Tabopo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
104	An Important Statistic Frequently Missed in the "Pay Gap" Discussion	Social Issues	Tabopo	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 11:50 AM
53	A Reason for MGTOW: Sexual Desire Creates Bad Incentives	General	Tabopo	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 11:53 AM
14	The Misandry in the ATate Discussion in the Media	Social Issues	Tabopo	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 12:10 PM
13	Male Mental Health from the Anthropological Perspective	General	Tabopo	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 07:52 AM
7	An Idea for a Sensible Family Law Regime	Marriage/Children	Tabopo	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 11:04 AM
4	A Case for Feminism being Right Wing	Feminism	Tabopo	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 06:58 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Human Rights Activist (for both men and women) here with a question MRA is fairly recent, so there are many low hanging fruit, that is legal and government policy that explicitly discriminates against men, or disparities with huge effect sizes (like sentencing for the same crime). As such it resembles more second wave feminism. Third wave feminism was not about clear and evident prejudice and discrimination. In some cases it was a reasonable attempt and ensuring more enforcement in laws, but otherwise it was mostly deliberately pushing social engineering, that i…	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 06:16 PM
17	AskFeminists reactions to MGTOW vs reaction to the female variant. At one point I joined a group of people who were single for life by choice. As a sort of support group, though, it was dominated by women, with only a couple male asexuals. Undeterred I talked about the problems of amatonormativity for both men and women, and they progressively got angrier with me, insisting that all social problems were due to men being bad and patriarchy, that women's behavior in LTRs is never an issue, etc. It was utterly bizarre	/r/MensRights	23/08/24 06:07 PM
–	Men and women CANT be just friends (rare) It's less about the level of attraction and more the degree of desperation versus confident sense of abundant optionality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/24 01:49 PM
2	Men and women CANT be just friends (rare) The truth is quite simple and obvious: A man and a woman can be long term platonic friends with no problems IF AND ONLY IF The man can easily and regularly have casual sex with a woman as hot as or hotter than his friend And The woman can easily land an LTR with a man as hot or hotter than her friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/24 10:50 AM
1	Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do? Also, look, I don't like this place that much, and I don't want to post here much, but I just wanted to share that to hopefully help some autistic men out there. And although I do not wish to be active here (or broadly on reddit much anyway), I feel as though I need to share a sentiment that I believe many, if not almost all, autism spectrum people have towards NTs. Alan Roger Currie (RIP), the author of Mode One, harshly criticized the lack of ethical integrity among both red pill authors and m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 09:09 PM
1	Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do? Autistic Man with ~150 lays here, now MGTOW. First, fitness and nutrition are logical and formulaic and there is no reason you should not be top 1% in your physique Second, you will need help from NT friends about your clothes and style, you will never understand that stuff, sorry Third, make sex and sexual pleasure your special interests. Your strike rate will always be low, but you can guarantee a good sex life with repeat customers who give you no stress with having good dick and licky licky …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/24 05:05 PM
0	As a man, dating and relationships is too confusing for me, taking a toll on mental health (rant) A pretty telling example of the male mental health crisis right here. You sound young. As someone a bit older let me make my recommendation for your life path. It's similar to what I did, but with a lot less psychological turbulence. Spend several years getting jacked, learning technical game, and sleeping with a lot of women. You'll get some validation and then realize how annoying the whole process is and eventually your drive will decline naturally. Then get a good career with a lot of power …	/r/MensRights	31/03/24 07:08 PM
1	Any counterarguments to a rather "Socially-Conservative" scientific study that "Feminists" have been sharing on social media, that consuming "objectifying" media supposedly leads to real life sexual violence against women? "If you ask me, these are very, very problematic attitudes and I am pretty confident they correlate with actual sexual violence." I am sorry to hear you drank the kool-aid, brother. People who respond positively to these questions are actually less likely to commit sexual assault. Every man who has had a lot of sexual experience has experienced: 1) Women being very turned on by erotic dominance, with partners often asking to roleplay rape 2) Women telling you, after you slept with them on a seco…	/r/MensRights	17/03/24 07:45 PM
1	Male Mental Health from the Anthropological Perspective This is just speculative, but perhaps one long term development could be a decentralization wherein there is a city core where it's mostly single people and if they reproduce it's assisted with biotech. Then there's towns of two legislative regimes, patriarchia and simptown. In the former traditional sexual mores are enforced, the women agree to let the husband be the breadwinner, and there's no no-fault divorce. In the latter, men do all the housework and diaper changing while the women work an…	/r/MensRights	27/02/24 08:23 PM
2	One of the reasons feminism has excellent staying power is because they've done a great job of weaponizing female issues and manipulating the pool of data around us, what tactic then could we use to combat this one-sidedness within all our institutions including media, school, family and jobs? Remember that women naturally have the advantage on the playing field of words and social power. One practical idea is simply to ensure the fierce defense of the existence of at least some male spaces, by which awareness can be propagated. The other more fun hypothetical future scenario is that automation and robotics and the continued decline of the 9to5 worker model could ultimately yield in a rise in small decentralized manufacturing and a drop in employment in corporate bloat and service wor…	/r/MensRights	27/02/24 08:16 PM
4	Study shows fifty percent of men self report engaging in sexual assault or aggression Seriously? The link talks purely about "aggression" which us very vague and the questionnaire includes things like believing that "“If a woman goes to a man's home on a date, she is implying that she wants to have sex.” and agreeing to "“I would like to have sex with many partners.”" and the journalist headline is literally claiming this implies the literal crime of "sexual assault"?? The flagrant bad faith journalism that is tolerated on these points is a testament to their arrogance in their p…	/r/MensRights	27/02/24 08:08 PM
3	Abusive Mother Brother, feel blessed that you are able to recognize this happening while it's happening. From personal experience, it can happen to internalize a mother's contempt for men as self hate leading to decades of drug and sex addiction.	/r/MensRights	25/02/24 07:29 AM
2	What would your response to this post be? One of my good friends had once broken open with a woman. A week later he saw her from his window watching him have dinner with a female friend. She smashed his car windshield. After he got a restraining order she claimed that she was pregnant. Months of various nightmares later, eventually he got away from her by moving cities after flunking out of university and switching programs. And all of the various high profile people who are getting false rape accusations after rejecting a woman for a r…	/r/MensRights	14/01/24 09:13 PM
1	50% Divorce Rate Busted, Your chances of divorce aren't equivalent to that of a coin flip. Victim blaming I see.Back when I used to regularly sleep with married women, most of them had quite immaculate public images and didn't have any clearly visible personality defects, and were very skilled at hiding their affair with me. There is really no way to predict and prevent the possibility of catastrophic loss of infidelity and divorce.	/r/MensRights	02/01/24 04:12 PM
7	What does men's rights mean to you? To me it is some degree of discussion as to bring awareness towards, and strategize to mitigate: 1) Discriminatory treatment against men in the law, case precedent, and deliberate policy of powerful institutions (HR departments in big corporations, for instance) 2) Misandry in the culture, including double standards, man evil woman angels narratives, gamma bias, woman-centered education and therapy, and other aspects of the contemporary culture that demonize men as far as their inherent characte…	/r/MensRights	26/12/23 10:07 PM
2	Merry Christmas to all! Some more Merry Christmas music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YfGHvWA5JhA Wish you all well!	/r/MensRights	26/12/23 01:42 AM
1	Divorce and risk of suicide attempt: a Swedish national study \| Psychological Medicine \| Cambridge Core This is flagrant academic dishonesty. They do not even mention who actually succeeded in committing suicide more. Of course they conclude the results show women need to be helped, as women suffering is more important than men dying.	/r/MensRights	26/12/23 01:38 AM
5	Does Short Height is considered as a men's issue? Indirectly. Women are less sexually attracted to short men. This isn't a social issue, it's biology. What is a social issue is the public gaslighting that men get regarding women's attraction. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/18l6wpu/a_reason_for_mgtow_sexual_desire_creates_bad/ Men are shown an image of awkward boys saving the world and getting the beautiful women at a young age. However, the fact of the matter is that women are extremely vain, status-climbing and superficial, and g…	/r/MensRights	25/12/23 05:05 PM
1	what is the history of child support and why is it such a big issue for men? A major issue is that the amount is not tied to the cost of raising a child and there is no obligation for the woman to report what she spends the money on. In my 20s a few friends and I had a fondness for picking up cougars, older women, and particularly, wealthy ones, to become their boy toys. Most of our sugarmamas were divorced and not working, and so their income was alimony and child support. Child support and alimony bought us: top shelf liquor bottles, designer clothes, all expense paid …	/r/MensRights	25/12/23 04:45 PM
2	What can the largest database of domestic violence research tell us? Nice example of bad faith argumentation again. For everyone's illustration, let's break this down. The original point was that men's suicide attempts are more successful, as in, lethal.The parsimonious social science conclusion is to conclude direct intentionality and associated psychological experience consistent with the statistic, meaning that clearly men are experiencing a greater degree of suffering, and associated hopelessness that this suffering could get better, and are thus more resolut…	/r/MensRights	21/12/23 12:28 PM
4	What can the largest database of domestic violence research tell us? u/TheTinMenBlogNot trying to derail and I'm sure you have enough direct messages, but you may be particularly interested in mine, which also has some urgent timeliness. I am involved with European Commission affiliated analysis and enforcement of discrimination practice and am requesting your assistance to keep men's issues included in the process.	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 06:53 AM
4	What can the largest database of domestic violence research tell us? men don’t care about the psychological trauma of witnesses. You're mind reading men who are hurting themselves as to their degree of empathy for witnesses, jumping to rather creative conclusions to enforce a preconception of male evilness, without even considering any possible factual evidence for your claim (e.g., do men commit suicide more isolated/privately?) You've flagrantly exposed the obvious fact that you're not discussing this in good faith And this attribution of malevolence to male vi…	/r/MensRights	20/12/23 06:49 AM
3	An Important Statistic Frequently Missed in the "Pay Gap" Discussion Certainly I didn't mean to imply that women are all spending it selfishly for themselves, indeed, much of that is for spending for the whole family, including the man. The main point was that the differential in pay, which only appears among married men and women, does not indicate any difference in power, when you look at consumer spending statistics. As for alimony and child support, indeed those are net payments from the man to the women. The delta between the appropriate amount and true amou…	/r/MensRights	19/12/23 08:33 PM
3	A Reason for MGTOW: Sexual Desire Creates Bad Incentives And note that the point is not to shame women for their desires, they are what they are just as men respond viscerally to certain physical traits. The point is that elements of benevolent sexism that are outdated need to go. When patriarchy was enforced, it was required that the man have good standing in the community, etc. to mate, and so the ideology that attraction = good character was valid, even if the overall practice was unjust to women's autonomy and choice. So now, from the standpoint o…	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 07:06 PM
9	A Reason for MGTOW: Sexual Desire Creates Bad Incentives Part of the confusion (or effective WaW PsyOps) is clouding the distinction between sexual attraction and conscious deliberate preference after the fact. As a thought experiment, consider a nice sweet girl at a chess club. Now consider Guy A, an engineer who hasn't been all that social and goes to the chess club, and Guy B, a drug dealing club promoter who recently got liver pains and decided to clean his life up, and is a month or two into this transformation. As far as their outward values and…	/r/MensRights	18/12/23 04:37 PM