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I think a lot of shy men think they'd prefer to be approached, but as a shy man who has experienced both approaching and being approached I can say I think most shy men would prefer approaching. You think "oh, I'm shy so it'd be great if they initiated" but at the end of the day you are now not engaging with the conversation on your own terms. When you approach you get ready for a conversation and hype yourself up. When you're approached you're caught off guard and fumble around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:31 PM
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This is true, but it's also true that often arrogance looks more like confidence than meekness does. It's enough of an approximation for some women that they would prefer the arrogant man to the meek man. That's not a moral judgement on my part, it just is what it is. But the hierarchy is confidence > some aproximation of "confidence" > meekness. That makes a lot of guys mad, but it's just a sign to project some amount of confidence. Don't be arrogant, but definitely don't be meek. Obviously thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:50 PM
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We need to stop doing one thing but it's very difficult because everyone does it all the time and some would argue it's "hardwired" into our brains. We need to stop measuring men's value by sexual success. The problem is it's so commonplace, even down to something as simple as the way we insult men. "Virgin" is a common insult thrown at men, but it reinforces that mens value is associated with sexual success. Or in that case their lack of value is associated with sexual failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:53 AM
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Option 2 (A+C) is the obvious answer. Looks fade, if I'm looking for a partner in life it is far more important that I like them then that I'm attracted to them. Financial stability will make any relationship more solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:43 PM
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That's fine. All I said was algorithmic frequency ≠ how common something is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 10:32 PM
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No but it does mean that you can't take algorithmic frequency as a metric of how common something is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:41 PM
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Population health statistic do not tell you cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:36 PM
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I've seen no good research that concludes that promiscuity is the main driving factor of gay men being overrepresented in certain STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:30 PM
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I don't think there is any actual way to determine that so we'll just have to agree to disagree. I simply disagree with your certainty. I don't mean to claim that my listed aspects are the reason, simply to say that we shouldn't focus in on one specific aspect when we know so many potentially contribute. Especially when it is such a socially and morally charged aspect that can lead to stigmatising testing and seeking help for STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:16 PM
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This just feels like an over emphasis on the promiscuity of gay men. Theres many factors that lead to higher rates and if you did away with promiscuity you wouldn't necessarily see everything normalise between gay and straight people when it comes to STIs. Many STIs are simply more easily spread through anal intercourse, and those line up with the STIs that gay men are overrepresented in. Gay men are also more likely to be tested than straight people, leading to asymptomatic and dormant STIs pot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 01:04 PM
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Most men exposed to HIV were not cruising or fucking a new guy every few days from Grindr. The reality is that HIV is more easily spread through anal intercourse. Most gay scenes are smaller leading to high amounts of partner overlap, so it only takes a fraction of dishonest people to start a cycle of transmission. Condoms a highly effective when correctly used. And that's not even accounting for defective condoms. Consistent condom use is between 70-80% effective at preventing transmission. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:48 PM
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There is a reason I didn't post it as a regular comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:51 AM
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You haven't read Hooks, and if you have you haven't* actually comprehended. Coming away from her work with this understanding of it is... There's no nice way to put it. Let's just say I hope for your own sake that you just haven't actually read her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:09 AM
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Also, men just have a higher capacity for evil by virtue of sexual dimorphism making males the larger sex. It's the difference in having a thought vs being able to act on that thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:33 AM
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The women folk don't agree with my conclusions, they *MUST** not understand my extremely logically sound thought process. There could be no other reason.*
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 02:28 AM
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No. The period prior to marriage is essentially a trial run to ensure that you will be compatible within a marriage. Now there is a conversation to be had about women potentially moving into that phase too quickly and that being taken advantage of, but advocating for not doing "marriage-y" things prior to marriage only leads to two outcomes. 1) you don't get married ever because you are not providing anything for a relationship or 2) you get married only to discover that you are incompatible whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:30 PM
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I don't specifically dislike onlyfans models but I do dislike the business model and what it encourages. I think the difference between regular pornography and onlyfans is that onlyfans is specifically designed to make you feel connected to the creator. Direct messaging that is formatted like a text exchange makes it seem far more personal than it is. I think that system is inherently going to effect the most vulnerable members of society, including those with intellectual disabilities. I have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:50 PM
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I think you misunderstood the tone of my comment. I'm agreeing that it is actually pretty easy to meet people but it is my own neuroses stopping me. And I think that's true for most people struggling to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:29 AM
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I think that there is an abundance of opportunity out there and a lack of will to capitalise on it. I think what we're seeing is a lack of will (from both genders) to express interest in someone they'd like to date because there are easier ways to numb the loneliness than taking on the risk of rejection. I'm part of the group that is too worried to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:27 AM
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I don't know about women or anyone other than me but depending on the context I meet someone I could not be attracted to them even if outside of that context they'd be the perfect person to me. I've never found a friend's partner attractive because they were introduced to me in the context of being my friend's partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:16 AM
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It's essentially a man who is physically attractive. It's not about sleeping with a lot of women because people who use the term unironically would never associate it with someone who is rich and ugly and leverages their capital to sleep with women who value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:05 AM
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I'm sure it would be fine for other people but I wouldn't do it to someone so I wouldn't be okay with someone doing it to me. If we're delaying sex that means we are not having sex not just not having sex with each other. Then again I also don't do the usual dating thing of having multiple different options going at once. I only have the energy to date one person at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:46 PM
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That's a skit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:36 AM
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Boundaries is such a nebulous term that you could be speaking about a legitimate problem you have noticed in some relationships or you could be going "so you're allowed to be friends with your ex but I can't stare at the waitresses rack?! Fucking hypocrisy!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:05 AM
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Neither are good, but objectifying women is more harmful to them than objectifying men because of the society we live in and factors like physical size and strength. No one should objectify anyone and some shit you see on the internet doesn't justify you acting in retaliation to uninvolved parties. Just click not interest and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:58 PM
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I don't think I understand what point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 05:29 AM
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Some women talk to each other about a lot of things that they realistically shouldn't if considering the privacy of the person they're dating. I have on multiple occasions learned that a girlfriend or someone I'm dating's friends know some detail about me that I'd really like them not to. If your friend knows that I like my ears nibbled or some shit like that, you have told them more than I am comfortable with them know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:28 PM
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Nothing is divorced from social context. The social context of polygamy is that most women who agree to it have been brainwashed since childhood to believe that this is how it should be as opposed to naturally coming to the conclusion that they want to enter that kind of arrangement. Polyamory lacks that social context so even if I don't understand it I see no reason to be morally opposed. Polyandry is so uncommon that to discuss it feels unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:04 AM
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Not blue pill but also not a bitter dude. I wish I could answer better but the truth is that I just don't feel that way. It's not something I had to work for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:56 AM
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Myself and the men around me have never really been for that sort of thing. Always wanted partners not trophys. Age doesn't factor into it other than, if they're too young then they're not mature enough and if they're too old we have nothing in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:39 PM
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I agree with the premise that moving on too quickly is bad. I think it leads to repeating mistakes and I think everyone benefits if you take at least a few months to be by yourself and reflect. Where I disagree is that this is 1) the main problem in dating 2) a problem with only or primarily women 3) that this problem affects anyone other than the person moving on too quickly and the person they move on with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:23 AM
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Even as autists we need irl socialisation. It may look different compared to neurotypicals but we still need to some extent. Find what works for you, but don't give up on it because it hasn't worked out yet. That is pretty much a depression guarantee.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:41 AM
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No one said in equal numbers. You added words to make the person you're arguing against sound less reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:43 AM
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