TabascoSpicySauce Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
62	LVM disguised as HVM	SEEKING ADVICE	TabascoSpicySauce	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 07:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	LVM disguised as HVM I figured out it means low-value men and high-value men. Still figuring out what the exact qualifications are for each.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 11:22 AM
3	LVM disguised as HVM Yeah, he was independent, had a car, owned his own condo, even supported his mom financially at times. But played a shit ton of video games, drank a ton, definitely had depression that he was unwilling to recognize and get help with. I think you're right that he will never grow out of this, it's just who he is.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 12:08 AM
11	LVM disguised as HVM Yeah, I did dump him, which is what I think he wanted but was too cowardly to actually do himself. This shit is so frustrating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 12:05 AM
5	LVM disguised as HVM Yeah, I think you're probably right about there being multiple red flags that I pushed aside. I think I'm still in my mind making excuses for some of them and not seeing them as that big, but I don't think I ever put them all together (and probably still haven't) to notice that it actually all accumulates to big a big red flag 🤦‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/01/20 12:03 AM
4	LVM disguised as HVM Nope, 27, same age as me. But his dad sounded like he was "avoidant" and my ex often seemed like he was running from stressful things rather than dealing with it or getting professional help. So I think he is following his parent's example. Edit: just googled avoidant attachment style (hadn't heard this term before)....that is SPOT ON. Exactly his personality.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 11:51 PM
3	LVM disguised as HVM This sounds pretty spot on	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 10:49 PM
8	LVM disguised as HVM That's the confusing part of this past relationship. He got all the HVM things until...he didn't 🤷‍♀️ No issues with his beliefs. We talked about the future (he's the one who brought it up and said he didn't want to waste each other's time if we didn't want the same thing). Then it seems like it just all changed and he no longer wanted any of what he had been saying. There were small red flags in retrospect but nothing huge that I think could've made me realize that what he was saying wasn't wha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 08:13 PM
5	LVM disguised as HVM Yeah, definitely red flags in retrospect.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 07:35 PM
5	DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship. Yeah, this basically sums up my entire relationship. 🤦‍♀️😫 Moving on. Better without him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/20 02:13 PM
25	What are the last words your ex said to you? "yeah sorry" Naw, fuck you, no you aren't.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 02:23 AM
8	DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship. My ex did the same thing...and then a year into dating said he realized he doesn't want to be in a relationship and doesn't even know if he wants kids, marriage, etc. Hence being my ex. I was and am still extremely confused.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/01/20 02:22 AM