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| -6 | Guys I am really fucked up. Really fucked up.Apparently a lot of people have never heard of hotwifing lol. You guys need to open your minds, it’s extremely hot. I really don’t think that was the downfall here. I would guess it’s more that she makes more money than you and that’s really tricky. But that doesn’t really matter now. Go to Divorce Care, get a therapist, go to the gym, join a hiking meetup, don’t date for at least a year. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Ex's new boyfriend is starting to spend time with my 6yo.I sympathize with your pain but keep in mind being polyamorous works for some people. As long as everyone is aware of what’s happening. It’s the deception part of having an affair that’s the biggest betrayal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Ex's new boyfriend is starting to spend time with my 6yo.You can add it to your agreement but there’s no legal enforcement if anyone breaks it | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Ex's new boyfriend is starting to spend time with my 6yo.Dude, really? I love my stepdad, he taught me more than my biological dad ever did | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/25 11:11 PM |
| 5 | Got action my first night aloneEasy to find crazy chicks to have a one night stand, much harder to find a relationship | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 03:31 AM |
| 1 | She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfairWhat country are you in? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfairMy understanding is that the EU also prefers joint custody because both parents have equal rights. Do you have your own house or apartment and can you provide a stable environment for your children? Because if not, that’s the reason you don’t have custody of your children | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/25 12:20 AM |
| 1 | She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfairWhat state are you in where 90 percent of custody goes to Mom? Here in my northeastern state 50/50 is standard. You have to fuck up big to get less. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfairOP didn’t even try to fight for 50/50 | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/25 10:12 PM |
| 0 | She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfairYes, good analogy | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/25 10:11 PM |
| 1 | She chose to be Default Parent and now that's unfairWhy didn’t you try to get 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/25 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do poor people get dogs?I mean, I like more dogs than I like people so… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 02:31 PM |
| 6 | Why do poor people get dogs?I would bet serious money that they didn’t want to attend those family gatherings and used their dogs as an excuse. A genius idea actually. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do poor people get dogs?Bernese mountain dogs are an expensive purebred, bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/08/25 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Shocking trends with women and divorceThat’s what therapists get paid very well to do, I’m not your unpaid therapist. And I can’t take the place of friends… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/25 03:04 PM |
| -3 | Shocking trends with women and divorceMaybe because it’s exhausting to be the only friend of a cranky depressed person | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/25 02:32 AM |
| 1 | A good woman but one I feel zero connection withThat’s good that she found a therapist who understands her culture, that can’t be easy. Could you maybe join her in a session and bring up your concerns? | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/25 01:47 AM |
| 2 | A good woman but one I feel zero connection withWhen you say you’re concerned she doesn’t have any friends, not even mom friends…tell us more. Did she have friends before the kids were born? It sounds a lot like my friend’s wife who ended up diagnosed with depression and really improved with medication. Could possibly also be some neurodivergence there but we don’t know enough about her from this post. My family has lots of attention deficit disorders and high functioning autism so that comes to mind. If that’s the case there is therapy avail… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/25 09:08 PM |
| 2 | What’s even the point of Marriage? Or am I just bitter?I think his point is that there are other ways of achieving financial security without marrying again. Investing, career change, second job etc. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What’s even the point of Marriage? Or am I just bitter?What were the bumps that you hit in your life? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 08:29 PM |
| 0 | What’s even the point of Marriage? Or am I just bitter?Your wife has told you she struggles with depression and anxiety and this is how you’re offering her support? By criticizing everything about her? Bro… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What’s even the point of Marriage? Or am I just bitter?You don’t leave the house without her? Clearly she’s feeling suffocated. Make some guy friends bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 08:05 PM |
| 1 | What’s even the point of Marriage? Or am I just bitter?He wasn’t aggressive, he just disagreed with you | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 3 | I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days?So think this through bro… Why would childless women choose divorced men with children when they could have a childless man who’s much more available time-wise? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 05:40 PM |
| 11 | I'm out and about, expanding my sphere of influence, and the ladies I've been meeting... tattoos everywhere, filler, botox, injections, face lifts, augmentations, overweight, etc. What's happened to America? Where can you meet unmodified ladies these days?Single dad doesn’t want single moms…Story at 11… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/25 04:01 PM |
| -25 | What's the pettiest thing she did?In my opinion you’re projecting your feelings on your son. Of course your son threw the poster out after they were done with the ceremony, who keeps a poster for sentimental reasons? If he didn’t look upset then why do you think he was upset? Let it go, man. Focus on yourself… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/25 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Diseases from my ex wifeThat’s great but it doesn’t help me in the States so | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/24 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Diseases from my ex wifeMany doctors tell women not to disclose HPV to their partners because there is no test for it in men. So what are men going to do with that information? And in many cases the HPV was dormant for many years before showing symptoms so it’s impossible to know when you got it or from whom. Was your wife your only sexual partner in your life? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/24 12:34 AM |
| 0 | Couldn't she say it before?Wow, it’s really a mystery why you’re getting divorced… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/24 11:43 PM |
| 3 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.Off topic but I also overheat easily. Google POTS syndrome. Also Ehlers-Danlos syndrome…and see if the other symptoms fit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 04:28 AM |
| 29 | Marriage and prenups which truly benefit womenI think you’re asking a really important question…however you would really need to be a lawyer to answer these questions about prenups. All I know I learned from the school of hard knocks. I was married for 9 years, stayed at home with two kids for four years, now getting divorced because my husband developed anger issues that therapy just couldn’t help. It’s incredibly scary, especially as my parents are deceased and can’t help me, if I lose my job there’s a good chance the kids and I will be h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 29 | How the Big Business of Divorce Benefits Men.... Please read ladies and realize that many lies have been spread about how men are "divorce r*ped" and taken to the cleaners. However the data shows something completely different.As someone who stayed at home with my two children and is now getting divorced and getting back into the work world…these things are all true. I’m 37 now, my boys are 4 and 6. I only stayed home for four years but getting back into the work world after a long gap is TOUGH and I have a Bachelors degree. Sooo many companies completely ignored my applications on Indeed, one company totally low-balled me. It got to the point that I was starting to feel hopeless… So I took a shitty part time job not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 01:38 AM |
| 9 | behaviors that connote power, control, dominance: what to avoidMy ex husband did this. He is a retired cop, I can’t say every cop is like this but this particular profession where they have so much power…doesn’t help make them good partners at all. He has no idea how to compromise even after years of couples therapy. He will just make unilateral decisions and tell me how it’s going to be, it continues to be an issue with co-parenting our two children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Found a page online where the author listed several red flags to look for, while dating and in a relationship. It would be beneficial to us, so I'm going to list them down. Once again, credit's not mine.Great list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 06:41 AM |
| 18 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.“Dirty carpet fibers” 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 14 | Just a friendly reminder that men will date and marry women they don’t like.Lol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:53 PM |
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