TVans14 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	How am I supposed to love myself when no one loves me? Growth mindset. Start by observing that it is in your nature to learn from repetition. This is an undeniable fact because if it wasn't true, you wouldn't know how to speak or walk. This ability doesn't go away. I play video games to remind myself of this, because it allows me to see proof that with repetition and a conscious effort to figure out where I am going wrong, I can learn and become better at overcoming a challenge, and eventually if I continue on that path without giving up I WILL defe…	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/24 12:49 AM
12	The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong. You're misunderstanding. They're saying that these women won't be able to find the type of man they WANT to settle down with them. As per your example, a 4/10 desperate Billy might but after a body count of 80 this woman is probably an alpha widow who will have to force herself to accept Billy's proposal if she doesn't want to die alone. And if she makes enough money that she doesn't need Billy for provisioning she might just never be able to get herself to do so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 03:12 AM
2	Red pill traits but no luck with women help The weird thing about this post is you didn't actually do what the red pillers say. Money, Muscles, GAME and FRAME. Can you see what you missed there? Part of Game is how to find and approach women. Women generally don't approach directly even if they're attracted to you, and the fact that you're surrounded by men most of the time means you need to make extra effort to get out there.	/r/ExRedPill	31/10/23 05:25 AM
2	It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partner Tell me you are/will be a bad parent without telling me you are/will be a bad parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 10:41 PM
1	Is opposition to dating a central part of red pill ideology? No. Red pill is a set of information. Around it have arisen various movements reacting to that information. One of them is MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). They're the ones advocating that men should avoid women altogether, including dating. Other movements want men to date but on different terms than what we've been taught by mainstream society.	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/23 10:23 AM
5	The stupidest RP take You know of red pillers who don't believe in going to the gym to build muscle? Can you link one example please? That sounds like they're drifting towards black pill.	/r/ExRedPill	17/07/23 11:36 AM
2	Is Red Pill Finally Dying? 2016/17-2023 It'll probably fade, then rise again in another form/branding. PUA was its last iteration. With Neil Strauss it became mainstream, got ridiculed, faded and Red Pill came up as an ideology adding on to what the PUAs started. As long as society pushes that masculine traits are inherently toxic, as long as men aren't taught how to be good and effective men who can be proud of themselves as men (not just to copy women's traits), it creates an inner anxiety in men that is attracted to anyone with the…	/r/ExRedPill	18/05/23 11:50 PM
1	How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection? Of course it does. The red pill part is how the concept is used to support their theories, but the concept itself cannot be credited to the red pill.	/r/ExRedPill	08/05/23 04:51 PM
1	How do you guys feel about the concept of preselection? Preselection is real and it's not a red pill concept. It's actually mentioned and used in psychology as a tactic for influencing other people's behaviours. For example, in sales if you dress expensively and drive an expensive car your potential customers may assume you're a successful salesman which must mean your product has already been selected by other customers, which must mean it is good, which makes your potential customer more likely to buy. That's a form of preselection applied to sales…	/r/ExRedPill	07/05/23 04:59 AM
2	masculinity and femininity is a matter of perception Yeah those feelings are normal. Nobody is 100% masculine or 100% feminine. Rather we are all a mix of both. Most women are more feminine but they will still have some masculine traits. Vice versa for men. It's very hard to live life if you're only 100% masculine. As for using theories from opposing ideas, people in arguments are often disingenuous, arguing to appear right rather than to get at the truth. However we must remember that ideologies come from people, and people are almost never 100% …	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/23 02:18 AM
0	Men of Ex redpill, how do honestly view woman? First I need to emphasise that this isn't about you personally. Rather I am referring to a general majority of women. Each individual will differ from the majority in some areas, but that doesn't make it untrue for the majority. What we want sometimes shows itself in what we pursue. The (I think) largest genre in literature, by sales, is romance, and its primary consumers are women, and by far the majority of them feature relationships with alpha males. Males who are strong, dominant, capable, a…	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 06:11 AM
0	Men of Ex redpill, how do honestly view woman? There's nothing you've said that I disagree with, nor do I see what part of my post implied I disagree with any of it. You asked for what we think of women, so I answered. If you'd asked what women should think of men I could say men are complementary to women. As women want protection and security men want to be big and strong and heroic to be able to protect them. As women want a man they can trust, men want to be confident, which is a way to display that one can be trusted. I could go on. You…	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 04:16 AM
2	masculinity and femininity is a matter of perception Your thinking is strange. You did so many typically masculine things but don't see yourself as masculine even though you even look the part, and someone else confirmed you're masculine. And if 1 person says so you can bet there are others who think so but aren't saying it. So, why do look at yourself from the perspective of the immature who can't pick good character instead of the perspective of someone more mature? I know for a fact, and with experience, that masculinity and femininity are not …	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 03:57 AM
-7	Men of Ex redpill, how do honestly view woman? I view women as people built to be complementary to a man. More uniquely so than anything else in existence. As men want respect, women want men they can genuinely respect. As men want to be strong and powerful, women want men who are strong and powerful. As men want to be leaders, women want men who are leaders. As men want a woman who looks good in terms that denote fertility and ability to bear a child to term, women want to look good in the same sense. But then feminism came along and taught…	/r/ExRedPill	14/03/23 03:28 AM
0	Red pill is literally ruining my marriage I want to hear his side.	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/23 02:01 PM
3	Is this a common and prevalent problem, or is it just another case of confirmation bias? I think it depends on what is revealed about the man when he is being vulnerable. Nobody expects a man to be able to solve death, so crying for a dead loved one isn't shameful. But crying because no matter what he does he just can't get a job, something any normal man should be able to do, is going to freak out any woman who is in the stage of her life where she's looking for a partner to provide for a family. At this point the extent to which she likes him will determine whether she leaves or n…	/r/ExRedPill	26/02/23 04:51 AM
-5	How can it be possible that there is virtually zero nuance in this discussion, that you are either firmly planted on one end of the spectrum or the other with absolutely no balanced take to be found? You're right. Neither side is 100% right or wrong. However each side has extremists who think their side is 100% right. As this is an anti-RP sub you're more likely to find extremists here who think RP is 100% wrong but not everyone on here thinks so. It's just statistics. Don't take the extremists seriously.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/23 09:23 AM
10	Dating “expert” opinion on redpill Strange sub to post this in, given that the search for dating advice is what leads men to finding and swallowing the red pill in the first place. You'd better recommend a non-RP source of dating advice that actually works, or you'll have contributed to the problem.	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/23 02:51 PM
1	Red pilled men like Andrew Tate would probably call him a Simp but this man is a hero to millions More accurately, they'd probably call him a beta but not a simp. Simping has more to do with showering a woman with attention, assistance and resources without getting affection in return.	/r/ExRedPill	14/01/23 10:22 PM
7	"if you dont approach or escalate as a guy your pretty much screwed" The RP is neither 100% right nor 100% wrong. In criticising it, as with any idea, we must remember not to throw out the baby with the bathwater. In the case of approaching, the RP gets it right in that most of the time men will have to approach and women would rather not. Canada is very progressive but even ardent feminists want some amount of traditional masculine leadership in the man they commit to.	/r/ExRedPill	03/01/23 01:48 PM
-3	Stop trying to make Alpha males a thing Red pillers didn't invent the term alpha males. They are real. The romance industry uses it to refer to how they model their heroes (the main male character who is the subject of the woman's affections). Red pillers just define it so incredibly stupidly that, among other problems: 1) it becomes by default a toxic male, 2) it ignores context, i.e. that a person can be alpha in one setting but beta in another, and that there's nothing wrong with that, and 3) everyone wants to call themselves an al…	/r/ExRedPill	12/11/22 11:00 AM
3	But...but...but...Red Pill says women only want men with $100k+! Yeah well, Night At The Roxybury said it before that...24 years ago. 🧐 I've found that women need men to have money if you don't offer much else in the way of masculinity for her to want you for you. It's similar to how people won't work a job they dislike unless it pays them enough, but if they like the job enough they would do it even if it didn't pay very much.	/r/ExRedPill	01/11/22 12:08 AM
3	How can I avoid embracing the “women are only attracted to misogynistic men” idea when all my anecdotal evidence points to that being true? Remind yourself that Correlation is not causation. Women are attracted to strong competent men who can provide, protect and lead. Whether those men are nice or nasty in attitude, that is irrelevant. However a strong man can be nasty to others and get away with it because of their power and status, but a weak man usually needs to play nice to get by. So there's a tendency for assholes being strong men and nice guys being weak men, and that's where the correlation arises. But again, correlation is…	/r/ExRedPill	15/10/22 06:20 PM
1	this sub has a net negative result, you guys have not helped at all. It's helped me from being too much of a Red Pill extremist. However it does have a large portion of people who can't tell the baby from the bathwater in the RP and throw it all out. Just like there is no 100% correct ideology, there is also no 100% wrong ideology. You need to hear perspectives from all sides and then think for yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	14/09/22 02:16 PM
3	should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore? I've been exposed to TRP for over 5 years. This is not their logic. Nobody is saying this except the kinds of people who were making use of Epstein's services on his island.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 11:42 PM
2	should I(female) die once I can't reproduce anymore? This honestly feels like a troll post. Even TRP doesn't teach this. When they talk about Sexual Market Value they are specially honing in on SEXUAL value. And even they don't say your SMV is nil after you've had children. We are more than our sexual value. We matter as (to name just a few roles) parents, siblings, co-workers, community members and even as students. Each of those is another "market" in which our value is positive. Heck I'm not sure even the Black Pillers would agree with this. So…	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/22 11:24 PM
3	Dealing with disillusionment with where Western Society is heading? Isn't France a super-cuck country where they won't even let you get a paternity test without the mother's consent just to "keep the peace"?	/r/askTRP	23/05/21 08:08 AM
-2	Does love from a women exist for a man? Women love men who are alpha males.	/r/askTRP	23/03/21 12:50 AM
2	What else have we being lied to about? This is a good way to go down a slippery slope into "Everything is a lie" conspiracy theory way too fast. I find the following to be helpful: Consider that you need skills to make the things you want to happen. If doing "what you're supposed to do", i.e. doing what you've been taught, doesn't work, then you're a blue-piller in that skill and should seek the red pill version of that skill. Everything else doesn't matter. Religion springs to mind. Our god is good but couldn't stop our priests from…	/r/askTRP	23/03/21 12:36 AM
2	Shut down by an 11 year old. An 11 year old???	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/03/21 04:46 PM
5	Fck these kinda people(not the second guy) Still wrong sub. First person isn't using p*** pass to try to get away with anything.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/01/21 06:10 AM
3	I want college Greek life and "Hookup Culture" to die a slow, painful death Yeah but you're 21 years old, if I'm not mistaken? The effects of a high n count become more significant as you approach 30 and then pass it. Even if you didn't have a void, they create voids of their own. The pair bonding issue is one of them, but that's just the beginning. If you really are 21 you can still mitigate a lot of this (not all, but a lot) by making sure to secure your man's commitment earlier on, at least before 25. If you find yourself approaching 30 and alone, your career, friend…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 09:57 AM
3	I want college Greek life and "Hookup Culture" to die a slow, painful death I think casual sex severely reduces a woman's quality of life and happiness. What makes it worse it this effect is almost irreversible, and can last a lifetime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 09:01 AM
0	I want college Greek life and "Hookup Culture" to die a slow, painful death I'd rather a daughter with mental problems than one with a high n count. The former can be fixed. The latter is forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/20 08:14 AM