the reality for women? I prefer to live the lie and believe I have actual abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:48 AM
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Probably a BBC gangbang every other weekend and a different Chad Tuesday through Friday, so over all, I would say close to a 100 cocks a year? Maybe 200?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:46 AM
1

One of my wife's friends destroyed lost her friendships with other girls over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:43 AM
2

I just wrote a whole fucking comment about how to do that but I will give you more of a step by step. Start by writing down exactly what you want. What kind of woman and what you want her for. Not just "pretty and easy to get along with". Be very specific. Even if you are looking for a same night lay, you still need to have certain requirements. For example, you won't try to pick up a shy nerdy girl at the library for a one night stand. No! You want a slutty chick who is out trying to get laid h…
/r/seduction25/04/24 10:37 AM
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I bet high end escorts and OF girls make more than you.
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:28 AM
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You are looking at this the wrong way (which is the way most wanna be pick up artists look at it). In other words you look at women as something you must obtain, must earn, must win over. Like a trophy or a prize that you have to please so they can become yours. Totally the wrong view of the world. When you are a woman you are attracted to, you know exactly one thing about her - that she is attractive to you, because you are attracted to her. You know nothing about her character, values, whether…
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:27 AM
2

What exactly is it that you need to practice?
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:18 AM
3

Sister, you are preaching to the choir! Why stop at dying alone! Just burn them at the stake!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:17 AM
2

I thought it was early 40s?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:58 AM
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Finally a woman who is unironically honest!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:58 AM
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Mini skirt, high heels, something showing lots of cleavage or back. Hair done up and Lucious. Very red lipstick. But what I look for to know if a girl is up for sex is this: is she sitting with her back towards the bar, scanning the room and looking at random men probably thinking "I can do him", "I can do him"...."oh, I can do the both of them!". They give off a certain energy that says "I'M SEEKING SEMEN TO HARVEST". They are pretty obvious once you know what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:16 AM
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Problem with entitlement is that it makes you for a very unpleasant person. Do you feel entitled to ride around a Rolls Royce? My guess would be no! But somehow men feel entitled to a woman's affection and if they don't get it; they start hating women's guts because she is SUPPOSED to give them what they are entitled to. But a woman's vagina is her own possession and she can do whatever she wants with it. She can let it catch cobwebs, give it to a bunch of black guys or a large farm animal. Noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:12 AM
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Here are all the answers you seek: https://youtu.be/rbMnqFiRO3s?si=PgzjjKXYrs4t9Nmt
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 08:03 PM
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Women are not killing men for sure (at the same rate at least), but they definitely take advantage of guys who want to take them out, etc. Foodie calls, getting free drinks at the bar. Then calling these guys assholes and deserving to be manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:00 PM
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I think it's definitely present in both genders actually. Yes, it seems more pronounced in men. But the world is full of women who think they are entitled to Prince Charming when they can't even out the fork down for an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:58 PM
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Because you suck at sex? And you are not having enough practice to become good at it?
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:56 PM
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Go and hire an experienced escort and tell her truthfully that you want to improve your sex skills and ask her to teach you a thing or two.
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:51 PM
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lol so she just wanted to keep him for herself???
/r/seduction24/04/24 05:50 PM
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Nope. They are brainwashed by society actually. Millions of songs about all you need is love, love is all you need and people who need people are the luckiest people in the world and baby, baby, I can't live without you, I'm a nobody without your love. Years and years of brainwashing lead to the development of needy and desperate people. Again, your assumption is that once you give up the addiction to love and women, that it means you should never talk to a woman again. I never said that anywher…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 05:40 PM
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You need to realize that these men are often beyond help. There are different levels of this and once you get to a certain point, there is simply no return - the point of no return. It usually starts with simple frustration. You are not getting interest from the opposite sex, you are a bit clueless. Other guys are hooking up with girls and you have barely even spoken to one. Then you buy into the idea that sex and relationships are a basic human need, so when your world view is that YOU are lack…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:56 PM
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Bro, unless I make fun of you how are you going to learn that it's just not happening with this girl. If she's not open and reciprocal, move on. Stop being a fucking creep treating her like some trophy you need to obtain. You are so focused on getting her that you don't even stop to think "what are my standards for a woman? How do I evaluate who I want to be with? Do I even want to be with someone who doesn't appear to be attracted to me at all? Who is closed off and uninterested in me in that w…
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:56 PM
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I love girls on hip thrusters. I used this line once as one was just finishing up with the machine. "You know, I just started getting into that exercise myself. And now I totally understand why so many women just opt out for a BBL." She will probably be like "wait what?"...then say "honestly, building ass the natural way is SOOO hard. I think I'm just gonna end up getting butt implants and be done with it". At this point they are usually laughing their asses off and if they offer to inspect your…
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:41 AM
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No, you should keep trying my man. Keep putting your paws all over this girl. One day, one day she will reciprocate. Just be persistent. If that doesn't work, just keep sending her messages everyday that you are thinking about her and how nice her skin is to touch. She will get the hint.
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:37 AM
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You need to get a written permission from her dad first. Go and ask him in person btw.
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:35 AM
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Vagina is scary bro.
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:34 AM
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The thing is as soon as one gives up their victimhood, they can gain everything they wanted in life. But I guess victimhood is really sweet and comfortable. Too sweet and comfortable to give up for the rewards of lots of sex and romance from the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:31 AM
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The sooner you get over your fear of being alone, the sooner your dating pool will expand exponentially. On the other side of that fear is abundance of dating partners. Why? Because people NEVER want what they CAN get and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. A guy or a girl who is afraid of being alone is needy. They are what another person can get so not that many people are interested. They end up taking the first person who shows them some attention without any consideration if they are right for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:30 AM
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Would you hire a guy who's been fired from every single job he had? Would you fire a guy of a certain age who hasn't been able to hold down a job at all? Same idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:27 AM
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Agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:25 AM
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Exactly! They are indeed very nice and can feel amazing with the right person. Are they a basic human need? Absolutely not!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 10:21 AM
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People who don't have friends are fucking weird. Men who don't have female friends don't have them for a reason. They are creepy, weird, not used to talking to women, treating them like human beings, etc. Perfectly fine to treat men like that with suspicion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:15 AM
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Make women sluttier
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:13 AM
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Never. But I compare my partner to my previous relationships and hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:07 AM
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The same reason most men say they want sex, yet they are really terrible at it. They say they want to attract women easier, yet they never upgrade their seduction skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:07 AM
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This is not something to be solved on the social level but on the individual level. The question is "do you as a man absolutely need women?" The answer should be a resounding NO. Most men want women for sex. They can easily just jerk off. Many men want women to give them validation. Well, they can learn to get their own validation through work, career, hobbies and other pursuits. Men don't need women. The sooner you realize this, the sooner you will be free. Once you are free of your need, you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 02:06 AM
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Omg the world will end because you spoke to a girl. Better not do it. She may call the SWAT team to arrest you and you will be thrown in jail for the crime of speaking to a woman. The minimum sentence is 20 to life.
/r/seduction24/04/24 01:23 AM
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While she's on her phone say "hey hun, you don't have to text me, I'm right here".
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:50 AM
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Don't be autistic. Why can't you just have a normal conversation like a normal man who is interested in a woman? That's all they want. A normal guy who is not terrified of them or trying too hard to be funny, impressive and too cool for school. Don't be a social retard.
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:49 AM
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If you are not vibing with someone, you pay the bill and excuse yourself and end the date. What kind of a fucking question is this? The more you try to make something happen, the creepier you are.
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:47 AM
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What a weirdo creep
/r/seduction24/04/24 12:45 AM
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No. On the contrary. I love non-needy women. Women always get very needy with within 2-3 weeks of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:15 AM
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I was 30 when I learned that women's ears are used for hearing. I thought they are handles to hold on to while she's sucking my dick and to hold her while I cum in her mouth. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 12:09 AM
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Oh god if I were that girl I'd kill myaelf after the 10th loser send me the exact same text.
/r/seduction23/04/24 07:56 PM
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This behavior violates the universal law that states: People NEVER want what they can GET and ONLY want what they CAN'T get. That's why people who say stuff like "I will take anyone at this point" are actually doing themselves a great disservice. If they are what ANYONE can get, then nobody will want them. A woman may get away with this but she will 100% be used for pump and dump. A guy probably won't be able to even get to the talking stage. I understand the point of view that makes you think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:53 PM
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I tend to intimidate women with my looks quite a bit. I used to think I was unattractive because cute looking women would ignore me. It turns out only super hot women have the balls to express interest in me. All others are so intimidated that they can't even bring themselves to talk or make eye contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:13 PM
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No, you need to do a comprehensive therapy like cognitive behavior therapy. You need to restructure your thinking and disprove all irrational thoughts. Check out something like 10 Days to Self Esteem by Dr. David Burns.
/r/seduction23/04/24 03:10 PM
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Correct! Also this video is worth watching: https://youtu.be/x__qSr6WWIU?si=TNrg66Dx6tOYWfOK
/r/seduction23/04/24 11:38 AM
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Probably the only thing that matters other than your appearance and how you actually communicate with women.
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:50 AM
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Exactly. I realized some time ago that the only leverage women have over us is vagina. Yes, a very, very powerful leverage indeed. But, if you have the balls to kill the "pussy monster" and truly stop treating sex like something you direly need and would die without, magic will happen. I don't care if I don't get laid. I will go home and jerk off. I have other things in my life that make me happy and fulfilled. Being horny is not that scary and neither is being alone. Get to that point and even …
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:48 AM
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Of course all of this stuff helps. But most important is how you feel about yourself. A beard won't hide your lack of inner game (your beliefs like: women like me and want to fuck me, I'm hot, I'm sexy, I can have any woman I want).
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:39 AM
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But what do I say?????? What do I do?????? Wahhhh wahhhh
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:37 AM
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Of course. But you need to get over the fear of you want to truly have success with women. Women sense when a man is afraid of losing them and it will always kill their attraction....sooner or later. Try this. Tell her that you need to go on a business trip for a week and don't call her at all. Hell, don't even make up a trip. Just don't call her for a week. Or, make a date and then cancel it on the day of. Start practicing doing the things you are afraid of. Spend less time with her and be a li…
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:37 AM
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Opener matters so little in the grand scheme of things. You are focusing on the wrong thing.
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:33 AM
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The guy who came up with the term was a lanky nerd who did magic tricks in school and was probably bullied and made fun of. His entire understanding of male/female dynamics is tainted by an inherently loser view of the world. Men are down here, we are nobodies, there are millions of us, women are up there, if they are hot, they have all the value in the world, everyone wants them, their lives are perfect, blah blah blah. The reality is the majority of women will react to you based on how you fee…
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:32 AM
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Dating essentials for men.
/r/seduction23/04/24 10:20 AM
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You can't be that dumb? That's literally the most common flirty line from girls.
/r/seduction23/04/24 02:55 AM
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They probably think you are hot until you open your mouth. And then figure out you are fucking retard as one can easily tell by your post.
/r/seduction23/04/24 02:54 AM
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It's just neediness. The only way to get rid of neediness is change the belief that you need women/sex/relationships to be happy and fulfilled. Take time off from dating and fill your schedule with things to do by yourself for the next two weeks. Learn to be happy without women and you will no longer lose them, because you won't be afraid to lose them.
/r/seduction23/04/24 02:53 AM
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Kill the pussy monster and all the women in the world will be yours.
/r/seduction23/04/24 02:51 AM
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It's hard to determine what you are doing exactly. But there are usually two mistakes guys make. One is being too needy. If you go on dates with the expectation that you will get laid, you will give off a needy vibe. Instead, just assume that if you like her, sex will happen at one point or another. What's the rush. Don't even think about it. The other mistake is kind of the opposite. You are too afraid she will react negatively so you don't make any moves; you play it safe and she is not excite…
/r/seduction22/04/24 07:11 PM
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That's why I asked what you want but you don't really seem to know what you want. Just to get validation? Go and throw singles at a stripper. She will validate you.
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:17 PM
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That stuff is for losers. The whole "game" presupposes that you, as the man, are down here, a nobody, a loser and the woman, she's up there, she's hot, she's got all these guys wanting her and buying her stuff. And that as a man you need to follow steps A-Z to impress her and overcome your inherent handicap What if I told you that whole world view is 100% unadulterated bullshit created in the mind of a guy who was bullied and made fun of in high school for being a nerd who is into magic?
/r/seduction22/04/24 05:13 PM
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Then you are ahead of the game. You don't have any expectations so you can talk to women and flirt without expecting anything to happen.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:47 PM
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What are you trying to achieve?
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:19 PM
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If you want to be perceived as a weirdo using pickup lines from 20 years ago, you should absolutely practice everything that's written in this book. You may also want to look up to see what happened to all the main characters in it.
/r/seduction22/04/24 04:01 PM
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Sounds like you have depression and anxiety issues. Instead of getting high on mushrooms or taking drugs, look up cognitive behavioral therapy. Tackle depression first. Anxiety you get over by exposing yourself to the thing that makes you anxious. It means going out and socializing wjthout any expectations (you got anxious and nervous because you had expectations of girls approaching you).
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:59 PM
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We can't help you unless you post the conversation.
/r/seduction22/04/24 03:57 PM
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You got that right.
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:03 AM
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Oh women love men in uniform because they project authority. Unfortunately for you, you don't seem to do that naturally so there will be a misalignment between the image your uniform creates and your behavior. Perhaps ask your CO to teach you about command presence.
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:02 AM
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Attractive personality starts with your inner game. What you believe about yourself. Do you believe women like you and want to fuck you or do you feel you are a creepy lizard man? How you feel about yourself will be apparent to women through emotional transference and if you don't feel good about you, they won't either. Then other aspect of personality that really matters is speaking about yourself genuinely, expressing yourself and your experiences in a clear way. I am, I feel, that sort of thi…
/r/seduction22/04/24 11:01 AM
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Jesus the autism is permeable.
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:54 AM
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She's in uniform or you are?
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:53 AM
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You may want to finish reading the Game first and then read what happened to the main characters before you get all pumped up and start going out bothering women with jealous girlfriend openers.
/r/seduction22/04/24 10:51 AM
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Men learn from an early age to depend only on themselves for their security. Women seek security from men. First it's daddy then it's hubby. Men also see approval as having external sources only. Neither men nor women become free until they overcome their craving for approval and security.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:55 AM
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Men crave approval like women crave security.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:51 AM
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Nobody likes a fucking simp. People never want what they can get and only want what they can't get. Some chick thinking if she's a pickme bitch some quality guy will snatch her up. BS. Quality guys are going for girls with high self esteem, ball busters and vixens who know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:30 AM
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It doesn't because your post is fucking retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:27 AM
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Text him: "I know what you are thinking". He will reply "what? What are you talking about? Okay, what am I thinking right now?" So you say "You are thinking how you will take me to the new XYZ movie OR the new cocktail lounge on X street". Or something to that effect.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:24 AM
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I can't figure out if you are that desperate or just really fucking stupid. Or you have some sort of mental retardation.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:22 AM
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Read Intimate Connections by Dr David Burns. And start watching Jessica J Dating channel on YouTube.
/r/seduction22/04/24 12:21 AM
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Barefoot and pregnant and chained to the kitchen sink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:16 AM
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Don't bother engaging these bitter losers in a rational debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:12 AM
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Exactly! Women hold all the cards as long as the man lets them hold them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:11 AM
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Women hate men so much yet somehow the majority of them manage to be in relationships, ride the cock carousel and be way more experienced in all things sex and relationships than man. PPD logic!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:10 AM
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If it doesn't include anal is it even sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 09:09 PM
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I bet her strap on is pretty big too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:52 PM
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Bro; let me guess? You have a lot of trouble dating don't you? I won't comment on hairy pussies but the first two are cornerstones of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:27 PM
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Stop giving too much away too easily. Kiss them on the lips a bit then pull back. Later on, you may make out with tongue, but again pull back. Leave them wanting more. Don't push for sex, they will initiate it eventually. Just make them feel comfortable with you.
/r/seduction21/04/24 04:26 PM
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Gimp suit, handcuffs, gag ball, whips, oversized dildos.
/r/seduction21/04/24 04:25 PM
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