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DebateTRTGymBroXXX/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:47 PM
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Yes. But don’t tell them about your fucking childhood, tell them about something that is personal and also relevant to what is going on there.
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:58 PM
2

When you say something t about yourself, simply say “and what about you?”. And let them talk for Christ sakes.
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:50 PM
0

Dude you waited months and months and months. What did you expect? That she will jump your bones one of these days? That shits going to happen while you sit around and do nothing?
/r/seduction08/07/24 05:49 PM
1

Ok, I never said that humanity views men as nothing but status symbols that prop up women. That ^ is your claim, not mine. “Nothing but” means “ONLY”. Is it true that society views men as ONLY status symbols? Do you view men as ONLY status symbols? I think that it may be YOU who views yourself as a status symbol that is there to prop up women. When is the last time, give me exact time and date that society viewed you ONLY as a status symbol? If it happens all the time, it shouldn’t be this hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:24 PM
1

Bro, I think you are projecting hard here. You are really reaching. While there is a lot of truth in the fact that people are judgmental and often shallow, things are not black and white. When you think it’s either black or white you don’t allow for any nuance and you end up depressed and paralyzed. And fall deeper and deeper into incel/black pill schizophrenia. You have to learn to spot the cognitive distortions in your own thinking so you don’t fall into these pits of despair and self pity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:57 PM
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Again, all I need to do is prove that the methods they use to come to a conclusion are flawed. At that point, their argument falls apart. If you cannot grasp that, get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:29 PM
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Just stop dating. invite them over to your place and tell them you will get take out and they can bring a bottle of wine. You don’t need to do the whole courtship behavior and actually the more you do it, the more women will play hard to get and give you the runaround. Tell them what time it is and play by your own rules. If they don’t want to play, good riddance.
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:26 PM
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Brother, I think this says more about you than them.
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:25 PM
5

You live in a room and she lives in a room across the hall? Are we talking about your sister or mom?
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:23 PM
1

How do you measure genuine sexual desire? Have you interviewed all these couples and you have empirical data? Or are you making assumptions based on your own distorted view of women and relationships and sex? How do you know every single couple that is not a Chad and a Stacy don’t have any passion or desire for each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:19 PM
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You want to disprove absurd claims that you make? And provide you with a data but only data that you have cherry picked?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:18 PM
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All I need to prove is that his reasoning is erroneous and his argument falls apart. He made an all or nothing statement, then when challenged about its validity wiggled out with “yes but that doesn’t count”, which is just another irrational reasoning. He has NO WAY of knowing that something doesn’t count. He MIGHT be RIGHT in some cases, but he certainly is NOT right in ALL cases. As long as you have very rigid thinking and see the world in black OR white and everything else is YES BUT THAT DOE…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:48 PM
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I did address your points. You do not know these people. You are reading clues from their body language from a very limited point in time. You are making wild assumptions about their feelings for each other or their motivations for dressing and grooming a certain way with no way of being able to validate these assumptions. The reality is couple A tall guy, cute girl are together. Couple B shorter guy with wife AND a kid are also together. Heck couple B even had a kid! But wait, I thought women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:44 PM
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Your argument: yes but that doesn’t count because….(let me find the right words): I magically know how to read minds and I also follow the people who I creepily took photos of in Walmart around and know every single intimidate detail of their lives so my assumptions are 100% correct! Thats your argument ^ if you can’t see how crazy it sounds, seek mental help.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:39 PM
1

The fact that the population of human beings is at the highest it has ever been in the entire existence of humanity and all kinds of races fuck, actually especially the brown and yellow ones and somehow they outpace whites, tell you everything you need to know about how fallacious such claims are. Again, I can discount ANY argument and fact by saying YES BUT THAT DOESN’T COUNT. Happy to play that game. Throw an argument at me and I will totally discount it by saying YES BUT….
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:37 PM
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His view is literally black and white. Women only want tall white guys. And if they fuck other guys, they don’t really mean it. In other words, yes but it doesn’t count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:33 PM
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Use your eyes dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:31 PM
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There is absolutely no way for you to know any of this other than….how can I put this in a nice way….pulling it out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 02:30 PM
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Sure. So we all procreated through rape? Makes total sense 😵‍💫
/r/seduction08/07/24 12:02 PM
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You don’t know shit about their relationship either. So making the assumption she is just settling and not really happy is just something people pull out of their asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:50 AM
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You say a lot of “we also know” and then make a statement that’s implied to be an immutable universal truth. Somehow you have not offered any evidence that any of that is true and I can easily dispute all of your erroneous assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:50 AM
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The early 2000s called and want their boa and top hat back.
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:35 AM
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If homie ashamed that his mother will find out that he is no longer a little boy and is indeed interesting in fucking women?
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:34 AM
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What exactly do you think you NEED or are LACKING in the women department? How did cavemen hundreds of thousands of years ago get laid when they didn’t even have language?
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:32 AM
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Nobody is shaming you. I’m just pointing out how folks are clinging on to self defeating beliefs that contribute to their lack of success. I work with the data I have that’s available and most people discuss their thinking freely on Reddit as opposed to IRL. Are you really going to tell me that the majority of posters don’t make irrational black and white statements about the world all the time on this forum?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:31 AM
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You can’t draw conclusions from a limited set of data or a single event. Which is what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:25 AM
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Please point out where I displayed these cognitive distortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:24 AM
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Because his argument is a fallacy. Mental filtering and discounting the positive. Sure, some men who are not tall and white and good looking do get laid….but it doesn’t count because…. See, anyone can play the game YES BUT THAT DOESN’T COUNT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:22 AM
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The evidence I provided is so self evident it doesn’t even need to be sourced. It’s something literally any human being can experience if they get off their ass and go outside. Hell, they can even look at their own parents as proof that short ugly people mate as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:21 AM
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If his counter argument is simply discounting the positive or mental filtering (focusing only on the negative to the exclusion of everything else), then no. Because it is not a valid argument if it’s based on a logical fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:19 AM
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Sure thing. The “data” proves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:17 AM
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I do read them and I’ve already pointed out it’s simply an analogy to illustrate a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:17 AM
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Nope. My original point was that sexually unsuccessful people cling to a lot of self defeating beliefs and thoughts and go through great lengths to defend those beliefs and even find “proof” that their beliefs are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:16 AM
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Stop trying to flirt and to tease them and to be cute. Pretend you are way too hot for them and that you are the one giving them a chance to impress you maybe get a chance to suck your dick.
/r/seduction08/07/24 02:43 AM
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Yes but yea but yea but
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:49 AM
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What do you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:49 AM
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Yes but yes but yes but
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:48 AM
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Doesn’t matter what they think.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:53 PM
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You are violating rule #1
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:27 PM
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Jesus you guys are fucking sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:03 PM
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By their own admission the majority of sexually unsuccessful men never even leave their house. So they don’t even make it to the bar to try and shoot their shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:00 PM
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The scientific method entails that one makes observations, creates a hypothesis based on these observations and then conducts experiments to prove or disprove their theory. Incels, blackpillers and regular depressed /love worn guys make observations and create hypothesis and then filter out all evidence they can find to support their incorrect hypothesis. They skip the part where is evidence doesn’t support their original hypothesis, they are supposed to discard the hypothesis. Instead, they dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:59 PM
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Nobody is saying not to do things to improve your looks and chances of getting laid. What I’m warning against is having irrational and negative beliefs related to yourself and to dating. Most black pillers are total doomers and contribute to their own depression and anxiety by adhering to very rigid ideas of what is acceptable in a man. In other words, accept your role in being the cause of your own problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 10:55 PM
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You lack the motivation to stop shoving food up your pie hole and getting in shape so you can start getting laid. Do it your way though. Women are supposed to like just as you are.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:48 PM
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Girls go out with ugly girlfriends to make them look better. You friend is going out with to make himself look better. If I remember correctly though, you were a nerdy Asian guy and he was all tattooed and super cool. So yeah, give up when you haven’t even tried doing g anything to make yourself more desirable.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:47 PM
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She was checking if your wallet is thick enough.
/r/seduction07/07/24 09:45 PM
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I definitely know one word that starts with an S that you’ve been called many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:12 PM
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I never said anything like this. It’s something you pulled straight out of your ass. Your cognition is so colored you can’t even read right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:11 PM
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All these words and arguments and you still came back to “lets not pretend hot women with ugly man is not the exception”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:03 PM
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This is very true. But this doesn’t solve the problem of people seeking to confirm their irrational beliefs with so called “evidence”. This evidence falls apart at the slightest interrogation yet they cling onto it like it’s the gospel truth. Let’s take a self oriented irrational belief. “I’m a subhuman loser and no woman will ever find me sexually desirable”. If you truly believed this thought, do you think you’d have success dating? Do you think you would talk to women and flirt and ask them o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:01 PM
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Try again
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:53 PM
1

The most fertile nation on earth is Palestinians. How is it working out for them, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:53 PM
0

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:51 PM
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Again, as I have reiterated several times in this thread. It’s just an analogy. Because people will dig up so called “evidence” that supports their irrational claims. The PoF or Match.com study or whatever comes to mind, or a bunch of TikTok videos, or some other obscure research and stuff. It’s really more of an allegory for how our brains will work overtime to look for evidence to support our negative thoughts and will absolutely ignore anything positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:51 PM
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It’s one thing to say: yes, it’s probably true that the majority of women out there would prefer a tall and handsome men, just the same way that the majority of men would prefer a busy woman who looks like a super model, the reality is that most people settle for folks who either largely match their own attractiveness or close. Now the above is a true and verifiable statement. Notice it doesn’t claim that a 5’ Indian balding janitor is hooking up with Victoria Secret super models, which would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:46 PM
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See you are already mentally filtering “evidence”. I never said that ugly short men constantly hook up with tall Amazonian goddesses. Thats your bias and that’s what you are focused on to the exclusion of everything else. Homely guys tend to date homely girls. But they do date. Of course they have less choices and less chances of dating a hottie than a guy who is 6’3”, good looking and charming. But the point is that things are not hopeless for guys who are not genetically blessed, which is the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:43 PM
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My argument wasn’t so much about smart men being more likely to be socially inept and struggle with women, which I actually agree with. In high school the dumb jocks never had trouble getting laid, but the super smart nerds always did. My point was that people have a lot of irrational and incorrect beliefs that they cling onto by constantly searching for evidence to support them. Negative and irrational thoughts and beliefs will absolutely affect your dating success to a large extent. But those …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:39 PM
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It’s passed on from mother to daughter and women tend to self police each other. What is the biggest insult one woman can tell another? Think of the word. It’s starts with an S
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:25 PM
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That’s what they are SUPPOSED TO do. You may want to look up the problem about reproducing scientific studies. There was an experiment done by two Amgen scientists in 2012 and they found they could reproduce only 10-11% of the top most groundbreaking studies in cancer. 90% of the papers that were published in reputable journals and had high citations were basically absolute BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:04 PM
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Read the first sentence of my post. They are LIKE scientists because they are actually hunting for evidence for all their claims instead of just saying “because I said so”. Although many use the last one too. Their brains are literally constantly on the hunt for evidence to support their erroneous hypothesis. In that sense, they are like scientists. Don’t get your panties in a bunch over an analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:02 PM
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So you agree that your claim is…pulled out of your ass. You can’t even fucking defend it. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:56 PM
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Your sources do not support your hypothesis that women magically have more options because they sit around on their asses and don’t do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:56 PM
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So every single girl you see out with a man is with a tall pretty boy? I would love for you to provide me with some proof and take photos of random couples you see. Not just the ones you hand pick. Let’s actually examine your claim and the evidence you have for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:45 PM
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I’m sorry you are mentally incapable of understanding a simple analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:39 PM
0

Then being tall good looking pretty boy must be what most average men look like I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:37 PM
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I literally used one example: women m only want to fuck tall white men. This is a claim that is made very often on PPD. It’s a very very common claim. And I pointed out how easily disputable it is and the common ways in which guys try to wiggle out of the counter argument by “yes butting” ad infinitum. As in: Yes, but those women are settling. Yes (a certain celebrity or regular guy may not be tall and white), but he’s rich or famous. Yes (some example of guy who is not rich or famous), but he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:35 PM
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The 5/10 guys CAN do that. With one extra step. €£¥
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:16 PM
-1

And yet there’s aren’t the only men who get laid. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:13 PM
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This! Also: TikTok. If it’s on TikTok, it’s an irrefutable fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:11 PM
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My nigga. Hot tall guys who can get any chick they want are not wifing up average plain Jane’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:03 PM
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Ladies and gentleman. Exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:02 PM
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I didn’t say there were good scientists
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:00 PM
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Well, their browns surely are. Because they always have “evidence” and “proof”. But to the exclusion of all evidence to the contrary. The brain can always find some “evidence” that supports a crazy hypothesis as long as it ignore all other evidence to the contrary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:59 PM
0

So why do all these chicks out on short skirts and high heels and more make up than KISS to go out to the club? Because it’s fun? Or are they trying to find a worthwhile man to fuck? Cause in my experience it’s the second. Again, you are sharing your experience and your perspective and over generalizing this to be the experience of every single man everywhere. It’s a cognitive distortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:40 PM
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How do you know that? Your only data point is….app membership? How does a woman have more options when she is passive and just sits there hoping for a cute guy to talk to her? You are pulling these ideas out of your ass to validate your weird RedPill ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:17 PM
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And you have been reported. Enjoy your ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:44 PM
1

Hold on. I thought women are all riding the cock carousel. So what happens to the 70 women who are interested in a relationship? Do they just cry themselves to sleep alone every night?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:42 PM
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So let me see…you are holding on to dear life to a non-scientific, non peer reviewed study from more than 15 years ago, that has not been replicated ever? Thats your sole source of truth? And mate copying? What data do you have that this is something that always happens? I’m waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:37 PM
3

What about an Asian soccer mom?
/r/seduction07/07/24 03:28 PM
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Do you have actual statistics on that? Have you asked those women is they are having the sex you imagine them to have? Have you confirmed your “data” or are you pulling it out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:27 PM
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The ratio of men to women on apps doesn’t reflect the genpop, where the ratio is 1:1. So something that you do everyday with your own friends and family, such as opening your mouth to say hello and have a conversation all of a sudden turns into huge, Herculean effort when it is applied to a club environment? Sure! I do agree that there might be less men sleeping with a larger % of women. Why does no one talk about these men? Do they not matter? Why do only the incel losers’ experiences matter in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 03:26 PM
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That’s like going to the gym twice and saying: gee, my muscles feel so sore. I don’t like it. I should stop going to the gym and I won’t get sore any more.
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:33 PM
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And who are these women getting laid so easily with? Other women? Sex aliens? Some third gender we haven’t heard about? Or maybe…just hear me out…maybe they get laid with men? So hold on. How come it is easy for a woman to get laid…with a man, but at the same time it is super hard for that man to get laid? The man who the woman easily gets sex with somehow has to work hard to get the same sex? That she easily gets with him? Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:24 PM
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So why are you going out to the club every week and only hitting on one girl? Thats retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:22 PM
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Slut shaming was invented by women in order to keep the price of sex artificially high. Moms tell daughters: don’t have sex unless the man commits to you. Because who will want to buy the cow if they can get the milk for free. And dads tell their daughters: be careful with men, they all want to just get into your pants, so make sure that they can take care of you and support you. When a woman has sex just because she wants to or because she enjoys it or because she enjoys hanging out with the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 02:20 PM
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Oh my fucking god. If you guys expended 1% of the energy you expend on thinking about your sexlessness to actually become a quality guy that women want to be with, you’d be too busy having too much sex to ever write dumbass posts like these.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:41 PM
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In prehistoric times, weak men like you who couldn’t hack it and get laid, would be culled from the tribe. You’d die off. Instead civilization has allowed you to thrive. Enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:40 PM
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This phenomenon is know as the “sexual cartel”. Johnny Soporno has a great explanation on it on YouTube: https://youtu.be/LB2_8Hx28UY?si=0k0971khXSZ_qWRr
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:38 PM
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I stopped pursing women like that a long time ago. I never wanted some chick to think she was doing me a favor or that I had to earn sleeping with her. If she starts giving me a hard time early on, I just tell her “no thanks” and go on my way. You guys are such desperate pussy crumb hounds and these girls can run circles around you with their games.
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:36 PM
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If I were you, I’d pay for some escorts, take them on a date, and go home and fuck them. In your own mind, convince yourself that you actually dated these girls. During those “dates”, you can ask them questions (you are paying them obviously), so what do women like to talk about, what’s a good way to do this or that, etc. Also when you get to the bedroom, ask them to show you a thing or two about eating pussy, etc. Don’t be shy. Second, do this in this order. Find an expensive hair salon in your…
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:34 PM
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Here is my fool proof method. Just walk aimlessly thought the streets, although dark alleys at night are definitely better, accost the first girl you see and blurt out “wanna fuck?”. Keep doing this until you either get laid or get arrested.
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:19 PM
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You don’t seem to have any idea how to lead.
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:18 PM
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Just by the language you use, I know what kind of guy you are and why you aren’t getting laid. Here is the reality. Women typically want to be with quality men. Yes, even the low quality bitches want to be with a quality man. Now ask yourself, is hanging out at a mall, a street corner or the local university campus and spam approaching women all day with cheesy “who lies more, men or women?” pick up lines scream I’M A HIGH QUALITY MAN to you? If it does, then it SHOULDN’T. It’s fucking lame. Do …
/r/seduction07/07/24 12:17 PM
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Yes it’s fucking creepy and could be considered sexual assault; you kind of got lucky actually.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:55 AM
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Of course not. You should never leave your apartment if you can.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:54 AM
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Professionally good looking women. Strippers, porn stars, escorts, models.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:52 AM
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So you rarely go out and talk to women and you are surprised you got rejected?
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:52 AM
0

Whaaa whaaa nobody will pick me to dance at the prom, whaaa.
/r/seduction07/07/24 11:51 AM
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It’s not wrong. They just charge a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:40 AM
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You already lost just by the way you phrased your post title.
/r/seduction30/06/24 01:32 AM
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You are a pussy hound, you know it, they know it and they are 100% in control because of it. You are bending yourself over backwards just to get a whiff of that pussy and can’t do that even when you have a naked girl in your bed. Let me give you a little hint about this. As long as you are more afraid that you will not get laid than they are afraid they won’t get to sleep with you, you will always lose. Let me repeat. As long as your fear of not getting them in bed is bigger than their fear of n…
/r/seduction30/06/24 01:31 AM
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No, old people life Bengay.
/r/seduction30/06/24 01:25 AM
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Slow day on OF?
/r/seduction30/06/24 01:24 AM
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5’11.5”. Told ya, not a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 01:20 AM
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No but I behave like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 12:29 AM
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Nah bitches should know their lane.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:04 PM
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This is like the 5th post with this exact same title in the last month or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:52 PM
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I do feel offended that some of these chicks who hit on me think they have a chance. But then again, a girl has to look like a pornstar to have a chance with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:51 PM
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It has nothing to do with status. We make it a status thing. The reason men want beautiful women is because biology tells us they are better for making kids. The same way, biology tells a woman that a man who is admired and respected is better for making kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 05:36 PM
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Yes they are. They believe it in their heart of hearts too. Not realizing that this belief is actually the cause of all their failures with women. I’ve never seen so many men willingly fight to stay in a prison if their own making.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:49 PM
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If you take a soccer player from Europe who is treated like a god over there and bring him to the USA, nobody would know who he is or give a fuck. Take an NFL player who has 5 different baby mamas and bring him to Europe and people will probably laugh at what a fatso he is. Status in the way you described is absolutely a social and cultural construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:47 PM
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I read about this Mongolian hawk hunter. Basically he used a hawk to hunt for animals. He was held in such high regard in his nomadic culture that he had like 3 girlfriends or something. I would love to see this guy come to a college bar anywhere in the US dressed in furs with his hawk and pick up chicks. He will be lauded a weirdo. Social status is absolutely a social construct. It’s actually the supposed admiration/respect others grant him that is the attractiveness factor. If a man learns to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:46 PM
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BUT MEN NEED WOMEN AND SEX OR THEY WILL DIE A HORRIBLE LONELY DEATH BECAUSE THEY HAVEN’T GOTTEN THEIR PEEPEE TOUCHED. NO, THERE ARE NO KNOWN CASES OF SOMEONE DYING OR BECOMING SEVERELY DISABLED DUE TO LACK OF SEX BUT DAMMIT IT FEELS LIKE DEATH BECAUSE ONLY FEELINGS REALLY MATTER AND NIT OBJECTIVE REALITY OR SCIENCE.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:41 PM
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Right. So the only way to get over it is to talk about it and take the shame out of it. By feeling ashamed of being shy and anxious, you just cement the feeling. By speaking freely about it especially with the type of people who make you anxious, you will release your shame. And when you do that and stop hiding you anxiety, it will disappear. But you seem obstinate and probably shouldn’t do this. You may actually get rid of you anxiety:m. What will you do then?
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:32 PM
1

Fine. Apply this to any of the male virgins you know in real life. Why haven’t they all died or become severely disabled if they NEED sex so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:16 PM
1

You learn not to beat yourself up by speaking about your anxiety to women. Go and talk to 10 women and tell them that you feel super anxious approaching them, but that you have decided today is the day you decided to get over your shyness and anxiety. Too scared to do it?
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:15 PM
10

Wow, how haven’t you won’t eh Nobel Prize yet!
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:13 PM
1

But according to OP, women being masculanized should make them unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:09 PM
2

Hmmm. You are a virgin according to your flair. Why haven’t you keeled over and died yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:08 PM
1

People never want what they can get and always want what they can’t get. Every single dating problem you’ve ever had can be explained by this universal law.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:11 PM
1

You probably have a vibe that you want/need something from women and that’s turning them off. The second they sense that you cannot leave it (as in take it or leave it), they know subconsciously that they have power over you and since no woman wants a man who is weaker than her, she gets turned off. Let me give you an example. You know how most men here post something like: “I met this girl and we had a great chat (or met online and talked for a week). I asked her out, but because our schedules …
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:50 AM
5

I will let you on a little secret. If you could magically forget 100% of the pua strategies you have learned, what you success will quadruple. Unfortunately for you, your brain has already been tainted forever with this crap.
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:37 AM
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Every animal on earth has a mating dance of some kind. Humans are an animal and as an animal we have a mating dance too. The biggest obstacle to men’s romantic and sexual success is that they A. Refuse to play the game (dance) OR B. They refuse to even admit there is a game (dance).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:35 AM
8

So let me get this straight! Women are more disagreeable and argumentative then before, they don’t take care of their man, they have let themselves go, gotten fat, haven’t shaved their legs and smell bad, yet they are sluts who rack up three figure n-counts? If they are so terrible why do men keep fucking them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:32 AM
5

Yep. This is the biggest issue with social media. While humans have fallen into the trap of believing irrational and wrong thoughts all throughout history, at least in the past, they were surrounded by enough rational people that they could eventually disprove their own irrational thoughts over time. But nowadays, you need a 5 min internet search to find a community of similar people who will echo and amplify any irrational and insane thought you have. From flat earth to black pill to believing …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:27 AM
1

Great strategy! Wait for the world to change to accommodate you. Can’t see how you won’t win in the end!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:16 AM
2

Sure sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:15 AM
0

I will go - an unbleached asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:15 AM
-2

No living human can ever compete with my dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:14 AM
2

Smelling a huge thing. I can smell a woman without seeing her face and be intoxicatedly attracted to her just off of that. And the smell usually matches the looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:13 AM
2

I can’t with women who have unkept nails. It just tells me that other things are unkept as well, kind of like the “messy house = emotional mess” trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:11 AM
-1

It figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:07 AM
-2

Is it any wonder so many of you struggle with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:05 PM
-5

You are not really getting it. His life is just a reflection of who he is. If his life is empty, that’s just a reflection that he has zero value. If he can’t even lead his own life how can he be expected to lead a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:46 PM
4

And I’m a 5ft tall balding Indian janitor who gets laid with a new supermodel every weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:39 PM
3

If you stop whining you may actually get the women you want. But it seems giving up the whining is a no go. Apparently whining is more important than actually getting a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:26 PM
9

A woman is not dating someone’s pickup skills. She is dating the whole of the man and his lifestyle. Those are inseparable. You cannot be a loser in life with nothing going on, except for “pickup skills”. You may fool a woman for a few minutes, but once she gets an insight into the real you and how you live your life, it’s game over. I know because I tried doing exactly that, believing in my heart of hearts that all I need was to meet a few ladies and have some sex and all my problems would be s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:11 PM
6

Solution to what? If he treats a girlfriend like a solution to some problem he thinks he has, he will be deeply disappointed. When you need women( they will always run away from you. When you stop needing them, they start needing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:53 PM
1

First of all you know nothing about me. But thanks for assuming out of your ass. Second; thanks for the anecdote. I guess that’s your version of the 5’, balding Indian janitor who fucks supermodels on weekends?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:43 PM
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This is even more retarded than “make friends with women first”. If a guy is a socially isolated, socially retarded nerd who has zero friends and nothing interesting going on in his life random mass approaching will only signal his desperation and neediness. He will always fail because his intention is to pick up on girls. If he wants to actually succeed, he will have to take several steps back in order to go forward. The solution is to fix his life, become the type of person women wouldn’t be e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:41 PM
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That’s a lot of words for “I don’t have the self respect or confidence to go after women that I really want and have to settle for the dregs”. Also, nice projection of your personal problems onto all of male hood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:58 PM
1

Yes. They may not be happy about it but they prefer to share a winner than have a loser all to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 05:30 PM
1

You are such a good boy! Woof woof!🐶
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:03 PM
3

So what? You just want to be proven right? You want to be right so bad?!who cares if you are actually successful romantically as long as you are right and get those wimminz to admit they are dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:01 PM
4

You know what your problem is along with 99% of the male population of PPD? You think you know everything. You think you are right and you have an insatiable need to be right, even when you are blatantly wrong. Yes but, yes but, yes but, followed by weak strawman arguments. Have you ever considered that your interpretation of things is just plain…incorrect? Untrue? False? Have you considered for a moment that you may not actually be right or know everything about most things?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:58 PM
4

I will explain to you why being “nice” is not an attractive quality. Men and women are very different in their attraction. Because a woman bears the child in her body for 9 months, men are primarily concerned with a woman’s looks, which are an indicator of her fertility. A younger woman, with the right hip to waist ratio, who is slim, has nice hair, skin, lips and eyes and so forth, is more likely to produce a healthy baby. You may want to research what physical attributes are indicators of fert…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:51 PM
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Lay off the crack pipe, will ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:24 PM
2

I don’t understand what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 11:44 AM
4

Make up is one of the illusions you know is not real, but you’d rather think it’s real because the reality is quite disappointing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:33 AM
1

If you are such a lame niqqa that you let a woman control your eyes, then you Are beyond saving.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:57 AM
6

I will tell you the end game of 99.99% of men here: they want to be right. They don’t care about actually being successful with women, getting laid and getting girlfriends. They want to be right! That’s their ultimate end goal. If they actually admit that 90% of their twisted ideas are wrong they might actually end up getting a girlfriend. But no! Being right is more important than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:55 AM
-8

I only date women between 19 and 19.5. I’m 42 going on 43.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:54 AM
1

I love my dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:53 AM
-13

Blow job skills. Enthusiasm when giving blow jobs. Ability to swallow large loads. Brownie points if she does anal (pun not intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:17 PM
-3

Ugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:46 PM
3

Oh, but their narrative is working very well. It has a lot of benefits. Let’s see: You always get to keep your victim status and cry for sympathy and pity. You always have someone else to blame, like evil wimminz and the Chads who fuck them. You never ever have to do anything to change your social skills because it’s all predetermined that you’re ugly so why bother. I could be probably list ten others easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:40 AM
5

Your post is such a self own. Fugly women can find a guy, maybe not the one they want but they can find A guy. Well my dude, it goes both ways. For every fugly woman finding a guy, well there is a fugly guy who is getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 11:31 AM
2

Bro you are so fucking weird bro. Get help. Take your pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:43 PM
5

If Gwyneth Paltrow was a dating coach.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:40 PM
9

Let me make sure I understand you correctly. You seem to operate out of IF - THEN command paradigm. Meaning: IF I improve in xyz THEN women are obliged to love me. And the unspoken assumption: and IF they don’t THEN they are rotten hypergamous whores. Got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:36 PM
2

They are called gay clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 10:28 PM
17

MILFS only! If you ain’t a a MILF, keep swiping.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:53 AM
10

You seem to have a lot of “love” for women as is evident by your posts. So much “unconditional” love for women it hurts!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 01:50 AM
0

lol take advice from the incels then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 09:18 PM
1

He said every woman is a whore except your mom or sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 08:37 PM
1

David X’s first rule is almost never followed around these parts. Rule #1 states: who cares what women think or say. If you listen to them you will go crazy (as a man).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:38 PM
0

The are 19. According to many women on PPD your brain is not fully developed. You should probably not strain it with such thoughts or it may not develop properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 06:36 PM
3

Are you actually asking PPD men to give up their persecution complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 01:19 PM
0

I’m 42 going on 43. I’m married to a slightly older woman. If I were single though, I’d probably only date girls between 19 and 19.5 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:54 AM
3

Why doesn’t the world change for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:33 AM
2

Did the demand for men die off once the vibrator or the dildo was invented?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:32 AM
0

Exactly! Here is another problem with the unspoken demand that you be loved because you pick up a hobby. “Since you are obliged to like me now that I have a hobby, you are rotten shit and a slut of you don’t”. WOW! I wonder why OP doesn’t have many takers!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:40 PM
1

You assume people here actually want advice on how to improve their success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 08:18 PM
0

Not a psychiatrist, just been around these parts long enough to spot a guy who feels he has to earn women’s love and who feels inferior to them. You think you are so special? Your self hate I can smell through my phone dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:10 PM
1

You guys are just not getting it. You are fighting so hard to stay in your little prison of neediness and loneliness, where women are your imaginary prison guards but also your imaginary saviors. Simultaneously keeping you locked up in loneliness AND the only ones able to break you out of the prison of loneliness. Except the prison is of your own making and women have no idea that they have a job at your imaginary prison. Get over yourself. The more you tell yourself you need women, the less the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:09 PM
2

It’s not. You dweebs can’t see just how much of a turn off your neediness and desperation is. I’ve never seen anyone who makes women or men so incredibly important in their life, actually successfully get into a loving relationship. At most they desperately chase after folks who treat them like trash. There is nothing noble in needing women/love/sex to even feel like a normal human being. It’s actually pathetic. And the behavior that this belief drives is super unattractive. Yet, as I commented …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 06:21 PM
1

You are just straw manning. Try harder. At least argue the points in my post, instead of offering this dishonest BS and twisting my words.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:53 PM
2

You misunderstand the purpose of that advice. It is not so you can meet women through your hobby although that would be a nice bonus. It is so you have some purpose in life and a source of happiness that is not women. As a matter of fact, if you take on a hobby hoping it will ultimately lead to getting women that’s even worse. It’s just a sign of how needy you are. You are obviously not happy with yourself or think of yourself very highly which explains your results.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:48 PM
6

I’ve never seen so many men fight so hard to stay in the terrible prison they have build for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:38 PM
1

I agree with everything you wrote. Just a side note, when I speak of “status” I make a difference between the unspoken hierarchy or value we assign to ourselves and others AND social status, which is things that are celebrated by society, such as a specific career, celebrity, financial abilities, etc. The unspoken hierarchy status is basically how a person sees themselves and behaves around others. If he perceives himself as lower value, lower status, unworthy, etc., he will behave in a certain …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:21 PM
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It goes way deeper than this. Way way psychologically deeper. These guys have a deep seated need for women/sex/love in order to be happy. It’s just a belief. A value system they have bought into. But the implications of adopting this value system have very real consequences for them in real life. When you tell yourself you need something, you tend to put it on a pedestal and try to chase it and earn it like a trophy. Hence, why men use words like “rewarded”, when talking about women getting toge…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 11:07 AM
2

I’m that guy except I’m married. I just show up. That’s all I literally need to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:24 AM
0

By becoming bad girls who suck, fuck and do anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:23 AM
1

Are you dumb or you just play a dumb person on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 11:11 PM
0

If you ever wonder why so many young women are insufferable, it’s because men allowed them to become like this by never putting them in their place. The good news is, that if you are a man who respects himself and is not afraid to lose a woman, you will have more women than you know what to do with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:59 PM
3

TikTok has friend your brain beyond help.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:33 PM
1

You can find dates as well. But you want dates with attractive people. Aaaah. Well, so do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:49 PM
1

I think it’s more complex than that. It obviously happens a lot especially with women being attracted to money and status that it has become part of the zeitgeist. I believe that wealth and status communicate many desirable traits. That the man is driven, focused, knows what he wants, is a winner. Plus we’ve been conditioned to equate success and status with feeling good about ourselves and getting permission from society to act confident. Another very big reason is that money=security and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:46 PM
1

It’s a terrible advice not only for the reasons you have listed, which are all amazing and I wholeheartedly agree with, but also because it communicates subconsciously that your only worth as a man is your job, wealth, social status. The thing is most women can’t tell the difference between a financially successful man who feels good about himself and walks with pride because of his achievements AND a man who is not that successful in the eyes of society but who still feels good about himself an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:37 PM
1

The one thing all moderately attractive to super hot women have in common is how men approach them. Which is usually one of two ways. Either: “OMG, you are the hottest woman I’ve seen, I’m honored just to be in your presence and I would do anything to be with you. I would honestly eat 10 ft of your shit just to see the hole it came out of!” Which of course is a total turn off since no woman wants a man who will bend himself and denigrate himself for her. Plus she’s heard it all before except may…
/r/seduction20/06/24 10:56 AM
5

Everyone has already told you that you are focusing on the wrong things, which is her sex and you are making it the prize instead of your own enjoyment which should be the prize. What does this mean. You have already decided you want to fuck this girl. That’s bad news. Why? Because once you’ve decided you want to fuck her, you go into “selling mode”. You have sold yourself on her but you are not sure if she is sold on you. So you will spend your date trying to convince her to have sex with you. …
/r/seduction20/06/24 10:41 AM
8

Start by doing this exercise. Begin with what you are telling yourself: I need constant female validation. Then draw a line beneath this sentence pointing downwards and ask yourself: If I do not have this, what would this mean? Then you write the next thought: If I don’t have female validation, I would have to work harder to obtain it. Then again draw and arrow and ask the same question: if this doesn’t happen, than what would this mean to me? Keep doing this until you get to the bottom of the s…
/r/seduction20/06/24 10:30 AM
1

I mean, I don’t keep stats and that was years ago. The thing is, I was getting lots of numbers, etc, but mostly flakes, or if I did get dates, somehow I managed to screw it up. It was very random. I did get laid and did date and get a girlfriend or two, but for the amount of work I was putting in, it was seriously not great results. When I figured out that the problem was trying too hard, being too needy attached to an outcome (I ALWAYS had to have a good outcome, I always HAD to seduce a girl).…
/r/seduction19/06/24 09:16 PM
1

Yah, but there is a better way to do it. First, stop going out for the purpose of picking women up. Trust me, they will feel your needy vibe from across the street. I did it for years. My results were abysmal. The only time I had success was when things were spontaneous. Find a few places in city that have a high population of women you like. Cafes, bars, bookstores, etc. Start frequenting those places as part of your weekly routine. After work, stop at a cafe; have a cappuccino and do some work…
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:36 PM
4

Here is my take on this as someone who has approached hundreds of women and fell for the whole pick up bullshit. You have to understand that going out for the purpose of approaching women on the street is inherently extremely needy. Let’s be honest here. What does it say about you? I will give you a hint: I don’t have a life. I don’t have any friends who can introduce me to women. I am so desperate for female contact that I have to resort to the least effective method of meeting women ever. I am…
/r/seduction19/06/24 08:20 PM
4

It’s certainly the easiest way to do it. If you wanted to eat something, would you go and hang around restaurants that are closed but may open later in the day? Or do you go to a place which is open and waiting for clients?
/r/seduction19/06/24 07:05 PM
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Why do you HAVE to approach sitting sets? I’m guessing women who are sitting down having a drink and talking to each other and not there to meet men? Are you THAT desperate?
/r/seduction19/06/24 06:38 PM
2

No
/r/seduction19/06/24 05:54 PM
7

A case of talking women out of sleeping with you 101.
/r/seduction19/06/24 05:53 PM
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