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TRT_Maybe_Deca/r/askMRP28/12/19 02:51 AM
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Makes sense, this is an area I have just started to learning more about. It looks like I could likely gain something from digging more into. I need to and want to up my game, but think this can help me be more authentic
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 03:16 AM
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OYS #10 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Reading TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Practical Female Psychology, Models, SGM, MAP Physical: 5’6 150, currently cutting Training: Wendlers 531'ish Incline 195x6(3+week), Squat 275x5(1+), Bench 200x8 (3+) 60 DOD: Made it to week 5, then when things got tough I went back to majoring in the minor bullshit of the previous weeks both because I don't like to leave things unfinished, and more importantly as an excuse to avoid the more…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 02:24 PM
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is the ego truly ego, or is it merely defense for feelings of inadequacy? This is something I think about, obviously it is going to depend on the situation Being fat was ego game and other things more related specifically to sex are often feelings of inadequacy Own my own sexual desire, how often and how the rest of you crazy cats desire sex doesn’t effect me. That is from my 3rd OYS, and is definitely just another version of "I'm not like other guys"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/21 12:27 PM
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OYS #9 (1st post rule 9 ban) Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Reading TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Practical Female Psychology, Models, SGM, MAP Physical: 5’6 152, currently cutting Training: Wendlers 531'ish Incline 195x6(3+week), Squat 275x5(1+), Bench 200x8 (3+) 60 DoD Week 1- Training: Cutting calories and on week 3 without 100mg deca on top of my TRT so not surprised my progress is slowing. Still doing my mobility work and even if I'm not getting stronger squats …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/21 08:04 PM
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OYS #8 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Reading TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Practical Female Psychology, Models, SGM, MAP Physical: 5’6 155, currently cutting My scale broke, not sure of total weight loss progress but still moving in the right direction. Down another 1-2lbs from last week Training: Wendlers 531'ish Incline 195x3(1+week), Squat 265x7(1+), Bench 205x6 (1+) 60 DoD Week 1- Adopt better training habits: Another week of hitting my goals (4 training days + …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 03:16 PM
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Bathroom scale, got a new one I trust the mirror first, but new scale reads a few lbs heavier so messed up tracking weight loss progress. So not a real issue, just frustrating
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/21 01:53 AM
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She intends to do the business and be a stay-at-home mom, which I am fine with. If you were fine with it you wouldn't be making a post Half your post is trying to convince a bunch of fucking internet strangers that you found a great partner. And the other half is trying to convince us that you are so fit and I think you might have a 6 figure income? Mention that a few more times and maybe we can figure it out. You are still seeking validation so hard you should probably marry a women in her earl…
/r/askMRP26/04/21 03:23 AM
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OYS #7 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Reading TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Practical Female Psychology, Models, SGM, MAP Physical: 5’6 157, currently cutting My scale broke and picked up another one that reads 3-4lbs heavier, not truly a setback but is annoying. Training: Wendlers 531'ish Incline 195x3(1+week), Squat 250x10(3+), Bench 195x8 (3+) 60 DoD Week 1- Adopt better training habits: I have stuck to my goals of more mobility work, and have been lifting 4 days …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 03:34 PM
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Not sure if this is a covert contract but my belief about these girls (HB7 and above) is: When I am physically attractive (through lifting); my finances are sorted; I have leveled up my wardrobe and style; and have other shit in my life sorted, then I will feel worthy of such women. This is the same things Nice Guystm in deadbedrooms hear from their partners... But you are telling all those things to yourself! As time goes on you will just keep moving the goal posts further away, all an effort t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 01:56 PM
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realized I was wrong about something. I don't need to know what my specific vision is to know that working out (for example) This is why lifting and eating right is a core principle How many other areas of your life can you apply this same concept to?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/21 04:07 AM
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IMO a true Alcoholic is dependent on Alcohol to get through his day. That doesn't sound like you. I have always liked the definition of addiction as continually engaging in a behavior even while it has harmful consequences. Which makes it a bit more ridiculous that I continued engage in those things.. And if I have any questions I will lean on you, that is another area I am weak in. Alcohol doesn't interfere with every day, bu
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/21 03:51 AM
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Alcohol lied to me- by Craig Beck. It totally changed my mental model. Just bought this, looking forward to it. Appreciate you looking out for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/21 02:57 AM
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I believe we are at a similar stage But just appreciate some things don't need a bigger picture. Being bigger/leaner/stronger makes life easier even if your asexual is a perfect example. Those things just make everything easier, with the side benifit of being more fuckable. Flirting with girls is just for validation if you wouldn't actually fuck them. Maybe I just distrust all of my motives too much This is the big thing, you still don't respect your own opinion. I am about to reread WISNIFG I b…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 04:20 AM
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We dont give a fuck, but we did this week. I could see this before you said it, and I am not going to take that fact lightly. Appreciate your effort brother, it didn't fall on def ears. And I didn't even catch some unfortunate flare!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/21 04:09 AM
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Lifting. PPL split with HIIT. Process goal is at least one PR per lifting day, this week I had 6. Why? What does hitting a PR everyday achieve the long run? Does this make you bigger? Does it make you stronger? Or did it just sound like a good goal to have? Diet. Process goals are five days carnivore and two days fasting. Complete this week. Again why? What is eating carnivore and fasting achieve? Game. Goal is to do the number of approaches equal to my OYS. Completed 15. Why? Because someone to…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 04:53 AM
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Going pick this one up for sure, appreciate it brother
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/21 04:22 AM
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Its not the fact you drink, its why you drink. Sounds like you use it as a crutch. Some of the time for sure, and those are also the times it can get out of control. You also sound like a basic bitch when you say things like "I wont be any fun without 4 beers and 2 shot in me" This is one of the last things I'm trying to unfuck myself on! I am fun to be around, but was one of those guys that gave up his social life once married as part of my buy in to "happy wife, happy life" BS. Old mentalities…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 06:52 PM
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Right now I feel frustrated, almost no sex, we flirt and have some kisses and grabs during the day, but it does not advance. I decided to try out the method explained on this post From that very post: PREREQUISITES I'm not an idiot. At my worst, I weighed 275lbs. No matter how hard I tried, there's no way I was ever going to convince her that physical touch with an obese man would be desirable. Don't kid yourself on that point either. That said, to turn things around, I didn't have to be a male …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 05:03 PM
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You need to get to a meeting, and move your negative addiction to a positive one. Literally everything will fall into place when this happens. You need an online sponsor, let me fucking know. If I can't find the resources I need I will take you up on this! Your perspective is a lot like mine, alcohol isn't so much an issue because of the immediate negative impacts on my life... I could fit those calories into my diet etc. Its that I can't control it, most of the time I can but the times I can't …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 04:55 PM
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Isn't this just her ovulatory cycle? (break = period, vanilla = pre ovulation, escalation = ovulation, seeks comfort = luteal phase, provocation = pms) No, because the more attractive I become the longer the on periods are and the shorter the off periods.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 04:50 PM
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OYS #6 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Reading TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Practical Female Psychology, Models, SGM, MAP Physical: 5’6 153, currently cutting Training: Wendlers 531'ish Incline 185x6(3+week), Squat 240x11(5+), Bench 185x11 (5+) 60 DoD Week 1- Adopt better training habits: Have been sticking to this and working on my mobility and weak points, even got in an extra workout last week. Wake up moving better already Week 2- Nutrition: I know how to eat, I …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 03:46 PM
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I’ve already admitted last week that I only care about being jacked and don’t really care about strength. I’m no longer tiptoeing and just plunging in. That was you 4 months ago.... but then you quickly abandoned that because 2lbs of weightloss made you cold all the time I am well into flabby territory at this body weight. I hate it, but it’s a price I have to pay if my focus is strength gains. The goal is to hold on to this body weight for a year until I achieve my strength goals. This is you n…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 03:59 AM
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Read this until you puke and realize how much bullshit you are telling yourself in one sentence. 99% chance you are correct!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:04 PM
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I initiated last week and she set up for starfish sex. I just rolled off and said I’m not having shit boring sex anymore, then I went to sleep. The next morning I left the house for work without saying goodbye to her. Later that day she texted me saying she was sorry and can we have an early night together and have some sex. We had sex that night but I was still in my head seeking validation and struggled to keep a hard on. You struggled to keep an erection not just because you were seeking vali…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 03:40 PM
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OYS #5 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Reading TRM, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Poon, Pook, Practical Female Psychology, Models, SGM, MAP Physical: 5’6 154, started cut @ 159 18-20% BF- Haven't actually weighed myself this week, I'm down a size on my lifting belt so know things are progressing in the right direction. Training: 531, going good and on week 4 I now am at the point to start pushing PR's Incline 175x8(5+week), Squat 255x5(1+), Bench 200x6(1+) My squat/bench workouts last…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 03:19 PM
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OYS #4 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Physical: 5’6 154, started cut @ 159 18-20% BF Cutting now and started a 531 program, needed something new and its nice to have everything laid out for you, just lift the weights without having to think too much about it. Starting 3rd week of 531 Incline 190x5(1+week), Squat 245x10(3+), Bench 190x9(3+) Incline press in place of OHP, started a little heavy there but feeling strong otherwise. Had a friend/coworker post a picture of his faint…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/21 01:41 PM
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OYS #3 Me- Basics: 39, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Physical: 5’6 158 Squat 315, Bench 225, Incline 215, back work is all high volume right now Last post I mentioned progress was grinding to a halt, then last week I was just feeling burned out from lifting weights. In the past I would of pushed any harder, and usually just get more burned out a lifts would go backwards. I was just short of my goals, wanted to hit 160lb+ bodyweight, 3+ reps of squat at 315, and incline 225. Time for new goal…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 06:35 PM
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If its in the name of science
/r/askMRP04/03/21 03:33 AM
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OYS #2 Me- Basics: 38, married 13yrs, 2 kids 16m and 12F Physical: 5’6 159 Squat 285 3x3, Bench 215x4, Incline 195x5, back work is all high volume right now Least progress I have made on my main lifts since taking a 6month break and restarting Nov 1. I slept like shit all week so that was likely part of the problem, or maybe a sign I need a break. I had good progress on all my assistance work so I am staying on track and will see what the next couple of weeks bring. I thought my weight had stall…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/21 04:21 AM
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OYS #1 I have been meaning to start Owning My Shit again for a few weeks now, failure to commit to organizing my thoughts and falling back on procrastinating has held me back. Those are obvious reasons why I need to be here! Quick Intro: I want to say I got turned onto MRP about 3 years ago. Same story as most guys, wanted sex and wife didn’t want me. Saw improvements in all areas of my life… until I got lazy. If you aren’t moving forward in life you are moving backwards. Me- Basics: 38, married…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 07:41 PM
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I'm pretty pissed now You know why you are pissed, because you did what you thought you were supposed to do and then 'Rona showed you that you still have no fuckin clue what you are doing. You read the books, started martial arts, started lifting.... why didn't everything just fall in place? Because you are still the same beta fuck you were before, you didn't internalize any of this shit! At this point, I don't care to be married anymore, How would your life be better if you were single, and mor…
/r/askMRP12/12/20 05:07 AM
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She is going to keep bumping into your frame until she is satisfied it is as solid as you act like it is. It has nothing to do with her shame, none of this has to do with her! Your relationship will improve when you quit worrying about shit like this
/r/askMRP21/11/20 07:05 PM
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190lbs at 12% with such low numbers. Something's off. He is a lot fatter then he realizes, that is what's off
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 03:35 AM
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5'11 200lbs and you lift.... So are you strong as fuck or fat? Those are the only options. Also you have only mentioned your ed, but how is your desire? How often to you flog the donkey?
/r/askMRP31/10/20 04:19 AM
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she was on of my plates at the time. I don't know what we are now. Sounds like you are patiently waiting for her to define the relationship. This speaks volumes of your frame, or complete lack of one.
/r/askMRP18/10/20 04:04 AM
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If you you like PHAT have you ran Jacked and Tan 2.0? Its PHAT with periodization, so phat but but more reps AND heavier weight AND less burnout PHUL, Westside for skinny bastards, and 531 are great next steps for guys who have graduated from a 5x5 program. PHAT and JT2.0 are the next step up
/r/askMRP16/10/20 03:32 AM
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go fuck the babysitter. Fuck that stupid pregnant bitch. Or read the sidebar? Instructions unclear, read the babysitter and fucked the pregnant chick and the sidebar (RIP my kindle)
/r/askMRP06/10/20 02:02 AM
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It is as simple as looking at the situation and understanding if you are really topping... or is she topping from the bottom However, in 24x7 married D/s, I have seen many statements of "she is my prized possession". She... you see that and its about seeking validation from outside.... and the dude probably is cucked so you might as well fuck his girl already
/r/askMRP04/10/20 03:07 AM
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Max weight isn’t everything, just look at body builders. Body builders use straps Hafthor Bjornsson and Eddie Hall use straps and deadlift more then your three lift total. Why take your advice over people who actually move substantial weight? FYI I deadlift with a mixed grip + chalk and maybe straps, but conventional dl doesn't do much for me because I have wierd leverages. But I can do RDL with a snatch grip (to get a greater range of mption) double overhand with 275lbs for multiple sets of 10+…
/r/askMRP04/10/20 02:59 AM
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Edit: for reference I can do over 300lbs for reps with dual overhand grip I would totally take advice from the guy who can DL 3 plates, crazy weight bro! Sacrificeing your DL weight because you have a weak grip when there is a simple solution just makes no sense. You don't do DL's to build grip strength, treating it as such just neglects bigger sexier muscle groups. Do all the work you can without straps and add in some extra grip work. This way you get a stronger grip and can keep progressing y…
/r/askMRP03/10/20 09:49 PM
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I occasionally do speak to topics that she isn't in love with I'll be talking about some retarded bullshit She wants to talk about girly shit things that give her feelings She interrupts you because the only thing you are making her feel is bored, if you want to talk about your retarded bullshit that's what friends are for
/r/askMRP12/09/20 08:07 PM
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So simple, but until you have frame its not easy
/r/askMRP26/07/20 03:56 AM
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It's hard for me to see myself having kids with this woman and, at the same time, I have no certainty I'll ever find another "good" girl to have healthy kids with (she'll have to be like 30-32 and i'll be like at best 36-38?). That is because you have dabbled in some reading and not done any of the work. You are the same guy your wife didn't want to have "the type of sex you like" with... take her back and your the same guy, you will get the same sex as before. Shit even if you don't take her ba…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 03:48 AM
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I'll be 35 soon so I'll have to work extra hard to find a woman young enough to have healthy kids. It just might be this bitch I have to learn to manage and control or nothing. Jesus this is the absolute epitome of lack of abundance! You are 35, not 85... if you have been reading the sidebar (douptful) and doing the work (obviously a negative there) you would know you have some potential. Until you understand your potential every relationship is going to go exactly as your marriage did. So give …
/r/askMRP06/05/20 01:44 AM
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Now, something that never worked for me enough to never start thinking and getting it again from females - deeper emotional connecting It never worked for you... so why are you still seeking it? Because you feel like you should, but who defines what you should do? Obviously not you I have no idea what it is, but 'feel' it's some shit that I don't know to speak nor understand, it's weird thing Congratulations you are a man, and this confirms it. You should be proud of this, you don't think like a…
/r/askMRP26/04/20 04:28 AM
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Read the sidebar. Lead by example. Where in the sidebar do I find the bit about letting the 3 year old call the shots in the house? You say lead by example, and also tell him to let his kid throwing a fit dictate what is going to happen in the house... caving to a toddler is the example you want him to set? A 3yr old throwing a fit means they are old enough to have learned that a temper tantrum means they get what they want. This isn't some spontaneous reaction from the kid. Children are a great…
/r/askMRP25/04/20 03:19 AM
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Your not an insecure bitch because you didn't lift, just a fatter less muscular insecure bitch. Actual low testosterone isn't even a valid excuse for this, let alone natural variations. Sidebar and hit the weights, plate push aways and fork set downs need to be done on a daily basis
/r/askMRP24/02/20 03:55 AM
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Not overweight, just aromatize like a motherfucker for some reason. Just double checked my last bloodwork without arimidex and total T was only in the 500s and E2 was 50! My HCT is on the high end always as well, but had a cardiologist who is TRT himself not to worry. P5P helps lower prolactin, and helps for healthy dopamine levels. TRT can be a bitch, but the moderate benefits have been well worth the effort
/r/askMRP04/01/20 04:18 AM
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There are a lot of guys around here who are just getting started and already claim they are facing an onslaught of comfort tests... seemed to be a trend for the end of 2019. That's not not how it works, she isn't afraid of losing this guy... she doesn't need comfort
/r/askMRP03/01/20 04:06 AM
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Teens SHBG and EOD injections seem to be the sweet spot, still need .25 arimidex e3.5d to manage E2. 100mg/week test C gets my total test in the 800s but e2 in the 50s which is too high for me (hence the adex) been trying to dial in TRT for almost 2 years and finally getting close. Deca will come when I have the mental fortitude to deal with any possible sides. Have added NAC and p5p to my regiment which has got my libido back, and the dopamine is a small excuse for my bitch ass behavior.
/r/askMRP03/01/20 03:50 AM
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She is testing you and you are showing exactly how much of bitch you are. This bit is useful advice and a key to where I fucked up. Another point is change always includes pushback, because that is human nature. PS - your TRT dose is too low or your estrogen is fucked because you definitely are lacking the DNGAF that comes with high T. I have read a lot of your comments around here and believe you have a greater understanding of things then to believe this is true. I also have extremely low SHBG…
/r/askMRP01/01/20 05:50 AM
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Why are you getting unhinged by a small change in routine and internet comments? This is gold my man, thank you And to others reading this I am not a troll, I started this post to add some content and ended up puking on it all! After made this post I remembered something I heard this year, who you are some of the time is who you are all the time.
/r/askMRP29/12/19 05:16 AM
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How so? Not trying to argue but I have obviously missed your point
/r/askMRP28/12/19 04:59 AM
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De-load week usually means you go to the gym and do your weights at 60%, not stay home. Sometime it means take a whole week off, if you lift hard you understand that. Ny first full week off in over a year. I earned that shit If you're really busy and wife only gets to spend 20 minutes with you, maybe ten or 15 of those minutes will be having sex. If you're around 18 hours a day and "not doing anything" for days at a time just because it's "deload week" she sees you being lazy then there's no exc…
/r/askMRP28/12/19 04:56 AM
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Dancing Monkey means you're still running a bunch of covert contracts expecting her to respond to you the way you want her to. I understand dancing monkey, but do not see how it applies here. And that is probably the main point of this post, there likely are covert contracts I don't see. R&R is part of being on Mission. Which this R&R was, it coincided with my mission Dude isn't swinging his balls ... He was giving a nuanced response He could have been, but doubt it. Think he was seeking up vote…
/r/askMRP28/12/19 04:40 AM
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-1 Demerit for the Victim Puke. Agreed, you should see what was in my samsung notes -1 Demerit for running a Dancing Monkey Improvement Program. This is a perspective I didn't see and something I haven't much information about -1 for not being on Mission Was taking a moment for R&R, if you read the post that was the main question. All signs pointed to the wife being on board, until I chilled from my mission. -2 for being in HER Frame. I thought I mentioned that, but this is 100% accurate -3 for …
/r/askMRP28/12/19 04:03 AM
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. What's the best way to make sure you spend quality time with the kids this week while you are off? Get your lifts in? Do those projects you wanted to do? Talk to your dad about the investments you were considering? Etc. Quality time with the kids, got that covered. Not getting lifts in because it is a much deserved deload week House projects on hold because drywall dust and house guest dont mix well My dad is worth millions... but inherited the vast majority of his money and I will see none of…
/r/askMRP28/12/19 03:48 AM
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Semantics Are your an English teacher?
/r/askMRP28/12/19 03:18 AM
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Still fucking here a couple times a week with my morning wood, so I at least am covering that base
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/19 04:49 AM
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She is pretty fat, not sure if that is the issue or not as can go weeks without busting a nut with no issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/19 04:08 AM
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37 years old, same for the wife. Married 12, 2 kids 10 (with the wife) and 15 (from ONS) Stats: 5'5 153, up 8lbs since my first OYS on 10/29 225 B, 275x3 S, 365 DL, 145x3OHP Aborted attempt at 375 dead because I thought I was going to rip a callous... probably would of been fine. But live to fight another day. My 1 rep max and 6 rep max on dead are way to close so glad I tested. Previous OYS I was checking out a new gym, it was nice but had no energy. Also was looking for a new program, more hea…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/19 04:03 AM
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So how about dread level 3? Dread Level 3: Begin to build a life apart from your wife. Levels 4-8 do nothing with out this
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 03:09 AM
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I was reading through level 1 and was like "check did that." Level 2 "Check" Level 3 "Check" Level 4 "Check"... All the way up to Level 8 which is "Talk to pretty girls in public" and I freakin even do that, but for fun I amped that up more. And no response. I think she just expects me to do this now. This is where I stopped reading, you are still failing to launch at level 3. And you dread doesn't work if your talking to pretty girls like you are their creepy uncle. Can you flirt with women mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 02:01 AM
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tonight when I inevitably will get rejected I plan on getting up and saying I’m going to the gym (out of the norm for me since neither of us leave the house after the kids are in bed). This is an attempt to introduce dread and ultimately get my stomach down and muscles swollen This will only inspire dread if you can pull it off while not showing your butthurt. And you lose the stomach at the dinner table. I agree you won't get laid tonight, but if you do go hit the gym tomorrow. No excuse
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 12:44 AM
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I'm the kind of person that fixes myself when I'm called out And that's the problem She couldn't tell you how to give her the feelings she gets from the tattooed gentleman. You live your life reacting to others, that is no way to live. Go read No More Mr. Nice Guy, and then The Rational Male.... if you aren't pissed at yourself after reading those books there is no hope for you. But we can't help you until you do some work yourself
/r/askMRP02/12/19 05:41 AM
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• Be the cool dad whom the kids respect and love to spend time with If you can pull this off you will learn loads, kids see through a lack of congruence even better then women in my experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/19 02:45 AM
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Thanks for the reminder that I need to schedule my vasectomy So it's not all bad, your helping to remind the rest of us to stay on our toes. That flair is dreamy as fuck too Also marriages can handle 3 kids, sounds like you can't manage 2. Man the fuck up
/r/askMRP22/11/19 03:55 AM
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37 years old, same for the wife. Married 12, 2 kids 10 (with the wife) and 15 (from ONS) Stats: 5'5 150 weight is moving up at the rate I want (for the most part) meal prepping makes life much easier, and gainz as well 225 B, 275 S, 350 DL, 145 OHP TRT keeping test levels near top of the physiological range.... recently switched injection frequency to try and find my libido again, ended up crashing my estrogen. I have had low e2 before (11 confirmed on blood work) but this was all that and worse…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 03:56 AM
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It requires creativity, immersion and safety. Immersion is the big one, for both of them. Neither of them are in immersed in it... he is faking it till he makes it, and she is trying to play along. This is my major hangups as well This bedroom dynamic has a lot of parallels to mrp life, fake it till you make it works... until it doesn't. If he was strong and confident she would feel safe
/r/askMRP18/11/19 03:57 AM
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This is golden advice right here And the answer to most of the things that pop up on here We all need friends like u/BostonBrakeJob
/r/askMRP18/11/19 03:46 AM
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You haven’t used Defy, but say they suck. I’ve used Defy, and they’re great. If they’re prescribing Clomid, it’s to try and jumpstart their natural T production BEFORE reverting to lifelong TRTz That’s sound medical advice Is it though? Clomid monotherapy is not a restart, that doesn't work. What did they prescribe you? Was it 75mg or 200mg per week?
/r/askMRP17/11/19 01:47 AM
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They aren't any better then a men's clinic you can find locally (in most cases) so why pay for telemedicine when you can pay the same and get treated by someone you can talk to face to face? Also you have to pay a hefty fee, and get meds through there pharmacy, or pay $75 to get a script to fill locally. I had another username and spent some time in the rabbit hole that is r/testosterone and defy seems to have no standard procedures. Men with secondary hypogonadism are prescribed clomid, 100mg t…
/r/askMRP16/11/19 05:07 AM
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I think I counted 36 comments on this guy related to lifting And his stats are Weight: 183lbs SQUAT: 209llbs BENCH:150llbs, PRESS: 115.7lbs, DEADLIFT: 217.7llbs, BARBELL ROW: 176llbs He is weak as hell, his squat/deadlift/row ratio shows his form is absolutely shit... this is supposed to be own your shit weekly Get stronger my man, weight lifting isn't as complicated as most of these guys are trying to make you believe... your effort just sucks u/SBIII is the only rational one in this discussion
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/19 04:26 AM
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Same shit different day Follow the same plan laid out here like the rest of us have. NMMNG WISNIFG MMSLP Then start to grasp the 12 levels of dread, and implement the steps (which if you read and internalize these books you will get to level 3) This is why everyone's first response to a post here is Sidebar The difference between me and you; When my less then great libido prevents me from from fucking, my wife assumes it is because I don't find her attractive When your less then great libido pre…
/r/askMRP16/11/19 04:05 AM
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Of course! Shady AF
/r/askMRP16/11/19 03:48 AM
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MRP is about fixing the man not the limp dick Or The getting hard plan is the same as the limp dick plan??? My libido still is far from great, but MRP has still lead me to a better life, and a better marriage came of that. Though I still have some of the same thoughts as OP, only rarely though. True OI is the key, OP is surely in his big head about this which is effecting the little head. Diet, exercise, proper hormone levels, a good headspace... these are all the fundamentals of MRP, and also a…
/r/askMRP14/11/19 04:15 PM
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Great how to! However disagree with the glass plugs, we are big fans and they clean up the best, plus you can use silicone lube which lasts a lot longer then water based. DP with a decent sized plug can also lead to squirting from my experience. Also the right one in your bum can lead to more intense ejaculation as well. Give us some tips on dominating if you want to keep making these posts. I can get anal almost as often as I want, if I have the balls to go for it. Being a pleaser in the bedroo…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/19 04:50 AM
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More then u/letsbiohackslaves I bet, even while he is trying to reinvent his TRT treatment u/letsbiohackslaves she didn't cheat because she is a whore, she cheated because she wasn't afraid of losing her husband. What lesson are you going to learn from this?
/r/askMRP09/11/19 06:10 AM
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This makes a lot of sense, AKA I am overthinking it I have a tendency to do that, and believed I was tiptoeing on that line. Sometimes (most times) I need to do more and think less
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 06:30 PM
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Just ordered more 1ml syringes for trt... was tempted to add the 3ml to the shopping cart as well....
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 06:28 PM
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37 years old, same for the wife. Married 12 Stats: 5'5 148lbs, 10-12% bf, the highest I have seen my weight in a few months new diet seems to be working. Just started bulking so too early to tell 225 B, 275x3 S, 315x8 DL, 145x5 OHP TRT keeping test levels near top of the physiological range and E2 in check with regular bloodwork Reading: NMMNGx2, MMSLPx1.9, WISNIFG, Models, a few more books I cant recall, The Rational Male, Practical Female Psychology, Book of Pook Going to quote some things fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 05:25 AM
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Upper body one day, lower body the next rest and repeat. Jim wendlers 531 and PHUL are good examples Fixing your hormones can make a big difference
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 03:16 AM
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Had hormones checked earlier this year and test was poor 300 I think but need to look at my chart again. That's likely a big part of the problem! 300ng/dL is going to make it tough to put on muscle mass for most anyone. Get this figured out, your long term health could also be at risk here. If you want to "lean bulk" your going to need to be strict with your diet. Finally with your strength levels a workout with more freaquency would really help you push up the numbers. Plenty of people do fine …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/19 03:29 PM
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What program are you running? Not familiar with BLS If your training hard and eating quality food gaining weight at a responsible rate you should be making consistent strength gains and minimal fat gains. Have you ever had your hormones checked? And if you want to be a lean 215 plan on working your way up to 230-240 at least. you were really lean, you can see a pretty drastic change in your physique when you go back to a calorie surplus. So you didn't gain a bunch of fat back, you were just cons…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/19 03:45 AM
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202 lbs, 13% BF, Squat 275, Dead 305, Bench 205. BLS program. Continuing bulk to 205. Slow process to keep the excess fat away. Deadlift went up in weight, seems to be the only lift I'm consistently making progress on lately. If you are really 13% BF there is no reason to be stalling on your lifts at those numbers, or struggling to keep off excess bodyfat. We are internet strangers if you can't be honest with us, who can you be honest with?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 03:19 AM
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I may have started blasting this week. No one is going to judge here, tiptoeing on that line myself I've been progressing steadily strength-wise, but the weight has been slow to accumulate. So your diet sucks? For anyone who thinks steroids are cheating, go fuck yourself. Oh I see you think roids are magic and will create something out of nothing! My guy if you aren't gaining weight as a natural it means you are not eating enough, anabolics arent going to change that! At best you are going to re…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 03:06 AM
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Bro's weight gain stalled so he turned to roids... he isn't ending up jacked anytime soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/19 02:57 AM
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37 years young, same for the wife. Married 12 Stats: 5'5 145lbs, 10-12% bf, 28" waist and 15" arms. Yes I have the bone structure of a 12 year old girl, the hormones of a middle age man on TRT, and 20 years experiance lifting. 225 B, 275x3 S, 315x8 DL, 145x5 OHP Looking to slow and steady bulk, cutoff when my waist hits 30" but been testing meal prep recipes all summer so have a easy system to manage my diet. Haven't been focused on my diet since finding out I had low T (200ng/Dl) a bit over a y…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/19 12:03 PM
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consuming the thoughts of others, listening to podcasts or having conversations is hardly a hobby. Hobbies are things that you go and DO, conversations are things you have This is some good shit, we all here understand the importance of learning from others, but seeking knowledge is not an active hobby
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:09 AM
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What is your education level? Just like the dirt bike example, if you want to find people who want to discuss your particular interests then you need to find activities that involve that interest. Go back to school, get a higher degree, go to seminars on campus, join honors societies for that specific discipline. Or if this is just something for your free time find some people online whom you can mentally masturbate with.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 03:06 AM
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I found reddit searching for "signs that my dirt bike is cheating on me" But damn you were so close it hits my feelz
/r/askMRP20/10/19 02:59 AM
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How can you lead from the front if your locked up? If you know you are a high quality man you can't be insulted. If your wife knows you are a high quality man she isn't insulted by others. Alpha here doesn't mean stereotypical douche like the on the rest of reddit.... it means holding yourself and thoughs around you to higher standard. The most Alpha man I know was a division 1 wrestler, served in the forces, moved on to hired gun... when he caught the local meth head on his property guess what …
/r/askMRP19/10/19 03:25 AM
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You swallowed the pill and are fucking 20 somethings.... what do you want to do? The fact you you bring up the years of resentment makes me question what you get out of sex. Go read that post a few down about the guy who lost desire for his wife... it's a phase as you transition from fucking for validation to fucking because you want to get your dick wet. Sounds like you get more validation from the younger model so the wife doesn't do it for you anymore. Otherwise if your life is better without…
/r/askMRP19/10/19 02:08 AM
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Anti Slut Defense She is blaming you for her choice to take it in the ass. Apply comfort and the backdoor is shut for the foreseeable future. Cocky and fun is how you play it, at least if you ever want to catch a case of shit dick again. She does need reassurance that she was a good girl and you enjoyed it, but I really don't like the word comfort in this situation.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 04:31 AM
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