| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Help wantedCreep. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 4 | How do i get this girlYou already lost by thinking about trying to get with her. She should be thinking about how to get with you, which she is certainly not. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What actions make a man look like a creep? And what’s the difference between a guy checking out a hot girl vs a girl checking out a hot guy?If you look at women and think “omg she is soooo hot, damn girl”, you have already lost. You have already mentally placed her on a pedestal and you know it and she knows it. Approaching like “hey, I saw you from over there and I just had to come over and say hi and get your number and entice you to go out on a date with me” is what every typical pursuer guy does out there and women find that creepy. You need to reframe how you see hot girls. Change your story to: “Okay, I see some alright girl o… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 03:14 PM |
| 5 | How much action is needed to get results in daygameOther then initial deshying and getting over social anxiety, randomly approaching women all day long will yield less results than if you were to do it in a smart, non-needy way. Quality men are not out there hanging out on street corners trying to get phone numbers or instas. They are out enjoying their lives, meeting with friends, chatting up girls in their everyday life or whenever they are out at the bar enjoying themselves. They know they can have any woman they want, so they don’t have to p… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 01:49 PM |
| 2 | playing coolOkie dokie you do you | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:39 AM |
| 2 | playing coolMake a move | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 11:30 AM |
| 0 | I don’t understand anything about girls, help needed.https://youtu.be/VNy3Npkg6P4?si=80rg-S2bejxH5Wk2 | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:36 AM |
| 2 | playing coolPlaying cool =/= sitting around with your dick in your hand. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:34 AM |
| 5 | How much action is needed to get results in daygameBro, this isn’t cold calling from the phone book. You can approach 2-3 women and have a new FWB. You don’t need to approach hundreds of women a week. I would argue that doing so will actually make you a low quality man and will diminish your chances of success. Think about it? If all you wanna be puas were so successful with cold approaching and daygaming, you’d have a harem of women to keep you occupied and would have zero time to “sarge” 7 days a week. Which tells me, none of you are actually … | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?That’s fine. Be a nice guy cuck then. More for the rest of us. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:31 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate?And what does it mean to have a successful approach? | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Is there any other advice then “just do it, it gets easier” for getting over the fear of rejection?I mean don’t treat women like a friend, that’s just cucking yourself. You have to reframe sex in your mind as being nothing more than a regular bodily function like pissing, taking a shit, eating, etc. It’s just a totally normal process, not a big deal. And reframe what having a woman means to you (and about you). If you tell yourself subconsciously that you need women to like you so you feel validated, you feel good about yourself, that if you have women in your life you will be cool, awesome, … | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 10:20 AM |
| 9 | Is there any other advice then “just do it, it gets easier” for getting over the fear of rejection?Yes. Stop thinking of women and sex as something special, super desirable, believing that women will solve your problems, that having sex will make you cooler, more confident, more respected, etc. It’s just an illusion that forces you to put women on a pedestal and then fear the possibility of getting rejected and not having your desirable prize, your problems solved, your respect by other men granted, etc. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Why exactly do you think dating is easy?Let me shed some light on the 99% of guys that women meet. Those are mostly low self esteem guys, who look at women from across the bar and say stuff like this to their friends: “damn, those girls are soooo hot, oh my god, I would kill to be with her”. This is probably 90% of men out there. They are low self esteem, needy, kind of creepy, putting women on a pedestal which definitely turns women off. The other 9% are maybe guys who think they are hot shit, but they are so arrogant and full of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:56 AM |
| 20 | Why do women like vampires, werewolves, and vulnerability?A few things. The vampire, werewolf, pirate, outlaw, etc., is basically the bad boy trope. A dangerous, but exciting guy who does whatever the fuck he wants. He doesn’t obey the rules. Heck, he doesn’t even break the rules. He makes the rules as he pleases. That’s a very appealing persona to women, who have been taught their entire lives to behave well and suppress their wild side. Thats also why when they meet a stereotypical nice guy, who doesn’t have an ounce of danger (aka masculine energy),… | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 12:15 AM |
| 5 | Girls being selfish with sex?Dump her. Don’t settle for bad sex. Go jerk off and play Call of Duty. If you let her get away with it she will have no motivation to fuck yoy well. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How to make her feel she's also contributing to "US"?Stop doing things for them. Establish early on that you are the hook up guy and don’t play the relationship dating guy role AT ALL. Treat a queen like a whore and whore like a queen. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate?What does it mean for you to get rejected? What does it mean to you to not get rejected? | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Girls kiss ass for the guys they like and make the others wait for no reason. Going for maybe girls is POISONWomen feel attracted to men and they end up screwing it up all the time. This idea that if a woman likes you, there is no way to fuck it up is regarded. Women LOVE to chase men who they cannot land easily. The more elusive you are, the more they want to chase. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 08:37 PM |
| -1 | Girl asked my instaYes, send her a message something like “hey, saw your request, I suppose you wanna get together soon” Just pressupose that she followed you in order to arrange hooking up with you. Treat it as a done deal and only arrange the logistics. DO NOT START CHASING HER AND TRYING TO CONVINCE HER/SEDUCE HER/MAKE HER INTERESTED/PROVE YOURSELF TO HER, etc. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 07:44 PM |
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