TRTGymBroX Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How to get over oneitis and move onto other women? Balk at my advice all you want, but it works.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:57 PM
1	What's exactly charisma? I can tell you it comes from genuinely liking yourself and liking other people. The most charismatic people are those that have those two qualities.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:40 PM
1	How to get over oneitis and move onto other women? Start jerking off to the fantasy of her sleeping with other men. Keep doing it until you don’t give a fuck anymore.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:39 PM
-9	What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ? 100+ women in 5 days? These are rookie numbers my man. Gotta step up those numbers.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:38 PM
1	How to have more fun on dates? Sure buddy	/r/seduction	11/07/24 08:40 PM
0	I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy... Oh of course! It’s a human problem, not a male specific problem. I posted the above comment in the context of men complaining about their lack of success and the general cognitive distortions that I’ve observed over time. The patterns just repeat each other over and over. It’s so predictable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 08:32 PM
1	How to have more fun on dates? I think you are putting the cart before the horse. You need to figure out: What do you want out of women? What type of women you want it out of? Figure those things out first. You need to be crystal clear on what type of relationship you are seeking. How you want it to look like and be like. You need to know what your likes are, dislikes are, what you will tolerate and not tolerate, what type of communication you want to have with a woman, how she talks to you, what she’s like, what friend group…	/r/seduction	11/07/24 08:21 PM
2	gym game. You know that thing that you use to shove protein shakes down your throat? You can also use it to smile and produce souse like “Hi”.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 08:14 PM
1	CMV: Villification of men is toxic You do know that’s the most typical response ever. Check out my earlier comment in another thread about men who don’t want to be helped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 08:13 PM
1	I've failed had honestly, I feel so pathetic and lost. Post your profile here or at least photos. I find most men dress very poorly, so maybe we can help. But here is the biggest issue IMHO. You are making sex and women some incredible prize in your own head, putting them on a pedestal and chasing them nonstop. It’s this neediness that actually turns women off, not that you are Indian. It’s pretty clear to me that you consider women and sex the source of happiness, coolness, fulfillment, masculinity, satisfaction, respect from others, self esteem, e…	/r/seduction	11/07/24 08:09 PM
1	CMV: Villification of men is toxic Well, they get laid and have girlfriends. By your own admission, you are struggling and of course, it’s those picky high standard bitches that are at fault. So what do we do now? Is blaming your lack of success on external forces actually changing anything for you other than helping you cope?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 08:00 PM
-2	I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy... It’s very painful to have to look in the mirror and admit that maybe the majority of your problems are caused by the person staring back at you. But it is also very empowering because if they are caused by you, they can also be solved by you. So that’s the good news! The bad news is: it requires quite a lot of work to undo a lifetime of distorted thought patterns, self defeating beliefs and attitudes towards yourself, women and the world. Believe it or not, despite my usual snarkiness, I feel a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 06:07 PM
–	Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones too Omg, you are the age gap poster! This is gonna be awesome: Title of one of your recent posts: AITA (F41) for shaming my friend M37 for dating a 23 year old girl instead of his own age? First sentence: He’s not my type it’s simply the principle that’s upsetting me and I think it’s damaging to our self image to constantly be dumped for younger women. You got totally obliterated in that thread. Do yourself a favor and lay off the pot or whatever you are on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 04:42 PM
6	CMV: Villification of men is toxic Firstly, you seem to be drawing a ton of assumptions for a single comment and lack any empirical evidence that what this poster said was true. Do you have photos of his matches? Do you have photos of him? I have met and spoken to many men who say they out in an extraordinary amount of effort in their appearance, yet, they look like the most basic nerds. I have found that people who struggle with dating always blame the other sex, the apps, the state of the economy, the stock market….but NEVER EV…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 04:39 PM
11	Us women always have orbiters, yes us older ones too Nobody cares.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 04:33 PM
3	GUIDE: How to accurately assess how she feels about you during a date and know when to go for a kiss without being rejected (with applicable easy steps) I use one test only. I look at them like I’m fucking them and if they look back…they need to get fucked. This works so well, that you don’t even need to speak the same language.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 03:23 PM
1	How do I become more open, less vain, and stop trying to coast off my looks? This is a very common set of symptoms for someone who subconsciously believes that they need other people’s love/admiration/approval in order to be happy and fulfilled. When one believes that, he tends to see others as a trophy he needs to earn. This is, of course, a very common dynamic when it comes to attractive women. You believe they are the source of approval, happiness, being respected, being fulfilled, being seen as cool, etc., so that compels you to try and earn them as a trophy. This ca…	/r/seduction	11/07/24 03:21 PM
1	Invited me for the weekend but last minute she says she's "dating" an old friend. I mean she was honest with you, which is not something the vast majority of women will ever be with a guy. The problem is really your over expectations of this being the beginning of some serious romance. She just wanted to bang and not have you hang around her neck like an anchor. Which is okay. She was clear about what she wants and expects, you were clear that that’s not what you are looking for. No need to shit on her. On the contrary. Appreciate her honesty. I’m sure it wasn’t easy for her …	/r/seduction	11/07/24 02:37 PM
2	Is there a presumption that posters/commenters here are neurodivergent? I’m not really sure that many people here suffer from neurodivergent conditions, where there is really something different about their brains. In my humble opinion, the much bigger issue is severe cognitive distortions. For anyone who has taken time to study cognitive behavioral therapy and its model of the world, will know that people are depressed, anxious and angry not because of their circumstances but because of how they think about their circumstances. I can demonstrate this to people even…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 12:35 PM
5	Guys who have experience with double dates You know, you don’t have to do everything that a woman wants you to do, especially one you just met off the apps. You know that that NO is a word you can use, right?	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:44 AM
1	Is over… sigh Plus it sounded like she planned every date and he just followed her around like a puppy.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:43 AM
-3	Putting someone on a pedestal was a mistake I wish I know sooner Stop finding excuses and accept that this is 100% your doing.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:40 AM
-1	What’s a good book that will help with learning playful banter YouTube: Brent Smith Bulletproof Banter	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:38 AM
1	Is the feeling that someone is interested in you usually true ? Or is it delusional? The only real way to know is to have eye sex. In serious. Do the triangular gaze, for one eye to the other to her lips and in your head fantasize about fucking her in all kinds of positions. If she looks back at you like she’s fucking you, then she’s interested.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:38 AM
1	Had (drunk) sex for the second time of my life with a milf and feeling a bit down about it Yeah, every guy thinks he has some magic technique that will get a girl off and then when she doesn’t call him back, he assumes she just had buyer’s remorse. It never occurs to him that a woman fakes it to get you to stop, because what worked with one woman, may not work at all with another.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 11:36 AM
3	What is the proper protocol to setup/confirm dates with low to medium interest women? When I started seeing myself as the prize and what women wanted, I stopped caring about confirming dates or low interest women. All of a sudden women started being worried that I might not show up or that my interest might disappear if they didn’t behave well.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 02:13 AM
-1	OLD: do you change your approach based on what the girl is looking for? That’s the antithesis of being a man. You can only be in three positions with a woman: Lead, follow or get out of the way. If you are not going to lead, you better get out of the way. Because following is the last thing you want to do.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 02:11 AM
1	Out of practice: How long to wait for a response after exchanging numbers? Don’t follow up. You gave her a chance. If she wanted you, she would have taken it. Don’t dig your grave deeper now.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 09:31 PM
1	Bad vibe when approaching solo. Help? Well change how you see women and sex. Reframe hot women from “old she’s so hot, I’d give my left nut to be with her” to “she alright, I might decide to talk to her later”. And don’t approach them like you are a dog begging for a treat. Approach like you are hotter than them and they are the ones that should feel intimidated and insecure by you.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 05:41 PM
0	Out of practice: How long to wait for a response after exchanging numbers? If you want to go the dating route, simply text her “let’s go out”. When she replies with “okay, yes, great, when”, suggest two days that you will be available, but preferably not Friday or Saturday night (show her that you actually have a life). Then tell her to meet you at XYZ place at 123 hour. Be very specific about time and place. Do not write any excuser phrases like “if you are available, if you can, I hope that’s okay, I know you might be busy”, etc. Simply, “ok, Thursday then. Let’s mee…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 05:11 PM
3	Bad vibe when approaching solo. Help? The reason your vibe is off is because deep down you are ashamed of having to spam approach 100s of girls on the street like a total weirdo low quality guy, who can’t get a girlfriend in any other way. It’s literally your mind sabotaging you and for very good reasons. If you actually decided that you will be a normal, high quality guy, who has a purpose in life and who builds a life that he enjoys living and inviting women into, you will not have trouble approaching the occasional woman who inte…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 04:57 PM
6	I feel embarassed flirting with a girl in front of people that i know When I first started getting into this stuff, there was a very old school Croatian pua who went by Shark. He had this program where your mission was to stand in the middle of your house or somewhere public, with all doors open so your parents/friends/siblings can hear you and call a girl to ask her out. Facing your fears and anxieties is what makes you a man. The less shame you feel about flirting with and seducing women, the easier it will be to accomplish your objective. If you need to hide an…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 03:03 PM
29	Had (drunk) sex for the second time of my life with a milf and feeling a bit down about it Alcohol is a depressant and it’s normal to feel shame and self loathing after a binge. And if you think you underperformed, that’s even worse. My advice? Go and buy a book on sex techniques, read it cover to cover and learn a thing or two. The next time you have sex, use the girl to practice and also tell her “I know every girl is different, so please, communicate with me, tell me faster, slower, harder, to the right to the left. The thing that I would love most is to be invited to your bed agai…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 02:49 PM
2	Cold Approaching in Malls I’m warning against such random approaching for the precise reason that I HAVE DONE it and I know how abysmally ineffective it is. Now if OP had said, I’m very socially anxious and shy and I want to get rid of my anxiety, then yeah. I would recommend some approaches that have a very specific structure and outcome so he can overcome his anxiety. But he is actually wanting to approach random women at the mall so he can hook up. He may actually have better chances if he just walks around and asks r…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 02:39 PM
2	Cold Approaching in Malls Because women complain about being hassled and since the mall exists to generate business and not to serve pimply lonely teenagers, they would definitely throw him out. If you need an economic justification, a teen girl is much more likely to spend money at the mall than some lonely teenage boy, who is there to try to pick them up.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 02:06 PM
1	Matched with a baddie on hinge and it looks like we'll be hooking up this weekend. Need help to not mess it up. Nothing. You made a date to hook up, move on with your life and don’t think about a woman unless she’s in front of you. Let her worry if you are still interested. If you are so attached to the outcome of sleeping with her, she already knows it and you’ve already lost.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 02:05 PM
-1	Cold Approaching in Malls What do you think this sub is teaching you men? Just go up to her and say “hey, I saw you from over there and just had to come over and say hi. Can I get your number?”	/r/seduction	10/07/24 01:38 PM
7	Casual sex No, I’m trying to point out is that you need to start with what vibe you give off. If you look like a relationship type, women will assume that you are and that’s how they will react to you. So, do you look the part? Understand, that part of this is the “uniform” you wear. How you style, what clothes you wear, etc. A guy can wear a “nice guy” uniform or he can wear a “fuckboi” uniform. So handle that first.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 01:36 PM
-5	Cold Approaching in Malls Okay, here is some field report footage. Study it inside and out: https://youtu.be/pOjIDQ95pp4?si=SMyqbSDO-xvEs8-f	/r/seduction	10/07/24 01:25 PM
7	Casual sex First things first. Look at these two photos: Photo A: https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/z/regular-guy-full-body-11373526.jpg Photo B: https://herway.net/wp-content/uploads/2019/01/How-to-Spot-a-Fuckboy-And-How-to-Deal-With-Him-720x405.jpg Now I want you to tell me from these two photos, which guy looks like a “casual sex” guy and girl which guy looks like “hubby material”. Think hard. Then look in the mirror and decide if you look more like photo A or photo B.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 01:21 PM
1	how to pass this shit test? Reply: my compliment game. Her: and what’s that? Reply: for example: I want to commend you for your good taste in men 👈	/r/seduction	10/07/24 12:31 PM
8	2 ways to text a girl While you are busy coming up with cute text messages, Chad is banging her on his cum stained couch and then telling her to go make him a sandwich.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 12:28 PM
1	What does this mean and how should I approach it? Hard cope	/r/seduction	10/07/24 12:01 PM
-9	Cold Approaching in Malls People get thrown out of malls for doing this shit just fyi	/r/seduction	10/07/24 11:43 AM
2	Assuming That Things Will go Wrong You won’t be able to change this with will power, so do this instead. Write out all the advantages/benefits of overthinking and assuming things will go wrong. Also, write out what this type of thinking says about you and your character. It may be a tough exercise at first, but once you get the hang of it, it will get easier. Here is some thing to get you started: by assuming things will go wrong, I will never feel disappointed by overthinking and focusing on all the worse case scenarios, I can b…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 11:14 AM
2	Matched with a baddie on hinge and it looks like we'll be hooking up this weekend. Need help to not mess it up. Omg, all commenters here are such fucking losers. No wonder you struggle with women so much. You don’t have to entertain them, you don’t have to constantly text them, you don’t have to do anything. You dumbasses are doing nothing but projecting your fear that she will forget you and lose interest. In other words, she’s the prize, she knows it, and I’m just here to kiss her ass. How well do you think this will go over with women? Omg. Women should be the one worrying if you will show up to the da…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 11:07 AM
3	Matched with a baddie on hinge and it looks like we'll be hooking up this weekend. Need help to not mess it up. Dumb idea. Thats basically saying “are we still on?” Talk about totally nuking your chances before you even had them.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 11:05 AM
2	Matched with a baddie on hinge and it looks like we'll be hooking up this weekend. Need help to not mess it up. Sigh. So you got a girl to want to hook up with you and now you are thinking about texting her everyday and checking in on her because you are so fucking unremarkable that she will forget about you the second she doesn’t hear from you? She should be the one worried if you are going to forget about her and lose interest. It just shows that your entire internal mindset is completely screwed up.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 11:04 AM
3	Out of practice: How long to wait for a response after exchanging numbers? Well, you really fucked it up with the text that you sent her. It just sounds so lacking in confidence and self assurance: “Hey it’s Bob, the guy from yesterday, remember, we ONLY spent an hour talking, but I’m sure you get hit on by many taller, handsomer and richer guys, so it’s okay if you totally don’t remember me because I’m not remarkable at all. I know you probably have a million better things to do, like go out on all these fabulous dates with the Chads that no doubt hit on you all the t…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 11:01 AM
3	Trouble maintaining frame after initial success with hookups from dating apps who then start getting flakey/backing off You guys think that some techniques or rizz will solve your problems. Anything but actually look in the mirror to see the guy who is causing all the problems.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 10:56 AM
3	Girl im talking to say she wants me to be more vulnerable…. Repeat after me. What vulnerability is NOT: talking about how your childhood priest molested you how you were bullied in middle school and forced to lick the bathroom floor by your bully being a total loser in high school and having no girls interested in you that you are often depressed and super anxious and don’t think you are good enough for her that you’ve considered killing your self over a girl And so on and so forth. Leave this shit in the depths of your psyche or for your therapist. Bein…	/r/seduction	10/07/24 10:53 AM
3	Should I defintely move on? You are gonna spend your life trying to get a whiff of her pussy and never being able to get even close, you are a sucker. There are so many classic mistakes you made I don’t even know where to start.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 10:49 AM
1	"I don't know if I wanna do it, you know" You communicated to her that you really need her to come over and even agreed to it knowing you wouldn’t get sex. That’s classic pursuing behavior and totally caused her reaction.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 10:48 AM
2	What does this mean and how should I approach it? Bro. You may want to resurrect your ego or something because I think your brain and common sense died along with it.	/r/seduction	10/07/24 10:43 AM