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| 1 | Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great.Based. I think the point you just made is one a fair number of dudes ignore. But i did just go through this over and over again in the last few years single 'its much easier to find a woman who wants to spend time with me than wants to get me in bed' Storytime: I'm friends with a nurse. I was down bad for her. Her man cheated, she got single, i asked her out, she later said to my face "that was one of the best days of my life, i needed that so bad, thank you Gato... Also who taught you that?" A … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Men falsely claim that women lie about their preferences because they believe men are great.I want to validate this (because no one commented under) Yes. Men (including me) will more aggressively pursue women who have zero interest or aptitude in a relationship. There is a deeper component at play here that will make some dudes uncomfortable. Women will also perpetuate their own toxic cycle of romantic/sexual selection, often dedicating years to men who are interested in emptying their balls (full stop). And lets not even talk about the emotional fallout where those years could turn ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Patriarchy is like footbinding in that it is an ugly deformity; it is like an accent in that it is hard to see your own.Well the alternative is that the most efficient system (aside from nuclear family units and engineering an agrarian society and standing armies) Is vikings, not vikings specifically, but raider cultures for men to kill/take/r*pe/pillage. The most biologically successful man ever was Ghengis Khan and his empire basically evaporated with him. Ghengis Khan was a raider fighting against other patriarchies. Let that sink in. Uh. About your economic point (which we could really get into the weeds abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Patriarchy is like footbinding in that it is an ugly deformity; it is like an accent in that it is hard to see your own.Patriarchy was (and is) useful insofar as it established a system under which -resources could be collected and distributed in such a way to maintain a standing military -paternity could be socially re-enforced i.e.everyone already knows who momma is, since fathership is in question and the ladies are more biologically valuable we need to constrain who theyre allowed to sleep with. -Patriarchy allowed for the continuation of the nuclear family. Think of it like a cell, and get enough cells toget… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 06:19 PM |
| 11 | RP men use dating strategies that attract specific kinds of women, which reinforces their stereotypes about women in a vicious cycleBy definition greatness is rare. I know some dudes who are great at work, great at the gym, great skaters, some who have more emotional intelligence at barely 20 than I have at barely 30. All of them struggle. Singular greatness is NOT enough, especially in an era where women don't have to leave social media and get unlimited attention. I would argue that if you are great in one area, if that area isn't performative, social, and also swarming with single women then your greatness is overlooked. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 02:44 PM |
| 6 | Women can have it allThat was for an infinitesimally small period in history (arguably 1920ish-1970ish). For the entire rest of the course of humanity the vast majority of people had to struggle if they wanted anything forget about having it all. Everyone was paid in survival. Women don't like being reminded about this but that's kindof how things have played out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 02:30 PM |
| 2 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.Lol girl ur answer was an entire news cycle after the question was asked. It's not that I didn't like it, it's that reddit had to ping my notifications almost 48 hours after the fact and I had to scroll back up to even find it. Kindof like expecting the woman who commented to find my new comment. I don't, it's not a reasonable thing to do because this won't hit her inbox and it's over a day after the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.The question was posted 12 hours ago. She's been responding frequently within a 6 hour window since then. Just not to answer the question. AND the good faith response is to answer the question THEN respond with a question of her own. And this is thematic of this user, she doesn't even try to cover up the bad faith. Granted if you're jaded toward men bad faith toward any who hold anything but the most negative opinion feels right (and would explain the response to the question) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 04:10 AM |
| 15 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.No. It's been 5 hours. No she will not answer the question in order to promote earnest discourse. She'll just keep moving the goal because she never has to define the core part of her argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 10:44 PM |
| -1 | Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people.Yeah but gold digging is a feature not a bug. Kinda like Leonardo DiCaprio and 19 year olds, women and money. Almost all men choose a woman in her reproductive peak and almost all women will choose a man in his financial peak all else being equal. All else is never actually equal but if your greatest fault is gold digging I don't think it's actually that big of a deal. The bigger deal is choosing men for fatherhood that have no intention or business being a father much less a husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Normal men don't care about women who are attracted to terrible people.If a statement doesn't work when you genderswap it, it's either an invalid statement or needs to be qualified based on gender inequality. Men catch a lot of flak interpersonally for pursuing/settling for a promiscuous/out of shape/ entitled/combative woman. Why shouldn't women get flak for wanting to propagate some of the literal worst society has to offer. And not just criminals (because let's face it, not all crime makes you a bad person) let's extrapolate this to a wider subset of men who jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:09 PM |
| 8 | "males prefer debt-free virgins without tattoos" is a damaging messageThere is no incentive to be honest. Invalidating your choices never got anyone laid. Or as a wise man once said 'it's easier to talk your way out of her pants than into her pants' 'oh that's a cool tattoo, does it have any special meaning for you' is a much more romantic statement than 'yo that shit is jacked and you'd look better without it' And theres the social component that tattoos are relatively permanent soooo me telling you it's a bad idea and I don't like it after the fact does nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?O..k. So just in case that kid makes it to fourth grade. A sentence (like this one here) has to make sense without the parentheses. So this:I just have this ability to kinda objective (and so, empathetic toward those who have been subject to the inverse), see. Becomes this: I just have this ability to kinda objective see. I assume you meant 'objectively see', but you're still missing the subject, y'know? The thing that gives your whole paragraph meaning. So since you're soooo busy and important … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Tell me you aren't a gamer without telling me you aren't a gamer. Also my point works regardless of the character of the word in question. Is this the hill you want to die on? How words work? G'head and make a point if you've got one I'd love to hear the other side of that 'sooo...' if it exists | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 03:05 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts?Shortened words to describe a complex situation are the basis of communication. For example if I say cancer you know what I mean. I could also say a malignant grouping of cells with few or no controls against growth which may metastasize- or spread-to other tissues during the disease process, ultimately interrupting body processes and threaten homeostasis.... Or I could say cancer. Same thing. If I say slut or harlot or trollop everyone knows what I'm talking about. It means the same thing you s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.Well I learned something a long time ago. Was what I said perfectly executed transmission of information? No. But there's a concept in interpersonal communication called 'barriers' one of these barriers to communication is 'literal listening' But when someone is highly fastidious about what you say and ignores the actual POINT it's often because they aren't actually trying to engage in conversation. Both are both. Both get both. You're arguing against yourself at this point. None of what I said … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 01:25 AM |
| 6 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.Well if you live in Saudi Arabia my condolences. Barring the absolute most fringe cases like rape kidnap and subsequent 9month imprisonment If you don't? Odds are that you do not know and it's unlikely you've ever met a woman who had no say in the selection of a father or the creation of a child. I find it interesting you cut out the most relevant stipulation and just quoted the part that was wrong on its own tho. Real compelling commentary there. Strawman Lol no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.Right. Ok I'm glad we found common ground. So how do you get from cold to warm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.Warm approach is best, but how do you change cold to warm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.Semantics. You're taking a hyper literal look at the point I'm making to spite the message. Obviously both is both, it's recursive. The 'inside joke' being that the y chromosome actually carries much less in terms of functional information. It's ~1/3rd the length of the X and a significant portion of that is telomeres and the connective protein at the middle (I read your next comment later. You already understand this. That's great) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.It's the same concept as commercials. You don't want to see them, they're annoying at worst and mildly entertaining if not... UNTIL a commercial comes on and you see a product that makes you say 'oh that's so cool' or 'holy shit I need that'. Sometimes a sales pitch comes along and it's the thing you didn't know that you were missing in life until it shows up in front of you and now you're compelled to it, if not to buy it on the spot. (Though funny enough this effect works better on women econo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.For most women love is a reactive process. You DO want to be left alone until you don't. And how don't you? Someone has to be willing to breach the social contract of 'don't make waves, don't solicit strangers without due cause'. If we've learned nothing else from data applied to how women become proactive in love it's that it only happens for a fraction of men comparable to the interest rate on a HYSA. For the other 95% waiting for a woman to be proactive is the functional equivalent of manifes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Most men are what Esther Vilar called 'The Manipulated Man'.Because if they stopped humanity would come to a screeching halt. Much like women's risk aversion, men's proclivity for risk taking is what they call 'a feature not a bug' in the software engineering space. Women have ultimately had near infinite reproductive autonomy the whole time (but i don't want to get too dark so let's start with chemical and physical abortion with modern medicine's safety standards in mind- so we'll say for around 100 years and excluding places where marriages are arrange… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?It's easy to crack sarcasm from a chair that is almost always given the near infinite and immediate rights in this scenario. Let me translate it for you. Let's say you live in Texas and accidentally get pregnant, you don't want to be. A lawyer is willing to fight your case on a 50,000 retainer. (Not contingent, it's another 25 grand if you win) Imagine having to fight in court for your 'flesh and blood' rights. Now imagine if that problem wasn't solved by moving to another state. Now imagine if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?Do you have any idea what kind of time and money is involved in custody battles? seriously, call a family lawyer as a woman and ask about 'your ex husband's' chances of getting the kids. Most of em will take you even if you're a sea turtle tier mother because they know the case is a slam dunk and most of the time the husband is going to wind up footing the bill for the offense and the defense. Wars are fought for money and power in the modern era, something divorced men already have a decisive l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4RPMen: Would you be in a LTR with a very good looking virgin woman who isn’t sexually attracted to you?Ultra based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:40 PM |
| 0 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?That was talking about logical validity. You tried to ascribe 'good' and 'bad' to my metaphor where there is none. A claim of invalid is actually more difficult to make, however validity doesn't equal truth. It just means you can't simply dismiss the premise because you didn't like how it was worded, yes people are not things, but that doesn't mean the decisions we make about things don't apply to people. For example. I take care of a 20 something year old young man who tried self deletion via g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?You don't get to tell me how I think. True for women, this discussion is about men. If we're talking about ~95% of them, a high body count is a very deliberate effort. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?What about the non-professions. Like cooking or good hygiene. The point wasn't about what you are it's about WHO you are. My argument is that you are what you practice. If you practice kindness, charity, prudence, and fidelity you'll become a different kind of partner than someone who practices independence, ambition, hedonism and.... Infidelity? That's not the right word in situ but I think the point is clear enough. I like you question though. It may not be true that high n is related to drugs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:04 PM |
| 2 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?I like it better when you were asking him for sources. The analogy is sound and your response is logically not valid. But for the sake of avoiding your straw man let's make it about the person, not the objective. If I paint 100 pictures what would you call me? A painter If I perform 100 surgeries what would you call me? A surgeon If I sleep with 100 women on drug and/or alcohol fueled benders what would you call me? You can rely on the painter to paint. You can rely on the surgeon to operate. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 03:48 PM |
| -9 | Q4M men with zero options, do you consider it a silver lining that you can't attract women who would treat you badly, or do you mourn over not being able to attract them as well?But it is valid. The problem set is different. Let me put it in the context of a classic shit test: women in relationships will often ask something along the lines of: 'are you just with me for sex/my body?'. It's a bad faith question, emotionally immature, and truly insecure (especially because it's a question that you are never encouraged to answer if the honest answer is 'yes'... Kinda like a cop asking if you have crack cocaine for sale... Who's gunna say yes? Even if you're joking, still no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:48 PM |
| 3 | What are single men doing wrong?Naw. These dudes need to know I have front row tickets to the shitshow. It is very VERY obvious. Somewhere around half of the single women are jockeying for the same two hyper attractive and tall murses in my facility (and that's only the ones who are not subtle about it). lady friend of mine tried to set me up with a cute CNA because 'i was her type'. Fizzled hard. Couple weeks later I find out she started hooking up with a 6'5 dude (just after we met) then he dropped her like a sack of green p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 07:07 AM |
| 3 | What are single men doing wrong?What is 'this' in context? I'm fairly athletic (i sit around 7% body fat if you believe the water measurements), solid career in healthcare, practice a couple different arts and instruments, have my own business on the side. There isn't much better I could look unless I wanted to take up bodybuilding, and I have a highly cerebral and fulfilling day job, along with a myriad of hobbies and skills. So if I wanted to feel better I'd probably need to take a prescription or take a dramatically differe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 12:50 AM |
| 11 | What are single men doing wrong?Yeah lemme take on another full time job to maybe score a date with a chick who's actually pining for a 6'3 dude... I work in a woman dominated field and they rat themselves out brother. The ones with reasonable standards are mostly married. The rest (even the overwieght ones, even the single moms, even the ones who couldn't boil water) are involuntarily on a non-televised version of 'The Bachelor' and some of em even know it 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/24 03:49 PM |
| – | Are men becoming ok with no sex?All of a sudden they have nothing to say to this man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:20 PM |
| 18 | Why do *some men, try to convince virginal & low n count women to have sex without marriage/commitment?This is our fifty shades of grey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:45 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cI see where you're coming from, it's just a very strange take. As I understand it your chances of orgasm go up dramatically in the context of a long term relationship and are at their worst in the inverse situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:43 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cStrange way to agree with me but a'ight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 04:38 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cIf you boil down relationships to sex, don't be surprised when the guys after you are actually just after sex. You attract what you project. Or if you want the 'redneck wisdom' version: "If you smell dogshit everywhere you go, check your shoes" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 10:39 AM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)On behalf of the dude council. Noice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:48 PM |
| -3 | Blue Pillers on this sub are committed to keep men down (part 2)Mmmmm. Not true. You probably just don't know that many verifiable misogynists who routinely objectify women and display sociopathic tendencies on a regular basis. Usually these guys are dramatically financially successful and attractive or categorically disliked..... I'm sure there's no correlation there. But yeah, most dudes don't appreciate at the very minimum spending a significant amount of time and money and personal health risk to basically trick our lizard brains into thinking 'big hips,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:04 PM |
| 2 | CMV: when dating, if things don't work out - only the last date should be eligible for a reimbursement splitWell at that rate I could go to Tijuana and get better ROI 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:29 AM |
| – | The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be takenBoth sides are very guilty of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 12:43 PM |
| – | The manosphere does not care about fixing men's issuesYou may have done your flair wrong because you got some wild girl math goin on there bud, but just in case it isn't obvious how dumb a statement like that is 'well I don't know any bluebpilled hypersimps that would use terrible logic to discuss mutually exclusive points' Yet here we are. So I do know one problem is that men outnumber women 3:1 in gaming (and thats on the generous side). So by definition under the absolute best circumstances where gamers are all paired up with available gamers, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 07:12 AM |
| 5 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?I wanted to argue against it but I think that's a fair assessment. If you told me I could see the Weeknd for 50$ instead of 120$ or get lucky I'd pick the luck. If you told me I could get preferential hiring in an underrepresented field or spend the next half hour or so with the cute nurse from work sitting on my face, well... The more I thought about it the less important women's exhaustive list of social privileges seemed to be worth. Thanks for the perspective today 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeI can't tell if you're trying to give me personal advice or just being obstinate. But if it's the former there's already a simple solution and it's definitely not 'careerwoman' https://youtu.be/fxUY-99TPRY?si=djKfc54BmWTK1Bno | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeOkay? I'm just reminding you in case no one ever taught you financial literacy: the wealth graph is almost never a straight line. It's more of a slow burning exponent. So splitting things in half (no matter how or why or who the split happened) will often put the breadwinner in a much worse position than just -50% because you're set further back on an exponential curve. It"s the person providing less (maybe even being provided FOR) who has much to gain from breaking a contract like marriage, bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Men here have high standards.It's funny how any standards constitute high standards if they're coming from a Western man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:56 AM |
| 5 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeFinancially the difference between 10,000 dollars and 100,000 dollars is greater than the difference between 100,000 and 1,000,000. That's how compounding interest works. It's not quite in orders of magnitude in the real world but splitting your assets in half leaves you far more broke than simply -50%. Even so if the guy is not in the top 5% of earners, and even more than that if he's blue collar and past his physical prime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:00 AM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentYeah, love and belonging. It's right there under esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Friends of perpetually single men often have a different perspective than perpetually single men themselvesWell the 'old' solution(s- plural if you count that it happened almost ubiquitously and culturally independent of each other) was to enforce monogamy by religion or culture. I don't think it was lies or anything like that. I think it was 'if you don't find a marriage or are entertaining becoming a career prostitute you aren't getting laid'. That axiom basically ensured the majority of men and women would pair off and keep society going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.The ability to walk away when it isn't working out is crucial. I'm with you on that. Our difference in opinion is only in how you get that social awareness. Men need to do it wrong, most aren't born with the wherewithal to know when a woman isn't into him because most never really get to experience what it's like for a woman to be dramatically and irreconcilably attracted to him. For most guys the game isn't 'guess if she's into you' it's 'could she be into you' and those are VERY different game… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 04:41 AM |
| 5 | Social skills determinism is not real, and there's zero evidence for it. When they aren't lying and claiming social skills don't matter for dating, doomer red pillers / black pillers seem to have recently latched on this new lie, as another way to trick guys into not improving their social skills.I like what you're saying but here's the problem. Most women are not interested in the vast majority of men. Especially undisturbed, in the real world. Women wanted empowerment and equality. Well now they get to be their own bouncer and security for when a dude she doesn't like keeps dogging her. I'm not saying the act of dogging is good. What I am saying is that un-liked dudes do still need to keep shooting their shots and putting themselves out there, because most women will only show overt in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 05:14 PM |
| 8 | On the dating book for women "Why men love bitches"Play stupid games win stupid prizes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Friends of perpetually single men often have a different perspective than perpetually single men themselvesI think it's more reasonable to say 'they aren't anyone's first choice the majority of the time without displaying dramatic feats of aptitude, wealth, or the more nebulous status'. And I don't even necessarily think the conversation should be based around 'ugly' dudes per se. The accessibility of hyper attractive and/or high status dudes makes the average dude simply undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: You have 5 points. Build your dream dateTo be fair the scorecard is pretty generous. You could claim to have one trait up top and still be left with points. The problem is, AND is expensive. In good shape? Not that hard to find. In good shape AND easy to get along with AND low N count? You're already kindof winning the lottery if she is single AND attracted to you. I propose each additional trait you take from the top is +2 compounding. So picking one is face value. Pick two is face+face+2. Picking 3 is face+face+face+2+4. Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingA casual relationship is generally defined by short term commitment (if any) and rapid sexual access. A casual relationship without relatively prompt sexual access is just a friendship. So I think it's disingenuous to say OP isn't making a claim about a timeline. The men who can get casual relationships don't have to 'wait' for the women in that scenario. That's where the intrasexual competition is the strongest, women are highly incentivized to be the one that appeals to that guy the most the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Does men showing they have “game” work on you? Or do you prefer real conversation?Well it's less a meme and more a symptom of a shift to online dating. Seriously make a dating profile at 5'9 for one of your friends. Then make another at 6'2 with the same pictures. The shift in treatment/overall engagement is staggering Some documentation for your amusement. https://youtu.be/iNONlWyD_kU?si=QkXQ671TKJcHAFkv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 07:25 AM |
| 2 | There's a difference between falling for a long term friend gradually, and befriending a woman you have a crush/lust after in the sole hope that your "friendship" will make her sleep with you.I mean look at the divorce rate. Or let me put it another way. If someone is a great coworker, 10 months of just being solid, relatively friendly or at worst non-problematic. Then at the last 2 months they find a new job, start slacking, complaining, talking trash, etc. For most people the first 10 months don't matter if the last 2 are shit. It's how the human mind works. If you hike a trail for 10 years and have a wonderful time then on the 11th you get mauled by a mountain lion, the first 10 d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Attractiveness matters to men so there’s no reason for them to be upset when attractiveness matters to women.Supposedly your list of positives is shorter and more helpful than your list of negatives. Like choosing a place to eat It's orders of magnitude more helpful to list three highly desirable options that you'd be (Italian, burgers, sushi) Than 3 options you won't have (no vietnamese, afghan, or taco bell) This is why TRP is relatively successful among men who are unsuccessful. Because instead of patronizing them with nearly useless sarcastic rhetoric like 'should doesn't wet the bed be included'? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 12:11 AM |
| 0 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Imagine actually making a point that wasn't straight ad homiem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 05:45 PM |
| 0 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?So are you going to make a point or just criticize mine? There's a lot of rhetoric in there without much to chew on. (And you didn't really do a good job at adressing my reply if we're already being critical) I don't disagree with you but it's easy to poke holes when all you hold is a needle. If you want to spin your own yarn that takes a little more skill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Ah, but there is where I do want to be generous. Her time with you SHOULD be considered appreciation granted my other conditions are met A) she's excited to be your girlfriend/wife. However much commitment she can get B) she actively works to maintain that commitment, and wants your life to be more rich and fulfilling because she's a part of it C) balls never full, stomach never empty I think in a relationship where the woman simps for her man much like most men will simp for their women your in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:13 PM |
| -1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?Hey look, the ad homiem! Well golden rule time I suppose. Say hi to 2XC for me when you get your first period and pass that tricky gender studies class cupcake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?I mean. I'mma speak for the council of men on this one. And I think many women can empathize. The dating market for men is like the housing market for everyone. Inflation has driven costs up through the roof without a corresponding increase in value (or equity if we're talking about long term marriage outcomes if I'm going to be able to use a more objective metaphor without triggering somebody into an ad homiem response). If a woman isn't severely and obviously interested in you as a man (object… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 12:19 AM |
| 9 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.That's been my experience too. In an LTR I'll usually open up communication and do my level best to make sure everyone's having a good time. Try to communicate like that in an STR/hookup? As a dude? Never had that pan out, you're just expected to be assertive and confident and dominant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.I'm aware. Part of my family was literally rescued from Sharia law by my Grandma. The vast majority of women on Reddit complaining about mansplaining being the reason they change archery ranges are not subject to tyrannical theocracy. Same question to you. What's the difference between a boundary and controlling? Would you just expect men to treat their romantic relationships as zero sum games? 'oop, she did something I didn't like. Better pack up and leave without saying a word while she's at w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.Soooo you don't know the answer or we're just passive aggressively taking pot shots at people we've never even met or talked to for more than checks watch less than 5 minutes of functional conversation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 08:34 AM |
| 0 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.I don't, but ngl the context only made it worse. You went from weird/ eccentric, passed go collected $200 and went straight to open misandry. As though this was some feudalistic/Sharia system where we still trade our daughters for livestock and force them to cover up outside the house The imagery is all very poetic and all but poetry doesn't pay the bills and relationships are de facto a cage of your own design where the door is unlocked, the only penalty for leaving is whatever sunk cost you as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 05:16 AM |
| 3 | A Woman with ''No Kids and Not Fat'' is actually a high standard compared to the average manI like where you're coming from but single dads are judged on a completely different scale than single moms. Since reproductive autonomy is almost entirely in the hands of women, a single dad is usually a highly sexually desirable man by some metric or another | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:31 PM |
| 11 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveIf you don't think dating begins with looks and height I have a bridge to sell you. Any dude that's spent any significant amount of time with a truly attractive guy knows that the game for him is basically un-losable. Misogynistic RP originates either directly from these guys or as a direct consequence of observing the extreme halo effect they receive in situ. Granted I think the buck stops with dark triad traits. Not saying they aren't attractive, but similar to men being attracted to women wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.False equivalence. But for fun, what's the difference between controlling and setting boundaries? The grocery store is not an intimate setting (you could argue the same for work, but I work in a woman dominated field and get a lot of the chisme secondhand. The married ones, the committed ones. Soon as 'that guy' shows up there is no clutch my pearls good heavens! Objectifying co-workers is wrong. Turns into a range between scuffed pepe lepew and scuffed lady's smut book. So you aren't going to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.'it's giving exotic bird collector' Has nothing to do with my hypothetical question, just a thinly veiled attempt at masking an antisocial claim under the guise of plausible deniability. It's giving Regina George. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.You're the one who brought that up. I'm just talking about the integrity of the relationship. Last I checked sexual violence was orders of magnitude more likely coming from people you know. I'm not the one who's picking the random bear in the woods 😂 No, my point is that relationships require sacrifice. My question was directed at the OC to try to determine what kind of sacrifice she would make for the man in her life. Also hey look I have a downvote button too, let's just use it as a dislike bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:20 PM |
| 0 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.Ad homiem, but gee thanks for the extremely personal insult when I've offered no personal anecdote with which to poke at. So I'll offer you one since you'd rather be a mean girl about it. (And for future reference, you can remove the 'it's giving' and read it back to find out if you're being passive aggressive and trying to bully someone out of a POV vs. using logic) The only time I've even had this come up in a relationship was my ex used to play an instrument. She'd just started and it was all… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:16 PM |
| 0 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.Contentless rhetoric. But I'm just curious. Don't want to get robbed? don't go the seedy part of town in a Ferrari Don't want to get sunburned? Don't stay too long in the sun Don't want to get attacked by a bear/mountain lion? Don't go hiking alone Germaphobe? Well, you should avoid the hospital I'm not saying this logic applies everywhere, but I do like the argument, why does she even WANT to go without him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:55 AM |
| 8 | The standards of "not fat" and "no kids" are the BARE MINIMUM, not "extremely high". Bluepillers are disingenuously abusing semantics and population statistics to try to shame men out of having any standards at all.Well let me put it this way. The phrase 'rule of thumb' existed because you weren't allowed to beat your wife with a hickory switch wider than your thumb, hypothetically let's say that even if most men didn't practice it, most men believed it was some degree of justifiable So by your logic it would've been asking for 'too much' to find a man who believed and acted contrary to the popular culture. 'Hickory switch usage is caused by a wide range of fractious/obstinate/hysterical women, just becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 11:50 AM |
| -2 | Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men.I mean if one of the most common pieces of dating advice is 'find a hobby where you're in contact with women' then wouldn't it be reasonable that the men you date would be skeptical of those hobbies? Doubly so if he picked you up there. I'm curious, what if your man built you a private archery range? Would you entertain the idea of going less (or just not going without your dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you date an obese woman if you loved her personality?That's chalked up to three things (but really just one that presents in several different ways to artificially inflate the value of overweight women) Supply and demand: the 'sylph' (I'm assuming you mean slender/ model-esque) build would immediately put you in the top 10% of women in the US (by my guesstimation, somewhere around 10% who aren't overwieght are skinnyfat and another 10% just don't carry the weight well and aren't fit enough to offset it). The supply is low and the demand is functio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleRight and to your credit not all women using dating apps are actually trying to generate a healthy sexual relationship. But on the other side of the coin the merits of the apps tend to get taken for granted a lot when this argument gets levied . You know the women on there are single You know the women on there are looking for a sexual relationship (potentially with you if you match) You can screen for certain disqualifiers right off the cuff, for example I'm allergic to cats. How many single gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Men here only think they have low standards because they are blind to most things Women do as defaultI'm with you on the fish but if you've got a nice car/motorcycle it's probably still better than the average 5 dating app pictures to post your ride and demonstrates he's not a total bum. Same thing as the suit picture or the gym picture. You could argue both are a performance for men, but there's a pretty wide audience of women who like men who are in good shape and/or in a suit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 08:45 AM |
| -1 | Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception?Yeah that tends to be my problem. My boundaries are hard to find, but when you do I don't budge then usually the friction turns into a greasefire and I have to re-evaluate my stance on MGTOW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 06:52 AM |
| -1 | Men who expect the worst out of women: How would you know if you found an exception?This guy gets it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 05:49 AM |
| 4 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Both combined constitute a sample of around 3200 couples. So less than 1% of 1% of couples. The p value of these analysis is probably close enough to 1 to not warrant posting them at all. I think the OC had a good take for this reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 03:23 AM |
| -1 | Men should do what they want, not what women want them to doYou didn't read to the bottom did you? You should read to the bottom before replying. I made a whole ass paragraph about the dude equivalent 🙄 Character for character I actually typed MORE about dudes and roasted them a little harder *Extra buffer paragraph to offset my loss of faith about you specifically reading the entire message before hitting send | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 10:41 AM |
| 2 | What non-anecdotal evidence do we have that women are happier in marriage now than they were in historical retrospective?You ever ordered bottle service? Met a stripper? (Onlyfans, influencer of any kind, there are a bunch of low effort high return jobs under this umbrella for relatively fit young women) Seen what HR does most days? Or my personal new favorite, any admin/sales position in the burgeoning marijuana trade? I literally met a dude last week who forgot more about growing smoking and selling weed than most people will ever know. Lost his job to a hot 20-nothing stoner chick who couldn't tell a terpene fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:10 AM |
| 4 | Men should do what they want, not what women want them to doI mean. This might be sarcasm for you and I'm definitely not making a sweeping generalization here but 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'. Some ladies do carry that shit around forever and just kindof offload it onto whatever simp will tolerate it. Same way terminally online dudes carry around their internalized misogyny and dump it online because we're men and nobody but the echo chamber will tolerate that kindof behavior from us (unless you're really really ridiculously good looking) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 03:03 AM |
| 5 | What non-anecdotal evidence do we have that women are happier in marriage now than they were in historical retrospective?I like how this study gets tossed around without thinking of the actual implications. Women take the bigger financial hit in divorce because women categorically marry more financially attractive men. So leaving him and getting a percentage of his take home (by way of alimony and/or child support) while bearing none of the responsibility for him or your wedding vows looks like a big hit on paper, but if you're a SAHM or have a 'lazy girl job' you're being subsidized by your ex and the government. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:45 PM |
| – | The monosphere epidemic in men today is ALL women’s faultATM would be an improvement. They literally want to extract as much value as possible, not just money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Guys are not bad at sex-- you areThe first part of the prompt has a completely different meaning when you leave out the second part. My favorite professor had a saying for times like this. 'Correct, but you didn't answer the question' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:50 PM |
| 4 | What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options?I think this is a reasonable answer. Or at least it reflects my experience. But I think in a significant way you're making OP's point. It took a lot of time invested and 'work' to participate in hookup culture (for me). Shit when I was in my 'hoe phase' it was basically a full time job and even then I'd be lucky to sleep with a different girl once a season. I had a buddy where almost every party we went to together he didn't leave alone. The ROI for him was much higher for much less effort and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Serious talk - do women actually segregate men into 'alphafux' and 'betabux' at first glance?That's a lot of words to say 'dating apps are designed to find two people who want to have sex with each other'. Tbh I'm being a little willfully obstinate there, but if all of a sudden tomorrow you segregate all women into a subsection of dating apps earmarked 'friends' or 'ACE only'. Or better yet, the guys who weren't 'successful' on dating apps all left then I'd bet my left nut they wouldn't be able to keep the lights until 2025. That being said I think there IS a good argument to be made th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Serious talk - do women actually segregate men into 'alphafux' and 'betabux' at first glance?That's a very strange take. Sex (and an argument could be made for romance,but that is another provision by men to endear themselves to women who would otherwise not consider sex with them) is the ONLY difference between a romantic relationship and a friendship. I mean, do you know anyone who's on the ACE spectrum on dating apps? Have you ever sat down and talked to someone who explicitly says 'I'm not here for sex, I'm not interested in sex, and I may not ever be, LF a meaningful connection' ? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Serious talk - do women actually segregate men into 'alphafux' and 'betabux' at first glance?I googled it. Responsive desire is a type of sexual desire that occurs in response to arousal or external environmental cue So we already knew for a fact Bumble was going to go bankrupt. That ivory tower women sit in waiting to get saved has a fuckin textbook entry 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:53 AM |
| 5 | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityNot just 'go outside' No girls at the skatepark. Like 2 at the rock wall (and one is a lesbian the other is surrounded by guys like the sex ball thing snakes do) Honestly the best reason for guys to go to college is it's the last true third space. You're still FORCED into proximity with the opposite sex in an environment where you don't need to maintain approximately one water polo player's worth of social weight. Can't speak to the legitimacy of disc servers, the couple I've been on with voice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 01:46 PM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?'if you never had cancer how dare you give morphine to a chemo patient' 'if you've never had anaphylaxis how dare you use an epi pen on someone' People are perfectly capable of demonstrating care and empathy despite not being wracked with the same disease. You probably have an opinion on war despite not only never having shot anything, but also probably never even been in a fight. And I respect that opinion. Well I have an opinion on an infirmity, even though I am not the exact type of infirm as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 10:10 AM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Bruh. Now you're being willfully obstinate 'drive if needed' 'cold towel' 'check on them from time to time' And that's just off the top of my head with (at best) tangential interest in the topic. Do you think this site is suggesting Casper the friendly ghost place the cool towel? No bro, it's a loved one/close friend. A second party facilitating the alleviation of s/sx and prevention of worsening of condition (by providing for that person, allowing them to do less but still remain attended to) N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:47 AM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Not all migraines are created equal, you're objectively wrong. https://www.ninds.nih.gov/health-information/disorders/migraine Two people's empirical opinions hardly constitute a reliable data set. ANND how you FEEL about the situation can severely change your tolerance of external stimuli. So thank you for sharing your feelings but 1. You don't represent all migraines 2. You don't represent all infirmities Idk why you'd toss my link back at me. Egocentrism is a core component of solipsism. If o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 05:09 AM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Oh ok, so all migraines are the same and your experience is universal and I'm categorically wrong in (most)all scenarios. Got it, thanks, what a refreshing and nuanced take/s https://www.britannica.com/topic/solipsism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:53 AM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Igualmente | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 01:33 AM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Why not? You can be left approximately alone and still be attended to. I work night shift in the hospital, that's literally the whole game lol. I don't think you get it, which is interesting because I'm accused of 'treating people like npcs' but your point is becoming aggressively antisocial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 01:26 AM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Big yikes. Who said they were entertaining the person who is not infirm? Storytime. All 3 of my longest relationships had their wisdom teeth removed when they were with me (at various timetables. Each had tried to push me away and say it was no big deal, each time I insisted they let me care for them. Each time the outcome was unequivocally better and brought us closer for my 'treating them like an npc'. So. Why did I do this? Because my first girlfriend insisted on the same, so even though she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 01:10 AM |
| – | Would you rather hire a woman or a golden retriever(it's satire of the bear in the woods meme, OP changed woods with office and bear with dog) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:37 PM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Why would you assume this is the first date and not the 30th? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:36 PM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?Let me put it this way. In every relationship there's going to come a time where one or both people are going to fall into hardship. Usually during these times it's revealed what is important to both parties. If you come into hardship and your first reaction is to isolate yourself/pull away then I think my point is made clear. This is the behavior of a dying animal, one with a deep distrust of the world around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 10:35 PM |
| – | What is going on w women who are hot and cold about actually hanging out?I'm not a fan of this logic. If the point of dating is to look for an LTR then wouldn't it behoove you to roll those dice and assume the person you're dating is going to know how to spend time with you even when you're less than 100% instagrammable. Or read another way: women not willing to be vulnerable around the person they're seeing is another way to reject the guy/play games/or add another brick to the wall between her and a healthy heterosexual relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themNo, that's not what she's saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 08:40 PM |
| -1 | I think if an “alone at night would you feel more wary encountering a strange man or strange woman?” hypothetical went viral instead of the “bear” one, men would have still been aggrievedI'm sorry to hear that. However you surely recognize your own bias in the hypothetical right? That being asked I do respect that it really only takes one bad experience to poison the well. My point is that if the well is poisoned that's not a good excuse to stop drinking water, it's a good excuse to dig a new well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 02:55 AM |
| 1 | I think if an “alone at night would you feel more wary encountering a strange man or strange woman?” hypothetical went viral instead of the “bear” one, men would have still been aggrievedThat's one of the better arguments I've seen, but that's still assuming >50% of men are bad people who would do bad things if no one was watching. Is that the official stance of the council of women?/s (I understand women aren"t a monolith but it's food for thought) I assure you the bear and the car are more dangerous than any man you will ever meet. So why isn't there a visceral parasympathetic response (fear, you can just say fear) of these extremely dangerous things? I blame murder porn on Ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 02:27 AM |
| -8 | I think if an “alone at night would you feel more wary encountering a strange man or strange woman?” hypothetical went viral instead of the “bear” one, men would have still been aggrievedYou mean the people that protect you maintain your infrastructure run your government guarantee most of your rights (completely reasonable to be salty about Roe v. Wade getting repealed. I'm with the ladies on that one. Family planning matters, abstinence is not a reasonable expectation), made extinct at least 3 predators (in recent history) that would eat you/ your children/your mom at the drop of a hat? The creatures that almost literally moved heaven and Earth to ensure you never had to actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:09 AM |
| 2 | I disagree that women’s dating preferences show entitlement, however I think it is unfair that men can’t as easily demand the same.Relationships now are transactions, we just hide them under the veil or romcoms. Women are allowed to use credit, most men have to pay upfront, on time, and I'd guess nearly every day. But in the interest of not just handwaving your point away (or at least playing devil's advocate). Doesn't that mean the 70% divorce rate would mean MOST people don't like each other anyway? When given the freedom and means men have, most women leave their marriages. So if people wind up with people who are genuin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 06:37 AM |
| -1 | I disagree that women’s dating preferences show entitlement, however I think it is unfair that men can’t as easily demand the same.Those are all subjective qualifiers, but you don't seem to be in the mood to discuss this, so I'll let you cook. Lmk when the meal's ready | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 06:25 AM |
| 2 | I disagree that women’s dating preferences show entitlement, however I think it is unfair that men can’t as easily demand the same.Well here's my hot take, compatibility isn't subjective. We used to make due with the maybe 5 elidgable bachelor(ette)s that were available and you stayed with that person because of social expectations and possibly a rigid theological doctrine. In other words, you picked the person who picked you. As soon as shotgun weddings were out of the picture standards became a real thing and now all of a sudden attraction isn't negotiable and you start tacking on 'ands' ad nauseum until the person you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 03:48 AM |
| 3 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusOkay maybe I should've added a /j The point was in terms of attention from the opposite sex. And if you're batting 1.000 then I need to be taking notes from you brother (but I'm guessing this is wildly hyperbolic, if you're actually getting 10/10 matches that are interested and actively engaging with you, then you need to be the one running a podcast my guy. Even at my peak I'd give it a coin flip at best, then about a 25% 'meet irl rate' because the other 25% while potentially interested in me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 10:40 AM |
| 5 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusThat's apex fallacy my guy, you represent a minority, your perspective is violently skewed from abundance. Congrats, now you know what it feels like to be an ugly girl. Let me put it to you this way. Why do you think those 'undesirable' women are hitting you up? Because they don't want 'undesirable' men. I've been in both chairs, the 'wtf, they keep picking douchebags' AND the 'top x%'. It sounds like you've either forgotten what it's like to be 'undesirable' or simply never had to care, in eith… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 08:42 AM |
| 7 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusThe attention from a guy trying to pump and dump isnt desirable at all The pump and dump isn't desirable, the guy doing it is. Have you seriously never met 'that guy'? We can do some storytime, but the tl;dr is that the standard is higher, the dating market is globalizing and that pushes more and more 'average' men into 'less than desirable' territory. As for the first quote this is not new information. Growing up my dad used to say 'pretty guys are just ugly chicks'. Didn't know what he meant u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.Well, it's creepy until a guy you really like does it. I doubt any company would keep something like that up there if it only served to violently offend its already dwindling female constituency. Well i think it's offensive so many women just want to jump into a long term monogamous relationship asap. What? Do you not want me for my body? Are you only talking to me because I'm kind and creative and technically competent, and good with kids and have a great smile and have a cute, well trained dog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 07:51 PM |
| 8 | Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive.I definitely empathize with you on the icebreaker stuff, but on the other hand, if the shoe fits 🤷♂️ don't put out sexual questions if you don't want sexual answers. As for meeting quickly? Too many women are VERY happy with a pen pal. I got a buddy in Egypt if I wanted to get to know someone interesting and have no plans to meet. And on a more reasonable perspective it's generally a good idea to take charge and introduce the concept quickly, I have a couple ladyfriends and their primary compla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 09:04 AM |
| -4 | How likely are you to believe someone who says they've been raped? What factors would influence your judgement?The problem is threefold Obtaining consent that would hold in court is a very non-smooth thing to do (okay baby, before we get started I'm going to need to to sign and initial this sexual liability waiver, and submit a clean STD panel). Consent can be withdrawn after the fact. Because of 2, you can decide you've been raped even if at no point during the exchange you expressed anything but enthusiastic consent. So do most people lie about it? Probably not, but that's partially because in a legal … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 07:17 AM |
| 2 | A feminist argument against going 50/50?Well hold on, there's a significant bias in the court system tword mothers. If you're already fighting for custody odds are you've already lost a significant amount of assets, are going to pay alimony and if you go to court odds are you're the de facto bankroll for your wife's divorce lawyer too. I don't think many men can even afford to fight for their kids in a legal sense, and there are probably a significant number that recognize the more money you spend on legal fees the less you actually H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 05:30 PM |
| 11 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?Girl math is feral, so don't get worked up when they want to die alone in the woods? Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do great men engage in such misogyny?Well since you had the perfect opportunity to actually tell me or make your point like a big girl and decided to troll. I don't honestly know. However the brain works by relation. If this then that. If hear howl then beware wolf If taste bitter then beware poison If someone responds with sarcasm online and outside of interpersonal context and the humor is only at the expense of someone else... You get the gist. It kindof doesn't matter at this point. This isn't an innocent until proven guilty si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do great men engage in such misogyny?Passive aggressive. Got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do great men engage in such misogyny?Sarcasm online is the language of the insecure/passive aggressive. If you have a point to make, make it. If you don't then don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Why do great men engage in such misogyny?Nah, if they actually hated women they'd make a bunch of superficial changes to convince you they are something besides hollow and then learn to play the stupid games and tell the beautiful lies that'd allow them to get laid. Trust me. No one does misogyny like a guy in the top .1% of dudes as far as body count. They believe the worst in women like the bottom x% of women believe of all men (and some bears) The guys actually objectifying, gaslighting, and abusing women are the guys you (the colle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | In a healthy relationship there is no reason for women to cheat.How are burdens bourn? I wouldn't let a toddler carry 50lbs to the neighbor's house but a teenager? I don't know that emotional maturity is all that different from physical maturity except that the physical is obvious and leas optional. Both are improved by practice and diligence. I do understand different strokes for different folks, but I think the rhetoric of low agency 'you were born this way so instead of working on yourself just fuck around and do hedonism' is dangerous. If you do not prac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 05:39 AM |
| -1 | In a healthy relationship there is no reason for women to cheat.I was with you until the temptation thing. 'if you're tempted to lie you're incompatible with the truth' 'if you're tempted by sloth you're incompatible with work' 'if you're tempted by cocaine you're incompatible with sobriety' That logic by any other sin/vice sounds absolutely batshit insane. The hard choices matter. Why is it we can make sacrifices and delay gratification to work for a job that will probably drop you the minute you no longer serve them optimally and whenever legal, but when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 04:52 AM |
| – | Bumble might now allow men to make the first move. What do you think?Bumble was launched and piloted by a strong independent woman. Had a bunch of faith in her gender. Later realized that faith was misplaced and most women don't have any desire to have any kind of burden of initiative in dating. Almost like they wanted the benefits of masculinity without realizing or shouldering any of the responsibility. Surprised pikachu face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 10:23 AM |
| – | If you really believe that having great social skills doesnt give you a huge leverage in dating as a man you are delusional.Tre flip double foot plant brother https://youtube.com/shorts/KEqX5slzNyk?si=H6CPRYORF2gTim3p There's a baseline level of skill required even if you understand how to initiate the sequence of events. Kindof like me saying, roll toward the rocks (then tre flip double foot plant). That seems to be the problem, opening up an interaction is not hard. Closing it is difficult. Toeing the line between 'friendzone' and 'creep' is difficult. Guys have to learn to spin plates to even start to play the gam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 09:48 AM |
| 1 | For men who prefer that women don’t wear makeup or say it’s not necessary - share a picture of a woman you find attractive not wearing makeup?The internet is tricky because if you google 'woman no make up no filter' well ... You aren't going to get a very good sample I can say I have a lot more respect for the women who show up to work with no/minimal makeup than the ones who come in and I can't for the life of me tell you what she actually looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?I uh. I was going to say more things but you covered it. Have a nice day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?I think you hit the nail on the head. Women mistake 'sex' as 'someone to objectify' Then say 'if you want to objectify someone there are women you can pay for it' Not realizing when most guys say 'sex' they're alluding to intimacy and validation, not just the mechanical act. I think the escort (and by extension onlyfans) routes are dangerous. Paying for sex is one thing, but throwing intimacy/interpersonal feels into the mix seems to me like the perfect recipe for complete degeneracy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 10:00 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Males should pay for the first date because makeup is expensiveRight, but generally when you pay you get to decide the service rendered. If I pay for a sandwich, and I don't like the sandwich, or the staff makes it improperly, etc. etc. then they're liable for a refund and usually I get to keep the sandwich. So if I'm paying for your makeup, and the date, and whatever else. Then I don't have a good time/don't like how it looks/ am dissatisfied with your service for any reason do I get to send you an invoice for a refund? Probably no right? Meaning this is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Are muscles over rated?I don't think you understand the relationship between size (muscle mass) and relative bloodflow (to the brain), but that's okay. Job security for me. The quote you posted hit the nail on the head. Lmk if you want help understanding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Are muscles over rated?You didn't read far enough. That's okay my guy. Come back after spending a few years in an ICU when you understand a little more about the relationship between pressure and volume. You have to combine knowledge from all three nih articles in order to understand the theory. You're really close though, that F=MA also applies to every single surface in your body (including the inside). This time I found a video so you might have an easier time connecting the dots. https://youtu.be/RVYKlsoEEMU?si=PC… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Are muscles over rated?Blood volume is fixxed on an individual level in relation to the vessels (which change in size) I'm not arguing about pro fighters here. People who know how to get hit are going to be harder to knock out no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Are muscles over rated?Resistance=Diameter of the vessel divided by flow (P/V) And somewhat impacted by vessel length https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2290287/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7649325/ You're welcome to brush up on some literature if you'd like but if you're committed to namecalling I'll summarize for you. 'whether or not you get knocked out can be influenced by the pressures present in your skull' Want to try? Flex real hard, take a deep breath, hold it and bear down. Commonly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Are muscles over rated?Right, but that's kindof my point, we evolved (or spawned if that's your thing) as generalists, specialized less for strength and bigness, more for teamwork and intelligence. We don't swim better than any swimmer Don't climb better than any climber Don't run anywhere near par for most terrestrial things that run And most animals in your weight class outlift/out strength you without much trouble We aren't designed to be the biggest or baddest so it makes sense to me that bodybuilders tend to be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Is social media necessary for a man that's looking to date in this day and age?It'd like your driver's license and functions as identification on a professional level. It's probably more helpful than you think for two reasons. I am who I say I am. There's a name, picture and credentials I can actually get reported for ethical/personal misconduct. It's never said out loud but giving you my license number is a show of good faith. 'you don't need to trust me because you have my literal job in your hands'. Even a Dui is grounds to review someone's medical licensure. Imagine if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Is social media necessary for a man that's looking to date in this day and age?Lol near impossible. That's why when I get suss'd I just given em my medical license number 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 08:21 AM |
| 4 | Are muscles over rated?I'll give you the steroid use, but there's a good reason you don't see hyper jacked dudes playing tennis or soccer or skateboarding. Why do you think that is? Ask a bodybuilder to scratch his own back. Now ask someone at 150lbs~ 5'9. Same thing with pro fighting. Those guys might be somewhat big, but notice their builds/muscles aren't terribly exaggerated. Tone is the more important factor. And again, to be fair to you, for 9/10 people in the gym big muscles aren't going to make a big difference… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 08:02 AM |
| 10 | Are muscles over rated?To be fair there's an 'athletic' meta. Muscles aren't overrated, bodybuilding for the sake of bodybuilding is. I imagine the standards are only slightly skewed for men and women here. Women want athletic/healthy/ with a skew toward musculature. Men want fit/healthy/ with a skew toward curvature. When you get super ripped or super lean you're falling into a niche. Biologically speaking, pound for pound people are among the weakest, least physically capable animals ever. And our brains consume a m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 07:21 AM |
| – | Why do I find most women who grew up in broken households to be Hypocritical?Good advice, but that's also the tricky part. Literally everyone wants that and I don't think very many people really have a grip on their red flags/how their broken-ness influences their actions. My Nana gave me the same advice after my last break up, little 90 something year old woman. I had to break it to her that many people come from broken homes and we are all broken in some way. What's important is to find the broken that fits with yours imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/24 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill ManBlack pill is a relatively extreme view that physical appearance trumps almost every other trait. Attraction is non-negotiable, furthermore the bulk of attractive traits for men are biology (not something you can actively improve without surgery). On a practical level it manifests in the chadfishing experiments where guys make fake dating profiles of extremely attractive men and put references to neo-nazism and active p*dophilia in their bios. Needless to say the results were disheartening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooWith what? Nobody said they had boats. Usually the men build those 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 09:02 AM |
| 9 | If a woman can't handle your insecurities, run like you're one with the Speedforce*💯 I was in a relationship like this for 4 years. Exhausting. Like trying to hold someone up with your pinky. Some days you've got the balance right, but any turbulence whatsoever and the facade crumbles like wet single ply toilet paper in a leafblower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:58 AM |
| 2 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.Right but the two are inextricably related, and are neighbors with self-respect and temperance against a more base nature. The brain is programmed to operate on relational data. For example: 'all men are pigs' is a feature not a bug. That kind of cognitive dissonance is required in order to effectively navigate this mortal coil and self-preserve. A reasonable person might respond 'no, the ones you're dating seem to be though' and that's another relative un-truth because if the original speaker w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 04:04 AM |
| 2 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.My stance is that you are what you practice. (Not sure where you got the whole paternity/insecurity thing, because I think that's only a fraction of the issue at hand) If you practice fidelity, responsibility, and accountability that's the kind of person you become. If you practice the inverse you become the inverse. Now I'm not big on the paternity fraud argument but let's roll with it. Which person would you trust with your life, livelihood, children, household, (dare I say) heart? Someone who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 03:55 AM |
| 2 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.It's hard to find bears on the trails. I don't know why you'd automatically assume you aren't some combination of lost/stranded. I do like where your head is at, but even so the bear is the more dangerous companion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.It doesn't matter. The bear will still never actually help you. The best case scenario is for the bear to completely lose interest in you. The best case scenario is for the man and woman to stay and work together. I think this might be starting to become a 'would you rather be stuck in the woods with a bear or a woman' issue, because the deep seated distrust, unchecked neuroticism, and marked lack of prioritization may actually make any given random woman a detriment to the goal here (I'm assumi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.Right. But your point is that the original question was asked by a man to a woman (which I'm not sure is true but even if it is), so why is that relevant? Why does it even matter who asked? The answer seems to be the point of contention. And i don't even think you two hold mutually exclusive beliefs, the original question could be asked by a man and the trend could still be propagated by women in order to justify their radically irrational answer(s) (it's you, hi, you're the victim it's you). Er… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.Uh. Instead of addressing the point you attack the person or some aspect of the person..... Like their gender. But go off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooHaving no options doesn't mean a guy is undesirable or even that he hasn't been picked. Granted there IS going to be a reason, one of the more common ones being social isolation and pre-selection being increasingly important. The rich get richer the poor get less and less. I don't think it's an accident that the income gap and sexual partner gap for men are mirrors of each other while we're on the topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:51 AM |
| 2 | The bear in the woods debate is not enlightening and doesn’t do any good but cause stress between men and women.It wasn't supposed to be a difficult question. Even if we assume the average man is more dangerous (he's not) or likely to eat you (he's not unless this is a sex joke now). The guy might actually help you survive, and some can/will actually help you navigate out of the woods, and if you get really lucky you'll get a survivalist and may even find the return to nature liberating (under the supervision and leadership of a relatively well-versed man). At absolute best the bear will lose interest in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 05:46 AM |
| – | The 80:20 rule some men push is flipped.If men didn't give a fuck it really would only be the 1% getting any attention. We hold the romantic burden, burden of competence, confidence and burden of initiative. The whole 'be youself' and 'you'll find love when you aren't looking' rhetoric only works if SOMEONE ELSE comes and finds you, makes the first move, creates a vibe, creates romantic interest, put themselves on the line and pulls the trigger. L take. We can't have both genders turning their noses up at each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 05:21 AM |
| 6 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:11 AM |
| 20 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooNobody wants to be the “first decent option” to men who have “very little choice” and are thus, settling. This is how so many women wind up dating the same guy. Everyone will settle or die alone. What's important is to value the person you pick, not what you imagine in your head that you deserve/'need'. As to the double standard? I'm not sure I follow. Most guys HAVE to take what they get or get nothing. There is no double standard here. Men are dying of dehydration in the desert and women are d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 03:09 AM |
| 2 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.Okay then enjoy your double standards and I'll do the same 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 02:42 AM |
| 3 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.Funny how when the rhetoric gets genderswapped it's an insult huh? https://youtu.be/orqqdCmnWyo?si=GZ6l9mNbmoL24y3i | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 02:33 AM |
| 5 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.Then giving said woman room board vacations retirement benefits when she couldn't be bothered with the 'uptight' late bloomer is a ridiculous ask. Granted I don't believe in 'late bloomers', but in general 'uptight' traits are highly valued if you want marriage/children. The guys that aren't uptight? Make songs like this funny: https://youtu.be/S100c5-CiM4?si=-WyrXPRXSKzz0mIz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 02:29 AM |
| 5 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.But that's like saying 'most men gamble away their savings until they hit ~40' 'after 40 they start saving for a house and kids and vacations etc.' That's a conscious deliberate choice. You wouldn't call it high standards to have a man NOT gamble away all his money right? Same concept | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 01:45 AM |
| 17 | An obsession to get with a virgin woman is mainly an American thing.Nope. Virginity is valued near ubiquitously across time and culture. https://www.np.reddit.com/r/DebateReligion/s/mSyA0JUTof One good reason men stopped talking about body count in general is it's generally a great way to immediately lose 'the game'. Let me put it this way: showing ANY concerns about a modern woman's sexual history may immediately put you in the 'not confident', 'insecure' bucket. The other big reason is that it's basically unrealistic to expect a virgin. Would everyone be happy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Men are the ones who settle.The master's degree/ movie producer guy is settling now? Wild. In the US if you have an MBA you're already in the top 10~15% Movie producers are sub 1% in their field. Both dusty now ig Sometimes I'll feel the optimism coming back to my body, some hope for the future and the iPad kids. Then I'll read some shit like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 10:32 PM |
| 2 | In response to the "why are promiscuous women undesirable but doesn't necessarily apply to promiscuous men"I traded half my lifespan for shinigami eyes. Now I can see everyone's number floating above their head and am locked in mortal psychological combat with a teenager from Japan | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Well it depends on what you spend those 5 years doing, but all else equal 5 years of young/ adulthood is a long time and demarcates a gap in maturity and/or trajectory 5 years in your 20s is anywhere between 85~40% of your adult decision making life. I used raised eyebrows on the most extreme end. Significace for me is not about how other people perceive the interaction. Normal =\= insignificant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 07:54 AM |
| 3 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Are you projecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:53 AM |
| 0 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Scroll back up, read it slowly. I said 5 significant. 2 is meh. Don't put words in my mouth; if you're going to quote me to me make it an actual quote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Libellous and demonstrably inaccurate response. I plotted two points. On the low end it'd be really weird for a senior in highschool to be dating an 8th grader. On the high end we have a negligible age gap in their golden years. Now with that scale in mind plot the points for single gen Z women. They're much closer to the point where age gap matters so much it's grounds to question the intentions of the people involved. That is fact. Older is older younger is younger. I'm not playing 'dad bod' j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:39 AM |
| 5 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Well let's put it this way, if a 12th grader was dating an 8th grader that'd raise some eyebrows. If a 70y/o was dating a 75 y/o it'd be super cute and wholesome. The older you get the less the age gap matters, the younger you are the more it matters. Gen Z is MUCH closer to 12th grade than a retirement home. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:31 AM |
| 8 | If most younger women are dating older men, should MATURE younger men attempt to date older women?Is this the same kinda womanese as 'dad bod' meaning 'off season bodybuilder'? 2-5 years is definitely older. 5 years is a very significant gap anywhere in your 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"If you're able to avoid tik tok/social media brain you're going to be way ahead of the curve. And I will say, that 'duh' is easier said than done. You'd have to have made a lot of difficult decisions to have made it through young adulthood in gen z as a well rounded person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Unpopular opinion: Pressuring women to hurry up and get married and pregnant ASAP actually makes it harder to date/form a "happy family"I mean. Have you ever heard the expression 'it's funny because it's true'? There's another expression to go along with it 'if you tell the truth and no one laughs you're an asshole' 'if you tell the truth and everyone laughs you're funny' Now. From a biological perspective an empty 'carton' at 30 is a stretch. It's more important to have a healthy, well rounded partner who's firmly outside the dopamine ferris wheel and focused on contentment/building a life with their S/O (and I think this is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 03:59 AM |
| 5 | “80%” of men are not unequivocally “doomed” to never experience carnal desire and affection from a womanIt kindof is though. Video games are to men what cats are to women. They distract you from the point, help you fill your biological role (competence and nurturing an ambivalent critter respectively), it's free dopamine. Granted, when I'm talking to the young men I found accidentally incelling post-Covid my philosophy is 'anime, video games and gym will not get you laid'. I've been encouraging them to go out, meet new people, make stories, flex some small talking ability. But, even I know, even a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Reasons why the Red Pill want a war so badly?Most guys find TRP by either coming out the wrong end of loving, respectful, attentive relationships. Or realizing nice guys finish last. At it's most moderate TRP encourages men to get 'an edge' and some basic boundaries, and self improvement At it's most extreme (where content creators sit) TRP is about highlighting just how low the bar is for modern women, how little a significant (maybe not most) population brings 'to the table', combined with some armchair evolutionary biology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I think wealthy men do actually care about how much money a woman hasAnd monks live longer than married men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 08:58 AM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menW rizz https://youtube.com/shorts/aqMaL0xNcDw?si=2Y9JZWb9xdfdybNn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Young women are not conflating their RMV with their SMVI mean that was certainly true up until the agricultural revolution and for olympic athletes. Most women are skinny fat or just fat fat. Very few are fit to the level it impacts their fertility (and if they are some dudes love the 'free' birth control). I have seen a couple jacked dudes with chubby girls. Fat though? Idk about that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?I'm not bashing em. It's kindof like saying. 'oh you don't like mushrooms? Cool. More for me' Enjoy the underside of that bridge though sounds like you're going to be there a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:27 AM |
| 4 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?Brother in order to be a pick me you'd need a face and name to be picked. Idk about you but reddit is pretty much the opposite of a dating app as far as social media is concerned. Your whole. Read it again slower. I only used to word incel as an inclusion point, it's the subject of the sentence not the predicate. Let me explain. It's kind of like a letter To: men having sex and to men who haven't yet but want to From: me Message: if you don't (tr)eat your girl right, she'll appreciate me more Pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:15 AM |
| 2 | 4b movement isn’t so badIt's kindof like quitting smoking. If you tell a bunch of people, odds are you're not actually interested in quitting, you're interested in looking like you're quitting. I'd love to see what happens when a top x% man interested in long term monogamy starts pursuing a '4b girl'. And same for a fit feminine and friendly woman pursuing a MGTOW guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:19 PM |
| 10 | 4b movement isn’t so badBump. They're kindof doing the men left in the dating pool a huge favor. If you got burned hard enough to swear off men altogether odds are you're an alpha widow and just going to be bitter mistreat the guy you 'settle' for. Ironically not realizing that he's probably the one settling on paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?K. you do you dawg. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:42 PM |
| – | Most men dropped out of dating pool, Testosterone Level droppingI mean do you really need me to demonstrate? I don't think you've ever actually been intimidated before if that's the case. Here's one interaction. https://youtu.be/HQTQ5oJkmWk?si=SeP7lEs5q2Jc4FY0 Here's one interaction https://youtu.be/Yl9bgcBf-6M?si=kHIRj60BBru1KojS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?Honestly? Not a bad way to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:38 PM |
| – | Most men dropped out of dating pool, Testosterone Level dropping(What OC is talking about is textbook manipulation and intimidation) You can abuse someone with one interaction. Don't gaslight this person, don't try to invalidate his experience that's abusive (see what I did there?) You are way off your game today.Take 10, take a breather. Wash off the garbage take. Legally you might need a chain of evidence, but not everything needs to be litigious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?Wtf are you talking about? Y'know what? Idc. If you want to have an esoteric pop culture conversation. Ask Mike Vallely Ask Paul William Ask Dan Green | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:02 PM |
| – | If women desire commitment and men desire sex, why does the former prefer already committed ones but the latter doesn't?Is this like a gen z thing? Everything's a situationship until you're married huh? Ironically returning to tradition, but more Sodom & Gomorrah than wholesome family values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:43 AM |
| – | If women desire commitment and men desire sex, why does the former prefer already committed ones but the latter doesn't?Everyone in a monogamous committed relationship has a ring on their left hand? Seems like a pretty callous claim imho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:25 AM |
| – | If women desire commitment and men desire sex, why does the former prefer already committed ones but the latter doesn't?If we're talking about raw time spent, then figuring out if she's attracted to you/generating attraction is the primary and secondary goal, everything else is tertiary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:57 AM |
| – | If women desire commitment and men desire sex, why does the former prefer already committed ones but the latter doesn't?I mean. He was harsh, but the short answer is yeah, kinda. The respectful dudes aren't the ones drowning in pussy. https://youtu.be/C9ONWHXCsrk?si=_CfUOkOSDMMLY6v1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:26 AM |
| 11 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?Normally I lean red but this rhetoric is just dumb. Look at it this way, what better way to mate guard than to be the reason the orgasm gap is closing? That and it's probably fair to call me a beta no matter what I do. Amateur skateboarder (but never good enough to get on TV) Garage band musician (but haven't played a show since high scool) Accomplished clinician (but not noteworthy) Athletic (but very few outfits are flattering) Definitely not blowing anyone's mind with my remarkably average Jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:53 AM |
| 25 | Why do women like giving blowjobs?Yeah going to pipe up for the boys with an oral fixation. If you're not eating your girl and/or don't plan to when your inceldom ends? Thank you for making me look like a sex god despite my unremarkable equipment 🫡 That and (from my POV) it's a lot easier (and this is slightly dark triad ladies, sorry) to get a woman excited to swallow your children if she anticipates/ already has had a gran mal seizure on your face that night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsDefinitely not 'no one' but certainly not everyone. But you're right. It'd be super weird to approximate a whole human being..... Woah wait, let's check popular books on Amazon real quick https://www.amazon.com/Pucking-Around-Choose-Romance-Jacksonville-ebook/dp/B0BPVJ4RVR?ref=abpmalc_23_3_us_psr_gs_d_alc_x_x_alc_iCDzDHOsMN_dsa100&gclid=CjwKCAjww_iwBhApEiwAuG6ccKORk7rOjlawplzXRBi8yYa5vXLvuZBll9pTbw-zcj0nyLzM8oVMgxoCIf8QAvD_BwE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsYou must be at least this hot to ride this face 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:42 PM |
| 5 | Men who claim that "we men are so horny and would fck anything with a pulse" are horrible and feed misandrist mythsYeah are we really not going to talk about the routinely oversized silicone vibrating robot dicks and mechanical clit ticklers? The list of socially acceptable places for any given man to put his dick pales in comparison to the billion+ dollar 'sex toy' industry that largely targets women (don't believe me? Walk into a sex shop, the men's 'toy' section pales in comparison) And then it's this huge surprised pikachu face when men are desperate and women are fine with their cats and wine and mechan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:38 PM |
| – | Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ?It's kindof like the 'black history month' paradox. Are you saying those things are only valid on those assigned days? Doesn't sound very romantic to me. To be fair, my LTR exxes tended not to be terribly materialistic, but even outside of the raw material gift giving, and even on those days I was generally responsible for planning, initiating, facilitating and paying for dates, events, most food stuffs. The bar for women taking romantic action unprompted is so low I even remember telling my ex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Yeah wanting kids implies a concrete goal and value system. 'not sure' implies to me you're lukewarm about one of the biggest decisions you could possibly make in life. One demonstrates an internal locus of control. 'i want this, I'm saying it out loud so I don't waste the time of people with different goals and while dating me you can decide if I'm accountable to that goal' One demonstrates an external locus 'maaaaybe if the right guy comes along and sweeps me off my feet and gives big daddy en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Apex fallacy. Not only should women plan to not be having children, doing so can represent a significant health risk and financial burden. Conception is not a victory condition. Delivering a healthy baby and baby mama is the goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:36 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:09 AM |
| – | How many minimum value women even exist in the US?Honestly yeah. I feel for you. I've run across a couple young women in this category (mentally, physically, emotionally healthy and mature with the explicit desire for a family and wont to become a good wife). It doesn't look fun, in an era where casual sex (at least to some degree) is near ubiquitous finding a man with those qualities in the reflexive and secure enough to wait (potentially until marriage) for sex must be a supremely daunting task. For a large number of modern dudes pre-committm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Well that's fine. I wasn't all that interested in being a pro skater, but I knew from a young age if I wanted to skateboard to any significant capacity I had to do it while I was still young or risk not accomplishing anything at all. In this parallel women who are still actively dating over 30 who aren't sure about kids or relationship goals are like me never getting on a skateboard and not being sure about it past my physical peak. Unlikely to accomplish much beyond whatever else I had already … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:10 AM |
| – | How many minimum value women even exist in the US?Well that's just it. The number may be better than 5% buttttt then you start throwing stuff in there. -shares your core values -is over her ex -accountable for her own life and actions -does something besides work, travel and rot on social media -is financially literate -minimizes her internalized misandry -actually likes you/ more specifically doesn't see herself as 'settling' just because you don't check off the 872 boxxes she's made over years of hypergamy validation and dating other guys wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 11:57 PM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?Oooh that's an interesting niche. But doesn't that invalidate you as a candidate for the theory? The idea is women choose differently on HBC than off of it because their hormones are tightly regulated. Yours weren't on it when you made your selection, meaning if the theory is plausible, you would be in the control group, not the test group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:29 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?Sokay, I appreciate the input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:01 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?What was the P value? And N size? (I'll look it up later if you don't have the info on hand, that's interesting, ty) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:57 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?I mean both are technically true. I used 'trick your body into thinking it's pregnant' as post ovulation a large injection of hormones IS what would happen to a pregnant woman to prevent the next cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:55 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?That first point was about biology. A notoriously inconsistent field of study. What is true for you is not true for everyone in all circumstances. But out of curiosity are you saying you were on HBC, met your husband, stopped HBC to procreate, did so, and maintain said marriage currently? (In a less douchey way of speaking, is your personal experience a direct counter or?) You don't need evidence to have a conversation. And you just (ironically) proved it (in your first sentence). I fully believ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:46 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?? Wym | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:04 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?Well there wasn't evidence supporting gravity until there was. You don't need evidence for every conversation. I'd be more surprised if it was categorically untrue, and think it's near impossible to be categorically true. Biology tends to like to work by the book ~50% of the time and the other 50? Lol fuck what you know, that's why it's called a medical PRACTICE. The reality is it's just not something people want to document. Aaaaand there's pharma incentive to NEVER have that study done and the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:03 AM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?There's an off the cuff theory that because hormonal birth control 'tricks' your body into thinking you're pregnant that women would opt to have fewer strangers in their lives and become more neurotic (to avoid activities and people that might potentially hurt them or the baby). I've never seen a formal study on it but anecdotally, yeah, it would make sense that a woman whose body thinks it is pregnant would be cautious about who she spends time with. And there are a few horror stories floating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companionAh damn. Lost me at longish hair. Also there's a weird dissonance between 'values lifelong monogamy' but you don't list if you want to be a wife or have children. Most couples that don't get married or have kids break up by the 5 year mark. There's the 2 year honeymoon slump, and the 5 year 'shit or get off the pot' territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:57 AM |
| 0 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickWell I'm kindof with you here in most scenarios for most sports, full of people you don't know and will never care about you. Leeching hundreds of millions in tax dollars alongside exorbitant merch prices, food/drink prices and ticket sales. However I do think there is masculine value in being invested in the sport YOU actively play/coach. You're watching athletes at their peak performance, learning strategies, techniques and gaining perspective on not only what is plausible, but feasible. (Gran… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: Could you be with a woman who doesn't make you laugh?I mean. That would honestly be better than the entertainment meta. I'm not your clown, and whenever I hear a woman say 'I want a guy who can make me laugh' or some iteration of such I assume either she's bored in her own life or watched too many romcoms (or is jealous of her friend's funny boyfriend). Taking life too seriously/not having a sense of humor is bad but saying 'I need a partner who regularly functions as a dancing monkey' is pretty silly. And this is coming from someone who is a rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 05:29 AM |
| 10 | Q4M: Could you be with a woman who doesn't make you laugh?Men don't view women as entertainment objects. Not only is it not important, its not even on the list | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 04:50 AM |
| 11 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?You should make a male account on a dating app sometime. I think you'd be surprised at the number of 35+ women 'not sure' about kids 'not sure' about seeking long term/ short term. Floating through life like jellyfish on the tide. Not saying men are innocent here, but it's a bipartisan issue. More than a few modern women really like ambiguous relationship goals and running the shot clock on the whole family planning thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 01:15 AM |
| – | How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations?'not my job' 'I'm just a med student, no need to remember the sn/sx of endometriosis, it's not even 1% of 1% of my grade and Cs get degrees, I'll do the work when I have the title'. Sounds like a shitty doctor right? At least go in with the intention of doing a good job. You are what you practice. In reality the title actually makes very little difference. You don't pop a ring on and automagically become a significant other. Arguing that the title precedes the behavior is asinine. It might be a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations?I'm the one who paid for all my anniversary trips, even when I was dating a software engineer lol. I did study medicine lol. Granted that's ad homiem, but it's not a good counter to me specifically. Odds are you're either financially irresponsible or making less than me anyway. I never had a problem sacrificing/compromising to demonstrate commitment, fidelity, and joy to spend the best times in my life to the women I chose. The cost was inconsequential because I always intended to act like a hus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations?You know who you sound like? https://youtu.be/j8Szl_JyCUQ?si=jC1lsd50_WXkwlu7 'bitch gon asked me to go with her to the grocery shop, I told her like this, straight up 'No siree Bob' that's not my job, I don't do that, I'm a pimp/rapper. I thought you knew that' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations?Then let me put it another way. A vacation is supposed to be a highlight of your life, time (money) you spend to reward yourself for work well done to celebrate yourself and (if the other is significant) the person you love. It's not about 'missing out on a week' it's that you don't view this hypothetical man as significant (if not essential) to that process. But do keep arguing this point though, you're giving a great insight as to what a wife is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations?Oh my mistake, I didn't realize quality of life had more to do with how much you spend than who you spend it with. What a wonderful rhetoric with which to find and maintain an insignificant other. If you want to be a pro skater you don't say 'well I'll just ride a scooter until I'm sponsored, I won't invoke any unnecessary hardship until I'm paid for it' If you want to be a musician you don't say 'well, I won't practice that hard, or spend much time in the studio because I'm not signed yet' Want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 4 | How would you feel if your girlfriend traveled alone because you can’t afford vacations?So you want the wife title without acting like one? Riiiiiiiight. I'm sure any man would be excited to give you a ring with that rhetoric. You are what you practice. If your intention is to practice being an 'acceptable' girlfriend GL getting that ring in 2024. Personally in the scenario you described I'd propose a more cost effective trip. There aren't many places in the world where you actually HAVE to buy expensive plane tickets to have a nice vacation. Your premise is selfish in a committed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I'm not convinced that women's sexuality is shamed more.But no individual man has that power. The collective will simp no matter what you do, no matter how strong the rhetoric (the solution to this was hardcore religiously enforced monogamy and as soon as it became ok to make babies and have sex outside of that framework we began the return to monke) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 01:24 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.I'mma say something super controversial here. Very few men get a detailed sexual history from their partner. It's self defeating. If I hear how much of a freak/slut you are then it's more difficult to take you seriously as a romantic interest. No I don't care that you fucked Diplo and he was less good than you wanted but still a generous and dexterous lover. There aren't actually very many ways to approach the topic and still get lucky. If I want you to fuck ME it's entirely counterproductive fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 01:17 PM |
| 5 | We talk about women selecting toxic men a lot, but we hardly seem to glance at the thought of men actively selecting toxic womenYep. I've dated from runway model to less than plain Jane From free spirited crystal-junkie neo-hippy to prison guard. The hotter they were generally the more I was expected to carry the team | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 07:11 AM |
| 6 | We talk about women selecting toxic men a lot, but we hardly seem to glance at the thought of men actively selecting toxic womenAlso the truly ridiculously good looking girls tend to be less enthusiastic in bed... And if you know nothing else about (non-NPD) men, know that enthusiasm is 90% or more of your grade in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 05:54 AM |
| 2 | How valid are womens fears of men?Right. The ridiculousness of the thing is meant to put the original claim into perspective. I work in a woman-dominated field and this is how I explain danger. If danger was really a concern we'd have far stricter policies on alcohol (at minimum) if not an outright return to robust public transport systems. Ergo danger is not the concern. You've simply turned a rational fear (men are stronger, and generally more aggressive) into misandry, making yourselves permanent victims instead of taking rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How valid are womens fears of men?Buy a lottery ticket while you're out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | How valid are womens fears of men?If your stance is to avoid harm your car is much more likely to accomplish that than any given male pedestrian. It's certainly not routine (unless we're talking about women in martial arts) Car accidents happen every day, some random dude punching women in new York made global headlines. You see what they want you to see, you believe what they want you to believe, you fear what they want you to fear. Regardless of reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:45 AM |
| 1 | How valid are womens fears of men?Ok, then no woman should ever get in a car. Your lifetime odds of getting in a severe car crash are about 1/93 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 12:38 AM |
| – | Man sues 27 women in an 'Are We Dating the Same Guy' Facebook groupYou're right. Libel laws PRE DATE the American revolution. Libel was illegal ~50 years before the Constitution was even drafted. The states can put their own spin on libel/slander, but you can't decriminalize it, part of freedom of speech (and sortof the whole 'life liberty and pursuit of happiness' deal) is freedom to defend your name/ your identity. Freedom of speech does not mean you can say whatever you want about whoever you want. However the burden of proof is generally on the person defen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 07:06 PM |
| -1 | Rich guys are not on redditWat. That first part was great but that second part reads like you had a stroke my guy, did you smell burnt toast earlier today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Rich guys are not on redditOh trust me, the single mom epidemic is fully gentrified. Women making poor decisions and/or not qualifying for wife status is an issue that transcends tax brackets in 2024 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/24 07:44 AM |
| 5 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?Literally outsourcing maternity. It's almost poetic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 08:26 AM |
| 3 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Comes from the old latin 'physica'- related to things in nature -ist- someone who makes or practices -ian- one belonging to Which funny enough re-enforces your point as the literal meanings of the words are ambiguous enough to be interchangeable. It gets even worse. I'm a physician too, but not a medical doctor. Not all doctors are physicians and not all physicians are doctors. English sucks sometimes 😆👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?I mean y'all can downvote it all you want but at the end of the day your dating pool is smaller (assuming you're not in derm or OBGYN) simply because of the time constraints. Then there's the whole money debacle, most people want a similar earner, so that generally puts you around the top 2% of men just on income ( without even looking at height, aesthetics, fitness, political outlook, religion, if he wants kids/no kids... Then forget about if that guy even wants you, heavily invested in your jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Doctor can be used by anyone with a Phd. Physician, MD, and 'insert specialty' are exclusive and specific titles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 09:26 PM |
| -8 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Never is a stretch, but making your job your ID is a big orange flag. Ever wonder why teachers, flight attendants and nurses get a bad rap? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do men catch feelings for their female friends than vice versa?It's strange to me that thinking about why you make the decisions you do in romance is immediately considered autistic when in other areas it's a sign of strong character, self reflection and wisdom. Granted autistic men probably complain about it more openly but understanding your own subconscious is the ONLY route to true EQ. In other words, NOT thinking about and/or understanding/ and/ or handwaving this concept is a hallmark of low EQ/emotional immaturity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Why would women be jealous of a young woman getting married, if they want to ride the CC instead?How romantic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menThe whataboutism is strong with you huh? Missed the forest for the one tree I pointed out there buddy. I guess it's fine though because that's still ultimately my point, if your point is that men are 'worse' i have a bridge to sell ya There's an entire country that trusts its women so little that getting a private paternity test is punishable by prison sentence. Like I said. Men's antisocial behavior is quantifiable, but the law explicitly or most of the time implicitly protects women's antisoci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menPeople suck regardless of what's between their legs. Ask vague questions get vague answers. But if you're alluding to the general sentiment that men are quantifiably worse that's true, because men's antisocial behavior tends to be reported and quantified. Women's antisocial behavior tends to be handwaved and/or assigned to the man in the scenario. You can't handwave domestic violence, but you can handwave reputation destruction, narcissistic abuse and machiavellianism (see Johnny Depp v. Amber H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:32 AM |
| 9 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menMen fall in love with the one they're with. Women fall in love with the one they believe they should be with. Yes. You are going to get more active messages as an attractive woman, just because your inbox is 400 vs. 4000 doesn't make the comment wrong, it just means you might actually have to play the game for the guy you want instead of sitting at the finish line waiting to pick the winner. In 2024 the bar to clear starts at Olympic pole vaulting levels for women, so saying 'women lower their s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:04 AM |
| 3 | In which situations does the dating dynamic change in favour of men ?I've been around the block. It's not hard to find these guys, but unless you know someone famous/ an athlete/ a moderately successful musician it's subtle. Women don't go around saying 'I'm talking to you, but I actually want to fuck the shit out of your tall muscular friend'. I'm entirely convinced most women never even realize they're doing it (Like how the Taylor Swift song 'you belong with me' was actually a self report) But if you go out with guys who have that specific set of desirable sup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | How would you describe “lady game”?When starting a video game you sometimes get to choose a difficulty setting 'recruit' refers to the 'easy' or 'story mode' setting where you'd have to actively try to lose as even a basic understanding of the controls will yield progress. The analogy is that women date on easy mode, the list of things you have to do to attract romantic interest is generally very short and simple compared to when men want to do the same | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 11:20 PM |
| 9 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?Naaahhhh fam. Granted I think a significant number of men cheat and lie, but women come up with terms like 'situationship' to make themselves feel better about their superficial standards. No Bridgette, you're not even a FWB. Could barely call you a fuckbuddy, and you're doing the equivalent of a middle school girl writing her first name with his last name in your history notebook and pining for a better life, but too scared to let go of the nothingburger of a relationship you've made for yourse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?Tall, articulate, clearly has strong values. Everything she's not. But that aside I suspect she's just acting. No light in those eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?This is somewhat true, but there are a few things I find funny Women who drop the objectification claim (and the transactional relationship deflect) are generally benefitting from men, and routinely objectify ones they find unattractive, and ridiculously attractive (read as: no hands are truly clean) I do agree with your critique of a job analogy, however there may be a more poignant way to explain this. Sex is the number 1 passtime and hobby of humanity. Full stop. So when it's easy and fun for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Manosphere Dudes Get Mad At Women Having Options Instead of Other Men for GIVING Them Those Options?Not everyone was built to compete. You'd probably get wrecked in a skateboarding competition. You'd probably also rightfully be mad if you woke up one day and found out everyman was SUPPOSED to be skateboarding. Many would give up immediately. Some of the older guys would do it for fun (but understand competition is a young man's game), but only one small subset of men would make it to the podium. Judgement is supposed to be reserved for the highly skilled and competent. The only reason women ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 05:28 PM |
| 3 | In dating, as a man, it's demanded that you be confident and socially skilled. Meanwhile, women are allowed to be as neurotic and anti-social as they pleaseThe Sadie Hawkins dance literally tried to save us from this bullshit. And that's hardly qualifying as 'approaching half as much'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 06:16 AM |
| 5 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themWell get the other ladies on board and we'll start caring. Tall hot and rich beats short mid and financially stable/responsible (but decidedly average) all day every day regardless of personality. If you don't believe me? find a 5'4 'meh' lookin guy with a sparkling personality and wingwoman for him. It's like trying to carry water in a sieve. Then try the same thing for a tall hot guy. Like it's cool that you take personality into account, but Mr. Congeniality isn't getting much if he's in a ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:33 PM |
| 14 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themNeuroticism and egocentrism are industry standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:24 PM |
| – | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationLol nah. Men have to learn sensitivity to effectively communicate with women. Women have to learn pragmatism to effectively communicate with men. Don't mistake solipsism for pragmatism and greed for realism. Let me make it real obvious how bad it is too. I've met a half dozen older women within the last month in a parasocial relationship with Travis Kelce who all of a sudden care about the superbowl and how drunk he got at the post game. Pragmatic realistic people don't act like this Or another … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:13 AM |
| – | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationWomen's antisocial behavior includes innuendo, reputation destruction and a third thing Wanna guess what the third thing is and if you've already attempted it within this short interaction within the last 24 hours? That's what oathbreaking means to me. You're likely lacking in 1 or all three of those areas if you're comfortable breaking an oath. OR we can assume it's a feature in women (not a bug) in which case the whole conversation wraps back around to 'a man's word is his bond'..... A woman's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 09:01 PM |
| – | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationI think its very telling that your default insult is to call a man feminine. Enjoy your ad homiem and projection though. I imagine all that 'dunking on incels' has given you self actualization and purpose. Really a beacon for that Bible you tote and a role model there chief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationAnd yet single fathers routinely perform better than single mothers for long term outcomes. I worked through my shit long before this. Nice lawnchair psychology tho. Lmk when you make it to armchair grade, I'll come to the graduation ceremony. My story is valid and relevant. I even included an acknowledgement that my experience was probably abnormal in that my mom failed spectacularly, and in trying to appease some random dude (who wound up leaving her and getting married to a girl 10 years youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 12:42 PM |
| -1 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationWell now they're decidedly not property and becoming notorious for being the person who opts to break probably the only and most important oath they may ever take. All that equality and women have demonstrated a lack of integrity, leadership, and emotional maturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 09:12 AM |
| -1 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationAnd yet we skip over the part where there were a series of choices made by said mother to put herself in that position. Accountability starts when we admit to ourselves that we could've done better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 09:08 AM |
| -5 | There are simple logistical reasons why divorce is worse for men than for women which explain the disparity in divorce initiationI feel like you were onto something here but both of your scenarios paint the mother as shitty. And just because you don'y have to pay alimony doesn't mean you aren't fucked. One party broke an oath that was meant to last 'until death do you part' the other didn't. Your family and your word matter or they don't. Yes there's nuance, yes there's room for fringe cases, but I think you have the premise and scenario wrong even if the conversation may be interesting. 'a man's word is his bond'. No suc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/24 08:21 AM |
| 6 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.Ah yes another woman mistaking sarcasm for valid rhetoric. She must be so clever that the words she used make up an anagram for an something a big girl would say under the guise of sounding like a snotty teenager who (never grew up and) still hasn't figured out guys like girls in their physical prime The point was not that men don't like women who are 32. The point is that men don't like being an afterthought (and I'm almost certain you've heard this point before). 'Oop, time's almost up and a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 09:13 PM |
| 7 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.Uhhhh. Hate to break it to you but most women are on track to make ~15 years worth of 'mistakes' before watching a few of their friends get married and deciding it was time to stop making 'mistakes'. There's a proverb in my homeland: If you take ecstasy once and it turns out to be mostly meth, that's a bummy dealer If you take ecstasy from a different dealer and it turns out to be meth that's pretty unfortunate If you take ecstasy for the entirety of your 20s and wake up one day and you and your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awareness1.'dOnT oBjEcTiFy Me!' Listen. You can't just call all desire objectification . Your goal can be a healthy monogamous relationship, that is a valid desire.The man who wants for nothing is not a man who will be in a relationship at all. He's in a monestary in Tibet. Everyone starts as strangers who don't want to fuck each other. Until they aren't. If you learn nothing else from PPD it should be that men have very few attraction triggers and women have a variety. I would argue most men need to 'se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:19 PM |
| 6 | the ultimate force that is shaping womens' frustration with dating is the engine of hypergamy raising her standards without her concious awarenessHell is described as a place where your greatest desires are always within sight but just out of reach. So staying friends with someone like that is reasonably described as 'hellish'. The other scenarios are where the women involved were never an active player in 'the game'. You'd have to break bro code to pursue someone's S/O, and the family comparison is just weird. Any romance outlined in those platonic relationships is outside the bounds of civility. Romance with someone who is single and no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.Are you calling me a leftist or that I think feminism is a scam? Both are wrong. I think two income households were ultimately very convenient toward the movement of capitalism into the later stages where the norm is closer to indentured servitude than what our parents had along with the complete evaporation of the middle class that literally made America great. And feminism propagates a rhetoric of generally being a poor/ungrateful spouse while at the same time being amazing for the bottom line… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 12:08 PM |
| – | Men and women can never truly be equal because women get their rights from men.I mean. If you seriously believe this then you know what 'the patriarchy' actually is. Very few men (and we're talking about a fraction of a fraction of 1% here) actually participate in 'the powers that be'. Feminism is a lie and instead of fighting against the de facto oligarchy siphoning off our rights and lives, the institution teaches women to fight against men and in a roundabout way themselves. My working theory is that the attraction to 'ambition' (i.e. wealth) prevents women from banding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 05:40 AM |
| 1 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.So this is a more interesting topic, because it falls in the same category as the paternity test to me. When is it NOT 'springing it'? because imo it makes no sense to bring it up at all UNLESS you're already very close to being married. Same way it makes no sense to ask/talk about paternity testing UNLESS you're already very close to being (called) a father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.You didn't scroll far enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Doesn't being "on guard" with all men just drive away good men and leave only predators?Well I can't fully empathize with you on this one because I work in healthcare so I get a bit of a 'stranger danger' buye. But I will say one of the things I like to do to diffuse tension is to 'pass it back' (why should I trust YOU with MY safety and wellbeing?). For example I might ask a girl to go bowling or axe throwing or ice skating and say something like 'can I trust you're coordinated enough not to hurt me or yourself?' Make it clear you're interested in seeing everyone home safe. The on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 12:25 PM |
| 2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.There must be a case or there would be no law. You lack the fundamental understanding of the world you live in in order to participate in this conversation whatsoever. I am not a lawyer nor do I know anyone by name that would enable me to search for such a case. But claiming they don't exist where there are several existing qualifiers that lawyers advertise as grounds to void a prenup is silly. That and if you really only need one, here you go. https://libn.com/2013/03/12/ny-court-decision-voidi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Okay well you're welcome to comb through public record at your leisure. You're 100% right, I'm not gunna. https://www.statecourts.org/ Hence my question, how would one prove this. My claim is that by virtue of the law existing in a ubiquitous fashion that means it has been ruled on and enforced in the past. You've offered no evidence to the contrary and you strike me as thoroughly committed to obstiance, so hf. When you're done with the entirety of the US public records you let me know if those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 11:00 AM |
| 2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.It's not hard to find a family lawyer to fight a prenup in the USA. What exactly do you want me to do here? Comb through public record? The fact (fact) that you can find a law office relatively easily that will tell you how to invalidate a prenup is enough. These are not universally airtight agreements. In case you're not aware, American law is built on precedent. Invoking said precedent reinforces said law. For example infidelity is not grounds to invalidate or amend a prenup. Duress is. And id… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:52 AM |
| 1 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Right. I could've communicated that point more clearly. I'm definitely not advocating anyone 'go inside at random'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:25 AM |
| 2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Right, that was the point in the latter part of my original comment. Maybe express was the wrong word. But what you're saying is what I'm alluding to, using the very literal and explicit words to petition for consent is sub optimal at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 10:23 AM |
| -6 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.You offering it and him obtaining it are completely different tasks. You didn't answer the question I asked, you answered the question you wanted me to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Okey dokey. Well we may not see eye to eye because the legal environments are different https://www.forbes.com/sites/jefflanders/2013/04/02/five-reasons-your-prenup-might-be-invalid/ For fun, let's say I undervalued my.... Idk pokemon card collection. That may be considered hiding assets and be grounds to void a prenup, despite that being a relatively difficult asset to value. I'm not pleading with anyone, and the ad homiem isn't classy. Feel free to discuss this like a big girl when you're read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:56 AM |
| -2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Okay, let's do a quick poll. When's the last time you fucked a guy who said the words: Is it okay if I have sex with you? Also I'm pretty sure you didn't read to the bottom and just knee jerked out some ad homiem. My point was not 'don't get consent' my point was it's sexier to get consent when it's not just the very literal and mechanical version. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:46 AM |
| 1 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.I can only speak from personal experience on this one. To be fair, you can ask, but it's very important to not ask in a mechanical way. (Unless it is something like anal or bondage where you do need firm boundaries) For example: can I kiss you? Is much different than the ol' sweep her hair behind the ear>palm to lower jaw> slight tilt own head and lock eyes> then the 90/10% rule. Go 90% of the way, her consent is the last 10%. And to be extra fair to you I think the jury is split on that one, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 09:35 AM |
| 0 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.I don't think OP has all his marbles, and it sounds like he needs to touch some grass and potentially go offline/at least pill free for a few months. However prenups are not a good answer, they routinely get thrown out 'above board' and the stipulations for the validity of the documents can be argued post hoc. Meaning the thing you signed stops mattering if you say you signed it when you didn't mean it (for any number of reasons and hearsay sob stories), making the paper largely ceremonial and l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:53 AM |
| 15 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sHe's really not. Men with options are outliers in general. That and what I've noticed in 2024? A lot, ALOT of women are valuing a 'good flirt/roast' ratio. In other words skills a 'player' would excel in. Sooooo when you go looking for players why are you surprised when you get played? My theory is part of it is ego protection combined with a massive superiority complex and a culture of victimhood culminating in the abandonment of values in exchange for sitcom-esque relationships that wind up be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 08:35 AM |
| 25 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?Ditto. Easiest time I ever had with women were when I was a couple hundred dollars between me and homelessness, selling drugs and partying basically as much as possible. 'the college experience' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 01:59 AM |
| 0 | The wall exists.Delusion: characterized by or holding false beliefs or judgments about external reality that are held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary Very few people look better as they age. Your 20s are your physical prime, 30 is when the vast majority of people start declining physically, usually marked by hormonal changes and stem cell decline combined with reduction in cerebral plasticity. In short: people don't get more attractive past their physical prime. If you do that's cool, if peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 10:19 AM |
| 0 | The wall exists.Valid. The Kardashian clone syndrome actually does get me heated. Once you see it you can't unsee it, and it bothers me in a very specific way that in the era of inclusivity and body positivity so many young women look (or are trying to look) the same. Lmk if you actually want to defend your POV btw. P.S. the downvote button isn't a dislike button. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:44 AM |
| 1 | The wall exists.Oh you are fully delulu. Most (the vast majority) people look (physically, not talking about style, or makeup. Just a naked human) much better at 20 than 30. Guys take a little longer to 'ripen'. But girls? Few and far between are the women who age well. Don't believe me? Take a picture of yourself (no makeup no filter) at 20 and 30. Shit I went on a date with a young woman a few weeks ago, 27, already talking about going to Korea and getting botox for her wrinkles, and facial surgery for her 5 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 09:15 AM |
| 2 | AmbitionTradesmen on average make more than a non-vocational bachelor's in the long run, and if you're dating an HVAC guy or a plumber their skills are highly relevant to housekeeping. Like I have an associate's and I outearned my buddy with an engineering degree very quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Why Don't Man-Hating Chicks Just Date Other Women?Agreed, when we're talking about women, attractive and unattractive are not truly binary. So not being unattractive is not the same as being attractive. Meaning the numbers for you actually finding a woman online who DOES find you attractive are far worse than 80/20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 07:09 PM |
| 1 | What do you think will be the next big paradigm shift in dating and relationships after OLD?Yeah I could already be George Clooney, so long as you never meet me face to face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?Hey bro you doin' you. I'm not here to downplay your empirical experience and I appreciate you sharing. Ultimately nuance is the thing that matters if we're not throwing around statistics and studies and the like. It's funny you mentioned metal though. I was frontman in a death metal band for a while. Also not the optimal play to attract women 😅 What was funny about shuffling is usually a couple drunk girls would join, want to learn and leave pretty quickly. So idk could've been a skill issue th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 02:52 PM |
| – | A majority of men underestimate just how good-looking they are.Sympathetic. Empathy would imply that you care about problems you don't personally have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:44 AM |
| 12 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?I mean. This is somewhat true, so long as you follow rules 1&2. I had that happen at the skatepark when I was younger maybe twice if we're being generous. As for dancing at like a rave or nightclub type beat? Never. If I didn't go out of my way I'm leaving who I came with. To be fair the shuffle pit doesn't seem to be the play. But it's what I enjoyed. So I think you need an addendum somewhere. There's something or some quality you have that I did not. Because no one's looking for a drawn out co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:09 AM |
| 30 | Is the the old cliché “you’ll meet someone when you’re not expecting it” true for men?Even if they weren't looking odds are they still had to pursue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 06:54 AM |
| 6 | Why does Polyamory get so much hate here?Where's the unethical part? It's two consenting adults coming together of their own free will and making an unbreakable pact to spend their lives together.... The only thing that would make that unethical is if one party consistently brought more assets and was forced to pay reparations if the OTHER party decided to break said pact.... It'd be even stranger if no one even tried to assign fault in said scenarios in order to make the breakage of said lifelong pact equitable and fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 09:28 PM |
| – | Average men struggle because standards of living have raised in the past 20 years and average is no longer good enough for anythingThat and the higher you put tax bracket on priorities to look for in a partner, the lower you're going to put other things. Most billionaires display sociopathic tendencies. Almost no one gets to the top of the fonancial world without exploiting other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Why is interpersonal chemistry never accounted for in conversations about attraction- only looks?Yeah. I could see that. If it makes you feel better a girl I went to high school with had a crush on me for years. Talked to me all of twice. Her friend ratted her out the day before I graduated, I was shacked up with a spicy little blonde girl at that point. Had she told me sooner our lives mightve been very different. Other way around for the dates though. Aint nobody taking me to dinner except my dad and my skatepark son from time to time Crazy part is I usually don't do dinner. I like painti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is interpersonal chemistry never accounted for in conversations about attraction- only looks?Yeah. That's kindof what I was talking about though. Men are expected to do that. Only about 10% avoid dramatically negative results. I feel for you, I empathize with you. And there's definitely a good reason men should do heavy lifting at the start of the relationship. But coming out of 10 years of LTR to dating in 2024 idk what happened. There is so much entitlement and.... How do I put this. 'you'll do' is the vibe. Not 'I'm excited to meet you' 'I'm happy to be out with you'. More of a 'the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:49 PM |
| 4 | Why is interpersonal chemistry never accounted for in conversations about attraction- only looks?Okay. Well your other post got locked because ya didn't read the rules. I don't need to read your comment again. I gave props for asking a dude out. My point was that bumble, the app designed for women to send the first message, changed their whole policy because it wasn't working. Most women don't open, most women have L rizz and sit there and wait for men to literally carry the entire beginning of the relationship. The ones that don't wait in the ivory tower (you in this case) tend to find rom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:54 PM |
| – | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleOk, sounds like we may be two ships in the night on this one. I'm not even really sure why that's relevant tbph. There is no cup filter on dating apps. There is a height filter on every single one afaik. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 10:19 AM |
| – | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleI know how cup sizes work, I did my due diligence when I was young dumb and full of cum. The original prompt was about realistic standards, so I think it's interesting to note that having Ds as a standard is not too far out there. You've got about a coinflip of finding a D cup in the US Closer to 5 coinflips of finding someone over 6ft (not to mention-anecdotally- a lot of the taller dudes get paired off pretty quickly) You're more likely to have meningitis living in your airway than you are to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:19 AM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseI always thought the artificial womb thing was dumb. We can barely make a half decent attempt at an artificial kidney, which at the end of the day is just a sophisticated coffee filter. Only the 1% of the 1% are going to be able to afford it, even if we do see it viable within our lifetimes (which is doubtful considering who would actually be funding a project like that. Most of the billionaires I know of just make babies the old fashioned way and don't really care if anyone else lacks the skill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:10 PM |
| – | Men have already lost the gender war and it's bound to get worseFunny enough in the US the ratio is 51% women and 49% men receiving welfare benefits of some kind, so the ratio is already going in that direction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 01:06 PM |
| – | standards don’t matterMaybe can is the wrong word. 'Will provide, and attend to her emotionally/physically/spiritually on a semi permanent basis' is probably more accurate. It's not hard to find a single mom in 2024. A lot of women out there acting masculine and winding up raising kids for a ghost of a man she wishes she could've made into a loving father AND doting husband.... But that's not who they chose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Are women not getting approached anymore?IP ban speedrun? You're doing great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Being girlfriend zoned is worse than being sex zonedI'm with y'all on this. This is one of those things that isn't actually a double standard. Both genders will jockey for the best partner available. All relationships start shallow. Sexual attraction matters. The reason it doesn't look like a double standard is because most men have basically no options. Having no options is not the same as loyalty. So I sympathize with women to a degree. Their loyalty gets tested much more consistently unless they make a concerted effort to be unavailable (emoti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:06 AM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Y'know? I do like to lurk on people's post histories to kindof see what I'm dealing with and an interesting thought occured. The majority of the people who saved your daughter are probably making less than your average accountant. The CNAs where I live literally make less than the kids down the street slinging Taco Bell. So why not just go get a job in software engineering or accounting? They'd easily double their take home right out of college (for the CNAs probably 3x) Just go be rich right? I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleAverage in the US is 34DD Soooooo very different. Most guys can get a girl with a D cup. (Personally I'm a C fan and I don't doubt that statistic is violently skewed by obesity, but humor me) Most girls cannot get a 6ft. Tall guy. I think the overall issue isn't that women want a 6ft. tall guy. The issue is that height is actively being used as a filter. Cup size isn't..... To be fair I have a good friend who wanted a girl with a respectable cup size when he was younger, but to be double fair he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Completely valid. I guess I should've made my point more explicit because I think there's more going on. (And part of this is my dating pool. For whatever reason it's much easier for me to get a date with a doctor or lawyer). People fill their lives up with things. Your 3 cats, your job, kickboxxing. W/e. The common thread I'm finding is that fewer and fewer things are negotiable as people get older. So what I meant by 'mold' wasn't necessarily manipulate. More of just finding someone to squeeze… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Can't tell if you're trolling tbh. I can't answer for everyone, but for me personally from a very young age I knew money would never buy happiness so I chose a fulfilling engaging enjoyable career and consequently I'm probably never going to crack the top 30% of earners (and that's just the men, realistically 40-45% if we throw women in there). But that's not really the issue The real issue imo is the expectation to furnish a lifestyle. The problem isn't getting rich. Almost everyone can be rich… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 04:19 AM |
| 2 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?I mean, feel free to enlighten me. I do work nights, and after my last breakup I went down the 'manoshpere' rabbit hole. If you have a better point you should make it. If not I'll just stay out of touch It's funny to me that the kneejerk reaction to 'one common, reasonable and directly related to health and fitness' standard and 3 that are unreasonable (for the majority of women in the majority of scenarios) is 'you don't touch grass much, do ya?' 'idk you but I'm going to make a snap ad homiem … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:37 AM |
| -6 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?So.... One completely preventable quality (let's not even get into the weeds about cardiopulmonary, NM, and mental issues with being fat). And then 1 quality you absolutely shouldn't change (height) as it is directly related to negative health/fitness outcomes 1 you can but is extremely impacted by career choice and just good ol' fashioned nepotism/oligarchy (money) And one where one partner is essentially lying to and manipulating the other in order to produce a more favorable outcome than she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:18 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: Who is the most romantically/sexually unsuccessful woman you know? What’s their personality like? Describe her.The funny part is her asthma is likely to improve dramatically with her physical fitness, then if you aren't worried so much about being able to y'know, breathe, then it's easier to be a better person.... Plus I know what you're talking about. It's one thing if you don't look good at any size, but it's wild to me how many attractive young women let themselves go and just never pick it back up. Fr, you're going to spend your prime physical years fat, out of shape, and very likely dancing around b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Everybody talks about women going for confident assholes, but what about the ones going for pathetic losers? Let's talk about the "nurse complex"Username checks out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Men having lower standards of cleanliness is not a "flaw"Bingo. Apply it to anything else and it seems wierd and abusive. 'the person who wants more blowjobs should get more blowjobs, what kindof partner wouldn't put in an extra couple hours a week'. 'the person who wants more hot wings should get more hot wings, what kind of partner wouldn't cook extra throughout the week'. But i do think the 'right answer' is in compromise. I clean a little more, you give more blowjobs than you otherwise would. Relationships are about accommodating someone else in y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Bump. I'm actually kindof shocked that that the main arguement for the discussion prompt was 'virgins can't relate to their peers' 'they're treated as pariahs'. Even if we put aside that sex is supposed to be something special you share with another person (which I don't think we should because it reads like OP is projecting her egocentrism) you should certainly re-evaluate your social circle if the major exclusion criteria is virginity (which I also doubt, the prompt just reads like an insecure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Male surplus is a problemWell institutional education isn't the goal, it's a side effect. I know plenty of useless master's and even a fair number of the non STEM PHDs are not worth more than the paper they're printed on (not literally, but certainly financially, and practically) But to stay on track, I do think you're onto something about the quality of woman that would do that, and I'm sure the high school dropout mom meme is a meme for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Male surplus is a problemLots of baby daddies and single moms out there. You might have standards, but for the right dude that ticks the right boxxes there is a significant population of women that throw caution to the wind and let their lower brain take the wheel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 03:17 PM |
| 5 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?If you practice self-discipline you will be disciplined If you practice variety you will be variable. I'm agreeing in that I think 'men should sleep around but women shouldn't' is very dangerous rhetoric, and I'm not sure there's even a redeeming arguement for it... Except maybe confidence. To women confidence and competence are fairly important. I've never had a problem, but it's not too hard to imagine a guy with little to zero experience in bed being nervous and giving potential romantic part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | What is a red pill and a blue pill opinion you have?You are what you practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 11:41 AM |
| -1 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?Did you read the articles? The bottom two have been outlining how women have been dominating the college system so hard for the last 20 years that behind closed doors selective colleges have been weighted toward men. TIL tbh. So I was kind of wrong, but again, would love to see some grants for the boys not focused on how far he can kick a ball. The funny part is, in the second (arguably misandrist, but definitely a feminist of some flavor) article, one of the reasons cited is female preference. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?Okay. Well I'm going to assume you did due diligence here so I'm going to respond to each article in kind as I read them That doesn't ring in any way to be a concerted effort by any group of men or women to make a point to admit men. More a symptom of a gynocentric education system geared toward submission subservience and teamwork. Ofc you have to reject more women if you want a roughly 50/50 split. But they're talking about big label Ivy league schools, not grants specifically for men, but a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 02:56 PM |
| 17 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?'it's only about equity for women' Fify Equality was never the goal. Women want no part in men's mental health, men's scholarships or any kind of equal opportunity that would favor someone with a dick in the progressive 'west' If you're still living in a Sharia law state, yeah, you are actually still fighting for equality. If not? You're fighting for equity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:41 PM |
| 1 | How does hypergamy explain things like gangbang fantasy?Who left the straw man next to the misandry? C'mon guys clean up after yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 06:01 AM |
| 5 | How can LTRs last when modern men discard women who reach thirty or forty?Wat. 20~40% of divorces infidelity (NIH)( because the ASA cites 15-50% and that's not even a useful range) Sooo since women are initiating 70-80% of divorces there's a huge gap there meaning the whole 'mistress' arguement is about as likely as 'your' kids failing a paternity test (granted that number is only among men who get their kids tested so it's wonky... But hey, we're arguing by exception sooooo, seems fine, I'll just throw out a wacky claim that makes modern wives look bad and make it yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 05:59 AM |
| 8 | Is approaching women something men are stopping to do? Is it also frowned upon? Also is male sexuality demonized?True but the heart of the discussion is based around approaching women. (Presumably strangers) Part of the reason is that it's extremely common to lie. Another reason is you get the piss and vinegar to ask a stranger out and let's assume she isn't lying (or is in a situationship and can't not lie). - She's got a boyfriend. Your L, your wasted time. Granted, I totally agree that not enough men are really putting themselves out there, and too many give up too quickly. But let's not pretend this is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | “Women/men aren’t a monolith”And yet, go onto any dating app, a significant population of women will request those dorky embarrassing things specifically. 'hit me with your best pickup line' 'LF a good flirt/roast ratio' Single women are straight up telling guys in plain English that PUA concepts are important enough to be one of the maaaaaybe 30 words they use in their 'bio' to find romantic attention (if not just an IG handle and/or a quick nothingburger about 'no hookups' travel or princess treatment only) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 12:28 AM |
| 2 | “Women/men aren’t a monolith”Have you not heard of 'are we dating the same guy'? There's a whole ass support group for women who can't (or won't, doesn't really matter) spot a bad actor. And if you're seriously claiming (as a generalization) that women have this ability, then you kindof paint yourself into a corner a little bit with the divorce rate. 'he manipulated me' 'he gaslit me' 'he was abusive' and the shockingly popular 'situationship' stories are a dime a dozen, normally I kindof take them at face value, because I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 12:21 AM |
| 0 | “Women/men aren’t a monolith”That's kindof the rub though. PUA stuff worked VERY WELL until the one dude put it on MTV. There was literally a formula that worked if you wanted to play the game. And the funny thing is, we're almost coming full circle. The OLD game looks a lot like the '00s game Rizz/banter Ask her about herself Soft neg (a.k.a. 'roasting') so you don't come off too 'simpy' or friendzone yourself If she responds well you're in. To answer your actual question Some guys really haven't tried that hard or spent e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 06:17 PM |
| 7 | How important Is losing virginity for women now?Why is it a bad idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 02:03 PM |
| – | Men don't really want male issues to be solved , they want powerGrossly oversimplified solutions: Masculine solution- have em join the army Feminine solution- have em go to therapy and start SSRIs I think my dad had the right idea. While back I got 5150'd. Came back still bitching about the futility of life and how nothing I did went right. I'll never forget what dad said when I got home. 'that's what they don't tell you. Death is the easy part, it's living that's hard'. Have a look at some psychology of the souls series. https://youtu.be/keIWG6hSD7Q?si=BwLV… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 11:57 AM |
| 4 | How do you explain the phenomenon of ‘high quality’ falling for absolute dregs?That was my guess too. Daddy issues+ he's got that demon dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Men who constantly surround themselves with terrible women are typically simps.Fr. Granted I think the prompt holds water but I wouldn't be surprised if 'terrible women' find simps on purpose to use as supply/resources for little-no romantic investment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?Apex fallacy, most men are not entertaining and sleeping with multiple women Y'all get expensive real quick and Most men aren't attractive to most women And if we exclude older men, that number is less than 1 for a lot of guys It's an extreme minority of men getting 'oversharpened' and women don't seem to have a problem with that kind of pencil. In fact I think it's easier to argue most women will take a sharpened pencil over a fresh one yet to receive a nib (which is probably why one idiom caug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?Ah ok that could be the disconnect here. In western culture it's not uncommon to date and sleep with people you've just met/ know tangentially based on superficial qualities. It doesn't sound like that's your strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?Because women have a proclivity for low-risk and pro-social behavior, at the expense of extra neuroticism and solipsism. For example, if grandma is going 65 where the speed limit is 65 and she normally drives 55 she might see that as going very fast, but nobody else is going to notice. If grandpa is going 90 in the ol' cherry red T-bird everyone is going to notice. So in a way, men are more likely to get 'pulled over' for these disorders because the fastest cars get stopped. Granted I'm totally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?So you want exclusively but only if it's unspoken and can't see how having a conversation about him only wanting to date you and only wanting you to date him is a form of caring (emotional and often literal investment)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Modern dating strategy: Dating multiple people before being exclusive - Are males against this?No one's saying men don't do it. Most women have an abundance of sexual opportunities. Most men are lucky to be talking to 1-2 women. Something something master key something something shitty lock. It's not the nicest thing to say, but it's the reality. If women are doing this it's because she wants to, if men are doing this it's because women let him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Why does it seem like progressiveness towards the gender roles only apply toward women?Nearly irrelevant storytime, but it's cute and relatively progressive sooooooo: I think my favorite was after maybe 6 months together my ex told me she wanted to pay for groceries because she was always staying with me and getting treated (and ~doubled my take home). I had already swiped my card and told her 'if you really wanted to pay why weren't you in position to do so'. It became a meme at the local checkout and taco bell. We'd jostle for the best position to swipe the card. At a drive thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/24 02:35 PM |
| – | Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue?I don't think it's a white guy thing. I think it's an empathy thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Since an amount of guys feel legalizing prostitution is the only way, can they protest the issue?As a white millennial. Over my cold dead body. I'm not even a dad or a brother and I think prostitution should be illegal. There are just too many variables and 'pimpin aint easy'. Like onlyfans is literally a dumpster fire excuse to make making porn mainstream and I'm not happy about it, but let's draw the line SOMEWHERE ok? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:39 PM |
| 3 | i’ve seen this idea tossed around that women are more susceptible than men to social trends - both genders are very susceptible to trends, let’s stop pretending its one sidedAnd this is why they say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Abusing Pornography for Men == Abusing Online Dating for Sexually for WomenI found the guy that didn't beat Elden Ring at level 1.... But to be fair that's an exception. Most games in most of their iterations (wether that be a difficulty setting or self inflicted limitation like the 'level 1 run')aren't designed for the player to actually lose anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that a good amount of women want alpha males to have some beta qualities?Watch your thoughts for they become words. Watch your words for they become actions. Watch your actions because they become who you are. Sarcasm is one thing. Social satire is one thing. These women were both dead serious. This is who they ARE. Imagine if you went and asked 10 guys friends what cup size they were looking for (this was a fun one to research for about 30 seconds. Did a rough analog to '6ft guy' excuse me if it's not accurate where you live) was a natural E cup and on the conservat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Is it true that a good amount of women want alpha males to have some beta qualities?It's not about deserve or not. It's about if you want to spend your life situationshipped by the very small pool of tall, financially, socially, and physically desirable men or not. The guy THEY BOTH want (the adult women, one of which is a mom, both working in healthcare and see all kinds of body types all the time) has no reason to ever settle. He can keep bouncing around like a looney toon while indubitably mature adult women spin plates trying to lock him down. So I'm not saying they're wron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that a good amount of women want alpha males to have some beta qualities?I mean, that's fair, and works on paper. But at a certain point it turns into Build-A-Boy-Workshoptm Granted I haven't touched on the subject with very many women, because the few times I did I was disqualified immediately. Like the most recent one from my co-worker going through a divorce. (He left her for his mistress in the airforce) 'so have you thought about the kindof guy you want to date next?' 'taller and stronger lol' (a literal lol there. He was 6'1 and built like a brick wall. She's 5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Is it true that a good amount of women want alpha males to have some beta qualities?But the checklists mysteriously get longer and longer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 02:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.Top level comments on debate tagged posts are supposed to be making a claim. Also let's not pretend there isn't some ad homiem in the background of some of those questions. Like do you honestly think this woman was just overwhelmingly fascinated by this random dude's sexual preference? After reading a borderline rant about how women kinda suck when it comes time to 'settle down'. Unlikely at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:45 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.I'll tack onto that. Because I think everyone kindof knows they aren't the first pick... Or the second... Or sometimes even third. I think the issue is when you don't appreciate and cherish the person you do pick. The issue is when you allow your S/O to FEEL like the 'beats being alone' option Or that appreciation is on a 'fairweather' basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:38 AM |
| 5 | Contrary to what the Internet and Hollywood makes you belief, why does it seem Cougars are a minority and most women don’t want to date men their age nor younger than themselves?Outlier: a statistical observation that is markedly different in value from the others of the sample a person or thing that is atypical within a particular group, class, or category Sooo idk where the disconnect is here, but either you aren't very good at English or science (and statistics). Outliers are things that make you say 'oh that's odd, wasn't expecting that'. Black people with blue eyes for example. Any bra size over D on a girl that wieghs under 100 pounds. A golfer hitting a hole in o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:43 PM |
| 7 | Contrary to what the Internet and Hollywood makes you belief, why does it seem Cougars are a minority and most women don’t want to date men their age nor younger than themselves?No, outlier is the exaggeration. Millionaires in their 30s are outliers. 6ft tall men are outliers. Both articles linked put hairloss completely within the 'entirely common' part of a standard distribution. You seeing men losing hair as an outlier says more about you than anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?I'm in the next tax bracket up and only dated 5 of em and two of those were in high school, in adulthood the ratio just got worse. Formal dating is definitely not a prerequisite if she's genuinely interested in fucking you. Hell, a couple of em hit n ran. So yes. Dating doesn't mean sex. But not dating also doesn't mean you don't have a 'roster' or options of some kind. But this was nearly a decade ago. I assure you it's gotten worse now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Women who complain about dating, is it incorrect to say they are at fault?'why buy the cow when you're getting the milk for free?' Like bro it is WILD the mental gymnastics some women will do to avoid dating with intention. Crackhead behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Why push for a relationship, marriage and even kids when you are fundamentally unable to trust your partner?Well why bother with monogamy at all then? You aren't doing physical damage to the other person. Just have sex with whoever, flirt with whoever and do whatever you want and just don't tell your main. You fall onto a slippery slope pretty quickly if your line is 'internal' vs 'external' hence why I made a case where the line was fuzzy, but let's jump right off the deep end because your rhetoric allows for a potpourri of abuse and machiavellianism being a reasonable course of action because it's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:33 PM |
| 6 | Why push for a relationship, marriage and even kids when you are fundamentally unable to trust your partner?They're also related to how they treat themselves and this is very easy to demonstrate. (Read as: the line between internal and external in a committed relationship is not as clear as you think). Hypothetically lets say you're allergic to cats. One day your girlfriend comes home with 2 kittens abandoned by the side of the road. She loves them. They make her life whole and bring her nothing but joy. She cleans up after them, feeds them. And after a week you're hopped up on Benadryl and Albuterol.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 04:25 AM |
| 14 | Why push for a relationship, marriage and even kids when you are fundamentally unable to trust your partner?Being in a long term committed relationship requires sacrifice by both parties. One of those sacrifices (if you expect a monogamous commitment) would be to respect the boundaries of your S/O in order to demonstrate loyalty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Sooo why comment at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:51 AM |
| 5 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?wooooosh There it goes. The point whizzing over your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Lol peds nurses are highly territorial. If you can only mechanically perform the task of keeping a small human alive you will get burned at the stake, and I would argue you should switch to the more dispassionate adult care anyway. 🤔 Hmmm. Well I'd be happy to be papa bear or the breadwinner. As to your last point i mean I could go on about what I've done in the checks watch a little over a decade to be a solid dude. But we aren't dating, and quite frankly I'm not sure your question has a good a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?The strawman is strong with this one What I am saying is that I want someone to build a life with. If you want to build a life with someone compromise is necessary. Your life can revolve around someone else without being engrossed and engulfed by that person. Storytime: i don't really care about plants. Succulents are cool but my ex really enjoyed having plants and being out in nature and going to different gardens and things. So one of the things she did to build a life with me is make sure the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Ah. You misunderstand. You're reading it backwards and upside down. I don't expect much. Honestly I rarely even put my foot down. I only really want what is given freely (and enthusiastically in some cases). I'm a professional in childcare, I enjoy caring for kids. Got my medical license and specialize in neonatal pediatrics. Sooooooo. For childcare (or any of these categories really) ask not what I want from her. Ask what you would give someone like that. For example (since you brought up child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/24 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Well that's a different story. The real question is: what does she want from me? So. If we're talking about marriage? An oath that's fully intended to never be broken except in the absolute most extreme circumstances? The bar is very high. If she's just looking for a new clutch? List gets shorter. Kindness, fitness, enthusiastic sex. No cats. As the commitments get deeper, her aptitudes, emotional wellbeing/maturity, compliance, the things you've done and intend to do with your life start to mat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:08 PM |
| 12 | Fun hypothetical, here are some options you can choose from to fix datingI'm with you on this one. Get rid of OF. Shut down Instagram, tiktok and youtube hoes. Then actually convince the boys they are in fact 'Kenough' I don't think increasing the sex drives or M2F ratio solves as many problems as it creates. And neuroticism is a feature not a bug, making women less wary is a terrible idea and would make mate guarding all but entirely necessary to the point of it being an Olympic event if you ever plan on monogamy. The dating apps one is the saddest, because in the e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Question for men: is the madonna-whore complex real?Yeah I'm sure we can't find any analogs from the ladies.... Oh wait. Here's one now. https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/CarhWR4hqQ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 04:37 PM |
| 8 | Why are men so anti marriage nowadays compared to 100 years ago?Just gunna tack on here because my flair don't work. I don't mind not being appreciated/respected... To a degree. What I do mind is that I've spent a long time building up skills to become a good husband/father. I do not see the same in the vast majority of my lady peers (with wife/motherhood respectively). And besides lacking the almost literal pre-requisites for a long term commitment like marriage, it doesn't seem to me that modern women even really want to share their lives with men. Rather … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 04:33 PM |
| – | How do shy/passive women experience being in a relationship with a man?Well if the prize is between your legs instead of your ears why should I care what you have to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 11:17 PM |
| – | How do shy/passive women experience being in a relationship with a man?This level of thinking is flawed. Yes, the first drink of water you have after a journey through a desert might be the best drink of water you ever have, but while it may have been a goal, a reward maybe (some form of benefit for a concerted effort) it was not a prize. The funny thing is I have done. One of the first pieces of advice I give to guys with incellular tendancies, or just no hoes in general is that the first thing you should do is take the pussy off the pedestal. Understanding that s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:35 PM |
| – | How do shy/passive women experience being in a relationship with a man?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/GDFN8Mn5K5 Uh, you just did. Trying to disguise projection as satire is silly. You were serious and even somewhat insightful, seemingly forthcoming in the first two points, why do you assume the third is less true or valueable to you as a statement because someone else said it as well? Why try to gaslight yourself? The rhetoric you repeat and use becomes you. If you don't want to be objectified you shouldn't use rhetoric like this, because if all you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 04:25 PM |
| – | How do shy/passive women experience being in a relationship with a man?Pussy is A prize, like the little shitty chocolate coins you get for coming in 12th place in the spelling bee. Certainly not THE prize. I thought who the hole was attached to mattered. Not so? To be VERY blunt I only ran across one vagina in my life that was truly special and noteworthy (she had a sweat glad disorder that prevented her from getting BO). Whoever winds up with her can say pussy is the prize provided he goes down on her. Everyone else is getting a cookie cutter (pun intended) parti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:59 PM |
| – | How do shy/passive women experience being in a relationship with a man?Pussies are too common to be the prize. I'd argue truly feminine, loyal and capable women/truly masculine, loyal and capable men are the prize. Or, y'know. You can derive your ethics and epistemology from ice spice. Ur call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:48 PM |
| 18 | Can men give some concrete examples of being emotionally vulnerable to women, and women reacting negatively?Did you skip the one where the guy's girlfriend made fun of him for getting bitten by an extremely venomous snake, being mostly dead and getting PTSD? Keep going. It's not just him. If you find a guy without one of these stories, either he's had an extremely privileged life, is 1940's level masculine/never took TBP or is permanently in the 'ick' zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | The persistent myth of the "second shift"https://www.tennis.com/baseline/articles/you-ve-missed-but-was-it-really-an-unforced-error I like to tennis one. And it fits what I'm trying to describe well. I'm not familiar with the baseball version but I imagine they function similarly. The reason I used the term is because at the end of the day it can still be out of the participant's hands when an unforced error occurs. The interesting thing about your counterpoint is that you're assuming I see an 'unforced error' as a black and white thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 07:22 AM |
| 1 | The persistent myth of the "second shift"It's a tennis term for when someone makes a mistake (honest or not). 80% of single parent households are run by single mothers. 1/3 live in poverty .~50% of American children will be raised under split custody for at least some part of their adolesce. So out of that 80% we can be relatively certain at least 30% of that at the absolute minimum did not have the financial stability to call making a baby a 'forced error' So the question then becomes, what's your definition of vast vast majority? Bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?I don't have to attempt anything. Just standard dating protocol 'what have you done in the past 10 years of adulthood give or take?' 'what were your previous relationships like?' Revenge is an active process. Karma (at least the literary version) is passive. If I ask a fair number of single women over 30 about their lives and their answers range from 'not great'- 'ooooh. That's why you're single. Well don't let me get in the way'. That's not revenge. That's having standards and karma being a bip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.As a generalization sure. But as an absolute? I'm not so sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?Well his problem in particular was that he was far too active and he was already in contact with women. If you aren't in regular contact with women AND not active at all then yeah, nothing will happen. It's a balancing act. Probably why women like cats so much. You have to be available and present, but act occupied and unavailable to a degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.That was what I said, yes. Part of making a reasonable claim is understanding and acknowledging the counterpoint. I find it very hard to believe a rich man has never committed to a teenager, especially because we had a whole tv show about a disgustingly rich man dating 2 20nothing year old women and providing for them literally till death when they parted. It might not be public knowledge but I'd bet my right arm it's happened | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:25 AM |
| 9 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?Revenge and Karma sleep in the same bed. As a fellow early 30 something I find the 'shoe is on the other foot' attitude is somewhat natural and doesn"t really have as much to do with revenge as who is 'bringing more to the table' I didn't do poorly in my early 20s per se, but I had to backflip through hoops to compete with tall, sporty, and potentially kinda retarded guys. The women coming to me in their 30s (in general) wasted their youth on dumb shit. So now I've got financial stability, a pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?When something happens in tandem once it's coincidence. When it consistently happens to the same person it's nuance. When it's reported by various people from all different walks of life it's an educated guess. If someone puts hard numbers on it it's science. We're at the educated guess stage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 06:32 AM |
| 23 | Any explanations as to why dating seems to be feast or famine?I recently had a conversation with a young man about this. In great shape, dazzling smile, kind and charismatic (not like W rizz 'might steal yo bitch'. Like actual charisma, has interesting things to say and is interested in other people). He was asking me why women in the US seemed impossible to approach and date (he's from Africa). I told him the problem is, when you aren't looking they'll find you. When you are looking you won't find anyone. He's now being fought over by two attractive young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:31 AM |
| 0 | The persistent myth of the "second shift"And how many of those were single via unforced error? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/24 03:19 AM |
| -2 | The RP Theory that a Women can become so undesirable (for whatever reason) where she can‘t find a Man which commits to her is completely wrong.Source? I mean maybe not 19. But off the top of my head? Hugh Hefner was committed to 2 early-20-somethings Soooooooooo never say never. There's already a lot of precedent. And I'm pretty sure you wouldn't have to look too far back to find historical precedent as well. Wasn't too long ago when 19 was approaching midlife crisis territory (I'm half-joking because life expectency goes up dramatically as infant mortality is mitigated) To be fair, Leo DiCaprio is spinning the wheels on barely legal m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 01:12 AM |
| – | What are some personal habits, traits or fashion choices that indicate that someone is trashy?I'm with you on that one. Depends though. I had a girlfriend who started out getting high here and there then eventually it turned into everyday, then every day became whenever she wasn't working. I think it exacerbated her depression/emotional instability and made things a lot worse than they had to be. Granted, I'd still take a stoner over an alcoholic but I think the pro-MJ rhetoric is more of a slippery slope than people who use it like to admit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Glass houses. I think it's way more pedantic to ignore the message and shoot the messenger, but to each their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?That's my point, it's not a metaphor. Stay in school friend, I don't think you're done quite yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Literal listening is one of the biggest barriers to communication. Homebody is using what is known as: an analogy https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/analogy Comparing two otherwise dissimilar things to make the point more clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 08:39 PM |
| 12 | Chasing women is a huge waste of time.Money can't buy happiness, but you can definitely rent it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 12:26 PM |
| 13 | I wish men would stop normalizing women approaching them and trying to "shoot their shot". Almost every man i've seen feels very uncomfortable with a woman approaching themPlot twist. They already do, but only if you tick at least 46/50 boxxes from column A Or the 3~5 boxxes in the 'super hot bad boy/rizzard of Oz' column | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 09:00 AM |
| 4 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyThat's lust. Puppy love at absolute best Love is what's left after the honeymoon phase is over and the neurotransmitters wear off. I swear. Love island be giving people some kindof wacky misconceptions. Just as a quick pro tip 'I really feel a strong connection' before at least a few months together= I'm trying to connect with dat ass tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 08:49 AM |
| 3 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyThe part that gets me is grandma gato had this figured out and told my girl cousins when we were young. 'don't trust snake oil salesmen'. And it's the very first thing in the bible. The snake selling oil is not a new problem. Women have had this figured out for millenia. If you're paying attention the illusion wears off pretty quickly. (Unless you have a very low EQ or are easy to manipulate or something, but that doesn't sound like the modern woman.... Does it?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyI mean that's somewhat true. But in my experience women tend to hide their dark triad traits whereas men who advertise them are selected for sex. One camp is rewarded for bad behavior the other is actively discouraged. That's the crux of the issue. But I do think you're touching on a valid point that TRP likes to gloss over. Narcissism looks a lot like confidence and competence if you don't know better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:54 AM |
| 4 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyChoosing better =\= getting exactly what you think you want. When you hear men whinge about women choosing poorly it generally has to do with the 'bad boy paradox' Selecting for sexually attractive dark triad traits, then complaining when they fail to secure a relationship and now cannot.... I guess settle is the operative word for someone who would make an objectively better S/O almost in spite of themselves https://youtu.be/n4aMiAesXjE?si=NoH9SaV80W3DzbrE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 06:36 AM |
| 0 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyAt the risk of getting modded. Duh. That's why my portfolio includes cat food companies :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazy'complaining about the amount of polio in your primary water source while also being afraid of being paralyzed and mechanically ventilated ever after is crazy' This really is a very bad faith (bordering on sociopathic) prompt. Granted my example is relatively hyperbolic, but maybe a different example would make this more clear. It's kindof like when management gives you extra tasks and requires more hours but doesn't pay more. Eventually the only people who are going to show loyalty are either A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:05 AM |
| 5 | AD HOC WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI've never met a single man like 'damn I really liked her but the hair texture was such a turn off' Projection is real on both sides. Even if it wasn't his ideal 'dreamed about this since my balls dropped' men's icks don't function like women's icks. Far more likely she's actually insecure. Plenty of eligible bachelors out there with no/low quality options. Forget about the hair (on your head), you're a coinflip for a divorce, all you really have to do to be in the top 50% of women is mean it wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:01 AM |
| – | There are no guys who "just know it", they are just (consciously or not) applying the AAA (always assume attraction) principleWow. There it is folks Adam Levine's objectively a 7 'on a good day' 10s are 10s 9s are 7s 8s are 5s <7s? I guess we just produce for the overlords until we die because we aren't human beings 👻 https://youtube.com/shorts/-bCWgUPAq9M?si=vYzviXT0clSeNKy1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | There are so many single girls who are great catches!Lol fair enough. But I'm going to venture a guess and say OP is far from 'can live on it' money. 'the game' is directly and positively correlated with free time and money. And the reality is 'can live' being the top 10% does not make for good odds. Aaaaand even if you do make it, I'm also willing to hazard a guess that most guys who've even been vaguely redpilled by a salty uncle once when they were 16 aren't going to like the 'city girl' selection. Especially considering NYNY's STI rate spiked … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Can feminine men be in a relationship with feminine women? can masculine men be in a relationship with a masculine woman? or does there always need to be balanceHow is asap rocky feminine? Animals with two heads tend to die very quickly. One person needs to be wearing the pants. Two masculine people (without extensive discussion and strong communication skills) will probably explode Two feminine people (without at least one assuming frame and decision making qualities) will probably implode. That's not to say neither can or will work. Especially because the modern definition of relationship almost never also includes the word 'permanent' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 03:51 AM |
| 26 | There are so many single girls who are great catches!They're in New York dude. This post is just word vomit and the population density allows for open hypergamy/ ivory tower behavior. 'if you're somewhat successful', so someone who could afford to live alone comfortably in NY like a doctor or a lawyer or successful business owner. So the .1% of the population. Not to mention NY is an STD hotbed for single women. Lord knows what those ladies picked up before they decided to start looking for 'quality men' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Is the attention women receive from men the equivalent of being bombarded with food choices?That's still 50 more than the pretty ones 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Is the attention women receive from men the equivalent of being bombarded with food choices?Other way. '... approaching you to be your sugar mommy' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 09:46 PM |
| – | So what would the dating realm be like if more men practiced self-actualization or at the very least, self-influencing, as opposed to always having that dire need to always impress women/others? Would the pace of competition change?Bet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 10:38 AM |
| 9 | Men need to make these dating resolutions in 2024Peacocks come immediately to mind. If we're getting really technical most of the animals that compete directly for mating rights (wolves, rams, deer, certain apes, hippos, lions, elephant seals and elephant elephants in a way) are not chasing females, it's the females that pick the winner(s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 09:18 AM |
| 7 | Is it common to look up the salary of your date's job?It's not not that. You're selling sexual attention. You really don't have to stretch very far from the extremely hyper-literal technical definition to be able to call the vast majority of OF 'models' prostitutes Especially considering the olde English word was also used for what we would call 'sellouts' today. 'someone who uses their talent or ability in a base or unworthy way, usually for money'.... Sound familiar? And just in case you aren't familiar, 'base' in this context refers to 'morally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.Technically only orthodox religions are cult-esque. More modern/liberal congregations have started to embrace more modern values and things. I think we may just have crossed wires on what a cult actually is, because from what I understand you would/could/should consider most families friendships and relationships to be cults too. They're highly indoctrinated, and there's great social pressure to prevent you from excommunicating. We can't just throw terms around to suit our needs based on how we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Most RP tactics and thought process are driven by a man’s abandonment issues.Right but cults are also self-contained and not nuanced. Not only is this guy's experience not self-contained, it's nuanced in that having a disability (especially one that often presents socially/interpersonally more than anywhere else) is basically entering a grand prix without a steering column. Cults do everything they can to silence dissenters and shutter outside news. So while I do think it's a very good idea to 'twist arms' metaphorically (especially in the 'spergy and autismo populations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 09:12 AM |
| – | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?We as a species. As in your foremothers and forefathers and so on and so forth. Western culture has all but eradicated strong family values, sexual fidelity and sanctity of marriage. These are the things I hypothesize that the majority of societies put in place in order to generate a stable system in order to maintain humanity. Now we have instagram and free porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 12:38 AM |
| – | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?I didn't do anything. That was the solution for the mating game cross culturally for thousands of years. When one group of people does one thing one time it's a fluke. When it happens for thousands of years documented across almost every single continent we call it society. They absolutely could complain. We're seeing the results of such. Spontaneous megaphone whinging. /s I'm 100% sure the old system of marriage was oppressive in significant ways, but the sexually liberated system looks more li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 12:33 AM |
| – | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?Maybe. On the one hand we had a very efficient system for deterring problems like this for thousands of years- effectively the patriarchy. On the other hand being disingenuous isn't cool But the truth behind the truth is that women have basically opted for sexual anarchy, so while I'll be the first in line to say 'playing' isn't ethical, I also think you automatically lose if you don't 'play'. As demonstrated by this frustrated megaphone woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 11:00 PM |
| 5 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Nope. The only saving grace is the rise of single/sexless men and masculine, promiscuous women has also lined up nicely with video games and free porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:36 PM |
| 17 | When does putting your best foot forward become deception?No. She's not suggesting anything. She's just gullible and self-centered The vast majority of dudes aren't out there 'creating a vibe they can't maintain' It's one specific subset of guys who are focused on that task-players. So my assumption is she's tired of getting played but has no earthly idea of how to interact with a dude that doesn't suck or try to emotionally manipulate his way into her pants immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAgreed, a minister for men is dumb, that's why I didn't comment on it. (And admittedly the 'white' one is pretty bad, bordering on valid sarcasm) By my count no one is heard until they reach 100 millionaire/ownership status. So while yes it's highly ethical to make social programs and take special considerations for special interest groups, we've by and large stopped advocating for everyone else. Like who's advocating for housing reform? Who's advocating for 'gig' economy regulations? Education … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/23 12:50 AM |
| 1 | FEMINISM WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat would probably make up the majority of the population in the UK. Soooo kindof a reasonable ask imho. If you aren't making laws that represent and benefit the majority of the population then you shouldn't be a lawmaker. (That"s not to say it's reasonable to ignore special interest groups, but political and social programs should be geared toward the generation and maintenance of a thriving middle class as that's when the overall productivity and happiness of the greatest number of citizens i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do women truly believe men want to remain friends with them?Yup. 'i picked somebody else, but OP gave me something current bf doesnt' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Lying to Women is okayHow very 'unruly teenager' of you. When you're ready to drop the sarcasm lmk. My question was just, if you have no point to make and have no interest in the discussion, why comment at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Lying to Women is okayThen why comment at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 12:16 PM |
| – | "Sex bots" or android women are a net positive for everyone and don't threaten us human women at allWell for one there may be a significant population of otherwise 'normal' (read as: non-incellular but also not in the top ~5% of desirable men) dudes that will opt for a mechanical partner. In which case even more women will be sharing even fewer men (if any), pushing even larger populations of women toward polygamy. And for men it creates a positive feedback loop for antisocial behavior. At the very least I think everyone's going to be even more depressed/disgruntled. At most I think sex robots… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 09:33 AM |
| 3 | what do women gain from being in a relationship with men if they’re seen as valueless after 25?Not sure if she's projecting or if it's straight up selection bias https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/s/csz7YZjExe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 06:10 AM |
| -5 | Why do men say women have high standards?Those are pretty high standards in 2023 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsIf you're trolling you're doing a great job. If you're not trolling your English could use some work. My 'off the cuff' definitions were eerily close to the formal definitions https://www.dictionary.com/browse/gossip https://www.dictionary.com/browse/history | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsThe general distinction is that gossip is unconfirmed. Nicki Minaj- one of the most successful female rappers after the turn of the century married a sex offender. That's history. An chronicle of a people/population and or country/culture. Are you saying Nicki Minaj isn't a person or that her husband isn't a convicted sex criminal? If I said she was actually married to a 5'3 white guy named Todd that would be gossip. Or oh, I thought of a better one. Saying Andrew Tate is a sex trafficker is gos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsI'm not sure I follow. They're both history. One's just happening closer to 'real time' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 08:48 PM |
| 6 | Men who sleep around hate women who sleep around more than incelsIt's the pop culture equivalent of 'thinking about the Roman Empire' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 09:31 AM |
| – | NO, "average" men are NOT having sex "all the time"Just for reference, a study submitted by 2020 was likely conducted and completed almost entirely before any kind of pandemic lockdown sanctions were enacted. Tl;dr: you're not understanding the assignment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Is the only way to see success on the dating apps is to look like a bad boy?And these are the types of guys you find garner a lot of attention/ it's difficult to make plans with them because their free time is stacked with dates oooor are you just saying you've seen the profile(s) and don't understand the difference between looking at someone's profile and actually choosing them for romantic engagement. Give it a shot. Walk a couple hundred yards in the shoes then come back and say 'regular lookin guys do ok'. 20 bucks says peacocking still works. You should craft an im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 05:38 PM |
| 11 | Is the only way to see success on the dating apps is to look like a bad boy?Lol you're so very wrong. You definitely have to stand head and shoulders above the crowd (somewhat literally 🤣) Start a tinder as a 'normal' dressed 5'9 guy. Or bumble or whatever. Lmk when your faith in your gender is gone. I swear. Half of these bad takes would be settled if we had to walk in each other's shoes for a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Is it true that male "players" were shamed prior to the sexual revolution?You have to go back to our grandparent's time. My grandma warned my girl cousins from a very young age to be wary of overly charming men. All of em single and over 30 now. None of em listened to Nana. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 08:03 PM |
| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?The very next sentence lends context to the statement. If you're going to troll can you at least be subtle about it? More cherry picking from the author of this gem: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/hMjZrKVeDl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 09:30 AM |
| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?You cherry picked a lot of that and failed to address most of my points entirely, but I guess if you see men as predators thats enough of a self-aggrandizing victim mentality to not be worth attempting to argue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 05:52 AM |
| – | Real talk, why is RP so obsessed with women’s age?The guys out there who want to and are able to manipulate women are going to be successful regardless of age. A little halo effect and a passable EQ is all you really need https://youtu.be/UrGVvy52SPo?si=hYTY7bOEuJp8z8Ix The draw for the vast majority isn't power. It's reproductive health, less baggage and in a way it's an honor to give a man your youth just like it's an honor for a man to give you a ring. Modern women don't care about men's physical prime in the same way men care about women's.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?It's not psychopathic to adopt personality traits that are rewarded by the majority of women who engage in short term dating. I've already written out the proof but just in case you missed it: If you had a morbidly obese kid I wouldn't say 'wow what a gluttonous child with a lack of self control'. I blame the parent, the obesity is a product of its environment at that point. Women pick the winners. If more antisocial behaviors are being rewarded, then those are directly (albeit unconsciously) th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?It's the whole point of the post. Did you know literal listening is categorized as one of the biggest barriers to interpersonal communication? It generally demonstrates egocentrism and limited cognitive ability (or at the very minimum apathy toward the parties involved) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Okay, then I've invented a new concept called shmoral shmetlativity that relates to the concept of applying different rules and standards to different populations of people based on how they look/how much money they make/height/positively perceived dark triad traits. So it strikes me as very odd that you would ignore the smoral shmelativism of one gender then immediately demonize another using a highly objectively niche population and shmoral shmabsolutism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Well I use those terms with nuance in mind. What OP is describing rings as a kind of moral relativism. 'good boy waits a month, a year, a decade before being allowed sexual attention' the maximum possible investment 'bad boy waits a few hours' the minimum possible investment. So given that the game reflects a relativism of sorts you have a choice to make, would you rather be a rich man speeding or a poor man speeding? Ergo why I made an attempt to explain why psychopathy is not the cause of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:55 AM |
| 14 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Right. But moral relativism in that case would be reflexive. I like to explain this with the criminal justice system. If a poor person stands to lose a greater percentage of their life/livelihood/income by committing a crime (lets say a speeding ticket) than a rich person. Then that crime becomes effectively a flat tax. Thus, speeding is against the law for one group and a minor inconvenience for another. (Granted there are 'strikes' against your license, but even then a rich person can probably… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The widely accepted misandrist rhetoric when it comes to dating needs to stopNot unless you're Lia Thomas 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 04:04 PM |
| 7 | CMV: The widely accepted misandrist rhetoric when it comes to dating needs to stopThe comments section is a great example about how you are almost never allowed to own a penis, identify as a heterosexual man and lobby a reasonable complaint against heterosexual women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Can the mods please make a rule that comments saying that somebody is just lying about their personal experience will be deleted?Well I think the issue is when people use a personal anecdote to describe a general worldview or position that does not sync up with reality. Here's an anecdote to demonstrate: Second year of college I found myself on the tail end of my first big heartbreak. I started talking to a friend of mine who was a 'gogo girl' basically an amateur dancer/hype person for raves and clubs and such. She asked me how I was handling the breakup (not well), and tried to reassure me by saying something along the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Can the mods please make a rule that comments saying that somebody is just lying about their personal experience will be deleted?The 'hanging chad' if you will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 10:02 PM |
| 2 | 80 20 thing is justified because in general men put in less effortI bombed out of university and got straight As in community college. It was magnitudes easier to attract women while I was bombing than when I went full nerd mode. It might be true that you like intelligent men but the cruel reality is if you actually care about his grades you're already attractED to him. Meaning the grades in and of themselves are not attractIVE. Just icing on the cake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 06:10 AM |
| -1 | 'Provider, Protecter, Leader' is outdated.You mean besides the police? Or the firefighters? Or the military? Or the pest control bros Oooor plumbing? Electrical? Or how about the oil rig bros responsible for power in the first place? How about construction and road maintenance. Not too many ladies put there paving lanes at 3am. It's very convenient that women decided men aren't providing and protecting after basically all needs have become met by men they'll only interact with on a circumstantial level. After millenia of inventing, inno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 05:35 AM |
| 7 | Man gets caught looking at a woman in public, gets his face posted on TikTok with thousands now labeling him a "creep"How is that visual proof of anything. You have two high quality pictures of women dressed up and in makeup (likely also filtered/edited). And two dudes captured on a potato. Dress em' up, throw some makeup on, an AI face filter and shoot em somewhere with good lighting on a better camera. That picture is a terrible example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 05:14 PM |
| – | Men and women are both human, but do women want things men do?I'm not sure, have you run into much open mockery for your poetry? I'm probably out of the running. I read a lot when I was younger and kindof gassed myself out. Read most of the great works of science fiction. War of the worlds, 1984, the old Dune books, LoTR. Then went into medicine where all of the books were very engaging, but took a huge mental tax Most recently on my shelf is 'Ruination' and Aphorisms- Jing Si. Pretty light work nowadays. I find that many women ask for a high EQ man, not b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:47 PM |
| – | Men and women are both human, but do women want things men do?Based. I think all of my exxes ran into that problem with me, wanting me to demonstrably empathize with them on a minute by minute basis. Verbal acknowledgement and rational conversation about said circumstances and feelings was never sufficient. The expectation for your boyfriend to also be your confidant and therapist is not only misguided but dangerous. I think it's one of the big anchors holding modern women down. Going for a guy who makes you feel good not necessarily someone who IS good. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 09:53 PM |
| 6 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?There's a reason most skateboarders and football players retire young. It's an anomaly to maintain peak physicality into your 30s for a number of reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 05:06 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesGuess it worked different in 2014. Account's already lost to the ages. I eventually made a new one for doomscrolling memes art and extreme sports and that does fine. Still shows me ladies in their underwear or less from time to time though despite having a squeaky clean account and never clicking any lest another be sacrificed to the glute god, so I don't think you know the whole story (unless you're a software engineer for IG and TT with access to/helped write the algorithms in which case, my m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 08:05 PM |
| 21 | A lot of men are justifiably annoyed by a culture that blames them for the male gaze yet pumps "wet ass pussy" into the airwavesIt's almost like you aren't the target audience or something. I had to abandon my old instagram because I liked a couple too many butts when I was younger, eventually my whole feed was softcore porn and no matter how many 'fitness models' I unfollowed/blocked and stopping liking anything that may have or appears to have two X chromosomes, the algorithm refused to give in. I imagine tik tok's algorithm functions just about the same. Also most dating apps are onlyfans ads. I think tinder was attem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:42 PM |
| – | Why do men make fun of things women like?It's the functional equivalent of 'cold reading'. The modern 'tea leaf reading' Just because something has been around for 1000 years doesn't make it right. We thought the world was flat for a pretty good while until it was proven wrong with math. Since you can't prove astrology wrong with math and it's explicitly vague to be a catch-all there isn't a realistic way anyone can disprove it. But you also can't prove it. I believe you are what you practice because that can be proven. If someone tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themI still have no idea what the bounds were. I wasn't aware of any rule saying I was only supposed to use pathos related directly to the topic. If there is you should report me to the mods and be on your way. I take it you're not aware of the successful matriarchy or have any interest in the lessons they left behind then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 08:00 AM |
| 5 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themI'm sure you could. But do understand there is a very simple scenario in order to demonstrate the point. When there were only 4 eligible bachelors in town, 3 might get married. Trash is very much in the eye of the beholder and is highly contextual. Most people wouldn't eat insects, but go maybe 20 days without food and the tune changes. Ignoring historical context is a mistake. In fact one of the only successful martiarchies in history had a proverb on this very subject, if you're interested. Le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themJust offering my perspective, you can argue if you like. I accept my own opinion until someone offers a compelling one to the contrary. Women believe that their available options are undesirable. All I did was add my conjecture on why I think that might be. The part where I don't agree is competition. Competition is at the heart of this issue. If everyone was born exactly equal then the world would truly be just. It is inequality that breeds contest. Almost poetically, i think the contest betwee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 04:40 AM |
| 4 | Having 0 suitors and 100 suitors is the same thing if you don’t like any of themGranted it is entirely possible to have 100 cave trolls pining for you, but I've seen the DMs from a few fairly average 20-something women, I don't think that's what's happening If I had to bet my left testicle I'd say most young women who engage in dating explicitly to find an LTR are able to find a reasonably attractive and/or successful guy. The old saying 'spoiled for choice' comes to mind. So in that sense men are actually better off in a fucked up way. Only having 1-2 options and learning … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 03:57 AM |
| 2 | "Don't listen to what women say, pay attention to their actions"... Is something alot of men should live byCognitive dissonance is holding two conflicting thoughts in your head. It may be a result or a cause of hypocrisy but the two are not mutually exclusive. For example, cognitive dissonance may be 'I want to make friends' and 'everybody sucks' Hypocrisy in that case may be 'complaining how hard it is to make friends' and 'turning people down who talk to you, invite you to things and ask you about your life because you think they suck' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 03:17 PM |
| 12 | “Mansplaining” is a very real thing that is extremely rude. No, it’s not just women playing the victim.woosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 11:30 AM |
| 5 | There is nothing inherently creepy about cold approaching and most women’s revulsion with it is unwarrantedCompletely at peace with her cognitive dissonance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:29 AM |
| – | Women getting more attention is not inherently good for themI find it interesting that the sin of vanity never comes up here. It's the mother of all sins in at least 3 major religions (6 if we're going to reaalllly split hairs on the whole Jesus vs Mohammed vs Moses debacle). Across more or less completely isolated cultures the act of pride and putting yourself before others was considered one of the worst things you could do and fundamentally spawned all other 'evil'/ degenerate behaviors. Like, humanity figured this out nearly 3000 years ago and we're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 04:27 AM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?I think there's kindof an 'action hero' type of cognitive dissonance going on. Kindof the ladies' version of 'porn brain' where the image of what constitutes healthy masculinity is warped dramatically by the media Is it sexy when your boyfriend can/will manhandle a mugger or armed assailant and come out unscathed? Probably yeah. Would a reasonable couple simply run/call the police? Absolutely. I think the point being demonstrated is if backed into a corner or maybe said assailant is just faster … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:41 PM |
| 4 | CMV: women have gotten so used to poor treatment, many don't know how to respond when treated wellYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 06:01 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?You do if you want to spend your life with one person. At some point you will want different things, at some point your values will come into conflict and at that point you will have to decide if it is more important to get what you want or to follow through on your commitment to that person. Storytime: my stepmom is a wonderful woman, religious refugee from the middle East, literally escaped Sharia law and started a new life in the US, got a degree, became and interior designer, and to be candi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:17 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Take it easy homie. Read what I'm saying. You're making a false equivalence. The post is about financially successful/career centric women. (Painting with a broad brush) Men use their careers and money to take care of their families and spouses Women have proven to not be content when put in the same position. Financially (whether it be by social conditioning or simply the nature of the beast) women tend to do poorly in the breadwinner role when it comes to marriage. Not saying they aren't compe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:50 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Yes, but for purposes of this post/ finance in general, a strong and enthusiastic 'no' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:08 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Then we should've seen a sweeping wave of SAHDs when women started entering c-suites and gaining advanced degrees. (Spoiler alert, it's been nearly a century and that's objectively not the case) Don't get me wrong I think that's true in a very literal sense, but there seems to be a huge blindspot that sits directly on the part of the brain responsible for any romantic/monogamous involvement. I think women are conditioned to take care of others except in the exact scenario the post is describing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | "Don't listen to what women say, pay attention to their actions"... Is something alot of men should live byLol, somewhat fair, I was a touch hyperbolic there, but it's important to try and understand the point through what someone is saying. For example what I'm saying rings false because hypocrisy by the very literal textbook definition starts at parenthood 'do as I say not as I do' But hypocrisy when it comes to one's own words and actions, especially when it comes to romantic relationships is of a different breed. What I described is the very definition you provided by the dictionary. Proclaiming … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 12:19 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?You're going to have to climb that mountain someday. If you wind up keeping your vows you'll be in the statistical minority, so, best of luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 12:09 PM |
| – | What are successful women supposed to actually do for dating?Some of that is pretty far out there but homeboy makes a good point. I think women do have a very difficult time putting anyone else's wants and needs before their own, and the ones that figure it out usually wind up with a ring very quickly. The fact that you're even arguing against that part specifically speaks volumes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:37 AM |
| 6 | How come men find youth in women attractive but not vice versa?Women like experience and confidence. Both of those only truly come with age and practice. @psychhacks put it something like this: Men build a ship, and serve as its captain, when dating the basic idea is that women choose the ship and the captain So. While it may be exciting, and some passengers would rather bet on an unproven shipwright and an untested captain, in a vacuum the veteran sailor with a sturdy and/or luxurious vessel are more likely to attract passengers. Now, the metaphor doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 05:50 AM |
| 10 | Rejection SensitivityOnly one way to find out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:17 AM |
| 8 | "Don't listen to what women say, pay attention to their actions"... Is something alot of men should live byIn general when someone says one thing and does another we call them hypocrites. The only reason you would take hypocrisy for granted across the breadth and depth of humanity is usually going to be when you are one. Common sense is when you have a long list of requirements for a S/O but compromise somewhere along the way because the person you found still treats you well and your goals and values still line up. (Maybe cooking ability isn't all that important, maybe they don't need to be a fan of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 03:07 AM |
| 16 | “80% of women date 20% of men” is BSThat's somewhat correct, but go to nearly any American university, hang out with a hot guy for a weekend and you can watch this play out in real time. I'm no slouch but I used to have this super tall conventionally attractive friend. Had to stop going out with him because if we stood next to each other I may as well have been a linoleum sheet from the bathroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:21 AM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.And hows that working out for ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 04:00 PM |
| – | The fact that so many women have a problem with a man who goes 50/50 is proof that most women just want to use men and don't actually care about them.As a dude who is quite capable in the kitchen and would love to have a wife and kids to cook for: talking about that on dates before the ~3 month mark is a great way to speedrun inceldom. It's a little different if you were friends first, but in the modern dating economy it's better to act like an ambivalent cat than a golden retriever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 03:26 PM |
| 6 | CMV: the Blue Pill/Beta Bux strategy is the best strategy for the vast majority of menBecause it matters. Fortune favors the bold and success favors the tactical. It's extremely unlikely for any given man to make it to the top of the social heirarchy due to the dating market going from 'the three eligible bachelors in my hometown' to roughly the entirety of the internet. Exceptional women have access to superstars and professional athletes and average women have access to exceptional men. This combined with the positive feedback loop of narcissism and vanity on social media, topp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Does demonization of sexuality affect you?Should men stop breathing? It was joke... Sortof. I think some women would genuinely prefer the 'thanos snap' route if it was an option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Does demonization of sexuality affect you?That's just my face bro. Some girls get unnerved, one of my exxes said it felt like I was looking at her soul whenever we made eye contact. She didn't like it when my coworkers would make comments about my eyes being pretty. I usually have a fairly neutral expression bordering on 'resting bastard face' The whole 'don't look at me like a creep' thing has gone way too far. I've got a pretty wild eye color and am the definition of 'mid' otherwise. The handful of girls that liked me really enjoyed e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Does demonization of sexuality affect you?If you have to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 09:24 AM |
| 14 | Men lowering their standards didn’t widen the dating pool so stop doing it.Naw dude they're right. If I met a chubby chick that ticked the more important boxxes it'd be a layup for her. There will be no solidarity unless I'm wingmanning for you. Men are explicitly and always in a permanent state of competition for mating rites and sexual liberation has only returned the dating market to what it likely represented before marriage was a formal/religious institution. It only takes one silverback to make all solidarity among any other group of males irrelevant, and Pandora… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | High body count women don’t deserve commitmentYou're good people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | High body count women don’t deserve commitmentIf you're trying to get me to like the idea less it's not working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 11:41 PM |
| 3 | High body count women don’t deserve commitmentYou. You literally made his point for him by insulting his lack of hoes. No guy is going to scoff at a woman for having few and/or high fidelity sexual partners, but you just did to this man. That's the difference. The cognitive dissonance is unreal. If you want to change the standard step one would be to find a better way to ad homiem than attacking his SMV. Step 2 would be to start a hoe>housewife program. Like NA for alpha widows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Men are currently experiencing their Heroin Chic eraI agree. In fact I never didn't agree, per my original comment: we can table the whole rapist thing, I don't believe that everyone on 2XC thinks all men are rapisits, but I do think it's an extremely unhealthy forum to participate in regardless of your X chromosome count Then you asked me for evidence of the thing I claimed was decidedly untrue, if not at the very minimum needlessly hyperbolic. You appear to be arguing against yourself. You good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Men are currently experiencing their Heroin Chic eraNo, and that's also not what I said. Ya' gotta read all the way to the bottom amiga. But I do think if you scroll for maybe 15 seconds you can find blatant, and heavily upvoted misandry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 01:17 AM |
| 7 | "Treat women as human beings"Ah you didn't understand the assignment. What they mean is that you need to understand how to treat human women from birth unprompted. This comes from radical privilege and a lifetime of zero responsibility for their own romantic fate. Attraction happens passively for a woman and actively for (most) men. It's kindof like your rich friend telling their friend that works juuuuuust under full time at McDonald's to just invest in Berkshire-Hathaway when you're struggling to make ends meet. Gee, than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 05:34 PM |
| 13 | Men are currently experiencing their Heroin Chic eraIf they don't very few of them say it out loud. Reddit has 430 active users monthly. Around 70% of those are men. Bringing us to 129 million women. So at least 10% are actively speaking out against men, or at the very minimum complicit in the 2XC misandry circlejerk. I'd have to talk to a mod to get harder numbers (they only get more damning from here because 2XC is one of the most highly interacted-with subs on the whole site despite representing a relative minority based on gender alone) but I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Who is more successful in dating - the "Pick Me" girl? Or the S.I.M.P.?Pearl is not a pick me. She's a textbook 'boss babe' Owns and manages her own business Has very strong opinions/ her whole career is centered around her being combative and controversial Is a professional athlete I'm not sure why Pearl keeps popping up in these conversations. What this woman is prescribing is a much better 'for instance'. True pick mes are very rare. I'm no slouch but I've only had two girls in my life really go out of their way to get picked and much like 'nice' guys when the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 04:53 AM |
| 13 | Does having an OF significantly effect a woman's future dating options?Yeah, because then you can just lie by omission, the honorable sex worker's retirement plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 04:57 AM |
| 13 | Women are extremely selective and that's okay.Oh yes, I'm sure they all want to take 1/100th of a relationship from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Nature spawns more males than it should so that we are always at war. And its intentional.It's funny you should mention Sparta. Aries was the only (male) God not reported to have raped anyone. Almost every other city state had incidence of Baccanalia where everybody got super drunk and fucked everybody else. So the bhole wasn't exclusive to Sparta, the most belligerent city state had the most notable tradition of women's rights including owning land and being more involved in formal education. Not to mention the Spartan tradition of executing rapists. (Aries started that one too, som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Maybe it's time to get his number? I don't like snapchat but that also seems like a pretty effective way to communicate if y'all don't have phones (Wish I had the gif of the blizzard dev for diablo immortal rn 'do you not have phones?') | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.So you aren't looking for a date and you aren't looking for a hookup, then what are you looking for? I was being slightly facetious when I made the church comment, but if you're posting on NSFW Reddit and you're not looking to have a bunch of horny dudes in your DMs, you're not looking for a date and you're not interested in a hookup why not lock down your dms and unsubscribe from the comments? (I still lack context, what is prompting these DMs? Basically all of my exxes were 'content creator' l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Men are looking for casual sex and fwbs whether you want to hear it or not.Men want to pay the lowest price possible to acquire sex Women want to obtain the highest value for the lowest price possible to acquire relationships You specifying that you're interested in a romantic commitment but not immediately sex is the functional equivalent of men specifying he's interested in sex but not immediately a commitment. Now I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you but I do think it's important to understand this very basic concept. For men 'game' is acting like you are intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 06:15 PM |
| 14 | Men pursue “fake” women the most*a second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 02:13 PM |
| – | It’s rough online dating for American Arab/Middle Eastern guys?Part of my family is Persian. One of the boys is in med school and dating a spicy young lady, the other is doing gig jobs and is in his 'inconsistent with women' phase. BOTH have very middle eastern names, both decidedly not Aryan enough to pass as 'off-white'. Both meet women in person afaik. Love those crazy bastards. To the best of my understanding very very few guys are getting results from the online game. I do ok, but I'm not passing any height filters and am too stubborn to lie about it a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 07:22 AM |
| 8 | CMV: The best sexual achievement is taking a ton of virginitiesThe council doesn't claim this one. Misandry at will, he needs to cook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Is money really that important when it comes to relationships?Not necessarily, but you do need to put yourself out there, and you do need to have some substance behind yourself that can relate to women in general in order to hold her interest. Like for example I'm a huge Fromsoft nerd. I made a wooden necklace of the hunter's mark. So the conversation starts with artistic ability, and can go into the symbolism, its origins in Berzerk, how that was translated by Myazaki in Bloodborne. What is the origin of the thing and what lessons we can learn from storie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Is money really that important when it comes to relationships?Well I'm just letting you know the score. I'd be happy living in a cardboard box, and I prefer to spend a lot of time alone (drove my ex nuts). And I specifically chose my job because the heirarchy is literally two tiers (and most of my patients spend most of their time unconscious), I never wanted to jockey for promotions, play the corporate game etc. In fact I'd probably be more than happy living in a shipping container if it had power, LAN access and plumbing. I don't care to travel, or talk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Is money really that important when it comes to relationships?I'm also not an ambitious guy so let me put it to you this way: I'm your competition. I work in medicine, I'm an extreme sports athlete, fitness enthusiast, went to college (had the whole college experience), was in a band, bilingual, solid chef (my diet is tight, and if you give me a little coconut oil I can give you a scuffed Calvin Klein ad). Well versed in a variety of sports sciences, arts, and even a little philosophy and history. On a less harsh note, let me give you some advice. Ambition… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Who gives better dating advice for women? Single men or Women with boyfriends?Best advice I ever got was from literal pimps. The best 'wingman' is an attractive young woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/23 12:44 AM |
| 0 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being meanHey fair enough, it may be that I lack critical understanding on the topic, and my sample size is 1+ hearsay. But the for the guys I know are pre-selected for romantic/intimate relationships women will ignore or handwave dark triad traits as long as they come on an attractive body/ competence and confidence behind closed doors. So it may very well be that my sample is not consistent with reality, but when you have front row seats to the shitshow it's hard to ignore the smell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine.Honestly? I don't dislike your stance. I still think it's strictly worse to not go/let her fuck around and find out, but you make solid points. I shouldn't have doubted the user flair, good shit my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 03:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine.Fair, but your whole premise rests on human behavior, cheating is a very human thing to do. No man should ever be afraid to be robbed either, but that doesn't mean we disband the police. In the same vein, if someone is wearing a white coat, and has a badge, and is in a hospital there's a reasonable assumption to be made that person is an experienced clinician and can help you in the event of a medical emergency. So if your girl is going out, dressed for the occasion, hair did, makeup fleeky and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 10:34 AM |
| 31 | CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine.I think there's room for nuance with male friends for sure. The last girl I dated had a guy best friend and he never threw up any sus, they'd been through a lot of shit together and he even helped ME on a couple different occasions when she would let her baggage cloud her judgement But orbiters are absolutely a thing. The girl I dated before that made friends with a co-worker and monkey branched with no shame. I dated a girl in highschool that broke up with me right after we graduated to hook up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 10:20 AM |
| 13 | CMV Women don‘t hate nice guys, women hate men without a spine.Flirting is human behavior. Having sex is human behavior. Neither are inherently consequential. But both can be highly toxic if you're in a committed LTR. Also mate guarding is pretty much ubiquitous across time and space, last I checked the only historical documentation of a human society that didn't mate guard was one subset of Native Americans (but they also had no concept of property, with structure comes reduction of freedom, without structure, nobody gets a cushy air-conditioned office, or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 10:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being meanAh, I could've worded it better. The proper term is selection bias. I was just spinning a yarn about when I learned about it By using that specific kind of sexual catharsis as your primary counterpoint, my arguement is that you're selecting a very very small niche. Very veeeery few men will ever have so much power that they feel the need to have the tables turned. What I'm finding very interesting here is that women do seem to love arguing the exception and acting like it's the rule. The % of ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 03:40 AM |
| 2 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being meanA lot is relative. If you DO find a CEO or high powered politician who likes subbing you note it because it seems strange. But understand that those are the 1% of the 1% of men, and you're talking about a fraction of them. The exception of the highly exceptional if you will. My dad liked to call this the 'Prius effect'. I was complaining for a bit that Prius drivers suck. My dad asked if that was true or if it's just because that's the car I know that sticks out. I'd be willing to bet 1) BDSM su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 12:36 AM |
| -1 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being meanRead the second paragraph again, slowly please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 11:38 PM |
| 0 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being mean"Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power" I'm not saying there aren't guys that can't 'do both' but dominance in and out of the bedroom doesn't happen on accident. Or let me put it another way, how often do you find a humble, respectful, selfless man and as soon as the bedroom door closes turns into Christian Gray? I'd be willing to wager it's not that common. You are what you practice. Your claim perfectly highlights the cognitive dissonance involved in dating modern women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being meanIt's the cognitive dissonance associated with choosing traits but ignoring the consequences of those traits. I want my man to be a strong leader/ but not impose on my prerogative or any liberties I enjoy I want my man to be charming/ but not emotionally manipulative (which is a core tenant of charming men)or charming to other women. I want a player/ that only plays with me All men need consent to make romantic advances/ but if he asks for it out loud it kills the vibe (not always, I got away wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 08:21 PM |
| 6 | CMV: You can dominate a woman and be masculine without being mean'I want to be dominated' .... 'no not like that' The build-a-bear boyfriend effect is very real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 06:57 PM |
| – | The first step to being with a woman is to make it absolutely known that you don't want to be her friend.He's hard trolling or a closet incel https://www.reddit.com/r/microdosing/s/vPtYPablZc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 03:44 PM |
| – | The first step to being with a woman is to make it absolutely known that you don't want to be her friend.'I would never want someone who objectifies me' (Proceeds to objectify men and attempt to deflect when called out for it) The ol' self-report and shell game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV Men that date Single Moms, will always be seen as Cucks/suckers by other Men, and Women need to understand this.Don't forget that you'll usually be skipping the majority of the honeymoon phase of the relationship. Let's say she is currently reformed and making good choices, and take a wild BoTD and say she's got herself and the kids financially squared off through college (isn't looking for a pay pig/beta angel investor whatever you wanna call it) AND she's done the self-work to put down her baggage, stayed in shape, and baby daddy is dead in a ditch somewhere so you don't have to worry about drama or rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 09:08 AM |
| 24 | Does a woman’s sex drive really play a big part in their dating life/success?I can't believe I had to scroll so far to find this answer. Sex is the primary incentive for men to be romantic. Giving a woman time,attention, investment, validation, free therapy, usually a home, and assorted romantic gestures in exchange for very little-no sex is basically the nightmare scenario for any young man. I disagree about the connection part though, a couple of my guy friends have been fleeced over the years. Some by a facade of a sex drive, some by the old 'if you really cared about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 03:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Normal women get ignored.Even when the parents aren't the doctrine steeps into the collective conscience very quickly. I was recently working with a young woman who'd sworn off of men, convinced herself men were the root of all evil etc. sworn to lesbianism and not-so-subtle misandry her parents were relatively normal from what I understand After 6 months of questioning her beliefs and demonstrating the value of masculinity (helped that one of my coworkers is an ex marine, nicest guy you ever met, super helpful, knowled… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/23 06:15 AM |
| 16 | The "friend" fallacy.For the loose standards of psychopathy (antisocial behaviors commonly attributed to sociopaths) the rate is around 4.5% of adults in the US For the GOLD clinical standard (true psychopathy) the rate is about 1.2% https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8374040/ However I read an article not too long ago about a neurologist studying sociopathy in EKG format. His numbers were closer to 10% meaning that most people grow out of it and/or learn to not be jerks even if their brains are still prod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Cmv: If you can’t trust people, then don’t be around people. Just be happy being single, childless, and friendless.Believe it or not losing your family and losing your money are two different things. You can make more money, you can make another business, go back to school at 50 (my favorite classmates in my program were a 67 year old man and a 50 something latin woman who voted me for class president despite not nominating myself, I almost fuckin won. Crazy how life goes) buuuut most guys only really get one shot at making their own family. Take my favorite preceptor James, ex marine. Strong, smart, compass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | "Progressive" women falling short?You proved the point you were arguing against in situ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Bacon also works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.Aaand we've come full circle to MGTOW, that was fast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableI'm confused. Are you saying that someone could come effectively re-po an orphan that's been adopted or that love is your metric for parental success and that without the specific neurotransmitters involved in the gravida and partum processes that love exists. Like I think you got some demons to fight there friend, because if you think love is 1. A useful metric for success in a family unit 2. An analog for approval or 3. Guaranteed to biological children then I have a bridge to sell ya. Granted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Men who want to be loved for "who they are" and not "what they provide" are not being reasonableThe stepchild thing isn't necessarily about genetic continuity. I think a big part of the problem is about rights. There's a grand canyon of difference between a child in my life, where I'm emotionally, financially, and temporally invested in who has a biological father available to them (just unfit by mom's standards, whether she be justified and there was some grand machiavelli level manipulation/subsequent disappointment on her part and she really did make all the reasonable choices or simply… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 05:43 PM |
| – | NOT PILLED YET - But this might do it. What do you all think?Second. Take the high road. This is a character building moment. You are what you practice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | What is your experience with women who earn significantly more than their partners/husbands?Also working in healthcare. What you're saying is very true. Society told women they could have anything. What people fail to understand is that it's impossible to have everything. You can't have it all, you can't do it all. Tony Hawk isn't in the NFL. Bob Ross probably wasn't anything special on a pottery wheel. At some point you grow up and realize anything worth having, anything area where you want to display mastery or greatness will require you to sacrifice something else. Or like your doct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Why is there no #TradHusband movement?Well quickly is relative. Successful men traditionally would maintain multiple women. Across almost every continent religion creed and tribe polygamy was based on men's success in one arena or another Sarah M. S. Pearsall https://doi.org/10.1093/actrade/9780197533178.003.0002 Pages 10–23 Published: February 2022 ‘Origins and overthrows’ considers the origins of polygamy and its representation in the book of Genesis in the Hebrew Bible, telling the story of Abraham, Sarah, and Hagar, who were inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Men don’t actually like “good” womenI certainly think there's some truth there, but on the other side of the coin it's not so one dimensional. Kindof like if I said 'well if men exemplified competence, fidelity, honesty and respect toward women and that got them consistent romantic attention then I doubt anyone would be a fuckboy, and we wouldn't have so many fat/lazy/dusty/unreliable men' No one party controls all the supply or all the demand. At a certain point the only accountability you can take is for things within your contr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make itI prefer starboard reading comprehension, so. o7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 03:13 AM |
| 0 | The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make itWha...You really ran with that. And you've got some pretty critical errors about what I said pretty high up in the logic tree there. Did you want me to respond or did you just want to vent about people being mean on the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make itSo let's start off by saying I think you have your finger on the jugular. (I'm going to sideline the whole partner thing because you can be partners in many different ways, sex, drugs, rock n roll, I was using the term strictly in the context of sexual relationships. I'm also not going to answer for any individual making light of human trafficking, idk where you're going with that one, you should address that with that individual, I'm also not going to answer for shameless men making bastards. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 01:15 AM |
| 4 | The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make itIs that a serious question? Hookers are not desirable partners for a variety of reasons. Idk where this masturbate with someone else's body rhetoric came from so I'm not sure how to respond to that/ which part of point 1 you may not understand. Do you want a more biology focused answer? A sociology type guess or an ethical thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:56 PM |
| 3 | The biggest misunderstanding about TRP comes from the fact that very low percentage of men who try it actually make itWell you're missing a huge piece of the puzzle. I think you know your question is rhetorical in a way We're a sexually dimorphic species hard wired to seek each other and create communities to produce successful offspring So marriage as an institution was an efficient solution to the question, how do we keep men responsible for the offspring they produce? What do you offer a man who has already accomplished his biological imperative? And how do we keep societies and families stable over a long p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 09:22 AM |
| – | Women don’t and never need to be accountable for their actionsI prefer Arrakis, but I respect the throwback reference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:01 AM |
| 5 | The argument that most black pill/red pill/Puas make dating too complicated, because all you gotta do is "Treat women like their human" is a lazy defense.I disagree 'game'/charm/rizz and mental health are not mutually inclusive That's like saying if you can't do a kickflip you aren't physically healthy. It's a skill that requires highly deliberate attention and effort to be learned and practiced in order to be successful. Some people learn how to kickflip quickly and easily, some take months, years, or never even bother. I said and did all kinds of wacky shit when I was a teenager, some of it worked, a lot of it didn't, but that kindof failure is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenWell sure, but it's not like I interact with kids and single women outside of a professional setting (or my immediate family, I love my niece and nephew to bits), and inside that setting that tends to make em single moms. That's generally a quality that's only observed within a pre-existing romantic relationship or by the mother. It won't actually help anyone who's not already attracting women or down to be a stepdad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 05:33 AM |
| 15 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenCan confirm. I work with kids and babies. That shit is crack cocaine for some women, if I was interested in single moms you'd probably never see my ass on Reddit again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Do women's taste in men change when they are on birth control ?I'm right there with you. That's why I used the obtuse language 'not not a thing' rather than say 'it is a thing'. I'm not going to die on that hill, but I also wouldn't go so far as to say I have enough context to try and discredit the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:21 PM |
| -3 | Do women's taste in men change when they are on birth control ?It's not not a thing. Studies are inconclusive. Here's a neat little article from a couple doctors explaining why it may occur Here's a strange one where they studied attraction during pregnancy against attraction for women who did and did not use hormonal birth control. Results fairly conclusive. That being said the second study was tiny, statistically speaking it was anecdotal, and you can choose to believe any given doctor or not. One factor that may explain why some people run into this effe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:00 PM |
| 8 | Q4A: Are women more responsible for divorces?If that were true women should just buy pets and men should just stay at home, smoke weed and play video games.... Oh wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 09:35 PM |
| 9 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?It's literally poison, with a pretty low LD50 a myriad of negative psychosomatic effects. If it wasn't so deeply ingrained in the culture and I told you there was a drink that hurts your brain, liver, kidneys and shuts down the part of your brain thats primarily responsible for preventing you from making bad decisions nobody would drink it. So you do you, but there are a number of highly objectively stupid things people do that get them romantic attention successfully. Alcohol is just the low ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 02:03 AM |
| 8 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Idk about the stupid shit part. Drinking is pretty stupid, but it's not called social lubricant for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 12:45 AM |
| 4 | The men here fail because they refuse to take any risksI mean. I was an amatuer (non-muscular) athlete Did every drug under the sun (was gang adjacent for a bit) Frontman in a band Capable artist in most mediums Met a handful of famous adjacent people Well studied in a few different areas, wound up with a career in medicine. And more! To be blunt I've had a colorful life, I've had colorful jobs, and a variety of skills and interests, but an ambivalent relationship with food. And I don't like blackpill rhetoric, but (if we remove drugs and alcohol fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Instagram, YouTube and any other form of social media mostly keeps showing content that either blames men or women.Just make a second account. I did the same thing for instagram and don't follow any popular women (even if I know them personally)/influencers etc. Now my feed is full of memes, woodwork, art, skateboarding etc. instead of just constantly being bombarded with butts I didn't ask for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.Right, but what are you going to do? Tar and feather anyone who's accused? Put them in a pillory in the town square? What is your threshold for abuse? What is your threshold for a false claim? How would one measure these things as a first second or third party? My opinion is that at some point making these claims and conducting yourself in this way not only provide a positive feedback loop for the traits of the people who have been wronged to continue to be wronged and propagate more emotional v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/23 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.Based. I'mma link this to the original comment so it doesn't get buried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.But that's the root, right there, all four aspects of the victim mentality buried in one comment. Granted that's reading it a touch facetiously, and I do understand there's an emotional grand canyon between someone saying: -I want you to find someone who loves you and suits you and that you both do your best to treat each other like a best friend, if not better And -'insert whatever incel Chad based rhetoric you'd like' While I agree with you that no man should blame his lack of personal success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 73 | Men who tell women “pick better men” are just telling women not to pick them.At some point you have to accept that life isn't just something that happens to you. You are an active participant in the course of your life. One common trait that people who are easy to manipulate/gaslight share: ego weakness and emotional vulnerability This is something I think all the buzzword psychology tends to get wrong in spectacular fashion. There are two sides to every story, and for the same reason the bible completely cut out the apocrypha 'when you name a demon you make a demon'. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 11:26 AM |
| 13 | If most guys actually knew women they wouldn't like them so muchThere's a pretty wide gap between 'she's hot, I should rub one out' and 'put a baby in me, my husband is genetic hotdog water' | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientSo stress is a justification for cheating or what? I certainly agree that time apart does, but every job has 'outs'. Business dinners, overtime etc. Teacher's christmas party. I'm not getting the point of this comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Getting married to her Perfect PersonThere wasn't a single shot where the friend or the ring weren't center frame. Not a single shot of the husband by himself. This implies to me that the best friend is more concerned that her friend is marrying someone who's not a douche/ has a stable income than if he's objectively attractive. When MY best friend got married a bunch of his wife's friends were posting about HIM 'look how this man wears that suit, look at that hair, that face, that smile, those shoulders, isn't she lucky?' Granted,… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientI'm just giving the pertinent data I think it's very interesting that the fields with the most reported infidelity are the fields where either men or women make up the majority of the constituency. I'm more in the camp where if you NEED to be the provider, and you NEED that sense of control via furnishing a lifestyle you probably have not healed yet and invoking a kind of manipulation via financial coercion/furnishing of a certain QoL speaks to the character of the person receiving that lifestyl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.You the collective you or you the personal you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Double standards are valid since... men sleep with women they would never date and women sleep with men they can never date.Well I went to college in a very liberal metropolitan area. Was only single for one year and there was a saying among my ladyfriends. 'Everybody fucks everybody'. I'm sitting there thinking. 'Everybody's definitely not fucking me' So what they actually meant was: 'I can fuck anybody I want most days of the week'. Aka projection. And this was long before TRP got relatively popular So not saying they're representative of the whole population, but there are certainly haves and have-nots in the 'dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyThat gap is only 6% and both are well above 50. It's more reasonable to say that the majority of people who only slept with their spouse had happier marriages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Getting married to her Perfect PersonNotice how the fat rock got more screen time than her fiancee | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/10/23 02:29 AM |
| 2 | He is ugly worthless monster to me - but he could still get a gf, says a womanI mean when it's one post that might be a reasonable thing to say, but you have to scroll pretty far to get to the point where she's not just bitching about ugly men. Like I gave her the benefit of the doubt until 10~15 tweets down with the same eugenetic, misandrist content, at which point I think it's reasonable to say 'me thinks she doth protest too much' which is Shakespeare-speak for 'who hurt you?' For example this post where she's literally telling men who don't eat 'ravenously' to die. L… | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 06:19 PM |
| 5 | He is ugly worthless monster to me - but he could still get a gf, says a womanI noticed that too Infinite love* *Proceeds to make her twitter account almost 100% misandry | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/10/23 06:15 PM |
| -4 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientWell it is a touch 'convenient' that one of those articles was published by a Texas University-an institution heavily invested in encouraging people to go to college, and the most recent data tables all seem to have a bit of a strange doorstop for any marriage lasting 'at least 20 years' being in the not divorced column. But yeah, the more up to date research is at least somewhat compelling/less morbid at least, ty for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 07:01 AM |
| -1 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientWell the number 1&2 jobs where women cheat are education and medical. https://www.businessinsider.com/jobs-where-people-are-most-likely-to-cheat-2018-3 So in addition to college education being linked to divorce you also have extremely popular female-dominated fields topping the infidelity charts. Could those posts be worded better/ curated more equitablably? Absolutely. But the bottom line is that there is a reason classic bro wisdom warns the layman to avoid career women. (In the interest of e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:33 AM |
| 7 | It’s women fault men are such trashThere's an old quote attributed to Asculputes, but it's found in the Bible, the Quaran, in daoism, bhuddism and is kindof echoed across different cultures and eras. 'The true healers are those who have been wounded themselves' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:21 AM |
| – | Are masculine women more loyal?Hence the problem with masculine women who are that way d/t higher testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 10:45 AM |
| – | Low Body Count Does Nothing for MaryAre we doing N-count posts again? I'm not going to get all emotionally invested if the mods are just going to come yeet this to Narnia, but that hypothetical was super weak. Like let's translate to the male equivalent, ladies are you sure you want a confident/ experienced man? Homeless guy: Believes in the flying spaghetti monsters, body wracked by stds and potentially scurvy. Smells like urine, and on weekdays the faintest touch of dumpster outside the bagel shop because Kevin lets him raid it.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 05:42 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou really do your man proud on the internet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 05:33 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Using a man to be a penpal/surrogate is just as bad as using a woman for sexThat's kindof the whole game though. Idk. I think for a low fidelity interaction you should generally nut up (and this is coming from someone who is usually 'guys have it rough' biased). But I think how you phrase it matters a LOT for example:'I don't want to be your emotional tampon anymore unless I also have consistent access to your orifices' Is toxic, rude and unlikely to be effective What you should say in this situation (if/when true): 'hey I've really enjoyed getting to know you and appre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:45 AM |
| 0 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleI've never said anyone should defer, what I am saying is that the active pursuit of sex has value and meaning beyond 'obsession'. My bad, didn't mean to trigger you with what I would consider to be the woman equivalent of an incel. It was only an example where I've seen blatant and unabashed projection in the modern era. That and the Reilly Reid/ other pornstars complaining about their dating problems If you can't appreciate the hypocrisy of one, you should be careful judging the hypocrisy of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 07:36 PM |
| 0 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleWell that's a very black and white way of looking at it. You've got the black down pat but you're ignoring the white and part of me believes that disconnect is intrinsic and another part believes it's just a fundamental lack of empathy. My personal soapbox is that you kind of become what you practice, so to reiterate, that girl at 16 who always knew she wanted to be a mom in a committed relationship with a man will have much better outcomes because she practiced the skills that would enable her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 07:09 PM |
| 0 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleI mean. Are those things not present in humanity as well? Not encouraging it, but if we're looking at it objectively the animals with low libidos and high libidos tend to have a more than few things in common. So if we're really making the comparison between people and animals.... The things that are similar in intelligence, gestational cost and social structure (and even on the human level across many different cultures) echo each other implying to me that only a part of this puzzle is 'nurture… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleThat demographic is niche at best for multiple reasons Even if it wasn't this is basic supply and demand. https://youtube.com/shorts/_XFCOCRZxIs?si=fa_yeHyLdD2KcCDR demand for women willing to have sex is high. If a woman is really itching for those 2.5 kids and a golden retriever and a white picket fence, the 'obsession' with sex almost always ensures that woman will be able to lock down a man for that task assuming she is willing to do so with a relatively (or just above) average dude. Or to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleI'm not saying it's good, I'm saying (and this is speaking from a first world perspective, so no Sharia law and the only sex trafficking is voluntary and mainly done with an Instagram link tree) life would be much different for women if men didn't have the sexual appetite they did. For one, how are you lowering it? Testosterone blockers? Whirlwind of problems there For two you'd probably have an immediate spike in homelessness on both ends. Men no longer motivated to build a home for a family, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleYeah. That's a discussion for r/nihilism You're on the wrong sub buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 02:26 PM |
| 2 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleWhat a mature and well thought out response/s The reason we're talking right now, some of the greatest works of art and science were made by ugly men. You could argue that women's rights are a direct consequence of a bunch of dusty, mid lookin dudes who got tired of paying taxes and mandatory religious doctrine. So you might want to be careful making a eugenic argument based on lookism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleI mean, remove everyone's testes/ovaries and the species loses Darwin's Game immediately. Bizarre claim to make that a trait that literally defines biological success is useless. If you don't reproduce you lose, this is literally high school level shit. Rings true from COVID (which is debatably not even alive) all the way up to Pandas (which have very fastidious sexual practices, making them notoriously ill suited for survival- at least in their current climate.) All of biology is built on this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 02:19 PM |
| -1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleI like how you picked the class of women that 'unga bunga me horny' levels of testosterone benefits THE MOST. And you're making a pretty huge leap between women who want and plan babies and all the babies being had. I've met exactly one in my life who, ever since 16, just wanted to be a good mom, far more kindof (literally and/or figuratively) drunkenly stumble and pursue low fidelity relationships into motherhood, and the even sadder outcome, turn 30 something, wake up one day and realize she's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 02:00 PM |
| -1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleSo it's rare except in the two species with brain structures and social hierarchies that are the absolute most comparable to humanity. Gotcha, you really showed me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleWell your point is sociopathic. And If I really have to explain that men go out of their way to select and be selected for romantic compatibility and most women NEVER will then bless your heart. Testosterone makes it ALL happen. You know who wasn't a good looking dude? Beethoven. Thomas Edison. Benjamin Franklin. Einstein may have looked ok if he bothered to clean up a bit, but overall? Frumpy incel looking motherfuckers. The pendulum swings both ways. Everyone is going to wind up old and ugly s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 06:07 AM |
| -2 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleProve it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:55 AM |
| 0 | High libido is a curse for unattractive peopleHumanity would quickly go extinct if men weren't designed to be 'obsessed' with sex. Your comment is kindof like saying 'this computer would run so much better without being bogged down by the gpu and display' Like, technically that's true, but renders the rest of the unit functionally useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 04:43 AM |
| 13 | Do you think society is more hostile for women now?Honestly? The positive publicity may even snowball that guy into a relationship with a woman who actually appreciates him too. That woman self-reported as a horrible person and unintentionally doxxed homeboy as a solid dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?Ironically this understanding probably would've made you an excellent dad. 'With wisdom comes uncertainty, only the truly foolish are confident beyond doubt' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?You need to specifically write the word 'Man' the flair color templates aren't being auto-modded, only the text. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?Top level yes, you can still reply without a flair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 12:01 AM |
| 10 | Men who refuse to raise a child that isn’t biologically yours but want kids, why do you want kids?Would I love a kid that wasn't mine? Sure But I'd be lying if I said I didn't want to tell all the stories my grandpa told my dad about our family and so forth to the next link in the chain, we even still have the story of our family name. There's a small village in Europe where you can find my last name carved into more than half of the buildings. We come from masons, engineers, painters, writers, and a smattering of vintners. And if you believe the legends we were mobsters for a while. Like wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Courtship is gynocentric, submissive, and demeaning for men who are not blessed with physical attractiveness.Courtship: a period during which a couple develop a romantic relationship, especially with a view to marriage Courtship (biol): the behavior of male birds and other animals aimed at attracting a mate. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why does body count matter so much to you?Well that depends. The old gene pool of Britons was notoriously shallow until the anglo-saxons started migrating in. So depending where you're measuring from that might only be 4~5 people But interestingly enough there are pretty interesting physiological changes that occur in response to different sources of DNA... Idk how far this rabbit hole you want to go though. It's one of those: 'you can't unsee it' things. https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/physrev.00013.2018#:~:text=Semina… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/10/23 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Being monogamous and wanting children should guarantee every man getting a female partner. Our current dating environment is just an anomaly before population collapse.Fetty Wap. Convicted felon, serial womanizer 5 baby mamas, married one of em in 2019 Not saying all men or all women here, but in a vacuum neither documented crime nor overt serial polygamy are exclusion criteria is dude is 'high value' enough. Other dude is talking about Chad fishing where you make a fake OLD profile of an extremely attractive man and give him a swastika tattoo or write 'child sex offender' in the bio. The sad part was swastika guy got (at least one) hookup invite from a black … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:19 AM |
| – | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicYeah., as I get older the green flags get easier to see though. No, I have ADD and graduated, I'm not a physician though so the term medical school is a bit misleading. But our test is notoriously harder than the Nclex, closer to the boards for Doctors, so the difficulty is in the same ballpark. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 02:16 PM |
| 3 | When women complain about the "slut-stud double standard" are they actually complaining about women being called "sluts", not so much about men being called "studs"?I mean there's a spectrum, but in general I think guys who speak that way are not in it for the long haul. Maybe it's just me (coming with an extensive professional coaching background) but as long as starfishing is coming from a genuine lack of experience versus enthusiasm I see it as an opportunity. I GET to be the guy that shows her the ropes. It's a distinct kind of satisfaction being able to guide someone through the process AND in the case of sex, you (as the partner/teacher) actually get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 10:26 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flagsWhy would he have to make it up? We now have the same information. You know it's your baby, I know it's mine. I don't agree with 99% of OP's rhetoric but I think it's the same as an open phone policy in a relationship. I wonder what the woman equivalent would be? Maybe you were in a 10 month coma, woke up and your boyfriend/husband came in with a baby with a different hair/eye/maybe even skin color than you and said 'oh you were pregnant before the coma and had our child during it, here's our ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:03 PM |
| – | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Both are the prize. Both have to pay an opportunity cost and give up freedoms to enter a relationship. All committnent requires compromise of some kind. Your question introduces a kind of false equivalence. Like I could say, well if you're a poor markswoman shouldn't we make the targets bigger? If you're a not the fastest runner should we give you a head start? You see dating/marriage as a compentence to be levied on men? I see it as both. Both are responsible for the integrity of the commitment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Any Tinder experiments that prove blue pills or disprove red pills?It's not a crime at all. (It's almost guaranteed that it breaks the app's TOS though). You get into criminal territory if you pose as someone like a doctor, lawyer, federal agent, false valor for military stuff too I guess. And even then I'm not sure it's necessarily a crime unless you try to practice. Like what would he be guilty of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | As a single woman, what do you hate about dating in 2023?German engineering baby! Horndogs to the left, lovebirds to the right, single file lines if you please. And 3. 2. 1. PAIR UP! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Why is asking for a paternity test a relationship ender?I mean that's reasonable, but then there's the question of when and how. First date? Probably not a good move. Second trimester? Also not great When trying to conceive? Can't think of a better way to land yourself on the couch for a week You can't force empathy, the whole culture has to change for it to be a reasonable thing to talk about. I can't think of one couple who walked out looking happy from Maury or family court regardless of the actual outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | just because somepone flirts doesn't mean they want the other person to escalate propositionGreat self-report for objectifying men and literally playing with their emotions in an entirely unscrupulous way tho. What a fantastic way to hurt someone's feelings and perpetuate toxic femininity. I would think OP is LARPing, but I have seen this a couple times irl 'i'M nOt LeAdInG hIm On' Bitch you spent the last 20 minutes giggling in his lap. Wym. Wyd then? As the great Confucius once said: 'it's you. Hi. You're the problem it's you' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaNaw this is standard 'game' every guy has to learn at least a few of the rules if he wants to be successful and this is a big one, especially in Western Culture where individuality is praised 'mirroring' copying someone's inflection/mood and making conversation about what they do and the choices they make is a sign of healthy social conditioning and empathy, it's not manipulation by default. Like how your man talked about the book you were READING instead of how nice your butt looked. Manipulati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %That's a different story (literally). Actively/directly? Once. That's generally a job for bigger guys But you do realize the irony of that question coming after a story where I protected a woman from herself by putting myself on the line right? Women like to talk about fear a lot, violence and such, but it's so strange to me that so many who wind up learning some kind of martial art want to fight dudes/think they can. Sexual dimorphism is real. If you ever have to fight a guy you should avoid it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 12:30 AM |
| 6 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %So did she. I'm just telling you what I tell my ladyfriends/what I would tell my daughter. I believe you're tough, but everyone's tough until they get a limb broken, or get a couple eyes full of pepper spray. Unless you're (almost literally) Rhonda Rousey just carry mace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:15 PM |
| 4 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %Most people who think like that have never been in a fight. Just carry mace (or a handgun if it's legal in your area). Even when I was a 120lb beanpole I had a young woman around my height and weight (kickboxxing enthusiast supposedly) talk enough shit to goad me into a sparring match on our friend's lawn. Lasted all of 10 seconds, caught her first kick and dropped her into a kneebar. She kept swinging but the guy watching called it 'stop, you lose, he just broke your leg'. That's already assumi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 06:04 PM |
| 10 | Who has higher SMV?My dad said it best, 'ugly girls are just pretty guys' Took me nearly a decade to understand what he meant. TRP is not new, only the audience and means of communication have changed | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/10/23 05:44 PM |
| 6 | I think the majority of men are unattractive in large part because of their high bodyfat %I would argue an 'if it aint broke don't fix it' narrative. That and there's definitely a natural selection component, it's not like women were thinking 'oh gosh I wish I could be working in that coal mine' 'I wish there weren't any good men around if/when I get attacked so I could prove my battle prowess' I think of it more like a male lion type narrative. The biggest toughest (looking) dudes can usually get chosen, and it plays into the whole 'he was a bad boy for everyone but me' fantasy even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 05:38 PM |
| – | I believe men struggle so much in dating because they no longer bring anything to the table.Bro where are you meeting guys that can't fry an egg or do laundry? And I don't think I've ever seen a reasonable argument made that a mother should be the primary childcare provider unless she's a SAHM, in which case it's very much in the job description. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?'preciate it. Not a very high bar to clear but happy to not bang my shins on it from time to time 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?Awh... Aaaaawwweeee. Well the last thing I'm going to do is argue against that. And I do appreciate nuance, part of the chip on my shoulder is geographical, and part of it is definitely self inflicted (my ultra conservative middle eastern grandma keeps telling me to stop picking 'broken women'). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?Ok, what is love? (Baby don't hurt me) But jokes aside it's kindof a legitimate question for rhetoric's sake. I've read a fair amount of women complaining about transactional relationships and it rings hollow to me because whenever I was selected or in an LTR the women involved were very clearly enjoying the benefits of what I provided beyond simple companionship, humor, rizz, sometimes money, free therapy, someone to get your parents to stop asking when you're going to get a boyfriend. And funn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The reason men outperform women is to become attractive ?Social intelligence maybe? Emotional intelligence? Zero Mechanical intelligence? Zero Strategic/prefrontal intelligence? About the same amount as your average 3rd grader with an new arsenal of naughty jokes dad taught em last weekend. I would argue not necessarily the inverse, but confidence is most strongly correlated with success, and success tends to be strongly correlated with practice or pre-selection. Conflating all confidence with overall mental aptitude is a huge jump in logic, and the c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 05:04 PM |
| 9 | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?ASD has always exsisted, we just called them retarded or inbred. These disorders didn't just pop up all of a sudden. All that changed was the understanding around in and the environment. One of the darker secrets in psychology was the effort to prevent anorexia in Asia, so a humanitarian effort was made in order to spread awareness and offer support to patients, only to find it was basically unheard of until after the awareness was made. So either mental health conditions are a kind of self fulf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women?Empirical observation and anecdotal presentation are not mutually exclusive. It's reddit, so I can for sure understand the nitpick, but I'm not going to doxx my local gymbros to make a point that never required it. This is what I was talking about my guy. You're so eager to 'nuh uh' you didn't even bother to fully understand the words you used to do it. I wasn't trying to insult you just saying we have different life experiences and that's ok. If you've got a point to make you should make a stan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:06 AM |
| 0 | CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women?I mean theres some nuance there for sure And I'm not going to take the time to unpack here because you don't strike me as the kindof dude who actually wants to. I'm just giving empirical examples of sociological concepts, your experience might have been different and that's ok. But at the end of the day if you can't read the writing on the wall then we probably aren't facing the same wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:59 AM |
| 0 | New study shows that 5% of men sleep with 66% of young women. Will society destabilize from most men being neglected?https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/bioe.13134 It doesn't say it explicitly. What it does say is that 'penile-vaginal sex is unequally distributed among the 5% of men having the most sex' The author compared the male sexual loneliness curve to the wealth inequality curve. Now I think you're probably right in that a minority of women are having 'a lot of casual sex' (whatever that means) But the data shows that the majority who are having any casual sex are doing it with the same han… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 10:10 PM |
| 4 | CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women?You had me until the last paragraph. 3/4 of the personal trainers at my local gym are serially single mid-late 20 somethings who like video games and anime. SOME chronically online people might be LARPing as functional human beings but it's ridiculous to say all incels are sloppy and/or old and/or out of shape. I would theorize it has more to do with 1). Lack of necessity. You literally don't need a man so the standard is automatically higher 2). Lifestyle. It almost feels like modern women pref… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 07:17 PM |
| 0 | The reason men outperform women is to become attractive ?That's my point. Women don't actually select for intelligence unless it comes with a heaping helping of rizz and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:52 PM |
| 0 | The reason men outperform women is to become attractive ?Men below 80 IQ get way more action than men above 100. Intelligence is negatively correlated with dating success as long as you can read write and pass 5th grade math | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statisticsOh dude it's so bad (Tries to find object in immediate vicinity for measurement) I just barely make it past the eyelets in a baseball cap. I regularly run into women and children nearly a foot shorter than me with the same sized hands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 01:26 AM |
| 3 | Wheat Waffles just got EXPELLED from his University for Approaching WomenI mean, that's clearly the demographic for the survey. People used to do this shit all the time. School Projects Political agendas and petitioners Army recruiters Idk when or why you got the idea asking people things in public was unacceptable. It's not like he's going into the labs like 'Pause your electrophoresis everyone, tell me how hot you think these dudes are or aren't!' | /r/AllPillDebate | 15/10/23 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Non virgin men shouldn't ask for virgin womenWell I agree with that but I also agree with TRP that the guys who spend a lot of time 'playing the game' developing charm, developing rizz, mastering the skills that men who want to be promiscuous NEED to have are generally more desired and successful overall. Let me put it this way, it's the same paradox as men's desire to 'have a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets' When women say they don't want a promiscuous partner what they tend to mean is 'I want a guy who has the ability to ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 10:52 PM |
| -1 | Communication between the sexes about the dating market won't be effective until women trust that most men don't want society to go back to oppressing female sexuality.That all depends on your definition. Men's antisocial behavior is centered around physical violence. That's where you come across things like rule of thumb and 'it's never okay to hit a lady'. Women's antisocial behavior tends to be more on the polarization of people, things like slander, or constantly pivoting to be the victim in conflict. So oppression might be the wrong word, it often manifests as a kind of subterfuge. But in any case conflating ALL men with the powers that be is like me sayi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Non virgin men shouldn't ask for virgin womenWell yeah both genders are affected hormonal cycles too but we only care about the one that makes a big difference in their life. Not all things ARE egalitarian. That being said I haven't seen anything HYPER compelling about the whole pair bonding thing (there is some whispy sociology research out there, but that's about as soft as it gets while still being able to be called 'research'), but I also don't believe body count effects men and women in the same way. Realistically I can only report wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 03:49 AM |
| 3 | It’s not surprising why dating sucks if you look at the statisticsLet's fuckin go! 5'8 and a dream! Last time I checked I was in the top 2% (race unchecked), but the delusion calculator doesn't take into account things like the state you live in (that 50k goes a lot farther in Iowa than say NY), or hairline integrity or glasses, small hands/ small socks(dick turned out fine but for some reason got super cursed on extremity size, me and my 4'11 ex regularly wore each other's shoes) or complete obliviousness to women's 'signals' sooooo. All that being said I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:43 AM |
| 3 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingWell muscle mommies are another extreme on the spectrum. Not my cup of tea but there is a niche community that'd be chomping at the bit to watch her bench 225 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingThey're both dumpster fire people dw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingHaha, lmk if you want to take a guess, but the answer is going to be anticlimactic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingI kindof care if T sweezy does well, but she wrote a song about me so I definitely see your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 04:11 AM |
| 11 | Women don’t want men to have success in datingI mean at least personally I'm relatively happy to hear about people who are able to find love and long term commitment. And I feel shame as an American when Ariana Grande wrecks two homes and makes a single mother to hook up with the guy who played spongebob on Broadway Look at Megan and Harry. Like why do you think tabloids are a thing. I think people on a fundamental level do care when other people get paired off, and are happy to see others do well. If you don't it often implies a form of je… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/23 12:43 AM |
| 6 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanLol I think that's the core of the complaint though Dating advice for men: Improvise, Adapt, Overcome Dating advice for women: She a baddie she showin her panty. He want the WAP but I want the fetty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Woman reveals she goes on 6 dates a week to save $15,600 on groceries, sparking debateShe's also getting attention and validation to fuel narcissism and/or sociopathy. And she still has the option to have sex with basically any of these guys who actually do well on said free dinner. Actually think about it. It's literally 'the' life. The functional equivalent of a man coming home every day to a homecooked meal, a clean house and a happy wife. Literally story difficulty. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/10/23 02:38 AM |
| 18 | CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girlsIt was satire about how cranky women react when older guys pick up college girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?Same for the 10s The early days of tinder were wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:24 PM |
| 16 | Women judge men based on how popular they are with other women which leads to a cycle where a few fuckboys get to pump and dump many womenNever had more luck with women than when I was in a committed relationship. Never had less luck than when I was single. There's a strong enough correlation there to say that luck isn't actually part of the equation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicThat's a solid point but I'd equate it to me not liking to use a laptop to go to medical school. Handwriting notes has tons of benefits (especially if you've got a touch of the ol' ADD). But the closer I got to a degree the more often having a computer on my desk was required. When I had it I did absolutely take notes and it was honestly nice because I could just look stuff up on google if I had questions or whatever. So my point to you is that it's not the tool, it's how you use it. I also like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Do red pill podcasts need to bring on average guys?True enough. In the sense that not every stoner can also be a dealer But also there's a reason no one's watching the mailman bitch about modern dating. And the other reason is that both men and women both don't give a shit about the 30 something freshly divorced guy working at taco bell and dropshipping to make ends meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 03:14 AM |
| -1 | Can't even blame em.Well you can, but probably not for the reason you think, and it has to do with how women experience regret Women getting ONS'd and regretting it is not correlated with a reduced incidence of future low fidelity encounters. In fact I think it's easier to observe the opposite. In other words the easiest way to predict low-zero fidelity relationships from (probably both genders tbh, but for different reasons) women is incidence and subsequent frequency of low fidelity relationships in the past. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | to anybody who wants me to leave this sub…I'm all for calling out the echo chamber but lazy girl jobs are absolutely real and quite frankly you don't have to look very hard to find em | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/10/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!I don't have a good answer to that question. But I do have a piece of wisdom from ages long past that validates the decision at least https://youtu.be/6EqFVWzOfN8?si=TidZoY6jR6shW8D_ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:19 PM |
| 11 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicNaw fam. I'm a guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 07:08 PM |
| 20 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicThis is actually a good point but the water might be more muddy than either camp is ready to admit. The whole doctrine of 'what counts as romantic failure' has been completely polarized and radicalized in the last 20 years. Or if we want to make the contrast SUPER obvious we can look at my grandparents. Both of my grandpas had to ask both of my grandmas out more than once. One waaaay more than once and I won't lie to you there is probably a limit because they absolutely grew to dislike each othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:59 PM |
| 14 | Young men have a dysmorphia epidemic, not a loneliness epidemicNo that's true, I had to manually unfollow it on both my accounts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 06:34 PM |
| 11 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!Is the point of the date not to figure out who you actually like? I'm with this guy, the first 3-5 dates feel like an interview where I'm paying the company for the right to be there. Even moreso if it's OLD, which has rapidly gained market share. Feels very 'no Mr. Musk, let me buy YOU sushi and show YOU a good time' despite him paying some shmuck somewhere 7 figures to sit in a board room, eat Cheetos and be rude to the cleaning staff. Sure Kevin might be good at marketing but you wouldn't sti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Whos more annoying?There's a saying my dad used to have. It went something like 'you can't be true to yourself and never piss anyone off'. So I think it's fair to call this one a W | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/10/23 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Whos more annoying?See this is why I voted for someone else. You got a lot of heart | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/10/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | Why is Hannah "Pearl" Davis of Justpearlythings still single?That's a good question. I've never had a relationship that was shorter than 2 years after a couple bad picks in the early teens so my knee jerk answer is yes. But here we are so I can't prove that beyond a reasonable doubt. And I think you've got your finger on the jugular with the second part there. I'm definitely the kindof guy that would be happier with bacon and a backrub than anything I never said immaterial things didn't matter. Just that if we're talking about material things, in hindsigh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:22 AM |
| – | Would you treat a female partner differently if she was a hard working breadwinner that wanted YOU to live comfortably?Oh I'd love to see the data on that, specifically for how long and did they actually stay married? Aaaand are these pre or post Covid numbers? It's not scientific but I definitely lean red pill on this one, maybe it's because I've never seen it irl, maybe it's just because whenever I was between jobs I found myself single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Why is Hannah "Pearl" Davis of Justpearlythings still single?I mean you can generally leave her family's wealth out of it. I've never been in a relationship where having a rich girlfriend benefitted me in any significant way, so personally (until proven otherwise) I might turn down a rich girl, depending on if she still enjoys the simple things, is she spoiled, does her money actually provide me with any tangible benefit or does it just make her harder to please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:13 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceIt's literally the tortoise and the hare. You could use that same logic to justify the girls getting flown out to Dubai and defecated on for 10 grand. Idk about you but I definitely wouldn't want my wife/daughter/friend to be using that logic to make her day-to-day choices. 'reaping the best' is often obfuscated until you get to the hindsight portion of the tour. Was it the best money? Did it make you the best girlfriend? Or was it just the best way to spoil yourself and make the best instagram … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:01 PM |
| 7 | Why is Hannah "Pearl" Davis of Justpearlythings still single?Nope, you're using feminine standards to judge a woman. Tall, rich, and strongly opinionated is what women want, not men. I said it before and I'll say it again. Pearl is basically wrangling a bunch of ornery sluts on a regular basis. She's a talk-show pimp. The only people watching that and thinking 'what a great wife she'd make' are the people who don't have a horse in that race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceYou're not winding up with Tom Selleck so I guess you're not fine? Hey dude, you can spell whatever you want however you want, if I see a kid doing math like this (1+1)=3 imma tell em it ain't right. If I see a kid who can't spell imma tell em it aint right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:18 PM |
| – | Would you treat a female partner differently if she was a hard working breadwinner that wanted YOU to live comfortably?How many do you know that have a trophy husband? I regularly interact with surgeons (and have a couple lady lawyer friends). I've met zero that are willing to support a house husband or stay at home dad of any kind. If anything they mostly fall into TRP doctrine of 'ok now since I'm making 6 figures, I get a man who makes 7 right?' The very minimum is another surgeon or lawyer at that point (and a lot of those guys are just chasing hot 20 somethings). After all that feminism women got all the ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceNo I didn't try. I picked a litmus test guy to figure out how screwed you are when you start to realize you're also aging (and probably worse than the old men you haven't found any reason to compliment) *Selleck btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI don't think women are bad people either. Just bad investors. You got your joyride in the Ferrari and now the Honda looks like a radio flier full of shit. Your investment made the thing you can afford completely unpalatable and everyone's shocked when shaudenfreude posts like this pop up when the honda gets a nice body kit and the Ferraris are no longer affordable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceOh I hope you're male. If not you're going to have a rough time hitting that point where the hottest guys that want to date you look like tom selleck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV The „sexless Man“ Pandemic theory (social media, feminism, winner takes all market etc) does NOT hold up if you go outside and check out young couples.Yeah not many single dudes at the spa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever asked you out?I kindof cheated. It was 1 for Sadie Hawkins in middle school 1 was my lab partner in high school (we were kindof already in a 'will they, won't they' situation and I guess she got tired of the slow burn) 1 was my lab partner in college (I was already seeing someone else but that slow burn really does work miracles if you have confidence and rizz). Never happened after I graduated, so you could make the arguement that I peaked in college. I would make the arguement that there's a very good reaso… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/10/23 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Consider that genders are 50/50, if huge numbers of men are undesirable, then that implies a lot of women will not have a stable familyThat has more to do with people not getting married over COVID restrictions and concerns than anything. So if we're terribly concerned about being realistic, in 2022 we were playing a game of marriage catch-up, so I don't think those numbers are specifically all that compelling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 03:56 PM |
| 4 | The endgame of the Black PillI agree with a lot of this. The inevitable end of the black pill is a form of enlightenment, an antidepressant effect that comes from true acceptance of the cruel reality that lays just under a thin shining veneer the world sets up for people so they never bother to dig deeper. I think the true whitepill is only found through the black pill and it usually (ironically) contains a lot of the same messages as the blue pill. 'You've walked so far you found yourself in the exact same place you starte… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 08:19 PM |
| 3 | should i suffer and quit porn, vaping and caffeine addiction all in one go?It's worth a shot. Odds are you're not doing something else with your life. Even just vaping one disposable a day is a huge bide on your attention. Caffeine is a productivity drug so you should only use it to be more productive. Using it every day has diminishing returns. I personally like to use it ~twice a week for the more difficult gym days. Likewise nicotine is a memory drug, so having time away from it will make time spent using it easier to value (Hence the trope of having a cigarette aft… | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that drinking 3 red-bulls a day makes you strong and works out your heart?Cigarettes are faster | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/10/23 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Why is it that autistic women have much more attractive traits than autistic men?Well I think part of it is that autistic women are socially conditioned better Another part is that as a man you really have to put yourself out there to get results. Women don't have the burden of effort or proving themselves in any significant way. NT women tend to be highly neurotic, histrionic and illogical. Autism might actually correct for some of that, either intrinsically, or by extrinsic correction autism may inspire genuine humility in a population where there would otherwise be none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Men, would you rather treat a women like a queen or like 💩?About as convincing as a fat drunk mall Santa 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:17 PM |
| 9 | It's not that women's preferences are shallow, but that they're really homogenousNaw, a hivemind would imply a kindof cumulative intelligence. More like a flock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Men, would you rather treat a women like a queen or like 💩?It's a form of passive aggression. Actively seeking criticism of oneself in the form of a joke in an intimate relationship is indicative of cognitive dissonance. It's mindboggling to me that women will start a ruckus when someone advocates for PUA bullshit like negging and actively seek a partner that negs them with a smile on his face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Men, would you rather treat a women like a queen or like 💩?Yeah that right here, great example of women craving toxicity in their lives. The adult equivalent of 'he put gum in your hair because he likes you' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 04:03 AM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeYou don't even have to go that far. Just look at the newfriends subreddit. Every woman gets hundreds of responses, most men don't see more than one. I don't agree with all redpill rhetoric but you don't have to look hard to see how there's an absolute canyon in between the average man and the average woman socially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:31 AM |
| – | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeLol, cosplay as a guy for a couple months and then I'll listen about how having attention isn't a privilege. Like listening to the rich kid say 'money isn't everything' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 03:07 PM |
| – | Never lead with your career and money on your dating profile and first few datesIdk. I think it's fine to have your job title. Especially with what I assume yours is because it's an indicator of the kind of person you are (especially as a man). I agree with the scrubs/stethoscope part though. I think the credential is better because most women won't know what it is anyway and it makes for a decent talking point. AND it more importantly sets you apart from the crowd, women see 'non-doctor healthcare worker' and you get a little bit more of a halo effect, and I think it's eas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:18 PM |
| 5 | Guys can meet women pretty much anywhere.If they all say they're taken You probably have good taste and They probably aren't all taken, they just don't want to indicate to you they're available | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 07:07 PM |
| 7 | There is no place for men to meet women'I want to have a lot in common with a man' 'someone who makes me laugh' 'who I can relate to' 'Who's emotionally available' .... So like a friend 'No not like that, he's also got to roast me regularly and pass my shit tests about caring too much' .... so you want to date two different guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:39 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Right. In all fairness that is absolutely hindsight bias. But it was still a bad decision. (Or maybe to phrase it more equitablably poor partner selection) No but two points make a line, it's an indicator of bad faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:45 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Oh, ok. Well I addressed that directly so it's helpful to read what both people typed even if you don't agree with both people P.S. downvoting is against sub rules. And seeing as how this is minutes old you didn't read those either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:08 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Yeah like the one that expands the thread. Seems to be a bit of a bad habit on this specific thread https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/6k5nBlbZ89 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:05 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?You didnt read far enough down i talked about that too 🙄 Goddamn what is it about people not making it to the bottom of the thread? If you don't want to read the whole thing that's fine but then go reply to another thread or better yet start your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Do average men have situationships?The generation divide trope is dumb as fuck. Friends with benefits are generally an explicit understanding. Situationships are even dumber. https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/1KyNi3VL2E | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:22 AM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?I'm tired of typing on this and it's clear to me you made up your mind without reading the whole thread. If you have a nuanced take you should make it in full. (E.X. i know guys that can skate a 2 story halfpipe, a lot of the guys I know can skate a mini ramp. So clearly you do too right?) https://youtube.com/shorts/sjfm3Bvr4v8?si=u1-wxT0KH-3cgb2a https://youtube.com/shorts/iTRT1gvEvp4?si=iQMvMfgnKwjUieN6 https://youtube.com/shorts/qTI3rLORiRo?si=DoMNM9J_X1dx8Jn1 https://youtube.com/shorts/81AEa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 06:09 AM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?I'm aware. Money is not generally an important factor in determining romantic compatibility for men. Sorry if that was unclear, food chain wasn't a great word to use. This thread is how men relate to single mothers and the consequential RP denouncement of said men. Not how single mothers relate to the economy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?Exactly, well put. I might steal that off you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Is the 80/20 rule real?That was an interesting read ty. One of the top upvoted comments was that the number is inconsistent. This is true in the way that studies like this change by which scope you use. For example if you look at the moon with your eyes it might only take up .0001% of the visible sky. If you grab a telescope that number goes up dramatically So I'll summarize it as best as I understand it From a 'zoomed out' scope the majority of women only consider the top 20% of men physically attractive But if you z… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 03:14 AM |
| 5 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Did I not answer both prompts? I'm not comfortable saying I view those men negatively because I genuinely believe that the men single moms will tolerate in their child's life tend to be really good dudes. But the waters get murky pretty quick and I said it further down the thread but I think TRP goes too far shaming men who date single moms. Where I think they go far enough is giving reasons why it may not be the best choice. Like establishing a pattern of behavior of either choosing the wrong g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?I mean they're on tinder. Plenty of single not-fathers up in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 9 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?The question was why do men view single moms as 'bad' options for dating. Not if they're able or willing to date single non-parents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:32 PM |
| 7 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?The goalposts didn't move for me, your understanding changed. The prompt was to elaborate on why dating single moms is viewed as a negative experience. Both of my answers were earnest Also this kindof comment is against the sub rules but I'll give you the BOTD because that may be a valid complaint from your perspective. But if you don't have anything constructive to say, or seriously don't understand why both statements can be true then you're more than welcome to present a counterpoint or lobby… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:29 PM |
| 8 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?There's a ton of nuance here, I've seen a couple stepdads truly shine in their roles and I think TRP goes head and shoulders over the line when it comes to this topic on the whole. But I think the only time I'd consider it beta or chump behavior is when she is done having kids, wants you to raise and invest in a bunch of kids that aren't yours. You've basically volunteered to leave the genepool. It could be a benevolent gesture, or a reasonable one if you've got severe health problems or somesuc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?I mean that's all heavily nuanced, but to keep it brief, two points make a line. I don't actually think it matters that much, and in some cases the divorcee is going to be worse, because now one of them has broken an oath that's supposed to be a serious lifelong commitment. So either she's had her home broken (likely to cause trauma, incur baggage etc.) Or she's broken her own home. The net result is still going to be negative. It's kindof a weird saving grace of an unwed single mothers (especia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:03 PM |
| 8 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?They still didn't properly vet the man they chose as the winner for Darwin's game and still pick up qualities that (while not inherently negative in and of themselves) are detrimental to the guy they want- presumably a better man than they left or at minimum a man more committed. You're still usually going to give that guy the raw end of the deal. There are still women out there who want to be good mothers and are looking for competent reliable fathers for their children I don't actually care wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:37 PM |
| 22 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?That's a reasonable answer. It's kindof an indicator or poor decision making. And you're raising large orange flags about her intentions with the next guy. Not saying people can't change, but two points make a line, and volunteering to have kids with a guy you can't keep and/or tolerate to at least see that kid is pretty low on the Y axis there. Especially because your standards for provision and overall quality of said man tend to skyrocket. So as a single mom you're likely to be near the botto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 07:44 PM |
| 2 | gf is upset I only want sex?That's not what happened. I think he was just being candid about what he would ideally want from a relationship (sex every day in addition to the whole companionship thing). Which isn't actually that dumb. Tactless maybe, but not dunce cap worthy | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 07:09 AM |
| 1 | gf is upset I only want sex?Well I can't say it'll get you laid but if that's your truth that's what you should tell her. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | gf is upset I only want sex?P.P.S this is probably a much better question for r/askmenadvice | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | gf is upset I only want sex?Well one watch the video that guy does a better job of explaining it. And two it's a circular way of asking for some kind of commitment/ at minimum emotional investment, so if you're not open to this girl being 'the one' the ethical thing is to be honest about your intentions. If there's a possibility you can say something like 'hey I'm not trying to rush into anything right now but (say a positive thing or two about her to validate her as a companion beyond sex) and I'd like to get to know you … | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 07:03 AM |
| 2 | gf is upset I only want sex?I mean it kinda does sound like you are prioritizing getting some kind of sexual experience to be blunt. But at the same time she's picked you and needs to deal with the reality of what that means. Give this a watch though. Women LOVE to get offended when men want sex. It's an emotional manipulation technique and points at her insecurities (probably stemming from other guys having used her for... well sex). But it tends to be a technique on a longer scale from women who are failing to obtain com… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/09/23 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Are single moms the "red flag equivalent" of older men?Oof. Fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Are single moms the "red flag equivalent" of older men?They really do love to run down that shot clock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:31 AM |
| -1 | Are single moms the "red flag equivalent" of older men?The criminal record might actually help though I do like the 'can't get a good job' part but in 2023 'won't even try to get a good job' is probably more accurate. AI is going to be insane for those lazy guys that have great ideas and just need someone(thing) to do the actual legwork for 'em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 05:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...Then why aren't women taking them? They're paid and well benefitted jobs, it'd only be a problem if you didn't care about criminal justice or literally pulling asses out of the fire And i added an inb4 disclaimer. You didn't address that soooooo I have to assume it's correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 02:20 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...And that fundamental adversarial rhetoric is the bottom line. Well i guess all those male firefighters should let women carry other women out of burning buildings i guess. (Less than 5%, oof). They also function as first responders in many cases so I hope you don't have too many ladies y'know, having serious health problems and needing advanced care at a moment's notice. All those male cops should let the ladies take point on women's calls to the police (13.3% and we can look at SWAT teams and D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 02:02 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...We care different. (Are we really so far down the rabbit hole that I have to explain positive masculinity? That's not rhetoric I'll fuckin do it. Don't test me) One of the direct consequences of that could very well be what the doctor described, but I think a substantial part is that gender roles have been all but fully subverted for women but the task list for men just keeps growing https://youtu.be/tHxip2x-PLc?si=jV5BMYAcTfIPev8H https://youtu.be/edv_bNEaYTQ?si=YohCGHXoJSDq2Beh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:24 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...Well if you're going to generalize you'd want to stay away from cherry picking. Almost like saying 'All due respect (proceeds to say something disrespectful)' Your points all paint specific men in a negative light by judging hyper feminine qualities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 01:08 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...I find it interesting you added an inb4 note about generalizing then cherry picked two hyper specific feminine qualities by which to judge XY persons. Say what you want about fathers but the outcomes are overwhelmingly negative when looking at homes where a father figure was inconsistent or unavailable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:53 AM |
| -3 | CMV: Men can't say "no one cares" about them but then also genuinely never care about others...Honestly probably the most egalitarian take on here. But I would change it to 'feminism has become an institution that actively opposes all men instead of the top .0001% who are actually holding the status quo and making life hard for everyone' We get gerrymandered into issues we would change ourselves and issues we had no Earthly ability to rectify in the first place. I can't tell you the amount of times I've heard and read misandrist rhetoric (and you can find it on this post) being lauded and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 12:49 AM |
| 6 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?Well, de facto? Yes. But if they honestly believed and accepted that it wouldn't be called something else. FWB implies both parties have accepted the premise and affirmatively defined their relationship Situationship implies a Mexican standoff where (in general) a woman is either too insecure to ask, and/or afraid of the answer. To put it in a more candid sense it's a lie by omission on the man's part and truth by omission on a woman's part. Almost like a Stockholm syndrome of their own design | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 08:38 PM |
| 27 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?Seems so strange to me, for all the refusal to settle and boxxes needing to be ticked you'd think some kindof commitment would be higher up on the list if women were actually interested in finding commitment and valuing sex beyond the superficial/objectifying level.... Guess not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:43 PM |
| 5 | Should men strive to fit into certain classic stereotypes/archetypes?Yeah I'm specced into faith dex. Works great for pvp, but str dex way better for PvE. Jokes aside, yes, hitting a non-gamer non-nerd niche is much more effective than hitting the 'Basic Bob' or 'Gamer Gary' niche. Women loooove stereotypes. Storytime. I know a guy from gaming, he kayaks, rock climbs, does some woodwork, actively spiritual and emotionally intelligent. Has the atheltic build, handsome face, well groomed. Solid dude, but he's also an avid gamer and anime fan. Despite making this ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do black men always make tik toks rejecting black women?That's like saying most white guys would join the KKK of given and while there is a small, very vocal racist community, the vast majority of white and black people do actively avoid racism (at the absolute minimum on that level). I lived with a... let's call him politically active, and frankly a little jaded at the world black guy in college for a year. We smoked a lot of weed together and talked about life, this came up on more than one occasion (with a variety of black guys) and the bottom lin… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 06:30 PM |
| 31 | How do you explain most young women being in relationships?Don't forget the burgeoning situationship market. Women literally made a relationship status for women who don't have a relationship status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Take the Concealed Ovulation Pill: Nature is brutal, It's a cuck or be cucked worldNo mentally sane person even thinks of this.... And then gets cucked. https://www.ibdna.com/paternity-testing-ban-upheld-in-france/ There's an entire country that decided it would be such a big problem for fathers to find out whos kid they were raising they slapped a 15,000 euro fine and a year in prison on it. Government subsidized cuckoldry. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 08:22 AM |
| – | People who complain about toxic masculinity are jealous of it.I think you're onto something but I see it a little differently. I don't think it's so much a jealousy thing so much as a 'you need to conform to my worldview, I'm giving you the popular liberal opinion so I'm going try to emasculate you until I'm comfortable with who you are' thing. That being said I just had this conversation with a young man recently. Never forget Andrew Tate didn't make his money fighting, off the sweat of his own brow. He made his money as an E-Pimp. Exploiting young women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:27 AM |
| 3 | What would be most helpful in everyday life to help the male loneliness epidemic?-3rd spaces. I think people in general are shifting away from alcohol and the smoking section used to be a great way to make friends fast. SNL had a good take on this https://youtu.be/9XOt2Vh0T8w?si=RTISp3NSYhXZX5__ Man park was actually a great idea. -Sports/gym Dudes love this shit. Skatepark was great when I still had knees. Now I just go to the gym and interact with everyone from high schoolers gently but firmly guiding them away from 'dumb fuckery' to the salt and pepper daddies who get up … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 03:45 AM |
| 1 | What are your standards to date guy ?Well if you've got an ass like Tiffany who's killin it on the sled pulls you're on deck 😂 | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What are your standards to date guy ?Baha tyty The real silver bullet with the nursing staff is my eyes. Grey blue, my ex said it felt like I was looking into her soul. Bad news tho. You gotta get in line behind all the single moms at crossfit. I'm in my stepdaddy era 😂 And unfortunately my 2000 honda ran into the ground last year, bought a 2022 sedan and sniped my buddy's tesla floor mats, so technically my car isnt crappy anymore. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 03:25 AM |
| 2 | What are your standards to date guy ?Fuck. I was fine until drug dealing. Had to make my way through college somehow. Ironically my job still involves dealing drugs but now I play for the good guys 🤷♂️ | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 03:14 AM |
| 3 | What do you think about tattoos on a woman?More than welcome, always happy to entertain. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 02:56 AM |
| 4 | What do you think about tattoos on a woman?https://reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/s/VqfZdOrF9D Volume matters. The story matters too If a chick has like a sparrow or a couple cute things here or there I don't mind. It's the full sleeve, full back piece, gaudy chestpiece/underboob ornament bullshit that makes my dick soft. Oh and script tends to be a red flag. Most of it is tacky as fuck, if you need a bible verse stamped on you like a catch phrase you probably aren't a very good Christian in situ. Same thing with like 'I got this one because… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/09/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women would be best suited in a society where women who the ones approaching men for relationships.Feels almost monkey's paw-esque where at the end of your wishes being granted you'd give anything to go back the way things are. Oh well institutional misandry and unlimited entitlement are already here, grab a beer and watch the dumpster fire in full swing i guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women would be best suited in a society where women who the ones approaching men for relationships.It's almost like they want all the benefits of a patriarchy in exchange for none of the responsibility. Weird. Kindof reminds me of the lady emt/firefighter paradox. Are you going to be hauling 170lb people most days? No. But if a man couldn't do it he'd be rejected on the spot for not being able to complete a critical portion of the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:30 AM |
| 3 | A few of my observations in the medical field as a guy with the male/female ratio being 1:10A lot of nurses are ironically very out of shape, munching on the boxxes of doughnuts management brought in while treating a keto-acidotic diabetes. Part of it is a systemic problem, part of it is VERY much a stress problem especially after a literal plague with rampant burnout. But at the end of the day no one's making you eat poorly and 'let yourself go' fitness wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal that tattoos on a woman is a positive thing to me ?Same. Volume matters. The story matters too If a chick has like a sparrow or a couple cute things here or there I don't mind. It's the full sleeve, full backpiece, gaudy chestpiece/underboob ornament bullshit that makes my dick soft. Oh and script tends to be a red flag. Most of it is tacky as fuck, if you need a bible verse stamped on you like a catch phrase you probably aren't a very good Christian in situ. Same thing with like 'I got this one because my dad died, and I got a sparrow because h… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/09/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Why is redpill mostly full of men?Yep. Most women implicitly accept their own redpill. Ask most people's grandparents when women are considered too old to get married/ have kids. It's no accident that across cultures and millenia women were encouraged to marry young (where marriage was relevant) and practice chastity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed the only people still using the term “incel” are girls you wouldn’t fuck with your best friend’s dick and the guys who would call the cops on parties they weren’t invited to?Okay that one was funny. I do think you've got your finger on the jugular for this one. It's reflexive, the girls complain the most about guys are probably drinking the haterade/deflecting away from their own deficiencies. The guys who complain the most about the dating scene tend to be drinking the haterade/ deflecting away from their own deficiencies | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/09/23 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?College aged women tend to be in extremely high demand among men, so what college aged women want, and what they positively reinforce is automatically incredibly valuable. It's not just my experience. Take beauty and the Beast for example. If you're just sitting there watching the movie you might miss the fact that Gaston had a far easier time with women despite being openly narcissistic. This trope has been around for a VERY long time, and the more progressive we get the more we're seeing young… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Lemme tell you, I already typed a full-ass thesis for the other guy so I'll keep it brief. The good girls and the bad girls both want a college experience. They both wind up at parties, and usually the hot girls get dragged out anyway. They might not be doing the drugs per se but when you're running the game you've got a long contact list of relatively 'cool' people who respond positively when you show up and all women like social proof. And I kindof touched on this for the other dude but you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Well it definitely didn't hurt that I was selling drugs and 'known' for not wanting to be known. I definitely see your point, don't get me wrong, but there's also a big shiny nugget of truth that women want a bad boy, and the more interesting thing I found over the years is it's kindof like the kid who always brought home straight A's. That kid has nowhere to go. If you bring home big grades all your life then it's not special. You set the bar high and no one cares if you clear it almost regardl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | At what age do you think it is truly over in terms of being without completely inexperienced?Yeah, the japanese already answered this one for ya. Although I think technically to qualify to be a wizard you're not supposed to have jerked it either. Completely unused dick for 30 years and you're legally magic ig | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/09/23 08:43 AM |
| – | Domestic violence would he reduced if men internalized the "she's not yours , it's just your turn" mantraYeah, this rhetoric right here is some fearmongering bullshit. 'there's a school shooter inside every husband' Normally I try to stay off the high horse but you can actually fuck off with that noise. No wonder so much of gen z is turning into spineless incellular blobs with people popping off with hot garbage misandrist takes like this without batting an eye. How would you feel if I said 'there's a narcissistic materialistic compulsively manipulative whore inside every wife'? Not that different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:15 AM |
| 5 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youTinder is a dumpster fire in general and if the stats are any indication their man/woman ratio is the absolute worst as far as online dating is concerned. Most girls on tinder aren't representative of most girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 07:10 AM |
| 5 | CMV: a girl would hook up with you on a first date if she’s attracted to youYeah I think this is the kind of red pill rhetoric that only applies to girls who are already promiscuous. I personally think it's an orange flag if a woman will give it up on the first date. Demonstrates a lack of self-control and I like the slow burn. I'm old enough to appreciate a slow burn over a quick hit and a wicked crash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 06:57 AM |
| 1 | "Everyone's entitled to their own preferences" only became a thing when women's superficial standards for men became undeniable and widely known. And today, people still judge men more harshly for having standards.Well I think cakewalk is relative The life of the guy with one arm looks comparatively cakey to the guy with no arms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 04:31 AM |
| 5 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Hey fair enough. But per my theorem she would have strongly considered committing a felony to get your dick on lockdown right when you started dating. (But yes, at the risk of outright hypocrisy, I genuinely find being a good person to be a more fulfilling lifestyle, just less effective on average if you're looking to min/max attention and sexual/romantic opportunity from women) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 03:52 AM |
| 27 | Q4All: What's the biggest lie you were told about the opposite gender that you discovered was not true as you got older?Oh yeah, for the love of sweet Jesus don't be nice to women. The reality is you can't even start to be nice until after they would commit felonies to keep your dick on lockdown. If you start off as a decent human being you can't tap into that whole 'he was a bad boy for everyone but me/ i can change him' fantasy I lucked out and wound up being a huge scumbag in my early 20s. Worked out great. Never had a harder time with women than the couple years after I stopped breaking the law, stopped smoki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Many women, by believing in "their worth", believe unattractive men aren't worthy enough, which is kind of a contradictionThat's a fair assessment, yeah. I can get on board with that. Great example with the ring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateEver hear of Johnny Depp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Its called "hooking up" because in misogynist fashion, women are seen as an object to conquer, and not as actual partners.Short for charisma. Generally meant to reference one's ability to be charming toward the opposite gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:17 AM |
| -2 | Many women, by believing in "their worth", believe unattractive men aren't worthy enough, which is kind of a contradictionI would argue it is. Worth is only designated by it's value relative to someone else (past stuff like food and water). For example (gold isn't a very good example anymore because it's used for computer parts) let's say a bottle of water. A bottle of water at home might cost 50 cents On a hot summer day at the beach? Maybe 3 bucks At an amusement park? 4-5 bucks On an airplane? 6 bucks All of these values have nothing to do with the ACTUAL intrinsic worth of the bottle, but the price changes by o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Idk how to engage with this comment. Yes. There is absolutely a fitness niche that most women will go for if given the chance. It's the classic 'Tall, lean yet muscular, broad shouldered' (pulled from the 50 shades of grey wiki) I've even lived this myself. I used to be skinnyfat and my pull was probably around 50% weaker than after I started hitting the irons, getting the good old 'stepdad back' and filling out shirts. Going from ectomorph to mesomorph dramatically changed the attention I could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Yes, muscles will get you laid.Fr. 'I like dad bod' = out of season bodybuilder 'women just like toned bodies'= ~10-15% fat on top of a greek statue physique Both of these preferences still appear to encompass the top 10% of guys in either strength or physical aesthetics. Only the absolute top tier bodybuilders and 'peeled' physique guys actually get the 'ick' from being too muscular. I'd be interested to know what women think of the rock climbing addict build. Strong, fit and toned, but usually not broad shouldered/ built fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateThat's fair enough. I just think there's some very interesting cognitive dissonance that goes on. Women have halos men have horns. But I think if we're going to obsess over dismantling the patriarchy and the man being the de facto HOH in the household then you need to be able to replace that discipline somewhere or you're going to keep seeing violent, unruly, jaded, entitled young men. Storytime: I have a niece, she's about 16 now, went to her first school dance not to long ago. Her parents are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women have become introspective about their dating dynamics with men, but ironically over the wrong thingLol sure thing. Money eliminates suffering, good luck with that one, I'm sure all the philosophers and great religions were just mistaken Good luck with that Arianna Grande 7 rings level philosophy I'm sure shes a good role model.... (Woops nvm, she just cheated with SpongeBob, dropped a 2 year marriage and made freshly widowed single mother of his wife at the time.) 'You know where you stand with money you never know where you stand with love'. Honestly it's probably better if you focus on your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:50 PM |
| 9 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateNewsflash. Women are also violent: https://childprotectionresource.online/mothers-are-more-likely-to-abuse-children-than-fathers-fact/ If the propensity of violence is your only concern then women are projecting. Lesbians have the highest rate of domestic violence Mothers have the highest rates of child abuse neglect AND FATALITIES 'if you want to get a true measure of someone's character watch how they treat their subordinates/ people less powerful than them" And don't even get me started on ps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:41 PM |
| 7 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…I can't breathe underwater. I need a gaseous atmosphere to survive. That's what y'all fail to realize. Modern women are so enfranchised the line between need and want is all but washed away. Very basic words have lost their meanings and an unvalidated feeling is a crime (as long as you don't have a penis). Your standards make it hard. Not your options, not your capability. It's an honorable position, and one that I honestly respect you for (full disclosure I think of sex the same way, funny enou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:34 PM |
| 5 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…That's exactly my point. The original comment was about opportunity and capability. Not just what you are or aren't interested in. I don't have to be a woman to understand intersex dynamics, just someone with a brain and eyes. I swear it's like pulling teeth sometimes. It's like if I said 'well I can't wear a condom because they're awkward and make sex feel worse' You'd call me delusional. I'm perfectly capable I just don't wanna. (But don't go down the rabbit hole, I think everyone should be us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Women have become introspective about their dating dynamics with men, but ironically over the wrong thingThe rapidly dissolving middle class is indicative of the equanimity of the owner class. Sure. I swear if women fought half as hard to find and keep a good man as they did to justify hedonism this sub wouldn't even exist. You're not wrong in a significant way, but money can't buy happiness, you can only rent it, and inflation is a bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:10 PM |
| 4 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…Baha well it might take you longer than an hour, but I could get it done in less. To be fair I live in a pretty metropolitan area. But just to humor you we can change it to 'almost any bar on a Saturday night' instead of Tinder and cut it down to 45 minutes. I recently coached a friend who got out of a three year nothing burger situationship where the guy actively didn't give a fuck, was kindof a bum, emotionally unavailable like a rattlesnake in summer (but god, what a pretty motherfucker, kore… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women have become introspective about their dating dynamics with men, but ironically over the wrong thingAwh dang boys, she figured us out, the Scooby-doo esque cartoon villain jig is up. We were trying to ruin your lives with romance and family the whole time. You're right, working for some corporate machine that would grind your bones with you still wearing em if they think it'd push their stock up next quarter and appease their shareholders is where the real satisfaction is 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:56 PM |
| 0 | The real reason men laud “players” and shame sluts is…The vast majority of women 18-30 something in a city of ~50,000+ can download Tinder and be stuffed like a Turkey within an hour in most cases (let's assume it's not business hours for sake of arguement). If you can't it's probably because you aren't in good shape, you're a jerk or (the most common/reasonable objection) it has nothing to do with capability and more to do with standards for attraction and hypergamy. Which is fine. I'm all for women having standards. But don't pretend the guy who'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Women have become introspective about their dating dynamics with men, but ironically over the wrong thingNo man will ever be a better companion than a cat No woman will ever be a better companion than a dog CMV/s That's fine, have a better life with no man and no children. Just don't complain about it when you turn 70 and realize the things you thought were making your life better actually just perpetuated narcissistic egocentric singlehood | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 06:44 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Women have become introspective about their dating dynamics with men, but ironically over the wrong thingTurns out when left to their own devices to only pursue men who passively appeal to them women only pick the top ~10% of guys. Then it's this big headscratcher when the top guys have no incentive to settle down and the other 9/10 turn full simp, or give up. Yeah big mystery. Probably the product of the patriarchy or internalized mysogyny. Definitely not a conscious choice and consequence of radical, institutional and unbridled liberallism combined with a moral code that doesn't kick in until the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:09 PM |
| 3 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?Lol she blocked me, that's how you know she's mature and confident in what she's talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:34 PM |
| 3 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?Lol, oh my bad, didn't realize you hadn't matured past 14 when it came to disagreements. Nvm, you go kween! Porn bad, boys are icky! I am a misogynist, how dare I point out the toxic manipulative rhetoric you used to deflect the actual talking point. I feel bad now all women should be cherished, sowwy i forgor to not hate women today. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:14 PM |
| 12 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateLol true. There was that one mom who took a 12 gauge to her son's chest after being awarded full custody despite the father pleading with the court and providing evidence of mom's long checkered bill of mental health. Ill try to find the link for you: https://youtu.be/Wu0lRAyvADk?si=g-4I-CxN72fR1XlU | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:09 PM |
| 9 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?I mean you guys go off the rails pretty quick, but I did have a long sitdown with an ex and when we looked at it under a microscope the other guy was more or less right. Sex is the big guillotine women have over men's heads. Most of y'all aren't really contributing anything that special, there's very little cooking (and to be blunt I tend to clean better so I do the bulk of it). So back against the wall the plays are: deflection/diversion, emotional manipulation/ withholding of sex. YOU might no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Most young people are inkwells confirmed?Oooh you and my Nana would get along. No I do not | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/23 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Being 5’10 and UnderUsername and flair check out. Good shit Sed. You a real one. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/23 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Most young people are inkwells confirmed?I mean i can't say I disagree with em though. The top upvoted comments sound more like the blackpillers than whitepillers to me https://reddit.com/r/GenZ/s/HcEsgJUmCJ | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/23 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Most young people are inkwells confirmed?I mean, reddit is notoriously a place to go specifically not touch grass, but that kindof skew is pretty damning for that sub at the very least. Not necessarily a big klaxxon alarm, but an ominous single 'ding' alert no doubt. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/09/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenNo, but if you go looking for demons you can always find em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenYou can make any positions toxic if you assume malice (He never loved her, he just wanted to objectify and manipulate a young woman who doesn't know enough to not be objectified and manipulated) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 12:07 AM |
| – | The problem with a lot of the tropes that dominate this sub is that few here can separate results from lifestyle.To be fair. I am relatively superficial and have a 6 pack (conditionally. Goes away after lunch and doesn't come back until the next morning 😂) But I have heard the South isn't nearly as hopeless and deluded. Granted idk if I've resigned myself to be fat and happy just yet, but it is tempting as someone who was already considering travelling to find love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:28 PM |
| 1 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenI mean, was that ever not the line? I'm deeply confused on the whole age gap issue in general. Tbph, and it doesn't seem like anyone can argue against it without active malice. And you can argue anything if you assume active malice. (He became a firefighter because he was a closeted pyro and it secretly satisfied him to watch buildings burn) (She became a senator knowing she would change nothing and just likes being bribed) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:41 PM |
| -1 | We often talk about how modern culture discards masculinity, but we hardly touch on how it discards femininityAre you saying electricity and cars and roads and modern medicine are bad? I really want to answer your other questions but lets get the bad faith out of the way first. You're more than welcome to refuse the patriarchy's vaccines and life support systems, and everything it stood or stands for. But then we wouldn't be having this conversation. Because the fact is that we're standing on the shoulders of giants (mostly men as far as invention and science are concerned) in order to even be talking t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:08 PM |
| -2 | We often talk about how modern culture discards masculinity, but we hardly touch on how it discards femininityNo, but I think part of the narrative about the patriarchy is extremely skewed. Funny enough a comedian probably said it best. No one was complaining about the patriarchy when they were getting run down by tigers. No one was complaining about the patriarchy when it was building houses and offices and cars, pouring asphalt for roads. Generally when the patriarchy is invoked we completely gloss over (if not actively ignore) WHY nearly every single civilization on Earth all arrived at the same conc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Which one of these women would you pick for a LTR?Polar opposite. I find no joy in cooking but I really like doing dishes. The list goes on ad nauseum. Humor might be an issue Then I'm in really atheltic so does that mean she's like a quadraplegic? (In which case is she really a 9?) Idk phrasing is weird. People are generally not complex enough to be truly opposite. But I think a carbon copy would get stale waaaay faster than you might think. Like the 5 isn't the problem there. It's that there's only room for 1 me in any social circle, forget a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/09/23 07:50 PM |
| 0 | We often talk about how modern culture discards masculinity, but we hardly touch on how it discards femininityWe like to gloss over the fact that the patriarchy was the preferred method of governance across all of recorded history and culture (and even across most communal species) Untiiiil jobs outside the home started getting easier, we went from farmers and factory workers to mostly white collar an service based. Now (like a great comedian once said) "ya'll feminists picked an amazing time to decide you didn't need men" infrastructure complete, wanting for nothing, most physical and unsavory labor re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenI'm a 30 year old man and I made friends with an 18 y/o and 20 y/o from the gym Does that mean I have the gynocracy's blessing to fuck barely legal college girls at will? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 20 | Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they areIt's almost like a victimhood OCD. 'You guys message the top 50% of women way more'. Well 50% is still an F in both genders To be in the top 50% of western women you essentially just have to be not overwieght. That's literally it. You don't have to shoot your shot, or make your appeal, you're free to sit there and pass judgement on the writhing mass of suitors you could get online in a couple hours with a halfhearded bio consisting of mostly emojis and platitudes. To get into the top 25% be in g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Wat. Can we drop the passive aggression? Speak plainly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:59 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieIt means this isn't a 'you know nothing Jon Snow' moment. I'm well aware of what parenthood actually is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Lol wrong again. 'avoid the (insert seedy area of town)' 'use the buddy system' 'don't get drunk with people you don't know in places you don't know' And i already gave my 2 cents for what constitutes a white lie when rejecting someone. But if you're genuinely too neurotic and paranoid to realize it's actually men protecting you from men and women and fires then you also have no business giving instructions. Like I said. It's a risk to leave your house. If you believe half of the stuff you've sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to die(shameless I work with babies plug here, I have more than a clue, I have a map lol) Like I said. Different strokes for different folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:41 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieWell I think different strokes is part of it. Part of it is there are genuinely some nothing-burger white collar jobs out there. I'm a guy and if you asked me to go sit in a room all day and do an 'easy' job that sounds like Sysiphus-tier torture to me I'd much rather have the challenge of raising babies. Using my ADD to it's fullest potential to try and entertain humans who just recently obtained object permanence 😮💨 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:16 AM |
| 4 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?Well we used to have a pretty straightforward system in the Patriarchy where girls and sexually available and viable women would dress differently so nobody got confused. Now with all the hormones in milk and puberty happening more rapidly and weak spineless fathers not being allowed to tell their tweenage daughters not to go out dressed like a streetwalker it's anyone's guess. There have been other examples across cultures for single women, like one African culture would change the number of br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:43 AM |
| -5 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Wat. Did you not read what I wrote? Just don't leave your house. Matter of fact, cut the middleman and make yourself a nice underground bunker to live in. Going outside is the most harmful action any person can undergo on any given day. You like cars? You should stop liking cars. Do you like pets? Dangerous stuff. Same COPD outcomes as a cigarette a day for ~3 fur babies in the house. This is not locking the door. This is paranoia. Also btw, your locks are near worthless in the vast majority of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:35 AM |
| -4 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.Look, tbph I actually favor lying. (I do think HOW you lie matters. Are you doing it because it's convenient for you? A good lawyer always said 'you know a negotiation went well when everyone walks away feeling like they got screwed' so a white lie here is going to take into account that there's a second human being involved, regularless of if you're attracted to him) But the fearmongering triggers me. If you apply that logic to anything else in your life you'll be locked inside alone and get ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:00 AM |
| -3 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyWell no. Even as a guy with extreme dad tendencies they're right in a very significant way. Just like there are women who are good engineers there are men who are men who are good moms. Just like I wouldn't trust the bulk of the engineering to be done by women I wouldn't trust the bulk of the mothering to be done by men. Let em have their circlejerk on this one. It's literally the one huge and completely necessary thing pretty much all women are better at..... then even that aptitude rapidly dro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:40 AM |
| -7 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.That's it boys, women are allowed to lie to you because some people killed someone at some point for telling the truth 🥱 May as well never visit Germany because there are Nazis. Don't ever go to the beach because your odds of getting attacked by a shark are higher if you go in the ocean Don't get in the car either, your odds of being in a life threatening car accident are ~10000x higher than being attacked by a shark last I checked. Evil exists, don't go outside, order more stuff from Amazon, pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:24 AM |
| 4 | As a woman why should I get married?Lol stay single then. At 27 you're fully entrenched in your independence. Reading your responses lets me know you don't even want to be convinced. So just keep going through life selfishly and hedonistically, don't try to pair up, don't try to make room in your life for a man or be open to one. You're just going to wind up hurting yourself and whatever poor chump winds up falling for you without understanding the deep misandry lurking in your superego. Just don't get more than ~3 or so pets. Exc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?See this is who you want boys. I had to wrestle my porn demons for sure (and I still have a couple less than wholesome kinks left over, but hey, who doesn't) And funny enough so did my S/O (she still reads some boiling hot garbage books to this day, that 'multiple men fighting over me' shit is like crack) But I think there are a lot of young women that fall deeply into delusion. It's not just the literature narrative it's the overarching narrative. (But at the same time I live in one of the most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:28 AM |
| 3 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Lol true enough, you have to dig pretty deep to find something like that (but you can). For a minute there the ex and I liked the passion HD stuff. Part of it is there's just no market for it. Most women's fantasies involve a story hence why we see 50 shades of grey pop off and Fabio's naked grunting upper body videos flop. 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:35 AM |
| 5 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Lol that's fair. I guess I meant nothingburger in the same way Peter Parker is supposed to be a nothingburger guy before he gets bitten. But you're right in a strange way plain Jane would be a huge upgrade from the options most guys have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:45 AM |
| 9 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Lol I have a couple exxes that definitely would've appreciated a well above average dick. But I was lucky enough to find a couple girls over the years who are closer to what you're describing. Physique? Yeah I never payed much attention to the guy's cut, I struggle to think of any that were actually out of shape or sickly skinny though. That's already in the top ~20% for fitness by default in America. You have to keep in mind physique is directly related to boner quality. The super shredded musc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Yup, you gotta slow roll em into letting you know you're a decent human being. Play up the unga bunga me man, and also pretend to not want sex while at the same time objectifying her and bantering like an undergrad. THEEEEN when she gets all emotionally invested you can start treating her a little better. Sucks. I know, but if the going gets tough 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Wat. Are you trying to be cute? Lady I love me some gay guys, in a strictly platonic, fully clothed, show me your dick and lose it, but I do want you to help me pick out clothes that make me look like a respectable adult kind of way Scroll through the hub and do a cursory headcount (lol) I think you'd make it to page 3 before you found a video with a below average length guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:22 AM |
| 22 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?Social media is girlporn. 4th wave feminism is victimhood porn And if you've never read a saucy lady's novel or somesuch material the degenerate, abusive, and often overly simple and objectified men are most certainly girlporn Lol seriously. Sit down and give a spicy novel a read one of these days. I'll give you a million dollar book idea rn. Average nothing-burger of a girl meets a (pirate, vampire, werewolf, surgeon, and/or billionaire). He exhibits sociopathic and narcissistic tendencies, is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Are women's standards too high as a result of porn?The fact that you don't know that the vast majority of dudes who do porn are well above average in at least one very specific and Nitric Oxide fuelled category kindof makes OP's point for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Chivalry is not deadI hate this arguement. (The smartly selfish bit) May as well say everyone being nice is just secondary to the dopamine they get from their mirror neurons and hero complexes. I definitely think modern chivalry has romantic undertones so it's not what it used to be, but I teach the boys to be helpful and earnest to everyone (even if you definitely aren't attracted to them, even if they're sweaty dudes), don't get your wires crossed, don't accidentally buy a fedora to tip, genuinely be kind because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 08:33 PM |
| 0 | what’s the female equivalent of being shortThe first sentence is fine. Let's do a quick exorcise. Pretend you're typing to your future husband/boyfriend/wife/partner/whatever. Keep the first sentence the same BUT change the second. For example: My personality came from an abusive mother, and a slew of girlfriends that cheated when I was younger. Because my family hurt me, I promised to be a healing force for the people I loved, because I experienced betrayal early and often I became loyal and wiser. The injuries on my psyche were tempere… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/09/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?Nice. That's the effect i was going for: a casual 'i disagree with this claim, but I'm going to try to be witty enough to entertain the reader' She might unironically wind up going that way. I have a couple taller ladyfriends and that demographic can be pretty brutal. The strikezone is (almost poetically) very small, and at least some of the smaller girls CAN be redpilled into dating guys who breathe at the same partial pressure of oxygen. Like what do you do when you're the 6' tall girl? You're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do women not mind past relationship baggage in man, compared to vice versa?Uh. I think you're misreading that statement in particular (which is a fuckin shame because I was 100% on board with your comment further up) So the trope goes -Men love romantically/ Women love opportunistically -So in general women are initiating break ups for better opportunity, and men tend to get left 'hat in hand wondering where it went wrong' This transaction characterizes a situation where the man is left more or less alone and has to re-evaluate himself and his life choices (regardless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 06:56 AM |
| 4 | The Stat "80% of Women Match with 20% of Men" isn't because of female hypergamy. It's because of the skewed gender ratio.'stop objectifying my gender' 'But its ok when we do it tho' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 04:23 AM |
| 15 | How come "nice girls finish last" isn't as popular of a saying?She's not that nice, if you"re watching the justpearlythings content and thinking 'oh gosh what a nice girl, what an ideal wife' you clearly don't have a horse in that race Her whole rhetoric and podcast is basically built around her being masculine. The whole nature of her work revolves specifically around her putting a bunch of ornery promiscuous women in line. Generally a position resereved for what you'd call 'a pimp'. Idk many guys clamouring for pimp-wives. She's tall as fuck, so she's her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 02:08 AM |
| 3 | black women have it worse than every race of menSpeak for yourself. There are some hella fine black ladies out there. It's their attitudes that tend to keep em single | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/09/23 03:46 AM |
| 3 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itUh. Funny enough a cursory googling didn't turn up any cat dad vs cat mom studies, so if you want to contribute please feel free. I've referred to other people's kids as my kids. Plants. Skateboards. Cars. Power tools. Not sure what that second point is supposed to mean in situ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:12 AM |
| 3 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itNot my teacher. But men and women are fundamentally different. I demonstrated this with my original comment in the thread. Women place a far higher value on general platonic community and men tend to place a far higher value on sexual/romantic relationships. Each wants what is easier for the other to develop. Most men will never have to wonder who their true friends are and most women will never be left wanting for intimacy if they choose to look for it on any given day. In other words, there's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 11:17 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADDepends on the age but the 100+ person is unlikely to have a successful marriage or be satisfied in long term committed relationships. The other two? Depends way more on age & gender. A zero for an adult woman is dramatically different from a 0 for an adult man. The 1's are probably high school sweethearts who haven't gotten divorced yet (fingers crossed though, my best friend and his wife are at 1 afaik and they're the most disgustingly cute millennial couple I know) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 09:11 PM |
| 16 | Question for Redpill : Why do you care that women and society lied to you?An attractive wingwoman is priceless. But the vast majority of the dating advice you get from women is next to useless. Especially as technology and equal opportunity is rapidly changing relationship dynamics on a fundamental level at (in the grand scheme of things) a breakneck pace I think one of my favorite examples was a few years back I was recently single and breaking into the more algorithm based OLD. I asked my coworkers if I should use a shirtless pic because (to be blunt) I am in the sw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 08:21 PM |
| – | Why be angry at women over their attraction?Well, that's a sound way to look at it. But let me pitch you another take. The amount of women that find Brad Pitt attractive in fight club or Adam Levine from Maroon 5 is far higher than the amount of women pining after the guy who played Loki or Daniel Radcliffe. (But there are women who are very much into that) I agree, arguing the TOTAL to be equal to the individual sample is wrong, but arguing that the overlap isn't significant is also wrong. The vast majority of women will choose Tall, in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itWell yeah but the modern dating and marriage environment is more or less feral at this point. We basically just used technology and college to circumvent the shame and traditional values built up over the millenia Yes. Kindof. I think it's worth making an attempt to sugarcoat TRP to make it more palatable. 'if you can only appeal to a population that would already follow you then you aren't much of a leader'- Confucius probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel knowing you were truly unable to unlock your partner’s desire for you versus previous ex’s/flings?Because one gender truly objectifies the other, and it's not the one constantly complaining about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:55 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel knowing you were truly unable to unlock your partner’s desire for you versus previous ex’s/flings?Lol ah yes, the woman who voluntarily entered the committed relationship and sent salacious messages and lewd pictures (notably moreso than to the man she made said commitment to) is the victim here. /s It sounds to me like OP's cousin is fully bluepilled and the lady he picked was toxic af tbph. Idk if you're aware of this but the primary (and arguably only) condition of said relationships is to not be fuckin around with other people. She was fuckin around. She had no business entering a commit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:50 PM |
| 8 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itTRP basically teaches that women replace children with pets. So in a fucked up way men are essentially being outsourced for cats and careers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:40 PM |
| 5 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itNo need to get hostile. I like to use elephants as an analog for what people would do if money and technology didn't exist. So no I think women generally are more content being a part of a group. There's a saying 'a man would crawl through broken glass for the love of a good woman' There is no such saying for women to the best of my knowledge. Disney hit the nail pretty much on the head with this one funny enough. https://youtu.be/_knm8JhDhqk?si=6DZ0dVh9lpO2eb2c | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 03:37 PM |
| 18 | It sucks to be single and alone, for both men and women, and I'm tired of people denying itBro I teach my neighbors girls skateboarding on Saturdays and, do yard work for the literal widow across the street, and regularly attend the redneck block party for (insert any given holiday). I'm the local 'skatepark dad' and when I got too old to jump off of big shit I transitioned to 'gym dad'. I kept the boys safe in the streets, and I keep em safe on the irons So take it from someone who's relatively deeply rooted in the community. It ain't that deep. It fuckin sucks when no one wants your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:13 AM |
| 2 | What would you say are the chances of being falsely accused of sexual harassment by a woman?Super duper wrong. Sexual harassment is considered whenever someone is offended in the slightest. It can be weaponized very easily at an institutional level. An off-the cuff joke, high 5ing male co-workers and colleagues but not women, a compliment. You clearly don't know what you're talking about if you think the chance is negligible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenAh yes. What a sound proposition to an extremely rational/methodical person 'just know all the variables' so simple. I'll alert the scribes. Can't believe no one thought of it sooner /s Jokes aside I do think there are different kinds of intelligence so like... yeah. But also intuition and rational thought tend to run antithetical to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenGo make a hot friend and an ugly friend. Have them try the same corny pick up line with the same inflection. Even better, have them give a completely benign compliment to random women and record the results. When the rules change completely based on the player we call that a rigged game. Granted the original statement is more hyperbolic than not, but not by much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenThat is my point, yes. It's also a classic PUA sign | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenHey look I have a downvote button too! Fair enough buddy. You tell the guy curing cancer he doesn't deserve love because he didn't put enough points into charisma then stop off at the higher education system and let em know equal opportunity is immoral because there's some white guy with better grades not getting into Stanford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenHow very 'only the cool kids matter' of you. Big cringe, very yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenThat's just rude i'm sure this young woman is relatively apt if she's working with ivy league grads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenExhibit A: https://reddit.com/r/EnneagramType2/s/n9jObxtxsA But I'll go down the list because you took the time to think out a response and I appreciate that. See link above. See astrology. See consumer debt. See women getting degrees in sociological studies by orders of magnitude more than men. Well I could say the same. Women are just too lazy and shortsighted to pick hardworking, honest, faithful men. They'd rather date the charming snake oil salesman. So who's more socially daft here? The po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:12 PM |
| 5 | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceNo need, you shame yourself https://reddit.com/r/MarryRich/s/iXgAAjGere | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/09/23 06:31 PM |
| – | "lock a man down in your 20s" is illogical adviceBump. 'don't pay attention to what women say, pay attention to what they do' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenWell I hate to break it to you but it sounds like you're literally exceptional. (Which is ok, I tend to struggle with this topic too because I'm surrounded by intelligent accomplished people, but on the other other hand I don't have to look hard to find someone I would earnestly consider in the top 10% of intelligence who struggles dating. I do have to look extremely hard to find someone in the top 10% of superficial aesthetics who struggles dating. Only even ever met one and he had some pretty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 05:41 PM |
| 9 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenWell because if we as a society are saying we value game, superficial attraction and rizz over y'know. The people who save lives and the engineers that build and maintain the infrastructure of society the we're not too far off from Idiocracy are we? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenOnly the sith speak in absolutes lol. If you've ever met an honest to goodness genius you'd know there's some truth in what I'm saying. Especially in today's dating market where the first three 'checkboxxes' on most women's dociers are Is he relatable/ is he relating to me? Is he funny Spark/chemistry I'm no genius but I work with a few of em and it is like pulling teeth trying to wingman for these guys. How smart you are only matters after you've established rizz. Same thing as being a good/loy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 04:19 PM |
| 11 | Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to womenYou're missing the point. The point isn't about verbal IQ It's that logical/rational people have a very difficult time relating to women. I'll give you an example that stops a lot of intelligent young men right off the bat: The difference between sexual harassment, and rizz, and humor is basically nothing The cost of learning these social skills after spending your entire youth doing something like learning to be a doctor or an engineer is extremely high, and women tend to just expect you to pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 03:19 PM |
| 5 | What would happen if OF, all dating websites, and all social media sites suddenly disappearedVideo games are rapidly being developed for problem solving skills, medical applications etc most of the people flying airplanes and helicopters are essentially trained on video games I learned a shitload of history and geography from video games growing up. I initially learned how to skateboard because i got so good at Tony Hawk's pro skater I eventually just said 'fuckit that looks like fun, how hard could it be?' (very) In a very roundabout way videogames taught me about value, and rudimentar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 01:58 AM |
| – | How does the concept of romantic love fit into red pill concepts?Oh yeah, but on the other hand I am blessed to have more than one attractive young woman do me dirty. 'it's better to have loved and have lost than never to have loved at all' Aaaand it's much better to get red/black pilled sitting in the middle of the pack than on the incel end or on the 'ultra hot guy' end. In a very significant way, the slightly above average guy who DID have to practice romance and patience and compromise and fidelity and integrity and was rewarded for it is probably in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 09:29 PM |
| – | Why not just avoid telling a potential boyfriend/husband about the past?I think the cherry on top for me is that women are constantly ranting about being objectified the whole 'are you just with me for the sex?' Schtick Then shit like this pops up like 'oh you're going to objectify sex with a low fidelity woman, your feelings on the topic don't matter' 'in fact it's an honor when a whore chooses to exploit you after ~ a decade of passing herself out like candy on Halloween' 🤔 delusion so thick you can swim in it So which is it ladies? Is sex a special and meaningful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 08:44 PM |
| – | Why not just avoid telling a potential boyfriend/husband about the past?'you should consider yourself lucky your nurse let you use the same needle as that crackhead who just rolled into the ER' Like I don't believe in the whole sloppy seconds thing, but I'm trying to play golf, lowest score wins. Not tryina wind up carrying some other dude's baggage or wind up with an STD that'd stay with me longer than any woman. No man in his right mind is going to be grateful to be providing 10x more to a woman who's given herself over to Tom, Dick, Harry, Chad, and Jason for a f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 07:46 PM |
| 15 | Have you ever seen a handsome and successful man struggling with his romantic/sexual relationships? And why?Yup, I was about to say I knew one very 'Spergy guy. If he kept his mouth shut he could get lucky on any given day. Does fine on dating apps. But definitely on the struggle bus for any commitment over a week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 7 | CMV : A lot of men feel like a date went really well when it didn’t. They made a friend.This would involve taking any responsibility for your choices and generally not being a passenger princess in your own life. In my experience this only happens to Chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:55 PM |
| 4 | is anyone else who is attending college afraid because of all the rape cases going on?…Blow was literally the only time I hurt anyone on purpose, but also I basically always drank the punch. But also I was usually involved in the making of the punch. (My signature add in was limeade. Cuts through the usually pre-diabetes levels of sugar involved) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 05:28 AM |
| 2 | How does the concept of romantic love fit into red pill concepts?Sortof. It's pretty straightforward for me. I always dated the girl other guys wanted. The trick is to never blame the other guy. Always blame your partner. My first girlfriend ever cheated on me with a 6' tall dingus. Didn't have any ill will toward the dingus, got rid of girl immediately. Or put another way, any attractive person is going to get attention. It's what you do with the attention that matters. One girl I dated was crazy jealous I worked in a female dominated field. So pretty much e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Rule of thumbYeah, one of the routes to blackpill rhetoric is actually having a lot of sex. You see it in older Chads when they realize its just as degenerate to spend decade(s) at bars and clubs having meaningless hookups with the hottest girl you could tagnbag on any given Saturday. You hear it from the 'other' guys a lot too. The guys contributing to infidelity of women. The vacation dude, the dude she hopes her bf/husband never finds out about. Often times the view from the very top of the mountain is ju… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Do women actually have no argument here if a guy is not an lncel?So women are allowed to grade looks on an arbitrarily high curve for men but men aren't for women? 🤔 | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 04:38 PM |
| 0 | I respect women.You might actually be a sociopath for that one chief. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | I respect women.A little, but if there was a clear way forward we wouldn't be here because the question then becomes 'stop, and then what?' | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I respect women.They're being facetious. It's a play on the whole 'strong independent woman' rhetoric. Since they can't treat women the way they'd want to be treated (the golden rule). They're treating women the way they've asked to be treated (equal to men). Hate to break it to you but in most scenarios men won't stop for each other when injured, especially when skateboarding (like in one of the other comments). Guy code dictates you stop for broken bones and loss of consciousness, anything short of that and l… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 03:41 PM |
| 3 | How does the concept of romantic love fit into red pill concepts?Romance is another resource generated by men and given to women It's supposed to be the thing that levels the playing field between the top 10% guys who don't have to try to find partners and everybody else. Now 'game and banter' is more important than 'is this man going to stay with me through sickness and health and be loyal to me even after our looks fade'? To answer the second part of your prompt, the majority of women's efforts are entirely unnecessary (and potentially even counterproductiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Simps on reddit and youtube telling guys to spam approach women are fucking worstu/ratdontpanic still has me blocked like a goober so I guess I'll respond here: Spam approaching is dumb Learning how to cold approach people in general is a somewhat useful skillset but the real problem isn't the methodology. It's the lack of 3rd spaces and lack of social proof. So it's often better to keep true cold approaches brief and calculated, get her number, get some banter going. A wave and a smile can go a long way, my buddy used to do this bit picking up girls at the park, just wave a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Red Pill Grifter, Sneako, gets whiplash when encountering some of his cringe adolescent fans.Women: men are rude and violent and combative. When did chivalry die? Where's my respectful, compassionate, loyal husband? Zherka: I hate women btw, you're a bunch of whores. Also women: i should let him blow my back out | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Settling - something is better than nothingI don't see the functional difference between that and settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:28 PM |
| – | For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”…I'm not a redpiller, but it is interesting that misandry is your default comment and when we start to pick it apart your go-to defense is misogyny. Seems like a grapes of wrath type fallacy to me. There's a saying in feminist circles. 'if you want to burn down the patriarchy don't use other women as tinder' Seems to me the only thing left is to use men as kindling. Instead of building something better and truly choosing to be the bigger person the default is to tear other people down. Hence why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 05:27 PM |
| 6 | For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”…Oh coulda fooled me, sorry there sport. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:10 AM |
| 3 | For those that worry about being the “best she ever had”…Question was for men, you have to comment under the automod or under someone else per sub rules | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Settling - something is better than nothingLol then start preparing for nothing. Everyone settles, it's a part of growing up. It's the whole J.Cole, 'crooked smile' /'nobody's perfect, but you're perfect for me' effect. Y'know, I do think it's noble in a way to abstain from being with someone who you consider to be unworthy of you. But I also think that attitude, and deriving your self-esteem/mental well being in that way says more about you than anything. I'd easily say some of my best relationships were times when I 'settled' and my ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:17 PM |
| 5 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?How does college have anything to do with EQ? You lost me there Interior design is a more interesting topic. Oh yeah. Inceldom is not new, passport bro-ing is not new. One's a software engineer and the other just busted ass for a decade, made a few insanely good investments and kindof accidentally found it. Started dating a Venezuelan girl and might be the happiest motherfucker I know now. Straight up told me to leave too but my investments were not as good and I got just lucky enough over the y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?Inb-after: I think dating dumber guys than you says more about you than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him?Better looking is the only one you can realistically argue. Homemaking is a wierd toss up right now, I can't name a single guy friend who took purely traditional masculine roles in their own homes. Everyone contributes. High EQ/ been to therapy is the big shiny new hypergamy box to tick this season. In fact there are several schools of thought that would argue stoicism (and self-control by extension) is one of the highest forms of emotional intelligence, and most women will never approach anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | A unique glimpse into the attraction Chad getsWat. No I mean random steakhouse guy mouthfeeding you.in America. Y'all hopped on the struggle bus this morning huh? What your arguing has nothing to do with the video or my comment about it 😮💨 | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | A unique glimpse into the attraction Chad getsThat's not how quotes work my guy, or how HR works. And it's not what I wrote. Goddamn it's usually the ladies who lack reading comprehension and shadowbox against a point no one made. Pull yourself together my guy. Read it back slow, sound it out if you gotta. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | I'm tired, bro🤦🏾♀️......Yeaaaah. I don't think most women have a tumor problem. I think they have an empty calorie and sedentary lifestyle problem. What you're saying is 100% fair and valid, but you're also very much arguing the exception, not the rule. Everyone's primary concern should be their health first, but if you aren't counting calories and aren't spending ~30 minutes a day doing some kind of vigorous activity I don't think you get to pass the buck. There's a prerequisite amount of effort you need to put in bef… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 06:27 PM |
| 2 | A unique glimpse into the attraction Chad getsI'm with you on this one. Not enough information. Just looks like 'hot girl summer behavior' to me. Not sure I'd want my daughter eating meat out of a man's hand that she presumably just met though, and you'd probably never see something like that in America. Immediate nuclear meltdown from HR paired with a Luxembourg sized lawsuit. So while it is a bad example of attraction to this guy specifically, I doubt she'd be smiling so much if this was a 4/10 guy or she wasn't on vacation where you're e… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Only men can solve the male loneliness epidemic (and most so called male issues)Ah yes, good point. We should just bring this up at the next patriarchy meeting/s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allI'm telling you the arguement is about committed long term relationships and there you go right back to objectifying men. 'sO yOu MuSt BeLiEvE sExUaLiTy iS a ChOiCe ThEn, JuSt Go SuCk A dIcK aNd StOp CoMpLaInInG 5hEaD' This arguement is needlessly reductive, inflammatory to the gay and straight communities and indicative of bad faith. Men don't experience sexuality the same way you do. There is no 'I kissed a boy just to try it' Your advice is very clearly obstinate because I doubt you actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allRight. Exactly, nuance exists. It also doesn't apply to someone physically assaulting you. My body my choice is a terrible argument if you take it literally. That is my point, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 7 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allOdd that women are often quick to complain about being objectified, but the penultimate advice for men complaining about the dumpster fire that is dating in 2023 is 'go objectify someone, use another man as a fuckhole'. Especially when the post is clearly targeted at LTRs. Could it be women are conditioned to project their own internal objectification and baggage when the lifestyle they picked is threatened in order to protect their sunk-cost fallacy? Who could say. But it is very strange that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Rate these women 1-10I think 3 is more of a niche pick. That being said I think everyone on here tried a little too hard to emulate the 'truerateme' crowd and plopped everyone near the middle | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Rate these women 1-10Yup. There's a picture of the back, blonde girl is a certified 9 without the back hard to say, but with an aesthetic butt on top of a conventionally attractive build? Game over Also even the fat girl isn't a 1. A real 1 can't hit the treadmill for a few months and be cute imo. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 08:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of timeYeah. It is possible to get lucky. I've been that lucky exactly once in my life and I work (and studied) in a female dominated career path (and I was already in a relationship, so I had all the pre-selection vibes going for me). https://reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/MLaAeJQfKF Lack of returns is not failure. Failure is relegating yourself to the rut where you have virtually zero chance of success. I've already heard many stories like this woman's. https://reddit.com/r/AskMen/s/SjqW6oQQPp Didn't have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 07:51 AM |
| -1 | CMV online dating for most men is a complete waste of timePottery class? You got a yoga or Pilates studio nearby. One of my friends is 32 childless and single, she does kickboxxing I'm 31 brother, I hear ya. Definitely a lot of alpha widows out there, but no one in the real world actually gives a shit if you date significantly younger as long as you're good to her. One of my old professors dated a classmate and their gap was like 10 years I'm dating like 7 years down nowadays because I don't wanna deal with someone else's kid (or the women who have em … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.Not all betas orbit. But most orbiters are going to be betas The concept of alpha and beta is abstract in the first place. As soon as the economy came into play the rules changed dramatically. For example. You can make an argument that I'm the beta in my circle of gymbros. I'm the smallest and I consistently lift the least. But drop the same group on skateboards and they all look like baby deer and I can hold my own with a couple amatuers when pressed. Beta isn't necessarily an orbiter. And for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 06:12 AM |
| 7 | Being with an average male is not specialMight be the realest comment on Reddit today. Gyat damn. Hit me right in the cavity where my soul used to be with that one. Way harder to find a hot girl that's good in bed. Passenger princess syndrome is supposed to end at the car door, but I guess no one ever tells em (I usually don't, just left em on 'read') No one complains about the patriarchy after the panties come off 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:43 AM |
| 6 | There are plenty of fish in the sea, bro! If 99% of women find you unattractive, then 1% does bro! Its just a numbers game, bro!The trend is still moving AWAY from irl. And lets face it, a lot of the dudes on here don't have a robust and co-ed social circle to tap into. We kindof NEED OLD to not be shitty at this point imo | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/09/23 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Misandry doesn’t existBecause the patriarchy was the thing enforcing non-violent and respectful men. The gynocracy is the paradigm rewarding low fidelity, disrespectful, dishonest behavior. They NEED to be victims or the whole rhetoric cumbles like a sheet of 2 ply on the tide. 'if you want to find out who rules over you, find out who you aren't allowed to criticize'- terrible human being said that, but you can be a horrible person and still say smart stuff. R.Kelly was a pretty fucked up guy. I still like the remix … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADBased. That and I think there's a dopamine addiction component. With gambling you get a dopamine spike waiting for a result. It's the same effect that endears us to horror movies. The ghost/monster thing isn't actually that scary after you've seen it, the haunting part is the thrill, where you don't know what's out there. You don't know what it's capable of, and you don't know where it's coming from next. Same thing with 'serially single' people not content, always chasing that next hit, the nex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not?Hey. S'okay. So did my ex and she was still a smokeshow. Stuff like that isn't that important on the guy's side. It's more important that you're a kind, compassionate and well rounded person if you're looking for long term-type-deals Almost everyone looks good in almost any outfit if they're in good shape and they have a good attitude imho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 01:48 PM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Not lookin for games chief. If that's you that's you. You don't know my life and I don't know yours. But I do know two things You either don't actually know what diatribe means or you don't understand what I said. You're clearly lost because this is a twitter comment. Either offer an actual opinion or run back home to Papa Elon and pretend to be important throwing around 10 cent words hoping no one has the wherewithal to examine what you've actually contributed: nothing. https://youtu.be/6aZNksC… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 12:42 PM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?Wow what a constructive thing to say. Should I bother asking you where the stick in your ass is exactly or are we just choosing violence this today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:31 AM |
| 13 | Q4M: Males, do you experience the "ick"? It so - what? If not, why not?Oh this is a fun one. Absolutely Feminists Wanderlust girls. We're talking travel nurses, flight attendants, and that chick who's just always on vacation, always at the concert, at every Coachella. Literally and figuratively not able and/or willing to settle down. Bad wife material, bad mother material (as a generality, I assume there are exceptions but this is the rule) Bad with money/ in crippling debt with no real means to pay it off. It's 2023. You're strong and independent, did you really n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:51 AM |
| – | Why does seeking explicit consent turn off so many women?I mean she's not wrong. That's basically the only way you're going to get consent without killing her boner. Yet another tightrope for men to walk where the rules aren't written, are different for almost every woman and change at a moment's notice. Best advice I have actually looks a lot like this lady's Get good at foreplay, and when one or both of you is satisfied/ ready to move on it's a reasonable transition. 'tell me what you want me to do to you' 'I want you to (x, y, z)' Unfortunately con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 05:54 AM |
| 3 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.One of my favorite gymbros is like 5'4 gorgeous girlfriend and looks like a Greek God. Have you considered that you might be undercompensating? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.Naw, you still need small bros for HVAC, Plumbing, and exterminator services. Plus also it's easier for the smaller dudes to look absolutely peeled/shredded/yoked/swole That 6'4 NBA lookin motherfucker has to work 5 times as hard to even approach a short king's athletic physique. The bigger guys get floppy dad bod way faster because the athletic upkeep is just insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Saying there’s two genders is now considered a “red flag” in datingComing from the author of this little gem https://reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/s/LleH8A43NF Let me tell you a secret. Or I guess more of a story. I used to sit next to a genderfluid girl in college. One day I called her by name and asked her about her week. She said something like 'no I'm Greg today, you need to call me He' etc. Basically got all huffy about it. So I told her 'Ok Emily, i guess I don't want to know about your weekend' She never brought it up again. All this pronoun/ 20 gender bs o… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 02:42 AM |
| 6 | So I see men here say women having male friends in a red flag, but also that women are unreasonably mean to single men. How are women supposed to navigate this?That's kindof the sticky part. It's a red flag if a woman has ZERO female friends and regularly commands male attention. It depends on if she's emotionally available to them. Is she talking to them and not you (the boyfriend in this scenario) about her problems? Is she going to them regularly for provision of some kind? I think enough women compartmentalize their relationships to where it can definitely cross over into emotional cheating territory, and it's not healthy to be jealous and zealous,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | The Fact That the “Golden Ratio” Was Able to Predict Hollywood Sex Symbols…'Hot dudes are just ugly chicks' There is a somewhat interesting school of thought that goes into that a little bit 'if hyper masculine dudes are getting all the action how do you explain Harry Styles?' I don't think it's as straightforward as AF/BB but I do think theres a strange trend between the overall neuroticism of the population, the disintegration of communities, the removal/denouncement of men displaying masculine traits as violent and toxic, a coin flip divorce rate, and the selection … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:15 PM |
| 2 | What is the actaul goal of this sub to you personally?Ah yes. The dark souls effect. There's an eerie kind of enlightenment that comes from abandoning all hope and expectations. I advocate that basically the black pill is just a pit stop on the way to to white pill. You find your own meaning in meaninglessness. The most powerful healers are those who have been injured or ill. The greatest leaders tend to have been disenfranchised or scorned. True strength is found within the greatest adversity. Or as the kids say 'let him cook' Reminds me of an old… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.There is actually an elephant patriarchy: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/science-nature/how-male-elephants-bond-64316480/ Lack of strong masculine influences is associated with violence. https://beyondthesestonewalls.com/posts/in-the-absence-of-fathers-a-story-of-elephants-and-men Ergo the matriarchy only functions for pre-pubescent and female elephants. In addition, it may even be reasonable to assume that because most bulls roam around alone, they're the de facto leaders in times of crisis. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.That's disappointing. Not one person can tell me why knocking out old bull elephants put extreme extinction pressure on African populations. Not one person can tell me what male elephants do from 13 to somewhere around 50 years old. Weird. You were so confident in your answer I was sure you knew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.Then you're aware of the role of adult male elephants, perfect, so surely you can tell me what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:20 AM |
| -1 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.The fact that you aren't even curious kindof makes my point for me. You lack critical awareness of the true function of masculinity and you're doing an excellent job convincing me you'd like to stay ignorant. (Because quite frankly it's a difficult study to find, and I do like to use male elephant culture as an example, because I think it highlights a critical component of masculine nature that no one really touches on) But sure. Disregard me. We can stay at square 1 that is your privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.That's feminist cap. Everyone needs to submit sometimes. Nurses (and patients if we want to go there) submit to doctors. Lawyers submit to judges. Players submit to coaches. Students submit to teachers (and a lot of the time you'll find that when especially apt, both parties tend to learn and grow with each other Enshrining submissiveness and agreeableness as weak or condescending traits is a critical root, a necessary point of contention in the misandrist propaganda. Because the reality is medi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:14 AM |
| -1 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.So I assume you have no earthly clue what the function of male elephants (arguably the most masculine creatures on earth) is, or why populations faced radical decline despite common sense telling us that most of them were not necessary to the health of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 05:00 AM |
| -2 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.Baha the misandry is strong in you hun, I hope you find a man who changes your mind because clearly your experience isn't worth much. Look up elephant culture. I think that'll give you a better starting point for what healthy masculinity and femininity look like. A very strange thing happened when the Ivory trade was booming in the 1900s, you would think that taking out old bull elephants wouldn't really effect the populations at large, but that's not what happened. Quite frankly unless your edi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.Name one positive trait you wrote on the masculine side. Name one negative trait you wrote on the feminine side. Sure I was a touch hyperbolic, but this is just super toxic for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:44 AM |
| 4 | Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.So basically all virtues are feminine and all sins and abusive behaviors are masculine. What a terrible way to start a conversation. Go tell the men fighting in Ukraine that self sacrifice is a feminine trait. We can cross humility off the feminine list because this has got to be the most delusional misandrist thing I've read in a while. If we gave out trophies for just downright hatespeech you'd win it ma'am. Congratulations. The worst part is you couldve just left out the last two paragraphs a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 04:41 AM |
| – | Men do not reward loyaltyIts a troll account probably tried to punch above her wieght class and got rocked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:37 AM |
| 2 | I think "women need to pick better" is a valid argument only against womenThis coming from the same person who absolutely grilled a guy who used an article to demonstrate his point like yesterday, saying he 'didn't understand statistics' https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/FXDw8JLt1T 'rules for thee and not for me' So it sounds like you also don't understand statistics 🤡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Her point is 'dont complain about loose women when men are the ones sleeping around then asking for virgins' That's a far more chronically online/ivory tower point of view. The vast VAST majority of men have zero to one options, forget about a roster. I've honestly never even heard that brand of bull shit outside of the fresh and fit podcast. The dudes with the rosters are the slimy narcissistic guys who manipulate girls like it was their job. Hence why I brought up the friendzone shit. Not bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Men are NOT protectorsYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Yeah lemme just bring it up at the next patriarchy meeting gratuitous eyeroll Lady I've been in relationships for almost my entire adult life and I encourage the same to young men. 'if it didn't work men would stop doing it' Well relationships are the things that are starting to not work lol. We used to marry people we considered good friends, now it's a verifiable 'ick' if a guy's your friend Now it's this big suprise when RP guys say 'don't be their fucking friends' /s 'I'm looking for my soul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive FriendsThe poisoned arrow fits nicely here https://youtu.be/V4Lo1STaMKI?si=kRvXTTjhF1uB7WG5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 03:35 AM |
| 10 | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.It's a roundabout way to say that bodycount matters. Kindof like the old religious hypothetical about 'going to the gates of heaven' It goes something like -if you died tomorrow and you had to watch back all your sins with Jesus, would you be proud of what you'd done? So personally I think retroactive jealousy is a psychobabble reach. (Feel free to take that with a grain of salt, but I don't think it's ok to rationalize away things like that with vocab terms. You're just piling more shame onto m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesOk then do a kickflip or you're dumber than me. (You get two tries because it's Tuesday and I'm feeling generous) If what you're saying is true then it doesn't matter that I was an amatuer skateboarder and you've probably got the lower body coordination of a baby giraffe on deck. L RDP. Big L https://youtube.com/shorts/OwZXdexDJ7c?si=eoXwdqOJYIFXMWcF | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/09/23 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesColloquially known as the apples to oranges fallacy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_equivalence#:~:text=A%20false%20equivalence%20or%20false,False%20equivalence Asking if I can perform a surgeon's job or a diagnostic role has nothing to do with the topic being discussed. I'm not trained or licensed to do so. But an interesting turn of events I am coincidentally one of the few non-surgical non-master's degree positions allowed to perform several surgical procedures should the situation call f… | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/09/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | r/FemaleAntinatalism and r/female dating strategies would of being banned if they we're a male forumEntirely fair. I think a lot of these black pilled guys are just lazy and echo chambering. At least with the red pill you've got some motivation to do something. This quote comes to mind https://youtu.be/3_QpeALw5HU?si=vEMJ4oz5q7Ty3kU- The difference between beauty and riches: Wealth is in the hand of the wielder, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. They're polar opposites. So we may just disagree on this on a fundamental level, but there are many good answers when someone asks you if you thin… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesFalse equivalence, but it's not out of the question. With Chat GPT? I'd imagine you have a decent shot tbph. That's the funny part, we're both already dead on that hill, you just don't know it yet, or are lucky enough to never have to care. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do blackpillers/redpillers stay sane?Well it depends on what you value in life. I put them down for the opposite reason. I have a number of female cousins around my age, some very liberal, some very conservative. The very liberal ones are basically unsalvageable. A generation of 'gucci gang' and 'keeping up with the Kardashians' spoiled em fuckin' rotten, can't cook, don't care what men want, constantly complain men are trash. 'if you smell dog shit everywhere you go, check your shoes' The very conservative ones are both married, b… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Women just can’t win in blackpillers’ eyesNormally I like what you have to say, but as someone who regularly works with doctors: doctors can be some of the dumbest fuckin people on earth, paired with the automatic authority of the title it's a dangerous combo (see the opioid epidemic that spanned nearly 40 years. GuEsS tHoSe NaRcOtIcS wErE aDdIcTiVe AfTeR aLl). It's definitely not all of em but there is a big difference between what you can memorize and regurgitate and common sense and wisdom. Higher education only really tests for a ve… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do blackpillers/redpillers stay sane?The inevitable end of black pill (and probably a lot of redpillers) is realizing the futility of fighting the current. It's very much a lead, follow or get out of the way game. The leaders stay redpilled and let the chip on their shoulder become their personality The followers are the black pilled people who follow 'maxxing' doctrine and work within the confines of 'the game' to increase their odds of romantic success (a kindof a grey pill) The get out of the way group are white pilled guys just… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | r/FemaleAntinatalism and r/female dating strategies would of being banned if they we're a male forumMy point is vanity is a cardinal sin for a reason. We only got half the story, so I agree with your overarching point, but only until you get to the dark triad shit. The fact is you don't know. She could've thrown a dozen red flags and manipulated this dude for months before he asked that question, seemingly the straw that broke the camel's back. What if she was ugly on the inside and seeking validation by only telling the convenient part of the story that demonizes some random dude we know noth… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | r/FemaleAntinatalism and r/female dating strategies would of being banned if they we're a male forumI'mma grab some more for fun: Open contempt for married men (supposedly their personalities are amazing): https://reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/ZDUQAVWt9C Friendly reminder that you're not allowed to ever defend a man there: https://reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/UWkXzemitZ Friendly reminder that all we care about is sex in relationships (and you're never allowed to disagree, because all 'all men' comments are automatically valid and confirmed fact as soon as they're posted): https://reddit.com… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 05:33 PM |
| 2 | r/FemaleAntinatalism and r/female dating strategies would of being banned if they we're a male forumBoop https://reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/s/wq2zbu1Yx9 That little gem took all of 10 seconds to find, awarded, thousands of upvotes. Should I keep going or are we clean on open misandry being allowed and encouraged in women's spaces? Didn't even make a passing effort at 'your boyfriend'. Just straight up 'they' all men, immediately and always want you to have zero self esteem. Doesn't have anything to do with her picking a toxic guy or her decisions that brought her to that point. She's somehow… | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Entitlement to sexOh I don't think it's a misunderstanding at all. It's classic projection. | /r/AllPillDebate | 12/09/23 05:21 PM |
| 13 | If all men want is sex, and women aren't special, why does it matter what a woman's body count is?Yeah and there are women out there who marry for money and clout. So I can lump you in with them yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Why dont young men just adapt and evolve ? Whether into asexual, gay or AI girlfriends.. its all viable options when it is too difficult to get a quality partner.I hate to break it to you bro, but nearly 100% of the male trainers at my local gym watch anime, around 80/20 split for single/taken. Now there are only 4 lady trainers, but only 1 doesn't have a boyfriend and she's the only one over 30. Like yeah, you can call that pew study a blip, and my home gym a blip, but two points make a line. What I've seen out and about is the ratios are actually more bleak. I assume the American South is probably carrying in terms of relationship success because in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Do you think that in the age of equality, we should push for a 50/50 dating culture?So the places with the lowest dating satisfaction and highest divorce rates in the world. Gotcha. Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 03:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Truerateme makes incels and the blackpill look badLol nah. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?This you? https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/DRNYGFWlpa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Lol yikes dude. Nah I dated around. Honestly tempted to go back to Sharia law because American women are just terrible wives. My point is you're never going to find a man who's sitting there while a cougar fucks a 19 year old guy 'wHaT a PeDo, ShE's MaNiPuLaTiNg ThAt InNoCeNt BoY!!!' Yet somehow women come to this narrative that 21 year old women aren't adults and aren't responsible for their own choices. That's fine. That's how my ultra conservative middle Eastern family operates. Keep them beh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?Cosmopolitan might have been pushing the '30 flirty and thriving' narrative for a generation or two but men across time and space are pretty well agreed on which age is the most attractive. This isn't 'new' and I'm sick of bitter, misguided women implying it's pedophilia. Either 18 is the age of consent and a legal adult or it's not and we should be forcing women to stay at home under the protection of their fathers until... what? 25? Nah dude. Y'all wanted liberty, that comes with responsibilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 03:30 PM |
| 17 | Women (most of the time) are REPULSED by inexperienced men.Yup, they don't want to invest, don't want to coach, don't want to take the time, don't want to communicate, don't want to listen. Just want to take their cookie cutter sex-god man ready to use, double A batteries preinstalled, factory calibrated right out of the box. Not realizing he was likely only able to achieve such aptitude and versatility with a trail of broken hearts strewn across the pavement, love bombs, and sociopathic mindgames and he'll likely do the same to you. Being eager will ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 10:00 PM |
| 5 | I hear others say that relationships where the women pursued or initiated are set to fail, but why do so many marriages which are often initiated by men fail? does which gender initiate really determine the outcome then?Child support Financial hypergamy Zero fault divorce Take your pick. The cruel reality is men in general aren't affected by lifestyle creep the same way women are. Men work more hours, take fewer vacations, and are more prone to take a higher paying job even if it lacks prestige. Now, I fully disagree with the 'pull yourself up by your bootstraps' rhetoric, but if divorces are majorly initiated by women, and women are more likely to end up in poverty post-divorce that sounds very much to me like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Delusion is an understatementIf by glow up she means 'get a supermodel body' and approximately one Kardashian's worth of plastic surgery. Maybe. It might be honest but it's far from fair. What she's not saying is that guy in the picture is the MINIMUM passible dude, then let's assume you want him to be taller than her (maybe a 5'10~11) then let's assume he's gotta be as educated as her taking in at least 70k a year, with a verifiable fit-fluencer body and an Ambercrombie model face and you now have set yourself up for perma… | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 07:08 PM |
| 2 | I hear others say that relationships where the women pursued or initiated are set to fail, but why do so many marriages which are often initiated by men fail? does which gender initiate really determine the outcome then?The real answer is probably that no one party determines the outcome, it's not so easy to assign fault. TRP will tell you most divorces are initiated by women TBP will tell you that's because they know their worth and won't stay with abusive, manipulating/gaslighty men. The reality is usually somewhere in the middle because ultimately it is women who are more prone and incentivized to break their oaths And while I think the modern 'woke/me too' victim language is needlessly hyperbolic in order t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Women arbitrarily choose 25 as the age they're comfortable with any age gap, because they know that's the point when women's value starts to decline. It's not a moral superiority issue, it's their own fear of being replaced as they age.Uh, yes and no. I think there's nothing wrong with this statement on paper, but for a significant number of women this includes engaging in a series of meaningless relationships/situationships/hookups and heartbreaks. Just spinning the wheels and avoiding all commitments, and ultimately becoming less desirable as a direct consequence of their experiences. Now, I don't think it's reasonable to say experience= baggage, but when left to their own devices women tend to flock to men that don't commit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 12:21 AM |
| 6 | u/Wellarmedhippie denies being racist and wants ethnic males to stay away from white women.Roperordope might be annoying, but I don't think he's the kindof guy who would just straight up lie | /r/AllPillDebate | 07/09/23 12:10 AM |
| 3 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?You're way off. If onlyfans and strip clubs were the solution nobody would be complaining. It's the fact that being friends with women tends to be a bad way to get laid in the first place is a large part of the problem. Men see women who are good friends as attractive Women have different boxxes to tick, many of which have very little to do with fidelity or friendship in the Instagram era. (To highlight this point ask your husband what traits define 'a good man' now ask him what traits define 'a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 07:35 AM |
| 4 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?I don't think it's a bad idea, but I think you're missing a couple critical components Modern therapy/therapeutic efforts are largely centered around women. The gynocentric version (mostly cathartic in nature) is of little value to men in general. (Potentially the more damning issue for what you're talking about). Someone who who lacks oxygen isn't going to care if they're thirsty. Someone who's morbidly dehydrated isn't going to care if they're hungry etc.etc. Or in other words, what you're tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:55 AM |
| 6 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?Hey I'm with ya. And weirdly enough TRP agrees with you, if you're already on the non-traditional side of the fence there's a reasonable expectation to support each other in non-traditional ways It sounds the the delulu is not strong in you. Where women start to run into problems is when they start wanting all the benefits of a traditional man while enjoying all the benefits of liberalism and low fidelity relationships. Then the issue gets even worse because guys are starting to catch onto the g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Bullying women to lower their standardsI hate to break it to you but if you're male, saying your preferences out loud is bullying. We can chicken/egg this until the cows come home, but it's a pretty extreme and obviously provable double standard favoring women's preferences over men's. Or to put it more elegantly 'men get rejected actively, women get rejected passively'. If you shove a dude's ineligibility in his face he has to deal with it and move on (you can get into the weeds about the move on part, but if he doesn't I'd say that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:37 AM |
| 3 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?Ironically women entering the workforce en masse was the trigger for the nuclear family with men as providers to dissolve faster than a tooth in a can of coke. This is majorly an issue with the baby boomers pulling the ladder up behind them combined with the exploitative logistics that come with an entire era of dual income housholds slowly driving UP the cost of living and housing while simultaneously becoming a cancer slowly burning through the middle class and solidifying it as more of an ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men get harassed more than women online?Fair enough. I found a young woman neck deep in a dark souls 3 2v2 pvp arena once. Outted herself after 5 wins together iirc. Made me wonder how many closed mic were women.... Versus just dudes like me who are constantly snacking and don't want to be rude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Seems like there's a common denominator here. Also next time you hear that I defy you to ask if said friend communicated what they wanted. There's a big difference between 'not pulling your weight' and 'sailing blind with no compass'. There's enough nuance between women where what works well for one may be near failure for another. Kinda like trying to pilot a Mac after using Windows (or vice versa w/e) your whole life. Like yeah the overall operation is the same but a couple tips and tricks can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.That's a decent point. I have no sympathy for a guy like that. That's not how I was raised, and the few times younger men have asked me for advice the first thing I'll say is that it's your job to please her because if you don't a jerk like me will. But then we come to the chicken/egg part of the issue. Any girl with a reasonable sample size generally doesn't want a man who's inexperienced. So they select the guys who are. It's like a fucked up dark souls game where you don't get to play the tut… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:05 PM |
| 4 | Do you think men get harassed more than women online?This ^ it's not even close. But what I want to know is why don't more women cosplay as male or at least not self-report a gender on Reddit where anonymity is central to the userbase? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:23 PM |
| 18 | Women shouldn’t be shamed for wanting to have sex when you consider the orgasm gap.Based. Women love to say sex is a two way street, but if the sex is bad for her it's somehow always the dude's fault. The cognitive dissonance is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 09:16 PM |
| 0 | What does "putting a woman in her place mean?"Normally I think your takes are just a little too liberal to agree with, but I'm with you on this one. This is basically just code for 'I want a daddy for a husband and to be as irresponsible as possible for... Ever while shuffling accountability and executive descisions onto my S/O' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:51 PM |
| 14 | The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success.The room is now the size of the internet. Social media made the literal room irrelevant in the scope of western dating culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Wouldn't it be so much safer for women if they started hitting on men?Lol ty for the insight. (And the vibrant visual of your quest to find the right pencil) I whittled a redwood ring for my highschool sweetheart (took literal days and multiple fuckups before I got it just right). We had a marriage pact for if we were both 30 and single. Not sure if she kept either but it sure meant a lot to her at the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:29 PM |
| 21 | Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex?False equivalence. Chad drew a dick on his math test and gets an A Sherman answered all questions accurately and completely, fails and gets suspended. 'why is Sherman always bitching about school?' 'how come he didn't go to college' Idk dude, you tell me. The problem isn't that Sherman is work-phobic. It's that Bobby didn't actually work as hard (if at all) and produces vastly superior results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Virginity is correlated with high IQYou're talking about a social structure that doesn't exist anymore. Even my grandma knew about how valuable it was to have a kind intelligent man who respected women. Bro my Grandpa nowadays? Probably would've been an incel. We've almost completely dissociated sex from long term companionship in the West. So I don't explicitly disagree with your overall point, but it's fairly well established that the guys sitting on the middle of the IQ scale are way better off than the ones on the top and bott… | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/09/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Tyty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Tyty. 'preciate the correction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:31 PM |
| 4 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Okay lets take a quick wikipedia here. Makeup artist Fat ad-campaign person. Damn she been in Vogue? She has her own clothing brand? Damn. I stand corrected. Well she wasn't going to be anyone's pick before, I doubt adding mean and famous is going to make anybody switch their pick 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Lol that's my b, called it off the cuff. What's her background? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Lol yw bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?It's a thought experiment like a game, analogous to marry fuck kill. Except instead of marry fuck kill the choices are: Enter a committed relationship Ignore x3 Like bro it aint that deep, I know it's wildly irresponsible and morally reprehensible to elect to marry Ryan Reynolds, fuck Ryan Sheckler, and Kill Ryan Lochte, but within the context of the game you have to suspend some of your social paradigms for a minute and just let the hypothetical happen. I could use all kinds of rhetoric to just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?It's a hypothetical, lighten up. The functional equivalent of marry/fuck/kill. We got single mom fitstagrammer Singaporean fitness instructor of Chinese descent White, famous, certifiably insufferable fat girl. And Kardashian clone #273639105311-23b Edited for accuracy. I don't do instagram, didn't know any of these people beforehand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Wouldn't it be so much safer for women if they started hitting on men?I think it's a generalization. 'more women go into nursing, less become surgeons' 'more women go into education, less into business' I don't think she's seriously trying to debunk women's materialism at large, because almost paradoxically they're also the gender that represents the largest consumer block and marketing target. You don't sell 'diamonds are forever' to men. But it is fair to say that women care more about what that token represents and who it is from more often than the literal val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 07:31 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemAbsolutely. Well the problem with prostitutes is multifaceted and I think a lot of people understand it as an insult, (or at least unconstructive criticism) on an intrinsic level. 'no one wants to have sex with you so just pay someone to have sex with you' That person has very little incentive to make sure you 'git gud' at sex. It actually flies in the face of their business model. If your mental wellbeing or skills actually improve from the interaction you may be able to get laid on your own, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:23 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemBump. In my travels the women who are able to communicate effectively are the ones who wind up with the best outcomes. I think it's worth coaching each other about what we want from the other person, establish intimacy, connect to each other. I think a lot of women run into trouble because they expect their partners to just be able to read the vibe and be able to translate that into prowess. Expecting excellence right out of the gate. (Part of the negative feedback loop of inceldom. Being inexpe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Marge Simpson is an exemple of what a wife should be likeLol right? Her hair is scuffed but god damn Marge Simpson set the bar too high for wife material (But yeah homer is actually a pretty shit husband, and a questionable dad on a good day) | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/09/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partnerDuh. Nothing is guaranteed, the only constant is change, death (and taxxes if you want to get cute about it). Get over yourself. That's why I used the 'fine' doctor/ excellent doctor analogy. Your first paragraph essentially says nothing besides 'I'm right because I read the book then I said a thing that was in the book'. Like yeah, that'll get you through the second week of high school bio, but OC's claim is still valid even if it wasn't taught to you in 10th grade and put on a scantron in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:10 PM |
| 6 | It is not your parents' job to teach you how to attract a partnerYeah this is just obstinate dude. I'm not sure I agree with either of you but the idea that 'giving your offspring the best possible chance to survive and reproduce' is at the very core of evolution. Especially in mammals where nurturing is dead center to the mating strategy, in contrast to a 'shotgun' strategy, something like a salmon that lays a shitload of eggs and dies. It's an entirely valid view to hold that the meaning of life is to reproduce, so if your parents (as one of the longest/ mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 07:21 PM |
| 2 | "Always Be Flirting." True or False?I'm on board with this, it's generally better to lean spicy than lean wholesome. I don't think you should always be flirting, it's generally only going to work on the kindof women you won't want to keep around (think about, really think about it. If you wind up with a girl who's with you because of love bombing/ cHeMiStRy then she's going to be be easily manipulated by the next guy) You want to lead off with some edge so you don't get friend zoned, but it's the emotional investment/ attachment/ … | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | I’m a Black Stacy. AMACan confirm. These kinds of women paradoxically tend to be the de facto top of the food chain. This is where you find actual 10s Ask some good questions fellas. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Why do so many men resent women for having standards?You didn't even find the best one. Talks about women having standards, is in an active situationship. https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/15pf6hh/how_do_i_22f_get_my_partner26m_to_commit/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1 | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Which downgrade do u chooseI'm not a fan of LL or synthetic hormones (unless you're just not making ANY) But I'm with you on the rest of it (for once) Take the 100lbs of fat, might actually wind up with half decent calves by the time I chug back to fighting weight 😂 | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is more damaging to men then goodIt's a set of beliefs. The top comment said you lacked context so I posted what I considered to be higher quality context https://youtu.be/QP1LstGtYrk?si=8ikNhZLyfZlGVdAJ Today's topic was talking about relationships from a historical and psychological context and sheds light onto an otherwise obfuscated topic. So what I would've found beneficial (and what I would tell young men) is that it's going to be more and more difficult to apply the relationship logic your grandparents used (and taught y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Redpill ideology is more damaging to men then goodhttps://youtu.be/JkEVFel2bk4?si=siHLlgT9IDN2lrox I think you might want to watch some of this guy. Our media algorithms select for radicalization, it's a part of confirmation bias, temperate and/or prudent content often gets brushed aside because it doesn't drive comments views and shares quite as hard. Almost ironically I think Aba and Preach wind up being some of the better redpill content creators despite being kindof swept aside by more controversial dudes https://youtu.be/mb0GDwP3Pe8?si=mQ5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 05:46 AM |
| 14 | CMV : The reason you think lots of average men are in relationships when actually they’re notI think there's a little projection here on both sides of the coin. The reality is probably somewhere in the middle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | None of the women I know are happyAh, you're going to make me say the thing. Ok, I'll discuss it on a philosophical level. Having a conversation about an in depth topic is like rowing in a boat. Everyone starts out blindfolded and unaware of the tempo, but unless everyone is rowing at the same speed in the same direction you'll just spin in circles. Now the tempo is nuanced but the blindfold is an allegory for education on the topic. Once you get sufficiently deep into biology terms like adaptability lose their overarching meani… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 02:49 PM |
| -1 | Women should be banned from this subBased. Take your W Nuance matters, circlejerking is fundamentally counterproductive. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:07 AM |
| 1 | None of the women I know are happyHistorical evidence of a limited genepool being detrimental= silly and illogical. Ok bro. You keep that bloodline pure there As for the one question you asked I'll humor you and provide real world examples of why these two populations would definitely benefit from making babies with each other. Norwegians tend to be tall and white. Tall white people are prone to cystic fibrosis and pneumothorax (mostly in men) I'm not entirely familiar with the specifics of congenital diseases or population risk… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 06:02 AM |
| 1 | None of the women I know are happyWell when you're talking about adaptability biologically thats a very vague term, and often not rooted purely in genetics especially in the modern human population. For example: one strong reason you want varied genes in a population would be the immune response. There's a very delicate dance that goes on whenever you get sick. Take covid for example. The official most lethal part of the disease is called ARDS a condition caused primarily by inflammation of the lungs rendering gas exchange diffi… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Where do girls go to meet guys?I hear ya, but I stopped in my early 20's because I kept doing it to guys and got called gay by women toxicfemininity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:11 AM |
| 1 | None of the women I know are happyI mean we can argue nature versus nurture but judging from what youve already said you're out of your depth for that conversation | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Many men only want women for sex and validation, because that is the only thing they cannot get on their own🧢 We both know healthcare is about billing in the West, the bloated, cripplingly corrupt insurance system doesn't care if you're mean on the internet. We discriminate by income bracket here. If anything it's more satisfying to offer medical help to jerks because who wants to take an ABG on a sweet little old lady? 👎 Now who wants to do an ABG on the white supremacist with an unironic swastika tattoo and listen to him bitch and moan about how much it hurts 3-5x more than the little old lady? 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Many men only want women for sex and validation, because that is the only thing they cannot get on their ownBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Are posts about autism on this sub exaggerating?All this, very much yes. But also https://youtu.be/6EqFVWzOfN8?si=5-78eCXni_pd7grk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | None of the women I know are happyNono. I'm fully graduated my degree is in healthcare and I had to take years of biology. I'm halfway there with you on the incel shit, but when you get into racist eugenics I draw the line. Biodiversity is the number 1 most important factor in the success of any given species. I'd be delighted to read any literature you have to the contrary. Until then you can take your golden retriever rhetoric to someone else. The only evidence I've ever seen where lack of genetic variation/interbreeding isn't… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 10:09 PM |
| 3 | None of the women I know are happyMy brother in christ, mixxing genes (having a deep and widely varied genepool) is the whole point of sexual reproduction. Ironically enough for you white people were the pioneers of inbreeding and keeping the bloodline pure etc. We already did the science on it. It's quite literally retarded. The outcomes were hemophilia and developmental disabilities in our ruling class, like across the Entirety of Europe. One of the more interesting hypothesis I've read attributed Henry VIII's psychotic and so… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | None of the women I know are happyI think he means platonic, but if he don't it definitely explains a lot. | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/23 07:52 PM |
| 8 | Men are far more accepting of neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating'no matter how hot she is, there's a guy somewhere who's sick of her shit' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 09:49 AM |
| 5 | How is it that more women are in relationships than men?The technical term you're looking for is: confirmation bias https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias#:~:text=Confirmation%20bias%2C%20a%20phrase%20coined,example%20of%20a%20cognitive%20bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 06:38 AM |
| 3 | Have you hooked up with someone for non-sexual reasons?To be fair, making a woman squirt is supremely satisfying To be unfair the actual fluid involved is pee and not getting peed on is always just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?They're not mutually exclusive. In both situations she's failed to secure a relationship. But urban dictionary says the fuck zone is a situation where No one's theoretically getting laid And Is fundamentally indistinguishable from her putting him in the friend zone, thus redundant from the terminology already out there and needlessly blame shifty. A LOT, and I mean a LOT of women will prefer if not require a friendship-esque situation before taking any non top x% (and the real smart ladies I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?Well not stupid, because if it was dumb I wouldn't have tried it. It's an extremely rational response. 'how does it make you feel when the shoe is on the other foot'? The reality is that dating smart is tough on both ends. The men are less susceptible and sensitive to emotions wether they be intended to manipulate or no, so it can be a pretty big mountain to climb because we tend to come off as cold and dispassionate, and in the worst cases you can get Machiavellian guys, and the TRUE gaslighter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 09:23 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?What these people are describing is basically what happened. I did play the empathy card. She was just short of a verifiable genius. Software engineer at a large multinational company making well over 6 figures. C'mon now. If you've learned nothing else from this sub it should be that intelligence is not correlated with relationship success. Shit if I was any smarter I probably would've been an incel too 😂 Jokes aside you are right, the smart girls tend to do better as non-traditional girlfriend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?That's fine if you want to believe that but that is my understanding coming out of a 5 year relationship, interacting with women again in ~2021 and asking a disgruntled and emotionally damaged co-worker wtf she was talking about when she was bemoaning her situationship status. It boiled DIRECTLY down into 'she'd been seeing this guy for ~3 years, they had a FWB-type arrangement and it didn't end until she started pressuring him for a commitment' She then later found out he was 'official' with so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 2 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Bump. The law is primarily concerned with the overall function of society to maintain the status quo and the approximation of liberty for its constituency within the confines of the corporate oligarchy. Women don't magically get attractive and sexual at 18, that's just when Johnny Patriarchy decided she was responsible for her own choices/ no longer needed protecting from snake oil salesmen Needless to say what it took 18 years for women to learn in my Grandma's day, it takes them nearly 40 in 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I don't buy that romantic literature "means nothing" about people's preferencesRidicularized isn't a word but I think you're thinking of Nagatoro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:23 PM |
| 33 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?I had it happen but there was definitely coercion. If you can turn down a horny young woman and not have her make it about herself/break out the emotional manipulation you know something I don't know lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:16 PM |
| 4 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.Seems entirely well versed and reasonable to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | W*men have caused me to become permanently disfigured at only 23Fine. You get one. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 07:36 AM |
| 2 | Has it been depressing to read about women's inner thoughts on this subreddit?That's somewhat untrue. The fact that you're allowed to discuss TRP or men's rights at all is actually a pretty big dent. I know people love to cry censorship and that all reddit mods suck, but at the same time a lot of it is content policy and kindof just making sure your community doesn't devolve into total anarchy at the slightest hiccup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:15 AM |
| 3 | W*men have caused me to become permanently disfigured at only 23Normally I dislike the things you have to say, but today I find myself on your team In addition: your doctor doesn't give a fuck, they're buried under paperwork, but you might get sent for a psych eval for self-destructive behavior. Definitely not the fault of women. Get your shit together OP. | /r/AllPillDebate | 27/08/23 07:12 AM |
| 13 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Naw. The fuck zone is basically situationship culture. Women unable to secure commitment and unwilling to realize they're getting played until after the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Where do girls go to meet guys?You lost me here. How is someone calling you pretty versus some article of clothing the vast majority of dudes couldn't give a flying naked fuck about disingenuous? If anything it's disingenuous not to go over there and say 'hey I think you're attractive and I'd like the opportunity to get to know you better and have sex later, here's my number' I'm sorry if no one's told you before but the only guys who are genuinely that interested in your clothes/nails/hairstyle are either gay, or not interes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | The Modern Gentleman’s Dilemma: Why Confidence in Women Starts with Understanding ThemI never said give up. Never once. You'd know that if you actually bothered to read what I wrote. But what I will say that if you're not 1 and you aren't willing to go full sociopath to acquire 2 theeeen You should be extremely skillful/ useful at something Or spend a lot of time socializing enough to develop charm/ find some snake oil to sell. Reading comprehension issues seem to be a common theme, you're shadowboxxing a point I never made indicating to me that your original question wasn't aske… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 01:20 AM |
| 2 | The Modern Gentleman’s Dilemma: Why Confidence in Women Starts with Understanding ThemYou asked what works. I'm not sure which part is self defeating here. I got good at skateboarding and saving babies. I don't care about money and flirting is just consensual sexual harassment (where the LEAST sexy thing you can do is obtain consent) so I could lose my license doing that, but when I was younger (and not very good at things) Machiavelli tier love bombing, drugs, and unearned confidence were generally the best tools I had. As for #1 you'd know if you spent the weekend with a true r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:26 AM |
| 3 | The Modern Gentleman’s Dilemma: Why Confidence in Women Starts with Understanding ThemBe hot and tall If you're not fit to be a male Calvin Klein underwear model or a Timberlake-ian caliber boy band member your options in the US are Be rich Get ridiculously good at something Be flirtatious If you're not well socially conditioned/ not charismatic/ introverted/ neurodivergent in any significant way only strategy #1 will work for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?Lol np. Good for you! I wish you and your aspiring salt n pepper papi the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How much do looks matter?We're getting there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?Ahhh that's rough. Turkey chili might be a good option. You can grill/airfry/pan fry up a bunch of veggies and chicken, leave em separate and just have fajitas at will. Baked mac n cheese is another good option to have laying around. You can throw chicken in there ez, reheats well, and if you're feeling zesty you can add buffalo or jerk chicken for a quick and dirty pallet change Vegetarian lasagna is K but in the gymbro world you generally want .75 gs of protein per day per pound of body weight… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Do you think men's fashion really matters in attraction?Chino gang all day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t men just do what women do?It's not not important 😂 Idk. It was nice to have the social credit, but it was relatively annoying to explain that I save babies for a living but I'm not a doctor or a nurse. And yeah. I've seen the other end. Women definitely have a huge problem with option bloat. It's not hard to get laid. I imagine it'd be pretty difficult to find an LTR online just by virtue of raw volume. Like for me I could talk to my 1-2 matches a week and that was a lot of work for my microscopic social battery. I don't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Why don’t men just do what women do?I've experienced a pretty dramatic catch 22. Assume for sake of conversation I'm a mid looking guy (i got more matches than average but I have pictures doing extreme sports and with a stethoscope, bitches love stethoscopes) When I went into detail in my bio, describing things like who I am, what I value in myself and what I value in a partner followed with maybe some cute wordplay I did WAAAAY fuckin worse than when I had two lines Vaguely sexual joke/pickup line Talk about how dating apps suck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Dating/Sex Success for Blue PillersWell it's as real as Santa is fake. However, unlike Santa, you'd be hard pressed to find a unified front of bluepill ideology. But standard advice generally does not work for everyone. A shy/introverted average looking dude is going to have a much harder time with women on average than a charming/sleazy snake oil salesman that knows what buttons to push and when. Guys under 6ft tall are going to have a dramatically different experience in the OLD fields than a 5'9 dude of equivalent handsomeness… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?Awweeee that's cute. Yeah. That was my big 'ick' with getting in shape. Gained 50lbs of basically all muscle in the last 6 months and eating has been the absolute biggest pain in my ass. I think without a strong air fryer game I would've said fuck it and just stayed a beanpole 😅 Maybe learn a nice bulk recipe like lasagna or chili? I'll prep a beef stew type joint and live off that for a week | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?More power to ya. (And thank you for sharing, I'm near 100% sure you've got a riveting, if not inspiring, story there). I definitely don't speak for women on a monolithic level and I'm not sure why or what happened that you neeeded to go volcel for the better part of a decade, but if it works for you and you're happy with it then it works for me and I'm happy for you. I wish you the best of luck in finding your salt n pepper papi, but do be prepared to manage your expectations. The guys I know w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 03:24 AM |
| 10 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?Well most women who've made it to 30 are generally single involuntarily. Nuns and clergy are the only true volcels. The big difference here is that one group made a choice and are beholden to a code of conduct that's generally difficult/inconvenient to uphold. The other group is beholden to themselves, has a nebulous set of morals, and generally follows a hedonistic path of least resistance, all while popping off about victimhood, the shitty guys they keep picking, and a myriad of self-diagnosed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Men's SMV = who will fuck them / Women's SMV = who will commit to themI don't outright agree with either of your overall points but I agree with the other guy that you've demonstrated an aggressive lack of basic reading comprehension. Either you're hard trolling or you just couldn't be bothered to follow your own conversation. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/08/23 09:31 AM |
| 9 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?*literally describes altruism *Is also toxic masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:17 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Before any other factors such as appearance, status or money, the first filter in dating with women as a man is your neurotypeLol true. ADD is super useful especially in the modern era where everyone kindof has a short attention span anyway. It's hard to accuse someone of being predictable or boring when they can't even tell you what they're going to do next and boring is an abstract concept to them, like the space time continuum or the fact you can't absorb oxygen at under 100% humidity so in a way we're all kindof still fish and I think that's cool to think about because it's the same reason your breath will fog up a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 05:12 AM |
| 2 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.I'm just reporting what i observe and what I heard from a friend who's having a hard time. If that looks like the wall to you that's a 'you' problem. Putting shit in bold doesn't make you more right Cherry picking things and adding commentary doesn't make your arguement coherent by any stretch of the imagination. I brought her up as an example of a woman who didn't make room for a man in her life besides as an accessory. I even mentioned specifically that she was in good shape, and you'll have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Can technology aid men the same way it aids women?They don't fight for custody more because (at least in the west) women have to be verifiable sociopaths for you to even have the opportunity to pay tens of thousands of dollars to fight for your kid. The legal system is grotesquely skewed toward women getting custody https://youtu.be/F6RMwxEIw_4?si=vb_O7SF7LYQFWmLu Also I'm a man currently planning on fostering, or adopting if I can (Responding to your next comment down), buuuut it's unlikely I'll ever clear the application process. I have a cou… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/08/23 01:41 AM |
| 2 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.What a great way to demonstrate either A) an extreme lack of reading comprehension or B) that I could've said anything right there and you'd respond the same way (aka egocentrism) I don't even believe the 'wall' (if it exists) starts at 30. But also fluffernutter dingleboopyshmoopyvurpbops mcchickenswaggle Because I'm just a seething essay writer herp-a-derp dibbleblimps. It's my understanding that hitting the wall is involuntary, and mostly looks based. I offered a situation where the woman in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:26 AM |
| 2 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.Oh yeah, that's way less arbitrary, good point /s 'personality matters' *Unless he's 10 years older than you and/or doesn't fit perfectly into the bespoke Ken-shaped gap you've left for a man to occupy ^ this kind of egocentric hypocrisy is the shit that made Andrew Tate popular. I was talking to a serially single ladyfriend not to long ago, 32 (but she looks good, takes care of herself) good job, slowly accumulating a small herd of cats. I asked her about her life and etc. And she told me about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 12:05 AM |
| 29 | I will never get the whole “younger woman, older man” dynamic as a younger woman myself.Whenever someone asks this question I just assume they've never been in a long term relationship. Not only is it easier to have a conversation with someone you have little in common with, this whole soulmate grift didn't exist in your grandparents' day. Grandpa was an engineer that worked on Reagan's space lazer and grandma was a career nurse, he was 7 years older, they didn't have a single hobby in common and she loved him so much that when he died she literally died of a broken heart not long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Daily reminder that w*men don't view reality objectivelyLol. I don't think homeboy knows you have to clear the first graph to get to the second graph. An 'unattractive' man with the opportunity to send a message is still in the top 5-10% and are clearly still spoiled for choice. | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/08/23 12:55 AM |
| – | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Ah both, with a hint of passive aggression (my favorite vintage), well in that case I'm trigender and calling me a man is hatespeech. It's an old clip of a Simpsons episode where Homer explains the mechanics of marriage through a rather unflattering analogy, but it has a grain of truth that resonates throughout the decades. If you make children for your husband he's less inclined to leave you even if he's not being treated well, or wants to shirk his vows and/or responsibilities to go to somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:38 PM |
| – | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Can't tell if you're trolling or just rude, so I'll just leave the source and be on my merry way https://youtu.be/gGNVVwQPGjE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why would a woman marry young if her husband will eventually end up lusting after younger women?Idk if I really buy the whole 'you gave him your youth' thing. I think there are generally a couple GOOD reasons men stay married. the Simpson's pill: 'marriage is like a coffin and kids are like nails' so strike 1 for modern marriages the plant pill: it's extremely satisfying to grow over a long period of time with another human being, through the ups and downs of life. I think you'll struggle to find a man who gets married, goes through some catastrophic life event, reaches rock bottom and fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:59 PM |
| 7 | How does a woman know which men secretly hate women, and how do we avoid these men?Well I'm not not blackpilled. But I'd like to think I made it through to the inevitable 'I don't subscribe to any one pill, life's a bitch and then you die'. I work in healthcare so I can't not interact. If you want to get a big bitter pill in a hurry go work in a woman-dominated field. Some of the shit they say out loud is so out of pocket, but HR doesn't care as long as it's general misandry and sexual harassment, not directed at women or non-white people. Granted I think we should all be a li… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/23 06:57 AM |
| 2 | How does a woman know which men secretly hate women, and how do we avoid these men?I feel like you're having a conversation with someone else and got your wires crossed, wanna take another crack at that one bud? I never blamed Chad for anything. If anything I'm a chadvocate, they tend to be really nice to hang around, and unless you look like a literal troll generally you will garner female attention just by hanging out with them (granted in my experience you're better off socializing with women and Chads separately in the initial stages, but anywhichway). They have zero incen… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/23 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls?Average height 5'4-5'6? 10-15lbs over? Sure. Especially if she's actually in shape and not just skinnyfat. But I completely agree with you, the goalposts get moved a lot for the 'how fat are you' terms. (And it's never back toward the objectively healthy direction) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:12 AM |
| 7 | How does a woman know which men secretly hate women, and how do we avoid these men?Bump. Women are generally just as clueless about men as the inverse. The difference is that men are generally required to understand and respect women in a very specific way in order to interact with them favorably. Women are not only held to any comparable standard, we're getting to the point where they're blaming dudes for the problems they created for themselves. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/23 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: What do you bring to the table?Well it's your lucky day. I bring free nerd lore to the table. https://www.reddit.com/r/darksouls/comments/3go8hd/where_does_the_expression_git_gud_come_from/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 Not sure what it is that you want me to get good at but if it's a soulsborne dog whistle my dm's are open and I've got at least one pvp ready build on each. In my homeland those are in fact, fighting words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Discussion: What do you bring to the table?So you don't bring the table, you only take it, gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:41 AM |
| 11 | Mens quality of life and health is poor because of women’s workplace needsWell the things you're complaining about are city girl traits soooooo.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | If women don't hit the wall, why do most actresses practically go off the grid at like 35Idk if I agree with your point overall. But you're absolutely bonkers not to bring up the OG salt-n-pepper daddy George Clooney Not to mention Tom Cruise is still regularly getting work And Vin Deisel and the Rock are both getting long in the tooth. BUUUT I think if an actress is truly talented (and actually wants to) she'll still get work. Meryl Streep comes to mind, and I think Margot Robbie has legitimate acting chops, she'll probably keep getting casted even if she starts losing that signatu… | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Women are more logical with relationships, men are more emotionalYeah, I think one of the bigger/most bitter redpills I took was realizing modern romance is basically just another resource generated by men to be extracted and enjoyed by women. Growing up I'd always hear about my grandma surprising my grandpa (in the dating phase) by baking for him, planning outings, she sent him hand written calligraphy- style letters with filagree drawn in the corners. Don't get me wrong, over the years women have made romantic gestures toward me.... But the scale is in year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Are single fathers attractive to women?I think you may have stumbled upon the next big dating app idea: familyblendr For single dads seeking single moms 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Are average men really desperate for sex?What you're proposing is more akin to beastiality for women than gay sex. Unless you're saying being gay is a conscious choice in which case, g'head and don't repeat that anywhere else because you will get absolutely crucified. In 2023 there are a significant number of women that will hook up with a woman (so in a way, whenever I see this arguement I immediately think there's some projection going on tbph) But even with all the gender acceptance, free love and whatnot it's still pretty rare to f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Are average men really desperate for sex?No she's saying women make minimum effort for maximum returns, that actually checks out 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 01:39 PM |
| 11 | CMV: never date woman with self harm marks, color hair, piercing, tattoo, one who's IG shows you 90% times she's in club, and with public IGI think he's trying to Larp as a volcel. I don't think it's working. | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/08/23 05:02 AM |
| 21 | Do you think it's problematic for men to prefer petite women?Bump. The age gap is pedophilia, the height gap is pedophilia, next you're going to tell me men dating less mature, less rich women is pedophilia. None of this has to do with women's overwhelming hypergamy at all, it's all some deep seeded fantasy all men have to want to fuck children /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers: "ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS! ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS!"That's just called marketing | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers: "ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS! ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS!"That's just called marketing | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Is a woman having a job a bad thing?Very cool. More power too ya. But as a relatively average dude who's dated physicians and high earning software engineers. You and your friends are definitely not the paradigm, and whenever I've dated up the big problem that did come up was lifestyle creep. Even successful women want to be sponsored, not partnered. If I find one of your kind out in the wild I'll be sure to send a thank you back to the universe, but I've had far fewer issues dating parallel or down with dating up being largely a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 05:23 PM |
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