TSSalamander Archive

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6	As a gay man, I really don't feel as accepted. Pride seems to be more about queer femininity than queerness in general these days to me. So I made some affirmations I thought I'd share. Hope it helps someone. You get a similar effect with black men, and men of colour in general. 96% of lynching victims in the US were male. Almost all police brutality, almost all death row convictions, almost all victims of socially sanctioned violence are male. Being a man gives you some pretty great highs if you're conforming to the desirable norm (be white, be straight, be tall, be good looking, be able bodied, have the correct physiology, be NT, be rich, be exactly as expressive as society wants and expects) Mind …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/07/26 09:01 AM
32	UN Commission of Inquiry explicitly confirms gender-based targeting of boys by the IDF in the West Bank and Gaza I mean, it's a basic standard practice. Androcide removes the percived ability to fight back. It's such a basic aspect of how almost every society has operated, it's insane that people think society doesn't also hate men for being men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/26 04:29 PM
1	Autistic men are not "coddled" Yeah ok, this is also typical for the rest of the world on average, with east asia being significantly thinner than the rest. France is one of the least overweight countries in Europe. 65kg and 5'3 is literally the median french woman.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/06/26 08:43 PM
2	Autistic men are not "coddled" Actually 12kg under the median American woman, who's 5'3.5. it's a BMI of 25.4, which is overweight, but not by much.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/06/26 03:55 AM
24	What Are The Worst Cases Of Misandry You’ve Seen In Fictional Novels? pretty big room to fit the millions of men who have been killed by their partners over time. Also, men do the violence work of society. If men stopped doing any and all violence, women would skyrocket in violent perpetration because the nieche would be filled by them, and the roles would require bodies anyway. Like, a female only society would have women staff the military positions that men currently hold, which means those women would do all of those things instead, because it's the role that …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/06/26 02:54 PM
4	products made from infant foreskins currently being sold? I'm just saying they're probably not doing that. They probably noted how it's cloned tissue because doing so is needed to not lie to customers about the quality and authenticity of the product. It's more fucked up than you think. "You're not getting robbed cash. You're getting the derivative cash gained from our many profitable businesses who our street robbery is producing the cash influx investments for. It's not authentic mugged cash. it's derivative of mugged cash cash."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/26 11:57 PM
17	products made from infant foreskins currently being sold? I think they're covering their ass on the "you're not getting fresh foreskin cells, just cloned cells" front, rather than "this is ethically sourced, with only very few harvests, and no new harvests being done. it's sustainable without more mutilation" front.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/05/26 11:50 PM
21	Autistic men are not "coddled" I don't think it's as much this, as it is that when I, a 6'1 90kg 20s something man, jerk rapidly in an unfamiliar motion because i got excited over a thought in my head, people don't usually think that's a "fun and quirky" thing. But if a 65kg 5'3 woman does it, it's whatever. People are inherently on edge if i do something bizzare. In a way they aren't with autistic women. I don't think we have different quirks, i think people often do not care if girls have those same quirks as boys, because …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 06:22 PM
60	Autistic men are not "coddled" One of the narratives that never made sense to me was that women learn to mask before men do as autistic people. which made no sense to me, because masking is an active skill. What i realised is that what they call masking is often just socially hiding. They become small and un noticed. See, as a man, that's not usually very acceptable. they think you'll kill people if you do that. So you must be a presence of some description i think. To me, masking was something i began learning propperly afte…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/05/26 03:20 PM
4	On incels. Some deviancies are genuinely bad. A rapist is a deviant. They're bad!! But a black autistic man will be treated as if he is a rapist without having any spesific guilt to atone for. So like a sex offender who moved into your neighborhood. Normalising something by making it non deviant is a huge thing in liberation movements. But like, if you're advocating for men you have to make it so people do not place a more critical standard of deviance on men than other people. That's the cusp of the issue…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/26 01:16 AM
5	On incels. i use the term "deviant" fear the deviant male/masc. It applies to anyone who's too different from the normative standard. Including foreigners, gender queer people, paraphilians, abusers, the mentally ill, the disabled, racial minorities, criminals, non Heterosexuals, and those of the wrong religion or ideology, the ugly, the dishevelled, the sick, the poor and needy, the outcast, the virgin?, the lonely, the loser. They all get lumped together, and everyone is so very dedicated to noticing the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/05/26 12:58 AM
1	On Hasan Homeless people are the people of least means. that often means they're the worst of us. I could literally never be Homeless because i have family that loves me. So much would have to happen for that to fail. The Homeless are the rest end after all the homes have been allocated, in accordance with all personal means. That often means they're really shitty people who made a lot of mistakes. But like, we should not give up on them just because of that. Homelessness is destitution and as such a was…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 10:47 PM
3	On Hasan I appreciate that you're here btw. I do think it's kinda common to find that people involved in men's advocacy are gender queer with some experience being considered a man. I see a lot of feminine men or trans women involved. I've met trans men too (though the kind of trans men that feel this way are kinda right wing ngl. Something about the inherent right wing libertarianism of fully embraced trans maleness i think). I should note that when i said communism i meant the idealised version not the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 10:43 PM
2	On Hasan I have actual theory to be able to categorise toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity in the way you describe is anti femininity bias and strict adherence to masculine credibility bias. But also it's not the only reason suicide rates are so high. I think the main cause is that actually deviancy is way more policed when it comes to men, people feel like men deserve that policing so it's not registered as unfair bias (in fact the opposite is often noted, that women policed this way are unfairly treat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 10:33 PM
-3	On Hasan Crimes of sexual abuse is like 80% power imbalance abuse. That's the main reason why rape was understood as a man thing to do, to not being that anymore. I do not thing female on male sexual abuse was very common in 1792 france when they made rape illigal there. But women have gained equal legal standing in regards to gaining positions of authority over men. and hold about the same ammount of social leverage to abuse it. There's a significant ammount of sexual abuse that's just not coping well w…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 10:18 PM
4	On Hasan I think men are more risk tolerant partly just from like socialisation. I explicitly remember repeated instances where me and my fellow children, overwhelmingly boys, would overcome our fear of what we knew to be safe. I do not think communism would fix this actually. Idk if it even needs fixing, honestly. In many ways i think the risk to reward here is aptly compensated, though we should focus on reducing the risk precisely because that would better allocate employees based in their aptitude ra…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 10:07 PM
-2	On Hasan I think it's promoted by everyone, i think for instance while men are often the most vocal enforcers of things like the straight masculine Prohibition of femininity and the segregation between gay and straight men, it's also abundantly clear that the reason men must do this is due to societal incentives. If you don't enforce, you get guilty by association. And as a straight man, to be labled gay is undesirable because well, you kinda like women you know and you'd like to be understood as interes…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 09:41 PM
2	On Hasan We need terms for this. we need to counter dehumanising narratives. we need to engage with why men act the way they do. Men consistently promote dehumanising narratives about themselves and for what? to appear masculine and because they've internalised it. But what does it mean to seem masculine. wouldn't a restrained animal be well, not a real man? and that's where people get it wrong and think they do it because they cannot contain themselves. No, it's because masculinity is aboit showcasing y…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 08:29 PM
17	On Hasan I find there's a divide in the movement of men's liberation and that in particular it's rooted in the masculine obligation of men. I'm personally driven towards performing masculinity as a core drive. No social coercion causes this drive. However there's also an expected obligation of men to perform it. I think a lot of people in this space consider masculinity and the judgement of being masculine, especially the ranking of instrumental worth that our society to be fundamentally alienating. I se…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/26 08:05 PM
1	Men, we have to stop seeing each other as the enemy. I've been meaning to write an article about it, but I've not really found a useful platform for it. But I'll give you the breakdown. Some people are intrinsically masculine, this means they have the urge to be masculine. The urge is to perform a gender performance, a performance that conveys to the audience authentically that the person is a moral actor. A person who does things, constrained and directed by moral reasoning. This urge to do this causes masculine people (mostly men, and most men) …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/05/26 12:31 AM
2	Men, we have to stop seeing each other as the enemy. Many men through their understanding of their own identity manifest their masculine urge as an intrinsic though derivative urge to dominate. If they have this understanding they usually grow out of it after a while. After all, you cannot be in your 20s forever. You slow down, and your position stops being fuled by your ability to coerce, and starts being dependent on your ability to convince. However fundamentally most men in liberal democratic societies do not see themselves this way. they see …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/05/26 03:40 PM
3	Men, we have to stop seeing each other as the enemy. I will say, i think there's a fixed essence of masculinity that drives masculine people to become masculine and present masculine. But that the rituals, conventions, tropes, signals, interpretations. that's all socially constructed. First we have to be able to justify why as many different masculine identities as possible, including identities such as eunuchs and butch women are inside the scope of the masculine frame. I have a pet model I've used a few times. The Moral Actor Project. I think it…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/26 11:19 PM
14	Men, we have to stop seeing each other as the enemy. My desire to be masculine is internally driven. However I have no desire for domination or supremacy or some such. I do not need or want to be ranked higher than others. Some men do, their masculine urge or their need for status as a reward for masculinity has made them construct a masculine identity that requires competition and domination. But i do not, i built mine differently. However even still, I fucking love risk taking and bravery displays, "fuck it we ball" energy. A lot of nale sociali…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/05/26 06:47 PM
2	How do you other queer LWMA's connect with other LGBTQ people without risking exposure to missndry? What the hell are you on about. Gay men are as masculine as straight men. They just also usually include feminine coded elements. Gay men are usually interested in other masculine men. Femininity and Masculinity are not opposite. At times they were socially constructed to be framed as such. Primarily by having Femininity have a ton of incapacity signals "I'm so valuable i get everything done for me" while Masculinity had to reject all Femininity altogether to not undermine the main message Mascu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/26 07:44 PM
3	Many "intersectional feminists" have a very shallow understanding of intersectionality see not every predator is obvious but everyone who's obviously a predator is probably one and should be treated like they're predators but with no proven guilt. This applies to every man who's out of the norm. It applied much more to gay people in the past. Note how they were always child predators seeking to corrupt young boys. It applies to trans women, though they tend to reject the notion It's rooted in misandry since it causes them dysphoria and also they face a lot of Misogyny rooted bulls…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/26 05:09 PM
25	Many "intersectional feminists" have a very shallow understanding of intersectionality you have a similar thing with autism (and ND in general) and gender. Autistic men just face autism based abelism, while Autistic women face abilism and Misogyny. This fundamentally treats male as default. No, the male deviancy obsession, the primary cause of misandry imo, makes my autism be a horrible mark against me as a person. It's also imo why male autism is THE autism standard, and why boys with autism are caught much sooner and treated the way they are (often very poorly). Black men are, i…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/05/26 09:41 AM
-2	How do you other queer LWMA's connect with other LGBTQ people without risking exposure to missndry? i tolerate anyone who's not currently literally voting to have people murdered. These people aren't doing that, so I'm like sure whatever, as long as i don't have to hear it. You support concentration camps for whoever you pick off the street? or you voted for that shit? no. You are pushing misandrist narratives online then voting party line democrat in arizona, I'm like ok whatever you absolute larper. Internet microcelebrety or not, my association with them in private does not enable their hat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/26 08:52 AM
9	How do you other queer LWMA's connect with other LGBTQ people without risking exposure to missndry? Masc trans men who aren't unapologetically in love with masculinity as an innate virtue. What are you doing. Our brothers are so lost	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/26 07:40 AM
2	How do you other queer LWMA's connect with other LGBTQ people without risking exposure to missndry? yes. there's nothing confusing about it. Thoigh we are no longer playing. Moving countries got my ass I'm afraid. In a few years I'll be able to run campaigns again! wooo	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/26 07:01 AM
18	How do you other queer LWMA's connect with other LGBTQ people without risking exposure to missndry? Yeah i get it man, I'm a masc bi man, similar boat. Fundamentally I avoid these spaces on discord nowadays unless I'm literally in control like GMing a dnd campaign. I ran a game for 3 transbians and a bi trans woman. On twitter "Men suck evil and also ugly abd repulsive". In game, lovely people and we avoided all that nonsense by never getting into it. Because i could stop it. You're a feminine presenting man. That makes things worse not better, because you're a deviant male. You'd think trans …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/05/26 05:50 AM
2	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism Could i DM it to you instead? i quite liked our conversation actually, and would like to continue it	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/26 10:49 PM
1	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism I see it on my end. I could repost it? Re open on an incognito tab? I use reddit on my phone but i guess i can try that? Edit: Huh it's gone! uhhhh wack. I'll repost it using the browser i guess?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/26 10:38 PM
1	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism I don't think it's coincidental. I've met this exact fucking profile tons of times. TONS. Betcha you adher to the straight brand of masculinity and not the queer kind too. Betcha feel unwelcome in queer communities. Betcha you find your way into spaces filled with trans women regularly. There's a combination of a few traits that put you into a social vortex, a kind of spesific alignment of social systems self selected to spesifically form a particular perspective where this exact jaded and fixat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/26 10:34 PM
-2	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism I don't think feminism is particularly effective at present towads forwarding a gynocentric society where men are systematically subjugated in action towards womens intrests. Any gendered social contract requires, on a fundamental basic level, participation by both men and women. It can only coerce so many people. most must willingly participate. That's why women were able to get the vote in the first place, or why when the social contract breaks in deeply patriarchal societies, such as when the…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/26 09:47 PM
-3	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism Do you think the feminists are particularly effective at their stated goals here? Are you trying to have a movement for where you can feel good while pushing people back into traditionalism? Is the goal just to hate feminists and misandrists and cause them pain and suffering? Because that's all that's going to happen if you do as them here. Happily playing along and enjoying the company of those who alianate egalitarian minded boys does not help the feminist cause, it hurts it full stop regardle…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/26 09:19 PM
0	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism you can have a personal god damned definition and some personal god damned standards. If you're a political activist who identifies as a liberal and you find yourself having a lot of fascist fans, the correct course of action is to weed them out. To actively push against them. otherwise you'll just turn into a person who appeals to fascists. I've seen people go down this route, I've seen them reject it.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/04/26 07:38 AM
-7	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism also for the record these standards are just fake. just like how misogynistic racists will say "white pure Scandinavian with 38DD minimum, a 27 inch waist or less, and will only be in my home" and then marry an asian woman who probably treats them decently enough. It's kinda just silly I think. The blackpillers are on that deranged shit because straight women seemingly have a "scared to death of men who may be into them" blocker which stops attraction to most men, and either has to be worked thr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/26 09:05 PM
5	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism Depends on where the hell you're looking frankly. I think rural southerners have a pretty bad situation for women. I think you cannot argue Misogyny is less bad in egypt than misandry in egypt actually. Misandry is worse in egypt than it is in norway btw, just fyi. Idk, in the uni in Buenos Aires men will regularly comment on how a woman's bad attitude is because she's badly fucked. just blatantly openly normalised. Not everywhere is england or a costal US city, where the dominant narratives are…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/26 08:19 PM
11	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism gonna be honest with you, the desire to have kids is not really tied to gender roles enforcement. it doesn't require that and it does not enforce it. Currently we have a birth rate issue because of a multitude of factors. everyone wants to give their kids the best possible shot because they're competing with the other kids to stay in the professional class, men and women find eachother very late in life, housing is really expensive, child care isn't available enough. I think advocating for the c…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/26 08:13 PM
17	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism I fundamentally dissagree with the strict adherence to gender roles at all. I think people should negotiate based on what they themselves are presenting as, trying to offer, taking responsibility for ect. I do not want a society where women are shamed for not wanting to have children, or for seeking advancement, or for having kids, or for having sex, or any of that nonsense. I don't want a society where we systematically condition boys to be violent enforcers of the consensus, or to be ready to …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/26 08:00 PM
42	The 'Pill' people and internet macho-posturers hold back/are counterproductive to opposition to feminist misandry and/or critique of feminism Also, you go into MRA environments online and so many of them just advocate for strict adherence to gendered marrige norms and shit like that. "He provide she obey this make both happy" type shit. And there's so little pushback against it and I'm like "we're for equality right?" and it's just like no they're not they want to recreate the old social contract that was miserable and that got us here. I don't want to be misogynistic, i hate Misogyny it's bad and stupid. I just want to dismantle misa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/04/26 07:47 PM
1	A genuine concern about the idea of a patriarchy Yeah this is true. This is a holdover of a fundamentally dogshit model around sex, men, women, and how power works in our society. It has always been the case that women in positions of authority have used and abused that authority to abuse male subserviants. However it must also be noted that a few of the other mechanisms which produce rape, such as the violent enforcement of the social order (the primary way gang rape happens in a shitton of societies) or as a method of torture and abuse durin…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/26 08:53 PM
6	A genuine concern about the idea of a patriarchy Famous Rapist Marquis De Sade, raped a bunch of boys around the age of 15 that he had hired as housekeepers for his estate. He was put to trial for sodomy for this. Usually before the 20th century, it's a rarity for women to have unsupervised access to men they have dominant power over. But boy did many men have that access. and there were laws against such things, in a round about way. Rape wasn't illigal in france until like 1791. But it effectively was because the courts would use their archa…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/26 01:52 PM
-15	A genuine concern about the idea of a patriarchy my take is that most issues male face are patriarchy derived. There's some that come with the advent of mass society spesifically. But also, some get way worse because of women's liberation (not that women's liberation is bad! it isn't and if you think it was i need you to look into the British system coverture. it's actually not unique to britain, and that empire owned a quarter of the world too). If you're in a situation where the only way a man and a woman have a personal publicly recognised …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/26 01:46 PM
3	Dimarco’s Review of Men’s and Women’s Sexual Coercion Rates people here really think that since this stuff isn't perfect it's not good enough. Christ it's a start people. Bathwater, Baby. don't throw out both. I get it, you hate koss. how about a critique instead of a condemnation?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/04/26 02:50 AM
13	Does this Women’s Aid statement come across as dismissive of male victims, or am I reading too much into it? fun fact, about half of all hetero IPV cases feature bilateral violence. that doesn't mean they're not the primary perp or that they're not primary victims. it means it's messy. You'd find something similar with IPV reports by women. in fact i reckon you'll find more are bilateral because 2/3rds of monolateral cases are women on men, and only one third are men on women. People report themselves more if they're just a victim, and men are less likely to self report. Fundamentally though, these stu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 10:26 AM
2	The question I wish people would stop asking Superman is neither. Mind you superman does things no man should be expected to do, but like, he's not out there 24/7 being superman. He does it when he feels like it. It's not owed to the world because of his innate gifts, he is simply superman. Not a ruler of anything, not a superior to anyone. People fucking love superman. You go into the Sao Paulo airport, you know who they have a statue of? Superman. There's clearly a commonly understood form of masculinity that everyone recognises as the r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 01:37 AM
3	The question I wish people would stop asking Yeah that's exactly what i mean. Fighting against talking about masculinity HERE destroys the ability to even put forward an alternative. Or even model what masculinity is! I think those people who say that are pushing a form of masculinity. But i also think half of is toxic. Self sacrifice? you mean not loving yourself and valuing yourself as a person? that thing my father did when he almost had a heart attack from stress because work was killing him? Or the morality focus. So much about about …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/04/26 01:23 AM
18	The question I wish people would stop asking Women's Liberation had this whole fight before us. The anti femininity faction and the reform femininity faction. Both kinda won in this regard. Femininity went from being displays of being absolutely innept with the fainting and the restrictive clothing and the 3 hour hair doos, to a much more streamlined and empowered gender performance. Understanding why femininity is like that, and understanding how the modern woman and the feminine ideal of 200 years ago are fundamentally the same thing giv…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/26 05:49 PM
5	The question I wish people would stop asking I personally do not like this attitude though i understand where it's coming from. The women's liberation movement spent centuries redefining and reconstructing the interpretation of femininity. It was a damn mess when they started in the late 18th century. Femininity = Inagency. almost every feminine signal was meant to show value through incapacity and the implication of work being done for them. That's insane. It was so insane half the women in this movement simply wished to abandon the ENTIR…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/04/26 05:41 PM
1	None of the women involved in the '62 million men were complicit in an online Rape Academy' hoax have been held accountable (as they like to say). Here's more hoaxes they haven't taken responsibility for spreading that I remember: I'm not saying girls are not primed to curate and manage masking skills. I'm saying that masking is treated as a passive skill that one is just socialised into through incentives and subtle ques as a girl. But like, that's not how masking develops, at least not in my experience as an autistic man, and former boy. These are skills that require deliberate decision at first. When X do Y, Ratio like this, Move like that, here's the cause if you care (i always do), practice every emotional expression…	/r/MensRights	21/04/26 12:45 PM
3	None of the women involved in the '62 million men were complicit in an online Rape Academy' hoax have been held accountable (as they like to say). Here's more hoaxes they haven't taken responsibility for spreading that I remember: it's a ~1000 strong telegram community that posts their "work" on those sites under a category of pornography that's usually done consentually. Sleep Porn. Which itself has like 20k videos. Should there be pornography where rape videos can be laundered as plausably consentual? that's a genuine question. But fundamentally, it's not 62 million, because that's the entire site of motherless. it's one communiity of rapists, making up a bit over a thousand members. How many are actively actually doing…	/r/MensRights	20/04/26 02:36 PM
6	None of the women involved in the '62 million men were complicit in an online Rape Academy' hoax have been held accountable (as they like to say). Here's more hoaxes they haven't taken responsibility for spreading that I remember: the truth is that nobody cares if a girl is autistic. Meltdowns, violent outbursts, self reclusion, weirdeness around physical intimacy, all of those, which are the thing that get you pipelined into being checked for autism, are not concerns when it comes to women. The idea that women are socialised better to mask better is nonsense because that's not how masking works. It's not a passive skill you pick up. It's a curated and managed skill that takes a decade or more to get to a passable level b…	/r/MensRights	20/04/26 02:32 PM
130	Only a third of young women hold positive view of men, new poll finds "Don't you know the women's objections are reasonable and based in real lived experience but when men are like this, they're actually only revealing their true side which actually every man secretly holds inside of himself, and it's caused by the omnipresent indoctrination of the patriarchy which all men have been informed of" they love coddeling hatred, truly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/04/26 04:43 AM
21	Feminist student organisation made SoCal gym inclusive - by banishing men - so that "women and non-binary students can exercise with a sense of ease" It's one, 800 square meter, 32 person facility, for one hour a day, one day a week. That being said, the idea that you should just accommodate the feelings of uncomfortability like this, indistinguishable from bigotry btw (every time a bigot tries to get people banned it's almost always justified as them being uncomfortable or unsafe btw.)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/04/26 09:47 PM
37	A lot of feminist identifying women are red-pillers when it comes to male gender roles. The desire not to date bi men, i think, is nostly rooted in the desire not to compete with men when it comes to sex and romance, and a general categorisation of men into straight masculine and queer masculine, with an understanding that the straight masculine men are for her, and the queer masculine men are for others. Bi people break this entire system in a lot of ways. I think perhaps my most misogynistic take is that the primary reason why women do not like prostitution is because it violates…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/04/26 03:43 AM
24	Did Gregor Wake Up As A Bug Or Stop Pretending He Wasn’t Already? "Would you love me if i was a cockroach" the awnser was no.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/04/26 05:01 AM
44	Oh boy. Ana Psychology saw the Netflix manosphere doc. There's is actually no shortage of good rolemodels. Failure does not come from a lack of good examples. I had no shortage, it wasn't why i struggled. Boys do not lack for good role models actually. The struggle comes from the difficulty of living up to the role and also being accepted by others. Many boys will just fall off the wagon for a number of reasons. What boys mostly need is, i think, reassurance and empathy.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/04/26 04:51 AM
2	Every preference or standard men put forward is misogyny sure but that doesn't explain why men spesifically want this in comparison to women. I suspect it's either about seeing Heterosexual sexuality as innately corrupting where men consume the value of women by having sex with them.Or it's rooted in the perception of being of lower sexual value than your partner on the sexual marketplace. Or it's the worry that you'll have competion with pervious partners on your performance in bed (ever seen how a man reacts to being informed that his dick isn't the…	/r/MensRights	30/03/26 05:40 AM
14	Debate over the term "sexism" Man i really hate critical theory and even most conflict theory with a great passion actually. Prejudice + Power, terrible framing. It's Prejudice × Power that is the problem at hand, and the way power works means that everyone has some power, power is not absolute, it has local environments that work differently from other environments. A pure focus on the state as the only point that matters is also completely insane. Most European countries do not have antisemitism as state consensus, yet nob…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/03/26 09:48 PM
-1	How Is TM "Institutional?" what did you not follow or found damaging by this deconstruction? I mostly think the term toxic masculinity isn't particularly useful because it's not particularly precise.	/r/MensRights	29/03/26 09:23 PM
-4	How Is TM "Institutional?" Fundamentally the word toxic masculinity is not a very precise term, it's clearly meant to disparage, and it clearly doesn't include all the toxic things that men can do to themselves that don't hurt women in particular. the fact that there is even a debate around the idea if overworking yourself half to death, or seeking to die for a noble cause is toxic masculinity is frankly ridiculous and showcases the issue. The not showing emotions thing is a two fold issue. It's two different problems tha…	/r/MensRights	29/03/26 09:19 PM
3	Every preference or standard men put forward is misogyny Ok but like seriously though, why do you not want a sexually experienced partner? Isn't it preferable to have a partner who's experienced in bed, enjoys sex, and knows what she enjoys as well? if it's about unfaithfulness then i think that issue is more about morals, and you should see if she ever cheated before. More partners gives you more data here, not less. If it's about having relationships that are short lived, then that's a red flag sure, but maybe understand why it's like that? if it's …	/r/MensRights	29/03/26 08:51 PM
-5	How Is TM "Institutional?" could you give me an example of something labled toxic that isn't?	/r/MensRights	29/03/26 08:35 PM
-5	How Is TM "Institutional?" Toxic masculinity can mean a few different things Note: i will be using the word perform to talk about the communication of masculinity to an audience who are to percive it. This doesn't make it fake. You perform authentically to others all the time, it's how people communicate their own character and intentions, ideas, and desires Toxic tropes that are meant to convey masculinity to the audience of it. Such as getting into unnecessary honor fights, harassing people to show power and dominance, …	/r/MensRights	29/03/26 08:34 PM
3	Yeah. Apparently, men are immune from danger at night. Right right. /s if i may interject. When it comes to the pendulum swing effect there's two things happening at once. 1. Certain metricts have actually swung in the opposite direction in certain environments. For instance educational attainment is women heavy everywhere, and this does directly have an impact on the wages of the younger people in our society spesifically. Women ages 20 to 30 have better job prospects and opportunities and wages than their male counterparts in many western countries. There's also …	/r/MensRights	28/03/26 10:10 PM
0	These types of men hijack the men's rights movement and gives us a bad reputation Yeah i think critical theory and derivative ideas of social power is nonsense. To say that say, not every European and post European state in like 1750 was a pretty militant patriarchy i think is foolish. It was, there was a whole social contract around the household, with segregated social spheres, where the male one dominated foreign affairs and statecraft organisation as well as violence broadly, and the female one was subservient defacto to those intrests, though there was clear cooperation.…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 09:17 PM
-11	These types of men hijack the men's rights movement and gives us a bad reputation A man has a hobby lmao. I'll post about videogames as much as i like. I was saying you weren't promoting masculinity as good, it doesn't seem like you belive that it is actually. You're upset that men suffer for being men, i get that. You're upset that men are hated for being men, i get that. I'm not saying you're not coming up with solutions (though i find many of the things you cheer on to either be misguided or outright bad), I'm saying you aren't defining masculinity in a way that counters t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 05:20 PM
-12	These types of men hijack the men's rights movement and gives us a bad reputation Do you think patriarchal society never existed? what exactly is the myth? that we're currently living under it? or that we have holdovers from patriarchal society? or that we ever were under a patriarchal male dominated societal model. As for your grievance merchantry, i would like to note your post history. You basically only post about how men are agrieved, but you have no posts trying to actually push positive narratives that strengthen the worth of men in popular culture. Do you even see vir…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 04:48 PM
-12	These types of men hijack the men's rights movement and gives us a bad reputation they're private so I'm inclined to belive you. But you're also just a grievance merchant endulging your feelings, which may be valid. This is something feminist communities do often, but it's wrong to do it. Celebrating the trump administration's and aligned forces is not standing up for masculinity, it's just hate. You seem to be under the impression that the cause of misandry is feminism, and while many feminists uphold it, and actively violate the old contract by maintaining the misandry whil…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 03:39 PM
5	These types of men hijack the men's rights movement and gives us a bad reputation idk maybe this should have been a post and not a comment.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 03:06 PM
5	These types of men hijack the men's rights movement and gives us a bad reputation I mean this is why there are so many splinter communities, precisely to get out of the infected areas. So much text which is basically just tossing up an article where "women did bad thing, used women only social mechanism to do it" which is no different than what you'll find on those toxic feminist spaces, or any other toxic political environment. There's little discussion about how and why this kind of abuse happens or what can be done to identify it from the crowd. No theory, no method, no co…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/03/26 02:40 PM
3	Why opinion of highly regarded academicians means almost nothing. (Read “insert feminist author”) Looking into feminist arguments: Part 1? I don't think you should treat Valerie Solanas as literature any more than we should treat Ted Kaczynski as representative of critiques of capitalism or modernity, or treat Marquis de Sade as indicative of the desires of men. Even if the latter is often how he's used because people are completely crazy about what men are really like on the inside.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/03/26 09:31 PM
1	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. YEAH I AM NOT SAYING THEY ARE VIRTUOUS! I'm making a descriptive claim about the kinds of behaviour that a state is capable of engaging in on the international stage. I think democracies, even those with great deals of apartheid, are capable of engaging in lasting true alliances that prevent them from going to war with eachother, and make them show up in eachother's time of need. This system, if taken to its natural conclusion could bring world peace. However israel in particular is an exploiter…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/03/26 11:04 PM
1	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. My perspective on internal relations in regards to democracies intigrating and loving eachother is rooted in a fundamental desire for peace. But you have to look at each democracy and consider if that demos is capable of reaching a consensus of love. Israel seems extremely dedicated to exploiting everyone else for their own gain like it's their god given right. That's why i think "in principle but with exception"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 01:33 PM
1	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. It would still think like a demos. It will lose a ton of the other benefits of democracy like the ability to break apart toxic rent distribution systems, or oppressive or antiquated hirarchies and instutions. But from the perspective of international relations in regards to the ability to do what democracies are capable of, having bonds of mutual flourishing and sticking up for eachother without direct benefit, it would work like that yeah. Mind you, i think you'll find that the voice of the 99%…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 01:29 PM
1	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. It's not about a percentage It's about a total. Too many for everyone to know somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody and that capturing everyone in the group. When you get to that size, discussions become public, people start trying to move consensus rather than the direct opinions of people. They're appealing to strangers, not people they have a direct relationship with.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 01:12 PM
1	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. See the way one person makes a decision and the way a gigantic demos makes a decision is different.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/03/26 01:05 PM
1	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. Yeah, i know. Still a democracy even if it has two demoi and only one has the right to vote. The US was s democracy when black people couldn't vote. Norway was a democracy when women couldn't vote. Democracy isn't morally good here, it's structurally important because it allows for mechanisms that cannot be done by autocratic states	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/03/26 10:05 PM
-7	In "Israel's Guantanamo," soldiers raped a Palestinian prisoner leading to his hospitalization. The IDF's top legal officer was punished for blowing the whistle. I tend to think democracies should stick together because they're able to authentically love eachother. Israel is not a country of love.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/03/26 06:25 PM
23	Killing Your Lover Is Gender-Equal The data in this is interesting but it's really just a statement on the fact that often times the homicides of men are simply not reported or recorded propperly. It's done in a sloppy manner compared to women. It's pretty likely that partner violence and abuse is roughly equal, and that killings correlate with that norm, but fact is this article relies on filling in lost data with assumptions. Which is pretty weak.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/02/26 04:38 AM
2	My thoughts on the 'Women are Wonderful' effect It's not really that women are wonderful It's that men are awful. It's mostly a negative bias against men caused by the idea that men are the evil gender. The danger of strange men is foundational to so many social systems, including most systems of patriarchy. it has never been dismantled, in fact the idea that men are evil and just hiding it has become arguably more normalised publicly. But when societies become more egalitarian they tend to lose that bias to sime extent. Ask a woman in egypt …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/02/26 06:51 PM
4	Do men need to check their privilege? \| FACTUAL FEMINIST Pretty sure this woman exactly is what this subreddit is meant to avoid having on it. Like she is uhhh not good at all.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/02/26 09:40 PM