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DISCUSSIONTVsFrankismyDad/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:51 AM
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Self-made entrepreneur = unemployed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:54 PM
83

I'm surprised he doesn't call himself an "alpha male".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 01:52 PM
71

In my experience, men who say they like "feminine women" almost always mean they like naïve pushovers who will giggle and agree that feminism has "gone too far".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/22 02:04 PM
194

Too many women go to "hounding, hinting, and nagging for marriage" while he goes to "deflect, postpone, and avoid" until she finally gets a clue and leaves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:48 PM
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You a'int the one sis, it's a simple as that. Guarantee that if she gathers up her self-respect and actually dumps this guy, he will marry the next girlfriend within a year. That's always the way this shit works. The forever girlfriend finally gets a clue and leaves and then the loser who strung her along marries the next one in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 02:42 PM
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Yeah, he still doesn't get it because he's dismissing these guys as "degenerates", "insane", and not like himself. No Josh, these guys are not creepers lurking in the metaphorical bushes - these are your friends and buddies that you think are such great guys. Until men accept that the shit is coming from inside their own house, they can never be real allies because they will continue to blame women for somehow exposing themselves to these bad guys or not being able to tell the "degenerates" from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 03:21 PM
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My husband and I discussed anal once. I have zero interest in anything involving the butt (mine or his). I just don't find it sexually appealing, so it was not even really a discussion - More of a "is that something you'd want to try?" and a "nope, not happening". Since he is not a porn sick loser, he just shrugged and said "OK". That was over 20 years ago and we have never discussed it again. Everyone deserves to be with someone who will fulfill their needs, but too many guys will try to make y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 03:23 PM
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I had read somewhere (and now I can't find the source) that advanced paternal age (over 40) is linked to all sorts of things from pregnancy loss, birth defects, autism, and schizophrenia. All things they are happy to blame the mother's age for. Male fertility has a "wall" too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:14 PM
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Haven't you heard? When women hit 30 they become desperate to nail down a beta provider because the Chad alphas they fucked in their 20's wouldn't commit to them! Or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:10 PM
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They all imagine that here is an endless parade of horney supermodels waiting just around the corner that they'll totally miss out on if they commit to someone. From what I can tell, it seems to come from 1) believing they are like two sit-ups away from being Henry Cavill and 2) believing the stories other men tell about how often they get laid. Every guy lies about sex, and every guy believes the other guys' lies. Also, those old guys also believe the lie that women over 30 are desperate. ​ In …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:05 PM
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Men are so emotionally stunted. This guy describes all the ways he loves his wife, but it doesn't count as love because it's not the lustful thrill he had with the bad girl who got away. Then all the man children on Reddit upvote it like it's some deep nugget of wisdom rather than the pathetically shallow whining that it actually is. Guarantee if some woman wrote this about the man she settled for because he was a steadfast provider but that she never felt thrilling lust for the Reddit bros woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:18 PM
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Men never seem to get that "I'm desperate and will be with literally anyone! You'll do!" is not an attractive look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 05:34 PM
28

Wow. This is some Lifetime movie shit. I hope some bad scriptwriter is taking notes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:41 PM
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More than zero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 06:22 AM
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Convenient, regular sex and half the rent and utilities would be my guess. Men do not have to like the woman they are sleeping with, they are happy to use them for as long as they can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:53 PM
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Yeah, OP is a piece of shit, but she's an idiot for not dumping his ass months ago. She shouldn't have moved in in the first place when he straight up told her that he would not make room for her in his life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 09:51 PM
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Asking men for dating advice is rarely a good idea. Men never care about what's in the woman's best interests. All they care about is that there's some dude out there getting laid and that must be preserved, no matter what. After all, much like cops depending on the blue wall of silence, someday they may need the bro wall of support themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:16 PM
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All the old dudes on Reddit say "age is just a number". Sure, unless that number is higher than his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 01:13 PM
54

I hope every single one of these guys has their offer taken by a woman who ends up having her big, bruising ex-con boyfriend turn their home into a meth lab. Men are so privileged that it never occurs to any of these idiots how they are setting themselves up for victimization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 07:52 PM
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But...men are providers who love women unconditionally! Hope that guy gets hit by a bus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:50 PM
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Married at 21? The problem starts to come into focus...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:47 PM
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Yeah, she knows exactly what the problem is and it's clear she doesn't want to take active steps to solve it, she just wants Internet validation that she's right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:47 PM
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The infuriating thing is he tells this story as "the crazy lady who walked out on a date after I complimented her" and all the other guys clap him on the back and assure him it was a bullet dodged and her loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 05:28 PM
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This is so true. I noticed a number of the guys in that thread said it ended because she moved away for a job or school. So, what? He couldn't go with her? I mean I know it's not always possible for people to relocate, but it seems like men never even consider the possibility of moving to join their wife or gf. When we were young and I was applying to doctoral programs, my boyfriend (now husband) said he would move wherever I needed to go and, looking at that thread, it occurred to me how unusua…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:49 PM
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It's amazing how many of them have the theme of "I loved her but 'wasn't ready'" because they had this idea that men only "settle down" at a certain point or age. Men always seem to cause their own misery, and then they blame us for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 05:49 PM
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Sometimes men go for powerful women because they eventually want to be the ones who ‘make them submit’ I feel like this is the male version of the woman who wants the "bad boy" so she can be the one who is special enough to make him change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:03 PM
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I personally don’t think he wants a submission woman, he wants YOU to submit to him. This. He wants to be so manly that his utter masculinity can cause a strong woman to break and become the submissive woman he deserves. It's all about how he views himself. I firmly believe that no man can be fully psychologically healthy and functional until he comes to terms with how he feels about his own masculinity. Almost all toxic male behavior boils down to masculine insecurity and, unfortunately, the wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 03:00 PM
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Oh, and her boss can fire her and bring in a younger employee and leave her with no way to care for herself and his children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 03:26 PM
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Maybe Freud was right about men wanting to fuck their mothers. It seems like so many of them want bang mommies to wipe their tushies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 07:37 PM
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once you lost the third set, your ex wouldn't be allowed to get a fourth one reprinted, thus permanently blocking her from divorcing you. Some dumb friend of his probably told him that. I'm surprised he didn't try eating them like Mac in "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:22 PM
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AskWomen is another shit show of a sub where every thread inevitably becomes a graveyard of deleted comments. The mods are so paranoid about male derailment that they get delete-happy with even innocuous, on-topic comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 09:44 PM
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And most men still haven't figured out how to do that. And are actively trying not to do that. Instead they cling to outdated notions of toxic masculinity and think they can force or threaten women to agree to regressive relationships by attacking women's rights and threatening terrorist activity. Disaffected angry white men with an inflamed sense of aggrieved entitlement are currently the biggest threat to US culture. Their efforts to cling to power are destabilizing political and social instit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 02:03 PM
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And this dumb shit is precisely why shitty men prey on women so much younger than themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 07:58 PM
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So he's finger banging her and then begging for sex and then wondering why this isn't getting her off? And considers that "his all"? Boy, step away from the porn for 5 fucking minutes if that's all you've got.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 06:21 PM
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Sounds like she just lost about 200 pounds of useless garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 05:59 PM
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But they have a job! And women want providers! because none of us have jobs of our own, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:03 PM
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He never mentions what he brings to the table Well, he likes to listen to music. It's good to know I can rely on him to tell me what good music is and why all the things I like are wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:02 PM
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This has smelly neckbeard written all over it. Probably has a piss bottle collection in his closet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 03:59 PM
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Listen Ted Bundy - she a'int gonna help you with your kayak. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:52 PM
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Incels gonna incel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 04:48 AM
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I dunno - has she CoMmUNiCaTeD with him about how she doesn't want to clean his shit up 10 times a day? I mean, he's not a mind reader!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 05:30 PM
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I love haunted houses. I always cower behind my husband while he tries to act like he's not scared. Apparently he's has come to terms with the fact that if we're even in serious shit, he will have to face it first while I plan my getaway from behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 04:13 PM
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I do see the value in having a good man by my side, but I feel pretty confident in thinking that my definition of a "good man" is not the same as this guy's.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:12 PM
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He really wants a pat on the back for parenting the kid he created. The bar is in the fucking basement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 03:13 PM
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I find that generally, what men describe as "dark humor" is almost always just lazy punching down and cheap shots. Dark humor is morbid, gallows humor but to most guys it's "hur dur women are dumb and rape is funny".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:47 PM
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What value does this dude bring to your life? He's a gaslighting liar who's using you as a place holder until he can get someone younger and "hotter".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 04:22 PM
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And somehow it's all women's fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 03:44 PM
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They really do believe that women are competitive with each other and will crawl over each other to steal a man from another woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 04:59 PM
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Ah, but a wife would have legal rights. Harder to toss aside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 01:04 PM
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He was cute when he was young, but has not aged well. He looks all bloated and unhealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:15 PM
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This is the impotent rage that comes from being an ignored, ineffectual, useless loser your whole life and instead of doing something about it, they turn it outward to blame others so that they never have to do the hard work necessary for emotional growth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 03:05 PM
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They also see it as a sign that you agree with them - which they then generalize to believing that all women think the same way. These are the guys who will tell you about that one woman who told him that women do indeed like bad boys and that girls are too much drama in order to support their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:27 PM
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Men cripple themselves with their FOMO. They live in such fear that somehow, somewhere, some other dude is doing all the things they fantasize about that they can not appreciate what they actually have. They blow up good relationships and treat good women like shit over it only to always learn that real life is never like their fantasies. It would be sad if it wasn't so damned pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 03:34 PM
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BioLoGy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:16 PM
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Because she's so much more mature than other girls her age, and he's young at heart, and women his age don't "get him", and age is just a number, and the heart wants what it wants, and something something ageism, blah blah blah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 01:15 PM
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Man to English translation guide: Good sense of humor = thinks I'm funny/laughs at my jokes Fun = likes to do the same things I do, fucks whenever I want, indulges my kinks Carefree = doesn't kick up a fuss when I do whatever I want Easy going = does what I want her to do, does not challenge me or hold me accountable for the shit I do Sweet = combination of carefree and easy going
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 05:55 PM
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Anyone else suspect this was an incel LARP? I've seen a bunch of accounts lately that are clearly incels posing as women popping up in the usual places (niceguys, askwomen, inceltears, etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:26 PM
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I don't know what 'advice' she was given. Exactly the advice you'd expect from the "men" of Reddit. The woman is saying that she's asking men for advice because she's tired of women sugar-coating advice for her and that the advice from men is eye opening. Hope sis gets picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:22 PM
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Sometimes I like to imagine that PUAs purposefully give other dudes horrendously bad advice so they can eliminate the competition. But then I come back to reality and realize that they're not that clever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:37 PM
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Right? Who would respond to "I only buy drinks for girls I've made out with" with anything other than an "OK, bye"? Maybe a Martian on the first day on Earth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:35 PM
32

Men act like the ability to get "free" drinks is the ultimate achievement in human existence that somehow negates any other shitty thing that we have to endure in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 05:31 PM
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And if something does happen to her people will blame her for not leaving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:01 PM
61

"Act like a child, get treated like a child" Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:01 PM
24

I had been with my girlfriend, 25/f, for about 8 months when we decided to try living together. Well now, here's problem number one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:00 PM
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Seriously. They outright acknowledge that they are shit and are not good people and women should just settle for them or be alone. And then get mad when women are like "No thanks Jeremy, we'd rather be alone then".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:41 PM
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I do not know why he inserted reminders that he used to party and bed girls A lot of them honestly believe that women will be more likely to have sex with them if other women have already "vetted" him. They really believe that women are just that blindly competitive with other women. I think it's projection because if there's one thing men absolutely hate is other men having something they don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:34 PM
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If she keeps fucking this guy, she better mind her birth control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:48 PM
43

why are they friends with such awful people?? Men would stay friends with frigging Hitler if it meant they didn't have to have an awkward conversation. Men are huge social cowards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 11:34 AM
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Bet he'd be one of those guys that whine about "Women don't really want men to be open and emotional! As soon as I opened up to my ex she left me!" after this woman flees for her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah, this sounds like the usual bait fiction AITA churns out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:48 AM
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Men: Not all men! Same men when they become fathers: Yes all men!! Men: It's not faaaiirrr to act like all men are potential rapists! Same men when a woman gets raped: Why were you alone with that man??? Don't you know all men are potential rapists??? ​ Do they even see their own hypocrisy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:56 PM
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At least she can console herself with the fact that she got picked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 10:26 PM
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This idea that men have that money makes them more attractive is rooted in the way they see women and their lack of empathy for women's lived experiences. Like, they consider a woman to be attractive if they would have sex with her, so they assume that women feel the same; "if woman sex me, I am sexy man". Men are not conditioned to evaluate more than sexual appeal in a partner, but women are. We are socialized to consider multiple variables, and to weigh some more than looks. So a rich man will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:44 PM
15

Just bought a pair of swim shorts from Modli and I love them! They don't ride up like other swim shorts do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:27 AM
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"I told her she had nice knockers and I want to motorboat them!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 01:24 AM
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There's an old saying that men are only as faithful as their options. I think that's pretty true for a lot of them. I dated my nice guy orbiter back in high school. After years of wanting me and chasing me and "loving" me, he cheated on me the first chance he got - then had the audacity to be surprised when I dumped him for it. The thing is, none of it was ever about me. "Getting" me was always all about validation for himself. Cheating on me was all about validation for himself. When I dumped h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:52 AM
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This comment reads like male trolling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:53 AM
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I won't find anyone like him again Promise?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:45 PM
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I'd bet real money that if she dumps him, he'll be married to someone else within a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:25 PM
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Bet this guy whines all over Reddit about how he never gets any matches and dating apps suck for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:57 PM
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Way to define yourself by sucking dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:50 PM
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Because their masculine identities are so very, very fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:53 PM
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Meanwhile, I've gotten banned from other subs simply for occasionally posting here. Didn't break any of their rules or say anything they could object to (here or there), and still got banned. {Shrug} OK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:27 PM
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I love those "I'm not a Republican even though I only ever vote for Republicans" guys. They can usually be counted on to also say some variation of "I'm not a fan of either party, both parties suck! (so it's OK that I only for Republicans)" at some point in an exchange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:28 PM
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What, you want indoor plumbing?? Shallow gold-digger!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:54 PM
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Why can't men ever seem to accept that when they make certain uncommon lifestyle or appearance choices, that it is going to limit their dating pool? Like dude, go ahead and live in your van, knock yourself out, but you can't complain that every woman in the world does not want to come along for the ride. Women who want to hang out in your van and pee in a jar are going to be few and far between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:50 PM
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Porn addiction = women purposely warping men's brains, lowering their IQ and giving them PIED so we can control the world Well then ladies, their brains are warped and their dicks don't work, when do we commence the world controlling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:10 PM
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These are also the same men who say sex is how they feel love and intimacy in a relationship so you have to give it up whenever he wants or he'll feel rejected and sad. They are reciting from the "how to bullshit women" script they pass among themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 11:50 AM
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He's getting off on the non-consenual voyeurism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:15 PM
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She doesn't even seem to consider the possibility that those guys might be, you know, lying. Boy, I hope one picks her one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 02:27 AM
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If an asshole says I'm not "wife material", I take that shit as a compliment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:01 PM
60

Allowing more immigration would solve this "replacement" problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:10 AM
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On the topic of things people say about this sub - where do people get the idea that this sub is trans exclusionary or transphobic? Every time I see this sub mentioned someone chimes in with how we hate trans people; meanwhile, I don't think I've ever seen an anti-trans or transphobic post here. Where does this notion come from? *edited to remove warned-for word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:48 PM
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I feel like this happens every time someone in some other sub talks about this one and how "ToXiC" this sub is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:50 PM
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I've noticed that men really hate anything that limits their acceptable dating pool/ sexual options. Anything women do that they don't like, any physical attribute they don't find appealing, any preference on the woman's part that does not include them - all of these things limit the potential number of theoretical partners - and hence, masculine validation - they can have. And they really don't like having their options, and masculine identity, limited that way. Good example - a man will come i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:04 PM
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It may have been "unkind" - but so fucking what. His condescending attitude was unkind - why should he get kindness in return,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:20 PM
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Higher testosterone not only endows men with more physical strength but also a measuably greater capacity for violence. And decreased empathy. There's lots of studies showing that higher testosterone levels are negatively correlated with empathy. One proof of this is that statistics for violent crime committed by women haven't budged no matter what advances women make in terms of rights or collective power And it's not due to a "lack" of criminality in general because women's rates for property …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:43 PM
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This story really demonstrates how little empathy men have for women. The scene with the man bothered him because he could feel empathy for him, but the woman in porn is just an object. Her suffering is meaningless and "fun" because he gets off on it and can't acknowledge her humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 10:33 PM
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The bar for "good father" is on the fucking floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:19 PM
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So true. I have never really cared about a man's height. I'm 5'4 and have dated guys shorter and taller than me. But spare me the guys with short-guy syndrome; I don't care about their height, but if they care too much about it, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:04 AM
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Marriage is a partnership, most people don't enter into it to squeeze as much as they can out of their spouse but to establish a partnership to raise kids and have a good symbiotic relationship. Sure, that's what it's supposed to be - but men will take advantage and a lot of women will let them; I'm not gonna waste a lot of time feeling sorry for pickmes who don't have the good sense to know when to take the trash out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 05:13 PM
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In some ways, you can't blame men for taking advantage of this sort of thing. If some dummy is willing to do all that for them, why wouldn't they take them up on it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:35 PM
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If she works full time, she's not "traditional", she's just a pickme doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:32 PM
170

So many "fathers" with second families. Then those same "fathers" get bitter when their first kids want nothing to do with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:33 PM
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It's so easy for men to say they want children because their lives don't have to change much at all. Aside from a financial commitment (which they act like is sooo burdensome and unfair) they don't need to have any other responsibility except what they take on voluntarily. Then they get treated like they are the best man ever because they throw the ball around with their kid on the weekend. Being a father is easy compared to being a mother, so of course they want kids to "carry on their name".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:29 PM
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they tried to smear the shit out of me for it for no reason And then people wanna turn around and claim men don't gossip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:43 PM
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which I'm fine with now, but it was a point of contention early on in our relationship. LOL, yeah, you're not "fine" with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:26 PM
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men see these women as accessible, Or they're so pornsick that they've trained themselves to only be able to get it up for a certain type of woman. They've conditioned themselves right out of being able to have normal sex with a normal looking woman and instead of acknowledging the problem and working to fix it, they just expect women to conform to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:43 PM
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I love when they act like it's some kind of threat to live without them. Nah, Steve, I'll be just fine without your useless ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:41 AM
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Personally, I hate beards; I never think men look good in them and too many men think beard=personality. I especially hate those long, ratty lumberjack things that are popular now. They are ugly, and they look like they smell. In addition, around here, most dudes who grow that shit tend to be Trump-humping assholes. Because of this, I have gradually come to be wary of men with beards because they so often think it's something special that I should find so manly and impressive and they get really…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:16 PM
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Probably one of the cops who removed the barriers and waved them in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:40 AM
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Well, yes. Seriously, I don't think even they knew what they wanted. Like, they got in the Capitol, got on the damn Senate floor - and then just wandered around taking selfies like a bunch of teenaged girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:47 PM
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Men have depended on the old notion that they can have kids at any age to justify trying to fuck outside their age bracket, so it doesn't matter if they wait until they're 50 or older to have kids. Turns out old sperm a'int so great. Guess men "hit the wall", too, huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:04 PM
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There's just such a difference in life experience and wants and needs. I have a friend who married a girl in her late 20s when he was 40. They never had much in common, she is always had a hard time relating to his friends (like, she's a very nice person, but she just doesn't share the same frame of reference for conversations - even in things like simple pop culture references), he couldn't relate to her friends, who all still wanted to go out a lot, while she was home with her old husband and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:19 PM
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Frankly, that's still too young for a 40 year old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:34 PM
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Nah, just throw the whole suitcase away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:47 PM
69

Kind of you to think he has a job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:02 PM
50

Now ladies, there's no need to fight. There's plenty of this alpha stud to go around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:00 PM
8

The existence of straight women is all the proof you need that sexuality is not a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:44 AM
6

The bar for "good father" is on the fucking floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:36 AM
11

He's only interested in you because he sees you as a trophy to hold up to other men to show how "masculine" he is - "hey look fellas I got a hot young stupid one! I'm better than the rest of you!" Just know, he's available because women his own age have all decided he's crap. Let some other dummy be the one he uses to validate himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:32 AM
182

I've noticed that so many men are so cowardly that they will stay friends with fucking Hitler if it will avoid a confrontation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:18 AM
227

Not even rape, more like "they might look at me in the shower!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:11 AM
56

OK - this is going to get long but I truly believe that, in a patriarchy, much of male behavior and male psychology can be understood by their own relationship with their masculine identity: Men, particularly young men, use sexual success as an indicator of their masculinity. The more success he has, the more "manly" he is. Masculinity is also a finite resources so there is a competition with other men - it's not enough to have sex (although that's the bare minimum - hence the lying by male virg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:00 PM
22

Like what are they gonna do? 😂 Keep voting for the politicians that take your rights away?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:16 PM
6

"Don't ask me why he did this", "Don't ask me why he did that". OK then, can I ask you why you're married to this piece of shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:54 PM
22

There is nothing more pathetic than a RP dude. Their insecurity rolls off them in noxious waves as they try so desperately to convince themselves that they are anything but the unwanted losers they are. It would be sad if it wasn't so toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 06:53 PM
92

I've noticed that men vastly overestimate the value of male attention. They think everything women do is to get their "attention". We wear clothes for it, pretend to be interested in male hobbies for it, go to school for it, go to the gym for it, make make-up tutorial videos for it, post pictures online for it, stand around doing nothing but existing for it. Meanwhile, most women are out here actively doing shit to try to minimize the amount of male attention we get. It is a ridiculously low val…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:48 AM
37

In my experience, a man is not psychologically healthy unless he has a good, secure masculine identity. Their view of themselves as "masculine" (however they define it) is at the root of their emotional health. Those who do not feel that they meet the requirements for "manhood" will always be insecure about it. That insecurity breeds anxiety and leads to all manner of maladaptive and unhealthy behavior. The ones who buy into the hegemonic and toxic masculinities will be the worst because those m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:52 PM
37

Or men with/without beards. Or men who have jobs. Or men without "dad bod". Men hate to be told that they are not universally attractive to all women exactly the way they are. Anything that limits their field of options is unfair of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:34 PM
40

Men really hate to hear that they are not sexually viable to 100% of women. Anything that narrows their field is unfair or mean or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:25 PM
26

You can just hear red pill assholes grinding their teeth. "But but I'm alpha!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:55 AM
22

They essentially want a full-time employee but offer shitty benefits and expect you to make up the slack with a side hustle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:15 PM
33

I think the male gender are inherently sociopaths, Well, there is lots of research demonstrating a link between testosterone and all manner of sociopathic traits (i.e. decreased empathy, decreased verbal reasoning ability, increased aggression, increased sensation seeking).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 07:09 PM
1

Lol thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:40 AM
34

the other woman is his hand Other women - Mary Palmer and her five sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:08 PM
42

I'm thinking there is no "other woman" - this was a red pillesque attempt to make her think she had competition and should act now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:04 PM
3

Wrong Way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 05:20 PM
54

How much you wanna bet that this dude will be one of those idiots on the Internet who tell other guys "never open up to a woman because they will dump you for it"? Like you just know that's the lesson he's going to take away from this, not "guess I shouldn't manipulate and emotionally abuse women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:19 PM
2

Large age gap, what a shock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:01 PM
58

He actually tried to argue that he genuinely does enjoy spending time with me and tried to guilt me into feeling bad for not communicating enough and not giving him a chance to fix it before I broke things off. The endless male push-pull of "just tell me what you want" and "don't tell me what to do".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:52 PM
33

That’s why it’s what he’s doing with his time. If she doesn’t want to do the same thing, why is it so egregious that she end it? Apparently we're supposed to believe that men are so emotionally stupid that they can not figure out that their partner doesn't want to watch him waste away in front of a video screen unless he is sat down and told so in no uncertain terms; and told often and frequently. Anything less than multiple attempts to shape his behavior is an egregious lack of communication be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:51 PM
56

She should dump his ass just for being that fucking stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:43 PM
10

Men just feel entitled to date.. whenever. Because they've been trained to have women fix them. Men date specifically to find someone to manage their lives for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:36 PM
6

Yeah, this guy definitely walked away from this encounter thinking "I sure told her off!".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:26 PM
31

I read that as "I'm ugly but I shower regularly".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:19 PM
105

Isn't it amazing how often "open minded" means "willing to agree with everything I say and do"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:18 PM
11

And the Internet is filled with men complaining they cannot find a woman. You would think they'd get that since every single one of them who end up in the manosphere bog got there by googling "how to meet women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:58 AM
3

So, as of right now women have collectively decided that we do not want any of these guys and we do not give a shit how the jerk off or if hump pillows or fuck expensive dolls. Why exactly are we supposed to start giving a shit when they fuck expensive machinery instead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:44 AM
34

Men love to perpetuate the myth that young women are just lining up to date old guys when it's so easy to dispute - all they need to do is look at who women actually date. Like, if old guys are getting all these young girls because "men age like wine" or whatever, then who's dating all those young studly Chads they're always going on about? The manosphere ideology is always internally inconsistent and invalidates itself, but those rational thinkers with their superior intelligence never see it. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:26 AM
40

This guy is 37. He's kicking it with his hobbies and female attention. Let me tell you about this guy in 10 years. The single man at 47 is sad. He is alone. All of his friends have settled down and now spend every weekend and vacation with their wives and or kids. He's lucky to get together with them once in a while for a barbeque or party when one of his couple friends has one. Younger single men do not want to hang out with him. He's old and pathetic if he tries to hang with them and he scares…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 04:11 AM
21

This guy's whole pitch is straight out of the red pill play book. OP was wise not to play along. Now he'll have to fabricate the whole date for his "field report".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:27 AM
66

"Paddle boarding" also goes along with that red pill shit to "go swimming on the first date so she can't hide behind 'fake up'".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:25 AM
16

How can someone be seeking advice for this shit? How can you not see "toss him to the curb" as the only possible response to something like this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:23 PM
28

Funny how they argue that it's OK for men to have standards while pointing out that men have a hard time dating precisely because they don't adhere to those standards and will fuck anything that stands still long enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:27 PM
15

It's cute that he would think you haven't heard that all before from every other basic dude so he needs to enlighten you as to the "nature" of men. If only they understood how absolutely common they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:19 PM
31

Whenever some manchild on Reddit denigrates social science degrees as "worthless" I just sit here with my six figure salary and laugh at their broke asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 11:38 PM
3

It's not your maturity at issue, it's his. Just know this - you are a masculinity trophy for him. Something he can show to his friends to show he is manly and alpha and can get young hot women. You give him status and bragging rights with the other men. That's what you are to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:25 AM
3

The fact that he's 34 is all the red flag you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:19 AM
59

He should be reported for soliciting child pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:35 PM
8

Any time I meet a man who registers surprise at my intelligence, I always make sure he leaves knowing that I've met many, many people who are smarter than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:45 AM
19

And so that they can use them for "masculinity points" - showing all the nudes they get to other guys lets those guys know how manly and studly they are. Never forget, masculinity is a treasured but limited resource and men are in constant competition for their share of it. Your tits are their currency - they buy status from other dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:29 PM
25

"Oh honey it's just a silly video game, what's the big deal?" Watch LVM explode while also not getting the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:31 AM
2

"Any advice?" Yeah, dump that porn addled piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:21 AM
20

We can sympathize while still expressing our frustration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:15 AM
50

"Please don't tell me I'm a complete doormat and my man is a piece of shit. Convince me that he will change and suddenly become perfect."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:13 AM
26

I'm thinking of this woman I know who has always been the epitome of the Cool Girl -the "I'm not like other girls", "I'm a man's woman", "women are too much drama" type who has, in recent years become a full fledged Red Pill woman for the ultimate NVM (in their late 40s they literally live in a basement in her mother's house.). So like, I'm wondering if maybe the Pickmeisha is the final form of the Cool Girl. Like is it the natural progression for the Cool Girl who doesn't grow out of that shit?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:04 AM
40

The Y chromosome is a mutation that causes unstable brain functioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 01:55 AM
16

Because no one sane wants to be barked at by a bunch of sea lions pretending to be "debating". The biggest waste of a woman's time and energy is to "debate" LVM on the internet. They don't deserve the effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 06:52 PM
5

And yet he's perfectly OK with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:04 PM
4

Probably an incel - no women are considering sleeping with that trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:45 AM
2

"Have to keep my pride" LOL, too fucking late for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:16 PM
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