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DISCUSSIONTVEMisty/r/RedPillWives31/05/17 05:08 AM
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She can request a paternity test and if the test comes back positive they will do support. I am not sure if that will force you to be on the birth certificate or not, check with a lawyer in your state.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 03:14 AM
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Courts won't care. She may be able to open for child support going forward or she could very well claim arrears as well. Money provided to her should be well documented with checks stating what it is for. In some cases, but not all they may accept that...in others they will call it a gift. IANAL, but I'd suggest speaking with a family law attorney about what repercussions you may face.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/18 03:12 AM
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If the child is yours, you don't get a choice unless she finds someone to adopt. You can't just give up your rights. At any point, if it's yours, she can claim child support and you'll pay. The minute she tries to get any benefits from the government, they will come after you as they won't foot the bill if there is another parent. The state sees the financial responsibility of the child of those that made the child, regardless of the amount of involvement you may or may not want or have.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 12:34 PM
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While an IUD is incredibly effective, they can fail. They can come out naturally, if they aren't changed out within the intervals they are needed they aren't as effective. The doctor's visit to remove it can be done in a routine office visit during the day. Unless you can feel the strings while you're doing the deed (you may or may not be able to)-you have to take her word she has one. There is a measure of decent trust you have to have in regards to an IUD. Can you confidently say you'd be comf…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 12:28 PM
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I have had and sometimes still struggle with the laundry list of wrongs. I've had to actively work on being more in the moment when I am frustrated so I don't pressure cooker and go at him with my laundry list. This doesn't work for us for a few reasons. The most important is that my hubs has ADD so he struggles with listening to all my list. I need to parents it down to the important stuff so it doesn't escalate. It has taken a us a while to make progress with this because we had to rebuild som…
/r/RedPillWives26/03/18 06:02 AM
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We notice our shifts and ask about them. When my husband gets edgy, outside of normal reasons, I ask him about it. I tell him he seems off and ask him what’s eating at him. Then I listen. I have to actively try not to take his shifts personally and I also have to remember that I have to be his soft place to land and not fix his problem. He does the same with me. My default is to clam up when things bother me and he has gotten really good at recognizing that and giving me the space to talk to him…
/r/RedPillWives06/02/18 07:33 AM
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I’m not sure how red pill my experience was but my husband and I turned our marriage around after many years of life beating us down and it taking a toll. We never wanted to divorce but we but wanted our relationship to be better. We had to get help, we went to therapy. We had done therapy in the past and he wasn’t into it. The second time, he took the lead. He found the therapist and set the appointment. Because he was leading the therapy arrangements it went better. We both got beat up in ther…
/r/RedPillWives03/02/18 01:01 PM
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My apologies, I didnt realize that was a rule.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 02:54 AM
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All the accusations being thrown around of late is really bothering me. As a mother to a daughter that actually was sexually assaulted at 14, these fake allegations really cast a light on the actual victims and the actual person assaulting. My husband refuses to have a conversation with any of his female subordinates without another female in the room to cover his ass. Since in this day and age, in situations in regards to any type of sexual assault or harassment, it is character assassination a…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 04:41 AM
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I've always had the notion that "emotional labor" was a woman's job in a marriage as it's my husband's job to maintain others areas of our life. I keep up on holidays and what not... He keeps up on car maintenance. I plan meals and ship and cook them. He puts gas in my car, etc. Etc. Etc... If you don't want to do it... Don't do it... My philosophy is, if you're going to complain about it and keep doing it...it's your problem.
/r/RedPillWives28/10/17 01:32 AM
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My husband doesn't do holidays which sucks because I like switching up house decor. Before I met my husband the man I was with enjoyed my changing up our apartment. January into very early February would be snowmen and snowflakes, then move to Valentines for February, the. st Patrick's day, then Easter and I'd give it a rest until just before Memorial Day and I'd do Patriotic through Labor Day and kind of give it a break and then move to Halloween and switch out a couple things to make it Thanks…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/17 03:37 AM
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In late March we lost our business. It was a big blow to us financially. My husband went immediately to work to ensure we'd still have money coming in and took a job at a call center. Yesterday he started his new roll as the manager for his team. I'm so proud of him, because he really didn't want to take the position with the company initially but decided to and gave 110% everyday and when the time came his dedication to the menial job accompanied with his resume of all his leadership skills pai…
/r/RedPillWives31/08/17 03:16 AM
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I am loving my 30's over my 20's. I'm actually looking forward to my 40's, still a few years off. I feel more confident in myself than I was in my 20's and I'm sure my 40's will even be better.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/17 12:46 AM
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I think the no fault divorce is terrible. It goes right along with wanting the wedding and not the marriage. I am so discouraged that the idea of we throw things, and people, away when something is broke. When it's broke, you figure it out and fix it. As OP states, there are some very valid reason to dissolve a marriage, but I just don't think the "we fell out of love" is a reason. Love is making a choice every day to pick your partner, even if you don't like them much sometimes, because you kno…
/r/RedPillWives16/07/17 02:37 AM
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That's an interesting point. Help me understand more. I feel that there are some things from the 1st and 2nd wave that weren't bad at all. I can see how those got bastardized into what we are seeing now and I feel like saying that the first and second wave are just as bad is tossing the baby out with the bath water. I am in way wanting to be argumentative, but I think that there has been good to come out of it as well - just trying to find the balance of the good and the bat crap crazy.
/r/RedPillWives31/05/17 01:49 PM
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Exactly!
/r/RedPillWives22/05/17 02:07 PM
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Hey now! My kitchen is my happy place, that ain't no joke for me! Kitchen is my turf!
/r/RedPillWives22/05/17 04:33 AM
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Why are people upset over mutual boundaries and respect in a marriage? Without discussing it with my husband, I would never go fine with another male that wasn't directly related to me. This has come up before, is mentioned taking a good friend of both of our to lunch because he was in a slump after a break up (he and hubs are good friends, no risk of mixed signals) and I asked hubs to go and he said "why don't you just go?" I explained to him that I felt that it wasn't showing him respect and m…
/r/RedPillWives06/04/17 02:01 AM
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It isn't noble, it's just hard to watch someone you love so much hurt because they are being treated as if they are less than what they are. We stay out of their relationships, but try to guide them to better paths. I'm trying to find ways to encourage him into a better path. The route of "she's sucking the life out of you and you deserve so much better" will result in him digging in his heels because he will feel as if we don't approve of his choices.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:27 PM
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I'm out of the dating game, thankfully, I'm trying to figure out ways I can help guide my step son into commanding respect in relationships since he is currently a doormat and we can't get him to break out of that and not be with someone who treats him as he should be thankful she's with him. She's very much the type of "you need to do this for me because I have the boobs and I'm pretty". She's not worthy of the type of man he is. He has a lot of things he needs to work on, but if he would inves…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 05:31 PM
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I browse this sub to kind of get a prospective from the other side. I see this type of crap that women pull and it seriously bothers me. I wasn't raised to be that type of woman. I was raised to respect people and don't expect something for nothing. If I need help changing a tire, not because I don't know how but because I legitimately can't do part of it, then I am more than willing to ask and compensate the person for it. Put gas in their car, give them cash -whatever we agree upon. I don't ex…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:48 AM
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1- I'm grateful that my husband have spent time in therapy learning how to speak to each other in ways we can listen. 2- I'm grateful that my step son sees me as his motherly figure and comes to me in times of trouble. 3- I'm grateful for how my husband's steps up and really takes care of things when my arthritis flares and I can't really do much and helps me not feel bad about it. The item I'd keep in my purse aside from my wallet? My handgun. We're a pro-2A family and don't live in the best ci…
/r/RedPillWives10/03/17 04:25 AM
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When I married my husband, the last name thing came up quite a bit. I was adopted by my step dad at 20 and changed my name to my step dad's. Keeping it was very important to me because that was my tie to my dad. My husband felt strongly about me incorporating his last name. Our compromise is I hyphenated, although unless it's in legal documents I don't use my maiden name. Most people don't realize I've hyphenated, they just assume I'm Mrs Hubby because that's how we present my name. Nearly 8 yea…
/r/RedPillWives28/02/17 12:55 AM
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If you and your husband are happy and want it the way it is - you don't need to justify it to anyone. Those who look down on the choices are and your husband has made that is on them and not on you. My husband would prefer I stay at home or work at home. Even with our business his choice is I do what I need to at home for it and go to the shop if I want to and he does that aspect of it. If I wanted to do more, he'd be fine with it however his preference is for me to be at home. There are some mi…
/r/RedPillWives28/02/17 12:42 AM
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I call Milo the Bill of the Right. They are both purposely provocative, just on different sides of the spectrum.
/r/RedPillWives17/02/17 01:26 AM
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I love owning a business with my husband. It has made us work harder at our marriage. It's not easy by any means, but working for our future together and in our terms is amazing! We've had a few bumps in the road and had to learn to turn off the business during our time, which was hard but it has been worth it. When we moved the office to the house, it was easier to separate it at home. We talk work in the office and the rest of the house is our space for us. I'm glad you guys had a good discuss…
/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 05:00 AM
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I'd imagine working at the White House you'd be expected to dress in business attire for both men and women. Appropriate dresses, skirts or trousers with blouses and jackets. Edit: I have a different mindset/demeanor when I'm dressed professionally vs business casual or casual.
/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 03:09 AM
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Running a business is tough. It's easy to get discouraged, even when things are going well. Offer unconditional support. Let him know if he wants to take a step back that financially and relationship wise things will be fine and you're behind him. Also, tell him that if he wants to push a bit further that you're willing to roll up your sleeves along side of him and help him. I do most of the running of the business that my husband and I have and the biggest thing he does to support me in that is…
/r/RedPillWives09/02/17 02:50 AM
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