TacticalBouncyCastle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Learning to step to the girl harder.		TacticalBouncyCastle	/r/seduction	25/05/15 08:26 AM
1	When you started getting fewer flakes		TacticalBouncyCastle	/r/seduction	29/05/15 10:16 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I become more interesting? Live.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 07:37 PM
2	Question about starting 100 sets of approaches? Take them to their house or to a public location where you can be alone.	/r/seduction	31/05/15 07:36 PM
1	Life going great, but baffling lack of success with women The best way to know is if you describe your approaches, where are you getting stuck? You sound like you have the cash, so doing a bootcamp would be a good idea for identifying your biggest roadblocks.	/r/seduction	30/05/15 03:19 AM
12	A little trick to make her K-close you at a party My favorite way to get a girl to kiss me is to get right up in her face and hold fierce eye contact while talking to her. Often she'll ask permission or just can't help herself.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 10:10 PM
2	What are some thing you've said that keeps a girl talking to you? The staples: where from, what do, what name, who friends, logistics. These questions give so much material that you never run out of stuff to talk about later. It's not the things you say that keep her talking though, it's the vibe.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 10:07 PM
1	Recently turned 18, my appreciation for nightgame just skyrocketed Get out early and get your engines running. Keep moving, always be talking to girls and don't be picky about who you talk to. Most dudes are not her boyfriend, they melt away and assume you know her when you step hard. Girls will ignore you when your intensity is low, learn to speak loudly and have intense eye contact.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 09:49 PM
1	RSD product $500 store credit- advice If you want to show your support, pick pimp and download/buy foundations. Everything you need to know is there. A bootcamp is very instructive as well if you can throw cash at the problem.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 09:44 PM
1	RSD product $500 store credit- advice They say explicitly and repeatedly that it will take years. Except for their promotional material, which is malformed.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 09:43 PM
1	How to win a girls attention over other guys? Get more girls. You become more attractive and she'll want to lock you down.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 09:43 AM
3	I've had it. If I could go back and talk to my high school self: Forget this stuff until you can approach a lot of girls on an almost daily basis. Either when you can go to lots of house parties in college, or when you can go to bars and clubs. Don't read another word of pickup material until you can practice a lot.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 09:41 AM
2	I honestly have no idea what I'm doing? Okay my bad. Still, unless you're regularly socializing with girls, you will revert right back to where you started. It's a bit like working out.	/r/seduction	29/05/15 04:19 AM
1	I honestly have no idea what I'm doing? Yeah that's why. The only way to get better with girls is to practice. Theory will not help you without practice. I'm serious, it will actually hurt you by making you self concious. I assume since you didn't get to giving compliments, that you did under 50 approaches? If you haven't done 1000 approaches, you're a novice still. You really haven't been doing pickup for the past 10 years. There are so many random elements, that most of your first 1000 will be you floundering without seeing many pat…	/r/seduction	29/05/15 03:42 AM
1	My exposure levels right now are essentially zero. Look for concerts in your area. Is there a high traffic area in your city during the day? I also used to go approach girls walking between bars and clubs during the nightlife. Other than that, I'd wait till I was 21 to practice cold approach.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 07:22 PM
1	How would I (21m) start picking up girls?? When you're out, realize no one gives a fuck about you. Decide how many girls you are going to approach before you go, and stick to it.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 07:16 PM
4	keeping eye contact just makes everything a lot more intense. cant process everything. Tips? That happens, stick with it and your awareness will open up.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 06:49 PM
1	I honestly have no idea what I'm doing? How much are you practicing? How many girls do/have you approach/ed?	/r/seduction	28/05/15 06:33 PM
1	I got Scammed , maybe (?) The general theory is that when you buy girls things, they'll string you along. I've never seen it work in my favor.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 10:10 PM
1	How can you tell WHY people look at you? Yeah, well you can try asking them but they probably won't give you a straight answer unless you charm them.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:25 PM
1	Bookstore Game Sure thing. If I'm picking up at night and I've been hitting a lot of girls up, I tend to get tunnel vision and when I see a girl I want to approach, and go straight in without any attention to my surroundings. One time this cute girl was walking on the street at night and I walk up "Hey, you are absolutely adorable" Sexy eyes, seriously sexual tone. At which point her entire extended family around her start cheering. You'd think you should use an indirect opener in that case, but if you come of…	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:23 PM
1	How can you tell WHY people look at you? Projecting is when you take your own assumptions or feelings about person and interpret their actions erroneously through that lens.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 08:01 PM
1	Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub? A bit pudgy, BMI of 26 with visible belly.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 07:23 PM
3	How can you tell WHY people look at you? That sucks, never had the experience. I've had girls stare when I'm feeling solid, or normally everyone ignores me. I'm a white dude, think it might be because you're black? I hear that happens, which sounds fucked. It may be that those people are actually looking at you neutrally and you're projecting. You might also be confusing lust with ire.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 12:05 PM
0	I got Scammed , maybe (?) As a rule, don't pay for girls until you have sex. There are exceptions of course, but without knowledge of the nuances you are very likely to be fucking up. If a girl wants you, she'll usually insist she pay. Some will require you allow them to buy you a drink. If you want to spring for something for the sake of convenience, do so knowing that she's very likely to lose some respect for you unless you emphasize she's the one seeking out your time. If a girl is asking for you to pay for something…	/r/seduction	27/05/15 10:46 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15 One of my friends who is really good is the same, he talks to around 3 girls a night and usually pulls. His take is that newbs should do around 20-30, intermediates 10-20, and advanced guys less than 10. I've put in about two years of work at this point. I'm going in too weak most of the time and getting blown out quickly.	/r/seduction	27/05/15 03:53 AM
1	Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub? Why not?	/r/seduction	26/05/15 10:53 PM
1	First cold approach ever - A complete disaster. I feel like an idiot You should be feeling like a badass man. That takes so much balls. Most girls aren't going to want to fuck you, many girls won't like you. If you're good at this, you'll be polarizing and many girls will hate you(like 15-30%). You have to learn to take the heat if you want to get good at cold approach, and you have to think you're awesome and find it funny no matter what the reaction. It should only take you a little over a hundred approaches to find the humor consistently.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 10:43 PM
6	First cold approach ever - A complete disaster. I feel like an idiot Took me a over a hundred to get laid for the first time, and over a couple thousand to be competent. That's what people don't often say about cold approach. You have to do thousands of approaches to get good, and you'll never get rid of a high rate of rejection.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 10:22 PM
1	80% of the time when I open a group of girls at night, the prettiest girl is the only one that really stays and engages with me. What gives? That's interesting, I've never seen this because I always focus on the hotter one. I would try isolating your girl when this happens.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 03:49 AM
4	80% of the time when I open a group of girls at night, the prettiest girl is the only one that really stays and engages with me. What gives? Why are you guys being salty over a guy asking a legitimate question because you're getting poor results? Crabs in a bucket.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 03:47 AM
2	Have you ever had any attempts at escalation go very poorly? Out of many hundreds? Yeah, one. I approached this cute geek girl, wearing all black and shy. We talk about a project of hers which is really impressive, she's brilliant, but also a bit tweaked. After a couple minutes I go in to hug her. She freezes completely, acute stress response, petrified. I felt terrible, my friends and I had to talk her out of her terror. As fun as that story is, it's way harder than you think to get a seriously negative response.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 03:39 AM
1	[xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 5/11/15 Around 15 It's telling that this question wasn't answered on this subreddit.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 03:23 AM
1	Stucked at polarizing! Lol these girls are throwing themselves at you. Congrats on the sex when you decide to go for it. Yeah you're white knighting hard. Also that's not the right way to use polarize.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 12:32 AM
1	Learning to step to the girl harder. Haha, I hope people get what I mean. Feminists are pretty cool about it, it's the dumb extremists who get weird. Girls respond a lot better to that intensity, you know? EDIT: Not reactionary, extremist.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 09:43 PM
1	Learning to step to the girl harder. Do you even go out?	/r/seduction	25/05/15 09:41 PM
1	Where do you draw the line between shit-tests and disrespect? If it gets a rise out of you, the girl will sometimes get more aggressive about it.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 07:57 AM
1	Where do you draw the line between shit-tests and disrespect? Just making rude comments or unwarranted personal attacks, either in words or in tone. That's basically the definition of a shit test. The girl acts like a bitch to see if her opinion of you(and by implication power) matters enough to cause an emotional reaction. It's a litmus test for status. If she's threatening bodily harm or being a buzzkill by ranting or doesn't go sweet when you don't care, it's no longer a shit test and she's just an asshole.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 07:55 AM
1	Good YouTubers for PUA advice? Thanks for the tip. I just watched his Most Interesting Man in the World compilation. Hilarious, it's a breath of fresh air to find guys who aren't a cringe fest.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 06:02 AM
1	Do you think that the ability to get girls is something you have to practice? Most of what you said here is absolutely true. Also most of it is terrible advice for a dude who sucks with women, in the same way 'just be yourself' is.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 05:33 AM
6	Dealing with guys hitting on your girl I don't know, I've never taken my girl to a club. I don't see the point.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 05:29 AM
-1	Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub? Lol, the first time I told anyone this, it was a couple weeks after the fact. I was chatting up these three girls next to the beach at night. Three marines came around the corner and I couldn't occupy the girls by myself so I asked them to come hang with us. Later I dropped the marines off on my way home. They were all giving me props for picking up the cute girl of the group. One was talking about how one of the fat girls was thanking him for making out with her. He thought she was tweaked for …	/r/seduction	25/05/15 05:04 AM
1	Tips for nightgaming solo? When a girl is with her friend? I would have gone with them. That's what I did Wednesday night.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:55 AM
1	Who teached PuA's PuA? They reverse engineered it together. Go check out the old ASF forums on the wayback machine for a good history lesson and the vast majority of modern game theory.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:51 AM
1	Bookstore Game I've never noticed a significant advantage between different styles of openers, unless you have to smooth things over with her surrounding peer group. Cool idea about leading her to books you like though.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:47 AM
4	Having bad approach anxiety? Try this. How is this cunty? You're just taking the edge off with a silly game. I'd be happy if someone did this to me when I'm being too shy.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:40 AM
1	Having bad approach anxiety? Try this. Haaaaaaaaave you met Ted? This is the best game.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:34 AM
5	Getting over the fear of rejection? 1) Find risk reward ratio of asking her out based on conditional probability of success and damage to social group. 2) Just do whichever turns out to be the better call. If you're just asking about how to get rid of fear of rejection, you get rejected a lot or find a peer group who constantly strokes your ego.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:32 AM
1	What techniques do you guys have on being funny? The more girls you talk to, the easier it is to say that first stupid thing that comes to your head. Over time, that dumb idea becomes funnier. Wash, rinse, repeat.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:26 AM
1	I have a problem where my personality changes around attractive women, and I don't know why. Yeah, what /u/SillyRodent5690 said. But the way I do it is by meeting a ton of people who seem higher status than me and forcing myself to act a bit more outgoing than I'm comfortable with. Over time you get better at it.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:23 AM
1	How do I actually score ONS? Seed the pull, baby step her home, keep her horny, figure out and deal with her logistics early on, lead her around for no reason.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:18 AM
1	How many of your conversations with women tend to follow the same pattern? What length are we talking here? At the beginning of the night I'll go with the boring 'so do you come here often/work/name/from' bullshit. As I get more comfortable I'll start saying off the wall stuff for fun. E.g. from last night 'hi, guy number 756' 'i like horses' 'you are so distracting', 'I wear a lot of hats: bowlers, fedora's, baseball caps...'. Every once in awhile I'll call on old lines I came up with on the spot since they were so awesome, but for the most part it's all improv. It do…	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:07 AM
0	Do ugly guys actually have any chances of scoring a girl in a nightclub? I'm overweight and I've had a few 9s I've picked up from bars thank me for fucking them. It really is mostly about personality and how you make a girl feel man. That said, the odds are low that you'll put in the time and energy necessary to be able to act like enough of a boss.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 01:49 AM
2	When you meet Tinder girls who say "I met other guys but they just wanted to hook up" lmao, if I had a dollar...	/r/seduction	18/05/15 11:17 AM
1	How do i DHV without negging and lying? Don't drink the koolaid, negs work. These days they go by 'tease' or 'push'. Just pick some arbitrary thing about her you don't like and say it playfully. There's more intense ways to use them, but not necessary early on.	/r/seduction	17/05/15 02:59 AM
2	HELP! When a girl says she wants you to have a girlfriend Yeah she's into you.	/r/seduction	16/05/15 03:29 AM
2	How can I be seen as a "lover" and not a "provider" if I seem rich? As a guy who has been in this position, this is the best advice in the thread. On bullet point three, I'll give an exception to the house part. There's a certain momentum to the first romance with a girl, if you already have a lot of sexual momentum going you can take her home to a nice place and it won't stop you from having great sex immediately which cancels the wealth factor out. I've had one girl try to get weird about it on the first night, at which point I laughed at her and we had sex an…	/r/seduction	15/05/15 11:55 PM
1	Should I wait to try to pick up girls until I'm stronger/gain more weight? Holy shit you're severely underweight dude, I would start wolfing down calories. Nuts, red meat, and cheese all have great calorie density even if it might be dirty. I would wear light colors with thick layers and long sleeves for the time being. You can absolutely still pick up girls, your biggest leverage point will always be personality.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 11:31 PM
1	Easily get hard... Yo the opposite problem at your stage is getting performance anxiety and having your libido stifled around girls. You don't have that problem, be glad.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 10:28 PM
1	No female contact ever Practicing game and desiring a committed relationship are not mutually exclusive. I didn't say it was. I was referring to him not wanting to go to bars/clubs which doesn't work if you want to practice game. If you're not hitting up a lot of girls, the theory just gets in the way of not being tryhard. He said he has friends, so he's going to make friends in college because it's easy even if you're shy. He'll hang out at house parties and find a girl there or around the dorms. I'm just speaking fr…	/r/seduction	15/05/15 10:12 PM
1	HELP! When a girl says she wants you to have a girlfriend Yeah I'm leaning this way too, you can test the waters by telling her you think one of her friends is cute. If she doesn't get jealous /u/recyclablebantha is right.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 08:37 PM
0	No female contact ever You're in a subreddit for game. You practice game by hitting on lots of girls, which is why clubs or crowded spaces in the day are a staple. You sound like you don't want to get good at game, which is fine, it's not for everyone. Getting a girlfriend in college is extremely easy. There are a lot of girls, who are very experimental, and one is bound to be your type. Forget about this stuff, go the normal route of meeting girls through friends in college.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 08:24 PM
2	SUPERWEIRD fake number Just judging from the number itself, which has a very non-random pattern (thank you computer science degree). Wat? She could have gotten hooked up with a great number. Call it at least. Also, if you don't want your time wasted in the future, or want to know when you need to spend more time before you ask for her number again; enter her number one/two digits wrong in your phone while saying out-loud the numbers you're typing. If she likes you she'll correct you eagerly.	/r/seduction	15/05/15 12:11 AM
1	Anyone think there is a optimal time of day for texting/messages? The girl is waiting for you to contact her on baited breath. You have a few other girls in the pocket and barely have the time. When is the best time to text her?	/r/seduction	15/05/15 12:05 AM
1	What's up with people telling me that girls check me out / stare? I've been going out a long time and I've never had this happen. I'm not conventionally attractive though, and have to 'talk my face away'. My analogue is I sometimes get is another dude(typically 40's and up) giving me a dab and a knowing smile when I'm killing it. Congratulations, you're attractive. Now instead of using that understanding that she thinks you're hot as validation, ignore it so it doesn't make you feel like you lose something if you get rejected by her. It could also mean you're …	/r/seduction	14/05/15 11:55 PM
1	I'm not nervous(I dont think so) when I approach but I get sweaty and my ears turn red. Wtf? Those are symptoms of anxiety. Do it more, and more consistently, and it'll happen less. Check out CBT on the subject for more.	/r/seduction	14/05/15 11:40 PM
2	Do you want to see a magic trick? i'll need your ID or drivers license for it. Nice, that's a great line when you're scared of jailbait.	/r/seduction	14/05/15 11:37 PM