TacoPhd Archive

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61	I’m invited to a party and a girl who rejected me is going to be there what should I do? Absolutely this. If you try to just ignore her or treat her like she’s a stranger, what she’ll see is 1) that you are very much affected emotionally even though you guys only kissed and 2) that you are kind of a dick. IMO, you should just act normal. Go to the party, talk to people and, more importantly, have fun. You can say hi to her but don’t go out of your way to be around her all the time. Remember, it’s not the end of the world if you don’t end together at the end of the night. This isn’t …	/r/seduction	29/08/21 05:19 PM
30	Can you fall in love with someone if you secretly hate yourself I’m going to be honest: I don’t think you can. You have to love yourself to love someone else, as cliché as that sounds. You have to realize that, at the end of the day, the person you are going to spend the most time with is yourself. If you try to get in a relationship, you may find yourself trying to get someone else just because you don’t want to feel alone, which is a very bad reason to get into a relationship. This may lead to minor problems, like being needy, to major ones, like having to…	/r/seduction	01/07/20 08:15 AM
6	Don't All-around cool guy	/r/seduction	25/03/20 09:12 PM
6	7 Things “Nice Guys” Don’t Understand About Women I don’t know if you are joking but I sometimes ask random questions to girls about things related to conversations. Last week I went to have some sushi with a girl and we just started talking about travelling and ended up discussing how did Ecuador get its name lmao. Safe to say that if the girl is not into this kind of questions might as well no force it	/r/seduction	14/12/18 11:47 PM
3	I am afraid of showing interest in a girl if I know i will have to keep contact with her afterwards. How do you continue if she is not interested? Why would it be awkward? Unless you are one of those guys that makes a scene and calls the girl demeaning things because they rejected you then it shouldn’t be awkward. So, let’s say she rejects you. Now you have the answer to that question in your head about whether she likes you or not. Since you say rejection isn’t the problem, then why do you care? If she’s awkward around then that’s her problem. If you become awkward and start closing up because someone is around then it’s not the girl that…	/r/seduction	12/04/18 10:08 PM
3	I got rejected in a not so classy way and now she wants to apologise. Then just do it over a text and move on.	/r/seduction	01/07/17 06:23 PM
2	What do I do to not get so angry at little things/overthinking? I think you may be a tad obsessed, mate. You'll probably say it's not like that, that you just really like her and stuff, but you need to realise that this is unhealthy, both for you and her. I think that everyone has to go through this at least once. I know I did. The solution I found was to simply have a fun life. What I mean by this is simply to do things you like such as hobbies, go out with your friends. Even meeting new people. Eventually, you'll notice that you pay less attention to your …	/r/seduction	19/04/17 12:59 AM
53	You see a girl you find attractive... I mean, why would she? Don't take this the wrong way, but you aren't as important as you think. In the sense that not every single girl you meet or talk will remember you or speak about you. And that's fine. This is why you should just go and talk to people, you're not losing anything. If a chick rejects you and starts talking shit, well, so what? Maybe she's just having a bad day or maybe she IS a bad person so you don't want her around. You will inevitably find someone from that small percenta…	/r/seduction	15/12/16 07:06 AM
3	[Serious] What do you say when a girl calls you hot? "I try not to, but it keeps happening"	/r/seduction	11/09/16 03:38 PM
3	What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say") I agree with you, but it really depends on the tone of how you say it. I wrote it not saying "fuck you for making me waste my time" but " oh man, I really wanted to have a conversation". It has gone both ways for me, sometimes they wonder about it and just start a conversation asking what you found interesting about them, other times they just don't want to talk so you just have to smile, say goodbye and that's it.	/r/seduction	22/06/15 11:15 PM
18	What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say") You can say anything, really. You could go from something ridiculous like "Well, I'm on a secret mission and I need your help" to something more simple like "Oh bummer, you looked very interesting from afar" It's just a matter of being confident, and if they are just not having it, just say "Thanks for the conversation, see ya" and move on.	/r/seduction	22/06/15 03:43 PM