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2	Eye contact as a listener; is it natural to look at mouth and lips? Don't worry about it too much. If it makes it easier for you to follow the conversation, look at their lips. If anyone ever brings it up, make a joke or casually explain it, but don't make an excuse or apologize for it. If it's part of you, it's part of you. Eye contact is only improved through practice, so you've just got to force yourself to hold it for longer. I used to be a constant fidgeter/eye contact breaker, and I only got a handle on it through practice. Alcohol can help your confidence…	/r/seduction	23/09/12 06:30 AM
2	50 things you can tell yourself to not care about what others think of you I love this list. It's going on the wall. Thanks for the link!	/r/seduction	20/09/12 03:45 AM
2	Seemingly Hopeless Situation Regarding hiking: JUST DO IT, MANG. It's no more dangerous than driving to mickey d's to get a burger, statistically speaking, and if it's something that you used to love to do, you will connect with it easier than a brand-spanking-new hobby. You've got to reconnect with it, and then it will be easier to get off the computer and out into nature. Reward yourself: tell yourself that if you go for a hike Saturday morning for even just 30-45 minutes, you can reward yourself with redditing or xbox or…	/r/seduction	09/09/12 07:36 PM
2	Seemingly Hopeless Situation Get into mountain biking, hiking, climbing, surfing, something you can do that's outdoors-y and is doable alone (since you are in rebuild mode as far as a social circle goes). Surfing and mountain biking are dangerous to do alone I believe, so maybe not those, yet. But you get the idea. I recommend these things because you're already in decent shape and that will only improve. Lots of women like to do these things; they're cheap date spots and you're going to get more quality (mentally, and obvi…	/r/seduction	08/09/12 07:44 PM
3	Followup: Advice from a 68-year-old natural whose wife is still dreamy-eyed for him. Tell me about your relationship with your mother.	/r/seduction	19/04/12 05:53 PM
2	Followup: Advice from a 68-year-old natural whose wife is still dreamy-eyed for him. It sounds like you have more need for control in your relationships than does OP.	/r/seduction	19/04/12 05:39 PM

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