TackyOnBeans Archive

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2	This stuff does wonders for job interview outcomes Well yeah context is incredibly important. Seems like for the guy above me he certainly didn't need to wear anything fancy. For you, you did. The main point I was trying to pull out of your post was about differentiation. Make yourself standout somehow. The more good things, the better. Even though all of what I just wrote sounds cliche and obvious, people still don't follow it. Fwiw, I'm about to enter a $100k+ field and though it's not everything, I do agree with you looking sharp certainly he…	/r/seduction	09/04/14 03:33 PM
3	This stuff does wonders for job interview outcomes Well just imagine if you dressed to the 9's AND you had your winning personality. This shit ain't just about fixing one offs, it's about changing yourself holistically. That said, you played to your core competencies just like marketing strategy tells us to so nice work, not everyone has that ability. While you certainly don't need a plethora of $650 accessories, having style is undeniably helpful, even if it's minimal amounts of it. Wearing dockers alphas and a fitted H&M shirt has gotten me pr…	/r/seduction	09/04/14 07:24 AM
2	In your experience, is it worth it to go to bars during the week? Also, what are some good ways to pick which bar to go to? Then I just about what i'm up to This is your opener. "Hi" or "Hey I wanted to come talk to you" are great but you eventually followed up with something else... that "something else" is what I consider the opener regardless of what the first words that were actually said. "what you're up to" that's the shit people want to hear on here. Honestly openers don't really even matter. But I think it's because people are so new here they think simply saying "hi" is going to get them somewhere. Without a…	/r/seduction	07/05/13 08:59 PM
2	In your experience, is it worth it to go to bars during the week? Also, what are some good ways to pick which bar to go to? And that's why this subreddit is sometimes bullshit. Are they just being smart asses or does seddit really think "Hi" is an appropriate opener? "Hi" is not the opener. "Hi" needs to be followed by something. That followup is typically the opener. The best ones are situational. "Do you know when the next train is coming?" "Did the bartender make that margarita good?" anything to get her to say something to you and you can transition from there. "Hi" does not lead to a transition very easily. She'…	/r/seduction	07/05/13 07:40 PM
0	What does it mean when girls bring up their exes in mid-set? (teasingly) "No wonder they're your EX boyfriends. I'm going to let you in on the best kept secret in the area...."	/r/seduction	28/03/13 05:51 PM
2	I'm a funny guy, but I find myself getting stuck in, "funny mode" when talking to girls. Anyone else have this problem, or advice? You gotta be pretty delicate with self-deprecation. If you don't know how to manage/balance that act then you're gonna look like an unconfident tool and she'll see that. Self deprecation only for meaningless shit like "I'm retarded, I still don't know how to order coffee at starbucks". Compared to "I just lost my job and girlfriend last week, I don't have much else to lose but my integrity now! TIME TO DRINK!" latter would be funnier to your guy friends... not so much a girl you just met. The st…	/r/seduction	08/03/13 10:31 PM
3	If you've never kissed a girl, READ THIS. Are you expecting a perfect kiss or something? Something that will stay with you for the of your life and will change it from that moment on? It's a kiss goddamnit. I'm even surprised that this thread blew up on here. It's nothing but a step to something more important. Sure sex if that's what you're looking for, but more importantly a romantic relationship.... however serious that may be. A good kiss is fine but why are you worried about this one girl from a month back. Just a kiss a girl, ANY …	/r/seduction	06/03/13 07:56 PM
2	Some guy used that "phone trick" on my girlfriend and failed horribly a few days ago. I assume it's almost as if you skip through A1 and A2, you've successfully intro'd and DHV'd yourself as a confident guy and generated a shitload of rapport. Disqualification seems like it's a little harder here but eh, if you've DHV'd enough I assume the disqual doesn't even matter. Bam you're in A3 fairly quickly. You've made her jump through a huge hoop and if she complies she's more likely to justify liking you. It is not a full proof method at all, it's ballsy as shit and due to its risky n…	/r/seduction	28/02/13 05:18 AM
9	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. I'm hesitant to agree with this point wholeheartedly. My natural tendency is to stay in a comfort zone and only approach if a serendipitous opportunity arises. When I tell myself to meet some people and be more social that's when the best things happen. There are nights where I just don't want to be out but the "fake it til you make it" adage goes a long way to resolve that. The positive energy feeds on itself and before you know it you're in state and you don't need to force it anymore. Agreed …	/r/seduction	26/02/13 06:39 PM
2	So I don't want to approach girls anymore... Exactly, in fact the opposite is extremely unattractive. If you put so much of yourself into that girl, you begin to need them. You become clingy and that shit is a death sentence if the girl has options. It's much MUCH easier said than done but being happy with yourself and your path should be the priority. The girl is there to just partake in your awesome life. You be the value giver... not them.	/r/seduction	24/02/13 12:15 AM
29	6 Habits of Remarkably Likeable People Man these are situational as fuck. Power pose and They don't ask for anything come to mind specifically. I try to give off a decent enough frame at every first interaction. Until they've proven to me that they're equivalent then they are not going to get me to submit. Yes if I'm meeting Nelson fucking Mandela I'll give an inch but meeting some random girl at a bar? Yeah there won't be too much "leaning in" by me. As for "don't ask for anything" kinda bullshit except the last line of this paragra…	/r/seduction	04/01/13 08:43 PM
4	[Newbie FR] Strong eye contact for the first time... amazing Without the balls to go up and say something or start an interaction with them they probably think you're some creepy guy about to murder them. Eye contact with no smile and no followup frames him as some stalker guy. These actions, at least to me, do not portray a confident person. I'd agree that if he had went up to her after the initial eye contact it would have been great but after several minutes, nevermind multiple days, of "emotionless" staring I'd be cautious of pepper spray to the eyes.	/r/seduction	03/07/12 06:00 PM
0	[FR] Second time out with this new frame of mind; Second F-close 1 pint and you're over the limit? we need a .08 BAC to be over the limit. This typically requires me to have 3-4 drinks to hit that over the course of an hour. 6 drinks over 6 hours pretty much means most of the alcohol has been metabolized.	/r/seduction	19/04/12 07:13 PM
0	A lot of trolls tonight ... Since when is /r/mensrights strictly for the awareness of the unfair treatment of WHITE males?	/r/MensRights	12/04/12 05:09 PM