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Sri Ramana Maharshi taught these lessons to many - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcU7EK2HVLA If you prefer a westernized view of the same, I highly encourage "The power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 09:44 PM
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Android and iOS are different in some ways, but I want to point out some of technical details to consider (for the Reddit app or any other) Apps require permission to access areas outside of their app container. There are a couple exceptions for this, but in general you must approve the app's ability to use location, contacts, camera, microphone, and many more. In context of this app, be sure to NOT authorize access to any DOX-able resource As a general rule, apps can inter-process communicate w…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 09:00 PM
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Excellent story, thanks for sharing. When you get stressed, eat, and then beat yourself up for it, that cycle makes you your own worst enemy. It is clear that your goal is to overcome these tendencies. I would like to recommend a book; and in particular the audio book for "The Firth Agreement". Check out the reviews and audio sample; this book may be a terrific resource for you.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 08:41 PM
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There is a lot of amazing RP reading to be sure, but on this topic I know of no better book than The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. If you are struggling to get past the queasy and guilty feelings leftover from the programming in our society, this book would be a terrific resource.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:18 AM
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Favorite line in Family Guy - "Remember Chris, if she smokes, she pokes"
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 09:52 PM
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When you meet up, it is only you and her. No phones. Disconnect interest the minute she picks up her phone to text someone. Something like "Tonight is about us; not phones". If she regresses, thank her for the time and walk out. ASsuming the date continues, you are bringing her into your world. Lead with solid, fun plans for the night. Throw in a few surprises, and use kino. Watch for IOIs and commit to action. Take what you want without hesitation. She will respond positively or she will not. I…
/r/askTRP22/10/15 05:02 AM
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She falls into one of two thought patterns: She REALLY GETS OFF on having orbiters in a tight orbit close to her. This tendency is known as the "cock tease". It is not a new phenomenon. Based on her statement of "best friend", there is a high probability that she falls into this bucket. She is unsure if you are fucking material. She is testing you and you are passing some tests and not others. So as soon as she gets the 'gina tingles something happens between you two and she dries up Thankfully …
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:22 PM
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Great sidebar material abounds here.. but you are asking broader question. Reading material will be a start. Action must soon follow. Don't be the guy who thinks that he will get ripped by watching youtube videos of people lifting. :-) When you are ready to sculpt your ego.. which is to say.. take control back from the ego which is attached to negative emotion, then read (or Audible) The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:12 PM
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TRP isn't a set of truths for you to mold the woman in your life into something she isn't. The leadership / dread aspects of TRP will motivate your wife to be the best version of herself. If she is not naturally one who wears lots of makeup and dresses, don't expect a wholesale change there. What you CAN expect is that she will respond to your leadership. Making it clear that you like more makeup / dresses / etc.. is good; she should know your preferences. Out of respect for you and her marriage…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 04:39 PM
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Have you considered addressing those feelings of depression and worthlessness head-on? Outside the context of women, what thoughts / negative emotions randomly appear in your head? Try this - The next time you "feel" negative in some way, become the observer of that feeling. Watch it come into being. Ask if the feeling is helping or hurting you. As you do this, other thoughts will randomly surface; procrastination, doubt, excuses, frustration, etc. Don't resist them; simply watch. After some pra…
/r/askTRP30/09/15 04:01 PM
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Your ego is still attached to the identity of a person who isn't quite ready to emancipate past incel. 1st rule of starting a business - FIND A CUSTOMER. You can research something until your eyes bleed; until you stop studying and start acting nothing will change. So, STOP READING AND START ACTING The ego is a tricky thing; it will attach identity to anything it finds comfortable. Now, instead of the "hopeless incel" you are the "in-progress" incel since you lurked and read all the stuff here. …
/r/askTRP30/09/15 03:48 PM
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You don't specify a timeline B/W breaking up before college and now.. 2 months? 2 years? If this was a recent breakup, then you are fooling yourself to consider her a plate; this is your attempt to redefine a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, and it will not end well. Texting game is for chumps. Women will bring you down to their level and pummel you with experience. Text logistics only. Logistical reply - "I'm free to talk after my workout tonight. Call at 8:45"
/r/askTRP28/09/15 06:08 PM
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The key concern is oneitis. Cultivating an abundance mentality brings a snowball-effect to your confidence & game. If you are living your life, if you are making women a complement of it, if you are not letting the women in your life influence your decisions, then you are on the right track. Who / how many / in parallel or serial / race / SMV ranking (Protip: >5 ) / those decisions are personal. The advice from this forum should be about how those decisions affect your journey to become the best…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 09:16 PM
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WELCOME TO THE OTHER SIDE. It starts by being mad at your life - "my life sucks" Then you hate your job - "my job sucks" Then you hate your wife - "I hate my wife; I hate my life" Then you loathe yourself - "I can't leave - who would want this fat ass?" Then you feel guilty for feeling all of this. Then you break - "It will suck, but I don't care; I WILL NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ANYMORE!" Then she tries to put the lid back on your box. If you let her, the cycle repeats, but each time you have less res…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 08:40 PM
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Welcome. Be sure to check out the RP sub for married men too. Final note - Seriously consider reading Atol Kay's "Married Man Sex Life Primer". I am grateful for the information; so is my wife!
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 07:01 PM
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What psychedelics would you recommend? I'm ready to explore past that veil. After listening to Alan Watts, my mindest on the universe changed. There is a new hunger within me to explore.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:59 PM
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Probably a post for another day, 30 minutes ago my 21YO daughter aborted her unwanted pregnancy. No matter our political position on this matter, the emotional impact of the situation is one of the hardest experiences of my life. My daughter is the textbook example of the woman you speak of. As hard as I try to accept the reality of our world and the way it influences the natural behaviors of women, I desperately want to know my kin can lead a happy life. Unless she can pull her self out of the …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:51 PM
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You make a very astute observation. If I may, here is where the trail leads: Right now you are applying critical thought to new narratives which don't align with your programming. As your ability to think critically matures, the next phase is that you will look past volatile language which peppers posts in order to take in the entire message. For instance - Someone uses the term "slut" or "whore" in a post. My BP-mind saw that, and immediately concluded that the poster was a butt-hurt misogynist…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 06:41 PM
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BMI too high? BYE! My brain may need the dating practice, but my dick will resent me for it later.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:15 PM
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Keep posting these stories!!! Every_fucking_time some idiot falls for this buillshit it wakes up two others. The day will come when my son seriously considers marriage. I want to "run a search" to locate all of these examples of successful men getting divorce-raped by their special snowflakes.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:13 PM
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Great retort; spot-on. The work to do around the house proactively done by the man will likely never be noticed from the woman's POV. A short list: Cleaning the gutters on a sunny day Roof work (black-jacking loose shingles, killing moss, etc) Oil changes in the cars Keeping salt in the water softener Splitting the wood ahead of time so it is dry for next winter Tool maintenance You get the idea. Men handle the kind of shit that women would only become aware of if we stopped handling it. When th…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:03 PM
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So what's the plan when you get a little older, say 50+ with decades of good health still ahead of you? Speaking as a man in his '40s, I see the gauntlet changing. Want to stay in the city and compete? Go for it. Want to unplug in the country and live off the land? Rock on. It is less about the act of competition and more about the experiences we build. Breaking ground on a new homestead is rife with challenges. Same for planting your garden, protecting your livestock from predators, or learning…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:53 PM
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I just finished every word. The article is spot-on. It offered context on the timeline / trainwreck of feminism in crystal-clear terms. This Pendulum WILL swing back to some semblance of normalcy. Everything in our universe cycles and this will too. Sadly, my 21YO daughter is ground up in this mess and doomed to live a life of confusion and disappointment. Im entering into my 18th year of marriage; of which two years were decent. I stay now because TRP helped me to understand my role as leader. …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 07:53 PM
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+1 on the professional help offer. That is some seriously fucked up shit. Please consider reading "No more Mr Nice Guy" by Dr Glover. Beyond that, the best recommendation I could offer would be MONK MODE FOR A YEAR, living in a different city at least 500 miles away. She's getting old and has no one and I don't want her to die miserable alone If it is possible for you to interact with her in the future will depend on your strength. You MUST break free of this mental trap and do so with solid str…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:19 PM
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YES you can!!! It is a different kind of trust - the type of trust you have for a teenager. The kind of trust you have in probabilities. TRP-enlightened men understand women better than most of them understand themselves. Let that sink in for a moment - In a gynocentric, narcissistic, selfie-society, most women will not take enough introspective time to assess why they perform the behavior patterns they do. Therefore as a TRP-enlightened man demonstrating leadership in your life you can TRUST th…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 04:03 PM
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From the article behind the pay-wall: In one survey of men, Trapnell and Meston (1996) found that nice guys who were modest, agreeable, and unselfish were disadvantaged in sexual relationships. Men who were manipulative, arrogant, calculating, and sly were more sexually active and had a greater variety of sexual experiences and a greater number of sex partners. These men scored higher on the agentic facets of an extraversion scale, namely assertiveness, activity level, and excitement seeking. Th…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:32 PM
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Wranglerstar's channel is really good for instructions. Not my cup of tea when he gets religious, but to each their own.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:12 AM
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We live in a Brave New World.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:09 AM
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Skip all posts with [FR] in the title. Problem solved. A quick glance indicates that >75% of the posts in here address self-improvement strategy with only a side of "that will get you pussy".
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 05:00 AM
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Welcome to the side of truth. Taking out your rage on iron is a VERY healthy approach; but don't throw your back out. As a middle-age man who discovered TRP truth 8 months ago, I can say that the awakening helped me deal with anger issues in all areas of life. There is an inner-calm of understanding I tap into when I see adult women acting like children (and that really is the core of what we discover in TRP). With men, I have the sotic insight to weigh a conflict on the merits and act with less…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:22 PM
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Isn't getting angry breaking frame though? What's the difference? Anger is emotion triggered by a stimulus. Frame is finding the little spot in time right after stimulus and right before response, then remaining in that spot long enough to respond with a planned action. Breaking frame would mean simply responding to the stimulus without conscious thought.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:14 PM
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For the uninitiated, in a mash pit, you just do what-the-fuck-ever. I must be getting old. in the late '80s we called those mosh pits. And as a young, pissed of teenager ... mosh pits were a terrific way to release aggression.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:10 PM
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RP 101 - Don't say it until you did it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:19 PM
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Ill need more time to dedicate a post to that. We hit the mother-of-all-storms last night; our daughter announced she is pregnant. When it rains, it pours. Right now I'm drenched.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 09:32 PM
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Congratuations! She will nest. As long as her nesting is reasonable, support it. Never EVER stop improving yourself. Life is your ship and you are the captain. Now there is one more passenger. Im halfway through my life, but will say with confidence that the experience of fatherhood has meant the most.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 10:12 PM
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41YO here.. never thought I would discuss this on the internet even cloaked in anonymity. Sad to say, but sometimes I too end up playing pool with a rope. It started a couple years back when I was at my heaviest. Im down to a healthy weight for an athletic frame now, and things are much better but still not entirely out of the woods (pardon the pun). Here are some approaches I tried - Nutrient stack - Pygeum, zinc, Macca root, and Fish oils. This made a pretty good difference after a couple week…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 09:53 PM
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Hey man, one other thing - I struggle to meditate. Googling resources makes my eyes bleed. The things you accomplished with yoga echo my goals. How did you get started, and what resources would help me walk a similar journey?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:47 PM
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BadASS! Too often people in TRP say that "Alpha is about YOU, not about getting pussy". Your journey is epic, but the part I like the most is that you tapped into whatever fucking motivation you needed to get started - even motivations external to yourself. Now that you are deep into the journey, your motivations are more inward; as far as landing HB10s go, you have a "been there, done that" attitude. Mr Myagui made Daniel wash the floor and wax the car in order to get muscle memory. We need to …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:32 PM
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Learn to code. Publish an app or two. Fail. Then publish another. All the while build up your credibility on StackExchange. Build up your network on LinkedIn. Assuming you are smart and applying yourself, within two years you will get a job offer in the high 5 figures. Bonus points - Learn how to program scenarios for IoT (Internet of Things). That industry is poised to be as big or bigger than the .COM revolution.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:22 PM
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"Is this <woman, friend, job, town> a net positive to my life, or a net negative? If the latter, then NEXT it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:54 PM
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Her answer - "two" My response while walking out - "I don't take financial advice from broke relatives"
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:47 PM
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I probably know the answer to this, but for the record - How many women are in this line of work?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:40 PM
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I want to create a new Reddit account just to upvote this comment twice.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 10:24 PM
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In my best Stewie Griffin voice.. "I'd do her, do her, wouldn't do her, do her, who HASN'T done her, lose the pig tails and we'll talk.."
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:20 PM
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Im probably an outlier on this point, but Roosh never really impressed me as one of the "top" masters of Game. I followed his work for a couple of years and there is an undertone of unhappiness / weakness to him. It is easier for me to identify with guys like RSD Tyler; outgoing, positive, and full of energy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:36 PM
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I started training Muay Thai & BJJ last month. It is a serious ass kicker but I love every second of it. Last week a woman joined for a couple of trial lessons (lets call her "M"). On her first day she brought her three children who proceeded to run around the mats on one of the empty rooms. "M" gives off a vibe like she wants to be treated like "one of the guys". Here is the deal though - practicing BJJ requires really close contact. It requires physical overpowering. I was thankful that she pa…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:57 PM
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Terrific post. A year before RP I talked with a friend about working out. I cited all of the books and videos I relied on for studying up routines, forms, techniques, etc. His response - "you wont get jacked watching youtube videos of people lifting" Your post offers terrific insights bridging theory with action. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:41 PM
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Very interesting perspective. One worthy of meditation. It seems in conflict though - the concept of mentally checking out during 'work' modes... well, that is tantamount to tolerating the journey and focusing only on the destination. I believe that everything is a journey and it is the journey to be relished as much or more than the destination. Frankly, Im struggling to reconcile your point of view.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:23 PM
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Nope. I have not posted my marriage story in totality; just little parts so far.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 10:23 PM
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This echos my experience from April of 2014. Some corner of my memory cannot let go how she acted toward me. We remain together, but I fear some permanent damage was done to my ability to trust her closely. Ironically, TRP saved our marriage so far. It was through TRP that I discovered that many of her traits are primal; and through that lens I could let go of some anger. Without that, there is no doubt we would be divorced.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:54 PM
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reformation of who I am, which is simply never going to happen unless I have a mental breakdown or something If you and your sweet girl can walk hand-in-hand into the sunset, I for one applaud you. The TRP truth is that you will be framing an emotional house on a foundation cast in sand. It may hold, but the probability is that the more time you spend in her frame the shakier the foundation becomes. Tread lightly. As for AF... I dont have the desire to be Chad Thundercock. I desire to be the bes…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:25 PM
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Perhaps the room metaphor is out of place. To my way of thinking, the "room" represents life; so I choose to build my room rather than take a pre-furnished room built by the narrative of society.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:08 PM
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choose to continue living you must find a way to support yourself. In the USA that's usually college and then a 9-5 job. What I am talking about is basing my production of resources on activities more aligned to my terms. That may mean living a self-reliant lifestyle on 80 acres, travelling the world working from my laptop, or simply reducing my debt level to enable more choice for my time. That is WTF I'm talking about. I'm talking about discovering the things society didn't consider important …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:06 PM
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If you havent read it, I recommend Rollo's book "The Rational Male" for this topic. You are right - in an LTR there must be moments of nurturing and communication. The type and ratios are important. A hardship example - Her close friend / relative dies. She will naturally look to seek comfort from you. A communication example - Let her "paint a picture" of how she thinks you think. Never fill in all of the details, but offer glimpses every now and again to keep her working on the puzzle. Oh, and…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:08 PM
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Fuck.. for a moment I thought I posted this because the similarities to me and my brother are so similar. My brother destroyed any concept of my self-worth before I was 10. He was my bully, my hero, the object of my rage, and the one I "always wanted to be like". He always kicked my ass. One night in 1992 he flew into a rage. He was 21 and I was 18. He went into his usual "come on, let's go" fighting rage. I calmly told him to hit me. Ill throw his ass in jail and mommy wont be able to bale him …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:24 AM
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My wife's most intense orgasms came (no pun intended) when I focused harder on my pleasure. Seeks backward, but worked for us.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 09:03 PM
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You already know the answer, but Ill spell it out for you anyway. From the place of IDGAF, you let her know that the time together was terrific and you wish her well. Make the NEXT warm, sincere, and friendly. You have a ticket which is non-refundable? GREAT! Time to go see a new place and look forward to new interactions flying solo. Dont be overt; let it 'slide' that you are going to make the most of the sunk cost ($$) which means you will be in town. Be sure to let her know that you will BE R…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 05:18 PM
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Guidance to my son - DONT MARRY If you decide to marry, make it a low-key event. That means - Gold band only - no diamonds family only along with select friends; no more than 30 people Affordable honeymoon only - Do NOT take on debt for the event Budget: No more than $50 PP for catering If your bride turns into Bridezilla over this, then she fails your shit frame test.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 05:12 PM
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Terrific article, Rollo. Thanks again for all you do. I'm in my early '40s. You address something that is at the heart of what everyone in their early '20s needs to understand. Notice that I stated "understand" rather that "apply". If someone in their '20s decides to follow the path of the 'faithful provider' well informed about these matters, then have fun. However, I believe a key component of the anger phase associated with TRP is that many of us discovered that we were duped. Grrrr....
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 10:40 PM
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The two times I had the opportunity it negatively affected my sexual arousal. My moral compass would not process the act well, and I didn't pursue either time.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 01:49 AM
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My wife is afraid to try things because she may fail. She will get very self-deprecating and make comments like that. I have 75% success with statements like "what would you say to our daughter if she said that to you?". Flipping the script to place her in the position of parent will often pop her out of the funk. For the other 25% of the time? Well, she knows that she was "heard" by me, and that I'm not going to try to fix the problem. If she really belabors the "I'm stupid" comment past that, …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 08:38 PM
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This post echos my experience a year back. I had no RP idea at the time, but looking back my tone was "This IS happening" instead of "This is going to happen". Who knew that such a subtle change in vocabulary represented such a significant change in circumstance.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 05:35 PM
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I flirt All_the_time. Let me go on record to state that ILL NEVER CHEAT. I believe a man keeps his word. Therefore my marriage will end BEFORE I physically pursue someone else. With that out of the way, now we can talk about interactions with other women (outside of the workplace). The 23 YO waitress at Red Robin - serious IOIs. Ill joke around and flirt with her - treat her like "little sister". Same for the woman who cuts my hair. Same with the cute barista. The simple fact of the matter is th…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:44 PM
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Ill elaborate in a new post when time permits.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 03:30 PM
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Welcome to the other side. Have you read "no more Mr nice guy"?
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:38 PM
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try this tip - When you are getting pissy, loud, or generally falling into "bitch" mode, quietly turn your smartphone's voice memo function on. If that doesn't curtail you from regressing into a BP pussy, then proceed with whatever rant you feel like doing. Play it back the next day when you calm down. Pay attention to two things: How ineffective you become when your voice gets naggy, loud, or both What your wife says during the argument. Chances are she will not be "hearing you" anyway; though …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 12:46 AM
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Okay, that literally got me to laugh out loud.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 12:42 AM
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Badass! Congratulations. It never ceases to amaze me how little people care how you feel - they place more value in seeing that your emotions dont show under duress. Stoicism rules!!!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:29 AM
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It is overt and agreed - "I love you and appreciate how things are improving. I'm encouraged about our future. But we can never again take each other for granted - we are here based on the merits of our relationship" "We" is a very powerful pronoun in this context - is states that I expect nothing more from you than you can expect from me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/15 12:23 AM
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@ work now, so not the full story. I was never FULLY BP in the sense that I supplicated to her every demand. It was more of a "numbing" over years. She would not complete any goal in her life (school, work, hell - even scrapbooking!). I constantly bitched about the things she would not do to step up while I continue to plod forward with the same job for 16 years. I REALLY want to move on to do different things with my life, but until our obligations to the bills and kids are in a better place I …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 10:34 PM
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Yup. This came up in a discussion with my wife just the other day. She cited this example: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_MRM3wvVoI
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:03 PM
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Be hyper gender roled. Open doors. All the doors. Especially car doors. Be polite. Pay for everything. Most of your post was captivating, but you lost me here. Open doors for PEOPLE when you are in a convenient position to do so; those are common manners. Dont pay for HER!! That sets the wrong tone.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:53 PM
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Great summary, essentially the opening chapter of No More Mr Nice Guy by Dr. Glover. You are missing a key component though - Men CANNOT be a "Nice Guy" and expect to gain the respect & admiration of high-value women. A High Value (HV) man can be polite A HV man can respect the human rights of others A HV man can demonstrate manners that dont involve supplication A HV man can be honest If that is how you define a "Nice Guy", great, but you may want to re-label it as "Good man" since the NG term …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:49 PM
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Im only upvoting to keep this comment from collapsing. Red Pill truths are amoral. How you choose to APPLY them will filter through your lens of morality. In this sub we tend to refrain from moral judgments about how people choose to live their lives with one exception - NO ONE will tolerate real abuse. You will not find any up-voted comment encouraging violence toward women - self defense not withstanding. These are truths about our primal nature. Men want to "pollenate" women want to reproduce…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:00 PM
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You have more unplugging to do. AWALT IS; neither good or bad; simply amoral. The ZEN place is a mindset of IDGAF regarding issues of jealousy. Her ACTIONS are either respectful of your marriage or disrespectful of them. The fact that she learned he died 20 years ago is evidence that she was not out harvesting classmates.com or facebook to flirt with him during your marriage. Here is another fact - The butcher, pool boy, mailman, police officer, or <fill_in_the_blank> dude is offering your wife …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 09:19 PM
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Holy fucking shit - Time to take a serious look at YOUR life and choices. Before doing anything else go somewhere alone and repeat over and over - "I HAVE VALUE!!" There! Feel better? Probably not. Feel weird? Probably. It will not feel weird in 6 months. With that out of the way, time to start a mental overhaul on YOU. Get "No more Mr Nice Guy". I don't care if it is on your kindle or in paper, GET THE BOOK. Go somewhere with no distractions. A coffee shop in a new town, library, a park somewhe…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:01 PM
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Yeah.. I didn't see anything about an all boys school.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 01:57 AM
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The misandry continues. The LA school district approves a girls only school http://www.scpr.org/news/2015/04/14/51020/la-unified-approves-creation-of-all-girls-stem-sch/
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:18 PM
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Anger phase is a bitch. Our world (ego) ties tightly to core beliefs. Absorbing TRP truths feel like ripping a band-aid off of your brain. The hardest part in my world was the realization of AWALT with my mom, my sister, my step-mom, my grandmother, and my daughter. The anger still returns. The little boy in me who was told to "always express himself and cry" still wants to pop up and throw the occasional temper tantrum. One thing to help - Think about all the times you worked your ass off to wi…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:31 PM
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5th grade was the 1st time I tried to "squeeze one off". It turned into a weekly habit until I got a horny girlfriend in 11th grade. My generation was the one who realized that "hairy palms" from jacking off was an urban legend. We saw nothing wrong with it, but discussion among guys was verboten. During the "dry" times between girlfriends I picked the habit back up. Again, I saw nothing at all wrong with it. After coming (no pun intended) to TRP I learned that anything more than the rare occasi…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 03:17 PM
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What was your motivation for trolling? Serious question - we don't send brigades out to other subs with different ideologies to troll. Was there a sense of satisfaction or validation driving the time investment?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:10 AM
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Compare a LTR with a person really into a hobby like boating .. The experienced boat owner decides to buy a high quality vessel. That means a Chris Craft over a Bayliner. The mariner will depend on this vessel for the roughest of weather and sea conditions. Likewise, he invests in maintenance, upkeep, tuning, and repair. He understands that with even the highest quality vessel the right vigilance is necessary in order to handle what the sea will throw his way. Fuck the Bayliners and seek the Chr…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:00 AM
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I had no idea that sub existed. Most of my posts in TRP have LTR flair. It is eerie how similar your thoughts and history on marriage mirrors mine.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 05:57 AM
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Just like everything else. The rich are richer now than they ever were before, and the poor poorer, when speaking comparatively. Current citation? This line has been said for hundreds of years.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:10 PM
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Calling bullshit on that one. Tesla told Edison to take his work seriously or he was outta there. Guess what? Tesla baled! Tesla hooks up with Westinghouse, and Edison hooks up with JP Morgan. Edison tries to discredit Tesla, while Tesla is touring the country demonstrating A/C coursing through his body. Edison invents the electric chair and powers it with A/C (BIG MISTAKE). When all of the dust settled, MORGAN BEAT WESTINGHOUSE - not through innovation, but through the threat of legal challenge…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 10:29 PM
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Future fathers - READ AND HEED This brought me back to my BP days. Our boy was really fussy - at least once a night up for feedings. My wife and I "agreed" to split the care 50/50. That meant 50% of the time I would rock him with a bottle at Zero-dark-30, or the other 50% of the time I would get him, bring him to OUR bed, and my wife would breast feed. I would then be awoken to bring him back when she was done (if I made it back to sleep at all). Oh- Forgot to mention.. I AM THE ONLY ONE WORKING…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 10:24 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but it takes principal to fight for principle. It would take a tremendous amount of money to obtain a judgement. If one or more of these disgusting excuses for humans comes from a family with $$ or an umbrella insurance policy, then MAYBE a lawyer would take the case.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 11:51 PM
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Extremely well said. This is post-worthy on its own. People who treat other people like garbage have a tendency to have the pain they inflict come back to haunt them. We do reap what we sow. Thanks for sharing your story.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 11:24 PM
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A simple blood type test has the potential to rule you out with 100% accuracy. If the test indicates that you could possibly be the father, then shell out the $$ for the full DNA test.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 11:14 PM
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THANK YOU for this post! For nearly a year of lurking / posting to TRP I struggled with the goal of becoming "Alpha" because I didnt want to behave like a convict. I saw men's behavior on the scale of 1-10; 1 = Omega and 10 = Full alpha. As such, I strove to land around an "8". Now I see that it can be interpreted as multidimensional; these two scales really help put it into perspective.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 12:53 AM
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You got the answer.. read NMMNG, and they PRACTICE the breaking free exercises. Join their support forum. It will be a life-changer.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:54 PM
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Seriously.. we have "ASK TRP" flair, that seems to be a much better way to get input on a topic. Why the separate sub?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:53 PM
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So what if I’m sleeping around with thirsty dudes right now? I’m enjoying the single life… But I’d never marry any of the guys I’m having one-night stands with lol. Like I said, I’d only marry a feminist guy… But most of the guys I sleep with are definitely NOT husband material! They’re sexist jerks lol… Im calling bullshit on this bitch. She may have no intention of marrying the biker who works at the local auto parts store, but any "BAD BOY" with some status she will try to tame. Settling down…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 03:51 PM
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In short, if the kitten wasn't interested, then I don't want the cat.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:10 PM
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After over 20 years in the corporate world, I laughed so hard at that coffee sprayed over my desk. Fucked the HR girl... LOL. You gotta FR that.. how quickly did things turn for the worse once the fling ended?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:08 PM
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Brilliant protip. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:02 PM
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I tour using a KLR650. PM me if you want more company for a future road trip.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:01 PM
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Comic from a PLayboy magazine I stole from my dad 30 years ago.... Scene: Man and woman in bed, woman's hand is protecting her panties from being pulled down. Man is pointing to a vasectomy certificate framed on the wall Caption: "Man - Don't worry, I had a vasectomy so you will still be a virgin"
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:59 PM
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I just watched all of them. They scientifically prove red pill philosophy. Hell most of the scientists were women confirming this st Reminds me of Tom Leykis' recommendation to take a woman out to McD for an Egg McMuffin following her abortion. BYE BITCH!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:53 PM
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I have never won an argument with a woman by using facts or logic. 'nuff said
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:40 PM
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Some men make the mistake of thinking that this sub is all about turning into Chad Thundercock and nailin'da hoes. And for a subset, that conclusion is spot-on. However for many others this sub brings understanding which is VITAL for a successful LTR. The value in "sampling" a variety of women is two-fold: You get a much better sense for who is compatible You de-pedestalize women (more specifically pussy) The risk of entering into an LTR without these two prerequisites is that the relationship i…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:38 PM
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<weep_for_future> I asked my son about school one day when he was in 2nd grade. He said he liked recess. I asked if he plays tag or dodgeball. He said no, you get in trouble for roughhousing like that. <weep_for_future/>
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:55 PM
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Are you doing exercises consistently now? If you are not then the problem isn't the gym; the problem is you.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:00 PM
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This is gold; I just sent it to the printer and will pin it on my wall at work.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:48 PM
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Nice to know you are here. Now make yourself the best man you can become. Then stick around and provide fellowship to others. Many men are leading happier lives because of this resource. For those seeking LTR / Marriage, this information is vital for the happiness of both.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:41 PM
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You seem sincere, so Ill take a moment to respond, but my 'Troll' alarm is on yellow. Imagine for a moment that you the president of a bank. A person walks in (man or woman) and inquires about a loan. The conversation begins pleasant enough, but shortly takes a negative turn. The borrower begins scoffing at your actions, cuts off your sentences, and generally shows you irrational disrespect. As the bank president, you have one of two possible responses - Apologize to the borrower for whatever yo…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:37 PM
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Congrats bro! Nice to hear from another married man recently unplugged. About your BP friends - Rresist the urge to prod friends about waking up. One of my friends asked, and I took him out for a beer and introduced him to the RP. However there are others who are totally DOORMATS to their wives. Im watching for the signs, but have to accept that for some they will remain asleep. Our journeys are similar - Im still doing StrongLifts 5x5, taking the harder assignments at the office, and most impor…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:12 PM
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Just remember - these are the same people who "celebrate diversity" and preach tolerance. As long as the diverse opinions match their view of tolerance. As Machiavelli stated - "The tyrant will always first appear as a protector"
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:58 PM
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I'm back from the gym.. Still grumpy but got my sets complete. Though depressingly truthful, that poem brought comfort. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:31 AM
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Nearly everything is in the sidebar. Since you are in your teens, I recommend reading the [Red Pill primer for boys]http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/p/the-red-pill-primer-for-boys.html). If you have not already, ready Rollo's book 'The rational Male'. Finally, Ill say this - always better yourself. Don't let a single day go by without improving your capabilities. This ties into achieving goals (note I didn't say SETTING goals; I said achieving them). If you need a primer on that, google 'SMART…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:53 AM
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Not sure why it works but it does. I take a stack of supplements every morning - (1) multivitiman, (3) Omega 3 oil caps, (1) Macca root. Most days Im not working out Ill play racquetball. At night Ill take a toke of some top shelf weed to help me sleep. Also - I consume nearly no refined sugar.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 03:11 AM
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I would give up my fortune to know at 20 what I learned at 40.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 03:08 AM
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The offers are there and I know it now. The knowledge of the potential is affirming, but Im not one to cheat. If the time comes to pass that an offer is enticing, Ill finish what I started and end my marriage first. A man's word is scared; I wont break it for a lay. Truth be told our sex life is really good now; her interest exceeds mine. I believe the change is a mix of new attraction and dread. One thing I've learned-- carrying the 'leader' mindset into the bedroom satisfies her beyond any exp…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 03:07 AM
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Dude, NEVER quit. Physiques differ; and I was never the weakling. At my worst I was 265 lbs at 6'2". With all that extra weight, I still had pretty decent strength. My 1st StrongLifts squat set was in October 2014. At that time I could only lift 135 lbs without serious contortions. By late December I had my "second 45" on each side (235 lbs). That was a major milestone for me. Since then my progress was much slower to 280. Ill attempt 285 tomorrow. THINK POSITIVE! :-)
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 02:56 AM
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Stronglifts 5x5.. for most weeks I keep to M/W/F. I got home late tonight and plan to make things up tomorrow morning. Some days I get all 5 sets.. and a little part of me dreads the extra 5 lbs it automatically adds. That said, it forces me to push myself. The iron doesnt lie. PS - Went from 38" waist jeans down to 34" with some room so spare. My abs are beginning to show too. For anyone reading this post, I cant express the life difference it makes when you go from unfit to fit - it causes an …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 02:47 AM
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Eastern WA is like a totally different state. I steer clear of spokane, but many of the smaller towns have country-girl cuties.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:49 AM
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That question may warrant a separate post but I'll try- I strongly value two parent households. A year ago we loathed each other, but now the house is nearly fight free. I took the captain role and set a new tone. The change is massive. We went from overweight to the entire family working out. My teenage son is getting more masculine and much less pussified. Truth be told, we may not last longer than his high school years. I'm pretty scarred from our marriage. However we are happier than any oth…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:43 AM
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Avoid Washington. Hambeasts abound, and they are all pale as a ghost. It is like the Wall hits at 23 around here. Lots of Goth and nose piercings too. Oh, did I mention that it is the single mommy capital of America?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:53 AM
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Excellent post. It offers a great perspective. It reminds me of a story from Hemingway - The short happy life of Francis Macomber. My favorite line: ’By my troth, I care not; a man can die but once; we owe God a death and let it go which way it will, he that dies this year is quit for the next.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 02:32 PM
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Excellent post. Thanks for sharing your experience. The message carries an undercurrent worth calling out - Nothing about your experience indicates dwelling in the anger phase. In fact, your entire post exudes introspection. You are well ahead of most men in that regard. Your decision to distance from these people is spot-on. Imagine the same scenario with girls you may have been orbiting.. what would the CLEAR advice be? NEXT them! It speaks to your abundance mentality with male friends that yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:07 PM
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Congrats. Now dont tell anyone about your goals; just make them happen.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 05:07 AM
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Some of the best parents I know are at or below the poverty line. Again, I don't believe fatherhood is a path for every man. I took issue with the supposition that it wasn't a viable path for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 11:16 PM
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No sister, but the thought of her mom made me involuntarily puke in my mouth.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 09:02 PM
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Every crisis is an opportunity for change. TRP truths have their time and place, but these rules need to be ardently applied: The BP must ASK for help The BP must be at an emotional crossroads (breakup, divorce, etc) The BP must be warmed up slowly. No using the term "AWALT" initially; the truths need a sprinkling of sugar You have a direct personal connection to the BP (brother, lifelong friend, etc) I used to believe in faithfully following the "Fight Club" rule, but dammit I've seen too many …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:29 PM
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As a landlord I can attest that Landlord-tenant laws exist in every US state. For the most part the laws are structured to benefit the tenants. Evictions require time and money. They also create hostility in the best of cases, let alone in cases of cohabitation. Mark this post - If he gets sick of her shit and tells her to leave, she will get knocked up OR she will feign assault. Either one grounds her at her "current residence" with nearly no legal recourse by your buddy. He, on the other hand.…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:22 PM
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Ill keep it short - Most of what we discuss in TRP boils down to the primal nature in humans driving patterns of behavior. Continuing our genetic linage is a primal behavior pattern for men and women. If you want to bow out of the procreation process, feel free. I harbor no hard feelings about it either way. As for me (and probably a lot of men on this board), the joy of fatherhood is one of the most rewarding experiences of life. Describing it to someone who has not yet become a father is diffi…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 03:55 PM
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Perhaps. Deep down Tim knows he isnt happy just like every caged lion knows it isnt free; no matter how 'broken' he is. NMMNG is MUCH more "politically correct" that RM, so reading that one first may pave the way for the other. Saying something like "I value our friendship, but less so lately because you are hard to be around when your emotions run wild. If you want to work on that we want to help" Sometimes talking with a BP man like you would a RP man can be the catalyst for change.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 06:10 PM
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A human baby is amazingly resilient. Imagine the nutrition variances women face through history. A child will take what it needs during gestation. What matters much more is the nutrition once born.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 05:35 PM
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Some tough love is in order. This isn't a landlord, it's your childhood friend. So.. Move out, get your own house. Offer John to move in with you On your departure, hand a copy of No more Mr Nice Guy and The Rational Male to Tim. Make it clear that neither of you want to hear about his women troubles if he hasn't read the books. Remember, nice guys also want to please friends too. Tim may think hard about your tone and actions.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 04:53 PM
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Like I said in the initial reply, this was a waste of electrons. You are not here to be convinced.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:34 AM
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You may need to take a course in biology. Why does he want to kill / scare off the other bucks? Why do mammals have multiple methods of ensuring that impregnation occurs from their copulation? (IE different types of spermatoza with defensive properties, dogs bulbing up and "locking" to the bitch, BUCKS smelling the doe before mounting)? As a student of biology and a hunter, I can say with confidence that the analogy is sound.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:31 AM
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After reading replies this one will probably be a waste of electrons, buy here goes... Ill try to EXPLAINLIKEIMFIVE. Through the lens of the primal... A doe doesnt care if a buck fucks another doe, but a buck will not share a doe with another buck. The idea of that is repugnant to the buck. A woman knows the child in her womb is hers, but the man does not. Like the buck, the idea of getting cuckholded is repugnant to all real men. In both cases the male is more attracted to a mate who is NOT PRO…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 02:24 AM
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Indoor Arena football, and Im not saying. :-)
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 12:39 AM
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Thanks for the support. This is my 1st sticky post. :-)
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:50 PM
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A large part of my contribution to this community focuses on RP-marriage ideas and RP-child rearing ideas. My goal is to enable the most successful husbands and fathers. As I read your words it is apparent that the positive outlook demonstrated toward the process of dissolving a marriage is vital. I hope to see more of your posts as the process unfolds. I know of no other period in a man's life in which they are susceptible to suicide than during a divorce and the aftermath. Thanks for the posit…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:42 PM
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Yeah, this post is on point. Additional comment about #5.. Things WILL piss you off. You will have the urge to raise your voice and emotionally engage. Find that little spot between stimulus and response and stay calm. Even if the only calm thing you can do is walk out of the room. The #1 thing in my marriage causing this state is accountability. She is accountable 90% of the time, but the 10% she misses often carries hard consequences for our household. My hard lesson - When she consistently de…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:52 PM
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Up-voted and appreciated. The advice is sound, and placed in the context of "Achievements" makes it an ideal read for my 14YO.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 03:17 PM
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Textbook example of the Socratic method. Works well with people who have some capacity to think critically. If someone has no capacity to think critically this approach is a complete waste of time. You would have to come up with some catchy phrase supporting your point, but most of those are owned by the Left (Fair Share, Living Wage, etc)
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:53 PM
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So what is the story with ceramic coatings? Good or bad?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:39 AM
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Im friends with the coach, and he knew what was going down before practice ended. He watched from a distance. I gave him a thumbs-up when my son decided to stay with an improved attitude. After my boy was out of sight, I shook the coach's hand and hugged him. We were both really thankful that the crisis was averted.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 12:03 AM
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Thank you for producing this book. Your original one changed my life for the better. My family is much healthier and happier because of the changes you help me discover. Eternally grateful, 41YO husband of two children
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 04:00 PM
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We all have a lizard brain somewhere compelling us to act in a primal manner. My job is to help her think critically about those impulses and how they can affect her goals. Clearly it didnt stop her two nights back, but I came to this awareness when she was 20. Had I or any other new father reading these threads known these truths at a young age, she would have better controls over her impulses. This battle was lost, but the war isnt over. In less than a year of my RP awakening, my daughter TRUL…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:56 PM
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As the parent of a 14YO and 21YO, I can say with the utmost confidence that kids shit-test parents all the time too. In the absence of posting a wall-o-text, I'll simply add that my son has one and only one mandate from me: be involved in a positive activity which makes you sweat and part of a team I dont care if it is football, track, basketball, paintball, or anything else. I care that he is challenged by those around him and he rises to it. He exhibits a tendency to "throw up his hands" when …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:41 PM
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A surprising revelation: Her friends notice the change in me and the corresponding happiness in her. Rather than being aghast by the political incorrectness of our Captain / 1st Mate dynamic, they constantly ask her "how do I get my husband to be more like him?" In my wife's words, she is more happy and more in love than ever before. Her BP father took her aside to express his concern about our new dynamic and she was quick to tell him that she never knew she could feel so safe. I asked her abou…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:34 PM
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Ill add this - Fuck your wife well. Im not talking about the "did the kids hear us last night?" sex, I mean the screaming, sweaty, uncontrollable orgasmic waves of passion sex. Your wife probably got it good at some point in her younger years. You rank in one of two possible spots - The man married to an Alpha Widow The man married to a woman who cannot possibly imagine how sex could be more satisfying Now here is the Coup_de_grâce - She knows any man capable of that passion will get noticed - w…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 03:33 AM
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THANK YOU for the hard work of taking TRP this far! I found this forum the day I decided to plan my escape. My plans were to cash in my chips and move to the Philippines. I would find some cheap place with a great view and an internet connection so I could develop software remotely. After some sampling, I would settle down with a woman who would treat me right. During my internet searches exploring the viability of this prospect, I stumbled across a few derogatory articles about "The Red Pill" a…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:38 PM
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Agree with most of your post with one exception - Guys dont get insulted when a low SMV woman approaches us. She is not immediately "Creepy" or insulting. We dont question our own worth based on the approach. Furthermore, most men dont act indignant/insulting to such a person if they are sincere and not a bitch. The same cannot be said for women approached by betas.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 01:19 AM
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Well, my experience in our 18th year of marriage differs. Rollo's marriage appears to work too. There are better ONES and worse ONES, but there is no "ONE". The right wife is MADE and not found. it is easier to make the right wife from a better 'ONE'; and to your comment - some women are past the point of no return.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 10:45 PM
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Please elaborate your point. My statement was that anyone who takes a job they dont like to pay for a lifestyle they cannot tolerate subordinated their true dreams.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:40 PM
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I refuse to believe that. Just as a mis-behaving child can be brought around, so can a woman who realizes that the world around her expects more from her. Some indeed may be beyond help, but that is the exception more than the rule.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 04:38 PM
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There is a reason that /r/deadbedrooms have the term "choreplay"
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 12:03 AM
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You have part of the equation here. A man must be accomplished and desired (be the man that other men want to become and you will become the man that women want to fuck). You are missing a very key component - How you perceive your value. Used car salesman can sell a POS for a high price. The strategy is that they convince buyers that the POS is worth more than it is. Generally this occurs because the seller is CONVINCING that the POS has extra value by acting like they believe it themselves. Im…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:46 PM
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It is all sunk cost, just at a deeper level of SUNK COST into you. You know that severing the relationship it tantamount to blackmail. VajinaMony, Child support, facebook circles, time with your kids, etc. Here is the thing - She sees that fear in your eyes; smells it emanating from you. Accept that you ALLOWED her that much control and then work from there. If going nuclear is too much too soon, make a plan and work that plan. Just the act of reducing her tentacles of consequence into your life…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:12 PM
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First rule of survival - Don't shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:04 PM
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Reminds me of my favorite line from Dazed and Confused. Remember, if the kitten didn't want me, I don't want the cat.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:56 PM
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You have to remember you were happy before you met her and you'll be more happy when she's gone. This is only true for a RP mindset. A BP male attributes his worth from primarily external sources. Therefore in your example the girlfriend owns the keys to his happiness. This, by the way, is my elevator pitch for TRP among the un-initiated. Never allow your happiness to be dictated by others.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:49 PM
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This is post-worthy. Please consider elaborating; I think the concept has tremendous use worth exploring.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:38 PM
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Hypatia. 'Nuff said.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:33 PM
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Reward good behavior in an LTR, but apply the 2/3 rule. Your rewards need to be seen as a scarcity. When you DO reward, make it count; make it memorable.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:13 PM
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The problem is- my life still sucks for the most part. I work my ass off everyday at a Job that is just okay. Rarely do I find my wife interesting and fun to be with. My kids take up a shitton of my time and energy. My life is still not my own I could have written these same words 8 months back. I bolded the essence of the statement. For countless years in my married life, I would find myself repeating back the phrase "I hate my wife, I hate my life". Total-abject-misery. TRP brought more to my …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:45 PM
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If ever a unicorn existed, this would be one of her key character traits.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:05 PM
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Very inspiring. Thanks for contributing to the brotherhood of the RP.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:23 AM
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Earlier this month I handed off a project to a colleague. She is very ego-driven and immediately set off to redesign parts of the project which were signed off and well into implementation. The backlash across the team was staggering; to the point that one of the leads pulled me into his office to vent. However, she IS an assertive woman at a F500 company. We all know that pushback has to be carefully done. Needless to say, it welled up frustrations on many fronts within me. I could not let it m…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 06:53 PM
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UpVoted because your handle was Demonspawn and the comment was in a thread about a satanic list. :-)
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:41 PM
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Atol Kay (Married Man Sex Life Primer) explains it much better than I can, but it boils down to making a mental shift that your wife / SO is a complement to your life and not the sole focus of it. If you are already all of those things +confident now, then women are already dropping IOIs your way. Whether you see them or not your wife/SO does.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:34 PM
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Fair point, but this particular store does a poor job of providing that. For instance, the contract entirely appears on the little POS screen used to slide the credit card. It also does not itemize things; you have to AGREE to pages of terms, swipe, sign, then they give you a paper printout which lists the insurance at the bottom in tiny numbers next to the tax. Yes, it was on my paperwork when I took the equipment. However by the time the printouts were handed to me the clock on the rental was …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 10:13 PM
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I grew up in the same town as Robbie (aka Vanilla Ice). He was in high school around 1990 if I recall. We knew of him; as any celebrity from a community would be known. I bet he is in his mid-'40s now.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:37 PM
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TRP theroy is amoral, but how we apply reflects our own morality. Do whatever makes you happy, but this post is repugnant to me.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 08:24 PM
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How to handle convalescing periods - You are either so weak that all you can do is sleep, SO SLEEP!!!! If you are awake enough to stay lucid but immobile, discipline yourself to do brain activities along with the pure entertainment. For example: 1 Netflix show, one COD round on XBOX live, then shut down the toys and read a book. Meditate. Draw. Update your journal. My wife knows the routine when a fever >100 hits me.. keep my ice water glass refilled and offer chicken soup when I'm awake. I'll t…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 07:21 PM
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Hold your frame. Be stoic. Tell her what you are doing and leave no doubt that you are not asking for permission.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 03:27 AM
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Holy shit there is hope!!!! I am SO thankful you found and shared this article! The comments are priceless. Being a mature woman ... in her 40's ... this article make me want to vomit! We don't all believe this foolishness! Maybe ... if all you little and young immature BITCHY GIRLS would stop bullying everyone you encounter thay doesn't meet your "requirements list" with your arrogantly ... entitled .... obnoxious selves and act like a LADY ... you'd find a real man! Maybe if you girls treated …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:29 PM
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Aug 22 2014. My pressure cooker popped. This sub held up a mirror to me and the reflection was a shell of a man I never thought I would become. Angry.. SO ANGRY reverberations of those feelings return even now as I reflect back. I resolved that night to become a better man. With Metallica blasting in my headphones, I worked out to the point of vomiting. Weeks later I still worked out from a place of rage. My awakening is a direct result of anger toward myself Improving my physical condition was …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:40 PM
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Cool, we are on the same wavelength. It appears that the Athiests are running rampant downvoting the threads, but I get your point and agree. For the record, I identify with Buddhist teachings more than any other faith. That said, I studied many religions and try to separate the wheat from the chaff.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 12:33 AM
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You affirmed the rhetorical fallacy I posited in the last paragraph. It is absurd to consider that a grain of sand of the universe could in some way conquer the universe. By building the hierarchy in the way you do, it equates women:men the same as men:"God"/Existence. Thus it is as absurd that a woman conquer a man as it is for a grain of sand to do the same to the universe. That may have been your point, and if so I want my up-vote back. I see men and women as complimentary and not totally hie…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:54 PM
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Wow, that was deep. Arguably one of the most philosophically thought-provoking posts in this forum in a while. But to be conquered by her is like her being conquered by a child. It would show she was weak and backwards. Up-level this concept to man conquering God. I believe your analogy is applicable to only people of Faith because only in those circles does the concept of a higher authority exist. We may curse "God" as the invisible white-bearded man in the clouds, or we may disobey "God" and t…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:25 PM
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A large part of my RP transformation was about self-improvement. My physique improved, my social skills improved, and my educational pursuits improved (6 months now so still a long way to go). Women are flirting with me more often. I'm lightly flirting back. When we are together and i'm interacting with women in public they still send IOIs. More often than not she will comment later like "that waitress was flirting with you". Ill act oblivious and say something like "Really? She seemed cool". La…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:17 PM
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I thought about that afterward. My hunch is that this comment and that account are not directly index-able. It would take a human to read every comment should they need to establish a correlation. Not a big risk with a fresh account, but I probably should delete my main reply in a week or so.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:07 PM
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Well, its near Valentine's day so Ill bite. This is a throwaway account; my other account with TRP posts began to worry me (DoXXing, etc). That said, I'm a regular contributor here and married for 18 years. I love my wife more now than ever before. Truth be told it could only go that direction because I got to the point of loathing her. Since my RP behavior changes, her actions improved DRAMATICALLY. Check out "Shit test - crap food in the pantry" post from a few months back to get an early tast…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:46 AM
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If you were a year into RP and abundantly nailing pussy, then consider plating her. However given where you are on your journey the best recommendation would be radio silence.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:24 AM
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It's still your motherfuckin set.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:12 AM
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I turned 41 last month; married 18 years. Most of those years were unhappy. As of 6 months ago I swallowed the RP. We are happier now and the key change was my enlightenment. Our house needed a strong male leader and I was too steeped in political correctness to understand that. My job is going better, my kids are happier and more responsible, and people treat me with greater respect. The key change - taking charge of my life. How I wish that these lessons reached me 10 years ago. There is proba…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:40 AM
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This was the key fallacy exposed by Das Capital. Marx went to his grave without finishing it as he intended. Both Marx and Hegel could not put a formula to paper which would ensure that those who wrested power during the "transition" period from Capitalism to Communism would eventually disband in order to allow the classless state reign. Something I learned about in the early '80s, but now nearly all residue of that very important point vanished.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 12:39 AM
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